Daniel, I can relate to that feeling very well. In fact, that's how I felt throughout most of my 20s, both in my personal life and professional career. It was a sense of stagnation that lingered until my late 20s when everything unexpectedly changed within the span of a year, not exactly how or when I had anticipated. Reflecting on those periods of "pause," I now realize their significance in shaping my journey. As I entered my 30s, I discovered the value of those moments of stillness and became grateful for them, making the most out of those opportunities. In fact, I consider myself fortunate to experience such stillness. With age, more pauses naturally arise, and these periods provide invaluable time for learning, growth, experimenting, creativity, and finding balance. The truth is, once you commit to permanent decisions like marriage, homeownership, or starting a family, additional pauses are sure to come, or you may discover new aspirations. It's an ongoing cycle. At your age, you possess a level of maturity, life experience, success, and independence more than most. Enjoy the stillness, use it as time to reflect, learn and grow, and you’ll end up where you need to be.
Literally the only guy vlogger and style guy that I watch. So many guys are just trendy with zero style but Daniel is hella stylish in all that he does (even vlogging) so yeah, thanks dude for being ten cuts above every other guy on TH-cam
Definitely felt like my life was on pause for a while. I graduated and then couldn't find a job for 8 months and a couple days ago, I finally found one that goes exactly in the direction I want to and it made the wait and the struggle worth it ! Like you said, keeping a positive mindset and pushing forward was key.
I completely feel you. I’m 55yo and always did what I (thought I) wanted, changing jobs and taking the ones I wanted, but at the same time always feeling unsatisfied (that’s why I kept changing jobs). Until one day I heard someone saying that it was a mistake to chase the job we wanted to do; that what we had to do is to think of the kind of life we wanted to have, and then look for jobs that allowed us getting that life. It was kind of a revelation, and allowed me to stop that “always chasing” way of life I was having my entire life. Now I’m working towards having a job that will lead me to the life I want. Being in “chase” mode might not be the same that being stuck, but both might lead to frustration. Thanks for the vibe of your videos. Big hug from Spain. On behalf of my 4 dogs too 🐶
My (now) wife and I were in a long distance relationship for 3 + years. She was in the US and me in the UK…the whole time it felt like our lives were on pause! If it helps…it’s worth the ‘pause’ and we’re stronger for the experience!
I get where you were going! And you hit the nail on the head with being grateful. It took me a while but I realized if i verbally process what I’m grateful for; i can feel the heaviness of feeling stuck actually leave. Then I can do what I need to do! Because honestly it’s the story of our life. We will always GET and always WANT. It doesn’t go away; which is why gratitude must be a lifestyle. I’m thankful you show us how to be DOPE AF!
I rarely ever comment on YT videos, and I started watching your channel because the shorts were simple and relaxed fashion inspiration. But listening to your rant about being stuck really resonated, thanks for that.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about feeling like life is on hold and reminding us that we're not alone in experiencing this. I can really relate to that feeling right now as I'm getting close to finishing my master's degree later this year. I can't wait to be done with studying, move to a new city, find a bigger place that feels like home, and start a new chapter in my life. I also believe it's okay to feel this way as long as we keep working towards our goals and appreciate these moments, while being grateful for how far we've come.
I feel the same as you living in London for 10 years now and now 30 yo! However, my partner is from here and we are not living together but not in a rush to live together but also thinking a lot... I stopped worrying about getting furniture I like haha. I want the longtime to keep piece painting and lamp? I get it as long as I can afford it. I totally get you! Some days for me here is home and some days it is not...love and hate. My family is in Norway. Thanks for sharing and yes practice gratitude and peace/being content x
For a while I also felt my life was on pause and for a while that my dream was taken from me cuz I had taken a break from school for a bit. It was just me being in a bad mental state. But having that “pause” or freedom of having time to my own, not having to worry about classes and just exploring and experimenting new things, ideas, and hanging out with friends and family literally has transformed my life for the better. I feel like a brand new person and I feel like it’s important to take a pause in life (if we can) or if we get those moments. At first it seems like a bad thing or upsetting but with time, in hindsight, that pause seems like the best thing ever. It makes you realize your true self, your true ideas, goals, and just resets yourself.
2:08 i love that you’re adding more colors to your palette/scheme! I’ve always loved how you color coordinate all your things from furnishings all up to your clothings. Keep it up! ❤
I think I'd get a mirror to hang above the new tylko, then you can place it in a more central position along the wall and it doesn't feel quite so pushed into the corner? Just a suggestion!
Appreciate you talking about this. That simple Empathy is underrated. Sh*t happens in life and we gotta power through the obstacles while looking after ourselves.
I feel this so much! I graduated last year and I'm not yet able to move on, in the literal sense. I'm still in the town and the house I was in for uni and I can't move out yet because I haven't found the right job yet. Thankfully, I do have a job but it's not where I want/need to be. In time, things will change. The only constant in life is change.
I feel you bro. I just resigned from a 9-5 job after 7 years and figuring out what to do next. Just taking things slow. God is good. Your channel is so relaxing to watch. Well done.
Been in the same situation. You will miss the routine and the stability of it all. You will have a lot of time in your hands, but please reflect on what you want to do next. Maybe do creative things or a small online shop. Or start that one project you've been thinking about for so long. This transition period is an opportunity most people do not have, make the most out of it.
I love the genuine calmness your videos bring, even when you talk about your struggless, as I expierence simillar challenges and hearing you is like a gentle comfort talk🤍
Daniel, this past year I have related so much with what you're going through. I have been putting things off until I complete my degree for the past two years and I am close to finishing now but I could have still been working on my hobbies and goals instead of simply waiting. Now I've been working on making videos, working out a lot more, as well as planning some traveling this summer to make sure time is not being wasted while learning new skills. The way I see it time doesn't wait for anyone and anything could happen to us at any moment so it's better to live and enjoy each moment
Daniel, agreed on "life being on pause". It's something I've found myself sitting within for the last year. A couple books have helped me understand this feeling. I May Be Wrong by Bjorn Natthiko Lindeblad and Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Worth checking out.
I don't think I'd use hangers with the wide end caps for trousers. They're designed for suit jackets to keep the shoulder shape filled, but with trousers you're going to be fighting with them being uncentered, which makes the hangers not line up evenly, and it's much more noticeable with the wide end hangers vs hangers with a uniform thickness. Still think using natural wood is a good idea though, I have the natural wood hangers from container store in my closet
Really needed to hear your thoughts on feeling stuck. Definitely feel like things aren’t moving like I would want it but this makes me want to be more grateful for where I am.
Hey Daniel, there is one particular thing that many older friends of mine started when they felt like their life was on hold, which is learning an instrument. Music is one of the only things that you can practice almost wherever you are, at almost any time and you always have a next goal to look forward to and work towards. I have personally been playing violin since I was five years old, and it has connected me with so many people, helped me through so many hard times, I wouldn't be the same person without it.
Totally relate to feeling like life is on hold! I want a home, I want a dog, I want to travel but realistically there are so many things that make those things difficult to do or get. Calming and stunning video as usual!
Bro. The “life on pause” reflection resonated with me massively. I’m also a Kiwi in London and I’m really want to progress certain areas of my life, but struggling to see when/how.
i also relate to feeling like i can’t make major changes because i’m not really where i would like to be. it just feels like i’m stuck in this constant limbo of uncertainty. hopefully things get better with time
15:30 Waiting can be exhausting and some of us have been conditioned to feel guilty of not always having something in the back burner. It’s an everyday adjustment. Taking a plunge feels daunting.
This is the last place I expected to be making a comment on this topic, but I am so glad you recorded that segment on feeling stuck! What you said had me sat on my sofa stunned because you more or less described how I feel, and a the very similar situation I find myself in currently, particularly around location! I've been living in Hong Kong for 7 years now, and as much as there is so much I love and the countless fond memories I have, it just isn't for me anymore. I too feel like my life is on pause, and it just effects every aspect of life day to day. Constantly making compromises or decisions with the thought 'I will do that later when I am settled in the right place' can drive you insane! I have already taken the plunge and decided I am returning to my home (the UK) and I really hope this is the start of building towards what I really want in life. Thanks so much for that segment, if anything it just reaffirmed that I am making the right decision and the fact it is simply not healthy to stay in this state of feeling stuck. Make a plan, and get out! Wishing you all the best bro!
Learning to be patient is a part of life as well. In this time, be still and meditate on your goals and manifest those goals through this time of feeling “stuck”. It’s the universe way of slowing you down and teaching you patience. 🙏🏾
Thankyou for sharing your thoughts. I feel the same way and it's refreshing to hear someone talk about it, I initially thought it was going to be an ad for therapy lol.
Daniel, in regards to pillows, highly recommend the Simba pillows! I have tried A LOT of pillows and this one is amazing. Had it for over a year. The nanocube filling can be fluffed as often as you like which makes the pillow fluffy again!
Hey! You’re not alone! I’m also feeling a little bit stuck. I’m studying product design (I really love it) but I’m seeking to be pushed harder by the uni and start making real projects and working. I love your videos by the way. Always looking forward to them on Sundays 😊
Daniel, so nice of you to talk a bit about your life, besides your “job-routine” so to say! I also feel like my life is on pause because I am stuck to a life which is progressing like in a small amount. I have to get money to move out my parents house because I want to study at a uni and I want to live alone but I am physically feeling good and I strive for my goals! Once again thanks for sharing your situation!
I totally understand the feeling of your life is on pause. I am 22 and my father and I decided that our trajectory together is going to be to open a cafe together but that takes time to wait for the right cafe to go for sell and blah blah blah. I live in California and so being able to purchase a home feels like such a long shot away but I want so badly to build a home and have a home of my own with my partner. Even so much as getting an apartment together right now is impossible. You're not alone, we just have to try and enjoy the waiting room as much as we can right now and take advantage of it!
Congratulations on adding Tret into your skincare! Please push through the side effects. It will be the single most worthwhile thing you can ever do for your skin, as I have to mine. It makes skincare easy and fun after that because other products just don't matter as much anymore, but please be diligent with your sun protection!
Hey Daniel, love your new arrangement on your bedroom dressing! Miss a plant maybe :) like hanging green stabilized plants or branches all in line above the dressing
I followed you for a while and I really like your lifestyles I’m at my “on pause” area too. I’m in a relationship for two and a half years,I’m not saying I don’t love her it’s just feel like I’m stuck in a situation and didn’t move forward to our goal together maybe affected by people or something. Literally at the same page as you are,and haven’t found anything words to describe it.
the clothes pole droops in the center, which is spoiling the symmetry. a simple upright pole in the center sitting on the cupboard below would sort it .
If it's any consolation, my friend's brother who lived in New York got himself a dog and about a year later he then moved over to London and the dog's been coping pretty well. As long as he finds good green spaces for her to run around in she's happy.
Hey Daniel, something cool to build engagement and support around your brand would be to do a basics giveaway! Maybe a basics tee and pants from your brand to a lucky viewer. I know this would be perfect for those of us who want to support but can’t financially for whatever reason. Just a suggestion, great video as always!
Hi Danielll, your content make me want to vlog all day, great work man. I mean, you could actually create something abstract with a paint on your wall, since you don't have a headboard for your bed, and also, swap a pair of your pillow case to something patterned, say like stripes...
I'm in the same situation and I feel that what is really helping is stopping living as I'm waiting for my life to get to "that" point. I'm personally trying to keep doing whatever I feel is the right thing to do for this period, such as getting a dog, even if it doesn't suit with the idea of what I have expected me to do in my future life. Time will pass and you'll have spent it listening to yourself and your needs. Hope this doesn't sound arrogant, just wanted to share. Have a nice day 🌱
Ngl Daniel, I have been your fan since 2017/2018 and I have seen you grow massively which is inspiring. With regards to your life been on pause, I don’t think your life is on pause because you have achieved a lot ever since you left New Zealand. Tbh, Why can’t your girl move over here since you have established yourself here already than moving over the pond?
That's the worst part about being in a long distance relationship. You're not really part of their everyday life and they are not really part of yours. Its missing all the little things that happen everyday. And not being able to enjoy your time alone because it would be so much better with that other person. Life kind of pauses and only continues when you're with them. Its holding off your happiness for some unknown time in the future. I send you much love and strength. Thank you for the Video
Dude I wish I had watched this when it had first come out, because holy shit that "life being on pause" segment really hit home for me right now. I'm currently taking a gap year after my first year of college, and I might end up having to take another one. While I know this is for the best, and that my year (or two) spent working, learning about myself/pursuing hobbies I didn't have time for while in school, and figuring out how to live as a self-sufficient adult will be rewarding and pay me back later down the line, it does suck that I'm going to be behind all of the friends I've made in terms of graduation and whatnot. I'm really just trying to remind myself that the path that's marketed as the default isn't automatically the best for me, and you saying that it's okay to feel like your life is on pause came at a good time. I hope everything with moving to America works out for you man, if you ever open a brick-and-mortar store in New York, maybe I'll make the trip to visit from here in Massachusetts :) Best of luck in all your endeavors and thanks for the fantastic content, take care of yourself
I like your content a lot! I find a little bit of myself in you, you just the more older and mature version which kinda makes you to my role model. Thank you!
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I'm also going through the pause and waiting phase. I can definitely relate with you! Keep up with the amazing work broh!
You should get a wooden dowel to replace the metal rod for hanging the trousers. It wouldn’t bend in the middle and it would add some more contrast to that space
As far as the sheets go.. they’re all lying 😄.. changing them is always shitty. And mate, in the past I’ve been in a long distance for about 2.5 years so I can kinda relate to what you are feeling but believe me.. you’re actually moving forward as we speak and in a couple of years you’re gonna look back and see how far and fast you’ve moved forward since then ( now ). Cheers! 💪🏻
About the pillow recommendation, I forgot the name but get some pillows with bamboo inside, bc it has great compression but still remains plush and it is great
Tip to AVOID CHANGING DUVET SHEET REGULARLY and still have CLEAN sheets: use a flat sheet between you and the duvet (like a hotel does). 1. Considered more luxurious 2. Better in London summer 3. Reduce need to wash and change duvet sheet regularly (which we all know is the main pain)
im in my early 30's and i still feel like I'm in a constant transition in my life, from relationships, to places and even the work. I feel like it's constantly evolving into (hopefully) something wonderful, but it's definitely tiring. I'd take your moment of stagnation, doing what you can in those moments and embracing that time to focus on the work and/or peace in front of you.
Daniel, I can relate to that feeling very well. In fact, that's how I felt throughout most of my 20s, both in my personal life and professional career. It was a sense of stagnation that lingered until my late 20s when everything unexpectedly changed within the span of a year, not exactly how or when I had anticipated. Reflecting on those periods of "pause," I now realize their significance in shaping my journey. As I entered my 30s, I discovered the value of those moments of stillness and became grateful for them, making the most out of those opportunities. In fact, I consider myself fortunate to experience such stillness. With age, more pauses naturally arise, and these periods provide invaluable time for learning, growth, experimenting, creativity, and finding balance. The truth is, once you commit to permanent decisions like marriage, homeownership, or starting a family, additional pauses are sure to come, or you may discover new aspirations. It's an ongoing cycle. At your age, you possess a level of maturity, life experience, success, and independence more than most. Enjoy the stillness, use it as time to reflect, learn and grow, and you’ll end up where you need to be.
thank you for posting this, I'm in my 20s and i do feel this stagnation. Thank you for your wisdom.
Nonsense
This is an amazing perspective
This was such a necessary thing to hear, I'm 24 and experiencing such but this is somewhat helpful in me finding peace in the stillness
Literally the only guy vlogger and style guy that I watch. So many guys are just trendy with zero style but Daniel is hella stylish in all that he does (even vlogging) so yeah, thanks dude for being ten cuts above every other guy on TH-cam
Definitely felt like my life was on pause for a while. I graduated and then couldn't find a job for 8 months and a couple days ago, I finally found one that goes exactly in the direction I want to and it made the wait and the struggle worth it ! Like you said, keeping a positive mindset and pushing forward was key.
I completely feel you. I’m 55yo and always did what I (thought I) wanted, changing jobs and taking the ones I wanted, but at the same time always feeling unsatisfied (that’s why I kept changing jobs). Until one day I heard someone saying that it was a mistake to chase the job we wanted to do; that what we had to do is to think of the kind of life we wanted to have, and then look for jobs that allowed us getting that life. It was kind of a revelation, and allowed me to stop that “always chasing” way of life I was having my entire life. Now I’m working towards having a job that will lead me to the life I want. Being in “chase” mode might not be the same that being stuck, but both might lead to frustration. Thanks for the vibe of your videos. Big hug from Spain. On behalf of my 4 dogs too 🐶
How wise. I love this outlook. Thank you for sharing.
It’s so nice to see a new episode of London Diaries! Stating the obvious by saying that I love the TH-cam Shorts.
My (now) wife and I were in a long distance relationship for 3 + years. She was in the US and me in the UK…the whole time it felt like our lives were on pause! If it helps…it’s worth the ‘pause’ and we’re stronger for the experience!
I get where you were going! And you hit the nail on the head with being grateful. It took me a while but I realized if i verbally process what I’m grateful for; i can feel the heaviness of feeling stuck actually leave. Then I can do what I need to do!
Because honestly it’s the story of our life. We will always GET and always WANT. It doesn’t go away; which is why gratitude must be a lifestyle. I’m thankful you show us how to be DOPE AF!
I rarely ever comment on YT videos, and I started watching your channel because the shorts were simple and relaxed fashion inspiration. But listening to your rant about being stuck really resonated, thanks for that.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts about feeling like life is on hold and reminding us that we're not alone in experiencing this. I can really relate to that feeling right now as I'm getting close to finishing my master's degree later this year. I can't wait to be done with studying, move to a new city, find a bigger place that feels like home, and start a new chapter in my life. I also believe it's okay to feel this way as long as we keep working towards our goals and appreciate these moments, while being grateful for how far we've come.
I love that its a longer video! They are so peaceful
keep it up!
Another amazing vlog, Daniel! Thanks for sharing!
Ps.: loving the Brazilian songs!
Cheers from Brazil!
I feel the same as you living in London for 10 years now and now 30 yo! However, my partner is from here and we are not living together but not in a rush to live together but also thinking a lot...
I stopped worrying about getting furniture I like haha. I want the longtime to keep piece painting and lamp? I get it as long as I can afford it.
I totally get you! Some days for me here is home and some days it is not...love and hate. My family is in Norway.
Thanks for sharing and yes practice gratitude and peace/being content x
ID on those trousers at 2:14 pls
For a while I also felt my life was on pause and for a while that my dream was taken from me cuz I had taken a break from school for a bit. It was just me being in a bad mental state. But having that “pause” or freedom of having time to my own, not having to worry about classes and just exploring and experimenting new things, ideas, and hanging out with friends and family literally has transformed my life for the better. I feel like a brand new person and I feel like it’s important to take a pause in life (if we can) or if we get those moments. At first it seems like a bad thing or upsetting but with time, in hindsight, that pause seems like the best thing ever. It makes you realize your true self, your true ideas, goals, and just resets yourself.
2:08 i love that you’re adding more colors to your palette/scheme! I’ve always loved how you color coordinate all your things from furnishings all up to your clothings. Keep it up! ❤
I think I'd get a mirror to hang above the new tylko, then you can place it in a more central position along the wall and it doesn't feel quite so pushed into the corner? Just a suggestion!
Appreciate you talking about this. That simple Empathy is underrated. Sh*t happens in life and we gotta power through the obstacles while looking after ourselves.
I feel this so much! I graduated last year and I'm not yet able to move on, in the literal sense. I'm still in the town and the house I was in for uni and I can't move out yet because I haven't found the right job yet. Thankfully, I do have a job but it's not where I want/need to be. In time, things will change. The only constant in life is change.
I feel you bro. I just resigned from a 9-5 job after 7 years and figuring out what to do next. Just taking things slow. God is good. Your channel is so relaxing to watch. Well done.
Been in the same situation. You will miss the routine and the stability of it all. You will have a lot of time in your hands, but please reflect on what you want to do next. Maybe do creative things or a small online shop. Or start that one project you've been thinking about for so long. This transition period is an opportunity most people do not have, make the most out of it.
my favorite youtuber finally update new London Diaries❤❤❤❤ Love it
As a Brazilian fan, it's always so exciting to hear a Brazilian song in your videos... Thank you for that, Daniel! :)
What Brazilian song is that? And who's the artist??
@@_iamomari the style is bossa nova!
@@guilhermespinolaramoa8597 yes, it's bossa nova, but what song is it? who is the artists??
@@_iamomari Song: "O que ficou". Artist: Clara Mendes.
@@LuizFelipe-fn5xv obrigado meu amigo!
Life on pause will always be a thing, especially for those who have constant goals. So live and be grateful for the momment. Not promised tomorrow
I love the genuine calmness your videos bring, even when you talk about your struggless, as I expierence simillar challenges and hearing you is like a gentle comfort talk🤍
finally, thanks Daniel, been waiting for this 🙌🏻🙏🏼
Daniel, this past year I have related so much with what you're going through. I have been putting things off until I complete my degree for the past two years and I am close to finishing now but I could have still been working on my hobbies and goals instead of simply waiting. Now I've been working on making videos, working out a lot more, as well as planning some traveling this summer to make sure time is not being wasted while learning new skills. The way I see it time doesn't wait for anyone and anything could happen to us at any moment so it's better to live and enjoy each moment
Daniel, agreed on "life being on pause". It's something I've found myself sitting within for the last year. A couple books have helped me understand this feeling. I May Be Wrong by Bjorn Natthiko Lindeblad and Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Worth checking out.
I don't think I'd use hangers with the wide end caps for trousers. They're designed for suit jackets to keep the shoulder shape filled, but with trousers you're going to be fighting with them being uncentered, which makes the hangers not line up evenly, and it's much more noticeable with the wide end hangers vs hangers with a uniform thickness. Still think using natural wood is a good idea though, I have the natural wood hangers from container store in my closet
Beautiful and soothing video as always! 🙌🏼
Really needed to hear your thoughts on feeling stuck. Definitely feel like things aren’t moving like I would want it but this makes me want to be more grateful for where I am.
It’s a good day ❤
Hey Daniel, there is one particular thing that many older friends of mine started when they felt like their life was on hold, which is learning an instrument. Music is one of the only things that you can practice almost wherever you are, at almost any time and you always have a next goal to look forward to and work towards. I have personally been playing violin since I was five years old, and it has connected me with so many people, helped me through so many hard times, I wouldn't be the same person without it.
Totally relate to feeling like life is on hold! I want a home, I want a dog, I want to travel but realistically there are so many things that make those things difficult to do or get. Calming and stunning video as usual!
Bro. The “life on pause” reflection resonated with me massively. I’m also a Kiwi in London and I’m really want to progress certain areas of my life, but struggling to see when/how.
i enjoy the uniqueness in your channel. the vibe, sensitivity. it all!!!
i also relate to feeling like i can’t make major changes because i’m not really where i would like to be. it just feels like i’m stuck in this constant limbo of uncertainty. hopefully things get better with time
Best part of the week
Thanks a lot for another splendid video, mate! Your work is a true tower of strength!
15:30 Waiting can be exhausting and some of us have been conditioned to feel guilty of not always having something in the back burner. It’s an everyday adjustment. Taking a plunge feels daunting.
Coop sleep goods have the best pillows imo. Completely changed the quality of my sleep!
This is the last place I expected to be making a comment on this topic, but I am so glad you recorded that segment on feeling stuck! What you said had me sat on my sofa stunned because you more or less described how I feel, and a the very similar situation I find myself in currently, particularly around location! I've been living in Hong Kong for 7 years now, and as much as there is so much I love and the countless fond memories I have, it just isn't for me anymore. I too feel like my life is on pause, and it just effects every aspect of life day to day. Constantly making compromises or decisions with the thought 'I will do that later when I am settled in the right place' can drive you insane! I have already taken the plunge and decided I am returning to my home (the UK) and I really hope this is the start of building towards what I really want in life. Thanks so much for that segment, if anything it just reaffirmed that I am making the right decision and the fact it is simply not healthy to stay in this state of feeling stuck. Make a plan, and get out! Wishing you all the best bro!
Learning to be patient is a part of life as well. In this time, be still and meditate on your goals and manifest those goals through this time of feeling “stuck”. It’s the universe way of slowing you down and teaching you patience. 🙏🏾
Thankyou for sharing your thoughts. I feel the same way and it's refreshing to hear someone talk about it, I initially thought it was going to be an ad for therapy lol.
Thank you for sharing your feelings about “being stuck.” Needed that.
Daniel, in regards to pillows, highly recommend the Simba pillows! I have tried A LOT of pillows and this one is amazing. Had it for over a year. The nanocube filling can be fluffed as often as you like which makes the pillow fluffy again!
Oh wow those Durango boots fit so well with the aesthetic and the fact that the leather will age well in the long run.
Hey! You’re not alone! I’m also feeling a little bit stuck. I’m studying product design (I really love it) but I’m seeking to be pushed harder by the uni and start making real projects and working.
I love your videos by the way. Always looking forward to them on Sundays 😊
Thank you for sharing Daniel it is good to know other people are going through similar experiences
My brotha I needed to hear those words of encouragement today , thank you 🙏🏽
Been following you for yearsss now , much love my g 🤙🏽
Daniel, so nice of you to talk a bit about your life, besides your “job-routine” so to say! I also feel like my life is on pause because I am stuck to a life which is progressing like in a small amount. I have to get money to move out my parents house because I want to study at a uni and I want to live alone but I am physically feeling good and I strive for my goals! Once again thanks for sharing your situation!
I totally understand the feeling of your life is on pause. I am 22 and my father and I decided that our trajectory together is going to be to open a cafe together but that takes time to wait for the right cafe to go for sell and blah blah blah. I live in California and so being able to purchase a home feels like such a long shot away but I want so badly to build a home and have a home of my own with my partner. Even so much as getting an apartment together right now is impossible. You're not alone, we just have to try and enjoy the waiting room as much as we can right now and take advantage of it!
This insights about feeling "on pause" was exactly what I needed to hear - thanks for sharing your thoughts on this!
Congratulations on adding Tret into your skincare! Please push through the side effects. It will be the single most worthwhile thing you can ever do for your skin, as I have to mine. It makes skincare easy and fun after that because other products just don't matter as much anymore, but please be diligent with your sun protection!
Thank you for sharing this Daniel, I’ve been feeling everything you explained and your words really resonated with me.
Those boots are really dope 🖤
Hey Daniel, love your new arrangement on your bedroom dressing! Miss a plant maybe :) like hanging green stabilized plants or branches all in line above the dressing
I followed you for a while and I really like your lifestyles I’m at my “on pause” area too. I’m in a relationship for two and a half years,I’m not saying I don’t love her it’s just feel like I’m stuck in a situation and didn’t move forward to our goal together maybe affected by people or something.
Literally at the same page as you are,and haven’t found anything words to describe it.
the clothes pole droops in the center, which is spoiling the symmetry. a simple upright pole in the center sitting on the cupboard below would sort it .
what is that first song its incredible
Pillow recommendation
Foam Option: Casper Hybrid pillow
Down alternative Option: Casper original
If it's any consolation, my friend's brother who lived in New York got himself a dog and about a year later he then moved over to London and the dog's been coping pretty well. As long as he finds good green spaces for her to run around in she's happy.
Life pause is suck, sometimes good before you get into big decisions. Keep going man you’re very talented person.
Yoooo after a long day watching your content is what i actually needed @Daniel Simmons
Could you do a video where you talk about the meaning/significance of your tattoos? Would love to know some of those stories!
Always appreciate your honesty and vulnerability over all Daniel. You'll get unstuck don't you worry 💪
Wow I totally relate to that stuck feeling, We got great things coming bro. Keep your head up
It's not just about the destination, it's also about the journey. Don't delay happiness.
The brown boots are so sick
Hey Daniel, something cool to build engagement and support around your brand would be to do a basics giveaway! Maybe a basics tee and pants from your brand to a lucky viewer. I know this would be perfect for those of us who want to support but can’t financially for whatever reason. Just a suggestion, great video as always!
Your life is not « on hold » its just on its way to where you want it to be. Enjoy the journey and don’t let it pass unnoticed! 💪🏼🙏🏼
Hi Danielll, your content make me want to vlog all day, great work man.
I mean, you could actually create something abstract with a paint on your wall, since you don't have a headboard for your bed, and also, swap a pair of your pillow case to something patterned, say like stripes...
I'm in the same situation and I feel that what is really helping is stopping living as I'm waiting for my life to get to "that" point. I'm personally trying to keep doing whatever I feel is the right thing to do for this period, such as getting a dog, even if it doesn't suit with the idea of what I have expected me to do in my future life. Time will pass and you'll have spent it listening to yourself and your needs. Hope this doesn't sound arrogant, just wanted to share. Have a nice day 🌱
Thank you for sharing love the boots great colour 👏🇬🇧
Ngl Daniel, I have been your fan since 2017/2018 and I have seen you grow massively which is inspiring. With regards to your life been on pause, I don’t think your life is on pause because you have achieved a lot ever since you left New Zealand. Tbh, Why can’t your girl move over here since you have established yourself here already than moving over the pond?
Beautiful interior decor, very Danish🤍
I love your videos, they give me positive energy.
That's the worst part about being in a long distance relationship.
You're not really part of their everyday life and they are not really part of yours.
Its missing all the little things that happen everyday.
And not being able to enjoy your time alone because it would be so much better with that other person.
Life kind of pauses and only continues when you're with them.
Its holding off your happiness for some unknown time in the future.
I send you much love and strength.
Thank you for the Video
Pillow recommendations: Have you tried Japanese buckwheat hull pillows? Great neck support. I’ve used them for years.
Love you my man, keep going❤
the boots with a long trouser look so dope.
Dude I wish I had watched this when it had first come out, because holy shit that "life being on pause" segment really hit home for me right now. I'm currently taking a gap year after my first year of college, and I might end up having to take another one. While I know this is for the best, and that my year (or two) spent working, learning about myself/pursuing hobbies I didn't have time for while in school, and figuring out how to live as a self-sufficient adult will be rewarding and pay me back later down the line, it does suck that I'm going to be behind all of the friends I've made in terms of graduation and whatnot. I'm really just trying to remind myself that the path that's marketed as the default isn't automatically the best for me, and you saying that it's okay to feel like your life is on pause came at a good time. I hope everything with moving to America works out for you man, if you ever open a brick-and-mortar store in New York, maybe I'll make the trip to visit from here in Massachusetts :) Best of luck in all your endeavors and thanks for the fantastic content, take care of yourself
I like your content a lot! I find a little bit of myself in you, you just the more older and mature version which kinda makes you to my role model. Thank you!
Love how you styled the boot man always been fan of your video 🙏🏾
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I'm also going through the pause and waiting phase. I can definitely relate with you! Keep up with the amazing work broh!
loving the vibe Dan
We need the London diaries Tees soon and the green hoodie is fire 🔥. We need it all
You should get a wooden dowel to replace the metal rod for hanging the trousers. It wouldn’t bend in the middle and it would add some more contrast to that space
That's was first time watched you. I'm braziliam and I very happy for you used a braziliam song at the beginning of your video!
As far as the sheets go.. they’re all lying 😄.. changing them is always shitty. And mate, in the past I’ve been in a long distance for about 2.5 years so I can kinda relate to what you are feeling but believe me.. you’re actually moving forward as we speak and in a couple of years you’re gonna look back and see how far and fast you’ve moved forward since then ( now ). Cheers! 💪🏻
About the pillow recommendation, I forgot the name but get some pillows with bamboo inside, bc it has great compression but still remains plush and it is great
Loved the video Daniel! Will you be releasing your new trackies (the untapered one) in navy?
Tip to AVOID CHANGING DUVET SHEET REGULARLY and still have CLEAN sheets: use a flat sheet between you and the duvet (like a hotel does).
1. Considered more luxurious
2. Better in London summer
3. Reduce need to wash and change duvet sheet regularly (which we all know is the main pain)
im in my early 30's and i still feel like I'm in a constant transition in my life, from relationships, to places and even the work. I feel like it's constantly evolving into (hopefully) something wonderful, but it's definitely tiring. I'd take your moment of stagnation, doing what you can in those moments and embracing that time to focus on the work and/or peace in front of you.
It's good to see you back
The Brazilian music in the first minutes of video, Godamnnn ❤️🔥
2:09 It’s nice to see a pop of colour.
I was just wanting some shirt to use with my gym wear and you just give me the idea of cutting all the tshirts I have roting! Thanks
I like the boots Daniel and thanks for your vlog. It does inspires me
I got the posture pillows from ikea, they are like $50 a pillow but amazing for your back and neck.
I would be interested in seeing a tattoo tour. You have a lot of really interesting pieces.
the pause talk was amazing!