Exploring the Queer History of the Old West... Yeehaw

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    The west was always queer. Much more so than you’d think. From unapologetic lesbians paving their own path to trans folks looking for freedom to the gay cowboys just searching for love, beneath the sands and dry earth lay the stories of LGBTQ folks waiting to be remembered. But while that history is full of love and power for some, it is also a legacy of pain, struggle and the ramifications of settler colonialism for others. Come learn with me!
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    Outriders: Rodeo at the Fringes of the American West by Rebecca Scoffield
    Gay New York: Gender, Urban Culture, and the Making of the Gay Male World 1890-1940 by George Chauncey
    Black Cowboys In The American West: On The Range, On The Stage, Behind The Badge by Bruce A Glasrud and MIchael N Searles
    Rewriting the Gold Rush: Twain, Harte and Homosociality by Peter Stoneley
    The Lost Pardner by Badger Clark
    Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman
    Gay LA by Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons
    Sexuality, Gender, and Identity in Great Plains History and Myth by Peter Boag
    Re-Dressing America’s Frontier Past by Peter Boag
    New Women in the Old West: From Settlers to Suffragists, an Untold American Story By Winifred Gallagher
    Queer Cowboys And Other Erotic Male Friendships in Nineteenth-Century American Literature By C. Packard
    Straight Shooters, Stainless-Steel Stories, and Cowboy Codes: The Queer Frontier and American Identity in a Post-Western World by Christopher Le Coney and Zoe Trodd
    Macho Men and the Queer Imaginary: A Critique of the Selected Gay ‘Colonial’ Representations of Homomasculinity by Theo Sonnekus
    Queer country: Rural Lesbian and Gay Lives by David Bell and Gill Valentine
    Rodeo: Real Gay Cowboys and Brokeback Mountain - Patricia Nell Warren
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    Gay Culture: Still of the Wild Frontier by Patricia Nell Warren
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    Within the Shadow of the Cowboy: Myths and Realities of the Old American West by Katherine Lamb
    Go West Young Man, Go East Young Woman: Searching for the Trans in Western Gender History by Peter Boag
    The Indigenous Erotics of Riding Bareback, or, the West Has Always Been Queer by Lisa Tatonetti
    Steers, Queers, and Manifest Destiny: Representing the Lesbian Subject in Turn-of-the-Century Texas by Kim Emery
    Claiming Lesbian History: The Romance between Fact and Fiction by Linda Garber
    Lesbian Rangers on a Queer Frontier by Jennifer MacLatchy
    Wayward Lives, Beautiful Experiments: Intimate Histories of Riotous Black Girls, Troublesome Women, and Queer Radicals By Saidiya Hartman
    Lonely hunters : an oral history of lesbian and gay southern life, 1948-1968 by James Thomas Sears
    Desire, Settler Colonialism, and the Racialized Cowboy by Beenash Jafri
    “Homos on the Range”: How gay was the West? By Jana Bommersbach
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    Video:
    Orville Peck- C’mon, Baby Cry MV
    Life on the Circle Ranch in California, 1912
    The Lavender Cowboy by Bob Skyles and His Skyrockets

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  • @KazRowe
    @KazRowe  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2033

    Thank you so much to everyone who watched the video over its first week! The video accrued $570.73 in revenue from Ad/sense which I rounded up to $600 and donated to the First Nations Development Institute. ☺💜 Thank you for making the hard work this video took worth it, and thank you for your eagerness to learn!

    • @SoraTrace
      @SoraTrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      You're an absolute blessing

    • @BubbleWrapAndCupcake
      @BubbleWrapAndCupcake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Omg we love a supportive well informed QUEEN living for this

    • @3countylaugh
      @3countylaugh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your sub-tittles are out of sync with what you're actually saying in this one :(

    • @rilriiak
      @rilriiak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Kaz, I'm hoping this will make the rounds through the goth community because we have a long history of accepting all people of all genders and all orientations. And all things considered, we collectively need to remember that.
      Thank you for your level of awesome. Please keep with these, this is a wondrous find!

    • @bsferguson1
      @bsferguson1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You fight our fight with us and we will fight for you too🧡🧡🧡

  • @yannickgrignon2473
    @yannickgrignon2473 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    I think one of the biggest realizations that I, a straight white guy from a small town, have made about history the more I study it is that ANY TIME you get a bunch of young, handsome, fit men together, whether soldiers, sailors, cowboys, etc. together, gay stuff will inevitably happen, and happen a LOT.

    • @20chocsaday
      @20chocsaday ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Usually means nothing that will last, but the body of someone like you is comforting and helps you face the world.
      I wonder what History will make of the late me.

    • @PhillShecter-dd1nn
      @PhillShecter-dd1nn ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@@20chocsadaydrama queen

    • @Nic0Dr4ws
      @Nic0Dr4ws 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@20chocsaday are you trying to tell me you did some gay shit in the military?

    • @NeyamStar
      @NeyamStar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ...fr

    • @FishFinger255
      @FishFinger255 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Real the pirates to

  • @emi7867
    @emi7867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    Love this essay! In high school I wrote a short story about a rugged cowgirl who sought revenge from a capitalistic rancher, who had kidnapped her wife. My very western-loving, republican teacher was confused at best and low key disgusted at worse. He basically told me that my story was unrealistic. It’s nice to know that 4 years later, my gay cowboy story was more realistic than his John Wayne movies lol!

    • @mariesabine2385
      @mariesabine2385 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Sounds like a captivating story 💕

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I NEED TO SEE THIS PUBLISHED BRO

    • @CoffeesChypresBooks
      @CoffeesChypresBooks ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Now I want to read this 🤔

    • @radioactiverogue3123
      @radioactiverogue3123 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I want this story so bad! It would go perfectly with my lesbian romance book collection!

    • @ellagershon4092
      @ellagershon4092 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That sounds wonderful. Your idea could make me like westerns.

  • @faithrudd2549
    @faithrudd2549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5744

    'I hope she is finally comf' made me fully tear up

  • @embersinmoss
    @embersinmoss ปีที่แล้ว +405

    “If you’re a transphobe, you’re not welcome roasting marshmallers at my campfire. *cough cough*”
    - Kaz Rowe

  • @macuna1995
    @macuna1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Being Navajo and pan, I gonna say it's great to see topics like these discussed. High five!

  • @bonniebrown5094
    @bonniebrown5094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This lesbian stuck in Texas will keep rootin' and masked tootin' just because you told me to
    Another amazing video! 🖤

  • @corv1d770
    @corv1d770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Being from an Oklahoma/Texas family I'm YELLING I always want to see more queer western history there's Not Enough!!!!! T h a n k you 💖

  • @frxstbite909
    @frxstbite909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Not in the LGBTQ+ community, but still a fascinating topic. Thanks for shining some light on a few historical figures I hadn’t been taught about at school.

  • @organicmagic8822
    @organicmagic8822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything you said at 3:41 about the Natives is what made me hit that subscribe button. I’m a recent follower and your videos are amazing! Thank you

  • @mackthompson616
    @mackthompson616 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “poor dear i hope she’s comf’” hit hard

  • @rabokarabekian409
    @rabokarabekian409 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Compare to modern Alice Spring, Australia.
    The Yankee Doddle word macaroni came meant the same thing as dandy, or "a man who gives exaggerated attention to personal appearance." Like one who wears feathered caps.
    “We always condemn most in others that which we most fear in ourselves.” - Robert M. Pirsig.

  • @maryrosenberger6513
    @maryrosenberger6513 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are a beautiful informative badass Kaz, I love these videos so much!!!!!!! thank you for sharing and educating us with humor and wit!!!!!!!!!!! Your careful attention to your costumes and set are the cherry on top!!!!!!

  • @autumns.8744
    @autumns.8744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    no bc this inspired me to attempt to write a song about an old west sapphic couple and its the first one im doing with guitar so 🤞

  • @scottlypuff
    @scottlypuff 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    just discovered your channel what a treasure!!!!!!!thank you for all you do! many blessings

  • @ProfessorVoid
    @ProfessorVoid 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    23:30 thats a mighty purty poem partner. Ya done make me a have an emotion 🥲 *cries in cowboy*

  • @tomkiefaber4297
    @tomkiefaber4297 ปีที่แล้ว +687

    "Modern hypermasculinity, completely by accident, always manages to be homoerotic." I'm a 70 year old straight geezer-coot and I heard that! ;-)

    • @aspynryde7305
      @aspynryde7305 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      You must be the coolest 70 year old

    • @soaringspirits2267
      @soaringspirits2267 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Thank you, good sir. Have a good day. (And many to follow.)

    • @NeyamStar
      @NeyamStar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yuup

  • @alyssaortega3185
    @alyssaortega3185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3891

    Honestly, this is why I love the internet. People think that history is a single thread when it's really a tapestry of other threads that come together to make something amazing. For too long we've been taught that only certain threads are worth focusing on and only now are we discovering everything that's been forced into the background. Thank you for all your hard work 🤠

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I love you, and your comment, I feel exactly the same.

    • @abbyrutherford1021
      @abbyrutherford1021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      this is exactly what i was thinking when i tapped on this video. i love when people can use internet to show different stories from history we haven’t heard before and making it interesting. this is beauty and grace itself

    • @AgernonTheUnfair
      @AgernonTheUnfair 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe sometimes if you’re forced into the background it’s because you’re useless

    • @fbyi2940
      @fbyi2940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Internet is good, social media is cancer.

    • @sparkle1022
      @sparkle1022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@AgernonTheUnfair and queer people arent.

  • @GapingGorble
    @GapingGorble 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1941

    "you're not welcome roasting marshmellers at my campfire" the HIGHEST dishonor!
    also, holy crap I was not expecting to tear up at the word "comf" today

    • @dariadarling
      @dariadarling 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      same 😭

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That got to me, too.

    • @shoutingalice2943
      @shoutingalice2943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      "Are ya comf?" I love her soooo much. Literally the sweetest lady

    • @burgermeowster
      @burgermeowster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm telling this story to everyone I know and I'm adopting it as part of my vocabulary

    • @abbyf7610
      @abbyf7610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      These two were also my highlights of the video 🌟

  • @nikkicafeina
    @nikkicafeina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1495

    I could so tell you've lived in Texas. I live in Houston, I've worked The Rodeo, and as a WLW Latina I very much appreciate an academic encapsulation of things I've been telling people for YEARS.

    • @MegCazalet
      @MegCazalet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Howdy fellow Houstonian! Born and raised here and I love it. “Houston: It’s Worth It”!

    • @noemitellez3098
      @noemitellez3098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hi neighbors ! 🤍

    • @everything5066
      @everything5066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hudson Texas baby

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WLW?

    • @nikkicafeina
      @nikkicafeina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@2degucitas woman loving woman!

  • @RealFatKratos
    @RealFatKratos ปีที่แล้ว +812

    I just wanted to say thank you for making this video. I myself am not gay, but after being a single father of roughly 18 years and just assuming my son hadn't yet ever had a girlfriend because he was shy and sheltered, he recently came out to me as gay and introduced me to his boyfriend. The only problem it has ever been with me is simply the prospect of "oh God my baby boy is grown up and dating already" and never in the slightest has it changed how much I love and care for him. Ever since, I have tried my best to become more educated and present in the world of LGBTQ and it saddens me at times to constantly discover new levels of hate and discrimination against it out there. For all these reasons, I greatly appreciate you and all alike out there who educate and support these topics and the humans that belong to them. I've watched a few of your videos already but I definitely hit subscribe after this one. Thanks again and please keep making great content.

    • @humantrash1478
      @humantrash1478 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      That's really sweet of you!!
      Even tho it should be the standard, many people don't go the route you did
      You sound like a great father :))
      I wish you, your son, his boyfriend and everyone else in your family a happy life!!

    • @Beeboopbop94
      @Beeboopbop94 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Fathers like you are a treasure ❤️

    • @sarahoitmann3900
      @sarahoitmann3900 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You such a good father❤💕

    • @RealFatKratos
      @RealFatKratos ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@humantrash1478 thank you that was nice to say ☺️

    • @RealFatKratos
      @RealFatKratos ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sarahoitmann3900 I appreciate that thank you

  • @stoneinyan2070
    @stoneinyan2070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1309

    Yes! I am a hetero, indigenous woman who has been tradish (Lakota) since I was a kid. The holy man I go to is a winkté. Winktés have always been recognized in my culture as medicine people because they have 2 spirits. They can see both genders, as they have the vantage point of both. My people have never lost sight of this role, even through colonization. You did such a beautiful job telling this history, thank you!!

    • @tedecker3792
      @tedecker3792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      In the old days the Sundance pole was first “chopped” ceremonially by a Winkte, before being moved to the dance location.

    • @kathleenhartnellharper7234
      @kathleenhartnellharper7234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve heard them called Beardaches.

    • @kathleenhartnellharper7234
      @kathleenhartnellharper7234 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As a nurse in a facility I had occasional to see patients that didn’t fit the mold. We had a woman in her 80’s who had spent a good deal of her later life traveling the world with her sister. One night I helped the nurses aid clean the women and was shocked to see that although she had out worldly feminine genitalia, she had no vagina. I was very surprised.

    • @kathleenhartnellharper7234
      @kathleenhartnellharper7234 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just discovered this site. It’s Great 👍 Looking forward to future topics.

    • @demonnox5829
      @demonnox5829 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@kathleenhartnellharper7234 please don't use that term, its a slur toward native Queer people that can also imply p*dophilia

  • @milesclay2209
    @milesclay2209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1580

    I'm a big fan of Alan Hart and have read up on him, after wwii he was able to start taking testosterone and apparently seemed more confident and outspoken. I'm so happy you included trans masc history, a lot of people dismiss historical trans men because they think they just lived that way to avoid misogyny (which can end up becoming a bit terfy). I believe there was also a trans man who fought in the Civil war but I don't remember exactly what his name is.

    • @erraticonteuse
      @erraticonteuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      It was Albert Cashier!

    • @milesclay2209
      @milesclay2209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@erraticonteuse yeah that's who I was thinking about! I am also a bit of a civil war buff so I was super happy to know he existed.

    • @Bildgesmythe
      @Bildgesmythe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Also several doctors AFAB that lived as male until death.

    • @milesclay2209
      @milesclay2209 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@Bildgesmythe yeah! Like James Barry who literally yelled at Florence Nightingale, the mother of modern nursing.

    • @sillycookie
      @sillycookie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      There was also a trans man in the Mexican Revolution!
      Amelio Robles Ávila. He was a colonel!

  • @derindeschain7978
    @derindeschain7978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2548

    Howdy. I'm a Two-Spirit Old West historical reenactor, ranch hand, and desert wilderness and horseback tour guide. I've been working since 2013 to try to raise awareness about the REAL West, not that straight/cis/white/vanilla-washed John Wayne propoganda version. I'm so happy to see others helping in doing this work. Thank you for doing this and helping to bring the truth back to the light of day. Much obliged.

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I really hope you’re indigenous because two spirit is reserved for indigenous Americans

    • @derindeschain7978
      @derindeschain7978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@yemyearmii7231 I am.

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@derindeschain7978 what tribes?

    • @derindeschain7978
      @derindeschain7978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@yemyearmii7231 Aniyvwiya/Cherokee :) And yourself?

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@derindeschain7978 Lumbee, Lakota, Iroquois, Algonquin 🧡🪶

  • @AndersWatches
    @AndersWatches ปีที่แล้ว +1287

    As a trans man, thank you. I’m so tired of historical trans men having their identities denied or co-opted just because the word transgender didn’t exist yet.

    • @robbiehasnobones
      @robbiehasnobones ปีที่แล้ว +17

      yes!!!!!!!! 🤠

    • @Janus-fn2uz
      @Janus-fn2uz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Argh!

    • @Mr_John_Herbert
      @Mr_John_Herbert 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ur not a man you're a female

    • @AndersWatches
      @AndersWatches 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      @@Mr_John_Herbert do you feel better now after commenting on my six month old comment? Get a life.
      Come back when you’ve actually encountered a ‘female’ who doesn’t run from you screaming and then maybe I’ll believe you even know what one is. XO

    • @Mr_John_Herbert
      @Mr_John_Herbert 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AndersWatches you know ur wrong in the end, you just don't want to admit it

  • @CloroxBleach-nu8vo
    @CloroxBleach-nu8vo ปีที่แล้ว +175

    As a gay navy sailor the stereotype of the gay sailor is still very much prevalent in our own circle. First thing I hear when I talk to others in different branches is the gay jokes ☠️. It’s kinda of weird that such stereotypes have stay for over a 100 years now lol

    • @Jackie-cl2qe
      @Jackie-cl2qe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Spill like, how gay on a scale is it really, or is it just a stereotype? Seen it in riverdale so I assume it's true

  • @ARVETDEG
    @ARVETDEG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2020

    Let's not forget that a lot of Texan and Southern US cowboy culture, ranch culture, etc. came form Mexico. Not only because Mexico had a deep engrained culture about horse cattle, but a very agriculture culture in the old days. And let's not forget that the southern part of the US used to be part of Mexico. That's why I always find funny how some US southerns, think that the south has always been white with white culture before and after the Mexican and American war, when in fact, before the war, it was a mixture, but the Mexican and indigenous cultures, where more prominent until white culture took over almost completely. Not for something, around the era of the wild west, there were lots of Mexicans and indigenous people. So of course, part of our culture was borrowed in those parts. In fact, the ranchero culture, is still prevalent in modern day Mexico, especially in the North and is a very respected profession in it's own way.
    Fun fact. Mexico abolished slavery in 1837, 16 years after becoming independent and before the US did it, and when black slaves ran to Mexico, they immediately became free. And when the US asked for their slaves to be returned, Mexico always gave them the middle finger and granted Mexican citizenship to those escaped black slaves apart form their freedom.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      So much of the terminology, riding style, tack and equipment, etc. is obviously derived from Mexico.

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Also, here in northern Illinois, a friend and I stumbled on a Vaquero show and were immediately welcomed. What a great experience! The horses were spectacular, the horsemanship absolutely top notch--so exciting.

    • @Pradapussy
      @Pradapussy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      As a first gen Mexican American I agree so much my dads family is from northern Mexico and they are very much cowboy types

    • @JP-br4mx
      @JP-br4mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You ever smell pizza but there’s none around

    • @emilyonizuka4698
      @emilyonizuka4698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      wow I never knew mexico was so cool. thanks for sharing!

  • @detectivemothman8455
    @detectivemothman8455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1425

    I'm native and nonbinary, being queer and indigenous is important to me, its part of me and to hear you talking about it in a historical senses means more then you realize, people like me have existed for so long but its been hidden by years of blurred lines, its just nice to see someone finally setting the recorded "straight" :D

    • @yemyearmii7231
      @yemyearmii7231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Hello from Your sister tribes Iroquois, Lakota, Algonquin and Lumbee!!

    • @misareyn8650
      @misareyn8650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hello from the cherokee tribe!

    • @macuna1995
      @macuna1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Navajo and pan here, fist bump! 👊🏼

    • @beee.4real
      @beee.4real 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      bi non-binary raramuri person here! hello! :)

    • @ryochoi1352
      @ryochoi1352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Niitsitapi Asexual and Biromantic

  • @tortillasconsal4441
    @tortillasconsal4441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    I really loved this video. As a mexican who lives in Northen Mexico where the ranchero culture is still *very* prevalent (my dad was a bull tamer, my brother was a "charro" -like a horserider that does cool rope tricks-, my sister was an "escaramusa" -they were sort of dancers that ride horses-, and me and my little sister did some cow herdering when we were little) it is very exciting to hear about cowboy history, *especially* queer cowboy history as a nonbinary lesbian. It feels like I'm more in touch with my culture hearing queer history of how the cowboy society was like and learning how diverse it actually was. It bafles me but doesn't really surprises me that white-cishet culture took over it
    As a thank you for this video I'll share a quick fun-fact: the word "bukaroo" is actually a mispronunciation of the spanish word "vaquero" which means cowboy in English

    • @leonineKelter
      @leonineKelter ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yo nice! Im a queer colombian who lives in the Midwest and have been surrounded by stories of cishet white cowboys as well. I am very happy to hear that I live where many many queer poc came from miles away. It's touching for me

    • @LilyoftheLake14
      @LilyoftheLake14 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Duuuuude! I didn't know the thing about buckaroo being a mispronounced version of vaquero!! They look way different written, but when I said vaquero out loud the way you would in Spanish, like the V actually being more of a B sound and so on (I took 4 years of Spanish lol) I could really hear it!! 😱 it sounds like buckaroo kinda and I could see an American, with a very thick American cowboy/texas accent, attempting to repeat vaquero sounding like they're saying buckaroo. 🤯 you blew my mind that is so friggin cool lol!!

    • @dariang4725
      @dariang4725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You guys have great English lol

  • @IceDragon064
    @IceDragon064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    Threatening masculine tradition with frivolous gay fun is truly something I strive for.

    • @backwoodbeaches7895
      @backwoodbeaches7895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Too bad your parents failed you.

    • @Reylandson
      @Reylandson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is almost what Rupaul's Drag Race does lol

    • @Zetrey07
      @Zetrey07 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right cuz that’s why u a basement dweller

    • @gabbykabins4333
      @gabbykabins4333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This has always been the gay agenda 😂😂😂

  • @dizzyandkoko
    @dizzyandkoko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    Hi, I'm a queer Native American person and I heavily appreciate you talking about Natives in your video!
    At the end, you mentioned that tribes had their own gender/sexuality rules, and thats true! A few years ago when I came out to my mom, she mentioned that women couldn't use the drum because they had a lot of spiritual power. With that in mind, she told me that queer women in queer relationships where considered more spirituality powerful.

    • @OutbackCatgirl
      @OutbackCatgirl ปีที่แล้ว +8

      based and accurate tbh

    • @aspynryde7305
      @aspynryde7305 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All the natives in this comment section make me wish that I could just run away and hang out with some tribes. It's always nice to learn about native Americans because most tribes seem to have more respect for diversity in general
      (this is coming from a white person in a major white area so plz excuse me if I say something wrong, I'm trying)

  • @sknot08
    @sknot08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3502

    Thank you for not calling us Indians, rather Natives, acknowledging adequately who we are, and drawing attention to our queer history, at least briefly. You are a treasure and a powerful ally. Love you channel beyond words. Peace be with you

    • @dannyboidee
      @dannyboidee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      I always find it odd that people still call Natives Indians despite having the knowledge now and even then that they never originated from India.

    • @floepiejane
      @floepiejane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I'm fifty yo and Seneca Iroquois, and yank bothers me more - is more insulting - than indian tbh. In fact, I don't mind indian; it's just another English word. But I don't like AmerInd. Uggg, that's weird, makes me feel like a specimen. Go figure.

    • @silverstar4289
      @silverstar4289 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This doesn’t count Comanche, does it? Screw the Comanche.

    • @hmsstudios6471
      @hmsstudios6471 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @sofiajimenez4035yes indigenous or native American is fine just don't use Indian because that the name the white man gave us because Columbus thought he found a new route to india but it was actually a America not india so basically please don't calls Indians because we're not Indians we're native Americans/indigenous people

    • @zoomertoast3703
      @zoomertoast3703 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I've seen many Indigenous Nations refer themselves as Indians. Curious to hear indigenous people's thoughts on this

  • @andycrenshaw2789
    @andycrenshaw2789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    “cause Al ain’t here no more”
    i’m sobbing. The Lost Pardner is such a heartwrenching poem. i only wish i could reach back in time to let these souls know that they’ve touched mine. these are my ancestors, my queer forebears. our feelings are as old as time. I truly, dearly hope they are all comf now.

    • @BadWebDiver
      @BadWebDiver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That poem was so beautiful!

    • @Orrphoiz
      @Orrphoiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I chuckled at the term 'forebears' xD

    • @davidduffield7902
      @davidduffield7902 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where is Lost Partner from as a source?

    • @tedecker3792
      @tedecker3792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Badger Clark was from Deadwood SD, and is considered the poet laureate of South Dakota.

  • @megantron5331
    @megantron5331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    This video brought back some memories. As a young kid growing up in Idaho, my parents took me to a lot of rodeos, parades, fairs, etc. I became enamored with the cowboy/cowgirl aesthetic and my parents eventually got me boots and ten gallon hat. Soon after, we went to this parade where cowgirls and cowboys were riding horses through the streets of my hometown and I was really excited to show off my new boots to a group of cowgirls. I kept pointing to my boots and gleefully shouting, "I have boots too!" Looking back, I think this is one of my earliest expressions of femininity that eventually lead to me coming out as trans.

    • @animatedastronaut8967
      @animatedastronaut8967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fellow idahoan!

    • @nimuedamon1936
      @nimuedamon1936 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That is one of the cutest stories ever I'm lowkey tearing up. I'm glad you're you and I'm proud of you

    • @CHASE420stars
      @CHASE420stars ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm a trans man in idaho, it's good to see other people like us from this state.

  • @gingerlancaster3033
    @gingerlancaster3033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Being born in 1958, I grew up being taught "traditional" history. It's only been the last 20 years or so that it's begun to come out how seriously that one threaded history was forced on us. Some of it was just flat out lies, and so, so much was left out completely

    • @jj-bv3ui
      @jj-bv3ui ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you for being open to learning in a time where so many are not

    • @cassandramartin7028
      @cassandramartin7028 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If you're interested, I'd recommend the book "A People's History of the United States" by Howard Zinn. It helps to break down a lot of the history we were taught in school and show the fallacies and why they were a convenient story to teach us as Americans

  • @amandab.recondwith8006
    @amandab.recondwith8006 ปีที่แล้ว +1060

    I had a friend whose uncle lived with his brother on an isolated farm in northern South Dakota. I remember meeting them back in the 70s when they were both in their 80s. Ernie and Norm. Ernie was the real uncle, but I later learned Norm was not related by blood to the family. While the family simply ignored the fact, I put two and two together and realized Ernie and Norm were "partners" and had lived together since they met as soldiers in World War I. They lived alone together, respected by their farming neighbors, and left respectfully to live their lives together until Norm died in the late 70s, followed very soon after by Ernie. They were together to the end, which I found very poignant.

    • @sheepsky
      @sheepsky ปีที่แล้ว +87

      That is an incredibly touching story. Thank you for sharing

    • @tianna1116
      @tianna1116 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Wow that’s so sweet, I’m so happy they were treated with kindness and respect.

    • @davidsnedeker8098
      @davidsnedeker8098 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@tianna1116 i am almost 80. this story is a lot more common than people think today. peoplewispered but left others alone.

    • @Burnerbaby
      @Burnerbaby ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Wow. This made me tear up. Thanks for sharing with us. So sweet.

    • @utej.k.bemsel4777
      @utej.k.bemsel4777 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As it should be!

  • @fake-inafakerson8087
    @fake-inafakerson8087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +719

    I burst into tears at "Poor dear. I hope she's finally comf"

    • @barbara_LL
      @barbara_LL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I've watched this video many times and I still tear up everytime I hear it :")

    • @thEannoyingE
      @thEannoyingE ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why?

    • @hairymcnipples
      @hairymcnipples ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have to admit that I need to keep reminding myself that she didn't die young and apparently lived a mostly good life after transition (even though it's awful that her final wishes went unrespected:/) It's the husband - driven to suicide - that I feel for:(

  • @nox9328
    @nox9328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    I'm trying to write a story for uni and I just spent a week complaining about how hard it is to find information about the old west.
    You're a saviour, I'm so glad I got recommended this video skadsnabsb

    • @scizr6352
      @scizr6352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You might want to look into a book called "the man who fell in love with the moon" by Tom Spanbauer :)

    • @Calories_To_Calibers
      @Calories_To_Calibers 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you can't find information on the old west you've gotta be sitting on your fucking hands or just a dumbass. Oh wait you're wasting money at a university checks out.

    • @haileybalmer9722
      @haileybalmer9722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@Calories_To_Calibers get a therapist.

    • @magicalkatze
      @magicalkatze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@Calories_To_Calibers get well soon

    • @bitchbaby7308
      @bitchbaby7308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Calories_To_Calibers you ok pal?

  • @KealohaHarrison
    @KealohaHarrison 2 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    Saw this notification, screamed “Hell yeah, gay cowboys” and immediately clicked lol

  • @C4RYB34R
    @C4RYB34R ปีที่แล้ว +99

    that poem made me cry. I had a partner for a short time who was an older man...he loved men but loved women too. He was just..him. I allowed him the sexual relationship with men, for his happiness meant mine. He loved me once and I knew where his heart was, but he couldn't help loving men too. I let him be who he was.

  • @AnnaMae41194
    @AnnaMae41194 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    my husbands grandma makes family trees for a living, and discovered an ancestor that was the mayor of a western town and after their death the town discovered that she was a woman masquerading as a man. she'd had a kid and so she was the first female mayor in the west, this was before women could vote in the us, so the town kept her secret.

    • @AnnaMae41194
      @AnnaMae41194 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      leading theory is she took her husbands identity after he died.

    • @chingyiutang3480
      @chingyiutang3480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      OMG

    • @chingyiutang3480
      @chingyiutang3480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      OMG

    • @jesseh.5223
      @jesseh.5223 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "She" huh? Don't be dull. This video's literally about trans people. At least default to neutral language.

    • @AnnaMae41194
      @AnnaMae41194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jesseh.5223 I'm talking about a completly real person in my husband's ancestry why are you acting like it's someone we don't have the facts on tf

  • @lenaeospeixinhos
    @lenaeospeixinhos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    As always, actual History is so much more interesting than the mainstream version of it. How can people not bask in the glory of diversity? How can people try to force Humanity into 2 dimensions and think that's actually better? I honestly finish this video with a flutter of happiness in my heart for how interesting everyone you spoke of was.

    • @grimble4564
      @grimble4564 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Because the more people think in simple terms, the easier it is to control how they understand the world.

    • @DreamersOfReality
      @DreamersOfReality 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly.

  • @danielaardila5081
    @danielaardila5081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +868

    It never gets old learning how white cishet people, over and over again, appropriated a part of history in which minorities were heavily involved or downright created for themselves and twisted it to their favor.
    Excellent video as usual I learn a lot from your videos :D Nice outfits by the way.
    Also couldn't help to think that the lamp in the first half had also a cowboy hat.

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Even male dominance isn't reflected!
      I have heard about a bone with 28 notches as "men's first calendar" while over 50% percent of the population have a reason to count that range of days, aren't mentioned in it's inception.

    • @jpgextinction
      @jpgextinction 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Reminds me of modern videogames appropriating homoerotic imagery and aesthetics to sell to fetishistic cishet women and uneducated men

    • @iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992
      @iknowthatyouregayfireflies9992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jpgextinction I know exactly what you mean.

    • @itsmj3103
      @itsmj3103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I read a comment somewhere that gays ruined disney movies when in fact, what seems to have ruined them is cis suburban family friendliness lol gays made disney bruh

    • @dulaman9791
      @dulaman9791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@itsmj3103 exactly! also its not a secret anymore that many disney villains were queer coded

  • @rougenarwhal8378
    @rougenarwhal8378 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    the thing about doctors in ye old days prescribing "be trans, do cowboy stuff" makes me think that the transphobes that came after really had no excuse of "it was a different time back then"

  • @ItsAVolcano
    @ItsAVolcano 2 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    I remember when Lil Nas X's Hometown Road got popular and one of the big arguments against it was how "unrealistic" a black cowboy was...😒😑
    The stereotype of every cowboy looking like John Wayne is incredibly pervasive.

    • @Guineapigsreadingbooks
      @Guineapigsreadingbooks ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Conservative Americans really do get enraged at the mere thought of diversity… Just like people complaining that interracial relationships in media are “ forced on them”, as if they didn’t actually exist in the real world.

    • @cowpokejohnny3419
      @cowpokejohnny3419 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Guineapigsreadingbooksyou people lack common sense .

    • @colbyboucher6391
      @colbyboucher6391 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@cowpokejohnny3419 What is common sense telling you about that comment, since we're lacking it?

    • @cowpokejohnny3419
      @cowpokejohnny3419 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Guineapigsreadingbooks to believe that homosexuality is okay or that there are more than two genders.

    • @cowpokejohnny3419
      @cowpokejohnny3419 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@colbyboucher6391 accusing white Americans with racism !!

  • @jcphelps7054
    @jcphelps7054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Trans masc Texan here and I've been lucky to always know that cowboys weren't all white. Knowing that they weren't all cishet sadly came later. Love having this history brought into the light and shared with a wider audience, especially in one of your wonderful videos

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hi sir! I wish you good luck in your life and I hope you're living your best life!

    • @elijahevan5722
      @elijahevan5722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey, another trans masc Texan. Nice to see you in the wild. It's always nice to learn that people like me have always existed, even while being beat over the head with the straight Texan cowboy culture.

    • @roryearl1784
      @roryearl1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Transmasc Arizonan here! I had a pretty similar experience and I’m so glad I can learn really how queerness and cowboys intersect since I grew up being completely obsessed with them- all my boy cousins compete in rodeo and have their whole lives and I’ve always been so jealous but I doubt they, as small town Utah republicans, know how non white and queer cowboys have always been and they would lose it if they did lmao

    • @cathrsys9584
      @cathrsys9584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@elijahevan5722 Another fellow Trans Masc Texan here. Love to know there's more of us here in my state. Wouldn't mind having a beer with y'all.

    • @floo1465
      @floo1465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      transfem texan here and yeah i’ve noticed that texas has a DISPROPORTIONATE amount of transmascs and i love it!!! is it just that a lot of texan conservatives don’t even know that y’all exist so you’re less afraid to be yourself?

  • @indie-rose6
    @indie-rose6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    ‘I hope she is finally comf’ OH MY GOD MY HEART

  • @williamvaux7500
    @williamvaux7500 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Queer history is so NOT talked about and I deeply appreciate your channel for going in depth about it

  • @tanner3806
    @tanner3806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I would honestly love to hear about the south asian, hawaiian, native, etc. ideas about gender non-conformity! Its been something Ive been meaning to look into honestly and it seems like something awesome for you to talk about

    • @Bl4k3.
      @Bl4k3. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      historical sources tend to call gender nonconformity the “third gender” its a good keyword if youre looking for older sources

  • @mcwjes
    @mcwjes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Quietly sitting here thinking about my great grandpa who was a cowboy, until he joined the Navy.

    • @erraticonteuse
      @erraticonteuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      More like great-GAYpa amirite?

  • @jacquelinej958
    @jacquelinej958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    you're such an amazing force of intersectional and progressive education. you truly use your platform for good.

  • @joshybosley391
    @joshybosley391 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Fun fact: the inventor of cattle wrestling was Bill Pickett, a black cowboy. Despite the fact that many rodeos banned black performers like him, Pickett still found success. Look him up!

  • @dankbasementcore
    @dankbasementcore ปีที่แล้ว +56

    20:28 As a transwoman, the quote from her friend legitimately made me cry.

  • @AbsolXGuardian
    @AbsolXGuardian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    Alan Hart also wrote what is considered the first medical dramas (one of which is a novel about a gay radiologist trying not to be outed) as well as pioneered testing for TB using x-rays. Even without being trans, he is an important figure in medical history. He was likely the first person to legally transition in the united states without the use of fraud, using legal precedent from one of Hirschfeld's patients winning the right to serve in the German military after medically transitioning.

  • @ggEmolicious
    @ggEmolicious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    “You don’t belong here, even though you’ve always been here.”
    In a bittersweet way that defines how I’ve felt all my life.

  • @DrewLSsix
    @DrewLSsix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    It's almost impossible to believe that a doctor of that era would look at a biologically female person, hear their case, and come to the utterly rational conclusion...... you just gotta be you brother.... its more than a little deflating every time I learn about this kind of stuff and I realize we probably haven't really come very far at all.
    On the other hand it's nice to know that we were always capable of such rational kindness.

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The doctor took one look at how masculine they were, how deep their voice was and it was obvious.

  • @lauragraham170
    @lauragraham170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    "You can take the lesbian out of Texas, but you can't take the Texas out of the lesbian" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @paxluvsstarz
    @paxluvsstarz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    "I hope she is finally comf." Real trans joy is knowing that at the end of everything you have friends that will always love and respect you for all that you are

  • @liz5100
    @liz5100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Honestly thank you for you 17 minute-ish insistence that is someone lived as a specific gender and then died as a specific gender than that's what they were and it erases historical trans people to say otherwise. This comes up alot when people discuss Dr. James Barry, who upon his death everyone alive just decided his will/wishes didn't need to be respected at all and the end result of that was everyone finding out he was a trans man. His legacy as a proponent of hand washing and belief in germ theory are completely forgotten. Not to mention his place as the first doctor to be able to perform a c-section and have both mother and child survive the procedure. Just a super important piece of medical history, but no all anyone has to say about him is that people desecrated his corpse and that was 'actually a woman'.

    • @victoriadiesattheend.8478
      @victoriadiesattheend.8478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Oh my God. I had no idea. I had thought that the idea of insistence upon hand washing in medical settings was something attributed to Liston. I also had no idea he was the first (US citizen of the Western world, I'm guessing) person to successfully deliver a child via Csection with mother & child surviving and thriving after the birth. I'm going to look for more information on him. Thank you so much.

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I’m a whole ass health scientist and didn’t know this.

    • @thEannoyingE
      @thEannoyingE ปีที่แล้ว

      Biology class must drive you insane..

  • @MegCazalet
    @MegCazalet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Wow, Dr. Alan Hart was super brave to get a hysterectomy in the days before penicillin. That is powerful. So many powerful stories of brave people.
    I wish everyone was free to be truly “comf”.

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They already had so many years of experimenting on black women in the field of gynecology they had some knowledge about infection prevention and all that

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Seriously, we need an "are ya comf?" T shirt

    • @CoffeesChypresBooks
      @CoffeesChypresBooks ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I would love a tshirt that asks “Are ya comf?” 😍

  • @JustSomeBridgeTroll333
    @JustSomeBridgeTroll333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    As someone who grew up in Montana and someone who has desperately tried to inform homophobic “country folk” in my town that cowboys were a lot gayer than they think, I love this video!

    • @r.w.860
      @r.w.860 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @sillyscribbles3
      As someone who is currently in Montana (Kalispell) I do the same, although it may be in a different manner. There are many LGBTQ up here, and instead of picking sides and causing hatred, I do the best I can to arm the population, while trying to make amends between both sides. A strong population is harder to hurt when they are armed, and those who are in the LGBTQ can't be hurt if they have the weaponry to back themselves up. I do consider myself to be an ally, and my closest friend, someone I consider a sister, is very much lesbo, and I will go as far as to die to ensure her safety.
      Essentially, what I'm trying to do through my made up militia (Montana Liberation Front, AKA MLF, more commonly known as milf) is to make everyone stronger, mentally and physically, and to bring peace to everyone. I do this in multiple ways:
      *I spread words of peace, and the only reason, the ONLY reason violence should be brought into anything is for self defense
      *I try to bring common ground into arguments. If I see some shit going on, then I will try to be the peacemaker. This goes for anyone and everything.
      *I try to make make it a point to separate fact from fiction. No, fox news or CNN do not bring facts to the table and I swear to God if I hear anything about Trump whether its good or bad I will commit actions that will force the U.S. government to reinstate the death penalty on the federal level.
      That's all I got. I hope I don't cause any issues and if I do I'm sorry about that!

    • @eg4441
      @eg4441 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@r.w.860wanted to say, thank you for being such a dedicated ally. all that matters is you support us and have understanding! besides that, can i ask what living in montana is like for you or others? i'm just curious cause i have a character that grew up in montana and i like to hear personal anecdotes from people who live in these areas, since i'm from the southeast

    • @aspynryde7305
      @aspynryde7305 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The homophobes definitely won't take your words for it, and if you try and show them something they will just scoff at you and doubt the sources

    • @ingloriousbetch4302
      @ingloriousbetch4302 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No words or proof will change the fundies. They've purposely steeped themselves in a sh*t ton of -isms and cling to then like a life raft

  • @Soabac
    @Soabac ปีที่แล้ว +51

    in general, all of history was way more queer than people think
    it didnt pop up in our time

  • @cowboyyyy
    @cowboyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +32

    there’s something so comforting for me about knowing that there were sapphics that dressed masculine to protect other women. as a butch, i feel an immense amount of pride to carry that flag forward. much love.

  • @emilyweaver
    @emilyweaver 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    the "i hope she is finally comf" quote absolutely made me cry

  • @sofialima4521
    @sofialima4521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    There's so much love in the videos you put out about queer history that I'm constantly heartbroken and heart warmed (?) at the same time. The truth always comes out in history, no matter how much people try to erase diversity, it's there, and passionate enough people will find it and speak of it. It makes a difference for me, and I hope it does for others, too. Thank you for sharing!

  • @onbearfeet
    @onbearfeet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Thanks for including the Walt Whitman references! I got myself a copy of Leaves of Grass for Christmas as part of my exploration of my own queer identity, and I'm deeply amused by the fact that everyone who's seen me with it has assumed I'm just reading some wholesome all-American poetry about Abraham Lincoln.
    I mean...he did write about Lincoln...but he had a certain perspective about it...

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some of us got to read him in like elementary school!!

    • @shaleamontanez4591
      @shaleamontanez4591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We read a piece of one of his works in school, but I have no idea why they never told us about his sexuality. Not that it truly matters to me as a person, but he's an important historical figure who deserves the recognition for what he was and what he stood for

  • @rainbowroses88
    @rainbowroses88 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    At my grandmother's passing, my family was going through old photo albums. I came across a small album within another album that was full of very old pictures. It was my great great grandmother in full men's clothing, often smoking a cigar, with a woman who was identified on the back of the photos as her "close friend and good neighbor". My family "disappeared" the album, but not before I saved two of the photos where they seemed happiest together. ❤

  • @erin_the_extra2329
    @erin_the_extra2329 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    “Poor dear, I hope she is finally comf” made me want to rip my heart out 😭😭

  • @Boggythefroggy
    @Boggythefroggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I’ve loved western movies and aesthetics since I was little because my dad loved it, but growing up lead me to realize the horrid colonizing and oppressive violence of the era..nowadays I try to enjoy the aesthetic by watching more discerning media that doesn’t shy away from the darkness of the west’s history. Also I love putting my gay/trans lil hands all over an aesthetic glorified by cishet white men✨

    • @Jdacosta1038
      @Jdacosta1038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Your overthinking it. No shame in wearing cowboy hats and boots or enjoying westerns. They were just practical things to wear at the time, and now there fashionable. The western genre is vast and recently is starting to include people of all backgrounds who were a part of that original narrative. Mexico and Brazil started a lot of that original aesthetic. Many classics are self aware of its bloody history, just look at “The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly” which is literally all about the corrupting power of greed. The salvageable core of the western aesthetic is a sense of adventure, reinvention of yourself, new beginnings, and grit. Nobody owns that. Go yee-haw till your heart’s content ❤️, and fuck John Wayne.

    • @hose455
      @hose455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @🇪🇸spanish boy i don't think anyone was arguing against that, we know basically all of the continent was colonized

  • @williamcarter1993
    @williamcarter1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    this is what makes history so interesting. All these little stories weaved together like a quit explaining the story of humanity

  • @kevinwells9751
    @kevinwells9751 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Fun fact about people of color and rodeos! Hawaiian cowboys (called paniolo) were super hardcore because the feral cows on the Hawaiian islands are massive and terrifying. In spite of having no American rodeo experience Ikua Purdy along with two other paniolo (Archie Ka`aua, and Jack Low) went to the 1908 Frontier Days Rodeo in Wyoming and Ikua set a record by roping his steer in less than a minute. The three of them placed 1st, 3rd, and 6th respectively, which was such an unexpected upset that it caused something of an uproar among the rest of the competitors. He is now recognized as a rodeo legend but wasn't given the respect he should have received at the time

  • @Drakkona123
    @Drakkona123 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This video did more than just educate me. I've had serious issues trying to consolidate my queerness with my love of more "country fella" pursuits like fishing or country music. Really, it was a part of queer culture all along that's just being further appropriated and horded by the institutions that control everything where I live. I don't feel so self conscious about it anymore. So thank you.

  • @RozenKitten
    @RozenKitten 2 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    As a Mexican-American growing up in “Deep South Texas” I was legitimately convinced that there was a “lost in translation” issue w/ Cowboys and Vaqueros. My grandpa would always tell me that Vaqueros were the REAL Cowboys but I always found it weird when a rancher would call himself a Cowboy even though technically they’d be correct. Even as an almost 30yr old I still feel weird thinking of a Cowboy as a ranch hand and not like a football team name or something from tv or my grandma’s erotic novel collection lmao.

    • @k80_
      @k80_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I think a good comparison would be that vaqueros back then are what truckers are today. Working class, skilled, transient tradesmen in a male-dominated field. Plus with how much gay sex goes on at truck stops it’s probably fair to say the culture hasn’t changed much

    • @GuiSmith
      @GuiSmith 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@k80_ That’s an excellent way to put it. I know some truckers past and that makes everything click.

    • @shinysugardrops
      @shinysugardrops 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your grandma's WHAT?? May I have the name of the novels?? For cowboy studies obviously

  • @kendan06
    @kendan06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    As a person from the south who always felt a sense of pride and connection to so-called cowboy culture, this video was very informative! I also fell prey to the myths of the old west popularized by television, not because it satisfied some idea I had of white, cishet, American masculinity, but because of the freedom it portrayed. Growing up a scared queer kid in an environment that saw my identity as at worst evil, and at best just a phase, it brought me comfort to imagine a fantastical image of America where I wouldn't have to hide myself, that I COULD be different and still respected, even loved. As I got older, I heard plenty of stories about famous non-conforming cowboys (and cowgirls, and everything in between) and felt seen by their presence, but I never stopped to consider how deep the history went, and just how much was left out of the popular view of the "wild west." This open explanation of the time period clearly comes from the heart and helped change my perspective on cowboys of old.

  • @jarrodestrada7692
    @jarrodestrada7692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    While I am not gay,nor do I pretend to understand how I person can be attracted to someone of the same sex , I do appreciate this video and what you are doing

    • @mintii0308
      @mintii0308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i mean, you do not need to understand, just respect it. They respect you as well and while not being able to relate to the attraction to the other gender, theyre okay with it

    • @jarrodestrada7692
      @jarrodestrada7692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@mintii0308 I do respect the fact that everyone has a right to live free and be themselves, I was hoping that my message conveyed that

  • @lilacheaven222
    @lilacheaven222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Barely half way through the video and I'm already crying 💀 Why is it so hard to accept and love each other no matter how we present??

  • @Luna-dh1xd
    @Luna-dh1xd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    A queer history of the US pre Euro Invasion would be cool.

    • @literaterose6731
      @literaterose6731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      You might want to check out Twin Rabbit here on yt, a small indigenous creator who does address this in some of their videos (there’s only a few so far, but they’re all pretty interesting!): th-cam.com/channels/_7FDEMkBBWWcol7QPzToaw.html
      I’d love to see a lot more like this, especially by indigenous creators themselves. Anybody reading with more recommendations, please pass them on!

    • @burgermeowster
      @burgermeowster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@literaterose6731 thanks for the recc!

    • @burnteffigy87
      @burnteffigy87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There's some amazing works found thru AK Press that deal with different Racialized and Marginalized People s history of the United States as well as many other great reads!

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Anthropologist here - it’s hard to say because European contact goes back so far that all we have are things that don’t decay - bones, stones - and we can’t tell much about social relationships like that, there’s just not enough evidence to say either way. the book The Invisible Sex talks a lot about sex and gender in ancient archaeology and i think some things about sexuality and queerness can be extrapolated from that.

  • @sesfilmsllc
    @sesfilmsllc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Welp, I’m Bi and like Old West history. Already got me hooked.

    • @jeremysmith4620
      @jeremysmith4620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hell, I'm straight and not really into the old west, but who in their right mind wouldn't want to hear Kaz discuss queer cowboys? A new video was good enough, queer cowboys is just the very rough, sweaty, and leather chaps wearing icing on the cake.

    • @AntiStraightMaleSociety
      @AntiStraightMaleSociety 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeremysmith4620 go away only straight women are welcome

  • @tinypete901
    @tinypete901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Thanks you for donating to the native organizations. Its greatly needed and appreciated.

  • @deepconnection1169
    @deepconnection1169 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My heart brakes for gay and transgendered people of the past. They really were abused terribly. Equality for all. LGBTQ+ 2023. The year is 2023 and we still have such terrible prejudices. So wrong. I once read that native Americans celebrated their gay, Or transgendered tribe members. They saw it as a gift from the gods. A blessing if you will. That God would gift the tribe with a member who could see life through two perspectives. Food for thought. How right they were to think so. 🎉🎉❤❤

    • @kriskabin
      @kriskabin ปีที่แล้ว

      Documentary: " Two Spirits" ( About Fred F.C. Martinez & an excellent LGBTQI history lesson in Native cultures & European.)

  • @massonman9099
    @massonman9099 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm a straight old (UK) guy who has written 4 westerns. This was fascinating, and I loved it. I knew some of it, but, well... lost for words! Thankyou so much for this.

    • @OutbackCatgirl
      @OutbackCatgirl ปีที่แล้ว

      Sir, please graciously consider writing up a queer 'n' POC inclusive cowboy romp in the same style as those westerns you've written with the eye opening this video has created

  • @panqueque445
    @panqueque445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    18:10 "The only way to treat his condition was to live his life the way he wanted to live it"
    That's surprisingly good for the time. I expected some nightmarish electro shock therapy or something awful like that akin to conversion therapy.

    • @mariesabine2385
      @mariesabine2385 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That doctor just had good sense. 💕

  • @BirdAntlers
    @BirdAntlers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I'm literally having an anxiety attack rn but "we'll put a boot in your ass, this is the USA" got a damn good laugh out of me. Loved this video
    Also as a fellow Texan lesbian, "you can take the lesbian out of Texas, but you can't take the Texas out of the lesbian" is one of my new all time favorite quotes

  • @gorillaguerillaDK
    @gorillaguerillaDK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    Sure, the misappropriation and misrepresentation of old West lifestyle and history is definitely terrible!
    Now imagine being Scandinavian and see the old Norse parts of your cultural heritage being misrepresented and misappropriated by far-right goons…
    It’s sad that there always has been this tendency!

    • @RowanWarren78
      @RowanWarren78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yes, GorillaGuerilla, I absolutely agree. As a person of Scot-Irish heritage who has studied the runic language and artistry of the early Celts and Picts, I abhor seeing neo-nazis using our ancestry to embellish their BS.

    • @kademelien9363
      @kademelien9363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      A little anecdote from Germany: The sister of my sister in law called her son after a norse god, not knowing anything about it. Now everytime we have to tell the name we got asked: Are they Nazis? And we say: No, the father is American.

    • @gorillaguerillaDK
      @gorillaguerillaDK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@RowanWarren78
      I can imagine.
      I've seen some serious abuse of Pagan religion/practices and tradition, as well as mythological, and of course old historic figures being utilized in these neo-völkisch movements that poop up in far-right circles....
      (yeah, I know, the correct term would be pop up, but poop up, seems a lot more fitting).
      Sure, I get why William Wallace is given a certain status among Scottish Nationalist, but then again, Scottish Nationalism is one of the few forms of Nationalism that isn't centered in far-right ideology.
      But the era the neo-völkisch crowd abuse the symbols of is of course the late bronze, Iron, and very early medieval era.
      It's the pre- and early Christian era....
      And it really saddens me - especially as a lot of the symbolism there actually exist, end up getting lost and replaced by their vile ideas...

    • @gorillaguerillaDK
      @gorillaguerillaDK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@kademelien9363
      "No, the father is American" is probably the worst answer to give if the question is; "Are they Nazis?”
      Just saying... 😜
      But yes, it's a great example of how the use of certain old Norse-Germanic names sadly gives people these associations.

    • @kademelien9363
      @kademelien9363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gorillaguerillaDK Could you ellaborate why it's the worst answer? The answer is meant to explain why the son has an unusual nordic name (because it is common in the US to have rather unusual names) and no ties to any rightwing themes

  • @beepbow8444
    @beepbow8444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    NOOOOO that gay cowboy poem… the good ol way their knees touched…. Im fucking dying over here man

    • @metatron478
      @metatron478 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fucking devastatingly sad, dude.

  • @autumn7809
    @autumn7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    AS A QUEER WHO GREW UP IN THE SOUTHWEST, I WAS ALWAYS VERY DRAWN TO THE STORIES OF WOMEN OUT HERE AND HOW GENDER ROLES WERE ABANDONED OUT OF NECESSITY AND THE QUEER OLD WEST GENTLY HELP SHAPE HOW I SEE MYSELF THANKS KAZ

  • @Teefs001
    @Teefs001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Yee mf-ing HAW!!! 🤠 Another amazing video! You're so skilled at taking facts/history and weaving them into a story that feels more accessible and dimensional than just a timeline. My queer native heart appreciates the knowledge you share so deeply

  • @ShelleyJaneK
    @ShelleyJaneK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This video reminded me of my senior thesis paper in my undergrad about how women working as sex workers in the west helped significantly contribute to the passing of the 19th amendment. I had so much fun researching and writing that paper that I eventually bought my own copies of all the books I borrowed from the library while researching for it. 🤠

    • @nora4642
      @nora4642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Drop the book list!!

  • @matthew40
    @matthew40 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Kaz, as a very soft hetero half Mexican man, I can't begin to thank you for this wonderful history. As being born and raised in Los Angeles, went to Manzanar in high school, I could never be a "proud" American, but I am always grateful for all-encompassing knowledge. I have watched all your videos, still learning about a world I am not a part of, but is a part of my life all the same. Also, F John Wayne and Reagan. You, and those you follow on this platform I have been engaging with, I cannot even express my enormous gratitude.

  • @soysauce8020
    @soysauce8020 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    sooo saying you like witmans poems is the gay equivalent of "do you listen to girl in red"? got it 😂🧡

  • @herbdandilion3434
    @herbdandilion3434 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Holy crap, that letter about that man's lover after he passed made me openly weep. People talking about their lovers is beautiful.

  • @mystery1317
    @mystery1317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “I hope she is finally comf” I’M-😭😭😭
    And the poem about the guy missing his partner? I’m done, I’m done 😭

  • @euansmith3699
    @euansmith3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The costume, setting and presentation are all top-notch. Thank you for another really interesting video.
    "... in late March..." I look forward to that; and happy trails everyone
    🤠🐮😍

    • @LikaLaruku
      @LikaLaruku 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely love the costume.

  • @jacquelinej958
    @jacquelinej958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    can we do a video on 1. penny dreadful or 2. the history of lesbian/queer tattoos 🥺

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omgs a fellow Dreadful! Hello! It's my favorite

  • @miakutny5105
    @miakutny5105 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you Kaz for the Indigenous Resources and also for the acknowledgment of Turtle Island ✊🏽 Chi Miigwetch

  • @emilynelson5985
    @emilynelson5985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You can’t tell me Johnny Cash wasn’t perfect and then immediately follow that up with photographic evidence that he was in fact perfect.

  • @kayakat1869
    @kayakat1869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My ancestors were black cowboys in Colorado and Wyoming. A lot of my family still lives out there today.

  • @RonelynValor
    @RonelynValor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Been working (on and off) on a Weird West novel about a lesbian card sharp in Nevada whose secret is that the cards truly do (mystically) love and talk to her. I'd already been thinking about all this stuff, but I have bookmarked the HELL out of this video. Thank you for all this legwork, ma'am. :)

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I volunteer to beta this, when you finish

    • @mcwjes
      @mcwjes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This sounds fantastic!

    • @RonelynValor
      @RonelynValor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ladyredl3210 Sadly, it'll be a while. My wife and I are still working on the sequel to our other novel. I can link you to that, if you're interested. Not much lesbian content, but I'm still very proud of it.

    • @RonelynValor
      @RonelynValor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mcwjes Hope I get to write it. :) My wife and I are necks deep in the sequel to a different novel, so it's been on the sideline for a good while.

    • @ladyredl3210
      @ladyredl3210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RonelynValor oh still cool. My wife is a gamer, but she understands my need to write

  • @elin9382
    @elin9382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    really looking forward to this, though I have class in 10 minutes! this channel has really sparked an interest in lgbt history in me, and especially the evolution of identities, which goes very well with my sociology class this semester (sociology of sex and sexuality).

  • @breegrimm7142
    @breegrimm7142 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I just discovered your content this week thanks to the your Bram Stoker video. I am a Trans Woman living in Texas (Yee-Haw) and I really, really appreciate all of your Queer History videos. They are so fascinating and your presentation style is exceptionally engaging and entertaining. Keep up the good work and thank you! Happy Halloween!