Your problem here is that you CHEATED. If one relationship doesn't work, end that one first before starting another to avoid giving yourself a bad name. Not only that, your future spouse will always have the thought in her head that if you cheated on your first wife, you'll cheat on her, too. All those problems could've been easily avoided if you ended your previous marriage first. SMH.
Narcissist will never admit to wrong doing from beginning to end... that's y he's telling this story stating he's still right and everyone else is wrong...toxic
Teem meem koj yog tus phem koj yog tus xub tsim ua ntej koj thiaj li txaj2 muag tawm rooj yog koj yog tus zoo ces koj yeej tsis txaj muag li os..txiv neej ces thaum xav2 yuav tus tshiab lawm ces muab liam tias tim poj niam phem xwb no paub txiv neej lub siab kawg
If you put that much effort into your first marriage, you wouldn’t have to go through all of that. All a wife ever want from her husband is loyalty, security, and support because all of that equal love in her eyes. If you can’t provide the basic then don’t get marry!
When you are unhappy in your marriage, dont cheat, just divorce. When you cheat you create a bad reputation for yourself. All your first wife wanted was you to be a husband to her, but you chose to be a husband to your community.
Kuv zoo siab koj tseem nkag siab koj poj niam es Koj tseem pab nws! Ho zoo li kuv ces kuv tus txiv tsis nkag siab kuv tsis pab kuv li ttwb them child support los tseem niaj hnub koom siab nrog nws tus qub poj niam thiab cov me nyuam ua rau kuv kom kuv mob hlwb tas li xwb! Niaj hnub muab nws cov me nyuam los txiav yus khub niam txiv txoj kev txij nkawm!
First of all, should you have cheated, no. There is never a justification for cheating. There’s many ways to resolve or dissolve your situation before cheating. Second, no matter what you do in life good or bad, ppl will always talk shit.
Sounds like this man is too traditional, we live in this country we all need to adapt to the culture here. This man is too involved with the community and does not even care for his wife and kids.
Brother, your wife is the problem. You can not remain in that marriage. Divorce her than you can move on. No need to cheat. Since your in law claimed you to be so bad but they don't discipline their own daughter. Brother, just move away from that town and start fresh. Be the better person. She didn't want a life with you. She did everything to sabotage the marriage. Get a restraining order against her. Secretly, video tape her. She's unhinged
Koj txoj kev tawm rooj is so important that u rather lose ur wife over it, good for u txiv dev. Koj txoj hauj lwm txiv zej txiv zos is top priority, but we'll see how far that takes u.
Oh boy, this man is trying to justify why he cheated on his first wife. If you cheat, you're the bad one. If she was so bad, why not talk to her and end the marriage on a more civil basis? You're not a good husband to your first wife.
I’m not backing this man or story up but I have seen women who really don’t care or give attention to her husband or kids until they cheat or the love is not there anymore. It really take two people to make it work if you want your man/husband to love and respect you or your side you must do the same back to his side. Some women can be mean too not all men JS!
I agree. There are some very mean and toxic women out there. I have seen women who are just mean and ugly to their husbands, but the husbands were never mean or ugly to the wives.
Tus txuv tsev Koj ua yuav cev lawm qhov Koj ua yuam kev Yog Koj tsis nrauj Koj tus poj niam tag Koj mam tham hluas Nkauj Yog thaum yus tsis hlub Ib tug neeg lawm tsi nws mus ua ntej mam tham hluas Nkauj nawb qhov no Yog qhov Koj ua yuam kev
Yus twb yog tus niamtsev uas tsa yus tus txiv li meejmom, kwvtij neejtsa, thiab txhawb nqa koom nrog nws cov hobbies. Thaum kawg nws tham hluas nkauj thiab hais tias yus yog tus phem. Txiv neej lub siab dev ces kawg that no thiaj zoo nws siab.
I don't get hmong people! Why is it a niam tsev's responsibility to slave and cook and use her own money to use in her house for people that comes to her house for "meetings "???!!! Why can't they have a meeting and go home? Why does the wife have to play slave for people who comes and uses her house??
Anyway, prioritize ur honey no others. Mix more with others leads u to break relationships ....txiv loj leeb neej nrog sab ntsaus xwb neej thiaj tawg. Ntau leej t a b tawg zaj no ...ntxov paub ces twb zoo ntxov lawm
Tus poj Niam muab tus txiv zaj dab mus rau Nej cov TH-cam media hais li ib cov Niag ladies hais Kuv tus txiv Wb zaj dab neeg ua twb hais raug li. Cov neeg ua hais yus phem ce yog lawv khib2 xwb os.
1) koj khav tias koj paub kev cai Hmoob tas mas koj swb vim thaum koj tau cai koj tsis siv cai, koj thiaj yog tus pib yuam kev rau lub neej ua me nyuam tu siab tag (hos koj tus poj niam mas tsuas ua phem rau koj xwb vim nws tu siab koj yog txiv zej txiv zos), 2) koj hais tias koj txiv koj niam support koj kawm kev cai Hmoob tab sis koj kawm tsis tiav thiaj tsis paub tias ua hauj lwm rau yus tej kwv tij neej tsa ces tsuas yog zoo thaum luag siv tau yus xwb es koj thiaj tsis nco hwj xwm koj lub neej. Thaum koj siv tsis tau lawm ces kawg mag lub hnyos tsis hais leej twg. Koj tseem yuav tau kawm ntxiv nawb.
No matter how bad your spouse is and how horrible your marriage is, divorce first then date so you won't be a cheater. When u cheat, u lose all credibility no matter how good u think u are and what your reasons are.
You cheated first before you divorced your wife so what your in laws said was true. If you don’t like the name cheater than you should have divorce your wife first.
Are you telling us that your job is to serve your clan and the Hmong communities’ traditional needs in your town before helping your ex. wife and kids. When she needs you and complain then she is not a zoo niam tsev, so you cheat! And by cheating, you and your mistress end up together while you are still married. Of course, people will talk about you and your mistress - no surprise here! But good thing, you finally home because you have no more face to go any where with your mistress except home with her hiding your face!
I think you're using excuses to justify your ways (cheating). I don't think you love your ex enough. I, too, play the qeej. But I'd would never prioritize outsiders ahead of my wife. Playing the qeej is just a hobby. Gotta learn to prioritize buddy.
Wow. So toxic. It's so funny how all of a sudden after divorce, your run away wife starts appearing at gatherings. 🤣 so conclusion is... if she did that before in her marriage there wouldn't be this story, But regardless! NO CHEATING!!! END IT FIRST BEFORE MOVING ON!! Bro. Who cares what others think. Do what's best for you. Move on carry on. Stay strong.
Ladies do better when it comes to child. Why do you make your kids lie just so you can get full custody. Stop turning your kids against the father. Anyways, this guy is dumb for cheating. But they both were wrong!
Me tub aw who care nws txawm yuav cem yuav ua phem npaum li cas los tsis care li os, rau siab ntso ua neb lub neej xwb os nawb. Thov kom koj tus poj niam tam sim no nkag siab koj nawb. Tus poj niam phem li koj tus qub poj niam no ces nws yog tus neeg muaj kev khaum tej lus dag no ib hnub yeej yuav raug rau nws xwb los mas.
You should of divorce first but again your ex is also super wrong for spreading bad rumor. I would of spread same rumor about your ex too so who ever married her or date her will feel same way and she would feel same pain. If she is innocent she would just leave as is since karma always hit the bad one. People are stupid these days.
Cheater will never admit their wrong doing and why their marriage broken. They always blame the other partner no matter what. When you have issues in your marriage you need to sit down and try to work it out not go and cheat to satisfy yourself. He never wanted to fix the marriage in the first place so his excuse was she did this she did that so he can go cheat..
There’s more to the story he hide somes from his sides.tus txiv yog thaum twg tham tau poj nrauj lawm ces ua txhua yam kom tus niam tsev nyob tsi tau xwb
Thaum kj yuav niam loj kj phee2j tawm2 room ca yuav niam you ho tsi tawm lawm ma Tim kj ne tsi xav hlub nw xwb kj tsi xav hlub nw e kj thiaj li niaj hnub mu
Zoo li kuv niam kuv txiv xwb mas. Koj muab kuv zaj dabneeg hais vim kuv niam kuv txiv lub siab phem lim hiam rau kuv. My name is Yupheng Vue losis Yias Vwj. Kuv tuaj tim thaibteb nrog kuv niam kuv txiv thiab kuv 5 tug muam thiab ib tug tij laug. Ob peb xyoos tom qab muaj kuv ob tug muam yau. Skip forward to why my parent
If you was to be the person you are now to your first wife marriage would be so much happier. Sorry that you never had the time to spend with your first wife. It’s wrong of your ex to caused problems with the kids but I just wonder why didn’t you just divorce her
I like the part where he tries to build up his credibility in the beginning to justify himself, yet completely gets obliterated in the comment section.
The first issue you got is that you care too much about what ppl said and think about you. What is the point of this story? Justifying why you cheated and are still a victim? No point... if your life is good.. just move on.
So selfish. If love is only about your happiness then when you’re mad you just leave? Love shouldn’t be on feelings but should it should be sacrificial love. It’s not what you can get from your spouse but what you can do for them. That is how God created marriage to be, not this cultures perverted version of it.
Zoo siab uas koj tus tub tsis kam lees koj niam qub hluas nraug ntawv los ua nws txiv!👏 Hos koj niag txiv mas siab me tia2 li os. Ob peb nyuag phav nyiaj tsa tus tub no yim xwb los tseem tsib kom thwm thiab koj ua niam los koj tseem hais taus kom txhob tsib thiab! What an evil stepfather. Thov qhuas cov kwv tij uas lawv tsis kom koj tus tub tua ib tug nyuj rau tus neeg siab no. Koj kav tsij mus nrog koj tus tub mus church es kom koj thiaj li tsis tau ntsib tus neeg siab phem no ib zaug ntxiv lawm.
Bottom line u 2 were not compatible. Should have divorced. It's crazy how much effort ur ex wife put in acting on her jealousy after divorce, and how much effort you put into cheating before divorce. 😒
Wow...so you no longer go live in funerals all weekend long after marrying your new wife and now have time to do a business with your poj nrauj. Had you focus on your marriage and family like now, you'd still be married now. So, whose fault is it that your 1st marriage failed?
The fudge! You divorced your first wife for not supporting your free Hmong community service to the Hmong community. Married the woman you cheated with then decide not to do the Community service anymore? Should've stopped that community service with your first wife before your marriage went downward with your cheating. No wonder people talked smack about you. I would too. Using excuses for your cheating only. 😂
Reputation is nothing in the Hmong community, never mind what people has to say just live your life to the fullest cause I don't care about Reputation it's bullshit talk only
Sounds like he's lying. If you aren't happy divorce before you step out of your marriage. And you are a Shtty person. Because you just gave up your kids. You are the person that did wrong in this situation. No need to justify.
Phem npaum ko cas koj tsis nrauj naws. Koj lam dag kom tau tham hluas nkauj xwb. Ua pheej mus ua txix zej txiv zov ua dabtsi na. Twb yuav pojniam los nrog yus nyob es thaum yuav tau hos tsis nrog nws nyob. Neeg loj leeb txhob piav2 koj lub 🥚
No matter what, there is never a reason to cheat. If u knew b4 that ur life together wouldn't go to the end then you should have divorced b4 dating again. You cheat then you are the bad. And there's 2 sides to every story. U want a wife who slaves to u and ur family but u ever consider how much she works or already put in, considering her condition too. Not sorry for you my dude 💁🏻♀️
Why are you mad?? you CHEATED on your 1st wife?? If she was really half as bad as you made her seem why didn't you divorce her or have her relatives talk to her? By cheating, you are at fault no matter how "bad" the other spouse is And how come when you got married to your 2nd wife your story doesn't mention you serving the community anymore?? 🙄🙄
Brother, you choose to cheat instead to work and resolve your problem. You are a coward. You cheated and expected sympathy to justify your reason. Shame on you. Marriage takes both to WORK to make it work. You are wrong!
You talk bad about your ex-wife and then preach about living for yourself and not for others but did u realized your marriage ended because you were living for others and not for you, your wife and your kids???? If you were to stay home and be like how u preach then your wife would have cared about you the way you asked her to. You were a txiv zej txiv zos and not a txiv tsev for her. I bet if she tells her side, it’s different and you’re not so good. If you have been a txov tsev like how u are now, your ex wife and kids woksk have been happy. It’s your fault.
Bro, what are you trying to justify? I don’t understand. You mentioned that you like going out many times and then cheated because your wife is not the right person for you...and then sharing your story...what’s the main purpose/ point(s)?
This dude is clearly fabricating a story to justify his txiv dev actions that led to his divorce. He claimed he was such an active, dutiful figure in the community. If he wasn't as guilty as he thought he was, I'm sure half the people would be on his side. He claimed the wife never showed up to any community events. So why would the whole community just side with her against him all of a sudden? His story is clearly one-sided, and he's playing victim cause he knows he's in the wrong. 😂
Your problem here is that you CHEATED. If one relationship doesn't work, end that one first before starting another to avoid giving yourself a bad name. Not only that, your future spouse will always have the thought in her head that if you cheated on your first wife, you'll cheat on her, too. All those problems could've been easily avoided if you ended your previous marriage first. SMH.
Narcissist will never admit to wrong doing from beginning to end... that's y he's telling this story stating he's still right and everyone else is wrong...toxic
You're guilty for not divorcing before you start looking so you are at fault
Yog kawg..neej tsas ce tsis txhob hlub2 zoo yog qhov zoo duas ..hlub neej tsas ce tau yeeb ncuab xwb o mog kuv twb ntsib muaj ntsib txau lawm
Teem meem koj yog tus phem koj yog tus xub tsim ua ntej koj thiaj li txaj2 muag tawm rooj yog koj yog tus zoo ces koj yeej tsis txaj muag li os..txiv neej ces thaum xav2 yuav tus tshiab lawm ces muab liam tias tim poj niam phem xwb no paub txiv neej lub siab kawg
It doesn't matter if she supports you or not. You lost by cheating first. But yeah bro move on. Being upset doesn't help.
If you put that much effort into your first marriage, you wouldn’t have to go through all of that. All a wife ever want from her husband is loyalty, security, and support because all of that equal love in her eyes. If you can’t provide the basic then don’t get marry!
FINALLY, SOMEONE ELSE WHO GRADUATED FROM THE HMONG SCHOOL OF DRAMA. 👍 💪
Yog kawg li os txoj no hais yog tshaj txhob care txog cov neeg cem yus vim lawv khib khib yus xwb
When you are unhappy in your marriage, dont cheat, just divorce. When you cheat you create a bad reputation for yourself. All your first wife wanted was you to be a husband to her, but you chose to be a husband to your community.
Agree 💯
Kuv zoo siab koj tseem nkag siab koj poj niam es Koj tseem pab nws! Ho zoo li kuv ces kuv tus txiv tsis nkag siab kuv tsis pab kuv li ttwb them child support los tseem niaj hnub koom siab nrog nws tus qub poj niam thiab cov me nyuam ua rau kuv kom kuv mob hlwb tas li xwb! Niaj hnub muab nws cov me nyuam los txiav yus khub niam txiv txoj kev txij nkawm!
Tus neeg ntxim ntxim hlub cas rov hnav dub dua lawm thiab. Koj ma
First of all, should you have cheated, no. There is never a justification for cheating. There’s many ways to resolve or dissolve your situation before cheating. Second, no matter what you do in life good or bad, ppl will always talk shit.
Sounds like this man is too traditional, we live in this country we all need to adapt to the culture here. This man is too involved with the community and does not even care for his wife and kids.
What i hear from this story is that you are trying to justify why you cheated and mad at the world because they talking about your cheating 😅
Definitely there’s two sides to this story. 😏😏
There’s two sides and than there’s the truth.
qhov tseeb yog yus tus niam tsev tsis nyiam tawm rooj txhob tawm heev2 thiab yog qhov tseem2 ceeb lawm mam mus yus tus me niam tsev thiaj tsis chim2 thiab os....
Brother, your wife is the problem. You can not remain in that marriage. Divorce her than you can move on. No need to cheat. Since your in law claimed you to be so bad but they don't discipline their own daughter.
Brother, just move away from that town and start fresh. Be the better person.
She didn't want a life with you. She did everything to sabotage the marriage.
Get a restraining order against her. Secretly, video tape her. She's unhinged
Txiv dev justifying his txiv dev choices. 😂
Koj txoj kev tawm rooj is so important that u rather lose ur wife over it, good for u txiv dev. Koj txoj hauj lwm txiv zej txiv zos is top priority, but we'll see how far that takes u.
Hahaha, kuv mloog mas koj twb tseem mob siab kawg thiaj coj tuaj hais rau peb mloog los hos. Yog koj tsis mob siab mas yeej ntsiag to xwb pob
Oh boy, this man is trying to justify why he cheated on his first wife. If you cheat, you're the bad one. If she was so bad, why not talk to her and end the marriage on a more civil basis? You're not a good husband to your first wife.
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Kwv tij neej tsa are most likely to be biased against the other side. However, you are the one who lit the fire.
I’m not backing this man or story up but I have seen women who really don’t care or give attention to her husband or kids until they cheat or the love is not there anymore.
It really take two people to make it work if you want your man/husband to love and respect you or your side you must do the same back to his side. Some women can be mean too not all men JS!
I agree. There are some very mean and toxic women out there. I have seen women who are just mean and ugly to their husbands, but the husbands were never mean or ugly to the wives.
Tus txuv tsev Koj ua yuav cev lawm qhov Koj ua yuam kev Yog Koj tsis nrauj Koj tus poj niam tag Koj mam tham hluas Nkauj Yog thaum yus tsis hlub Ib tug neeg lawm tsi nws mus ua ntej mam tham hluas Nkauj nawb qhov no Yog qhov Koj ua yuam kev
Ua neeg nyob no yog yus yog neeg zoo coj zoo lawm yeej tsis muaj leej twg cem thiab thuam yus sav. Cov cem yus ces yog nws khib khib yus es nws piv tsis tau yus nws hais yus xwb.
Yus twb yog tus niamtsev uas tsa yus tus txiv li meejmom, kwvtij neejtsa, thiab txhawb nqa koom nrog nws cov hobbies. Thaum kawg nws tham hluas nkauj thiab hais tias yus yog tus phem. Txiv neej lub siab dev ces kawg that no thiaj zoo nws siab.
Yog kawg tej zaum qab dhau lawm es noj ntau dhau lawm es tsau tsau ntuav kiag!
Ntshe yus yeej ts zoo thb kakakaka
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I don't get hmong people! Why is it a niam tsev's responsibility to slave and cook and use her own money to use in her house for people that comes to her house for "meetings "???!!! Why can't they have a meeting and go home? Why does the wife have to play slave for people who comes and uses her house??
it's called hosting relatives. it does not matter if it's a meeting or get together your wife's duty is to host.
Anyway, prioritize ur honey no others. Mix more with others leads u to break relationships
....txiv loj leeb neej nrog sab ntsaus xwb neej thiaj tawg. Ntau leej t a b tawg zaj no
...ntxov paub ces twb zoo ntxov lawm
This story makes my blood boiling up he has the gusts to come up and talk about it.
Yog koj coj li niam no koj coj rau koj tu niam no ce neej yeej zoo lawm thiab mas koj yeej tsi hlub koj tu poj niam ua ntej
This guy needs to grow up. Yog leejtwg tau ib tug txiv zoo li no mas ntshe lwj siab tuag. He blamed everyone for his problems.
Tus poj Niam muab tus txiv zaj dab mus rau Nej cov TH-cam media hais li ib cov Niag ladies hais Kuv tus txiv Wb zaj dab neeg ua twb hais raug li. Cov neeg ua hais yus phem ce yog lawv khib2 xwb os.
1) koj khav tias koj paub kev cai Hmoob tas mas koj swb vim thaum koj tau cai koj tsis siv cai, koj thiaj yog tus pib yuam kev rau lub neej ua me nyuam tu siab tag (hos koj tus poj niam mas tsuas ua phem rau koj xwb vim nws tu siab koj yog txiv zej txiv zos), 2) koj hais tias koj txiv koj niam support koj kawm kev cai Hmoob tab sis koj kawm tsis tiav thiaj tsis paub tias ua hauj lwm rau yus tej kwv tij neej tsa ces tsuas yog zoo thaum luag siv tau yus xwb es koj thiaj tsis nco hwj xwm koj lub neej. Thaum koj siv tsis tau lawm ces kawg mag lub hnyos tsis hais leej twg. Koj tseem yuav tau kawm ntxiv nawb.
That's right. Don't care or give in
No matter how bad your spouse is and how horrible your marriage is, divorce first then date so you won't be a cheater. When u cheat, u lose all credibility no matter how good u think u are and what your reasons are.
You cheated first before you divorced your wife so what your in laws said was true. If you don’t like the name cheater than you should have divorce your wife first.
You can't justify cheating
😂😂😂😂😂😂 …. Sister, this story is soooo 100% Hmong mindset …
The ex wife is dirty
Are you telling us that your job is to serve your clan and the Hmong communities’ traditional needs in your town before helping your ex. wife and kids. When she needs you and complain then she is not a zoo niam tsev, so you cheat! And by cheating, you and your mistress end up together while you are still married. Of course, people will talk about you and your mistress - no surprise here! But good thing, you finally home because you have no more face to go any where with your mistress except home with her hiding your face!
Wishing you well mister.
I think you're using excuses to justify your ways (cheating). I don't think you love your ex enough. I, too, play the qeej. But I'd would never prioritize outsiders ahead of my wife. Playing the qeej is just a hobby. Gotta learn to prioritize buddy.
Stay away from the toxic people
Wow. So toxic. It's so funny how all of a sudden after divorce, your run away wife starts appearing at gatherings. 🤣 so conclusion is... if she did that before in her marriage there wouldn't be this story, But regardless! NO CHEATING!!! END IT FIRST BEFORE MOVING ON!! Bro. Who cares what others think. Do what's best for you. Move on carry on. Stay strong.
Tau ib niag txiv ua txiv zej txiv zog zoo li koj ces nrauj mus lawm los haj yam zoo xwb os
Ladies do better when it comes to child. Why do you make your kids lie just so you can get full custody. Stop turning your kids against the father.
Anyways, this guy is dumb for cheating. But they both were wrong!
Me nu aw Cas koj yuav tau lub neej zoo li ku thb os tu siab tshaj li os vim yus muab ruam dhau xwb os zoo qho koj dim o
Yog koj zoo txau li koj hai tu phem thiab kwv tij tsi nyiam tsua yog koj niam loj xwb ca tsam no ho hai tia kwv tij ntxub koj lawm thiab
Hais me paub ntau os, yus yim hais ces yog yus rov rhuav yus lub qe xwb mas thaub.
Me tub aw who care nws txawm yuav cem yuav ua phem npaum li cas los tsis care li os, rau siab ntso ua neb lub neej xwb os nawb. Thov kom koj tus poj niam tam sim no nkag siab koj nawb. Tus poj niam phem li koj tus qub poj niam no ces nws yog tus neeg muaj kev khaum tej lus dag no ib hnub yeej yuav raug rau nws xwb los mas.
You should of divorce first but again your ex is also super wrong for spreading bad rumor. I would of spread same rumor about your ex too so who ever married her or date her will feel same way and she would feel same pain. If she is innocent she would just leave as is since karma always hit the bad one. People are stupid these days.
Cheater will never admit their wrong doing and why their marriage broken. They always blame the other partner no matter what. When you have issues in your marriage you need to sit down and try to work it out not go and cheat to satisfy yourself. He never wanted to fix the marriage in the first place so his excuse was she did this she did that so he can go cheat..
Cov yuav ntawv cem kuj mloog kom tag tso pob cas peb hmoob yuav maj cem ua luaj thb cem nyhav ua luaj lawv muab hais tawm kom yus paub ua meej xb ne
(Jealousy ) tsis vam meej
There’s more to the story he hide somes from his sides.tus txiv yog thaum twg tham tau poj nrauj lawm ces ua txhua yam kom tus niam tsev nyob tsi tau xwb
My husband would not attend anywhere if I don’t go with him.
Yog kiag kuv tus pojniam .
Thaum kj yuav niam loj kj phee2j tawm2 room ca yuav niam you ho tsi tawm lawm ma Tim kj ne tsi xav hlub nw xwb kj tsi xav hlub nw e kj thiaj li niaj hnub mu
Cov neeg ua mloog koj niag maum dev qub cem ces cov neeg ntawv RUAM TSHAJ RUAM zoo li DEV XWM es tseem yuav txaj muag dab tsi
Zoo li kuv niam kuv txiv xwb mas.
Koj muab kuv zaj dabneeg hais vim kuv niam kuv txiv lub siab phem lim hiam rau kuv.
My name is Yupheng Vue losis Yias Vwj. Kuv tuaj tim thaibteb nrog kuv niam kuv txiv thiab kuv 5 tug muam thiab ib tug tij laug. Ob peb xyoos tom qab muaj kuv ob tug muam yau.
Skip forward to why my parent
You can't even manage your household, so you're not qualified to resolve other people's problems.
Brother, who cares what ppl say. Keep loving your wife and focus on bettering your life.
Men like you just find excuse to cheat that is all. Before doing the cheating, you should have divorced her, bro.
Koj tus poj niam siab pheem siab nyoos heev nws tsi hlub koj os nws siab pheem xwb
Sounds like there's more to the ear than what was said.
If you was to be the person you are now to your first wife marriage would be so much happier. Sorry that you never had the time to spend with your first wife. It’s wrong of your ex to caused problems with the kids but I just wonder why didn’t you just divorce her
WOW THAT'S ALL I CAN SAY
Have been there done that! Just ignore everything!
I like the part where he tries to build up his credibility in the beginning to justify himself, yet completely gets obliterated in the comment section.
The first issue you got is that you care too much about what ppl said and think about you. What is the point of this story? Justifying why you cheated and are still a victim? No point... if your life is good.. just move on.
So selfish. If love is only about your happiness then when you’re mad you just leave? Love shouldn’t be on feelings but should it should be sacrificial love. It’s not what you can get from your spouse but what you can do for them. That is how God created marriage to be, not this cultures perverted version of it.
cas hmoob meskas phem ua luaj li os
Cov me nyuam zoo li koj 2 tug me nyuam no ces muab xa cuag xa dab xwb mas vim txuam cov phev Liam lim hiam lawm
That is how lazy people do. Tus ex no yog dev yug
Tus niam nram ntej yog kj coj zoo li ko ces kj g g yog yawg nrauj hhruam
Zoo heev li o
Zoo siab uas koj tus tub tsis kam lees koj niam qub hluas nraug ntawv los ua nws txiv!👏 Hos koj niag txiv mas siab me tia2 li os. Ob peb nyuag phav nyiaj tsa tus tub no yim xwb los tseem tsib kom thwm thiab koj ua niam los koj tseem hais taus kom txhob tsib thiab! What an evil stepfather. Thov qhuas cov kwv tij uas lawv tsis kom koj tus tub tua ib tug nyuj rau tus neeg siab no. Koj kav tsij mus nrog koj tus tub mus church es kom koj thiaj li tsis tau ntsib tus neeg siab phem no ib zaug ntxiv lawm.
I’m confused….she never went to events BUT after divorce she shows up to everything? What really happened? This story is clearly not whole.
Bottom line u 2 were not compatible. Should have divorced. It's crazy how much effort ur ex wife put in acting on her jealousy after divorce, and how much effort you put into cheating before divorce. 😒
Me kwv aw tus poj niam ko ntsaws kheb nyiab sai npaum cas ces zoo npawm ntawd xwb os phem li ko
kuv hnov xwb kuv twb ntxub2222 koj thiab a
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This is not dab neeg neej neeg. I don’t know what this is.
Wow...so you no longer go live in funerals all weekend long after marrying your new wife and now have time to do a business with your poj nrauj. Had you focus on your marriage and family like now, you'd still be married now. So, whose fault is it that your 1st marriage failed?
The fudge! You divorced your first wife for not supporting your free Hmong community service to the Hmong community. Married the woman you cheated with then decide not to do the Community service anymore?
Should've stopped that community service with your first wife before your marriage went downward with your cheating. No wonder people talked smack about you. I would too. Using excuses for your cheating only. 😂
Reputation is nothing in the Hmong community, never mind what people has to say just live your life to the fullest cause I don't care about Reputation it's bullshit talk only
Sounds like he's lying. If you aren't happy divorce before you step out of your marriage. And you are a Shtty person. Because you just gave up your kids. You are the person that did wrong in this situation. No need to justify.
I’m confused, were you looking for sympathy? 😂 because that’s the least on our minds men or women
Phem npaum ko cas koj tsis nrauj naws. Koj lam dag kom tau tham hluas nkauj xwb. Ua pheej mus ua txix zej txiv zov ua dabtsi na. Twb yuav pojniam los nrog yus nyob es thaum yuav tau hos tsis nrog nws nyob. Neeg loj leeb txhob piav2 koj lub 🥚
No matter what, there is never a reason to cheat. If u knew b4 that ur life together wouldn't go to the end then you should have divorced b4 dating again. You cheat then you are the bad. And there's 2 sides to every story. U want a wife who slaves to u and ur family but u ever consider how much she works or already put in, considering her condition too. Not sorry for you my dude 💁🏻♀️
Ur wife doing is call self love
No need to help them
They r not important
I do same ur wife because be too good koj ruam xwb man lol
Why are you mad?? you CHEATED on your 1st wife?? If she was really half as bad as you made her seem why didn't you divorce her or have her relatives talk to her? By cheating, you are at fault no matter how "bad" the other spouse is
And how come when you got married to your 2nd wife your story doesn't mention you serving the community anymore?? 🙄🙄
Koj yog tus poob peev tus ruam yog yug los xiam tiam
Brother, you choose to cheat instead to work and resolve your problem. You are a coward. You cheated and expected sympathy to justify your reason. Shame on you. Marriage takes both to WORK to make it work. You are wrong!
You talk bad about your ex-wife and then preach about living for yourself and not for others but did u realized your marriage ended because you were living for others and not for you, your wife and your kids???? If you were to stay home and be like how u preach then your wife would have cared about you the way you asked her to. You were a txiv zej txiv zos and not a txiv tsev for her. I bet if she tells her side, it’s different and you’re not so good. If you have been a txov tsev like how u are now, your ex wife and kids woksk have been happy. It’s your fault.
Bro, what are you trying to justify? I don’t understand. You mentioned that you like going out many times and then cheated because your wife is not the right person for you...and then sharing your story...what’s the main purpose/ point(s)?
This dude is clearly fabricating a story to justify his txiv dev actions that led to his divorce.
He claimed he was such an active, dutiful figure in the community. If he wasn't as guilty as he thought he was, I'm sure half the people would be on his side. He claimed the wife never showed up to any community events. So why would the whole community just side with her against him all of a sudden?
His story is clearly one-sided, and he's playing victim cause he knows he's in the wrong. 😂