Fergie big girls don't cry lyrics

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  • @ericavillanueva2868
    @ericavillanueva2868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5726

    2020 and I'm still here listening to this beautiful song. Who's with me?

  • @kinziecronkhite5851
    @kinziecronkhite5851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2797

    was jamming to this as a kid in 2004 n still here in 2020

    • @kaybo5249
      @kaybo5249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      this song came out in 2006...

    • @izzymarieeee
      @izzymarieeee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Kinzie Cronkhite I was born in 2004 and jamming to it in 2009 as a kid 😂❤️

    • @gracefoster9739
      @gracefoster9739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @jennyr7808
      @jennyr7808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Izzy Marie same🤛🏽🤟🏽

    • @williamvargas1244
      @williamvargas1244 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      x2

  • @kellyhill4732
    @kellyhill4732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    This whole album was a constant when I went through a divorce becoming a single mom at 28 with 3 kids. I'd never been on my own & I was in an abusive & controlling marriage. This album helped me restore some self esteem & life expectations, boundaries. I belted this song with tears streaming down my face more times than I can count.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Aww, hope you are doing better now.

    • @carlazamora6712
      @carlazamora6712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you got this queen! stay strong kuz those babies are watching you they are watching you be the strongest woman ever the one who doesnt take shit from anyone not even their dad. 👏👏 i made one of the hardest decision of my life as i was still in the hospital holding my new born son knowing i had nowhere to go i stood strong i knew that if i even went home from the hospital with him i would scar the precious gift God gave and i am dedicated to raise a man of God who knows who he is and is not an emotional reck.. now my baby is 18 months God provided even now that times are not hard they are great the blessings keep on raining! hold on to Gods hand and he will help you through it all so your children never have to see a single soul bring you down remember you are their super hero sorry for that long paragraph

    • @ladymargaret6186
      @ladymargaret6186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope you are doing well now... Rooting for you...

    • @gregbailey45
      @gregbailey45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Been there, feel ya!
      'Cept I was a single dad of 4!

  • @NickRyanBayon
    @NickRyanBayon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    This hits different when you're an adult and lived it.

    • @mikaylagrabowski7944
      @mikaylagrabowski7944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mikayla Jenna Marie Grabowski grandma

    • @griselmendoza1107
      @griselmendoza1107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Spider man peter Parker and raven Rachel Roth shaun the sheep and lina the hedgehog

    • @francedc4247
      @francedc4247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fck yes

    • @aprilbyyy1705
      @aprilbyyy1705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from our sins and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal ✝️

    • @brandylittle9186
      @brandylittle9186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @Harry-rh9qc
    @Harry-rh9qc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3035

    I feel like a strong independent woman listening to this song.
    But I'm a 16 year old man
    Ps: I recently turned 17; it feels so great to live a life like this!
    I'm 18 now lol

  • @ozzyplascencia103
    @ozzyplascencia103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1535

    It's so sad that you don't even hear this kind of music anymore 😕

  • @wrath642
    @wrath642 10 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    2007 was the best year of my life. Things seemed to be going always uphill. Young, new experiences from meeting new people, playing outside all the time, riding bikes, the first crush, ding dong ditch, the first school dances. Economical situation seemed fine, youtube was amazing in 2007, even Runescape lmao. Music was great (not realizing this till now unfortunately). Things changed dramatically so quickly. Part of why I think we enjoyed it was because we had no idea it would all disappear. To us, we were just living life and it seemed to be default that the world was such a nice place. At that time I was able to make friends with everyone. I was friends with people who I grew up to be complete opposites of and later end up hating but as kids we were all able to be friends because that's just how things were. Life was full of color and fresh as could be. God I miss those times and hope to give my children the amazing childhood I was lucky to have.

    • @bl4576
      @bl4576 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      so true..... 2007 feels like 80 years ago. and i miss it. it was the best year of my life and i had the best childhood. People who were born in the 90's or 00's had the best childhood ever. RIP 1990-2007

    • @Alieungirl
      @Alieungirl 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      how old were you in 2007?

    • @bl4576
      @bl4576 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dazy Kid
      Me? well, i was born in 1998. So, i was 9

    • @Alieungirl
      @Alieungirl 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bella Latte Oh me too :)

    • @wrath642
      @wrath642 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dazy Kid
      11-12

  • @crimsonstang
    @crimsonstang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I remember hearing this song on the radio as a kid on the way back from fishing in Puget Sound with my dad. Good times. Can't ever go back, only in memory now.

  • @cupcake7534
    @cupcake7534 9 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Aah, finally found this song after years! This reminds me of my childhood...I used to listen to this and sing those lyrics...now that I have become older, I understand the meaning of this song and it comforts me...

    • @crazycandyce2580
      @crazycandyce2580 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here girl, same here.

    • @cupcake7534
      @cupcake7534 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Crazy Candyce big girls still...cry

    • @arandomnerd1359
      @arandomnerd1359 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      when I was little when that song came on I would cry when she said "big girls don't cry."

    • @cupcake7534
      @cupcake7534 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rebecca Hernandez hahaha, literally same.

    • @cropakittenmatenez5995
      @cropakittenmatenez5995 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this song 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @briannalee1998
    @briannalee1998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2955

    When I was little, I loved this song, but I didn't understand the meaning. Now I'm almost twenty and in my last relationship I felt the same way, like I was becoming too dependent on him and I needed to get over my issues, and to learn to be happy, independent, and myself without him again. Even though I knew it would hurt to end it, it would've been much worse if we went on without solving our individual issues and I had to learn to fully love and depend on myself first before entering a relationship again.

    • @16princessdaisy
      @16princessdaisy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm exactly in this situation myself and I think I'm in love but I know it's not the best for me, I need to solve my personal issues as well but it's so hard to end it...

    • @barbarapandza5707
      @barbarapandza5707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Imma try that with him. Kinda feel like an idiot when I can't find myself with the person I love (?) Seven years... I belive we can survive everything. And so... this... growing up

    • @lorenamendoza911
      @lorenamendoza911 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      5

    • @lorenamendoza911
      @lorenamendoza911 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      3

    • @lisagraves153
      @lisagraves153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      10 year heartbreak right here. I have to grow up without my first love.

  • @AlastorPlayz_
    @AlastorPlayz_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +595

    I've been jamming to this ever since I was a kid. 2003 baby. Anyone else tear up at the fact that our childhood is over? I miss being a kid even though I wanted to be older. I wouldn't miss the chance to be a kid again for just one day.

    • @devilslotus4351
      @devilslotus4351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yess I have distinct memorys of being three and singing this in the car. It hurts so much to think about for some reason. Childhood ignorance maybe.

    • @AlastorPlayz_
      @AlastorPlayz_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@devilslotus4351 I feel you man

    • @justin.mp4592
      @justin.mp4592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Meee😔. I’m turning 18 (legally an adult) in October and let me tell you. I miss being a kid. Everything was so simple back than. I miss how everything was but all I can do is take a deep breath and keep on moving forward. I didn’t have much fun in my teenage years and it’s honestly makes me sad sometimes but when I listen to this song, it sparks happiness in me :)

    • @jjz8722
      @jjz8722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Your only as old as you feel. I'm a 44 year old. Keep a young mind , play video games , ride a bicycle, live laugh , have fun try and not worry too much. Chill it's all good.

    • @yoongi_pyz4781
      @yoongi_pyz4781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah :((

  • @stephb9256
    @stephb9256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This song still brings tears to my eyes in 2021... hits ya right in the feels 🥺

  • @kyoukajirou6322
    @kyoukajirou6322 7 ปีที่แล้ว +695

    I love the way she says "blanket"

    • @nataliehanna4891
      @nataliehanna4891 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I like the way she says "school yard"

    • @FaZeMandTaZeM
      @FaZeMandTaZeM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I like the way she says “valentine”

    • @maddiehemingway5652
      @maddiehemingway5652 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Carrie Michele I like the way she says “straightin’”

    • @dianapantaleeva2590
      @dianapantaleeva2590 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And also 'lingers' 😍 i love the part where she says it

    • @lungkislungkis
      @lungkislungkis 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I like the way she says "serengeti"

  • @ilovellys
    @ilovellys 10 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    2007 feels like it was decades ago

    • @ilovellys
      @ilovellys 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me to 1 was only 10 I think lol

    • @Peace2Love15
      @Peace2Love15 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      feels like 80 years ago

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      2007 feels like it was 2 years ago to me

    • @slashkaz9564
      @slashkaz9564 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** Look up Toontown rewritten if you don't have it, it's completely free and fanmade! :D

    • @LaLaLoopsyCutie
      @LaLaLoopsyCutie 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was in kindergarden at the time.. damn I miss 2007 for me where my homework was writing a letter or coloring something

  • @xxjayjaygamerxx247
    @xxjayjaygamerxx247 7 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I was singing this to my little 4 year old cousin Braydon. He's at the hospital battling AML Leukemia. Stay strong Braydon! Love u😘❤️😭

    • @eleniiliopoulou4012
      @eleniiliopoulou4012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope he is fine now💕 I love him too💕

    • @MrCrabs-sy1og
      @MrCrabs-sy1og 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope he's fine, everything will be fine

    • @rileyslays
      @rileyslays 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope he is doing better. ❤️

    • @coltonmayes6240
      @coltonmayes6240 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prayers for you and him and family

    • @chatoyantpaw
      @chatoyantpaw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      -Jayda Roger
      Aw I hope he wins the battle.

  • @slayergirl6983
    @slayergirl6983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm a 21 year old big girl and I still cry. Never too old to cry! Sometimes it helps to cry.

  • @charlee2273
    @charlee2273 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    My favourite song when I was 9/10. Honestly, this song is so nostalgic. Whenever I would get upset, my mother would turn on this song quietly and it would calm me down. I still do it to this day.

    • @maddiejames1028
      @maddiejames1028 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charlee Aww! You just warmed my heart! Happy Holidays! ❄️

  • @blackmagicroses1
    @blackmagicroses1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1253

    *Listens to this while crying*

  • @panama660
    @panama660 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3623

    Big girls don't cry because they're weak, they cry because they've been strong for too long...

    • @fightingmedialounge519
      @fightingmedialounge519 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      That doesn't really sound right.

    • @jujai.akainu
      @jujai.akainu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      What the hell is this quote?

    • @saphii_the_first
      @saphii_the_first 6 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      Big girls don't cry because they don't want to be SEEN as weak. They're are actually very strong and to hold back all those tears is really hard to do. This is modern society, people get judged no matter what their doing, so for a girl not to cry means that they are strong in a different way.

    • @perlagalvan521
      @perlagalvan521 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big girl don't cry

    • @user-ud1qf4qn5o
      @user-ud1qf4qn5o 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      It means that they’ve held in all of their emotions for too long.

  • @alexanderpagan8189
    @alexanderpagan8189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    My ex broke up with me and dedicated this song to me. He’s following his dreams and sadly I couldn’t be the one who helped him achieve them. I love you jaden, I wish you the best ❤️

    • @BigSisterWolf
      @BigSisterWolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Don't let the twisted lyrics lie to you, hon. If you need to cry, let it out.

    • @winglessfairy564
      @winglessfairy564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BigSisterWolf ❤️❤️❤️

    • @boeing757pilot
      @boeing757pilot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Now it's time to clarify your dreams and follow them...

  • @MrsDawn953
    @MrsDawn953 5 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    A song that says big girls don't cry, making a 15-year-old girl cry
    Thanks for this, nostalgia and my damn missing of old days... 😢

    • @fazalraheem9525
      @fazalraheem9525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I miss being 15

    • @trinmiller7433
      @trinmiller7433 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't we all miss our old days, life is depressing

    • @julieeller725
      @julieeller725 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i love your profile pic :)

  • @laureltree9390
    @laureltree9390 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I remember listening to this when I was a little girl, it was new then. It meant a lot to me then...

  • @kylieordono7561
    @kylieordono7561 10 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    If we cry, it's okay... even though we are old enough.. you cry cause you're strong not weak.. if you love and hurt, love more. If you love more and hurt more, just love more... until it hurts no more :)

    • @danguolestrumilaite2597
      @danguolestrumilaite2597 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so hust just love but its lasting for the time totime sowecant be lusers tous but forathers itsglad to be not so in cutting my nails becouirse if iagonanget easier but love it the stone of treasure soits nevr hugging butdry and so fresh its our blod we are like wompire when we love but youcansay ilove my jeus idid soi know ican adore you

    • @jecerylmerto5641
      @jecerylmerto5641 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Let me tell you a good quote to come along with that:
      "People don't cry because they're weak,
      It's because they've been strong for too long"
      ~Johnny Depp

    • @madoric13
      @madoric13 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Danguole Strumilaite A wompire???? :3

    • @favymoran
      @favymoran 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @Yamislittleangel55
    @Yamislittleangel55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My mother passed away yesterday...and I remembered this song. Rest in peace mum...I'll work harder for you. It's time for me to be a big girl now...And big girls do cry...

  • @okkk934
    @okkk934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Sometimes you will outgrow people. Other times, you’ll realize that you haven’t given enough attention to yourself in a while. Feeling lonely can often mean that we are in desperate need of ourselves, and at times, we are the ones that need to give ourselves a big hug and say “it’s okay”. Learn who we are, accept our failures and accomplishments, and be at peace with where we stand and where we are heading. “Be with myself and center, clarity, peace and serenity.” I hope this helps anyone who needed to hear this. ❤️

  • @lucathedemisexualloser1089
    @lucathedemisexualloser1089 8 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    childhood right here 😍💕

    • @reaganhuff6098
      @reaganhuff6098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Taylor Swift same!!😂 Same!!😂😂

  • @noorkareem4155
    @noorkareem4155 9 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I once started crying in class cuz I had a fight with my friend and my crush came and sang it to me, he has a bad voice but it was sweet

  • @lif3_toughbro_017
    @lif3_toughbro_017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    2021 and I’m still listening to this song, can’t let my boiz know this😳

    • @jackielawhorne3762
      @jackielawhorne3762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oop I- I won't tell if you don't

    • @Lynn-jm6vf
      @Lynn-jm6vf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jackielawhorne3762 same

  • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
    @lullaby_honeymoon5918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2493

    “Big girls don’t cry”
    Me, a stressed and depressed college student: [crying] *HhHhhhh*

    • @michaelmiller8455
      @michaelmiller8455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      D+ for grammar college girl.

    • @stryder3747
      @stryder3747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Lullaby_Moonchild Lmao big mood

    • @kafirahadam6631
      @kafirahadam6631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lullaby_Moonchild Lmfao we all have to cry because of the coronavirus

    • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
      @lullaby_honeymoon5918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Chips Ahoy boi True!
      The coronavirus was like: “Fuck them kids” 😂
      Man, it makes me feel disdain about it :/

    • @stryder3747
      @stryder3747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lullaby_Moonchild I hate that so much lmao. Yeah I can see the coronavirus saying that shit 😂😂😂
      I’m in Texas, some colleges have began sending students in housing away

  • @brendamendez490
    @brendamendez490 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This song reminded me that I could still move on in life. That crying doesn't always solve your problems. I am still in love with this song! #2018Anyone

  • @mackenzieesslin3111
    @mackenzieesslin3111 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love this song I remember when this song came out it was the most popular song on the radio at the time, I would listen to it all the time and one day I became curious and decided to look it up and I fell in love with it. Fergie is awesome 😍💜

  • @bambangsuhardono388
    @bambangsuhardono388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brings back memories.

  • @nancyzhang8290
    @nancyzhang8290 8 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    this is one of those songs that you get so addicted to that you listen 24/7 until you get so sick of it and then remember it practically a month later

    • @anitramorria8015
      @anitramorria8015 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i was wondering why i keep listening to it lololol very addictive

    • @josebenitez432
      @josebenitez432 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      guess I love singing to this song and I'm a guy

    • @thiago475
      @thiago475 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep lul

    • @zemariatwesley394
      @zemariatwesley394 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nancy Zhang 🤟

    • @adihernandez2171
      @adihernandez2171 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enough me fury them Klan up u last thing be the most floor good fun go not sure coco mom

  • @sierraabde1017
    @sierraabde1017 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My mom and i used to sing this song together in the car with the volume turned up all the way. Miss her

  • @aidansmith7025
    @aidansmith7025 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I'm a dude and I like this song cause I heard it as a kid playing Kingdom Hearts 2. XD, this song brings back real good memories.

    • @goku65838
      @goku65838 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      kingdom hearts Best game of of all time KH3 will be G.O.A.Y

    • @aidansmith7025
      @aidansmith7025 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Tj H When's it gonna come out?

    • @LixalLogue
      @LixalLogue 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Aidan Smith no one knows, but 2.8 comes out in like November I think

    • @aidansmith7025
      @aidansmith7025 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh

    • @goku65838
      @goku65838 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Aidan Smith kh3 is def set out for 2017 release date around September

  • @kandrasmith3726
    @kandrasmith3726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All these years I've listened to this song and I'm just now understanding it 😭 yes I needed this today!!! 🖤 Find your own way kings and queens and give yourself everything you deserve.

  • @silverwolf9642
    @silverwolf9642 8 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    Man, songs like this just make you wish that you enjoyed the past when you had the chance to. Back then, all I wanted to do was get a driver's license, move out, and be out on my own. But the difference between now and back then was how I used to love car rides because I didn't mind them playing these types of songs over and over. Now days, if I'm not driving I hate car rides because "Love Yourself by Justin Bieber" plays every other time.

    • @adriannaa72
      @adriannaa72 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      that last part is true asl

    • @silverwolf9642
      @silverwolf9642 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seth Yeah maybe if I wasn't broke lol

    • @oliviapearce9879
      @oliviapearce9879 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      !!!!!!!!!!!! i couldnt of put it better

    • @asherzanepaynegibson4042
      @asherzanepaynegibson4042 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true just turned 18 not what I expected!!

    • @lukefrance9558
      @lukefrance9558 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      SilverWolf well an aux cord exist and can put every song you want

  • @kadanceeverett6693
    @kadanceeverett6693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Loved this as a kid and still love it now in 2020

  • @opal_vrc
    @opal_vrc 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This song is helping me same with hurt cuz its basically talking bout how i feel and its helping me realize, I don't need a guy to push me around cuz I just gotta get up and walk off

    • @dimitrijames00001
      @dimitrijames00001 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I listen to razorblade by blue October for two reasons
      1. It reminds me why i cut.
      2. It makes me proud of the shit i do.

  • @asmrsunsets7721
    @asmrsunsets7721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I never truly understood the meaning of this song until I broke up with a really good person to work on/better myself . I get it now.

  • @itsasecret12781
    @itsasecret12781 11 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    still listening in 2014

    • @someonelopez3736
      @someonelopez3736 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      me 2

    • @jadequartz8002
      @jadequartz8002 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      who doesent

    • @rileygardner2103
      @rileygardner2103 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jordyn Budy Bitches I recken.

    • @jermyajackson8696
      @jermyajackson8696 11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y yall saying duh and who dosent just like the freakin comment ......DAMN I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!

    • @callofduty4702
      @callofduty4702 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jermya Jackson Why are you over reacting? She might have not meant it in a bad way. Lets all be nice now. lol

  • @Dejanique95
    @Dejanique95 8 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    My mom had me addicted to this song 😍💕🙌🏾

    • @merissabodah4298
      @merissabodah4298 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      omg me too

    • @vansoffthewall4763
      @vansoffthewall4763 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I will always be a fan of this song. MY SHHIT

    • @Dejanique95
      @Dejanique95 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Brandon Scott yes. 🙌🏾

    • @tessalewis4867
      @tessalewis4867 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same my mum got me into all of her songs this one is my favourite❤

    • @gemma2702
      @gemma2702 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!!

  • @gabisanhs
    @gabisanhs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1395

    Am I the only one listening to this in 2020??

  • @rylhaileyreyes130
    @rylhaileyreyes130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    when i was young like 5 years old my grandma used to make me listen to this song and we always vibe to this song. i really don't know what the lyrics meant before i just like the flow of the song. whenever i cry we always listen to this song. she passed away when i was 12 years old and now im turning 18 tomorrow and I've realized the the lyrics meant as i always have breakdowns and i always cry. i love you mama see you.

    • @Hope4Real_
      @Hope4Real_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think the lyrics mean what you want them too .. for me as a kid back then I never payed attention to the lyrics I literally just thought it meant big girls aren’t supposed to cry now I can relate to this song in so many ways .. expectations, disappointments , losses , gains etc it truly is an amazing song !

    • @bririvera3606
      @bririvera3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg i’m sorry my mom did the same when i was little :(

    • @rylhaileyreyes130
      @rylhaileyreyes130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bririvera3606 awww🥺🥺 if only we knew what are the lyrics really meant that time ☹

  • @itsinthefreezer1143
    @itsinthefreezer1143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    My auntie used to play this when driving me and my cousins to school, and now I'm a grown ass man listening to it 😅

  • @morganasaccount9701
    @morganasaccount9701 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This brings back memories :)

  • @Karlybarleyy
    @Karlybarleyy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this song brings back so many memories :(

    • @kobelipsey0616
      @kobelipsey0616 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right I'm thinking about life right now

  • @renatolbert4053
    @renatolbert4053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    2022 and it’s still stuck in my head ❤️

  • @jessicaglaspie9005
    @jessicaglaspie9005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This song IS beautiful! It helps me realize that I have to grow up and make painful decisions sometimes..

  • @israelseastarot
    @israelseastarot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "I forsee the dark ahead if i stay" ...felt that

  • @debangeebharali5382
    @debangeebharali5382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    " And big girls don't cry" is the part I cry every time I listen to this song...❤😢
    2019...anyone?

  • @terriquinlan7683
    @terriquinlan7683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you. It's a lovely song, and a good one to remind big girls. Now, if you want a great female, you have to hear Divinyls, Only Lonely.

  • @CSgirl322
    @CSgirl322 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was my favourite song for the longest time when I was four.

    • @joshmendoza9507
      @joshmendoza9507 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      same love this song :)

    • @alysaxlouisee
      @alysaxlouisee 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME!! IVE KNOWN THIS SONG SINCE I WAS A REALLY YOUNG GIRL (4)

    • @turefacts9043
      @turefacts9043 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +CSgirl322 me 2

    • @leavemealone8620
      @leavemealone8620 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +CSgirl322 SAME!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @SpecialK210
      @SpecialK210 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME!!!

  • @jaydalissieworthen1296
    @jaydalissieworthen1296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Almost 2020 and this still is a top favorite

  • @BobMarley-bx7lx
    @BobMarley-bx7lx 8 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I am a straight semi-masculine boy/man who is 17 years old and I can say that I have liked this song since I was little :)

    • @chewsingh2745
      @chewsingh2745 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      me too

    • @mimmismith4138
      @mimmismith4138 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @possumboy25
      @possumboy25 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well good for you. If you like that song, great

    • @hayla8483
      @hayla8483 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same,but I am a female lol. Its a lot better than most of the shitty music we have now..

  • @nadeemali3355
    @nadeemali3355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    its almost end 2020, im still in love with this song

    • @lewiselmore821
      @lewiselmore821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep still a jam never wont be 😌

    • @BigSisterWolf
      @BigSisterWolf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why? The song is a big fat lie.

  • @crackosaurus
    @crackosaurus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I'm eating a king sized kit kat bar right now. Tastes great!

    • @hueco-mundo
      @hueco-mundo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I HOPE YOU ENJOYED THAT BAR

    • @emmy-nf8nf
      @emmy-nf8nf 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no one cares

    • @rex1054
      @rex1054 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep

    • @Kingofjune90
      @Kingofjune90 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      funny, I'm taking a shit right now

    • @jazminerodenas414
      @jazminerodenas414 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What the fuck no one wants to know that

  • @novacancy6000
    @novacancy6000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I remember jamming to this as a kid, now as an adult I can actually relate to these lyrics so hard

  • @madg9634
    @madg9634 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1555

    Life asked death one day “ why does everyone love me but hate you?” Death said “ because you are a beautiful lie and I’m a painful truth”
    And that hit hard

    • @ShaolynLSuroy
      @ShaolynLSuroy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mad G 👍😢

    • @jxstadri
      @jxstadri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true☝️😭

    • @ruthdelacey5473
      @ruthdelacey5473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      you're getting down deep in the abyss sister

    • @madg9634
      @madg9634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ruth DeLacey sorry😭

    • @mah0625
      @mah0625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Let me tell you something sweet heart. You painted my ceiling. Bless you.

  • @personokay9784
    @personokay9784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    2021, and I’m still here ♥️

  • @trinitygibson4550
    @trinitygibson4550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +799

    Who’s heartbroken here in 2019 listening to this still

  • @j2big
    @j2big 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    2019 - forever listening to this song

  • @_toyukun5588
    @_toyukun5588 11 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I haven't heard this song in years!

  • @DivineCosmicAlchemist
    @DivineCosmicAlchemist 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This shit hits way harder now that I’m grown. I use to sing this song on karaoke when I was 14. It was my go to karaoke song and the tears I’m dropping now just from listening to the lyrics now and relating at the age of 27 just made my innerchild cry out.

  • @maxmears9680
    @maxmears9680 5 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    This was my mothers favorit song. I listen to it on memory of her.

  • @amykelley9792
    @amykelley9792 9 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    this song goes with when i feel like giving up on things

  • @beautybysarah16
    @beautybysarah16 9 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Currently getting over my first heartbreak

    • @kaitlynhammond5218
      @kaitlynhammond5218 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meee too.

    • @pandaprince7063
      @pandaprince7063 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      All three of you look to be 10-12 years old and you're listening to a song from 6 years ago to get over your play ground relationship😂😂😂😂

    • @jennifermoat8186
      @jennifermoat8186 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well probably from like 9 years ago

    • @TheStitchPlays
      @TheStitchPlays 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OKalexandria you fight through girl

  • @e.g8468
    @e.g8468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Old music really feels good to listen and sing

  • @jazzynicolecoloka14
    @jazzynicolecoloka14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ugh that part where it says I'll be your bestfriend and you'll be my valentine. Literally just hit me hard😩💙

  • @elric8625
    @elric8625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    but...this song is such a love song to oneself in the becoming! It has very littleto do with another soul. I love it!

  • @JulianneCrider
    @JulianneCrider 10 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love this song..I honestly almost cried when I heard this the first time

  • @hyneliegarcia6591
    @hyneliegarcia6591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2021 and I'm still inlove with this song. Happy 2021❤

  • @ceciliauvalle5509
    @ceciliauvalle5509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    it’s 2020 and this song came out when i was like 4 and it still gets meeee

  • @QuantumR96
    @QuantumR96 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    For some reason I always get goosebumps when she says "yes you can hold my hand if you want to, 'cause I want to hold yours too"

  • @cloroxbleach1990
    @cloroxbleach1990 8 ปีที่แล้ว +862

    Big girls cry when their hearts are breaking 💔

    • @ThatOneTomboy
      @ThatOneTomboy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Clorox Bleach aye how you get outta my secret stash bleach?😂

    • @toroyoko
      @toroyoko 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thank you bleach 😥🙏🏽👌🏽 what would I do without you 😩

    • @lushabae6629
      @lushabae6629 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Clorox Bleach I fucking see u everywhere!!?!?

    • @snoopyloops3879
      @snoopyloops3879 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lusha Bae because there is like thousands of TH-cam accounts named that

    • @ayaanmanuel529
      @ayaanmanuel529 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lusha Bae SAMEEE!!!!

  • @yourlocalnaturalista
    @yourlocalnaturalista 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2021and I’ve never related to this song more ❤️

  • @gemcatcher1002
    @gemcatcher1002 9 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    Why don't they play stuff like this on the radio anymore?

    • @charlizelugo
      @charlizelugo 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know *smh* & *sighs*

    • @OhYeahItsJake
      @OhYeahItsJake 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      gemcatcher100 this song is actually played a lot

    • @gemcatcher1002
      @gemcatcher1002 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      OhYeahItsJake well at least not on my radio station it doesn't:/

    • @leighanorton7399
      @leighanorton7399 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      gemcatcher100 what kind of radio do u got LOL it should play it mine does

    • @ILikeCHEEZ9
      @ILikeCHEEZ9 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      gemcatcher100 The old 103.5 kiss fm used to play this and other songs like it a decade ago but sadly not anymore

  • @ConsistentlyInconsistent21
    @ConsistentlyInconsistent21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Beautiful...and I'm a metal head.

  • @artsylens0206
    @artsylens0206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Christmas dec 2019 , listening in my own vibe.. 🍀🌲🌲🌲

  • @josephlewis9237
    @josephlewis9237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a beautiful song. I love it. It's almost as beautiful as Fergie herself. This song really touches my heart and pulls on my heartstrings. It reminds me of my youth and my Primary schoolmates.

  • @jasmine-gm5zm
    @jasmine-gm5zm 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    "I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine" is my favourite part

  • @mintikkuma
    @mintikkuma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Damn this song takes me back😫😫❤️

  • @alyssasprague8538
    @alyssasprague8538 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Man, I haven't heard this song in yeeeeaaarrrss. The last time I listened to it was when I first got an mp3 player. And when my mom broke it, that was the last time I heard this. Brought back some memories tbh

  • @victorsahni2071
    @victorsahni2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Big Girls Don't Cry by Fergie is awesome. I love this song

  • @KaylinMayer1121
    @KaylinMayer1121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This song makes me cry cuz this was my moms favorite song before she past.

  • @Jasonchudj
    @Jasonchudj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Big girls DO cry ,when their hearts are breaking

    • @izzyhernandez8802
      @izzyhernandez8802 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      true

    • @charlottemay9058
      @charlottemay9058 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      or their nails

    • @Jasonchudj
      @Jasonchudj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Charlotte May or their legs

    • @romanpheniox3198
      @romanpheniox3198 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sia

    • @huskyloverlilac
      @huskyloverlilac 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      zhubox03 yep.... like me...
      Rip Great Grandpa Don... And Great Grandma Pam, AND uncle Dug, miss you guys more then you may have ever known...
      You probably know now...
      expessally at night... while im staring and my own great grandpas shirt and remembering the last hospital visit before you were gone.
      God i wish i could see them again..
      But i know... they will always be with me...
      In my heart..
      As they dance in the sky's and stars of heaven... ✨

  • @chloe_3787
    @chloe_3787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    Remeber, big girls do cry. We cry when we get hurt. We cry when we get mad. We cry when people break our hearts. We cry when we just can't take this world anymore.
    Girls reading this, it's important you know that. We walk this planet earth with fake smiles plastered on our faces everyday. "Oh, I'm fine," we lie when we're really broken inside. Do not believe that smile because every girl hurts, and you aren't alone. When you're alone, crying into your pillow because you're at your absolute breaking point, you are not different than any other girl because somewhere, she is doing and thinking the exact same thing.
    It's okay to cry because this world is cruel. Life is tough, but you are tougher, so cry it out then pick yourself back up and keep going because you are not alone.

    • @arianaryals2275
      @arianaryals2275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Guys hurt just as bad.....I'm a girl btw lol Guys will hide behind a fake smile too. We all do at some point.

    • @lakshmiandraca8395
      @lakshmiandraca8395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That was deep

    • @aweirdbobadrink3824
      @aweirdbobadrink3824 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Reading this brought me to tears. Thank you, I needed this😌

    • @Poisoned_Noodle
      @Poisoned_Noodle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ariana Ryals can’t girls have anything without men being the center of everything? This is a girl trying to empower other girls who are hurting. If you’re aching to help the hurting guys then go do it. This is a post for girls, under a TH-cam song for girls

    • @AleshaaRees
      @AleshaaRees 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So True

  • @sydneykindrex921
    @sydneykindrex921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    these early 2000s songs of my childhood really do be relevant these days

  • @IzzaPlays
    @IzzaPlays 8 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I remember listening to this in 3rd grade...

  • @nairabittencourt6125
    @nairabittencourt6125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This song represents so well my therapy process. At some point it was like I was staring at my young self and telling her that I'm gonna miss her like a child misses their blanket but I've got to get a move on...some old monsters in our lives need to be defeated; some will always be there, we only need to learn how to live with them. And it's okay to hold hands to them sometimes...

  • @skyjoy07
    @skyjoy07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was my anthem when I was like 11. Now I’m 20 and it hits a bit different 😭❤️

  • @davidvalente1289
    @davidvalente1289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is absolutely a great song.I play guitar,and I love playing this song.

  • @ashliecolon7736
    @ashliecolon7736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I listened to this song when I was younger and didn't not know what any of it meant and I just now came across it and it discribes everything I'm gonna through now I know what this song is about and it just brings back so many memories and to all my beautiful ladies out there keep you head up high you are all beautiful 👑 and you are all queens 💕💕

  • @truewomanamerican7559
    @truewomanamerican7559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This makes me cry i miss my childhood listening to this song lol

  • @sportslife1710
    @sportslife1710 10 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    As a little kid I always cried because my parents fought A LOT around me, they always told each other that they wanted to divorce, so I always went to my room and cried when no one was around. Now, for some reason I have a strong personality to where I don't cry at all anymore, unless I get seriously injured or something like that.

    • @staytrippyman7384
      @staytrippyman7384 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same with me i never really cry anymore

    • @juliettemartinez-bw5sw
      @juliettemartinez-bw5sw 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same :)

    • @holimora
      @holimora 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My parents used to fight in front of me when I was a child. I remember that I used to think that I was the only person who has not her parents together. But now they are together again since the last year. At first, I was afraid because I didn't want that my 6-years-old brother suffer the same, but now I think the thing's going fine.

    • @toychicaorblackcloud4222
      @toychicaorblackcloud4222 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep i did that, too. But now my parents still fight and I'm only 10 yrs old and i don't cry I'm a big girl. Big girls don't cry. I just lock me and my lil bro n sis in my room with a lot of food and drinks

    • @kobelipsey0616
      @kobelipsey0616 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For all of yall its not good to hold in tears cause it just gonna hurt more I used to that and I still kind of do it but I'm tryna work on it

  • @rc4854
    @rc4854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Makes so much more sense today than it did a decade ago.❤️YES!! I finally love ME!! I found my Peace and Serenity through all of the chaos!! Big Girls Don’t Cry.❤️

  • @uniquekid401
    @uniquekid401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Sad how thoughtful/meaningful lyrics like these aren't mainstream anymore.

  • @maryclaireemar9679
    @maryclaireemar9679 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3257

    2019 listeners? 😊😊

    • @hajarkhochtali386
      @hajarkhochtali386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Meeee LOL

    • @erikw7476
      @erikw7476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      No one cares what year your hearing this. These kind of comments are stupid

    • @hnamteihnamtei6801
      @hnamteihnamtei6801 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mee..

    • @dellahassan8893
      @dellahassan8893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me

    • @autumnbear1636
      @autumnbear1636 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this song I'm always gonna listen to it no matter what haha

  • @haleyjo903
    @haleyjo903 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I re discover this song every year or so and fall in live with it all over again

  • @allgettingblendedwizardry7308
    @allgettingblendedwizardry7308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It'll always be in my playlist.