We don’t have time to waste! I honestly think it’s a good thing. We save ourselves from experiencing a lot of bullshit in life. We get straight to the point and down to the bottom line
Ummm no mostly it’s your immaturity and your scared of being hurt urself or worse hurting ur ego that is instead of feeling the whole situation making assumption and taking decision according to that mostly those decisions and u could have benefitted but u like to destroy things rather than waiting or building it . It shows The naive cancer side of urs which is 7 th from Capricorn
nish K I am a cancer sun and cap moon so your actually wrong. I do feel things out completely ... people are naive and get taken advantage of all the time. Capricorn is not one of them.
True Brilliance your assessment is amusing but u claiming to be cancer sun and cap moon and that’s why what is untrue is an example of what I was saying , anyone and everyone can be taken advantage off just because u exclude ur self of the situation or person doesn’t lets u escape your vulnerability hahhaha Capricorn sun moon or rising are themselves the 7th house which represent the other world and its people and also how u interact with them ; the 7 th house is cancer so u project Capricorn’s on to the 7 th house of people relationships cancer so act like a crab ; cutting people off and intuitively understandings them is not something capricorn capable it’s the cancer the moon
The world doesn't deserve us. We are the most compassionate, empathetic, and givers to a fault at times. But people appreciate us when it's too late and blame us for no longer subscribing to their b.s. So many people say that we have high standards, base on their low or lack of standards. This is a perfect read. Thank you!
Exactly this man is dead on with his interpretation of us because he is one of us! I’ve had to cut off my sister recently who is a Virgo who is very evil and manipulative!
How is he so spot on? This is true. We're not cold, we just care too much and can't bear to have someone not care about our emotions. When we love, we love deeply, but when we are done, we are done. He has a point we can't stand the bs, at all.
I could be so emotional, I'm talking about super emotional. I think this is why Capricorn's could be so cold. There really is no in between with us. We are so emotional that we become numb to emotions. Sometimes when we get deep in our feelings, we get so deep that we can't breathe under water. So sometimes we choose to not feel or give a fuck. Emotions sometimes gets the best of us. But we Capricorns don't want everyone to know we have feelings. Are feelings are our weakness a lot of the times. Capricorn's are the most emotional Earth sign but sometimes you'll never tell by the way we act ,but sometimes, when Capricorn are deep in emotions, our face tells it all
As a Capricorn, we can't and don't care if we don't respect or value the other person and in return they don't value and respect us. Personally, I give respect automatically until the person shows me they aren't worthy of my respect. I then try to maintain that respect for them for some time and if they don't voluntarily make efforts of self improvements I reluctantly decide to remove myself. If I don't value or respect the person, I have no benefit from having them in my life. Being respected and valued and vice versa is primary for a Capricorn to move forward and maintain a relationship with someone towards going deeper, spending time and opening up to others. If value and respect is missing then there's no point in maintaining a connection.
I’m a Capricorn January 3, the past few years I’ve been cutting off all toxic people, if they can’t give me the same respect I give them then they get cut off, time is the most valuable thing we have and I don’t waste my time on people that disrespect me, I give people a chance but once I reach my breaking point I am done for good! I am way to buisy for petty drama causing people! Between my job, my pets, my hobbies, family and true friends I am extremely busy and very happy in my life! Also it took me a long time and I had to learn the hard way but as Capricorn we have to learn to trust our vibes! Pay attention to how people make you feel, if you feel anxiety or stress when around certain people get away from them! Trust your vibes it will never lead you wrong! Thank you for the video and have a happy October my fellow Capricorn.
Overall Cappies r NOT nags so if we telling u what we don't like consider it a warning! At first ppl meet us and they will tread lightly. Then when they c how cool we r they get comfortable...then they start to take advantage thinking oh he or she is so cool. Wouldn't someone so cool b the EXACT opposite if rubbed the WRONG way? When we clip u chances r we've ALREADY given s too many passes that would mk a Scorpio side eye...
my 20 year old marriage with my capricorn (3 sons together) still cut me off and blames me for responsibilities that our aquarius middle son (born 2-16-99) doesn’t handle. i get just as frustrated with middle son, but i don’t go blaming cap husband for it. i just keep trying to teach our son to handle his responsibilities. i’m a 2-23-76 pisces
Very true... he starts talking about it at 9:45.... if I tell you something or ask for something and it’s not returned... I’m taking notes... eventually those notes built up and I’m gone... I’m also ... I wouldn’t say vindictive, I want you to know how I feel... how you’ve made me feel so you will understand why you’re getting cut off...
I use 2 think i was a cold-hearted individual b/c of my uncanny ability 2 detach from people. But between just understanding myself and listening to you, I recognize it as a healthy mechanism that serves as a filter to eliminate those that are fertile and those that are barren. #ChildrenOfTheCorn#
This is so funny I always say children of the corn. I'm Sag sun but Cap rising and moon and I detach as self preservation. If I warn you three times I'm just done after that and I will ignore you accordingly.
I agree about being able to detach from people easily...always thought it was solely because of my daddy issues, but this is definitely part of me being a Capricorn... I wonder if it means I don’t have deep connections to people?
I’m a Capricorn. I think I can speak for us in that the following won’t get you on our good side: 1. Stupidity and lack of common sense. 2. Using us as a resource and not giving in kind. We tend to be very valuable resources and people try to benefit from it without contributing. 3. Playing games. We tend to call it out or quit it. 4. Playing us as fools. That will get the freeze out. 5. Being fake nice. Save it. The deadpan goat face should be a great indicator of my lack of interest. We are usually not quick to cut people out. We never let people we don’t trust in and if you screw that up we quit you. It’s like if I’m paying you to do something and you aren’t doing it why should I pay you? If you are benefiting from me in anyway then I need to be benefiting from you. If I’m not that is an imbalance that I will correct. 🐐
Goaty Gal and Family yes!! Part of it also like..we set aside out time and effort for YOU. That itself is a huge choice we MAKE for YOU. But you take advantage and show us that you're fake, taking what we do for you for granted, then forget it.
badbromance exactly. caps are picky about our time. It isn’t that we think our time is more important than anyone else’s but not everyone values their own time like we do. I get tired if I don’t manage my time well. Lol
Lamarr...listening to this really confirms why I am the way I am. I feel that we are very simple beings but not everyone gets us. I compartmentalize my friends and associates. I dont allow access and when i do its because ive observed your patterns..reliability..your value to even be able to be worthy of all that i have to offer...we are genuine people that love equal effort for sure. And we loathe bullshitters . They get cut at the knees real quick...we just dont have time. Lol
Yep, pretty much. Maybe it's just a moon in Gemini thing, but I'm cap sun, Venus and asc - when we're done, we're fkn DONE. if you get cut out you must've done something pretty awful and it's not gonna be easy to redeem yourself, depending on how much you want the cap back. We will give you several chances of we really love and value you (don't forget the fierce loyalty of a cap - often to our own detriment) We absolutely are giving AF, but when it's indefinitely a one way street, all bets are eventually off. Just my cap two cents! 😁
sealover riga it's funny how us Scorpio say we're done with y'all have a hard time except our last word. It's no one's fault that you guys have issue's to open your and speak your feelings. Smh you guys are really a trip...
Exactly and then people want to cry like I’m so cold but I am truly the most emotional person I know and like he said I’ve given them chance after chance and I have warned them and warned them and they don’t listen and when we’re done we are done!
Jennifer Chavies not about tbt sweetie. Don’t hv energy to be explaining to a grown adult what THEY MOST LIKELY ALREADY KNOW they are doing wrong. Bcz let’s be honest, people are not tht naive.
Yes! It's always been extremely easy for me to cut off people when the time comes. The way I see it I already made the effort, have given enough opportunities, and have given enough of myself that if people can't appreciate or have messed then bye.
shit life is hard enough. why add someone who creates tension or you cause them pain? if it is more pain then happiness, what is the point? there is none. makes logical sense...
Exactly. The constant tension is so unhealthy. Why continue to protect Something tht is constantly bringing u the same pain over and over and over again. Logically it is a bad investment. U hv to be strong enough to accept the truth & use ur head to save ur heart.
The reason why us Caps let a lot of shit go until we get to that point where we cut people off is because Capricorn is ruled by Saturn. Saturn is the great Teacher, Disciplinarian and also the Chastizer. Our chastizement is to cut people off if they have not respected us but before we get to that point, we allow people to correct themselves because that is what a good teacher does, allow people to see their own mistakes before Caoricorn the teacher, points them out. Being a good teacher, Capricorn is very observing of its students and what Capricorn observes is, some students cant or dont want to see their mistakes and those students are the ones that Capricorn will allow to hang themselves, those students are the ones Capricorn wont waste time telling what mistakes they made. Those people are the ones Capricorn just discards like yesterdays trash.
Spiritually Speaking7: your half way there. Some times the students become dependent on the teachers wisdom and refuse to rely on their own. From one perspective a parent bird knocking it's young out the nest may seem like an attempt on its life, when in fact the young would not have flown without it. Those who feel discarded are simply in Resentment of being made to stand on Their own. Outside of a few bad apples most people who are "discarded" by a Capricorn find themselves mimicking their lessons. Their motto is "I use". "I use" your experiences to teach you. "I use" your pain to strengthen you. "I use" you to speak to you. Hence the so called coldness of them. They speak to you through you as most people lack the wisdom or will to understand.
Good read. I think we are quiet and don't express ourselves because when we do say something most of us are quite blunt and straightforward and it scares people. Personally they run screaming. Also if someone really rubs me the wrong way and I cut them off that is the best case scenario for sure Lol...and that person would be smart to leave it there.
I was just telling my significant other the other day something along these lines you want honestly like most women but when you get it it's too much .. with a lot of i don't care thrown in because quite simply I don't
Davon Dailey yep. I gave up long ago. I can't help it I day what I mean and mean what I say. everyone says that's a valuable characteristic but it hasn't helped me. Everyone tends to try to read into what I say and end up somewhere in outer space somewhere while I'm sitting there wondering what everyone's problem is. I really feel like they create problems where there isn't any bc it's more comfortable and leaves them too much time to put the focus on themselves.
Melissa McGarvey because they try to break down every word thinking they know us better than we know ourselves . She guesses alot sometimes she's right most times she's wrong she says I'm heartless and cold and I say I'm just looking out for me us Capricorn tend to put the ones we love the most before even our own needs and she doesn't understand that about me so until she does I just don't say much I think the perfect song that describes all of us is "too good at goodbye"
Totally agree with everything you said. I'm a Capricorn too, just am kinda stuck struggling to make this person understand not to get attached to me from day 1 and yet they went overboard and said they're attracted to me because I'm like their mom but that person already has their life partner and their mom without even seeing me in person had already accepted me as her daughter like WTF? It's been just a month since we met in class, I had called him "brother" to stay clear of not getting into any relationship. They call me sis too, everything was going fine but until they said they want life experience with me because they don't know anything about girls.. they also admitted that they can do anything.. Honestly, they're an energy vampire who doesn't leave me alone for a minute. They can't just shut up. I don't even want to think about the situation to figure out any solution to this mess. Idk how to get out of this mess.. Please help me, guide me 🙏😮💨
I have a Capricorn Moon 🌝 & I always cut people off for a good reason of course. I had a Capricorn male friend for over 20 years but whenever I wanted to hang out there was always an excuse yet he was different with others so I said bye. If you don’t value my friendship you have to go...
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Jocelin D I have current similar experience. I informed a friend of 20 years that I was evaluating my friendships and realized she had never come to see me in 20 years. NEVER. She gave me a long list of reasons which made me realize she was never going to. I have stopped answering hee calls. Goodbye.
This is still one of my favorite videos!!! I always come back and watch this! So on point!! I will cut you off without notice and honestly think nothing of it!!!!! Thanks Cappy for always keeping it 100!
I have always described it as turning off the light and walking out of the room without looking bavk with no remorse and at that moment i cant understand y ppl get so emotional even with my husband of 15 yrs
I can say this is true, because I'm a capricorn my self. I actually had to cut ties with someone before and I couldn't deal with their bull crap anymore, and there's times I just stop caring about certain things and just focus on what's important. Plus I do feel at times I do get annoyed of the same things over and over so I just want to stop talking to them or never talk to them ever again.
shasha-muse I agree with you my birthday is January 8 three strikes is nice. I give1 or 2 strikes. I’m tougher than the Marines. They need a few good men I need none
This makes me feel so much better about myself! Had a Leo man who likes me a lot but I just want friendship. After him talking mostly about sex and having to dumb myself down to talk to him... I secretly blocked him. It's been quieter on my phone but i love it! Since then I been focusing on my studies, work, etc.
I cut off some one today and it felt therapeutic to me 🙂. It's like I always know I'll cut a person off even before they do something to me I hate. So it's like we are mentally prepared for it. Cutting off people is what we do to shed the unwanted energies holding us back, as cappis we are climbing that mountain and some people need to be thrown off that mountain on the way..
Spot on Lamar ! After we’ve expressed it a couple times and someone promised to change that behavior and keeps doing the same junk it almost feels disrespectful at that point
"You kinda have to care abd put in the effort...at least apologize for you did because most people cant even do that" Yes yes yes yes yes!! Thank you!! Finally an accurate vd!!
I'm a Jan Cap, if I cut people off it's usually people who are about drama and gossip because at some point it's gets tiring some where I don't have time to hear it when you should act your age to be more mature on what you say or do for me to respect you as a person. It doesn't bother me to be a loner with going about my day or having a small circle of friends because at the end of the day I don't have time for toxic people who are about nothing to bring nothing to the table, I'm interested in buying.
Yes, we need depth...my relationship with a Virgo just ended as I requested more communication and consistency...I ended it explaining I needed more connection, affection, consistency, and respect. Against my better judgment I went back after he promised to do better in all areas and acted like he understood...two weeks later he dumped me. He said I was too deep in communicating and he couldn't give me what I needed. I was pissed cuz Wtf you bring me back for just to push me away because you needed a sense of Power and control to be the one to end it...never again! And yes, you are blocked...if my emotions were too much when we were together...why should you be privy to any part of me now?
I’ve had to accept that I am too much for some people, and that’s okay because that means only the best of the best are in my life 😂🤷🏽♀️ (Cancer sun, Cap moon, Libra rising)
I just want to give my opinion on something I don't follow astrology in the sense to understand future predictions but to understand how people's personality evolves and how current planetary transits affect their outlook on life. What I want to highlight is when judging a sign of the zodiac its behaviour will change depending which planet it's on . From my reading of astrology I came to understand that the Moon is responsible for how you manage, express and deal with your emotions. So Capricorn energy will manifest differently according to which planet it's on. I like most of the points you highlighted I expect someone in my life to be respectful/reliable , understanding, have empathy and most importantly don't be overpowering and give space to my individuality. Once I do decide to cut someone off its because I gave them chances if they do crossed lines I dont tolerate such as lieing , stealing , manipulative, inconsiderate behaviour and aggressive behaviour you are out for GOOD. I have Mercury in Capricorn in 8th house with Uranus so don't know how this placement will influence my tolerance and expectation of people in my life
Channie B to be empathetic is being humble I really appreciate that in a person . However cutting people off to me is not hard I don't do it out of ego or pride but out of necessity. I have my moon in Aquarius with Saturn
Zeudi X what would be rhe difference if a person had a Pisces moon instead? Aquarius are just as aloof as Cap. At least to me. Aquarius is king of indecisiveness.
Channie B I believe they would be more emotionally emphatic, understand people and relate to them far better in a more insightful way to gain perspective.
I have a saturn in the 11th house, the biggest loner ever basically... I rarely form connections. And if I ever do it's always serious and deep and that's how I like it, and I want it to be meaningful. But a lot people who I give chances to (who are in the scrutinization phase) might get confused by my Gemini rising and get a little bit too damn comfortable and think they can put me on the back burner and expect me to stay there...fuck that! I'm one of the queens of cutting people off cause I have the lowest tolerance for people.
I've got Cap sun and Saturn in my 11th house also. Same deal. Not interested in quantity (people) but quality. And Cap is ruled by Saturn - the planet with rings around it -- boundaries. We want to feel boundaries are respected. If you cross a line, you crossed the line. You're done.
Yes thank you. My best friend who i call my brother we've been close friends for going on 6 year's and im not clingy or anything i haven't called him in like 2weeks cause i feel everyone needs a break every now and then, but i called him in great need of him it was extremely urgent and he ignore my calls even my voice message saying i didn't who else to call, i really need information about your job thats all im needing right now im not trying to interrupt your vacation. He ignored my calls and leave me a voice message saying oh my god i need a break from you! Your my brother and all an i love you he said but need a vacation from me then began to make jokes to not hurt me in the voice message.. Im not upset about the voice message im disappointed that i urgently needed him and he really ignored me... When its me im always there 100% for my friends yeah sometimes ignore their calls too cause i need a break but if you call me more then 3times and say its urgent im there... So im feeling i should cut him off like fuck him... And i never had a deep bond with anyone like i have with him. But i see people true colors.
Icey 1 I had similar experience I formed a bound with a girl we were really really close like soul friends I was there for her 100% no matter what! But you know what she disrespected me on 4 different occasions although they were minor in perspective they were unforgivable . I dropped her right there and then she emailed me begging to be back with me but in my heart I knew I couldn't tolerate it . It's good to give chances but you need to have personal boundaries which people can't cross . If you don't stick with your words and move on you will keep giving chances and people will never take you seriously at all . From your personal experience the saying a friend in need is a friend indeed holds true . I wish you well with your decision
You talk just like my Capricorn bf! Lol this made me smile. Thanks for the insight 🌟🌟🌟 I know what to expect now and can use this advice ❤ I'm a Pisces. ☺
I love you you’re an amazing person😘 you’re right on I’m a genuine person that doesn’t take any bullshit so I’m quick to see phoniness in others and I will cut them off very quick whether my mother my brother my lover or anyone if they’re not there for me there against me!
Damn ur just like me! Everything ur saying is bang on my friend. I don’t know many Capps but for sure ur spot on wiv everything. I’m glad I seen this vid
We certainly do care. But we need to move on and so we put a brave front, even towards ourself, no much time for pity party with cappies. When I cut someone off is because I expressed something precisely but it fell on deaf ears quite a few times and I m growing tired of it, getting ready to move on. Then the mental countdown usually starts, not because I'm pissed as much as because I can't see a solid ground in this. Our set of values are paramount, ubreakable and non negotiable. We might vanish out of the blue, at least that's how it feels to others, in fact we made ourselves clear, it just had not been taken seriously.
Pisces here. I never knew Capricorns were emotional. I dated one for 2 years and she wasn't really emotional but she was pretty chipper lol. Always telling jokes and pranking people. Not serious and standoffish like the other Capricorns I've met. Even my 7 year old neice is more serious than she was. She must have had a Sagittarius stellium or something. I know for sure she at least had Venus in Sagittarius at least. That was my baby 🤗
Caps have a good sense of humor(dry sometimes )and are playful and likable with people that we know and trust. But we do tend to distance ourselves from people whom we no longer respect. We don’t want to waste time nor energy on people who have messed up too many times.
Cap sun/moon scorp asc. I give people a lot of rope and generally accept them exactly who they are but if that comes to diametric odds, I move on. Not the right person and whats the point? Now if its a tier one connection (lol this is so cap) I plant seeds, speak up, set examples, if they don't catch on, air move on. So, yeah, on point.
Need to see you instead of just audio babe! Love all your video's, info and sharing your thoughts/feelings. Comfort my soul honestly. I don't feel as unreasonable in "how I am " in life. Thanks Lam Lam
I love listening to you ,keep them coming ,How many chances do they need to keep making an ass out of themselves lol To free you from that We Capricorn's will send you on your way !!! We not bad at all even after you tried to shit on us !!!
I had a cap we were in a relationship he got sick I took care of him 4 2 weeks he got well and left we had no argument or nothing spent new year together really enjoyed each other let him drive my car when his was down I treated him with royalty he just cut me of snd told me not to call him and he stop taking my calls he was a cheater,lier, and very controlling.
Dec. 30th here. I was dumped last month. I saw her on Facebook with another guy and found out she was setting this up for months before I confronted her about it. I tried to plead for her back (very against my nature) but I now I have gone no contact since then and have pretty much written her off.
This so accurate cause, when i have lots of friends in school before, i mean when i was in collage and i started to see who they really are and i dont like it. I cut them off, and not hangout with them anymore. I preffer to be alone than hanging out with toxic people.
Yup I cut off from down the root and I can't stand show off people or dramatic once or liars too and almost have not much friends because of that but guess wat? I don't give a F***ck
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We don’t have time to waste! I honestly think it’s a good thing. We save ourselves from experiencing a lot of bullshit in life. We get straight to the point and down to the bottom line
True Brilliance yeah, we kinda hate drama & we know ourselves.
indeed we dont got the time we have more important things ahead
Ummm no mostly it’s your immaturity and your scared of being hurt urself or worse hurting ur ego that is instead of feeling the whole situation making assumption and taking decision according to that mostly those decisions and u could have benefitted but u like to destroy things rather than waiting or building it . It shows
The naive cancer side of urs which is 7 th from Capricorn
nish K I am a cancer sun and cap moon so your actually wrong. I do feel things out completely ... people are naive and get taken advantage of all the time.
Capricorn is not one of them.
True Brilliance your assessment is amusing but u claiming to be cancer sun and cap moon and that’s why what is untrue is an example of what I was saying , anyone and everyone can be taken advantage off just because u exclude ur self of the situation or person doesn’t lets u escape your vulnerability hahhaha Capricorn sun moon or rising are themselves the 7th house which represent the other world and its people and also how u interact with them ; the 7 th house is cancer so u project Capricorn’s on to the 7 th house of people relationships cancer so act like a crab ; cutting people off and intuitively understandings them is not something capricorn capable it’s the cancer the moon
With us Capricorn people respect is essential. Once we decide that you don't respect us . We king of swords that azz. I love Capricorn videos.
miss le lol
Lmao Fax, no printer
sameolhim lol
Very true
Respect is essential
The world doesn't deserve us. We are the most compassionate, empathetic, and givers to a fault at times. But people appreciate us when it's too late and blame us for no longer subscribing to their b.s. So many people say that we have high standards, base on their low or lack of standards. This is a perfect read. Thank you!
Exactly this man is dead on with his interpretation of us because he is one of us! I’ve had to cut off my sister recently who is a Virgo who is very evil and manipulative!
I love seeing all my capricorns in the comment section ♡
How is he so spot on? This is true. We're not cold, we just care too much and can't bear to have someone not care about our emotions. When we love, we love deeply, but when we are done, we are done. He has a point we can't stand the bs, at all.
I've cut so many toxic people dgafffff
ikr some people come into ur self and they are nothing but bagagg
omg me af hahhaha block, unfollow, dislike ahhahah
I’m a Capricorn and I agree with you
Agreed!
You've got Capricorn figured out. This is true. Capricorn are born in the winter we can be cold .
yes we can be
That is very very true I'm a Capricorn
Not all of us! Some of us are born in the Southern Hemisphere! Bright and sunny and pure fire
Hes a Capricorn
Very true I’m proud to be a Capricorn ♑️ we can be cold 🥶 as ice 🧊
I could be so emotional, I'm talking about super emotional. I think this is why Capricorn's could be so cold. There really is no in between with us. We are so emotional that we become numb to emotions. Sometimes when we get deep in our feelings, we get so deep that we can't breathe under water. So sometimes we choose to not feel or give a fuck. Emotions sometimes gets the best of us. But we Capricorns don't want everyone to know we have feelings. Are feelings are our weakness a lot of the times. Capricorn's are the most emotional Earth sign but sometimes you'll never tell by the way we act ,but sometimes, when Capricorn are deep in emotions, our face tells it all
This is so true...
Oh yes baby I cry every night. But I would be cold in school and come in to class crying sometimes
So true!!
I’m actually going through a situation and the description you have just mentioned is LITERALLY describing me 😱😱😱
Sooooo so so so so on point !
As a Capricorn, we can't and don't care if we don't respect or value the other person and in return they don't value and respect us. Personally, I give respect automatically until the person shows me they aren't worthy of my respect. I then try to maintain that respect for them for some time and if they don't voluntarily make efforts of self improvements I reluctantly decide to remove myself. If I don't value or respect the person, I have no benefit from having them in my life. Being respected and valued and vice versa is primary for a Capricorn to move forward and maintain a relationship with someone towards going deeper, spending time and opening up to others. If value and respect is missing then there's no point in maintaining a connection.
I couldn't have said it better.
I think this is SO accurate, It's so nice to hear it coming from a capricorn as well! Love your cap vids :D
this is so me i am a cap and this is all me
OMG!! I have always told people, I can't pretend I like someone!!!
I’m a Capricorn January 3, the past few years I’ve been cutting off all toxic people, if they can’t give me the same respect I give them then they get cut off, time is the most valuable thing we have and I don’t waste my time on people that disrespect me, I give people a chance but once I reach my breaking point I am done for good! I am way to buisy for petty drama causing people! Between my job, my pets, my hobbies, family and true friends I am extremely busy and very happy in my life! Also it took me a long time and I had to learn the hard way but as Capricorn we have to learn to trust our vibes! Pay attention to how people make you feel, if you feel anxiety or stress when around certain people get away from them! Trust your vibes it will never lead you wrong! Thank you for the video and have a happy October my fellow Capricorn.
We only tell people about mistakes they have made because we don’t want to cut them off ... we know that when we do , it’s over !
This!
Exactly.They don't know. we do it because we care. So if theye looking at it like it's random, it's not gonna last long.
Overall Cappies r NOT nags so if we telling u what we don't like consider it a warning! At first ppl meet us and they will tread lightly. Then when they c how cool we r they get comfortable...then they start to take advantage thinking oh he or she is so cool. Wouldn't someone so cool b the EXACT opposite if rubbed the WRONG way? When we clip u chances r we've ALREADY given s too many passes that would mk a Scorpio side eye...
so true
Soooooo true!
very true lol
my 20 year old marriage with my capricorn (3 sons together) still cut me off and blames me for responsibilities that our aquarius middle son (born 2-16-99) doesn’t handle.
i get just as frustrated with middle son, but i don’t go blaming cap husband for it.
i just keep trying to teach our son to handle his responsibilities. i’m a 2-23-76 pisces
Very true... he starts talking about it at 9:45.... if I tell you something or ask for something and it’s not returned... I’m taking notes... eventually those notes built up and I’m gone... I’m also ... I wouldn’t say vindictive, I want you to know how I feel... how you’ve made me feel so you will understand why you’re getting cut off...
I use 2 think i was a cold-hearted individual b/c of my uncanny ability 2 detach from people. But between just understanding myself and listening to you, I recognize it as a healthy mechanism that serves as a filter to eliminate those that are fertile and those that are barren.
#ChildrenOfTheCorn#
This is so funny I always say children of the corn. I'm Sag sun but Cap rising and moon and I detach as self preservation. If I warn you three times I'm just done after that and I will ignore you accordingly.
Damon nigga u deep
I agree about being able to detach from people easily...always thought it was solely because of my daddy issues, but this is definitely part of me being a Capricorn... I wonder if it means I don’t have deep connections to people?
I'm a savage I can instantly stop caring
Me too. ❄️
@@island661 cold as Ice baby 😂😂😂💪💪💪💪
I’m a Capricorn. I think I can speak for us in that the following won’t get you on our good side:
1. Stupidity and lack of common sense.
2. Using us as a resource and not giving in kind. We tend to be very valuable resources and people try to benefit from it without contributing.
3. Playing games. We tend to call it out or quit it.
4. Playing us as fools. That will get the freeze out.
5. Being fake nice. Save it. The deadpan goat face should be a great indicator of my lack of interest.
We are usually not quick to cut people out. We never let people we don’t trust in and if you screw that up we quit you. It’s like if I’m paying you to do something and you aren’t doing it why should I pay you? If you are benefiting from me in anyway then I need to be benefiting from you. If I’m not that is an imbalance that I will correct. 🐐
Goaty Gal and Family yes!! Part of it also like..we set aside out time and effort for YOU. That itself is a huge choice we MAKE for YOU. But you take advantage and show us that you're fake, taking what we do for you for granted, then forget it.
badbromance exactly. caps are picky about our time. It isn’t that we think our time is more important than anyone else’s but not everyone values their own time like we do. I get tired if I don’t manage my time well. Lol
A 100% yes!!!!!! thats me
Lamarr...listening to this really confirms why I am the way I am. I feel that we are very simple beings but not everyone gets us. I compartmentalize my friends and associates. I dont allow access and when i do its because ive observed your patterns..reliability..your value to even be able to be worthy of all that i have to offer...we are genuine people that love equal effort for sure. And we loathe bullshitters . They get cut at the knees real quick...we just dont have time. Lol
Yep, pretty much. Maybe it's just a moon in Gemini thing, but I'm cap sun, Venus and asc - when we're done, we're fkn DONE. if you get cut out you must've done something pretty awful and it's not gonna be easy to redeem yourself, depending on how much you want the cap back. We will give you several chances of we really love and value you (don't forget the fierce loyalty of a cap - often to our own detriment) We absolutely are giving AF, but when it's indefinitely a one way street, all bets are eventually off. Just my cap two cents! 😁
Clandestine Clairvoyant i have gemini moon too
Clandestine Clairvoyant so so true
cap sun,gemini moon and rising here🙋
no one it's a crazy ass combination, isn't it. I have been called "weird" as long as I can remember.... You?
Clandestine Clairvoyant same thing
i am cappie..............once we are done we are done
sealover riga ☆☆☆☆ oh yes, so so done!!! 😅😅😅
sealover riga it's funny how us Scorpio say we're done with y'all have a hard time except our last word. It's no one's fault that you guys have issue's to open your and speak your feelings. Smh you guys are really a trip...
Exactly and then people want to cry like I’m so cold but I am truly the most emotional person I know and like he said I’ve given them chance after chance and I have warned them and warned them and they don’t listen and when we’re done we are done!
Jennifer Chavies not about tbt sweetie. Don’t hv energy to be explaining to a grown adult what THEY MOST LIKELY ALREADY KNOW they are doing wrong. Bcz let’s be honest, people are not tht naive.
@@jenniferchavies1116 no people hate Capricorn’s because Capricorn’s aren’t dumb enough to let people play with us😂
Yes! It's always been extremely easy for me to cut off people when the time comes. The way I see it I already made the effort, have given enough opportunities, and have given enough of myself that if people can't appreciate or have messed then bye.
Ethel T 👍👏👏👏👏
shit life is hard enough. why add someone who creates tension or you cause them pain? if it is more pain then happiness, what is the point? there is none. makes logical sense...
Exactly. The constant tension is so unhealthy. Why continue to protect Something tht is constantly bringing u the same pain over and over and over again. Logically it is a bad investment. U hv to be strong enough to accept the truth & use ur head to save ur heart.
The reason why us Caps let a lot of shit go until we get to that point where we cut people off is because Capricorn is ruled by Saturn. Saturn is the great Teacher, Disciplinarian and also the Chastizer. Our chastizement is to cut people off if they have not respected us but before we get to that point, we allow people to correct themselves because that is what a good teacher does, allow people to see their own mistakes before Caoricorn the teacher, points them out. Being a good teacher, Capricorn is very observing of its students and what Capricorn observes is, some students cant or dont want to see their mistakes and those students are the ones that Capricorn will allow to hang themselves, those students are the ones Capricorn wont waste time telling what mistakes they made. Those people are the ones Capricorn just discards like yesterdays trash.
Spiritually Speaking7: your half way there. Some times the students become dependent on the teachers wisdom and refuse to rely on their own. From one perspective a parent bird knocking it's young out the nest may seem like an attempt on its life, when in fact the young would not have flown without it.
Those who feel discarded are simply in Resentment of being made to stand on Their own.
Outside of a few bad apples most people who are "discarded" by a Capricorn find themselves mimicking their lessons.
Their motto is "I use".
"I use" your experiences to teach you.
"I use" your pain to strengthen you.
"I use" you to speak to you.
Hence the so called coldness of them. They speak to you through you as most people lack the wisdom or will to understand.
Spiritually Speaking7 very true
Good read. I think we are quiet and don't express ourselves because when we do say something most of us are quite blunt and straightforward and it scares people. Personally they run screaming.
Also if someone really rubs me the wrong way and I cut them off that is the best case scenario for sure Lol...and that person would be smart to leave it there.
I was just telling my significant other the other day something along these lines you want honestly like most women but when you get it it's too much .. with a lot of i don't care thrown in because quite simply I don't
yes we talk what is on our mind
Davon Dailey yep. I gave up long ago. I can't help it I day what I mean and mean what I say. everyone says that's a valuable characteristic but it hasn't helped me. Everyone tends to try to read into what I say and end up somewhere in outer space somewhere while I'm sitting there wondering what everyone's problem is.
I really feel like they create problems where there isn't any bc it's more comfortable and leaves them too much time to put the focus on themselves.
we are every easy to be misunderstood
Melissa McGarvey because they try to break down every word thinking they know us better than we know ourselves . She guesses alot sometimes she's right most times she's wrong she says I'm heartless and cold and I say I'm just looking out for me us Capricorn tend to put the ones we love the most before even our own needs and she doesn't understand that about me so until she does I just don't say much I think the perfect song that describes all of us is "too good at goodbye"
Totally agree with everything you said. I'm a Capricorn too, just am kinda stuck struggling to make this person understand not to get attached to me from day 1 and yet they went overboard and said they're attracted to me because I'm like their mom but that person already has their life partner and their mom without even seeing me in person had already accepted me as her daughter like WTF?
It's been just a month since we met in class, I had called him "brother" to stay clear of not getting into any relationship. They call me sis too, everything was going fine but until they said they want life experience with me because they don't know anything about girls.. they also admitted that they can do anything.. Honestly, they're an energy vampire who doesn't leave me alone for a minute. They can't just shut up.
I don't even want to think about the situation to figure out any solution to this mess. Idk how to get out of this mess.. Please help me, guide me 🙏😮💨
I have a Capricorn Moon 🌝 & I always cut people off for a good reason of course. I had a Capricorn male friend for over 20 years but whenever I wanted to hang out there was always an excuse yet he was different with others so I said bye. If you don’t value my friendship you have to go...
Jocelin D I have current similar experience. I informed a friend of 20 years that I was evaluating my friendships and realized she had never come to see me in 20 years. NEVER. She gave me a long list of reasons which made me realize she was never going to. I have stopped answering hee calls. Goodbye.
High Vibrations There comes a time that we must value ourselves and know that not everyone is good for us...Best thing you did!!! ❤️
we care we just know when enough is enough. 5 planets in cap. that's all there is to it.
My cutoff game is skrong!!! You cannot redraw lines in the sand with me (if I don't want you to)
For one, we give many chances. When we’re done, we’re DONE.
I'm a Capricorn sun ☀️ & moon 🌙 with a Leo rising, and you got me figured out. I love your videos!!
This is still one of my favorite videos!!! I always come back and watch this! So on point!! I will cut you off without notice and honestly think nothing of it!!!!! Thanks Cappy for always keeping it 100!
I have always described it as turning off the light and walking out of the room without looking bavk with no remorse and at that moment i cant understand y ppl get so emotional even with my husband of 15 yrs
I can say this is true, because I'm a capricorn my self.
I actually had to cut ties with someone before and I couldn't deal with their bull crap anymore, and there's times I just stop caring about certain things and just focus on what's important. Plus I do feel at times I do get annoyed of the same things over and over so I just want to stop talking to them or never talk to them ever again.
People get so mad at me but I just don't care...
I'm capricorn....jan. 9th. With me, You get 3 strikes, after that.....your out.....permanently!!! 😅😅
shasha-muse I agree with you my birthday is January 8 three strikes is nice. I give1 or 2 strikes. I’m tougher than the Marines. They need a few good men I need none
My bday is Jan 9th too! Whoot! It’s not exactly 3 strikes for me bc if it’s bad enough it’s one strike 🤷🏽♀️
Capricorn Sun and Scorpio Moon. Super intense and honestly don’t have time for people who don’t align with my purpose.
This makes me feel so much better about myself! Had a Leo man who likes me a lot but I just want friendship. After him talking mostly about sex and having to dumb myself down to talk to him... I secretly blocked him. It's been quieter on my phone but i love it! Since then I been focusing on my studies, work, etc.
well you are so right it is nice to hear this from another Capricorn you're right on
I’m a Capricorn & this totally resonates with me- 100%. Very accurate- wow
I cut off some one today and it felt therapeutic to me 🙂. It's like I always know I'll cut a person off even before they do something to me I hate. So it's like we are mentally prepared for it. Cutting off people is what we do to shed the unwanted energies holding us back, as cappis we are climbing that mountain and some people need to be thrown off that mountain on the way..
Natalie c I love the way you articulate your words 😁😌 ur a true Capricorn what day are u my fellow Capricorn
Angelic Angelique hello Hun 🙋🏾❤️ thank you!! My birthday is January 10th, when is yours xx
Natalie c hey 👋🏽 booooooo snap I’m the 11 th jan 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Natalie c. Shove them over the cliff. Lol!!!!
all facts my love that is so true we just cant take the bagage
It’s not even so much that we are emotionless or don’t care, when we are done we are D U N!
Spot on Lamar ! After we’ve expressed it a couple times and someone promised to change that behavior and keeps doing the same junk it almost feels disrespectful at that point
“Can’t fake the funk” YUPPP 🤷🏽♀️😴👏🏽
"You kinda have to care abd put in the effort...at least apologize for you did because most people cant even do that" Yes yes yes yes yes!! Thank you!! Finally an accurate vd!!
Speaking to my soul! Listening to this was so therapeutic.
I'm a Jan Cap, if I cut people off it's usually people who are about drama and gossip because at some point it's gets tiring some where I don't have time to hear it when you should act your age to be more mature on what you say or do for me to respect you as a person. It doesn't bother me to be a loner with going about my day or having a small circle of friends because at the end of the day I don't have time for toxic people who are about nothing to bring nothing to the table, I'm interested in buying.
We don't care they take our coolness as a weak point 💯✔
Your so on point with our sign!
Yes, we need depth...my relationship with a Virgo just ended as I requested more communication and consistency...I ended it explaining I needed more connection, affection, consistency, and respect. Against my better judgment I went back after he promised to do better in all areas and acted like he understood...two weeks later he dumped me. He said I was too deep in communicating and he couldn't give me what I needed. I was pissed cuz Wtf you bring me back for just to push me away because you needed a sense of Power and control to be the one to end it...never again! And yes, you are blocked...if my emotions were too much when we were together...why should you be privy to any part of me now?
As a Capricorn I find a lot of people can not match our depth of love, emotions and feeling. I feel very guarded around most people.
Virgo sun and Taurus moon are shitty ppl most of the time...
Taurus moon are very immatured, causual, selfish ppl.....it's about me me me and expert in mind games
Virgo men are weak.. oddballs too.
Legit step by step my thought process before I cut off my ex...
I cant wait for saturn return in capricorn. Thanks 🙂
I love being a Cap😻😻😻
I’ve had to accept that I am too much for some people, and that’s okay because that means only the best of the best are in my life 😂🤷🏽♀️ (Cancer sun, Cap moon, Libra rising)
So true ❤️❤️❤️ Capricorns want a real friendship
I just want to give my opinion on something I don't follow astrology in the sense to understand future predictions but to understand how people's personality evolves and how current planetary transits affect their outlook on life. What I want to highlight is when judging a sign of the zodiac its behaviour will change depending which planet it's on . From my reading of astrology I came to understand that the Moon is responsible for how you manage, express and deal with your emotions. So Capricorn energy will manifest differently according to which planet it's on. I like most of the points you highlighted I expect someone in my life to be respectful/reliable , understanding, have empathy and most importantly don't be overpowering and give space to my individuality. Once I do decide to cut someone off its because I gave them chances if they do crossed lines I dont tolerate such as lieing , stealing , manipulative, inconsiderate behaviour and aggressive behaviour you are out for GOOD. I have Mercury in Capricorn in 8th house with Uranus so don't know how this placement will influence my tolerance and expectation of people in my life
Zeudi X so you communicate in a serious manner.
I have a moon in Cap, im extremely empathetic. I dont cut people off unless I feel harmed by them.
Channie B to be empathetic is being humble I really appreciate that in a person . However cutting people off to me is not hard I don't do it out of ego or pride but out of necessity. I have my moon in Aquarius with Saturn
Zeudi X what would be rhe difference if a person had a Pisces moon instead?
Aquarius are just as aloof as Cap. At least to me. Aquarius is king of indecisiveness.
Channie B I believe they would be more emotionally emphatic, understand people and relate to them far better in a more insightful way to gain perspective.
I have a saturn in the 11th house, the biggest loner ever basically... I rarely form connections. And if I ever do it's always serious and deep and that's how I like it, and I want it to be meaningful. But a lot people who I give chances to (who are in the scrutinization phase) might get confused by my Gemini rising and get a little bit too damn comfortable and think they can put me on the back burner and expect me to stay there...fuck that! I'm one of the queens of cutting people off cause I have the lowest tolerance for people.
I've got Cap sun and Saturn in my 11th house also. Same deal. Not interested in quantity (people) but quality. And Cap is ruled by Saturn - the planet with rings around it -- boundaries. We want to feel boundaries are respected. If you cross a line, you crossed the line. You're done.
My cap sun is in 8th house,saturn in 11th. Gemini rising and moon. I agree with you.
Yes thank you. My best friend who i call my brother we've been close friends for going on 6 year's and im not clingy or anything i haven't called him in like 2weeks cause i feel everyone needs a break every now and then, but i called him in great need of him it was extremely urgent and he ignore my calls even my voice message saying i didn't who else to call, i really need information about your job thats all im needing right now im not trying to interrupt your vacation.
He ignored my calls and leave me a voice message saying oh my god i need a break from you! Your my brother and all an i love you he said but need a vacation from me then began to make jokes to not hurt me in the voice message..
Im not upset about the voice message im disappointed that i urgently needed him and he really ignored me... When its me im always there 100% for my friends yeah sometimes ignore their calls too cause i need a break but if you call me more then 3times and say its urgent im there... So im feeling i should cut him off like fuck him... And i never had a deep bond with anyone like i have with him. But i see people true colors.
Icey 1 I had similar experience I formed a bound with a girl we were really really close like soul friends I was there for her 100% no matter what! But you know what she disrespected me on 4 different occasions although they were minor in perspective they were unforgivable . I dropped her right there and then she emailed me begging to be back with me but in my heart I knew I couldn't tolerate it . It's good to give chances but you need to have personal boundaries which people can't cross . If you don't stick with your words and move on you will keep giving chances and people will never take you seriously at all . From your personal experience the saying a friend in need is a friend indeed holds true . I wish you well with your decision
Im a capricorn and you are amazing!!!
Wow Spot On !
You talk just like my Capricorn bf! Lol this made me smile. Thanks for the insight 🌟🌟🌟 I know what to expect now and can use this advice ❤ I'm a Pisces. ☺
I'm Sun and Moon Capricorn with Mars, Mercury, and Venus in Sagittarius! I love you Lamar! Your always on point
Spot on Lamarr!!! As always
I love you you’re an amazing person😘 you’re right on I’m a genuine person that doesn’t take any bullshit so I’m quick to see phoniness in others and I will cut them off very quick whether my mother my brother my lover or anyone if they’re not there for me there against me!
We give , give and Give and if we been taken for granted. On top of No Respect for Us ,,,You will Be Out!!!
Damn ur just like me! Everything ur saying is bang on my friend. I don’t know many Capps but for sure ur spot on wiv everything. I’m glad I seen this vid
😮this is so accurate 🌟
When us capricorn cut you of it's like you don't even exist anymore like we never even met you
i m capricorn this is true. Btw it takes alot for us to cut you off
We get bored fast ,if that happens it doesn't make sense to prolong things .
VERY ACCURATE!! 👌👌👌
Spot. On. ❤️
I’m a Capricorn Moon and I’m not about any type of nonsense!!! Bye!
Jocelin D 😅😅😅😅. Me too....love this!!!
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I ask myself this when someone I cut off 😂😂 like I don’t feel anything after they’re goners.
We certainly do care. But we need to move on and so we put a brave front, even towards ourself, no much time for pity party with cappies. When I cut someone off is because I expressed something precisely but it fell on deaf ears quite a few times and I m growing tired of it, getting ready to move on. Then the mental countdown usually starts, not because I'm pissed as much as because I can't see a solid ground in this. Our set of values are paramount, ubreakable and non negotiable. We might vanish out of the blue, at least that's how it feels to others, in fact we made ourselves clear, it just had not been taken seriously.
Wow spot onnn
Pisces here. I never knew Capricorns were emotional. I dated one for 2 years and she wasn't really emotional but she was pretty chipper lol. Always telling jokes and pranking people. Not serious and standoffish like the other Capricorns I've met. Even my 7 year old neice is more serious than she was. She must have had a Sagittarius stellium or something. I know for sure she at least had Venus in Sagittarius at least. That was my baby 🤗
My fiance is a Pisces. He thinks I could be warmer. LOL! I do TRY :)
Caps have a good sense of humor(dry sometimes )and are playful and likable with people that we know and trust. But we do tend to distance ourselves from people whom we no longer respect. We don’t want to waste time nor energy on people who have messed up too many times.
Twelly93 😂😂😂😂🙃
Omg this is so me. 12/25, CAPRICORN FOR LIFE❤️❤️❤️
Keeping busy is what they do
Cap sun/moon scorp asc. I give people a lot of rope and generally accept them exactly who they are but if that comes to diametric odds, I move on. Not the right person and whats the point? Now if its a tier one connection (lol this is so cap) I plant seeds, speak up, set examples, if they don't catch on, air move on. So, yeah, on point.
I cut my own sister off. She was too toxic and she didn’t get it. I was done!
its so hard to find others that pay attention
Need to see you instead of just audio babe! Love all your video's, info and sharing your thoughts/feelings. Comfort my soul honestly. I don't feel as unreasonable in "how I am " in life. Thanks Lam Lam
Well i think they cut off when they start loving u ..
No. Actually not at all. We draw those we love in and try to keep them close bcz we don’t love easily. It is too risky.
If they love you but know that it will not workout in the future and cause them both pain, then they will cut you off.
Lamar I love him he is so smart
SOOOOOOO ACCCUUURRAATEEEEEEEEBITS SCARY I LOVE THIS VIDEO THANK YOU 😊💙💙💙💙💙
Hot and cold ?? Ages ago I read about the sign of Gemini, "Fire and Ice" meaning warm and fuzzy one minute and cold as ice the next.
I love listening to you ,keep them coming ,How many chances do they need to keep making an ass out of themselves lol To free you from that We Capricorn's will send you on your way !!! We not bad at all even after you tried to shit on us !!!
This is so ME❤️
I had a cap we were in a relationship he got sick I took care of him 4 2 weeks he got well and left we had no argument or nothing spent new year together really enjoyed each other let him drive my car when his was down I treated him with royalty he just cut me of snd told me not to call him and he stop taking my calls he was a cheater,lier, and very controlling.
Yup we need a good reason to cut you off we're loyal af & can't lie for shit. If we don't fuck with you you'll know it period!!! 👌🏾💯🙌🏾
Spot On ♑
First time to see your channel. Amazing analysis man. Thanks
the reason why I don't care is because I have better things to do like 'help' a depressed friends
so true !!!!
Dec. 30th here. I was dumped last month. I saw her on Facebook with another guy and found out she was setting this up for months before I confronted her about it. I tried to plead for her back (very against my nature) but I now I have gone no contact since then and have pretty much written her off.
This so accurate cause, when i have lots of friends in school before, i mean when i was in collage and i started to see who they really are and i dont like it. I cut them off, and not hangout with them anymore. I preffer to be alone than hanging out with toxic people.
You JUST EXPLAINED ME TO A TEE BOO!!👊👍👌💯💯💯
So true about us Capricorns moon and suns !
Yup I cut off from down the root and I can't stand show off people or dramatic once or liars too and almost have not much friends because of that but guess wat? I don't give a F***ck
Bravo on point spot on sense of humor off the charts most important professional thank you capy.