Is It Ok To Keep Secret Savings From Your Partner? | Loose Women
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- Should your partner know everything about your finances? Well, many think not! A new study has found that one in five married adults believe their partner may be hiding savings for retirement - and one in ten have admitted themselves to having secret savings. Stacey admits to knowing exactly how much Joe’s got in the bank, but says if he asked her she’d never tell. Katie says keeping your money secret isn’t about wealth, it’s about independence, and Kaye poses the question: Does it breed mistrust in a relationship if you keep your money a secret?
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From series 27, broadcast on 08/11/2023
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Lovely to see Stacey back on Loose Women
Yes, it is. She’s so much fun and a breath of fresh air.
I was just thinking the same 😊
And she's off the PC fence. So much better
Stacey is right schools need to teach financial situations for kids future
No, it’s not for schools to teach this - it’s for parents. Teachers are having to teach ridiculous amounts of things already. Parents, step up and guide your kids.
They will never do that otherwise how will banks, insurance companies and pension funds be able to keep ripping people off.
The word secret is the issue. You should feel comfortable being open about having your own savings. If you're not, then you either have trust issues with your partner or some past trauma you need to work on. A healthy relationship gives you room to be independent.
Well said Judi and Stacey!
So nice to have Stacey back on.
"Pythagorus who?" hahaha exactly Judi! Good topic and I agree with Judi, Katie and Stacey
Great to see Stacey
I always said when i first met my partner as much as i loved and trusted him id never set myself up to be left high and dry financially if something were to go wrong. We went into a joint mortgage even tho i knew i could just be his tennant and claim benefits like a lot of people do for income. I was much happier to work for everything we have.
But i always knew if things went wrong i was entitled to half the equity on the house regardless of who paid more bills. I had a child to think of too.
We're still together now but early on i told him of my beliefs and luckily he supported that.
Having a personal saving account is absolutely fine and in my opinion really wise. However, if one half of the marriage feels they have to keep it ‘secret’ then that word indicates an element of distrust in their other half, and that may be well founded. Yes! Yes! Yes! Teach kids in school money management.
I totally agree with Judi & Stacey. Although, better still couple in relationship could have joint account to manage home bills & children and hence decide to have individual personal account to accommodate the 'Me Time'😊
Welcome back, Stacey! You were missed and you are loved!❤
STACEY ❤
Nice idea but when a household is struggling to pay for basics as many are at the moment, if you found out a few years later that the whole time when you were skint as a family your spouse had a stash of money they werent telling you about then that seems dodgy to me. And what if they ask - are you supposed to lie? what kind of marriage is that?
So good having Stacy back 🤩
If you work for it you should not let no man be in control,that,
Stacey is back!!!! Wooooo
Stacey is back😊😊😊😊😊
Stacey is right, you should be in a relationship because you want to be there not because you have to. It's imperative everybody (men and women) are financially independent.
Only in certain situations like abuse if the other person would leave you destitute at the drop of a hat. Also if you live with a manipulative person.
I don’t agree with any of them.. there’s a big difference between putting money aside so that you have some financial independence and not going into details about it with your partner, and completely lying about it’s existence for your entire relationship..
As the girls from MFM say, fk politeness. I'm not ever going to 100% rely on another person. That's just a fact of life. Anything can happen, and then what? And if you're a parent, you have a responsibility to safeguard your kids.
My mother used to call it her running away money ! 😂
Sooo happy to see Stacey!!!
When I was growing up in 70s Ireland, there was a big drink culture with men, who would go straight to the pub with their wages. I remember having to go to the pub with my friend to try get some mother from her dad for her mother and 9 siblings before he drank it all. Long story short, a lot of housewives had to keep a stash to buy food etc. Which sometimes resulted in them getting a hiding for not giving over the money for drink.
We love you ,loose women n to you ,Ms Stacey
Yay Stacey is back ❤
Is it even possible to have any savings in this day and age
Yes Judi!! ❤❤
No, don't hide money from your spouse.
Me and my partner are long term but unmarried and dont intend on marriage. We share a child and a mortgage. Me and child are included in his will (hes a police officer).
We join our bills financially but outside of that we have our own money and savings.
I vaguely know how much is in my partners savings only so we can know jointly what we can afford in terms of trips away or holidays but always split the cost anyway.
We both work so this is ideal. I work slightly less hours with a lower hourly rate so pay slightly less on bills. Works out fair in the end.
If my partner turned round and said he'd been squirreling money away for him to go on a lads holiday yes id be upset but if he squirreled it away to use some on a lads holiday and some on our child or home I'd be thrilled.
Depends on the intention of the secret stash i think.
Only the truth will set you free
It's a great idea on both sides.
This is simply insurance money to cover the front-loaded costs of divorce or separation.
In most relationships it’s men that spend more money on dates, holidays and bills so yes.
Why is Katie still on this show after her gross ignorant comments about goths went ignored? Seriously? One year on and she’s still to acknowledge or even apologise for what she said? How is it you all love judging other people’s mistakes and condemning them but when it’s your own, total silence? Lovely.
I would. It would be my money.
If you have to hide it, shouldnt be with that person, its sensible on both sides though, always have a joint and seperate accounts, if its to escape a abusive relationship then by all means keep it quiet
We have a common saving account with my husband. If something happens to him I got the money and the other wat out. Simple as that. No need for secrecy.
She’s so pretty she kinda have a mixture of Pamela Anderson
Lol