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  • @RolyWestYT
    @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Hey everyone! Thanks for joining us today!! Make sure to hit like and comment! Really helps the channel

    • @MitzyVelasquez-s9o
      @MitzyVelasquez-s9o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @RolyWestYT WHEN U COMING TWITCH CHOO CHOO 😁

    • @yourgodismean4526
      @yourgodismean4526 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Callum!

    • @MayaLarsen-y3r
      @MayaLarsen-y3r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤😂

    • @waterdragon2224
      @waterdragon2224 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Roly, have either you or Callum heard of Andrew gold? He has a TH-cam channel called heretics. I checked it out once. He is very anti trans. Doesn’t believe it’s real. He thinks it’s a just misdiagnosed mental health issue or something. 😳
      You were both commenting how many anti trans people’s arguments held no reason. What are your thoughts on his content?
      Just reading some of the comments people left there was deeply concerning.

    • @samijodavis9204
      @samijodavis9204 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The one shooting game I adore, I do play a few others like Halo, is the Mass Effect Trilogy (Andromeda can get an acid bath) And there's war and stuff like that, mostly against a insanely giant race of sentient machines referred to as Reapers, their agents and occasionally mercs that are horrible. Never liked Call of Duty, I only played it a bit, on multiplayer maps with my brother against zombies.

  • @blu_heron
    @blu_heron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +338

    Roly may hate children but he is passionate about protecting children’s rights. You can have both these feelings!

    • @AussieRose76
      @AussieRose76 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Yes, I’m the same, don’t want my own but will protect kids fiercely

    • @Koselill
      @Koselill 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Im definitely the same way. I very much at any time would defend or protect children even if I would actually despise having them myself.

    • @DeadpanVT
      @DeadpanVT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I'm the same way I hate the thought of having children or being in environments where there's a bunch of kids. I still am vehemently for child rights advocacy especially as someone who was over looked by cps and left in a home with abusive drug addicts. We need better social service regulations and training to look out for red flags in households.

    • @oliviamaelovick
      @oliviamaelovick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I’m the same! But still care about children’s welfare & safety!

    • @KiboSanti
      @KiboSanti 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I don't like kids (they're loud and unpredictable) but they're still literally just kids... They're new here! They don't know how it works here yet! They deserve kindness!

  • @kodamaspirit9298
    @kodamaspirit9298 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +369

    I want Roly, Calum and Luxeria in charge of the world. That would solve a lot of my anxiety about the future.

    • @Hannah-ls8xt
      @Hannah-ls8xt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Fr rlly,Callum,and lux for president 🎉

    • @MadiganinPeach
      @MadiganinPeach 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      True but Lux is a scientist tho. Have you heard what some scientists are saying about the future lately? I love all 3 of em but our future may be in better hands with a magic 8 ball at this point 😭 keep your head up. It's what us queers do best.

    • @PhoenixHinds
      @PhoenixHinds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@MadiganinPeach What has happened to make you "anti-science"?

    • @brattygrl81
      @brattygrl81 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes ❤ happiness and positivity are the new world domination 🧘‍♀️

    • @KillJoy_Since2017
      @KillJoy_Since2017 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr

  • @Dodrebur
    @Dodrebur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    Calum's brain getting stuck on "PDF file" brought me life lol

  • @AvalonSteelsheen
    @AvalonSteelsheen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    Crash Bandicoot is 100% a chaotic trans guy. He’s so proud of his top surgery results that he never wears a shirt!

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      😂😂😂😂

    • @rosenrot234
      @rosenrot234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      It would def explain Crash's posture too.

    • @lostross
      @lostross 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      literally me for the past two years

  • @coasttocoast2011
    @coasttocoast2011 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +475

    Try living in bloody Australia without carrying a water bottle around and see how long you live in summer where it can get to 50 degrees Celsius in places

    • @toxiczombiewolf5692
      @toxiczombiewolf5692 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      I always carry water with me. Hydration is important.

    • @Gayhorrorgeekinct
      @Gayhorrorgeekinct 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      They wouldn’t last 15 minutes in Perth without a water bottle.

    • @CabbitPatchKiddo
      @CabbitPatchKiddo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I live in Texas and have water, electrolytes, a small hand fan, and an umbrella with me at most times. I’m also heat sensitive though so I just don’t leave the air conditioning if possible during the summer.

    • @coasttocoast2011
      @coasttocoast2011 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@Gayhorrorgeekinct exactly, I never go anywhere without a water bottle, even if I’m driving

    • @AB-qt6uw
      @AB-qt6uw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Yes fellow Aussie Roly fans! The summers are brutal and getting ready to go outside is like preparing for ear

  • @JustAFace_InTheCrowd
    @JustAFace_InTheCrowd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +225

    Us: “Be yourselves! Do what makes you happy!”
    Them: “INDOCTRINATION! You can ONLY do it like this- even if you’re unhappy! Now listen to us or you’re going to a place that’s constantly on fire.”
    Us: “☝️😧 Uhm…..”

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      😂😂😂😂

    • @zachshure4057
      @zachshure4057 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I’m going to a place that’s constantly on fire? Man, better bring my water bottle.

    • @lethfuil
      @lethfuil 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zachshure4057 That's so gay. You're going to a place where the fire is constantly on fire too!

    • @anonymousperson-fv4ip
      @anonymousperson-fv4ip 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​​@@zachshure4057 Gotta remember my sunscreen. I'm gonna get such a good tan bro 😎

  • @hayleycarter4743
    @hayleycarter4743 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +383

    OMG it’s so good to see Callum again. I hope you’re both well ❤

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

      Always so lovely to have him back again

    • @michellemartinov6267
      @michellemartinov6267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      First time I’ve had the pleasure to meet - you guys are so much fun together! And Matilda is one of my children’s and I favorite movies!

  • @bethdavisjimenez
    @bethdavisjimenez 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    My Husband got rid of a best friend of over 30 years just recently because the friend was saying that his new vacuum cleaner made him look "gay" and that cleaning was woman's work. He responded that if cleaning and not being a slob made him gay then he was soooo gay and proud of it! Grown men who act like that are just ridiculous!

  • @everogersdownunder1242
    @everogersdownunder1242 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    As a queer cis woman who's been with straight cis men, I will absolutely say that I've been with guys who get *so* butt hurt and offended if you don't feel up to "adult fun times."
    I've been made to feel *so* guilty because I have the flu, or I have a severe migraine and have been vomiting from it or I'm exhausted and just don't feel up to it OR, *especially* when you just don't feel like it for whatever reason - there may not even be one, you just don't feel like it.
    Wow! Do they lose their ever loving minds and either gave a toddler tantrum or do the silent treatment or whatever other manipulation they can think of or "punishment" , all because you don't or can't have "adult fun times" at that particular point in time.
    I obviously will not stay with someone who is like this. But, when talking to other women who have been with men, they agree and say they are made to feel so awful and guilty for not wanting or not feeling up to it.
    Men, stop this behaviour. It's not ok!!

    • @hades_town
      @hades_town 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      yup, my ex did this too. He was the first person I ever dated though and so I thought that behavior was okay. He would pressure me or beg me until I gave up. I hope I don't ever let that happen in a relationship ever again because fuck that.

    • @everogersdownunder1242
      @everogersdownunder1242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@hades_town I'm sorry you had to experience that and didn't realise you can absolutely say "no." And that be a full sentence.
      Again, I too have succumbed to that too.
      Hope you're in a better place now xx.

    • @maccadole
      @maccadole หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ohh, yeah. Been there. All the guilt tripping and shame and heavy sighs... I've heard it all. Ridiculous!

  • @ThePurledPaladin
    @ThePurledPaladin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    C2C means "Corner to Corner" it's a specific type of crochet blankets

    • @PhoenixHinds
      @PhoenixHinds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you. I have minimal experience with crochet and didn't know this.

  • @stephutech
    @stephutech 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Imagine raising a little girl to be a future home maker to "serve" men and bear children and not letting her figure out her interests and what she might want to be when she grows up herself. It's so sad

  • @EmmatheGaymer
    @EmmatheGaymer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    my favourite "trans women in sports" drama is when people got salty that a trans woman won a beauty pagent, they genuinely got upset at that, i guess they think we have an advantage in being beautiful?

    • @minzimoonling4812
      @minzimoonling4812 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's because they see trans women not as "true" women but as men. Sad, I know, but people do have these views. So for them it's basically like a man won the womens beauty contest and they feel betrayed (most likely because they are attracted to them)

  • @ghjgme
    @ghjgme 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I'm always fascinated by the trad wife type of suggestion. I went to Catholic school, my mom was a homemaker, I have 5 siblings, I had no financial support or expectation of college, I was expected to wear my hair long, no dye, pretty conservative, discouraged from doing "boy things." Now I'm an engineer, a foster parent, my husband is primary parent, short dyed hair, play roller derby. Sometimes the more you "encourage" a kid to be one way, the harder turn they may take.

  • @yb_broski
    @yb_broski 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    As a trans dude that works as a veterinary assistant. I LOVE when dogs hate me because "they hate men" yess smell the tesosterone rolling through my blood lmaooo

  • @zbcrazy
    @zbcrazy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    I'm GUESSING the pineapple and umbrella were for "if you like pina coladas, and getting caught in the rain", but I still have no clue how to translate that into genders lmao

    • @DaniCamo
      @DaniCamo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      My first thought was that the establishment was making their bathrooms unisex without explicitly stating it xD Some people get all up in arms about unisex bathrooms, so maybe they're just hoping those people will be too confused to be upset lol

  • @Insertia_Nameia
    @Insertia_Nameia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    About the the sex chart, the wife replied with a chart of her own of all the times she tried to initiate and he either denied her or got out right angry at her for trying to initiate.
    Also yuengling is a beer.

  • @foreverwander0320
    @foreverwander0320 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    In the US the search for “can my husband see how I vote” searches are going up. Sad but at least women are waking up.😢

  • @jessmPS
    @jessmPS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Thank you Roly for bringing that cake example up ... I remember a reddit story that was read by one of the youtubers I follow .... where the bride told her fiancee that she had some tra*ma regarding cake being pushed in her face (her family would do that to her on her bday and one day they pushed her face into her cake and one of the decorations hurt her face) and the husband did it anyway ... she then left and got an Annulment ... which I'm happy about lol

    • @xwinwinwinx
      @xwinwinwinx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yes I remember this story. Her husband just didn't understand at all and thought she was being 'stupid' (his word) and over reacting to get a divorce. Then he went crying to her family and her mum in particular, who sided with him. Apart from OP, all her family and husband couldn't understand why she was upset and never understood or respected her dislike for having her face pushed into cake her whole life and why she would find that upsetting and hurtful to happen to her on her wedding day.
      I'm so glad she got a divorce as clearly her husband didn't respect her wishes and tried to gas light her, with the help of her family, that she was over reacting. I'm glad OP got away and realises this is a symptom of a deeper issue: husband doesn't respect her or listen to her.
      I think she cut her family off as well because they also continuously disrespected her and ignored her wishes.
      Good for OP!

  • @sdfghjasdfghjk8175
    @sdfghjasdfghjk8175 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Good clapback for anyone who says "If you do that, you're gay."
    "And I still don't want you, Chad. Back off."

  • @AlfredSoul
    @AlfredSoul 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    The "gay" videogame in the comparison is Overwatch, which some of the characters are actually canonically LGBTQ in. It was voted "Game of the Year", when it came out and definitely was the most played online game at the time.

  • @kjbrasdas
    @kjbrasdas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Game adds a non-sexually portrayed woman. "OMG, it's too woke now. Ruined!"

  • @Diddledo
    @Diddledo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    28:26 as a trans man I can myth busters this for you. After I got on T, I had to be reintroduced to my friend’s dogs because I didn’t smell the same as I used to, and the dogs read me as male. eventually they realized it was me and were chill. And my job used to involve a lot of dogs and the dogs that hated men usually hated me too. The dogs aren’t transphobic maybe she sucked as an owner.

  • @RichardX1
    @RichardX1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    "The only things men should be carrying around are his wallet and a pocketknife."
    So... guns are no longer manly?

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No too poofy

    • @Ilovefluffykitties369
      @Ilovefluffykitties369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. You have to face your enemy. /joke

    • @brandiecopeland2937
      @brandiecopeland2937 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RolyWestYTdoesn’t go with the fit lol

  • @EmmatheGaymer
    @EmmatheGaymer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    one thing i love about the dog story is that dogs that like women, love trans women and dogs that like guys love trans guys so her story doesnt even make sense

    • @hawkeyescoffee6399
      @hawkeyescoffee6399 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She probably saw one of those euphoric affirming stories where a trans man had a dog like him when they only ever like men. Perhaps the first part happened where the dog was ok with a man when they aren't usually, but the she decided to try and add the transphobic twist to it. 🙄 imagine being that bigoted, though, that you make up a story about your dog being some kind of trans detector.

    • @Struudeli
      @Struudeli 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      THIS. I have a cat who dislikes most men, nowadays he's better (slow rehabilitation♡) but especially early on that was the case. However, one of my best friends who is a trans woman but didn't even know it back then, was never a problem. It made so much sense when she found out she's actually been a woman the whole time 😂

    • @laulau194
      @laulau194 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Another delicious part is where she intuitively identifies a trans man as a man until the totally real TERF dog does its thing. But I'm sure 'She can always tell'.

    • @rosenrot234
      @rosenrot234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dogs are just living vibe checks

  • @kyleecronin2089
    @kyleecronin2089 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The thing that grinds me about gender based separation in sports like pool and chess:
    They were created, not because “men are better”, they were created because women tried to play in men’s spaces and were harassed and discriminated against.
    Now cis women are turning around and acting like men to the transwomen.

  • @gigglingwombat
    @gigglingwombat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I crocheted a blanket for my baby girl and I didn't realize I made a lesbian flag. Lol. It is now her favorite blanket. My Gay big sister loves it. I love to see my sister and my baby so happy. :) all becuase I liked the colors together. Haha

  • @LucyFurr6
    @LucyFurr6 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    I too hate children, never even held one before. I find myself sticking up for them more often than I am comfortable with just like you Roly. I'm kind of newer to your channel but have heard you talk about your family situation a couple of times, I had a very abusive childhood myself and I think people who have experienced the worst of humanity want to protect anyone they can from ever feeling the way they did. That's what I have to tell people constantly, because apparently you can't dislike the sticky little monsters but still want the best life for them.

    • @CoMorbiditty
      @CoMorbiditty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      There's too many parents that *use* their kids to make their point cos no one else agrees with them.

    • @pacipwincess
      @pacipwincess 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      why so u guys have to use the word hate lol, they did nothing to you. just say you dont want them

    • @LucyFurr6
      @LucyFurr6 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@pacipwincess Because I do in fact hate them, ain't my thing brother.

    • @pacipwincess
      @pacipwincess 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LucyFurr6 i get that, but the usage of hate is odd

    • @LucyFurr6
      @LucyFurr6 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@pacipwincess Clearly you do not get it considering you are questioning it. I know it's a wild concept that many people don't understand, but we do not have to have the same opinions on literally any subject and, so long as the differing opinion is not putting anyone or anything in danger then it is valid whether you understand/agree with it or not.

  • @keicoffman1508
    @keicoffman1508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I'd like to add that when I started HRT animals gendered me correctly. Like, cats that love stinky men's feet loved my feet on T. Pretty sure it's a common trans experience.

    • @Ilovefluffykitties369
      @Ilovefluffykitties369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s interesting. My dog who was really scared of men wasn’t scared of trans women. I always thought it was because I was more comfortable with women than men. But that actually makes sense

    • @m.h.7364
      @m.h.7364 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I used to know a horse that hated men but tolerated women. A trans woman worked at the stable and the horse was okay with her

    • @jariahymn3028
      @jariahymn3028 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Testosterone and estrogen have different scents

  • @Arcane_Archer
    @Arcane_Archer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    16:32 To be fair, Elden Ring is extremely gay! There are multiple canonically queer characters, on both the gender and sexuality spectrums! But the people who complain don't even pay attention to the lore, the only thing they actually care about is that the character creator lists "body type" instead of "biological sex" (a word for word argument I've seen, like any video game actually uses the term "biological sex")

  • @mikalamaynard6096
    @mikalamaynard6096 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Devil's advocate on the "TERF dog" post: It actually does happen, but often in the other direction. I took my dog to the vet and he hid from one of the techs who came in who was a trans masc person. I apologized and said "he gets more nervous around men" to which the tech went "OH!.....oh."
    It was a bitt funny. Very "Affirmed!!...oh shit, he's traumatized" moment lol

  • @tommybrown8845
    @tommybrown8845 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    So glad to see Calum again. To summarise, No... The straights are never going to be okay. 😂

  • @leaderlamby
    @leaderlamby 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I've actually seen someone ridiculing men who drink from water fountains and telling them to use water bottles instead. No winning with these people.

    • @kjbrasdas
      @kjbrasdas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They're supposed to use them but not carry them. I wonder where they put them 🤔

    • @tdelioncourt1268
      @tdelioncourt1268 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In their wife's purses duh!/s
      ​@@kjbrasdas

  • @itskaybe6348
    @itskaybe6348 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The Texas wife voting tip quite literally made me cry. That is an unfortunate truth for too many women, and women in the US are fighting they need to. Do not stay quiet, I hope this woman leaves that horrible man and shouts her independence from the rooftops.

  • @SanoviaSavonia
    @SanoviaSavonia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    22:36 The worst part is before i came out as trans a similar thing happened with darts and my dad thought she did the right thing. This was a year ago and now im out and he is very accepting of me being trans but still thinks "trans women are stronger" which is so sad to see. I really wish people did their research

  • @ThatFlamingFroggo
    @ThatFlamingFroggo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Whats fun is that there are masculine gays. And feminine straight men exist.

  • @BunneahReads
    @BunneahReads 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    32:22 C2C means corner to corner. So she started in the bottom right corner of the blanket and worked diagonally to the upper left corner. This gives the blanket those lovely diagonal stripes instead of horizontal or vertical stripes.

  • @ThePoettica1973
    @ThePoettica1973 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    "Squat for Jesus. Come on, then."
    WHY DID THIS KILL ME? 🤣🤣🤣 Calum's face! 😂😂
    Also...we don't eat for flavour! 🤣🤣

  • @angelhboo
    @angelhboo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    One of the worst things brexit caused is the fact that we now have trouble getting life saving medication like heart medications, asthma meds, some antidepressants and morphine. I had to go 6days without one of my heart medications a couple of months ago and it made me feel really shit..

    • @Charbified
      @Charbified 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm a medical dispenser, and HONESTLY this is so bad in our country at the moment... So many "supply issues" because there's manufacturing problems (and all the additional costs) associated with importing. A thing that I've found so silly though is that it seems like parallel imports (foreign made medication that is sent over to us) has had an increase. So they've made it harder for us to manufacture medication, while also having us over a barrel by being our supply as well, because how could it possibly be cheaper to import this stuff in...

  • @TheoMcAllister
    @TheoMcAllister 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Come on, we all know that crochet wasn't too gay for her daughter, but not the 50 shades of beige to fit mum's aesthetic.

  • @dancing_raptor
    @dancing_raptor 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I made a crochet blanket with the identical pattern as the one in the video and I originally wanted that exact same yarn to be able to give the baby girl something colorful without following pink/blue. I wasn't able to find that yarn in the end and opted for a more pastel rainbow yarn.
    That blanket was beautiful and I know from experience that making that blanket as a beginner takes months.

    • @elking8373
      @elking8373 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The blanket in the video is gorgeous! Pastel means girly by traditional standards, it’s ridiculous that the mother is so scared of queer coded anything. If I was a child who grew up with this blanket, I’d be really appreciative of different colors, because I hated pink as a child. Children want to see their favorite color in their things!

  • @Icelandchan
    @Icelandchan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    First, how is it that we are constantly accused of gr**ming underaged people while they want to teach their newborn to serve a man and stuff? I was watching a video, today. It was about a case where a 6-year old girl was harmed. This girl also participated in one of these beauty contests for kids. They showed a picture of here with a full face of makeup and some short skirt. How is that okay but telling a kid that a girl can like a girl and a boy can like a boy is bad? I'll never understand.
    Second, I absolutely celebrate women who go against societal expectation and don't bend to everybody's will. Also, that dude who wrote the comment is just salty because no woman wants to make him a sandwich. Instead, women follow their own dreams. Something that men were able to do all the time.

  • @Chaloupe331
    @Chaloupe331 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Rolly: "I find it wierd that you watch the olympics to get off"
    The ancient greeks :

    • @Resilient_Sage88
      @Resilient_Sage88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All the orgies were after the games 🤣

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      back then all the athletes were naked, but women weren't competitors, soooooooooo

    • @thatonewitch
      @thatonewitch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Fuffydud
      Watching 2 naked dudes wrestling and covered in olive oil when the audience are also men _is kinda gay._

    • @thatonewitch
      @thatonewitch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@Fuffydud
      _kinda gay, tho_

    • @tatkkyo9911
      @tatkkyo9911 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@thatonewitchyep ancient Greek

  • @basil4002
    @basil4002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    27:02 I've seen bathrooms like this before, the two most memorable were unlabeled, with one door having the word "blah" in the middle and the other covered in "blah blah blah", implying women talk a lot, but the other significantly better one was two doors with the label of "bathrooms" above them and a sign between them that said, "men to the left because women are always right." I quite enjoyed that one.

  • @SpookiCooki
    @SpookiCooki 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I agree that gendered bathrooms are stupid. Creeps will creep either way so a sign on a door won't stop them.
    The only differentiation I think would be good is urinals and toilets. One room for each. That's it.

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It's ironic that the people who call for restroom laws are the same kind of people who argue against gun control by saying criminals will still acquire guns anyway.

    • @ilanarhian
      @ilanarhian 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      In France they often have unisex toilets, there’s usually a little barrier around the urinal so any women in there don’t see everything. I don’t believe there are problems due to this.

    • @tdelioncourt1268
      @tdelioncourt1268 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​nope men talk a lot but are usually shy when it comes to toilets ^^ people do their business and nobody bats an eye. Also the only time I've heard of toilet agression was in women-only toilets, you know, where you have zero chance of crossing a well intended man who could punch you in case of emergency...

  • @awalsh4532
    @awalsh4532 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    CALUM IS BACK!!!!?!???
    IM SO HAPPY! I love these videos!!!!!💙💙😭😭

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I love filming with him

  • @LinnaeaIdesta-q5t
    @LinnaeaIdesta-q5t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    28:20 I found this HILARIOUS, my dog was abused by a man for most of his life, so he would bark and growl at them. BUT when a trans straight couple i knew came over for dinner he only barked at the trans man, he even fell asleep on the trans woman's lap. IF A DOG CAN RESPECT GENDER IDENTITY, SO CAN YOU.😂

  • @holly_hawk_reads_a_lot
    @holly_hawk_reads_a_lot 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I loved seeing Callum again. I'm a crocheter and crochet to crochet was funny. C2C stands for corner to corner.

    • @thatboymoxie
      @thatboymoxie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Also coast to coast, if you're a certain train line in south Essex 🤣

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Oh!!! Thanks for the info

  • @starparodier91
    @starparodier91 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Hello Roly! Nice to see you Calum! 💜
    Also… I played those volleyball games when I was younger for the “pretty girls”. I didn’t realize I was bi yet 💀

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Naughty 😂

    • @AB-qt6uw
      @AB-qt6uw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🤣 that’s so real

  • @Krispypeppers
    @Krispypeppers 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Poor Callum has been out exploring the world and living his best life.... and then he was exposed to this. He may never come back 😂😂😂😂

  • @sandpiperr
    @sandpiperr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The one that gets to me most is the teaching your daughter that it's okay to be dependent on a man.
    Why would anyone want their child, boy or girl, to end up dependent on another person?
    That's not to say every girl has to grow up to be a career woman or aspire to be a CEO or that there's anything wrong with being a housewife if that's what someone choose to do!
    However, being totally dependent on another person for your basic needs puts someone in such a vulnerable position!
    Historically it was the reality because there were few other options for women, but we have them now!
    Even if you're conservative and hope your kids will be conservative too and lead a traditional life (ie: if they're girls they won't work outside the home), the smart thing to do is to encourage them to also cultivate skills that they can fall back on just incase!
    Skills which will, if nothing else, also be useful when they need to help their kids with their homework.
    Imagine being so selfish as to encourage your daughter to be a position 30-40 years from now where her husband can divorce her for a younger woman, and she'll be on her own, probably with several kids to take care of, with little to no job training or work experience...all so that you can feel like you're owning the libs!

    • @ulrikesextro4187
      @ulrikesextro4187 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What I don't understand is their narrowmindedness and not being able to imagine that their daughter might never find a husband or won't be able to bear a child.

    • @earthaforester3141
      @earthaforester3141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, and even if they wanted to extoll the virtues of having a family over being a "materialistic workaholic" (even though education and career-mindedness are not synonymous with those things), it's still really messed up on its face to say you want to prevent / discourage your daughter from making her own life choices. Like they genuinely do not understand that women are people.

    • @earthaforester3141
      @earthaforester3141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, and even if they wanted to extoll the virtues of having a family over being a "materialistic workaholic" (even though education and career-mindedness are not synonymous with those things), it's still really messed up on its face to say you want to prevent / discourage your daughter from making her own life choices. Like they genuinely do not understand that women are people.

  • @sofiacollina
    @sofiacollina 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I have a really hard and confusing assignment I have to do… but somehow I found myself clicking on this video😂❤

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Oh god! I do hope you can work it out c

  • @jcfreak2007
    @jcfreak2007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    18:12 OK! Thank you! My father always played those games about WW2 and other real life war games and it was so upsetting to me!

  • @U_KitKat840
    @U_KitKat840 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    13:20 did this guy try to reinvent friendship?

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yes 🥰🥰

    • @zaragozagrace4389
      @zaragozagrace4389 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I honestly thought that the dude might be on ace spectrum since he is feeling so great about his life. I just wish he wasn't so misogynistic about it. It is not the women's fault he isn't into them

  • @Cupcake_Murder
    @Cupcake_Murder 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The worst bathroom "creating" sign is the ones that have "bla" for men and "bla, bla bla bla" plaster all over the door for women. As if men do not talk and women never keep quiet.

  • @cheryldemers6577
    @cheryldemers6577 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am 55 and my father made sure I knew how to change a tire, check and change the oil in a car. He made sure I could do everything for myself so I didn't need to depend on anyone. He also taught me how to fix the muffler, and alternator.

  • @TiaTruly
    @TiaTruly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    No carrying things?!? What a sad and difficult life these men are forcing on themselves.
    Reminded me of a time (I'm an ex USian living in Chile + work in an English Institute, for context) when a new cis/het male teacher arrived and I clocked his messenger bag which I could see held things like his reusable water bottle, chapstick, extra hoodie, etc and immediately said to him "omg are you from Colorado (USA)??!" - because it was so culturally specific - and yes he was!
    But also it's a totally normal thing for people in the real world. I wonder if it's connected to the kind of lifestyle and privilege that comes with driving everywhere - as opposed to so many other countries where there is public transportation and/or biking/walking to get around. Yes you need to carry things sometimes! Why are people so weird!!

  • @AmarisFrede
    @AmarisFrede 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You two are so wonderful together! It's great to see your friendship.

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🥰🥰🥰

  • @everogersdownunder1242
    @everogersdownunder1242 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As a cis lbgt woman, I've *no effing idea* if I'm meant to be a pineapple 🍍 or an umbrella 🌂.
    Wtf.
    People do bizarre things for the sake of gender and seggsuality these days. Especially when they think they're funny when they're absolutely not.

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The only symbolism I can think of for pineapples is hospitality/good luck in a new home, and umbrellas are used as a "do not get wet" warning sign on packaging? So the new gender binary is hospitable/hydrophobic

    • @Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic
      @Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Fuffydud
      i can see it already. "im not hydrophobic! im not afraid of water!!" since thats the logic they use for homophobia and transphobia 🤣

  • @OtakuPie
    @OtakuPie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "Nothing about Elden Ring is fruity" Um... the final boss of the elden ring dlc is a femboy twink and his muscle bear (lion) consort 😂

    • @andigray791
      @andigray791 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well now I wanna play it

  • @sliferwiththeblueeyes
    @sliferwiththeblueeyes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Calum is always the best and I always laugh over his UTTER CONFUSION

  • @ericaj.5180
    @ericaj.5180 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The Angie story explanation:
    Angie misgendered the trans woman her dog went to because the dog "doesn't usually go to men" which is why the trans woman was upset, she was misgendered.

    • @John_Weiss
      @John_Weiss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The dog got the trans woman's gender correct. The dog's owner? No.

    • @ericaj.5180
      @ericaj.5180 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@John_Weiss Exactly!

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm pretty sure it was a trans man, who upon hearing the dog doesn't usually go to men (like him) thought the dog had clocked him. Terfs say "trans identifying female" to mean a trans man.

  • @ChosenOne41
    @ChosenOne41 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    16:17 the game on the left is Army of Two, a game about two dudes that meet at an army boot camp training type thing, who become best friends, leave together to create a mercenary group and go on to commit war crimes for money or whatever, it has some very gay subtext between the two of them through the whole game

  • @melawyn9096
    @melawyn9096 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The fact that that woman HAD to make all those different excuses as to why she doesn't want to have sex with her husband is a HUGE red flag. Obviously he doesn't understand that NO is a full sentence and doesn't need justifying. Dude needs to get reacquainted with Mrs Palmer and her five daughters 🖐

  • @ReaderInSeattle
    @ReaderInSeattle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Calum is such a good sport, reading these brain-melting posts aloud and not giving up. Cherish friends like that. Thanks, guys!

  • @miew8204
    @miew8204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    TH-cam telling me the past few days: "Gays React To INSANE Straight People"
    Me straight as a wissle,finally getting around to watch this: "Well let's see where those gays are up to then."😘
    my instant reaction to the first post: I have PTSD, the hand over mouth gesture i do a lot when triggered. My jaws just open up by themselves, like some kind of spasm. according to my therapists this is common in PTSD.
    there is no way to tell if this man is just "sad" or having an full blown PTSD flashback. Either way it makes me so angry when others claim that people are weak for letting out these huge emotions.
    They have no idea how strong and confidant you'll have to be to show yourself this vulnerable in public.
    i'll move on to the rest of the video now xD
    Oh btw, nice meeting you Calum (:

  • @KhloeeLouise
    @KhloeeLouise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Hey Rolyshweeadoo x
    I see a Calum..... let's break him with gout x😂
    Loved the video x

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Will be filming Your video tomorrow btw

    • @KhloeeLouise
      @KhloeeLouise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@RolyWestYT oooooh x👀

    • @Ilovefluffykitties369
      @Ilovefluffykitties369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww love the profile photo !

    • @KhloeeLouise
      @KhloeeLouise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ilovefluffykitties369 thank u x😊

  • @KestrelDC
    @KestrelDC 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Even animals scared of certain people will sometimes just sense the good vibes in a particular person and go to them anyway. My mom’s dog used to be nervous about men she didn’t know and would shy away from them a bit, even bark at them sometimes, and she’d take a little longer to warm up to them but once when we were in Petsmart there was a guy she just really sensed goodness from and just went right up to him on her own and sat at his feet. Sometimes animals make exceptions… 🤷

  • @lindsaystevens4062
    @lindsaystevens4062 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The answer to "Are the straights okay?" is never 'yes'

  • @sylverscale
    @sylverscale 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    OMG, I just saw your contacts match your hat and shirt, Roly. That's awesome. 👌
    The posts are unhinged, though. I only got to the pdf file post by now and I'm already disturbed. 😬

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I do try to match when I can haha

  • @WinterLynne94
    @WinterLynne94 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    34:35 That's insane. My mom's stepdad wouldn't even let her go to get her driver's permit until she could successfully change a tire, check the oil level, and even refill the wiper fluid without having to ask for help.

    • @hawkeyescoffee6399
      @hawkeyescoffee6399 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My friend (from back when were were teens...a while back now 🫣) had a single mum who did the same with her. She knew more about cars than the boys we were in college with.

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The person getting the tire change in the pic is obviously doing well for their self, too. They have a fully customized car and a Yorkshire terrier, which are really expensive dogs to get in the US!

    • @EdibleStars369
      @EdibleStars369 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wish someone was able to do this with me, no one I know knows how to change their tire, and that includes my brothers, friends husbands and my Dad!

  • @marvelhead17
    @marvelhead17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    32:00 Hi Roly, I'm not sure if you're aware but the wife of this man had seen this spreadsheet and gave her reason of events too, I can't remember what it was though but you should find it in your own time 😊
    Nice to see Callum again too! ❤ You two should try a wholesome video for next time, I don't know how much Callum can hold back against these idiots anymore 😂 much love xx

    • @grantmegan91
      @grantmegan91 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nad her reasons were SOOO valid too! Hes a pig

    • @hawkeyescoffee6399
      @hawkeyescoffee6399 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I remember that, and most of them made the context for his whining infuriating, things like she had just got off working a long shift, etc. I don't remember where I saw it either.

  • @deathstinger13
    @deathstinger13 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    for the pineapple v umbrella one, think it MIGHT be a deliberately nonsensical set of bathroom door signs where you're not supposed to know or care?

  • @BanthaNautic
    @BanthaNautic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I do want to say Elden Ring and other Fromsoft games do have historically lgbtq+ themes. There are implied gay relationships in ER specifically, hell DS1 has a character who is bisexual as he asks the player (male or woman) if they have a crush on him. Just wanted to point that out 😊I love your vids they've provided hours of entertainment!!

  • @dahmummy
    @dahmummy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Omg Hollyoaks what a throwback😂 they showed it here in Finland too and I remember rushing home from school to watch it 😂

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh did they!?

    • @dahmummy
      @dahmummy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RolyWestYT yes, Finland loves all British tv shows

  • @TheDorkEvilOne
    @TheDorkEvilOne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Also if you watch pro chess tournaments, men & women already play against each other all the time. Young people & older people play against each other. It's very diverse & has been that way for a very long time. Was the context even some sort of gender segregated chess situation or is it simply that only cis people should be allowed to play chess? Honestly.

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep, there are even Olympic chess events; the FIDE runs them for the International Olympic Committee. FIDE also runs the World Chess Championship and the Women's World Chess Championship separately.

  • @jessmPS
    @jessmPS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    oooo I had to block someone because Elliot Page was being interviewed and mentioned he was Canadian and I just responded to a comment ... yeah He's from Nova Scotia (one of our eastern Provinces) and trolls just went outside of their way to be misgender and be rude .... like WHY ARE YOU HERE ....

  • @sandpiperr
    @sandpiperr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh and the pizza shop bathroom signs.
    The single slice is women and the whole pie is men, because the idea is that not eating much is feminine and eating a lot is masculine.

    • @vibeci
      @vibeci วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I never would have got that, I would have been in the wrong loo for sure!😂😂😊

  • @theamazinghotbottle3531
    @theamazinghotbottle3531 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly at 12:27 , as an aroace, upon reading this I just thought "Oh so a queerplatonic relationship then ?" 😂
    Great video and as always, lovely to see Calum !

  • @samgnz3n530
    @samgnz3n530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    literally they just need to make restroom signs above that say, "i care that it's only men in here" ...."i care that its only women in here"..."i'm here to relieve myself i don't care about others" ...like that ends the entire arguments of this stupidity.

  • @KhloeeLouise
    @KhloeeLouise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    "Unhinged social media posts" Facebook I see u x👀💀

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂

    • @KhloeeLouise
      @KhloeeLouise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RolyWestYT hahaha x

  • @AmandaTomkins
    @AmandaTomkins 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You have both made my day.. my whole bloody week🎉❤ Hi Roly and Welcome back Calum!! ❤

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sending you love and hugs

  • @Bubblefairie
    @Bubblefairie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    TOM OF FINLAND MENTIONED

  • @bucketthatinc
    @bucketthatinc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There’s so much to unpack with that ‘Man makes a spreadsheet of all the times he was denied sex’….the fact that most of the dates were either close to each other or back to back days, at one point the dates even show that he asked his wife to have sex with him FIVE DAYS IN A ROW (leave her alone!)
    The fact that the date when this spreadsheet was made was in 2014 and the day when it was last updated was 2017! And based on the dates we can see he would have had to update that list damn near every day!
    The fact that several times the wife’s “excuse” was that she felt gross and you already know the husband didn’t do anything to make her feel better or at least ask her what’s wrong.
    The fact that the post comes from an account called ‘Women Being Awful’….TF YOU MEAN WOMEN BEING AWFUL?! HOW IS THIS HER FAULT? Also the pfp looks like it’s a women’s mugshot too. What the hell is happening??

  • @ashk7244
    @ashk7244 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Why do I agree to come on the internet?" SAME, CALUM. SAME.

  • @sabreena5611
    @sabreena5611 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I thought it was a lobotomy joke for the horse with a knife in its head. Estrogen and testosterone don't work like that. I'm not a medical professional though.

  • @jeromeah69
    @jeromeah69 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The dog one also shows that the terf couldnt tell they were trans like they always claim they can tell. They only suspected when the dog was ok with them.

  • @OwlExterminator
    @OwlExterminator 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Yeungling (pronounced ying-ling) is an American Lager from Pennsylvania. Having grown up there, it’s really the only beer I like. 🍻

    • @evilbob840
      @evilbob840 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's great stuff, with a nice rich flavor. I generally prefer IPAs, but a Yeungling is always a good option.

  • @Lefty_loosy87
    @Lefty_loosy87 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I don't know what I'm supposed to do!"
    "Squat for Jesus... c'mon then."
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @PhantomLobotomy
    @PhantomLobotomy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i immediately thought the pizza bathroom door was women on the left- men on the right.. because of pubes 😂
    like women are “supposed to have very little hair” and men are “supposed to be hairy”? that’s what i gathered😂

    • @sheechwan
      @sheechwan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol, that's a take I didn't think about. That's hilarious, love your version
      I think it's something about women shouldn't be eating too much, but men can be pigs and have the whole pizza for themselves or something dumb like that
      Your version is still better, tho lol

  • @MusicalK93
    @MusicalK93 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Can't stop staring at your ears, Roly! 🤩 They look amazing, I love the danglies!

  • @NoraRobinson-mm2yv
    @NoraRobinson-mm2yv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Roly, my daughter told me a year ago, someone was selling hanging lamps that were different fruit. I said the pineapple sounds nice; and told me that that tells others that your a swinger. People just think what they want without thinking. You just can't live without someone saying something.

    • @Fuffydud
      @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I only found out about pineapples being a swinger dogwhistle very recently, and I think it was a poor choice considering how many people think of them as a symbol of good luck for new homeowners. When their new neighbors show up with a gift basket pineapple, do they think it's a lewd invitation? Risky.

  • @Fuffydud
    @Fuffydud 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    hilarious they used Army of Two as the "straight" video game example, that game's is literally ALL about "a non-romantic, non-sexual mutual relationship between two straight men who live together but in separate rooms and no women are allowed"

  • @everogersdownunder1242
    @everogersdownunder1242 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The irony of that person's user name being "Proverbs....." essential a part of the Bible and then saying they won't date women anymore and want a committed male to male relationship.
    I'm d3ad. 😆💀😆💀

  • @behindzerosp
    @behindzerosp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Recently there was video of a woman essentially having mental breakdown being on the floor asking her probably boyfriend to stay away and he recorded that and posted it and it was reshared on twitter. So many people saw her as the problem ...

  • @havenprizmich9217
    @havenprizmich9217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “Imagine Elon musk becoming a furry”… boy do I have some news for you😅

    • @havenprizmich9217
      @havenprizmich9217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He was exiled from the baby fur community in the Bay Area some years ago. I had to learn what baby fur was because of it😭

    • @tatkkyo9911
      @tatkkyo9911 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@havenprizmich9217do you have a source cause that's wild

  • @alexandriaflarsen
    @alexandriaflarsen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love seeing Callum again! You two are so funny together. ❤

  • @Jigglypowerpuffgirl
    @Jigglypowerpuffgirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    28:18 I think Angie just admitted she can’t always tell

  • @TiaTruly
    @TiaTruly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    YAY! Thanks for coming back on the channel, Calum, to lose brain cells with the rest of us

  • @Enemyoflactose
    @Enemyoflactose 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FYI: C2C for the crochet one means corner to corner. Instead of going straight across you start with a corner, make it bigger, then make it smaller till the next corner.