I was married to a narcissist for 23 years and barely survived. My DM exhibits some of the same narc behaviour and it does trigger me to heal myself but I can also feel his love for me at the same time and know I am helping to heal him as well.
@Vim Raj. Before the soul is ripe, there are a couple of "things" often, in need of happening. One is a deep hurting by abandonment, or abuse realized. It usually takes a few bumps in the road before our soul is ripe. And who's showing us these bumps? Them. See what I mean? The one who loves you the most and has shared many lives with you knows you in all nooks and crannies of your being. Bingo, time for pushing buttons, it's all a tango dance. For that you need two, see?
This is infinitely true, and is my experience! It’s actually beautiful IMO, as I am a “Solo” soul. I am innately a catalyst, apparently created to help to transform others, thus love everyone. My soul alone is whole/complete. Similar to many others; Dalai Lama 14, for instance. Eye just saw 2.22 (on the clock, avoiding timestamp here) before I searched Falsies, and I just became your 👍🏼 #222. I’ll take that as divine confirmation. 😇💎 Be healthy, well, and wise, All! ♾☯️🧠⚖️💜☮️♾
Gimme a break, please. It is connecting to your true emotions if you don’t hate him at least one point, it is co-dependant worship. Worship yourself, not a bad person ”giving you lessons”. You can get ”lessons” from the every other guy who doesn’t appreciate you. Nothing special about that.
@@TaijaT76 not on a soul level you can't. People tend to really learn lessons and transform themselves when it's on a soul /spiritual connection, not just some random person off the street's where there's no depth to the connection. A random guy can't just awaken a person's spiritual side. The reason she is thankful is because the connection has grown and elevated her even possible transformation. She has done the spiritual work needed to elevate herself with the help of the catalyst/ twinflame or karmic whatever. This is a spiritual thing swewtie. You maybe should be congratulating her instead of unknowingly shaming her. You never hate your twinflame false or not there is always a love there. If you've come to love yourself more, how can you have room anywhere in your heart for hate? At the end of a twinflame journey, false or not, there is no room for hate only love. Hate cannot heal other's. Only love can do that. Once you have elevated to such heights and awareness, you definitely will thank the other individual. Your soul will want to automatically if you're in the right space.
I just came to the realization that he was my false twin all along. I needed the lesson, cause I didn't love myself. Lol he was only a catalyst for my growth, spiritual awakening, and healing. As soon as I ascended, I realized how toxic, low vibrational, & fake it all was. He's a user. A narc. A liar. Manipulative. He didn't care about me or how I felt. Lol I finally met my REAL twinflame a few months back, and the connection is so intense❗ INSTANT soul recognition. He's literally the yang to my yin. The male version of myself, I am in loveeeeee. 😭😂
When I broke up with the one I thought was my true love I realized I didn't love myself enough because I was putting up with things from her that wouldn't have come from someone that truly loved me ... I realized I was in love with a narcissist. Now I'm free and I'm happy
I feel this! I have been disrespected and dealt with things that I never spoke up on that truly hurt me, but no more. I realized if she truly loved me the things she said and did would never have happened. I didn't love me eff enough to set appropriate boundaries or speak up when I should have. I gave endlessly and got the bare minimum in return, out of habit smh (was raised by a narc mother). Cheers to true tf and new beginnings.
Three months ago was when my TF and I broke up. She sure was a narcissist. I've always wondered if that was something that could be fixed or improved and I realize that it wasn't my job to do all the work for her. False twin or not, the love is there regardless of the BS and both people have to want to make the relationship work. Not just one person.
@@Melbester9 I don't know. The thing is that the relationship was firing on all cylinders at first and the potential was immense. But like I said, one person can't do all the work. That's really a loss for the other. Narcissist or not.
@@davidkoziar1811 Yeah. The Narc in the long who is the False Twin loses in the end eventually because they can't love the other person and only the True Twin victim loves them unconditionally. They get Karma and they don't believe in karma. I do. However after the Spiritual Awakening which happened with me, you lose attraction for this person and it happened with me. In the end the True Twin victim wins because you have self worth and self love. You didnt do anything wrong. They did. I'm not into my False Twin anymore after my awakening. She was gorgeous in her younger days but her current self she isnt good looking and even my friend told me. She isn't worth it. I permanently blocked her after she umblocked me on Vday. I did everything and even went to Dominican Republic for the holidays when she discarded/blocked/cheated on me and she does nothing. She's careless. A liar and a con artist. Toxic double clingy blood sucking demon. She's unhappy. Narcs are. She didn't even want to be my friend. What a shitty piece of human being. They just take take and take. Never give back. Full demonic Jezebel Spirit. No man would ever deal with her crap and I love her uncondtionally but now cut in half. Good riddance.
@E. ther I love her channel. If it has been hijacked and you have people like eve lorgen who talk about the alien love bite then HOW THE HELL do you know who is who and who is your real lover? Because despite the alien love bite a)my mother was abducted and has chips in her sinus cavity since the 70s. b) I am possibly a hybrid with my grandfather having 0negative blood c) I met my twin flame while stuck with a long term abusive narcissistic bf... Now my twin flame has turned to drugs since he was mk ultra'd by being thrown into a psych ward and drugged heavily to cover up s*xual abuse by his father growing up. He let him know he was aware of the abuse and has been called nuts by the entire family. His father shapeshifts into a reptilian too and is a child abuser. Sooooo....ANYBODY? A little help please? lol my situation is a mess. Also I have had e.t. contact with ufos and seen beings in the past while astral porjecting and channelling BY ACCIDENT. Hence my channel name but i have yet to mention all the alien stuff.
True twin can have these problems too if their heart is closed, fear to love again and its mirroring the other twin who is acting codependent because lack of love.
I think the difference might be that a true twin doesn’t want anything from you or try to take from you every time you guys “connect”. Your true twin will try to protect you while as a false twin doesn’t give a shit if you’re dead.
Think so!!hurt. Many times!!egoistic!attention hungry!!who doesn't want attention..real or unreal..widout presence what is their!!u cud in a distant relationship!!emotional expression issues
My husband is a TAKER!! He TAKES ALL My worries and problems away🥰🙌🏻 GIVES me but shows me all his LOVE! Our plans are on point 🙌🏻WANTS TO SEE ME WIN, GROW & SHINE💕! We want the same things in life and we go for them together! And he not only tells me he loves me! But SHOWS ME🙏🏼!!! Iam blessed! And very confident that iam with my TWIN FLAME 🔥 ty missy for this one 😍🥰💯
That's what I love hearing, i want that all of that please enjoy every second 10 times more for each of us that are still patiently waiting, love to you both 💖
It could also be that your twin is in a very low ego based frequency appearing to you in 3d as "false". Remedy is the same- let go, give them to the universe with love to be healed with no expectations and focus on connecting to the peace in your soul. Let it transform . Big hugs to anyone hurting
My DM exhibits all the attributes of a false twin but we have been a catalyst for each other to heal. I love him unconditionally but have also released him. Still feel like he is the real deal.
This is such an important video... I got involved with... a narc. I was thinking twin-flame for the longest time. But all the points above cover how I see my person. The connection is sooo strong. I had to fight the idea of soul ties and the building of the fake connection through intermittent reinforcement and push pull abuse. I'm over the codependency now which was the insidious glue that stuck us together. This video helps me see clearly and get past it all. My person taught me so much about myself. I can now see them and accept the scorpion for what it is. They are out of my life now. God bless.
Thank you for this. I just recently got out of a relationship where I thought he was my TF. At the beginning of it all I saw all the TF signs (ie. dreams of him before meeting him, 11:11 Angel numbers, etc) but from the start he rejected me (red flag) but I persisted and kept pushing until he gave in. I have learned so much from my false TF about self love that I do not regret meeting him. After breaking up with my false TF out of self love, I've come to rediscover my real TF which is my ex before my false TF who I've parted ways with for years now but never stopped loving. It's true...be thankful for your false TF because they will be the catalyst to push you for growth and towards your real TF.
How did you meet your true twin so soom after leaving your false twin so fast? I just left my False Twin Flame who we had the same hobbies. Now i'm searching for my true twin flame with the same hobbies.
Melbester9 Stop searching. Your twin doesn’t come when you want them to, they come when you need them to. You just have to do the work on yourself so you can recognize the signs and be open to the relationship; that is, IF you even have a twin flame.
@@Melbester9 i already met my true twin WAAAAy before i met my false twin, but married my false twin and my real twin was watching and kept in touch asked to meet up, so we did, and had a good time,, then shes done a runner, and completely blocked me from everything.. hahahah the irony of life.. lol
Lol I now realize I met my false twin flame in 2014 and finally got away in 2018. He was so nice in the beginning but then became mean and nasty. Ghosted me. Would take take take take take and NEVER give. Only would come around for wed. I started to feel useless. He was definitely the catalyst for my awakening. I met my real one in February of 2019. I love him so much. We’re getting married in 2021❤️
Thank u so much for this video. I'm convinced now I was dealing with a false twin flame. It was one of my most difficult connections I ever had. I cannot believe I was so blind for so many years. Everything you saying is exactly what happened to me.
I am so glad I found this video. These are exactly what my ex was, which I could understand after 8 years of getting drained. And I could recognise how toxic our relationship was after I met my real twin.
I'm having difficulty believing I've spent the last 4 years involved with a narcissist and not the tf I thought she was. I fell for every one of her lies. Every point you make strikes a cord. There's a series of very deep wounds left in the wake of her aftermath. 1. She took my energy, love, attention, affection...everything. When we were done...she kept my personal belongings, as well. Underwear, socks, belts, pants...camera's...everything. 2. I only got empty promises from her. She never gave up anything to better us. That was always on me. Always. 3. After a few months of being back together and happy, she would find a reason to bail...and she did go sleep with other people. Had full on relationships. It's funny you say that when it's time for them to give. They always find a way not to. 4. When I finally overcame many of my struggles and grew to a place where I loved myself, she called another man her person. 5. I have dreams of doing things that I wanted her involved in. She always promised to, but always found an excuse not to. She said she was interested in the same things, but none of it ever happened. Including the promises she made about spending the rest of our lives together. 6. I've asked this question about, nearly, everything she's done to me. I don't believe anything she said was real. There's something else I wanted to mention that I didn't hear you speak on. A narcissist will never accept lasting accountability. You might get an apology. I'll bet that, if you do, it's a back-handed apology. Not anything genuine, and if you don't accept the apology or question it, you'll get everything thrown back in your face. No matter what has happened, everything will be your fault...even if you have physical proof that shows otherwise. Thank you for posting this. I realize this is old, but I needed to see it or it wouldn't have shown up. lol. Sadly, I just don't buy into the twin flame relationship anymore. This isn't love. No one that loved you would treat this way and making excuses about it being horrible and difficult because it's "divine" and you have a purpose as twins is an appeal to ridicule. That feeling you have when you're with your "twin" is an elaborate hoax. Your deceiver is well aware of his/her appeal to the opposite sex and they play on it with devilish precision. They are skilled predators...and they prey on the weak. Please, people, I know we all want to believe we're bound for something extraordinary. I know we all want to believe we're meant for something more. You can change all of that...BY YOURSELF! Twin flames are a lie. It's just something else that can't be proven but you're expected to believe is real. You don't need to rely on the love or affection or attention of another to succeed and success is not measured by the number of zero's at the end of your bank account. Find your passion, pursue it...unapologetically. Don't rely on others for happiness, create it yourself. Love yourself, you are worth it.
My false twin flame girl was definitely a taker and not a giver at all. She only came to me whenever she needed either my time, money, energy, etc. Thanks for the enlightenment! I am done with her now. And I am moving on to find my real twin flame.
@Carol Jenny. To find the answer to your question, one needs to go beyond the limits of physical form and time. During numerous lifetimes sharing experiences, in love or hate, or both, a deep connection develops that is imprinted in the souls of such a couple. There can be true love, true hate, power games, all sorts of lives shared together, in all colors of the rainbow. Often, it happens that the roles of taker and giver are reversed, in another lifetime of such a couple, offering an opportunity to realize that it needs to come to an end to repeat this pattern, repeating the moves without end. Until the penny drops and insight is dawning.
My ex was 100% a false twin flame people even asked if we were literal twins.. i was so caught up in the fantasy of it and ignored how badly he treated me until one day i finally came to my senses. .. it ended 2 years ago and i am so so grateful it did because i have met my true twin now.
When did you meet your true twin and where? What was it like with your False TF? It's almost a year since my False TF left me and she and I were 🇩🇴 Dominican. Painful experience.
Thank you SO MUCH! I have been battling with this question for a while! And I have watched countless videos that all gave mixed messages. THIS video made it VERY clear what I am dealing with, with NO question in my mind now! Thank you thank you thank you! 🙏 Now I can move forward with a lightened heart and know that I am on the right path! Namaste 🙏
I fell in love with a narcissist. I thought he was my twin flame (and to an extent I still do). I realized what we had in common was we both needed constant validation. I gave too much love and he only knew how to take. I was insecure and so I mistook him love bombing and complimenting me for loving me. I was too loving and he liked it at first because it validated his ego but in the end it drove him away because it was too real and he was scared of it. In a way we were like two sides of the same coin. He once told me that broken people like broken people. He then abandoned me and discarded me and I cried for months. He was a very cruel person but he made me realize I needed to love myself.
I'm going through this exact same thing myself! Dated someone I thought was the one for 3 weeks, it became very intense very very fast we both were like ,,Omg this is the real thing''! I was a bit down a couple of times while we dated because I was being cautious and didn't trust them right away because of my past and I've never been treated well before and then within 24 hours they decide they don't want me anymore just out of the blue, and I finally began to trust them and because they saw me being sad 3 times they couldn't handle it. They only liked me while I was happy and everything was fine, that is not real love, someone who really loves you will take your bad days with the good days no matter what.
@@carolholton3219 wow Carol so crazy how many people have the exact situation. Down to the very details. Only downfall is that I had a baby by him.. my 1st child and he abandoned me. It's been an emotional rollercoaster!
Your journey has begun. I had this experience with narcissist who love bombed and only took. In 2017. once you heal and do your work the energy will fall away. the twin energy will come
I can’t stop crying...I was so fooled by him. I trusted him because I was seduced by passion in the start. The thumb test about ‘is this act from love’ really touched my heart
My twin flame triggers me or”wakes me up” every time I see or hear her. But deep down inside I got unconditional love for her wishing to Be with her. Like Romeo and Juliet
I wish I had seen this video a couple years ago! Anyway, even though I learned it the hard way and for real, it’s good to listen/see someone describing a situation exactly as it was experienced. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for going in depth of a false Twin flame. You are all correct on points . Unfortunately I did not Know who and what twin flame is when I was going thru my experience . But there’s hope out there and now I know what it is . Bless you
My Twin Flame is in separation from me now which is part of the growing stage. She sent me this video to throw me off and says she is a “false twin flame”, and it only showed me how much of a true twin flame she is. She is my everything.
I can completely relate! Wow amazing! I spent 16 yrs with a narcissist that pretended to have a soul connection with me but it’s exactly as you say!!!! But my authentic twin soul helped me break free from him! Now we both are healing and reconnecting. 🙏☺️💕💕💕🥰
Questions about spiritual awakening experiences and a scorpio from my past but the dramatic experiences and confirmations beyond tarot have been amazing!
I recently got out of a false twin relationship and it was awful, but helped me grow so much...These signs hit me so hard. He was a user, manipulator, soul sucker. It was such a strange hypocritical connection where he would urge me to be a better person and to treat him better, but once I started working on myself and becoming more compassionate, open-minded, and relaxed, he would turn around and tell me I'm not acting "myself," constantly remind me of all my prior faults and shortcomings, and try to convince me that's who I really am and always will be. It was so confusing to have someone constantly tell you to be nicer, more understanding, to communicate better, and once you learn and grow and check off all those boxes, to have them change their tune and all of a sudden miss who you "used to be." I was always either too bad or too good, whichever one fit the story to make it so I was in the wrong and he was the one who deserved pity. I got the lessons I needed out of that relationship and finally ran for the hills!!! Good riddance! 😂
my false twin was none romantic....just after she suddeny dissapeared i realised that i am an empath...9 months later my real twin apeared...there is no mistaking your real twin flame you just know yet you still seek validation...things start to happen that you question your own sanity...
and thank goodness i was off the hook of that person! she was the worst relationship i ever had! and for now, fortunately, probably, so much i can feel my real twin with my new relationship. every reason to be the twin flame is with her, with our relationship. hopefully. thanx for your vid. new subscriber here.
Thanks so much love starts within. Some need a relationship to validate themselves not self sufficient. trauma bonded cutting the ties. That's true all is well. 💞 I needed to hear this.
All the actions i have had to endure scream that he is not my twin...and i finally realize this by listening to you. Thankyou for giving me clarity and real truth. God bless you.
Wow.. this makes so much sense, and helps so much - I have gone through all that - both "false" and "real" and the differences are exactly as you are describing. I am grateful for both though :) Thank you :)
Bang on! My false twin flame told me he had no feelings for me. Meanwhile my true twin flame told me years ago he loved me, he came back into my life this year and again told me how much he’s attracted to me and how there’s nothing he wouldn’t do for me.
wow... spot on this information, you shared here... I guess before, I met 4 years ago my false twin flame or karmic partner, but you have confirmed it to me. Yes, I sorted him out beginning of this year after 3 years of on and off commitment and it feels so good after I released him, though it has been a far distance relationship anyway... I have learnt so much because of it and I lost money, but I get now the opposite of him and been very happy to see the big difference between both situations and appreciate it very much right now... Thank you so much...
What happened with your False Twin? Are you guys on equal terms and friends? I'm trying to sort that out with my False Twin who both and I were from 🇩🇴. What happened with both of you.
@@Melbester9 Since end of last year I didn't heard anything from him, which asked me to doing my own decision, like I said before. So we have no contact at all and I am just happy with someone right now and don't think about my twin flame, because I need to heal from his behavior during the last years... Apart from the money he still owes me, there is no reason for keeping in touch and I forgave him, to free myself. A very strong lesson I learned from it...
@@michaelairvine8594 Ahh I see. Yeah I'm healing as well but I'm actually doing quite well now. My False Twin Flame and I were from 🇩🇴 Dominican Republic. We met this past October and we knew each other since May. It was such amagnetic pull between us and we literally shared all of the same hobbies. Cosplay, Video Games and everything. Anime too but Dominican. She was 15 months older than me. I'm a Gemini. She's a Cancer. Ana was her name. It was devestating because I was going to marry her. I brought her a necklace half heart chain with our names on it before we met. Such an abusive psycho she was that even my 🇩🇴 Dominican mom hated her. Her younger self was so gorgeous and pretty that she's perfect but her current self is getting even worse and more ugly looking but it's her False Self as the False Twin Flame NARC(Narcissist) she was. Cyberstalking and manipulated me for months on purpose. Everything Narc abuse you can think of and gaslights. Denies wrongdoings. Then when I went to Dominican Republic for holidays, cheating on me going out for drinks with friends, drinking and blocking/discarded me. Then on VDay she unblocked me. At that point on. I permanently blocked her. All she did was take take take and never give. I was never enough and I even traveled to DR to see her and did no communication, no effort whatsover. Didn't even talk or know me as a person. I even tried to mingle her with my family. What a joke. I permanently blocked her after I told her the shitty behavior and she threatened to permanently block me after I told her we should stay as BF with benefits and she was being a dick about it. Oh right, Narcs have no friends. Just supply. Playing the block/unblock game. Screw that. After my Spiritual Awakening, that's how it led to the end between us. She sucked all my energy prior to that. Good news is that her looks is fading and she's looking a lot worse than her younger self. Narcs get worse with age and she was my False Twin. That's pretty much what happens after the awakening, you lose attraction for the person a lot less. Imagine what my real twin will look like and be with my False Twin's younger self and my real twin current self and seeing Facebook posts that people that met their true twin(OTF) they look amazing. Her Karma is coming. Good riddance. No guy would deal with her. She's only good for one nighter and not for a relationship/date/marriage.😵 She's such an idiot and loser now. Mentally Ill Narc as a False. Only makeup keeping her looks alive. Funny thing is no man deserves her and I'm the only one that loves her uncondtionally. Yet treated like crap. She didn't even care about being a friend. Oh that's right because Narcs take and never give. What a moron. So glad I permanently blocked her. I'll unblock her when my meet my real twin.
My false twin was a good person... just not good for me. This video sounds more like a Narcissistic relationship than a false twin relationship to me. Don't get me wrong... dating a narcissist still results in a lot of spiritual growth, healing, and reflection.
I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist when i met my false twin. My false twin twin doesn't realize it but he helped me a lot throughout that relationship and eventually I built up the courage to leave. My false twin had also been in a relationship too hence why it didn't work out. I thought he was my twin because I had never had such a great, fun connection with anyone in my life and I always noticed similarities in numbers and life events. (i believe in numerology, and i also don't believe in such things as coincidences, everything happens for a reason) There was just a lot of mirroring and it happened all the time, not just with numbers. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and at the end of the day I felt like the bad guy and i feel used. A twin flame isn't supposed to make you feel that way. I learned a lot about myself with my false twin but what once was great eventually pulled out the worst in both of us. Dishonesty, disloyalty, deceit and sadness. When I left he said "this feels so cold, and i know we're not cold people" but it had to be done. it is what it is
Thank you! Although I disagree with some of these points - I recently turned my back on a false twin flame. I actually believed he was my twin flame for the last two years. We never had a public relationship and he was very in and out. The last time I had him in my home I told him the way I felt in my heart and saw him the next day with someone else on his Instagram stories. I detached in that very moment it took me a few months to heal. He also never attributed to my growth within the realm of my business. He knows the importance to me. I felt energetically taken from but only the last time we were together because of his treatment of me afterwards. Well I finally learned to do was to mirror has behavior but before he came towards me. I don’t look at any of his work on the Internet nor do I click on his stories after that devastating time. I realize that he doesn’t want to public relationship with me nor does he plan on building a life with me therefore I have detached completely. I saw him the other day and literally walked out without even looking. A painful decision but one that I made for myself and my inner core happiness. Another thing you may want to note that was extremely powerful was how a false twin flame Would never try to affect your business or your monetary status in a negative way just so they could get back in again. A false twin flame will do this I’ve had it happen to me twice in my life and it has been devastating both times.
It’s too easy to deceive oneself and say what someone does is deep down an action of love. it’s crucial to be honest with oneself and face the truth. This gonna save so many years of our life.
Thank you sis. You nailed it for me. Your the best! I appreciate this so much. I finally know and now I feel free. That's so priceless. Bless you sis, bless you!
Hi Yvonne, Thank you again for this great information. I told my false twin flame that I was glad that I met him. He had led me to meet my real TF. My false twin flame was definitely a catalyst.
What ever happened to your False after that? My False Twin came back again but I already set boundaries for friendship. After she left. Is there away to coexist with both False after meeting the real twin?
I just broke up with my so called twin flame. She drinks too much and calls me names when she was drunk and then the next day twists it making it my fault. She is a master at flipping the script like most females i have met. She mocks me because i am close to God and she makes fun of me especially when shes drunk. I had enough. She always did things for me and always used it against me. I did things for her and it was ok because it was her. I used to live in HER world. I am now free and feel like a big weight is taken off of me. I pray for her to heal and break free from her chains of drinking(everynight) Just thought id get this off my chest.
After 27 yrs and 3 kids later... u have just described my narcissistic ex husband. After 18 yrs of marriage i went to work. And 6 yrs later after trying to do everything at home and working.. he had put me through so much.. i requested him to leave. Thank you. You hit it dead on
A lot of narcs are masquerading as twins including my ex thankfully after 8 years of his abuse I've finally clawed back some self respect and I've cut him off .I'm so relieved to have seen this as its confirmed it completely for me .Thankyou 💜🙏🙏
Wow, man I really thought she was my twin but this video literally step by step described my x relationship!!! It's crazy how much you can love someone who doesn't love you back the same and even is toxic for you! Maybe we were toxic for each other but I feel I love her at a soul level which is probably why she was the catalyst that awakened me!!! This process is really mind blowing, I'm still feeling the separation and pain from letting go rt now! I know now she is definitely not meant to be my perfect match but she was the perfect catalyst!!! Kind of sad but a little hopeful as I develope into who I am really meant to be I will manafest in my true love and life journey partner!!! I pray for this and choose to be positive even tho my X is so deep into my soul!!! I write music and I find myself writing about my experience with her! I don't know if embracing what I went through w/ her is good or bad but I realize it has to come out!!! Thank you for this video!!!🙏
its simple really if you have negative things come up because of them.. heal it of you grow as a person it hardly matters if they are your twin or not.. a twin can run as far as possible but they will always come back..,If you are dealing with what rises within you.. In any relationship cut off any expectations and deal with the negative mentality that rises up.. The purpose of twin flame is to deal with past errors and rise up to a better you! if you do that you are ready for any type of relationship.. mission accomplished..
Wow...Thank you for that eye opener ...You made me realize ive given everything to a man who doesnt even deserve me let alone my love and loyalty all these years ...Thank you so much and may God Bless you, this was the message God meant for me to hear today on my birthday ..What a wonderful gift you just gave me 😀 Thank you , God and the universe .I can FINALLY move on with happiness and peace in my heart .....Smiles
I love this reading, thanks for uploading it. Most people need to recognize the traits of narcissistic behavior. Don't fall for the proclamation of love and stability.....they will never stay for long.
Omg I was praying about recognizing the truth I needed to know..and I saw this video pop up on my feed.he was my false twin..everything you said Is accurate everything is how my ex was .I'm. Mind blown..omg
They take forgiveness, understanding, compassion, giving, admiration, emotional vulnerability and more. Yvonne, I agree 100% with all you have mentioned in this video. :)
Yessss. I had a false one for 11 yrs Interesting enough that we think like and feel the same vibrations and thoughts!!! Yess Narcisist and Egocentric!!! Thank you for this information 🙏👏
Do Weird coincidences happen with false twin flames too? Running into him in a shopping mall after blocking him, he moved to live 2 mins away from my workplace without knowing I work there.. 1111 repentance... But we keep arguing and he moved in to someone else after breaking my heart..
You describe my child father. I thank GOD I cut him off 5yrs ago. His true color did not show until I was pregnant. I had low self-esteem and no confidence. Today I am dwelling with my spirit. Finding myself , grounding myself through meditation. Learning to love myself. Oh boy he sees the change, the pounds are dropping and he hates it. Especially when he see me stay humble when he shows anger and I do not provoke him or give him a motive to lash out or treat me with emotional abuse.
You are amazing and so so TRUE... I got so so damaging and TWIN FROM HELL is false twin and I give give give on the end you get feeling emotional sexual financial and emotional abuse by FALSE TWIN.Ty and on point 100/ ...They will SHOW exactly when your about to GET HAPPY LUCKY ETC
Sadly, I lived with the false twin flame for 9 long years of my life. He drained me and when I broke up with him I moved to another state and that’s when I met the twin flame after 6 months living in the new state, but he is married ☹️. We dated for almost two years and now we are friends, but keep talking about the memories that no longer can come back because I refuse to be his lover.
Sometimes False Twins are just Lost Souls, looking for Help! It is always about US! But what we can do for the False Twin to recognize his past hurts, child hood drums and work thru his issues to become a better person. Sometimes we are Divinely guided to help other people in need even if they ate False Twin, that one day could turn out to be a real Twin Flame. If Devinely guided and at the right time.
I met my Twin in November '18. At the time, we were both very Unawakened; and completely unaware of the connection. Unfortunately, she's a die-hard Atheist; and a very classic Scorpio. But the worst part of the journey, is not the separation; but her denial of the connection. It's like walking up to a ballerina; and telling them to disassemble, & reassemble an M16 Assault Rifle in less than 5 minutes. In some ways, I've tried to move on. I've noticed, though, since she tried to move on recently; and it was exactly as I was told it'd be, Karmic... The more she tries to run from the connection, the more she winds up in Karmic situations. I've well.& truly given up the chase. Surrender came knocking; and then I saw my Twin on the dating site, where we originally crossed paths. I was suddenly hit with a wave of intensity; and an urge to run. I guess, I'm now becoming the Runner...
It’s soooo hard to tell when people put on this very strong act that they are everything you want and need, it’s so strange like why would they do that? Why not just be themselves - if you don’t like me THAT much, then just let me know!
Love is a lie what is love a man can tell u he loves you and tomorrow hes walked out the door or cheated or something how many people say they love each other and leave each other
We r all alone...born single..die single...be ur own twin flame! That the key to happiness...if it's meant to be then it will...! When u find happiness in ur own heart n learn humility u wont depend on romance for happiness.
love is not words to stimulate the ego love can be felt without words even being spoken. That is the difference between material love and heartfelt love, one can be felt the other can not.
"...they show up at your doorstep at 10pm on a Saturday" Me: pauses video in shock and stare out the window for 2 minutes because that literally happened two days ago
Wow..He checks off every single point...He gives nothing takes but takes everything..can not stand when I'm inspired because it's not his version of success and he thinks I'm weak and annoying...but then he says he loves me...it's so toxic and confusing...
I have a similar experience with someone and he’s always saying I’m annoying and I’m not good at things but he does profess love. It’s horrible. I’m undergoing a spiritual awakening and he is no not going to be on my level anymore ☠️Much 💕 love
You are doing an excellent job describing things in English. Keep going!!! You are expressing yourself very exactly and I greatly appreciate your perspectives stated here.💖
My favorite memory with my twin flame was in the dream world where when I realized I was in a dream after talking with him for hours and hours in a beach like setting on a sunset (also that is so not my scene I’m not one of those type of girls that’s like oh my God the beach so but it was really pretty) so I realized I was dreaming and I was like wait what am I doing talking to you when I can go and fly somewhere and explore and stuff so I start doing that and he grabs my hand and I looked back and he says “you can’t just go off and do whatever you want” and I say why not this is just a dream and he goes “but it’s so much more than that” and then I wake up and that’s when in the physical world I actually started liking him even though before he was just my boss and since then even though I don’t work there anymore I’ve had several dreams with him in them still playing the part of my twin flame and when I think of him there’s a lot of love there so much so that it makes me want to cry with happiness sometimes but there’s still a lot of work to do to get back with him lol I wrote “me” instead of him 😂😂😂
Thank u Twin Flame Spyrit, much appreciated. I had to break away last year from a toxic, narcissistic who was playing his physical games with me. I decided to work on my own inner self/soul self healing, once I cut him out of my life and other people too. I feel great love my new life. I have so much self love and value my own inner self worth. I have had some decent past relationships but I was very stubborn didn't want to get married. Also when u have so many toxic narcissistic people around u, u cannot see the good people around u. When u truly work on your own inner self/soul/ self healing u see so much and learn alot about yourself and your life gets better each day, u really see the bounce and much more. I forgive everyone as we all make mistakes no one is perfect, but I will never let them into my circle/ life ever again. Peace, blessings, love & light to u.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit thank u because u are teaching us all the signs of fake twin flame. We ten to be blinded by what we think true love is but it is not at all, it's toxic narcissistic people playing physical games with our mind, body and soul but most of all our hearts. It is wonderful people as yourself teaching us all so that we do not fall for theses types of people. U have been given amazing gifts and I wish u all the very best within your life. Peace, blessings, love & light to u.
Hi tks for your videos. I didn't understand anything about your subject until I had two false twin flames. They didn't Love me..."it weren't actions of Love!" I am alone and you are right I am now willing only to Love myself and only want my true twin! 🤔🤗
I met a narcissist and took him to be my twin flame ....he destroyed me emotionally.... psychologically and socially...
You are not alone love, your heart is so big. Love of self is the greatest understanding
Same here 😥
Wow we both was going through the same thing... ! It's so crazy
I was married to a narcissist for 23 years and barely survived. My DM exhibits some of the same narc behaviour and it does trigger me to heal myself but I can also feel his love for me at the same time and know I am helping to heal him as well.
Happened to me too
Hear this Carefully. You Awakened because your Soul was ready it was your time NOT because of Them.
Truest statement ever
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@Vim Raj. Before the soul is ripe, there are a couple of "things" often, in need of happening. One is a deep hurting by abandonment, or abuse realized. It usually takes a few bumps in the road before our soul is ripe. And who's showing us these bumps? Them. See what I mean? The one who loves you the most and has shared many lives with you knows you in all nooks and crannies of your being. Bingo, time for pushing buttons, it's all a tango dance. For that you need two, see?
This is infinitely true, and is my experience! It’s actually beautiful IMO, as I am a “Solo” soul. I am innately a catalyst, apparently created to help to transform others, thus love everyone.
My soul alone is whole/complete.
Similar to many others; Dalai Lama 14, for instance.
Eye just saw 2.22 (on the clock, avoiding timestamp here) before I searched Falsies, and I just became your 👍🏼 #222.
I’ll take that as divine confirmation. 😇💎
Be healthy, well, and wise, All!
♾☯️🧠⚖️💜☮️♾
He's was the "rough edge" the matchstick struck its head across.
I will always love my “false” twin and be grateful to him. Grateful for the lessons, grateful for the growth.
Gimme a break, please. It is connecting to your true emotions if you don’t hate him at least one point, it is co-dependant worship. Worship yourself, not a bad person ”giving you lessons”. You can get ”lessons” from the every other guy who doesn’t appreciate you. Nothing special about that.
EXACTLY!👏🏼
Adrianna Tournat I feel the same way. 💖
I felt this. Amen!
@@TaijaT76 not on a soul level you can't. People tend to really learn lessons and transform themselves when it's on a soul /spiritual connection, not just some random person off the street's where there's no depth to the connection. A random guy can't just awaken a person's spiritual side. The reason she is thankful is because the connection has grown and elevated her even possible transformation. She has done the spiritual work needed to elevate herself with the help of the catalyst/ twinflame or karmic whatever. This is a spiritual thing swewtie. You maybe should be congratulating her instead of unknowingly shaming her. You never hate your twinflame false or not there is always a love there. If you've come to love yourself more, how can you have room anywhere in your heart for hate? At the end of a twinflame journey, false or not, there is no room for hate only love. Hate cannot heal other's. Only love can do that. Once you have elevated to such heights and awareness, you definitely will thank the other individual. Your soul will want to automatically if you're in the right space.
I just came to the realization that he was my false twin all along. I needed the lesson, cause I didn't love myself. Lol he was only a catalyst for my growth, spiritual awakening, and healing. As soon as I ascended, I realized how toxic, low vibrational, & fake it all was. He's a user. A narc. A liar. Manipulative. He didn't care about me or how I felt. Lol I finally met my REAL twinflame a few months back, and the connection is so intense❗ INSTANT soul recognition. He's literally the yang to my yin. The male version of myself, I am in loveeeeee. 😭😂
@anony Me too!
Where is my real Twin Flame that likes the same things I like? I left my False Twin
Exactly the same had happened with me mine don't know narcissist or pshycopath... Finally I am apart.... Waiting him to realize my worth
Long Live Jahseh I agree girl , you are not alone , much love to you ❤️✨✨❤️
You said that very clearly thank you for that
When I broke up with the one I thought was my true love I realized I didn't love myself enough because I was putting up with things from her that wouldn't have come from someone that truly loved me ... I realized I was in love with a narcissist.
Now I'm free and I'm happy
I feel this! I have been disrespected and dealt with things that I never spoke up on that truly hurt me, but no more. I realized if she truly loved me the things she said and did would never have happened. I didn't love me eff enough to set appropriate boundaries or speak up when I should have. I gave endlessly and got the bare minimum in return, out of habit smh (was raised by a narc mother). Cheers to true tf and new beginnings.
Three months ago was when my TF and I broke up. She sure was a narcissist. I've always wondered if that was something that could be fixed or improved and I realize that it wasn't my job to do all the work for her. False twin or not, the love is there regardless of the BS and both people have to want to make the relationship work. Not just one person.
@@davidkoziar1811 Same thing happened with my False Twin from 🇩🇴. She was so toxic and NARC too. Not worth it
@@Melbester9 I don't know. The thing is that the relationship was firing on all cylinders at first and the potential was immense. But like I said, one person can't do all the work. That's really a loss for the other. Narcissist or not.
@@davidkoziar1811 Yeah. The Narc in the long who is the False Twin loses in the end eventually because they can't love the other person and only the True Twin victim loves them unconditionally. They get Karma and they don't believe in karma. I do.
However after the Spiritual Awakening which happened with me, you lose attraction for this person and it happened with me. In the end the True Twin victim wins because you have self worth and self love. You didnt do anything wrong. They did.
I'm not into my False Twin anymore after my awakening. She was gorgeous in her younger days but her current self she isnt good looking and even my friend told me. She isn't worth it. I permanently blocked her after she umblocked me on Vday.
I did everything and even went to Dominican Republic for the holidays when she discarded/blocked/cheated on me and she does nothing. She's careless. A liar and a con artist. Toxic double clingy blood sucking demon. She's unhappy. Narcs are.
She didn't even want to be my friend. What a shitty piece of human being. They just take take and take. Never give back. Full demonic Jezebel Spirit. No man would ever deal with her crap and I love her uncondtionally but now cut in half. Good riddance.
'I met a narcissist, Then I realised I too was one.' facts
How did you find out?
It is a problem with a lot of people. They just like to play the victim. I was one too.
Truth babe 👆🏼
same I feel like I became one. but idk
@E. ther I love her channel. If it has been hijacked and you have people like eve lorgen who talk about the alien love bite then HOW THE HELL do you know who is who and who is your real lover? Because despite the alien love bite a)my mother was abducted and has chips in her sinus cavity since the 70s. b) I am possibly a hybrid with my grandfather having 0negative blood c) I met my twin flame while stuck with a long term abusive narcissistic bf...
Now my twin flame has turned to drugs since he was mk ultra'd by being thrown into a psych ward and drugged heavily to cover up s*xual abuse by his father growing up. He let him know he was aware of the abuse and has been called nuts by the entire family.
His father shapeshifts into a reptilian too and is a child abuser.
Sooooo....ANYBODY? A little help please? lol my situation is a mess. Also I have had e.t. contact with ufos and seen beings in the past while astral porjecting and channelling BY ACCIDENT. Hence my channel name but i have yet to mention all the alien stuff.
Thank you for this video. Today I decided that this connection hurts me more than it brings me happiness. I really needed to hear this.
True twin can have these problems too if their heart is closed, fear to love again and its mirroring the other twin who is acting codependent because lack of love.
I think the difference might be that a true twin doesn’t want anything from you or try to take from you every time you guys “connect”. Your true twin will try to protect you while as a false twin doesn’t give a shit if you’re dead.
Agreed
Think so!!hurt. Many times!!egoistic!attention hungry!!who doesn't want attention..real or unreal..widout presence what is their!!u cud in a distant relationship!!emotional expression issues
Nature Girl Do psychic vampires know they are vampires?
You've described my situation . . very sad today
My husband is a TAKER!! He TAKES ALL My worries and problems away🥰🙌🏻 GIVES me but shows me all his LOVE! Our plans are on point 🙌🏻WANTS TO SEE ME WIN, GROW & SHINE💕! We want the same things in life and we go for them together! And he not only tells me he loves me! But SHOWS ME🙏🏼!!! Iam blessed! And very confident that iam with my TWIN FLAME 🔥 ty missy for this one 😍🥰💯
May you both be absolutely blessed over and over, forever and ever ☺️💗😍🙏
So very special x
O God I'm so waiting on mine
Congratulations
That's what I love hearing, i want that all of that please enjoy every second 10 times more for each of us that are still patiently waiting, love to you both 💖
It could also be that your twin is in a very low ego based frequency appearing to you in 3d as "false". Remedy is the same- let go, give them to the universe with love to be healed with no expectations and focus on connecting to the peace in your soul. Let it transform . Big hugs to anyone hurting
@@TwinFlameSpyrit Much love !
My DM exhibits all the attributes of a false twin but we have been a catalyst for each other to heal. I love him unconditionally but have also released him. Still feel like he is the real deal.
Yes!!
@@gabriellerutledge3173 he's not.
ty, Pam!❤
The map behind you is exactly the map which I saw in my false twins house.. synchronicity...Thank you so much I really needed this..🙏
definitely a sign
Crazy
A world map is very common
I was with a false twin flame for 3 years. I am so glad it is over!
This is such an important video... I got involved with... a narc. I was thinking twin-flame for the longest time. But all the points above cover how I see my person. The connection is sooo strong. I had to fight the idea of soul ties and the building of the fake connection through intermittent reinforcement and push pull abuse. I'm over the codependency now which was the insidious glue that stuck us together. This video helps me see clearly and get past it all. My person taught me so much about myself. I can now see them and accept the scorpion for what it is. They are out of my life now. God bless.
True twins retreat out of FEAR , not love. #6 applies to twins too, that's why they often mirror each other.
Thank you for this. I just recently got out of a relationship where I thought he was my TF. At the beginning of it all I saw all the TF signs (ie. dreams of him before meeting him, 11:11 Angel numbers, etc) but from the start he rejected me (red flag) but I persisted and kept pushing until he gave in. I have learned so much from my false TF about self love that I do not regret meeting him. After breaking up with my false TF out of self love, I've come to rediscover my real TF which is my ex before my false TF who I've parted ways with for years now but never stopped loving. It's true...be thankful for your false TF because they will be the catalyst to push you for growth and towards your real TF.
Meditate darling. This is karmic energy.
You don’t know who your twin is. You would have known all alone when you first met your ex.
My false twin relationship forced me to get work quickly at a certain store where I met my twin.
How did you meet your true twin so soom after leaving your false twin so fast? I just left my False Twin Flame who we had the same hobbies. Now i'm searching for my true twin flame with the same hobbies.
@@Melbester9 Depends where your Twin is at in their life, maybe they aren't ready to meet you >
Melbester9 Stop searching. Your twin doesn’t come when you want them to, they come when you need them to. You just have to do the work on yourself so you can recognize the signs and be open to the relationship; that is, IF you even have a twin flame.
@@amcglockton2 I do have a Twin Flame. I met my False Twin but I surrendered the connection.
@@Melbester9 i already met my true twin WAAAAy before i met my false twin, but married my false twin and my real twin was watching and kept in touch asked to meet up, so we did, and had a good time,, then shes done a runner, and completely blocked me from everything.. hahahah the irony of life.. lol
Omg just looking into twin flames and just realized I’m with a false twin with this video thank you for you insight!!
Lol I now realize I met my false twin flame in 2014 and finally got away in 2018.
He was so nice in the beginning but then became mean and nasty. Ghosted me. Would take take take take take and NEVER give. Only would come around for wed. I started to feel useless.
He was definitely the catalyst for my awakening.
I met my real one in February of 2019. I love him so much. We’re getting married in 2021❤️
How did you meet your True Twin that soon?
@@Melbester9 I thought the same. I met a narcissist and then in Jan got ghosted by someone who felt lke twin.
Thank u so much for this video. I'm convinced now I was dealing with a false twin flame. It was one of my most difficult connections I ever had. I cannot believe I was so blind for so many years. Everything you saying is exactly what happened to me.
Same here!!!
You are tearing apart my ex boyfriend and it feels so good, I really really needed this video
Me too
I am so glad I found this video. These are exactly what my ex was, which I could understand after 8 years of getting drained. And I could recognise how toxic our relationship was after I met my real twin.
I'm having difficulty believing I've spent the last 4 years involved with a narcissist and not the tf I thought she was. I fell for every one of her lies. Every point you make strikes a cord. There's a series of very deep wounds left in the wake of her aftermath.
1. She took my energy, love, attention, affection...everything. When we were done...she kept my personal belongings, as well. Underwear, socks, belts, pants...camera's...everything.
2. I only got empty promises from her. She never gave up anything to better us. That was always on me. Always.
3. After a few months of being back together and happy, she would find a reason to bail...and she did go sleep with other people. Had full on relationships. It's funny you say that when it's time for them to give. They always find a way not to.
4. When I finally overcame many of my struggles and grew to a place where I loved myself, she called another man her person.
5. I have dreams of doing things that I wanted her involved in. She always promised to, but always found an excuse not to. She said she was interested in the same things, but none of it ever happened. Including the promises she made about spending the rest of our lives together.
6. I've asked this question about, nearly, everything she's done to me. I don't believe anything she said was real.
There's something else I wanted to mention that I didn't hear you speak on. A narcissist will never accept lasting accountability. You might get an apology. I'll bet that, if you do, it's a back-handed apology. Not anything genuine, and if you don't accept the apology or question it, you'll get everything thrown back in your face. No matter what has happened, everything will be your fault...even if you have physical proof that shows otherwise.
Thank you for posting this. I realize this is old, but I needed to see it or it wouldn't have shown up. lol. Sadly, I just don't buy into the twin flame relationship anymore. This isn't love. No one that loved you would treat this way and making excuses about it being horrible and difficult because it's "divine" and you have a purpose as twins is an appeal to ridicule. That feeling you have when you're with your "twin" is an elaborate hoax. Your deceiver is well aware of his/her appeal to the opposite sex and they play on it with devilish precision. They are skilled predators...and they prey on the weak.
Please, people, I know we all want to believe we're bound for something extraordinary. I know we all want to believe we're meant for something more. You can change all of that...BY YOURSELF! Twin flames are a lie. It's just something else that can't be proven but you're expected to believe is real. You don't need to rely on the love or affection or attention of another to succeed and success is not measured by the number of zero's at the end of your bank account. Find your passion, pursue it...unapologetically. Don't rely on others for happiness, create it yourself. Love yourself, you are worth it.
THANK YOU !!! I'M ON A TWIN FLAME JOURNEY AND I KEEP ROLLING I GOT MY LESSONS AND I AM EMOTIONALLY MATURE !!!
My false twin flame girl was definitely a taker and not a giver at all. She only came to me whenever she needed either my time, money, energy, etc. Thanks for the enlightenment! I am done with her now. And I am moving on to find my real twin flame.
Love will always want the best for you. Its selfless with love jdx 🙏🙏🙏💕
A false twin will highlight your faults for their own benefit. A true twin flame will expose your faults for your own growth. Xx
I love myself so much to put up with this. That is how he pushes you into self love. Thank you.
While leaving me more damaged than ever
How can one who conducts himself this way be a twin flame? That doesn’t sound like a twin flame, that sounds like a full blown narcissist.
That's why he is your FALSE twin flame. He is someone else's.
@Carol Jenny. To find the answer to your question, one needs to go beyond the limits of physical form and time. During numerous lifetimes sharing experiences, in love or hate, or both, a deep connection develops that is imprinted in the souls of such a couple. There can be true love, true hate, power games, all sorts of lives shared together, in all colors of the rainbow. Often, it happens that the roles of taker and giver are reversed, in another lifetime of such a couple, offering an opportunity to realize that it needs to come to an end to repeat this pattern, repeating the moves without end. Until the penny drops and insight is dawning.
Thank you for reminding us how the lesson works: they are teaching us how to love ourselves more. Thank you for being kind!
My ex was 100% a false twin flame people even asked if we were literal twins.. i was so caught up in the fantasy of it and ignored how badly he treated me until one day i finally came to my senses. .. it ended 2 years ago and i am so so grateful it did because i have met my true twin now.
When did you meet your true twin and where? What was it like with your False TF? It's almost a year since my False TF left me and she and I were 🇩🇴 Dominican.
Painful experience.
Thank you SO MUCH! I have been battling with this question for a while! And I have watched countless videos that all gave mixed messages. THIS video made it VERY clear what I am dealing with, with NO question in my mind now! Thank you thank you thank you! 🙏
Now I can move forward with a lightened heart and know that I am on the right path! Namaste 🙏
You just confirmed what I already thought. My intuition was telling me the same thing. Thanks!
I fell in love with a narcissist. I thought he was my twin flame (and to an extent I still do). I realized what we had in common was we both needed constant validation. I gave too much love and he only knew how to take. I was insecure and so I mistook him love bombing and complimenting me for loving me. I was too loving and he liked it at first because it validated his ego but in the end it drove him away because it was too real and he was scared of it. In a way we were like two sides of the same coin. He once told me that broken people like broken people. He then abandoned me and discarded me and I cried for months. He was a very cruel person but he made me realize I needed to love myself.
I'm going through this exact same thing myself! Dated someone I thought was the one for 3 weeks, it became very intense very very fast we both were like ,,Omg this is the real thing''! I was a bit down a couple of times while we dated because I was being cautious and didn't trust them right away because of my past and I've never been treated well before and then within 24 hours they decide they don't want me anymore just out of the blue, and I finally began to trust them and because they saw me being sad 3 times they couldn't handle it. They only liked me while I was happy and everything was fine, that is not real love, someone who really loves you will take your bad days with the good days no matter what.
Amen.
@@carolholton3219 wow Carol so crazy how many people have the exact situation. Down to the very details. Only downfall is that I had a baby by him.. my 1st child and he abandoned me. It's been an emotional rollercoaster!
Your journey has begun.
I had this experience with narcissist who love bombed and only took. In 2017.
once you heal and do your work the energy will fall away. the twin energy will come
I can’t stop crying...I was so fooled by him. I trusted him because I was seduced by passion in the start. The thumb test about ‘is this act from love’ really touched my heart
Narcissists are experts at mirroring. You actually fall in love with yourself. Know your self worth and the universe will do the rest.
My twin flame triggers me or”wakes me up” every time I see or hear her. But deep down inside I got unconditional love for her wishing to Be with her. Like Romeo and Juliet
I wish I had seen this video a couple years ago! Anyway, even though I learned it the hard way and for real, it’s good to listen/see someone describing a situation exactly as it was experienced. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for going in depth of a false Twin flame. You are all correct on points . Unfortunately I did not Know who and what twin flame is when I was going thru my experience . But there’s hope out there and now I know what it is . Bless you
My Twin Flame is in separation from me now which is part of the growing stage. She sent me this video to throw me off and says she is a “false twin flame”, and it only showed me how much of a true twin flame she is. She is my everything.
I can completely relate! Wow amazing! I spent 16 yrs with a narcissist that pretended to have a soul connection with me but it’s exactly as you say!!!! But my authentic twin soul helped me break free from him! Now we both are healing and reconnecting. 🙏☺️💕💕💕🥰
Thank you so much for this! You helped me close that chapter of my life with complete clarity.
Questions about spiritual awakening experiences and a scorpio from my past but the dramatic experiences and confirmations beyond tarot have been amazing!
I recently got out of a false twin relationship and it was awful, but helped me grow so much...These signs hit me so hard. He was a user, manipulator, soul sucker. It was such a strange hypocritical connection where he would urge me to be a better person and to treat him better, but once I started working on myself and becoming more compassionate, open-minded, and relaxed, he would turn around and tell me I'm not acting "myself," constantly remind me of all my prior faults and shortcomings, and try to convince me that's who I really am and always will be. It was so confusing to have someone constantly tell you to be nicer, more understanding, to communicate better, and once you learn and grow and check off all those boxes, to have them change their tune and all of a sudden miss who you "used to be." I was always either too bad or too good, whichever one fit the story to make it so I was in the wrong and he was the one who deserved pity.
I got the lessons I needed out of that relationship and finally ran for the hills!!! Good riddance! 😂
@@bananasuite We can just be grateful that we're stronger for making it through! Blessings to you as well, much love and happiness in your journey. ❤️
Palindox
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my false twin was none romantic....just after she suddeny dissapeared i realised that i am an empath...9 months later my real twin apeared...there is no mistaking your real twin flame you just know yet you still seek validation...things start to happen that you question your own sanity...
How you met your true and false twin? What was both experiences like?
and thank goodness i was off the hook of that person! she was the worst relationship i ever had! and for now, fortunately, probably, so much i can feel my real twin with my new relationship. every reason to be the twin flame is with her, with our relationship. hopefully.
thanx for your vid. new subscriber here.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit but i am just afraid of the chaser and the runner part of being with the twin flame 😶😔 .. that would be exhausting emotionally.
Just ended with A false twin! This hurts so bad I could never forgive him for treating me like this.
Thanks so much love starts within. Some need a relationship to validate themselves not self sufficient. trauma bonded cutting the ties. That's true all is well. 💞 I needed to hear this.
Thank u for this. Makes me feel better and less duped. "I love myself more than this unhealthy dynamic".
All the actions i have had to endure scream that he is not my twin...and i finally realize this by listening to you. Thankyou for giving me clarity and real truth. God bless you.
Hallo Äffchen! 😊🐒
Wow.. this makes so much sense, and helps so much - I have gone through all that - both "false" and "real" and the differences are exactly as you are describing. I am grateful for both though :) Thank you :)
Thank you ! I have just left my false Twin Flame and it feels good
Bang on! My false twin flame told me he had no feelings for me. Meanwhile my true twin flame told me years ago he loved me, he came back into my life this year and again told me how much he’s attracted to me and how there’s nothing he wouldn’t do for me.
That's great! So what happened to your False Twin after meeting your real twin? Did your False Twin reached out? What did they do?
Melbester9 false twin is silent
wow... spot on this information, you shared here... I guess before, I met 4 years ago my false twin flame or karmic partner, but you have confirmed it to me. Yes, I sorted him out beginning of this year after 3 years of on and off commitment and it feels so good after I released him, though it has been a far distance relationship anyway... I have learnt so much because of it and I lost money, but I get now the opposite of him and been very happy to see the big difference between both situations and appreciate it very much right now... Thank you so much...
What happened with your False Twin? Are you guys on equal terms and friends? I'm trying to sort that out with my False Twin who both and I were from 🇩🇴. What happened with both of you.
@@Melbester9 Since end of last year I didn't heard anything from him, which asked me to doing my own decision, like I said before. So we have no contact at all and I am just happy with someone right now and don't think about my twin flame, because I need to heal from his behavior during the last years... Apart from the money he still owes me, there is no reason for keeping in touch and I forgave him, to free myself. A very strong lesson I learned from it...
@@michaelairvine8594 Ahh I see. Yeah I'm healing as well but I'm actually doing quite well now. My False Twin Flame and I were from 🇩🇴 Dominican Republic.
We met this past October and we knew each other since May. It was such amagnetic pull between us and we literally shared all of the same hobbies. Cosplay, Video Games and everything. Anime too but Dominican. She was 15 months older than me. I'm a Gemini. She's a Cancer. Ana was her name.
It was devestating because I was going to marry her. I brought her a necklace half heart chain with our names on it before we met. Such an abusive psycho she was that even my 🇩🇴 Dominican mom hated her.
Her younger self was so gorgeous and pretty that she's perfect but her current self is getting even worse and more ugly looking but it's her False Self as the False Twin Flame NARC(Narcissist) she was.
Cyberstalking and manipulated me for months on purpose. Everything Narc abuse you can think of and gaslights. Denies wrongdoings. Then when I went to Dominican Republic for holidays, cheating on me going out for drinks with friends, drinking and blocking/discarded me.
Then on VDay she unblocked me. At that point on. I permanently blocked her. All she did was take take take and never give. I was never enough and I even traveled to DR to see her and did no communication, no effort whatsover.
Didn't even talk or know me as a person. I even tried to mingle her with my family. What a joke. I permanently blocked her after I told her the shitty behavior and she threatened to permanently block me after I told her we should stay as BF with benefits and she was being a dick about it. Oh right, Narcs have no friends. Just supply. Playing the block/unblock game. Screw that.
After my Spiritual Awakening, that's how it led to the end between us. She sucked all my energy prior to that. Good news is that her looks is fading and she's looking a lot worse than her younger self. Narcs get worse with age and she was my False Twin.
That's pretty much what happens after the awakening, you lose attraction for the person a lot less.
Imagine what my real twin will look like and be with my False Twin's younger self and my real twin current self and seeing Facebook posts that people that met their true twin(OTF) they look amazing.
Her Karma is coming. Good riddance. No guy would deal with her. She's only good for one nighter and not for a relationship/date/marriage.😵
She's such an idiot and loser now. Mentally Ill Narc as a False. Only makeup keeping her looks alive. Funny thing is no man deserves her and I'm the only one that loves her uncondtionally. Yet treated like crap.
She didn't even care about being a friend. Oh that's right because Narcs take and never give. What a moron. So glad I permanently blocked her. I'll unblock her when my meet my real twin.
Thank you for clarifying that. You mention the exact things I saw and experienced.
I love my twinflame unconditionally and want nothing but the best for HER. No matter where she goes I will love her and will always support her
My false twin was a good person... just not good for me. This video sounds more like a Narcissistic relationship than a false twin relationship to me. Don't get me wrong... dating a narcissist still results in a lot of spiritual growth, healing, and reflection.
I'm in a similar situation. I'm with someone who is nice and after I woke up to my true flame I realised he was the fake one. May I ask what you did?
I was in an abusive relationship with a narcissist when i met my false twin. My false twin twin doesn't realize it but he helped me a lot throughout that relationship and eventually I built up the courage to leave. My false twin had also been in a relationship too hence why it didn't work out. I thought he was my twin because I had never had such a great, fun connection with anyone in my life and I always noticed similarities in numbers and life events. (i believe in numerology, and i also don't believe in such things as coincidences, everything happens for a reason) There was just a lot of mirroring and it happened all the time, not just with numbers. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and at the end of the day I felt like the bad guy and i feel used. A twin flame isn't supposed to make you feel that way. I learned a lot about myself with my false twin but what once was great eventually pulled out the worst in both of us. Dishonesty, disloyalty, deceit and sadness. When I left he said "this feels so cold, and i know we're not cold people" but it had to be done. it is what it is
@ILLUMINAUGHTY this is so true. Totally agree. 7 months later
The twin flame connection does not equate to perfection. It is the ultimate relationship challenge. Don’t expect it to be easy.
Thank you! Although I disagree with some of these points - I recently turned my back on a false twin flame. I actually believed he was my twin flame for the last two years. We never had a public relationship and he was very in and out. The last time I had him in my home I told him the way I felt in my heart and saw him the next day with someone else on his Instagram stories. I detached in that very moment it took me a few months to heal. He also never attributed to my growth within the realm of my business. He knows the importance to me. I felt energetically taken from but only the last time we were together because of his treatment of me afterwards. Well I finally learned to do was to mirror has behavior but before he came towards me. I don’t look at any of his work on the Internet nor do I click on his stories after that devastating time. I realize that he doesn’t want to public relationship with me nor does he plan on building a life with me therefore I have detached completely. I saw him the other day and literally walked out without even looking. A painful decision but one that I made for myself and my inner core happiness. Another thing you may want to note that was extremely powerful was how a false twin flame Would never try to affect your business or your monetary status in a negative way just so they could get back in again. A false twin flame will do this I’ve had it happen to me twice in my life and it has been devastating both times.
You just earned a new subscriber. Thanks for the great work
Thank you 🙏🏻. Your human presence with me around such a challenging emotional topic helped calm the part of me that is still in the 3D 🙏🏻
It’s too easy to deceive oneself and say what someone does is deep down an action of love. it’s crucial to be honest with oneself and face the truth. This gonna save so many years of our life.
Thank you sis.
You nailed it for me.
Your the best!
I appreciate this so much. I finally know and now I feel free.
That's so priceless.
Bless you sis, bless you!
This confirms that my past partner was my false twin, and my current is my true twin flame. This is so empowering!
Hi Yvonne, Thank you again for this great information. I told my false twin flame that I was glad that I met him. He had led me to meet my real TF. My false twin flame was definitely a catalyst.
Thank you Angels, finally separated from 8 years False twin flame!🤲🏽🕊
What ever happened to your False after that? My False Twin came back again but I already set boundaries for friendship. After she left.
Is there away to coexist with both False after meeting the real twin?
@@Melbester9 i dont think
I just broke up with my so called twin flame. She drinks too much and calls me names when she was drunk and then the next day twists it making it my fault. She is a master at flipping the script like most females i have met. She mocks me because i am close to God and she makes fun of me especially when shes drunk. I had enough. She always did things for me and always used it against me. I did things for her and it was ok because it was her. I used to live in HER world. I am now free and feel like a big weight is taken off of me. I pray for her to heal and break free from her chains of drinking(everynight) Just thought id get this off my chest.
Thank you for this video it’s a strong confirmation that my person is in fact my true twin flame
After 27 yrs and 3 kids later... u have just described my narcissistic ex husband. After 18 yrs of marriage i went to work. And 6 yrs later after trying to do everything at home and working.. he had put me through so much.. i requested him to leave. Thank you. You hit it dead on
This should have been titled why the Narcissist is not your Twin Flame😂😂😂😲😵
A lot of narcs are masquerading as twins including my ex thankfully after 8 years of his abuse I've finally clawed back some self respect and I've cut him off .I'm so relieved to have seen this as its confirmed it completely for me .Thankyou 💜🙏🙏
Wow, man I really thought she was my twin but this video literally step by step described my x relationship!!! It's crazy how much you can love someone who doesn't love you back the same and even is toxic for you! Maybe we were toxic for each other but I feel I love her at a soul level which is probably why she was the catalyst that awakened me!!! This process is really mind blowing, I'm still feeling the separation and pain from letting go rt now! I know now she is definitely not meant to be my perfect match but she was the perfect catalyst!!! Kind of sad but a little hopeful as I develope into who I am really meant to be I will manafest in my true love and life journey partner!!! I pray for this and choose to be positive even tho my X is so deep into my soul!!! I write music and I find myself writing about my experience with her! I don't know if embracing what I went through w/ her is good or bad but I realize it has to come out!!! Thank you for this video!!!🙏
There’s videos on breaking soul ties. Look it up. Never hurts to try something different.
its simple really if you have negative things come up because of them.. heal it of you grow as a person it hardly matters if they are your twin or not.. a twin can run as far as possible but they will always come back..,If you are dealing with what rises within you.. In any relationship cut off any expectations and deal with the negative mentality that rises up.. The purpose of twin flame is to deal with past errors and rise up to a better you! if you do that you are ready for any type of relationship.. mission accomplished..
Wow...Thank you for that eye opener ...You made me realize ive given everything to a man who doesnt even deserve me let alone my love and loyalty all these years ...Thank you so much and may God Bless you, this was the message God meant for me to hear today on my birthday ..What a wonderful gift you just gave me 😀 Thank you , God and the universe .I can FINALLY move on with happiness and peace in my heart .....Smiles
I love this reading, thanks for uploading it. Most people need to recognize the traits of narcissistic behavior. Don't fall for the proclamation of love and stability.....they will never stay for long.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit you're welcome!
Omg I was praying about recognizing the truth I needed to know..and I saw this video pop up on my feed.he was my false twin..everything you said Is accurate everything is how my ex was .I'm. Mind blown..omg
They take forgiveness, understanding, compassion, giving, admiration, emotional vulnerability and more. Yvonne, I agree 100% with all you have mentioned in this video. :)
Yessss. I had a false one for 11 yrs Interesting enough that we think like and feel the same vibrations and thoughts!!! Yess Narcisist and Egocentric!!! Thank you for this information 🙏👏
How do people deal with their False Twin for that long? What happened after both left? Any friendship or tried dating each other again.
Do Weird coincidences happen with false twin flames too? Running into him in a shopping mall after blocking him, he moved to live 2 mins away from my workplace without knowing I work there.. 1111 repentance... But we keep arguing and he moved in to someone else after breaking my heart..
You said everything I have been going through....Thank you.❤
You describe my child father. I thank GOD I cut him off 5yrs ago. His true color did not show until I was pregnant. I had low self-esteem and no confidence. Today I am dwelling with my spirit. Finding myself , grounding myself through meditation. Learning to love myself. Oh boy he sees the change, the pounds are dropping and he hates it. Especially when he see me stay humble when he shows anger and I do not provoke him or give him a motive to lash out or treat me with emotional abuse.
That all makes total sense. You gave me my aha moment, thank you 💖🙏🏻xxx
You are amazing and so so TRUE... I got so so damaging and TWIN FROM HELL is false twin and I give give give on the end you get feeling emotional sexual financial and emotional abuse by FALSE TWIN.Ty and on point 100/ ...They will SHOW exactly when your about to GET HAPPY LUCKY ETC
You really validated what I already felt with this guy.
This was spot on. Thanks. I am free and working on myself.
Man..... I needed this. Thank you sooooo much!♥️
would love do that? This is the most important question.. It can help in so many cases of life ..
This can help.. You and others.
Sadly, I lived with the false twin flame for 9 long years of my life. He drained me and when I broke up with him I moved to another state and that’s when I met the twin flame after 6 months living in the new state, but he is married ☹️. We dated for almost two years and now we are friends, but keep talking about the memories that no longer can come back because I refuse to be his lover.
Sometimes False Twins are just Lost Souls, looking for Help! It is always about US!
But what we can do for the False Twin to recognize his past hurts, child hood drums and work thru his issues to become a better person. Sometimes we are Divinely guided to help other people in need even if they ate False Twin, that one day could turn out to be a real Twin Flame. If Devinely guided and at the right time.
I met my Twin in November '18.
At the time, we were both very Unawakened; and completely unaware of the connection.
Unfortunately, she's a die-hard Atheist; and a very classic Scorpio.
But the worst part of the journey, is not the separation; but her denial of the connection.
It's like walking up to a ballerina; and telling them to disassemble, & reassemble an M16 Assault Rifle in less than 5 minutes.
In some ways, I've tried to move on. I've noticed, though, since she tried to move on recently; and it was exactly as I was told it'd be, Karmic...
The more she tries to run from the connection, the more she winds up in Karmic situations.
I've well.& truly given up the chase. Surrender came knocking; and then I saw my Twin on the dating site, where we originally crossed paths.
I was suddenly hit with a wave of intensity; and an urge to run.
I guess, I'm now becoming the Runner...
It’s soooo hard to tell when people put on this very strong act that they are everything you want and need, it’s so strange like why would they do that? Why not just be themselves - if you don’t like me THAT much, then just let me know!
Love is a lie what is love a man can tell u he loves you and tomorrow hes walked out the door or cheated or something how many people say they love each other and leave each other
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Like Tina Turner sung Love is a second hand emotion.
We r all alone...born single..die single...be ur own twin flame! That the key to happiness...if it's meant to be then it will...! When u find happiness in ur own heart n learn humility u wont depend on romance for happiness.
Metal Head you are so wise. You don’t know how much I needed to read this :’( ❤️
love is not words to stimulate the ego love can be felt without words even being spoken.
That is the difference between material love and heartfelt love, one can be felt the other can not.
"...they show up at your doorstep at 10pm on a Saturday"
Me: pauses video in shock and stare out the window for 2 minutes because that literally happened two days ago
Love that. :)
Wow..He checks off every single point...He gives nothing takes but takes everything..can not stand when I'm inspired because it's not his version of success and he thinks I'm weak and annoying...but then he says he loves me...it's so toxic and confusing...
he sounds like a narcissist.
I have a similar experience with someone and he’s always saying I’m annoying and I’m not good at things but he does profess love. It’s horrible. I’m undergoing a spiritual awakening and he is no not going to be on my level anymore ☠️Much 💕 love
You are doing an excellent job describing things in English. Keep going!!! You are expressing yourself very exactly and I greatly appreciate your perspectives stated here.💖
Thank you!! Wish I had seen this sooner but it’s all about timing I suppose
@@TwinFlameSpyrit thankyou brilliant
Wow!! Everything is so clear now 😍
My favorite memory with my twin flame was in the dream world where when I realized I was in a dream after talking with him for hours and hours in a beach like setting on a sunset (also that is so not my scene I’m not one of those type of girls that’s like oh my God the beach so but it was really pretty) so I realized I was dreaming and I was like wait what am I doing talking to you when I can go and fly somewhere and explore and stuff so I start doing that and he grabs my hand and I looked back and he says “you can’t just go off and do whatever you want” and I say why not this is just a dream and he goes “but it’s so much more than that” and then I wake up and that’s when in the physical world I actually started liking him even though before he was just my boss and since then even though I don’t work there anymore I’ve had several dreams with him in them still playing the part of my twin flame and when I think of him there’s a lot of love there so much so that it makes me want to cry with happiness sometimes but there’s still a lot of work to do to get back with him lol I wrote “me” instead of him 😂😂😂
Thank u Twin Flame Spyrit, much appreciated. I had to break away last year from a toxic, narcissistic who was playing his physical games with me. I decided to work on my own inner self/soul self healing, once I cut him out of my life and other people too. I feel great love my new life. I have so much self love and value my own inner self worth. I have had some decent past relationships but I was very stubborn didn't want to get married. Also when u have so many toxic narcissistic people around u, u cannot see the good people around u. When u truly work on your own inner self/soul/ self healing u see so much and learn alot about yourself and your life gets better each day, u really see the bounce and much more. I forgive everyone as we all make mistakes no one is perfect, but I will never let them into my circle/ life ever again. Peace, blessings, love & light to u.
@@TwinFlameSpyrit thank u because u are teaching us all the signs of fake twin flame. We ten to be blinded by what we think true love is but it is not at all, it's toxic narcissistic people playing physical games with our mind, body and soul but most of all our hearts. It is wonderful people as yourself teaching us all so that we do not fall for theses types of people. U have been given amazing gifts and I wish u all the very best within your life. Peace, blessings, love & light to u.
This was so insightful, thank you
Hi tks for your videos. I didn't understand anything about your subject until I had two false twin flames. They didn't Love me..."it weren't actions of Love!" I am alone and you are right I am now willing only to Love myself and only want my true twin! 🤔🤗