Ben Affleck : A Very Ungrateful Narcissist? Part 1

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  • @sznwlc_9472
    @sznwlc_9472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    To paraphrase the great Ricky Gervais (at the Golden Globes): “I’m proud to introduce Matt Damon, the only person Ben Affleck hasn’t been unfaithful to.” (Damon’s reaction was equally priceless.)

    • @acasiere1
      @acasiere1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol what was Damon's reaction

    • @mattier.9095
      @mattier.9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, that was a perfect moment at the Golden Globes. 🤣

    • @oldsol2012
      @oldsol2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Love Matt Damon. He seems A ok to me. Genuinely a nice chap.

    • @vr_rp
      @vr_rp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahah haha! Love them both!

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Have never liked the guy. Love his ex-wife Jennifer Garner however. Two different vibes. Sorry avoiding a certain key on my board that does not work. Rhymes with the beginning character of wee.

  • @riverman837
    @riverman837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Affleck and JLo deserve one another. I believe all narcs should be with other narcs (leaving the rest of us outside their circle of abuse). Jennifer Garner -- you're not missing out. Good riddance!!!

    • @rebeccashrimpton7743
      @rebeccashrimpton7743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agreed. Narcs only deserve to be with other narcs. Bennifer is doomed.

    • @riverman837
      @riverman837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lindam9018 Yes, JLo having custody is problematic (lack of control environment). But I believe Marc Anthony is a narc too, so which parent is better? Poor Max and Emme!!! 😭

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s funny.. earlier today I was thinking how nice it would be if all narcs will just live together in the same place and leave us alone

    • @soureviews1277
      @soureviews1277 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The two narcissists in this are Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner. JLO has a big ego and is overly confident but in no way is she a narcissist because she's never cared about what people said about her unlike Ben and Garner whose entire life is centered around their image

    • @marialalasmith9562
      @marialalasmith9562 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Someone finally said it, JLO doesn’t fit in the narc description… Ben 100 % does

  • @redsugar723
    @redsugar723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    So happy you did this analysis. When Ben Affleck went on Kimmel to address this, he never apologized for his comments about Garner. Instead he said the negative reaction to his comments "hurt his feelings". That made my narc alarm bells ring. His feelings are hurt for REACTION to HIS terrible comments about his supportive ex-wife? Only a narcissist would come up with that (or exhibiting narcissist behavior).

    • @jillruben8924
      @jillruben8924 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Including she is the mother of his children. He and J Lo deserve escorted. He plays a victim with her now. Pathetic.

  • @calamityjenn
    @calamityjenn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    How many photos exist of him crying in the passenger's seat whilst his long suffering ex- wife drives him to rehab? Too many. He and his ugly back tattoo are ridiculous.

    • @Em-im1yz
      @Em-im1yz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Haha it was the back tattoo comment that got me. Bravo

    • @rosesilveira344
      @rosesilveira344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jennifer Garner is an even bigger narcissist. Eternally unfaithful, a user, and pretentious
      liar. She got her break by posing as James Garner's niece til her called her out. The difference is Karma finally caught up with her. But in denial, beating Ben & Jlo to the altar with her new supply. Plus she uses her kids covertly.

    • @rosesilveira344
      @rosesilveira344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      His long suffering ex wife is a greater narcissist.

    • @LA-gh3mi
      @LA-gh3mi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rosesilveira344 J.G displays ZERO behaviour of a narc but Bennifer my God the ooze Narcissistic behaviours constantly. Shallon Lester TH-camr and worked for a Celeb mag said she never heard one bad word nor did J.G put a foot wrong but Benny been around the block however, she has been publicly humiliated time and time again by that person, J-Ho forgets she was jilted by Benny for J.G..J.G made a Husband and a father out of Benny boy, J-Ho just wants to get one over on J.G. Ben getting, Notoriety with J-Ho who strips for a living. J.G is an empath whom didn't choose a career and a male over her kids
      Bennifer are a moving circus. Lets see how it ends and Benny likes his strippers. Gwyneth Paltrow said it herself, Ben would be happy with strippers in his lap and a beer in each hand. More likely to believe behaviours displayed right in front of our eyes with comments from people who were partnered with him over a fanatical approach.

    • @renee8813
      @renee8813 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rosesilveira344 Sorry but if you believe Jennifer Gardner is a narcissist then you don’t know what a narcissist is.

  • @tamarapalmer6009
    @tamarapalmer6009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Yesssss! Been waiting for this one ever since his ‘I drank because my wife made me’ interview!

  • @flippafloppa2961
    @flippafloppa2961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    You read my mind!!! I was reading an article about his interview today and I was thinking: I wish HG could put Ben Affleck under the tudorscope

    • @michelleclark8099
      @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What interview! What reason could he possibly be in the news?

    • @reader5400
      @reader5400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michelleclark8099 slagging off on his wife! Blaming HER for his active alcoholism!!!

    • @gnostic268
      @gnostic268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr! I read the latest article about him being a whining crybaby when he is a grown man and realized I wasted a few minutes of my life that I can't get back. Lol He truly is that disgusting O' Bannion character from Dazed and Confused imo

    • @vr_rp
      @vr_rp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’ve a powerful mind.

  • @TheMensRea
    @TheMensRea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Narcissist or no, Ben Affleck is a knob.

  • @margie3389
    @margie3389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    What an absolute creep, to say that about Jennifer Garner. She has stood by all his pathetic behaviour, what about self responsibility for his actions.

  • @amiek9226
    @amiek9226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    So, Ben Affleck would have us believe that the breakdown of his marriage drove him to drink. It couldn’t possibly be the other way around, could it?! That his drinking helped cause the marriage breakdown?? Oh, no, that would mean he’d have to hold himself accountable, something that HG Tudor has repeatedly said represents a loss of control to the narcissist. Jennifer Garner is well rid of him. For the sake of facade management if nothing else, Affleck ought to realize that throwing the mother of his children under the bus is not a good look.

    • @angelaramsay1778
      @angelaramsay1778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My take is he always blamed his marriage breakdown on his drinking and htat his wife gave him more chances than he deserved. Perhaps we read different papers ?

    • @IwannabeMrsHG69
      @IwannabeMrsHG69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol yes perfect

    • @amiek9226
      @amiek9226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@angelaramsay1778 my comment was in relation to Ben Affleck’s recent interview with Howard Stern, in which Affleck said he felt trapped in his marriage and that’s why he started drinking and that if he and Garner hadn’t split up, he’d probably still be drinking. There was an internet backlash to these statements, so he’s now trying to walk it back.

  • @lindalouise3391
    @lindalouise3391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I had no idea Affleck was so accomplished. I must say however, I have not yet met any narcissist who was grateful. They all seem ungrateful, insatiable as if there is never enough of any supply they desire. So, I believe he has a well constructed facade.

    • @bristolcorvid8894
      @bristolcorvid8894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I’ve always found Affleck’s contemptuous face & dead eyes disturbing. Never found him a good, interesting or engaging actor.

    • @AdultThirdCultureKid1971
      @AdultThirdCultureKid1971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@bristolcorvid8894 Someone in the past decade or more said he should play Scott Peterson in a movie because he has that face and dead eyes. I have to say I agree

    • @irenewatson
      @irenewatson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bristolcorvid8894 You have identified exactly the problem. Actors are supposed to be able to show emotion in the eyes but his remain dark and emotionless.His expression also usually seems to be in contempt mode.I believe some narcissists have to practice expressions in the mirror to fit in.I have to say what comes naturally to us is something they have not been given

    • @peko7446
      @peko7446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AdultThirdCultureKid1971 good one

    • @leonilamontgomery9464
      @leonilamontgomery9464 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Science is real, they will end up miserable!

  • @loulou9978
    @loulou9978 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The minute he blamed Jennifer Garner for his drinking problems I knew he was a narcissist. That woman literally saved his life not to mention his relationship with his children. He belongs with JLo! She’s the narcissist supreme. Jen Garner is living a great life with a lovely normal man now! Bless her!!

  • @sweetestperfection4280
    @sweetestperfection4280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    The narcissist that was hoovered by the narcissist from the block.

    • @JeliOra
      @JeliOra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hahahhahahaha good one ☝️ 🤣

    • @lashawnroyale9185
      @lashawnroyale9185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯

  • @tessaj7632
    @tessaj7632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Perhaps H.G. could do a video of Jlo? I'm quite sure she could be labeled a narcissist. She seems to say one thing to get people to believe she's such a caring person but her treatment of those supposedly important to her are cruel. She especially love bombs and then devalues. Shelves and reuse.. Maybe a video on the two? Narcissists Reunite?

    • @theonecounttheonecount8477
      @theonecounttheonecount8477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You answered your own question. Trust your own judgment, but don't spend your life wondering about the famous.

    • @michelejashinsky8409
      @michelejashinsky8409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Can’t wait to see how that relationship ends 💣 ⚡️ 🔥 😂

    • @rebeccashrimpton7743
      @rebeccashrimpton7743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes, HG has previously said that JLo is a narcissist 👍

    • @AndriaBieberDesigns
      @AndriaBieberDesigns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She is. They both are.

    • @sweetestperfection4280
      @sweetestperfection4280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh pleaaaaseeee yes.

  • @Yellowtravelers
    @Yellowtravelers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Jen garner once said if you were good with him it was like the sun was shining on you but if he was done with you he was cold as ice!

    • @normafoster1959
      @normafoster1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I read that Jen Garner said that. Also read that Gwyneth Paltrow, his ex GF, said Ben's ideal woman was "holding a beer in both hands wearing a bikini". Can't knock it I guess.

    • @juliam1099
      @juliam1099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's kind of chilling...and sad.

    • @dianaharding5819
      @dianaharding5819 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought he had mood swings, never seen him as a narcissist Diana

  • @veronicawelsh5313
    @veronicawelsh5313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    He OOOOOOZES narcissism I think.

    • @gnostic268
      @gnostic268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True. Imo he also oozes the smell of bullsh*t

  • @traceywilkins5798
    @traceywilkins5798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I cant watch any stars or celebrities anymore they are entitled rich and selfish and should not be telling us how to live our lives

    • @veronicawelsh5313
      @veronicawelsh5313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Well said. Full of themselves and up their own arses!

    • @angelaleishman1570
      @angelaleishman1570 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bunch of woke assholes! Ricky Gervaise didn't half cut them down to size in his famous Oscar's tirade!!

    • @sherylbeamer7189
      @sherylbeamer7189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @Sinderelleelostmyglasslipper66
      @Sinderelleelostmyglasslipper66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I won't give any of them my hard earned money due to their vanity, lying, and thinking they are better than me.

    • @gotitmaid3540
      @gotitmaid3540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

  • @Sotto_
    @Sotto_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I've never been a fan of his. What snippets I saw, he did nothing to interest me. Quite the opposite, I realize I've avoided him.
    Well, now I know why. My narc radar was pinging.

  • @pinkcarnation231
    @pinkcarnation231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    H.G., would you consider putting Tom Cruise under the Tudorscope? That will be a multi-episode series, and I would love to hear your evaluation.

    • @torhockers1482
      @torhockers1482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Now that’s a cauldron full of spices & depth. I’ll second that most definitely. He’s a curious chap.

    • @plantemor
      @plantemor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Tom cruise is next level.

    • @southbug27
      @southbug27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cruise & David Miscaviage. That Scientology guy is next level creepy. I wish a cult deprogrammed could go in & rescue his poor wife. Bless her heart. She must live a miserable life.

    • @LeeDon76
      @LeeDon76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tom Cruise is too obvious

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LeeDon76yeah but so is Baldwin and he did Alec

  • @heartlocket91
    @heartlocket91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I long suspected him to be a Narcissist. I’m happy to see that I was right. Thank You HG.

    • @VesnaVK
      @VesnaVK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Note, HG did not confirm whether Affleck is a narcissist in this video. He carefully emphasizes that at this stage he is posing the question and beginning to investigate.

    • @plantemor
      @plantemor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tbf I personally don't thing HG has proved anything about whether or not Affleck is a narcissist yet. He might have some gotcha moments in the next video but this whole video is basically him saying: this could be narcissistic behavior if you squint".
      I don't like Affleck myself but I need more proof of narcissistic behavior other than someone being an actor and having a shitty childhood - and to be fair to HG, this video is not about conclusions but it is an introduction and him lining up the ducks. If Ben indeed is a narcissist then I think we need more proof than him being accomplished in his field and doing lots of charity. Plenty of the famous people HG has called empaths have done the same type of things that Affleck has done if we strictly stick to the information in this video. It's important to think critically - especially when it comes to consuming HG's content. You are, after all listening to a selfadmitted narcissist so approaching with caution would be a good idea in my opinion.

  • @Jessicaunarex
    @Jessicaunarex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Also, I think 'trapped by Jennifer Garner' = life is not as thrilling or exciting anymore, as I have routines and chores and kids to take care of. I'm bored and so I'll return to the exciting life of JLo.

    • @AdultThirdCultureKid1971
      @AdultThirdCultureKid1971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Jessica S You nailed it. Routines aren't supposed to be thrilling and exciting.

    • @Jessicaunarex
      @Jessicaunarex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@AdultThirdCultureKid1971 He wants glitter and glam. I do wonder the timeline of his 'problems' with Garner and how they coincide with his Argo ego. 2012 they were prob doing well b/c he was well fueled from the attention. Then, like everything, it fades and he is left with his daily life. What a twit.

  • @aroyaliota
    @aroyaliota 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    While I enjoy Affleck’s work, I’ve always found him personally to be an oaf & boorish. Just confirms education is no measure of an individual.

    • @michelejashinsky8409
      @michelejashinsky8409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I never found him to be a believable actor I always saw “Ben Affleck” not the character

  • @bunnyvelour2820
    @bunnyvelour2820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    He might be a narcissist, but he’s definitely an addict - even if he is sober at the moment. Addicts definitely have very narcissistic behavior. He also has (had?) issues with gambling. He’s really high functioning though (show business tolerates a lot of bad behavior, I think he did really well at the casino, and if he didn’t, NBD, he’s rich), so that makes it hard to overcome addictions. Anyway, being in love is his “drug” now, and JLo loooooooves love too (she’s never single for long). What does AA call it when you don’t drink but you’re still an idiot? A dry drunk, I think.

    • @robinmendell1848
      @robinmendell1848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Very well said! Having cross addictions and narcissistic, entitled behavior are the hallmarks of the severely addicted, wounded personality! I'm sure as the spouse of an addict, his ex-wife endured much suffering and struggles to try to be supportive for her husband even so far as feeling solely responsible for getting him the proper help and treatment he needed if she could humanly do so. Having small children and being invested in keeping a family unit together, wives/spouses of addicts will endure multiple addictions that crop up mercilessly for addicts and their loved ones like alcohol, sex , porn , gaming, gambling, etc...The three Cs ... you didn't Cause it, you can't Control it, and you certainly can't Cure it come into play here for spouses/partners of addicts who hit bottom but denial and narcissism keep their loved one in their disease. Ben will continue to keep looking for his "Golden Period" partner as HG brilliantly says, but everyone will disappoint his deluded sense of entitled grandeur. As an addict, sex and "love" are also his high. Like any drug, his brain requires a bigger and bigger hit to work and stay engaged, and he feels bored or "trapped" once again and moves on to the next substance, starlet, or casino. The people that will really suffer will be his children. He will say thoughtless things, hurt their tiny hearts, confuse them with multiple live-in lovers, possibly new procreated siblings he lives with instead of them, and with each new leading lady he may very well repeatedly say or infer to his innocent children that this is the woman who now makes him happier and more complete than mommy or they ever could and doesn't daddy deserve to be happy like his kids do??? Yes , Jennifer Garner will again tirelessly seek out the best experts and therapists to repair the thoughtless damage of the ex she thought she divorced but this time for her own children.

    • @rlsloan80
      @rlsloan80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The last two narcs I served as IPPS for were addicts. The addiction only takes away their control to hide their disorder. They are always predators. Them getting clean (which usually only involves trading one addiction for another) only makes them apex. It's exasperating how many people so readily blame the addiction when the reality isn't "They're fucked up because they are on drugs or alcohol!", but rather "They are on drugs or alcohol because they are fucked up!".

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rlsloan80I have borderline personality disorder and I’m also an addict (alcohol, drugs, gambling). There’s zero doubt that I wasn’t self medicating my pain away. Narcs are miserable people too, I’ve yet to date one that doesn’t have an addiction (I have dated many). Diff is, I am self aware and Ben A isn’t. He actually thinks circumstances made him drink when it was HIM. He loathes himself and deflects blame onto others.

  • @Tasja_Fox
    @Tasja_Fox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you H.G. I can hardly wait for part 2. I believe as he was talking about being sober on the Howard Stern interview he was actually intoxicated as well as on Jimmy Kimmel where he was almost slurring.

  • @rlsloan80
    @rlsloan80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ben first began pursuing JLo while she was still married to Chris Judd. They both get what they deserve, but it won't last.

  • @michelleclark8099
    @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish Ghizlain Maxwell would be put under the Tudorscope.
    That would be a number one stunner.
    It’s said that she even pilots submarines to get things done. And flies airplanes, too.
    My goodness😳.

    • @mypillowguy445
      @mypillowguy445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100s of videos about MM and not one about the woman who helped Epstein find his victims.
      Very strange.

  • @lynettebrown2871
    @lynettebrown2871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Never really warmed to Ben, however liked Matt D, who seemed real and warm..possibly the sense that B is a narcissist and Matt isn’t.

    • @lindajones8101
      @lindajones8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And yet the two men appear to be really good friends. Could never figure that one out after I heard via HG that Affleck was a narcissist. Well, he’s met his match with J Lo.

    • @michelleclark8099
      @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t like Matt either. But, at least he admitted that he’s miscast as Jason Bourne. And that he was not masculine enough for the character. I read the books, I was horrified when Matt was cast as Jason Bourne. A character that I read and enjoyed since I was around 16 years old. I hate that Ben cast himself as the lead in Argo. I am the fan of the both the late spymaster and his wife.

    • @jnnlis
      @jnnlis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Minnie Driver might disagree

    • @deborahbutcher3933
      @deborahbutcher3933 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Only seen Ben in Armageddon & Dogma. Much preferred Dogma.

  • @BM-fy7ef
    @BM-fy7ef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I actually feel that JLO is also one. She can’t be alone for 5 minutes. They won’t last.

    • @celiaferreira2028
      @celiaferreira2028 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She can't be alone for 1minute. After bathroom she rubs to someone on payroll.

  • @ilonas7760
    @ilonas7760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    He is a fellow Leo. And yes, to go about saying I did all I did because she made me to is a classic finger pointing. Poor Garner!

  • @R-E-Tudor
    @R-E-Tudor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ve always felt that his role in Dazed and Confused was close to how he is in real life… also my surname is Tudor as well, so I love the term ‘Tudorscope’ 😅

  • @m.r1456
    @m.r1456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He was an Alcholic before he married Jennifer Garner. Feeling trapped did not cause him to drink. He has a known alcoholic problem. He was wrong to even suggest that he felt trapped, and began to drink. He needs to take responsibility for his ever present drinking problem. Whether they took his words out of context. Why would you even suggest that your children & wife made you feel trapped. I am not a big fan of adults publicly trashing each other, especially when children are involved, they are the ones that get hurt.
    Jennifer Garner deserves better. Let him live his glamorous life with Jennifer Lopez, he is her problem now.

  • @DBSG1976
    @DBSG1976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Such a fascinating series.

  • @lulumoon6942
    @lulumoon6942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Tudorscope not only entertains, but educates in a delightful, unique way. Very grateful! 🙏

  • @terrymartin7147
    @terrymartin7147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The fact this man would publicly humiliate his preteen children with a diatribe against their mother demonstrates the pathetic state of his character. Any woman, especially with children, who becomes involved with him needs to realize that if he is that insensitive to his own children, how will he treat children that are not his. Run JLO run.

    • @robinmendell1848
      @robinmendell1848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm afraid JLo is may not be much better than our boy Ben. Two narcissists kinda like a Liz and Richard Burton thing! I'm afraid she is rather selfish with her own twins putting her insatiable ..excuse me... passionate love life first... before the needs of her own twins. It seems like she just kinda inserts them after ARod or whoever is the love of the life is this week. I mean I'm sure she feels this is my long term, committed partner and don't we look happy and blended on ET with the other guy's kids?! All very innocent from her perspective. But frankly her kids look kinda washed out and sad next to her, even when they're smiling. Maybe that's harsh. But I agree on your comments about the kids. And you see these JLo kids all over the map. Yeah, the pictures look fun once they're there and travel is a worthwhile learning tool. And a camera is there saying some dumb word to get the kids to smile at The World Series or the poor darlings were just tickled for the sake of the photo op. And flying private has perks as well as the hypocritical carbon footprint, but kids as a rule prefer stability and jet setting by any standard even with ARod gets tiring and wearisome for kids. Look what happened to Brangelina's marriage despite the family's worldwide jet setting. And there's were reports of all the Jolie Pitt kids losing their ever loving minds in airports running around unfiltered with cans of Coca Cola. That didn't turn out so well in custody hearings for Brad and Ang. And these are just mom and mom's boyfriend at some point for Jlo's kids. And weirdly, when it comes to bathroom and juice boxes and whining and runny noses, I'm betting nannies and entourages that these people always travel with do the real nitty gritty of mothering and parenting so Alist power couples can take their Xanax and snooze on the flight before their makeup and close ups. It's terrifying how a narcissist's kids become accessories. And then you add a hollywood narcissists' children. And BenLo's Kids together for PR and profit? It's sickening. Oh I'm sure Mr. Tudor can foresee all kinds of wrath and horror when those two icons go at it and finally break up and exact revenge on each other in the press. But the poor kids. Hard to prove that kind of abuse in a court of law.

    • @robinmendell1848
      @robinmendell1848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And narcs are always irresistibly charming at first for however long they need be to their romantic prospect and their offspring! Once they ensnare their prey is when they get lazy and inconsistent with their treatment of those in their web!

    • @SuzLa1
      @SuzLa1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wonder if he's one of those men who make youtube videos saying they don't want women, but instead of doing what they say by leaving women alone to be happy, they spend a lot of their time on the video comments trying to make women feel bad about themselves and promoting others abuse women?

    • @loba49
      @loba49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      J. Lo has to be an even bigger narc than him. I have heard various people talk about waiting on her and she is an entitled nightmare and cheapskate. Massively insecure and cold. They probably deserve each other.

    • @Numb217
      @Numb217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@loba49 She is definitely one of the mean girls. I took a look at her contract demands years ago. What a diva.

  • @janelleespinosa6247
    @janelleespinosa6247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You have done so much research, it is amazing. I think you could do a television series on this. Seriously, it's fantastic work.

  • @francine6485
    @francine6485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    WOW..... I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE DOING GOOD OLD BEN. Next you can do the narc on narc action between him and Jennifer Lopez. The celebrity gossip make me laugh when they say oh how cute they look together oh isn't it wonderful.. two narcissists who hoovered each other last time he discarded her first. I think this time she'll discard him. No way she's going to let him get away with that again. They're still in the golden But the clock is ticking.. let the devaluing begin.....

    • @cyndigooch1162
      @cyndigooch1162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      francine archambault The clock sure is ticking and my alarm bells went off (pun intended) as soon as I heard that him and Jennifer Lopez were back together! 😱

  • @margaretsmist7140
    @margaretsmist7140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Affleck and Lopez deserve each other. I wonder how it works with two narcissists in the relationship?!

    • @Rubylove48
      @Rubylove48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There’s a pecking order.

    • @Femininelovevibes
      @Femininelovevibes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beautiful until it’s not. Egos and power get in the way.

    • @OfficalSeere
      @OfficalSeere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its "love" at first sight than later turns into chaos huge egos and soon the 2 narcissists will become bored with each other (cheating) than soon they split

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ask Ethan Crumbley’s parents. They created a sociopath child.

  • @Aashka_The_Mystic
    @Aashka_The_Mystic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yea, I was hoping you would do one on him 😊

    • @sagesnakechalmer2294
      @sagesnakechalmer2294 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too he is the worst . Just looking at photos of him makes me feel physical revulsion he's so obnoxious and unattractive

  • @natalianakoriakova8084
    @natalianakoriakova8084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Let us see how he'll end up after some time with jelo. First time around it didn't end up peachy.

    • @michelejashinsky8409
      @michelejashinsky8409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh how I loved those pictures when they were dating the first time around while they were kissing he was always peeking making sure the cameras were there‼️

  • @irenewatson
    @irenewatson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I see a narcissist who drifts between his celeb partners who appear not to mind.I suspect Matt is the only one who doesn't sit in judgement of him and that is why the friendship has lasted.

  • @jbjjbb
    @jbjjbb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    He told the author Mike Szmanski during an interview for Chasing Amy that he's bisexual. The author put it in his book Bisexual's Guide to the Universe.

    • @lindajones8101
      @lindajones8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now I’m feeling so so sorry for Affleck’s father.

    • @Candy-O1776
      @Candy-O1776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No!

    • @jbjjbb
      @jbjjbb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Candy-O1776 Look up the book. The authors have a website with the quotes.

  • @cjv5690
    @cjv5690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Looking forward to part 2!

  • @LA-gh3mi
    @LA-gh3mi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "It's not ideal to have an unplanned pregnancy and have a hasty wedding on the beach" -Ben Afflek on Jen Garner.
    "If I was still in my marriage I'd still be drinking" Ben Affleck on Jen Garner.
    Ben Afflek and J-Lo both " The media attention was the reason we spilt"...not his infidelities or Addictions😏🙄deflection, deflection, deflection. He keeps dropping himself in it.

  • @rhyd5863
    @rhyd5863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The mother is obviously the narcissist parent, encouraging the kids to make home movies and auditioning them into roles in commercials at age 7 via a friend! Then she controlled their money. You don’t get into child acting without your parents pushing you.

  • @meryampicon586
    @meryampicon586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A partir de ésta larguísima descripción de la muy exitosa carrera profesional de B. Affleck, sumando también todos sus logros a nivel humanitario, llego a la conclusión que el alcohol y el narcisismo, más alguna dosis de talento son indispensables para lograr premios y reconocimiento a nivel mundial. Así que tomaré las medidas necesarias para mejorar la ingesta de alcohol, y aumentar todo lo posible mi autoestima. Talento me sobra. Thank you!! hgtudor

  • @rhondamills3786
    @rhondamills3786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I would love to see HG analyze Howard Stern. Would he be a narcissist?

    • @jnnlis
      @jnnlis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He would. Ask first wife

  • @LouLou.97
    @LouLou.97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    As soon as I saw him blame his ex wife for his drinking problem I was like.....narcissist? Lol. I understand you usually begin drinking because something triggers you, but at the end of the day you decide to take that drink and no one forces you. There needs to be some accountability.

  • @blahasdirtysock3657
    @blahasdirtysock3657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Richard Branson next for the Tudorscope please.

  • @nadinewilliams6465
    @nadinewilliams6465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Casey Affleck and the rumours of sexual misconduct a few years back is intriguing. He brushed it off and Benny put him in his films at the time.

    • @arcangela26
      @arcangela26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not just rumors, there was an out of court settlement in the end. It happened around 2010. This happened before he won his Oscar too!

  • @amberleach5501
    @amberleach5501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so glad you are doing this HG...when I heard about what he said the first thing I thought was 'Narc'

  • @mayfair10
    @mayfair10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YES! Thank you, HG.

  • @flower_goddess1279
    @flower_goddess1279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wonder when J lo is on your list HG ? After all her union with Affleck is match made in heaven!!!!!

  • @miniprepper8284
    @miniprepper8284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Gone Girl was amazing. At least he has talent and substance to mitigate his ugly ways... of course, we don't have to put up with him up close and personally.

  • @wintercomesearly
    @wintercomesearly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Despite having Matt Damon as his BFF, Ben is a supersized jackass. And despite his awards, Ben isn't the real actor in the family. That would be his younger brother Casey who is a magnetic screen presence.

  • @colinhalliley111
    @colinhalliley111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jen will have to dump him for good this time ! No third time around for Jenny From The Block

    • @michelejashinsky8409
      @michelejashinsky8409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he dumped her if I recall last time

    • @vr_rp
      @vr_rp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why? Let them be happy and make love.

  • @GermanTaffer
    @GermanTaffer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HG Tudor: You give me really an enlightening view on life! Extremely interesting! Thank you!

  • @ylarrymore
    @ylarrymore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ben is forever the victim. No accountability whatsoever. Now Jen trapped him. Meanwhile, shes providing ALL the structure & consistency. Mmmm k Benny, if you say so 🙄
    Wait until his kids read that one.

  • @CB-dv8sj
    @CB-dv8sj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, HG! Extremely informative.

  • @beverlyallison4768
    @beverlyallison4768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Must of took 100 hours to gather all of this history. Bravo

  • @CherFREEMarauder
    @CherFREEMarauder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Town was underrated. Hes very talented, no denying that.

  • @Jessicaunarex
    @Jessicaunarex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He is great in Chasing Amy. I’d heard though about Good Will Hunting-that the film was actually about a math genius ‘codebreaker’ but then there was a 3rd individual who helped to rewrite it and focus on the emotional aspect of Will. This person ultimately signed over the credit rights. I don’t know how true this is, but this is what I heard.

    • @michelleclark8099
      @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate that he cast himself in the lead for Argo.

    • @michelleclark8099
      @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know, I was really enjoying Gone Girl, and then 3/4s of the way in, it turned into both a different movie, and with cheap irritating plot writing and twist.
      I remember asking myself, did a new script and/or director enter the movie 😐⁉️. Why oh why? What in the world happened?

    • @Jessicaunarex
      @Jessicaunarex 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michelleclark8099 Argo = Ego.

    • @michelleclark8099
      @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessicaunarex indeed.

  • @PK-gw2rz
    @PK-gw2rz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Affleck is both figuratively and literally a BLOCKHEAD! Jennifer Garner was way too classic for him JLo is at his level lo lo lo....

  • @cherylsiy
    @cherylsiy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m just wondering if Jennifer Lopez is also a narcissist?

  • @francescaderimini4422
    @francescaderimini4422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been waiting for this! Thanks!

  • @tommymitchell7884
    @tommymitchell7884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ungrateful is a mild wird...he's more sadistic, and malignant.

  • @beedee2920
    @beedee2920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He is his own worst enemy 😵‍💫

  • @missgolightly5488
    @missgolightly5488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I never ever liked the guy..😖 for no particular reason since I was totally unaware of cluster b's back then , the details of his upbringing and personal life or how accomplished he has been..I never fancied him as a man or as an actor either, and I always got a very bad vibe from his entire aura ..He broke poor Jennifer Garner she seems to be a very kind hearted empathetic person that was caught in the web of this predator

  • @normafoster1959
    @normafoster1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He got a huge phoenix tattoed all over his back a year or so ago. I saw something about him saying he is of Scottish decent, "Augleigh" or some such surname. He has creative talent, but he's not all that. No sense of humour, takes himself too seriously, and wears a silly lacefront.

  • @hxfx6771
    @hxfx6771 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HG: would you give your analysis of John-Paul Miller and the Mica Miller case? Her family is trying to get legislation passed regarding coercive control.

  • @ryangrundy4290
    @ryangrundy4290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I didn’t really get the ending, but yeah.
    I’m gonna go watch 1 minute of him in an interview then make my determination…
    I always get him mixed up with Kevin Spacey and Mathew McChonohey.

    • @harrietcraig7817
      @harrietcraig7817 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am I the only one who cannot listen to M McConnaughy for more than 2 minutes?
      I honestly can’t understand him-not his accent, his thoughts.
      Yet somehow he became some kind of modern philosopher.
      Wish someone could enlighten me.

  • @GMarieBehindTheMask
    @GMarieBehindTheMask 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What about JLo?

  • @nataliekay286
    @nataliekay286 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I honor how you choose to experience H.G. 🙏

  • @sharonbennett3318
    @sharonbennett3318 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Garner should stop holding his hand everytime he messed up.Garner should start thinking for her own happiness with her BF and the kids

  • @Jinglesong
    @Jinglesong 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I quite enjoyed this, thank you.

  • @louise1578
    @louise1578 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Oh this is very interesting, maybe Iv get Ben all wrong. Looking forward to the next one.

  • @cheriemonami
    @cheriemonami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He's playing the blame game. Probably still doesn't know why he was unhappy. Jennifer Lopez should probably get out while she can. Usually a person says they tried to save their marriage but couldn't. It means they tried to get the other person to do what they wanted, to change in order to meet their expectations.

  • @jencheevers983
    @jencheevers983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Firstly I didn’t realise he was so accomplished so kudos to Ben for that.He does seem to want to tick all the woke boxes but doesn’t seem to know really what he’s talking about on some things.for one thing trans people have exactly the same rights everyone else has

  • @RexytheRexy
    @RexytheRexy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The difference between narcissists or narcissistic actors who base their performances on cognitive empathy (Affleck and Jolie) and empathic actors who base their performances on emotional empathy (Heath Ledger and possibly Matt Damon) fascinates me.
    Thank you for that insight.
    (I'd be interested to see Sir Anthony Hopkins under the Tudorscope, given his autism diagnosis)

  • @darlaberg3060
    @darlaberg3060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More please!

  • @elisae4335
    @elisae4335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't quite see upon what you said how Affleck is a narc. So far it is only great accomplishments that he has done. I would lean toward JLO being a narc. She seems all about the self and besides her appearance seems to have nothing else to sell. She looks full of herself and always parade her narcissistic supply.

  • @maryshaffer8474
    @maryshaffer8474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Remind him he was in rehab after breaking up with Jennifer Lopez first.

  • @sheryldalton8965
    @sheryldalton8965 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like many of his movies but i think his brother Casey is a better actor. His performance as the homicidal deputy in 'the killer inside me' was chilling. He was also great in "the assasination of jesse james by the coward robert ford".

  • @michelleclark8099
    @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely hate that Ben cast himself as the lead in Argo. I am a fan of both the late spy/disguise master and his spy/disguise master wife.

  • @bluntweirdo
    @bluntweirdo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    why is he famous. i have seen peeling paint with more presence.

  • @jane5789
    @jane5789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Several years ago, there was a Ben Affleck/Sam Harris/Bill Maher debate, which generated a lot of media coverage. Affleck was intellectually/emotionally out of his depth, but made a headline-hitting, cringingly, woke (before woke became a mainstream term) contribution. To me, it seemed like he was saying everything for effect, hoping to appeal to a particular section of the media. It made very uncomfortable viewing. th-cam.com/video/vln9D81eO60/w-d-xo.html

    • @juliam1099
      @juliam1099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I remember this. Just looked at a few minutes. He comes across as so arrogant.

  • @kitsmith693
    @kitsmith693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    JLO is ideal, they’ve got so much in common. Ben really loves his children, almost as much he loved their nanny

  • @annacarter8703
    @annacarter8703 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing I see is the Jlo do more of the holding on to Ben, Ben act.like he can take it or leave it his face expression tells it all. Jlo walks around like she in love Ben walks around like I guess.just look at his face expression when with Jlo she more into it the Ben.

  • @michaelbooth90
    @michaelbooth90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very interesting as always...honestly though I felt the mother had narracistic red flags, controlling career, husband might have been drinking due to broken. Love to hear why not

  • @brendalee6983
    @brendalee6983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was hoping for this

  • @cynthiapereira8403
    @cynthiapereira8403 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting that his father seems to have served as the inspiration for Good Will Hunting.

  • @estellacoggins715
    @estellacoggins715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought he was great in 2 movies, Argo and Hollywoodland. He played himself in Gone Girl Lol!!!!

  • @crencottrell7849
    @crencottrell7849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've NEVER cared for this man

  • @jessicaxx172
    @jessicaxx172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Voyage of the Mimi was his best work, tbh

  • @kurehanzo
    @kurehanzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I guess this explains why I've never liked him.

  • @carlawatson7859
    @carlawatson7859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    All these players are Dems so I do not have much respect for them destroying our country and their weird beliefs, but I will give Jennifer Garner the honor she deserves. Most women become vile towards their soon to be x and after the divorce especially with Ben's issues. Jennifer took a much higher road that took a lot of inner strength to see the bigger picture of Ben getting sober and being in their children's lives. Ben's lack of gratitude that Jennifer even allows him within 100 miles of those kids after his destructive behaviors is just that... more destructive behaviors. Pride leads to a down fall and until he humbles himself for the second chances Ben has been given, he will fall again.

    • @alijane6675
      @alijane6675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Imagine being so small minded you dismiss half the population based on political affiliation. That’s some serious immaturity right there.

    • @southbug27
      @southbug27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She puts her children & their well being first. She’s one celebrity who actually deserves to be looked up to & respected, especially as a mother. Her daughters are blessed to have her.
      I wonder if she may be the type of divorced parent who waits until the children are 18 to consider remarriage because she doesn’t want her children to have to put up with a revolving door of boyfriends/husbands. It’s so hard when you can’t feel comfortable at home because of your parents latest crazy lover who hates the children because they want all the attention. I was lucky to have one home, my main home, where that wasn’t the case. I feel sick thinking about all the kids today who have that environment at both homes for their entire childhoods since birth; they must be so emotionally & psychologically tired of life by the time they turn 18. We should all be ashamed of the broken families & misery we’ve given our country’s children because we can’t keep our pants on or are too stubborn to compromise & work on a few things. Here’s hoping some of these kids grow up & demand we gain healthy marriage tools & change the world for their kids.

    • @mypillowguy445
      @mypillowguy445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your cult leader has 5 kids with 3 baby mommas, he cheated on all of them, he said he wants to fuck his own daughter, he has 40+ accusations of sexual assault, he was found guilty of rape, he has been indicted on 82 charges in 4 different jurisdictions and he tried to overthrow the government because he couldn't deal with losing.
      But tell us again who is destroying your country. 😂😂

  • @nadinewilliams6465
    @nadinewilliams6465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gigli was an interesting flop that involves Affleck, JLo and Smith. It was a shock to all of them that it was, bad.

  • @funfuronahotday
    @funfuronahotday ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks

  • @Em-im1yz
    @Em-im1yz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think his actual personality is that of his gone girl character.

  • @ac4181
    @ac4181 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did anyone else get the Jennifer Garner Neurogena ad? Lol

  • @michelleclark8099
    @michelleclark8099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Jennifer Garner, but she is a piece of work herself.
    If I had a son, would I like him to marry her? No.
    She trades men up, at the drop of an opportunity.

  • @tamaradarlinggaudas5530
    @tamaradarlinggaudas5530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An Alcoholic Narscasis stems from insecurities
    Now having Jennifer Lopez to use for his ego