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- Jess, Toni and Shane challenge themselves to style outfits that show off their biggest body insecurity for a week
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It’s funny that Toni’s insecurity was bright colours because I (as an extremely pale person) have always been told that they won’t look good on me and only work for dark skin tones! She rocked all the looks btw!
This goes to show that people will always have something negative to say about what you should and shouldn't do or wear. But in the end it's none of anyone's business except your own. Wear whatever you feel like wearing and do whatever you wanna do!
I think you'd look amazing in bright colors 😁
This is a big thing for black people, black girls specifically. As soon as she said her insecurity I was like omg yess. I grew up with people telling me that, specialy my family. I'm glad that now people recognize how gorgeous bright colors look on dark skin.
My biggest insecurity has always been my arms. This just inspired me to buy a one sleeve!!
Yass queen 👑
You’re gonna look SO beautiful 💕💕 proud of you bby
I hate my arms too, this has been so positive to watch💖
You go girl!!! 😋😛
Mine too girl
This video is like a free therapy session. Thanks for the love and positivity!! 💛
It’s interesting that I didn’t notice their “flaws” until they consistently pointed it out
Yes, it’s a sad fact that people don’t realize their perfections and that their « flaws » are just another amazing part of them
It's amazing to hear other people talk about their insecurities, they are always things I wouldn't notice OR I admire! For example, I've always been obsessed with how amazing neon/bright colors look against dark skin. This helps me understand that the things I feel self conscious about probably aren't even on anyone else's radar. ❤
My biggest insecurity has always been my stomach and thighs and yesterday I bought a very form fitting jumpsuit and my very first bikini swimsuit. I know yall wont care but this is alot for me
Thanks you guys for all of the support watching videos like this really helped me have the confidence and I am wearing the jumpsuit to my friends wedding tomorrow and I just got back from a lake wearing my swimsuit
To anyone who does not know my pro nouns are he/they/she so don’t worry about calling me a girl or boy or anything like that if you wanted to know
You go girl !!!
happy for you!! you're gonna rock it!
We do care! Congrats you’re amazing and I know you will look amazing :) take all the time you need!
I really care because I was looking for this comment. My biggest insecurity is my stomach and thighs, and I’ve always wanted to wear a bikini but I never have. I’m thinking that maybe I should just get out there and try it. I’m female and I also can’t shave down there because I have a really bad rash, so I’m super insecure about wearing a bikini. But I’ve always wanted to. Maybe I should just try it one day
@@finneyhamster9106yes do try it!
Love Shane so much. His eyes are AMAZING and just help to exude how cool and bright he is. Love human sunflowers.
“human sunflowers” i love that!
im gonna steal human sunflowers!
@@dream9873 "We’re all beautiful golden sunflowers inside"
Allen Ginsberg
Shane is breaking down barriers for all trans/non-binary people. He is so brave and I think everyone can admit that what he did is just completely amazing
Omg yeah, i;m non binary and would never DREAM of showing my chest, he’s so brave!
Shane shines so bright, I really love his energy!
All three looked just wonderful & I really wish I learned something for my own journey of accepting myself! We're all beautiful
Omg Shane is STUNNING!! I'm obsessed with his vibe and style
As a Black woman I've always the different shades of brown that we come in, Toni skin tone is GORGEOUS! I thought she was going to talk about some other insecurity.
That pink moment is everything!!!
Shawn gives me the best vibes
I have to say the depth and vulnerability of this video and these wonderful people touched me deeply. The representation of different folks facing different insecurities is wonderful. I just want to thank all the participants -- you are beautiful and inspiring!
Y'all I almost always take compliments as backhanded compliments 😩
Right!? I've been stepping out of my comfort zone lately and wearing shorts and more fitted clothes. My neighbor keeps saying stuff like, oh wow, you're dressing more sexy. Or you look sexy. And I have to keep asking my husband if the outfit actually looks good or if she's trying to tell me to cover up....
@@chacopaco407 Gurllll I'm so glad you've been stepping out of your comfort zone!! 💕💕 I'm pretty sure you're rocking it ;))
And no, I feel like your neighbor's actually complimenting you .
Don't you dare cover up ( if you don't want to) . Be unapologetically YOU😤💖
Yep me too
I keep tattooing my insecure parts. I don’t like my thighs so I got a thigh tattoo. Now I have to wear shorts. I don’t like my collar bones so I got collar tattoos. Now I have to wear scoop neck shirts. I don’t like my bat wings so I got a tattoo on them. Now I have to wear tank tops.
Whats bat wings?
@@satan7553 I think underarm fat
I like this
Jillian, this is brilliant! It makes your insecurities beautiful and people notice your tattoos instead of your body insecurities. I am using this advice!
Same same !!! I got sleeves because I hate my arms and now I love love love my arms!!
seeing everyone become more confident and their insecurities becoming less and less of an issue for them is really inspiring because they went for it and tackled their insecurities no matter how scared they were
When I was younger and a size 6 I was so self conscious about wearing anything that was more than 10 percent out of my “comfort” zone. Now that I’m older and a size 18 I have learned much more about how to style an outfit and wear any damn thing I want. I honestly have more fun dressing myself now than 80 lbs ago. And it’s thanks to people like y’all who have taught me to just be me. Love to all. ❤️
These three are fabulous. It just goes to show that how you present yourself to the world, and the confidence you show, are all that people know. We’d never know that they felt insecure if they didn’t tell us.
Jessica is sooo beautiful!! Plus size QUEEN!❤️
More of 600 pound shame
@@amymifsud7864 how about you stop bullying people? It's not cool. If you bully people you are a horrible person
For me my biggest insecurity is my calves and thighs. They are bigger in proportion to my stomach. I challenged myself to wear leggings yesterday. This video had great timing because I really needed this after yesterday’s bad body image day.
It’s crazy to think about how others insecurities are something that you would never pick up on because you’re not as critical of them as they are with themselves. I think big calves and thighs are beautiful and look strong. Congratulations on going out of your comfort zone and wearing leggings. I’m sure you look amazing😊
@@whattheheckie3024 thank you 😊
im scared of bright colors
was about only neon hoodies behind her lol
P.S love you bravery. 8th
It’s so interesting to hear and see what other people are insecure about, because I always wonder, why would they be insecure about that, they look great. So maybe to other, my own insecurities don’t look as bad as I myself think I do 🤔
Toni‘s skin is sooo beautiful. I’m mixed African and European/Black and White and when I was younger I was a lot darker than now and bright colors looked so great on me and now I’m lighter because I’m rarely in the sun (not on purpose) and I think it doesn’t look as popping as it used to.
This is what im doing this summer.🥰
Love yourself
Respect yourself
My biggest insecurity was my hair, it used to give me bad dysphoria but I just got a pixie after years of really needing it. I know that I had great hair which everyone liked but it made me feel horrid and since I got the cut I have never felt so good in my life and confidence is through the roof. Wish I could have cut it earlier but better late than never
watching things like this that are exuding positivity and confidence really gives me serotonin and just radiated the confident and joyful energy, and i’d like to stay here :)
Shane's outfits and confidence make me want to step out of my comfort zone more and try styles that better show my gender identity :')) he pulled every outfit off so damn well
This whole video was so amazing and legit I wanted to shed a tear..Toni looks AMAZING in bright colors, her skin looks soooooooo gooooddd and shes soooo beautifulll! Jess is a freaking fashion ICON, i loved allll of her fits! She's so gorgeous! Shane's whole situation was sooooo brave and so inspiratonal, I love all 3 of these people and I thank them for their bravery. I know this will help so many people
They literally looked so amazing in EVERY outfit! 👌🏼🥰
I am so proud of you guys to be doing this, but also in front of millions if people online and all of your insecurities are beautiful. you all are beautiful!!
I’m so proud of you all! Whatever you’re trying to hide, everyone knows it’s there, so dress for yourself. Have some fun with what you wear. Brown skin is beautiful, and looks the best in vibrant colours. Bravo!
0:29 baby blue fit SERVED AND UNDERSTOOD THE ASSIGNMENT! Ma'am I'm stealing this whole look and won't be taking no more questions at this time.
Toni,You are gorgeous in pinks and corals. It makes your skin so warm and buttery!
0:37 girl your skin tone is beautiful!!🤍☀️
i jusr recently found out im in stage 2 of Lipedema.... its been a whirlwind of emotions, but i know now is my chance to restart my relationship with my body, accept myself as is, stop hiding and be free. this channel has helped me so much and i just want to thank all of you for sharing your insecurities
I have to say I would not have had a hint of a thought about any of the 3 highlighting their insecurities! Gorgeous skin, gorgeous girl, and gorgeous man! All three are a delight!
Shane, so much love to you! It's so sad that it's still necessary to say this to people, but stay safe
“And I feel so pretty” my heart SINGS!! 💓
I love younger people today and their body positivity. I'm 33 and when I was in my 20's things just weren't so encouraging. I bought a jumpsuit I really like but I'm insecure about my arms and this instantly made me feel more confident. Thanks, youngin's!
Toni looked sooooooo good in all of those neon colors!
Shane is adorable like everyone rocked there outfits
Omg Toni I am literally crying you look so stunning in this pink dress
Shane's smile is just something else- its absoutley adorable XDD
They brought back Shane!!!! He's just a ray of sunshine!
I can definitely relate to Toni...I.have a lot of colorist family members and was definitely raised the same way in regard to bright colors on dark skin and unconsciously I realized I don't really have any bright colored clothes in my closet probably from years of conditioning....Toni has inspired me I am brightening up my wardrobe for the summer 😊😊😊😊
Toni!!!!!!!!!!!!! I relate to you soooo much!! When I was much younger (10yrs old-20yrs old) I would NEVERRRR where colorful anything because I swore I was too dark. I would walk in the shade, wear hats, only wear blisdex, basic colored clothes. I swore I was the DARKEST thing ever, but now I love me sooooo much! I couldn't imagine me any other complexion. I love my skin. My biggest issue is my biggest flex! You are beautiful Toni! All of you are!!
Honestly, Shane's chest is just man squish. And I'm LOVING it. He's so handsome! I'm so proud and happy that he pushed himself!
i love this series. thank you for being so vulnerable
Toni, girl PLEASE tell me where that pink dress is from !!! You looked so beautiful in it 😍
remember everyone just by complementing someone out on the streets or anywhere could literally make their day
So proud of everyone for tackling their insecurities and absolutely killing it! Am beyond obsessed with Toni's glasses, I neeeeed these but purple!!!!
JESSICA IN THE LAST OUTFIT😍😍😍😍😍
Looking absolutely stunning, all three of you! Inspiring me to embrace and not be so scared of my FUPA.
i want to tell shane that he is 1000000% passing even when his chest is on full display. hopefully this challenge helped him overcome his chest insecurity
in all seriouness....you ALL LOOK SOOOOOO GOOOOOOOOOODDDDDD OMG!
This was so healing to watch, even had to cry a little bit! :D
“In my own fat glory 😂🌸”
Everyone looked absolutely amazing the whole way through 😍 insecurities are so hard to pinpoint and analyze and I'm so so so proud of all of them for doing this and feeling so good at the end of this 💕
okay but THAT NEON ON THAT SKIN😍
shane’s eyes are so pretty!
everyone looked great in the outfits they picked!!!!!! I hope this challenge helped show everyone they can totally rock anything!! loving the confidence
11:52 “I am in my all fat glory and I feel so pretty”
This honestly made me weep for joy.
6:40 YES absolutely! I wish more people understood this!
This video was a joy to watch! All these beautiful people are so inspiring - and Shane: you ROCK this seethrough shirt (maybe it's because you have the most stunning eyes?)
they all look amazing 💗💗💗
The black girls hair is so gorgeous
She is just gorgeous
Everyone is beautiful, “glorious”, and gorgeous
But I just loved her hair
Shane you look great !!! As you should KING 👑❤️
They are all such fire!
The black and green shirt,the pink moment and the bandana mymymymy
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH stunning💚🖤💟
I only wear neutrals because I thought bright colours made me stand out and I hated the attention. Maybe it's all in my head. I'm glad they made this video.
my biggest insecurity has always been my skin colour, its brown
but now as iam engaged more in self care and self care etc.
I feel confident or at least not bad about my skin colour
now I love it😌
this has to be one of my favorite videos on youtube 🥺💓
no but like they *SLAYED*
All of these beautiful people are so stylish! 😍
Shane is such a king 💖
I want to give Shane a huge hug so bad!
Ok but they all killed it 😍 nothing sexier then confidence
SHANE; I LOVE YOU, SHANE!! ❤️❤️ Great vid all of you! I LOVED the girls edit: Toni and Jess, to be clear 🔥🔥 All love ❤️
omg that scarf top looks AMAZING on Jess!!!
You three are so brave and beautiful♥️♥️♥️🌟🌟🌟♥️♥️♥️
Toni, the last video I saw you in I no lie said "Wow, her skin and skin color is so beautiful" out loud and I so sincerely meant it!
I love Toni's skin tone I feel like when I see her I can tell she has a personality and just happens to be African-American but I feel when people see me they just see crazy white guy
Shane’s smiley eyes are everything
✨✨ OMG! I AM LIVING FOR THIS VIDEO AND all the vulnerability and empowerment they all bring! 🌸🌸 LOVE IT!!
Im just loving the cat behind
My biggest insecurity is my not flat tummy so I am wearing crop top because this inspired me
I just wanna say that everyone is beautiful in so many ways y’all literally look amazing
Black skin + pink = awesomeness 🤩
I loved this video soooo much. You all killed it!!
They all look so amazing in all of these! I love these videos, they have helped me learn to love myself.
Dark skin is gorgeous to me and looks amazing with bright colors! It’s such a beautiful contrast and shocking. Im very pale (not by choice) so I only wear dark colors and neutrals cause it makes me reflective I’m plus size and disabled as well and hate my arms and tummy but then hide my millions of surgery scars and Sh too so I cover a lot of skin but I bought my first 2 piece swimmy suit and it’s in a bright color it’s in red!! This video made me do this
I had/have all of these insecurities so this was an amazing video for me, but I have to admit I had to first get past how I didn't see those as unattractive issues for these people, Shane's whole torso look at 13:04 was gorgeous, Toni's skin seems luminescent and enviable to me and Jess's arms strike me as lovely and proportionate if not slender for her frame, but what struck me most was that the further they travelled outside their comfort zone...THEY LOOKED EVEN BETTER than their already attractive selves. I want to take this lesson to heart and thank you for teaching it!!!
All so beautiful 5:53 shane you are rocking ittttt
They were all so incredible this has encouraged me to get out of my comfort zone and try something new in my style clothing! Thank you
Loved this! I need to do this more!
Oh my gosh, to the black girl. I love your skin tone! I used to wear bright colors all the time especially after I started receiving so many comments from my bright colored clothing during exercises. 😌😌😌😍
I am a mother of 2 boys and a little girl and i am a stay at home mom and my body has stored my fat in the stomach the muffin top and in the thighs and watching this video has mad me go shopping with my husband money lol to put my self out thir more and all of the outfits looked so good on all of you thank you for putting yourself out thir like that and I love watching the videos and love you all!!
they have such good style!! also, yes to putting yourself out there!!!