Friendship Q&A | Long Distance, Love Langages, Support, Jealousy & Conflict Resolution

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  • Hey Lovelies
    In this video, my bestie and I sat down to do a Friendship-based Q&A for you guys, which turned into a great time of reflection on our friendship, for the both of us.
    Aside from touching on how & when we met, we also chatted about long distance friendships, investing in relationships & supporting one another, love langiages, jealousy and even conflict resolution.
    I hope you enjoy it.
    Check out Namhla's TH-cam Channel: www.youtube.com/ @namhla_mabombo
    And ofcours, please follow her on Instagram: / namhla_mabombo
    Connect with me on Instagram:
    Personal: / zizi_moloko
    Home: / zizimoloko_home
    I also make Personal Finance education content here:
    Channel: / @becausesibadala
    Instagram: / moneyandpurpose_
    Love, Zizi

ความคิดเห็น • 215

  • @namhla_mabombo
    @namhla_mabombo ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Love you so much ke my dhiye, what a wholesome video ❤😘

  • @mamojabengsephakwe885
    @mamojabengsephakwe885 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This was so beautiful to watch, they don't make them like you two anymore. The way Zizi described Namhla, is true...Namhla has this beauty about her that is undescribable. And Zizi, I agree with Namhla I absolutely think you are incredibly smart and absolute gorgeous. Also love how you two see and acknowledge the queens you are. Love this friendship for both of you and wish it for everyone including myself who hasn't experienced it.

  • @karaboprisca1155
    @karaboprisca1155 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I absolutely agree with u Namhla when she says you are incredibly smart. Infact I prefer your sit down videos more than vlogs because I just enjoy hearing your opinion and your experiences on things. If you were to start a podcast sana, I'd be your biggest supporter❤️.

    • @saytshenigumede5239
      @saytshenigumede5239 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No ways we want vlogs bandla

    • @belladube7497
      @belladube7497 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No ways we want them both sana ☺

    • @ndumi_vuso
      @ndumi_vuso ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@belladube7497 Definitely Both❤️ I Miss Money And Purpose Too!

    • @mapulemadi262
      @mapulemadi262 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She really needs is ❤

  • @itumelengmbane5922
    @itumelengmbane5922 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    YAAAAS to healthy female friendship Sana 🤌🏽🔥🤗

  • @OyamaMgojo
    @OyamaMgojo ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love how Zizi addressed jealousy in this sit down, truly quite a sobering view on it❤️.
    I love the chemistry you both have, ingathi nizalwa kunye maarn🥰❤️such a godly and beautiful friendship.

  • @naturalhairtee
    @naturalhairtee ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Namhla is beautiful, calm and ufanele uku accommodata any type of person.

  • @mynameis2685
    @mynameis2685 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love how zizi touched on friendships and communication esp during a changing season for either one. Owu and jealousy .

  • @lee_kheswa
    @lee_kheswa ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Namhla is so beautiful bethuna,she's giving black American Girly😍❤️

  • @thandekandlovu5135
    @thandekandlovu5135 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How gorgeous is Namhla though ❤️❤️❤️ She has this natural, timeless beauty, absolutely mesmerizing 😍😍😍

  • @SimplyNoxoloSangweni
    @SimplyNoxoloSangweni ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I think people become a bit insecure when they're friends start making friends with others out of fear that they'll share what they told them with their new friends. 🤔

  • @nm9285
    @nm9285 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sabaweli a friend I can FaceTime daily, that's where I am in my life.

  • @nomfundomathebula528
    @nomfundomathebula528 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes Namhla is soooo gorgeous ! 😍

  • @ELamy802
    @ELamy802 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    First of all, you ladies are gorgeous 😍. I love to see healthy female relationships because female relationships are Needed between Women, especially as they relate to cultivating our Femininity.

  • @kabelo_m
    @kabelo_m ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The "What is this hunny?" line kills me each time Namhla says it 😂 I laugh each time you guys say "chile" 🤣

  • @lucianashwa5711
    @lucianashwa5711 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    been staring at Namhlas eyes the whole time. what a beauty

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sana she is breathtakingly beautiful… and has been beautiful for as long as I’ve know her 🥹😍😍😍

  • @NanoM88
    @NanoM88 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Zizi, so beautiful and expressive. A girl who knows herself❤️.

  • @Tshego_LIVE
    @Tshego_LIVE ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Zizi is so well spoken. I could listen to her speak all day everyday! Lol😂❤️
    On the topic at hand- I'm 28 and I'm struggling with friendships esp. with those that I had in my late high school years and throughout tertiary . For the most part, I feel like we have significantly grown apart while with some I feel like we lack effort.
    I really think effort is the key for every successful and lasting relationship. So I do try but with some I think it's ok to let them go.
    Thoroughly enjoying these sit-downs/collabos. You guys are a powerful Duo. Very relatable too. 💕

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you sissy… we really appreciate you watching…. 😘😘❤️
      I think it’s also okay to create brand new friendships in our 20s, 30s and beyond… so don’t feel bad about moving on from friendships that didn’t work out…. ❤️ it’s perfectly okay….
      But you’re right, investment is crucial to grow and/or sustain any type of friendship, including friendships 😘😘❤️

  • @thinanonjezi
    @thinanonjezi ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love you ladies❤… it’s true that we need other people in our lives, one person can’t fulfil our every need.

  • @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa
    @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hayke hayke I'm obsessed when Zizi said Doctor xa ebiza indoda ka Namhla...I was like 🥺🥺🥺 hayi kwakuhle kwenu...a lawyer husband for Zizi...no Doc for Namhla...love that ❤️

  • @VoVo551
    @VoVo551 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved that response about "being jealous of each other's extra friendships"

  • @kealeboga4374
    @kealeboga4374 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love you ladies and your friendship ❤️ I aspire to have a friendships like this.

  • @mphojennytau4494
    @mphojennytau4494 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly been so cool seeing the person on the other side of the "hello my dear" phone calls 😂❤️

  • @ntombizondi350
    @ntombizondi350 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was so beautiful to watch,we don’t see a lot of such authentic friendships anymore. I love you ladies ❤️

  • @phumi4950
    @phumi4950 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was refreshing. I haven't watched much friendship content. It's really nice to see and learn from.
    Siyabonga ladies.

  • @Amahle361
    @Amahle361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That jealous part you talked about Zizi, is very important cc. Many if not all of us have that but we need to find a way to deal with it.

  • @melanieginindza3985
    @melanieginindza3985 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This friendship is everything….angisa sabaweli ukuba ne friendship enje😂😂😂😂 “Don’t worry” in Namhlas voice😂😂😂
    I love how expressive Zizi is…
    And you both beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @tsamaisomphaga4673
    @tsamaisomphaga4673 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loved this chat ladies ❤ so imperative and encouraging. Makes me want to be a better friend.

  • @zotandomtsana3994
    @zotandomtsana3994 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This made me evaluate my self, introspect my self as to what kind of a friend am i... i took this very personal...... Thank you ladies nibahle maarn n i know ninuka kamandi😍😘

  • @chwayitamgobo1386
    @chwayitamgobo1386 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The most beautiful girls, inside and out 😊❤ This video made me so happy 🥰

  • @Storm-ng4re
    @Storm-ng4re ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I took your questions and asked my bestie too, our answers are really similar to yours.
    You guys remind me of what I have with my best friend

  • @lebohangntshiba7523
    @lebohangntshiba7523 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Zizi you are so expressive🥰🥰

  • @EverHopeful555
    @EverHopeful555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girly friendships are up ⬆️💕

  • @fitbyfelz9271
    @fitbyfelz9271 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lol Namhla is me, I am Namhla. Literally agreeing with her on all the points. ie checking out, being non confrontational, being the friend who goes mia. 😂🙈 but also love how Zizi wears her heart on her sleeve.❤️

  • @nokwandatongo9360
    @nokwandatongo9360 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My bestie referred me to this channel! I am definitely subscribing. I love your friendship and I'm taking some notes to apply on my friendship.

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad your bestie shared this with you sissy… I hope you enjoy the content going forward 😘😘❤️

  • @philisiwemthembu1980
    @philisiwemthembu1980 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I genuinely love me Zizi and Namhla's friendship,these ladies friendship in style,class and elegantly Yoh Sbwl 😍❤️

  • @NwaThemba
    @NwaThemba ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enjoyed this so much…..absolutely love you guys and so encouraged by your friendship ❤️

  • @RoseDinizDeMoura
    @RoseDinizDeMoura ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Darling,
    Yesss darling, I am so here for this Q&A…
    You and uNamhla reminds me of my bestie and I, it’s amazing..
    Love All The Way From Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @thembelihlevivian435
    @thembelihlevivian435 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Praying for a bestie this year 🙏🏾

  • @lebogangpheko893
    @lebogangpheko893 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So so happy, been waiting for dis @Mrs Moloko💕💐💯🤗😘❤️

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love them❤ seeing them in just one go is something else, I’m just smiling and looking at them, I don’t even know what to say

  • @mbalihlatshwayo2969
    @mbalihlatshwayo2969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You ladies are so wise 👏🏾👏🏾Thank you so much for the authenticity. I felt like my sentiments were echoed and what a beautiful friendship to witness🥺 thank you so much for this video. It was so empowering, I absolutely loved it❤️❤️❤️ can’t even highlight a single thing because the entire video was everything and more!!!

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      🥺🥺😘 I’m so so happy you found it valuable sissy….
      And we really appreciate you watching 😘❤️

  • @boitumeloramosa1456
    @boitumeloramosa1456 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a beautiful video guys, really enjoyed watching you ladies plus your both so gorgeous.
    Namhla is right, it was therapeutic and i healed and learned a lot about love and friendships.

  • @givenmahlangu1266
    @givenmahlangu1266 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ag man I loved this. Friendships are our other soulmates in this journey of life. It was beautiful to watch ❤

  • @simplykatm
    @simplykatm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoyed every and each moment keh my dears. Yhooo kwaze kwa mnandi, seeing healthy friendships 😍

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you wethu dhiye 🥹😍😍😍 we really appreciate you watching

  • @khanyisa.makanya7023
    @khanyisa.makanya7023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love how you look at her your love for each other is soo genuine😍😍😍

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soulmates honestly🥹🥹🥹😍😍😍

  • @Tebelelihle_Nxumalo
    @Tebelelihle_Nxumalo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the both of you so much❤I thank Namhla for introducing me to you ❤️

  • @akhonaqokolwana5201
    @akhonaqokolwana5201 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are so genuine ❤️. "SI COMMUNICATE NTOMBI" Loved that line.🤗

  • @onkabetsetlhapi6407
    @onkabetsetlhapi6407 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sooo wholesome 🥹 love you ladies together and individually 🤗🤗

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow I enjoyed this thank you ladies and nibahle 💚💓I've learn something too I don't talk a lot with my friend and I think it's really affect our closeness so per say🤔so yah I'm going to share this video to them

  • @kaybobie813
    @kaybobie813 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Namhla brings out such a different side to you and it’s so beautiful to watch🥺oh intle into yenu ♥️

  • @nonjabuloinnocentia2883
    @nonjabuloinnocentia2883 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is therapeutic I won't lie I now y I have fallen out on a lot of friendships....I love your relationship guys. I also agree that as friends you need to have a similar sense of humor and want the best for eachother. I once had a beastie now we r jst friends and I dnt think we could ever get to that place again but we do have love eachother.I also believe me having a child had an impact on the relationship we couldn't relate to eachother anymore and she a child and I think she gets the whole thing

  • @avympikeleli7575
    @avympikeleli7575 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Namhla is so emotionally intelligent, thanks ladies.

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      She definitely is… 🌸

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I looove how namhla says "chile"😂😂gets me everytime

  • @ntsoakimatlabe5611
    @ntsoakimatlabe5611 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a wholesome chat. I absolutely love you ladies💜

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May God continue to bless and protect this friendship❤🥺

  • @maseramemolumo1440
    @maseramemolumo1440 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Goooosh I don’t know why I delayed watching this one
    Personally I took so much from it especially on how I can be a better friend ♥️

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you found it useful sissy…. 🥹🥹😘❤️
      Thank you for watching

  • @wewemhlaba7593
    @wewemhlaba7593 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so beautiful to watch❤Girl friendships are where it's at

  • @preciousmedupe4564
    @preciousmedupe4564 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This friendship is so beautiful. I love you two so much

  • @minnydinga1074
    @minnydinga1074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Throughly enjoyed this video. It made me miss my bestie who recently relocated to another province after 10 years of leaving 5mins away from each other😮‍💨

  • @nomvelobuswana
    @nomvelobuswana ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love you ladies♥️ Namhla unendawo that resembles Sarah Jakes Roberts 🥹

  • @kawentandokazi
    @kawentandokazi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sana, what a beautiful friendship 🥰🥰 they way you guys laugh, it feels so genuine isuka kumazantsi entliziyo zenu. Truly enjoyed watching this video, andisanithandi ke sanas ❤️❤️❤️

  • @luludamba2153
    @luludamba2153 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this ....ndim no zikhona ....healthy friendships God centered haibo sifuna ntoni enye

  • @mslettiemathibe71
    @mslettiemathibe71 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love your friendship so so much and wish yall all the best

  • @portiamotileni7902
    @portiamotileni7902 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    LOVED and ENJOYED this! ❤️

  • @zenandepali9419
    @zenandepali9419 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful friendship you guys!! Love this❤️

  • @nontuthukosanelisiwe8355
    @nontuthukosanelisiwe8355 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Zizii is more lound koda beautiful to watch, I love your friends

  • @germinahtlhoaele5634
    @germinahtlhoaele5634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your frienship made me cry its genuine I wish I had that but people like me for my helps only😢

  • @lindelanibuhlenkeiiykhunou9719
    @lindelanibuhlenkeiiykhunou9719 ปีที่แล้ว

    yu are such a 'my husband ' type of wife. i love to see it❤❤

  • @preciouschauke3109
    @preciouschauke3109 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I enjoyed watching this video so much 🥺🥰 you guys have such a beautiful friendship. I pray that God will keep you both and your beautiful friendship 😊❤️❤️

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love what Namhla said about sometimes u just check out of the conversation,u know agree to disagree,because it be like that gore in as much as we friends we can have different opinions and thats ok...we respect each other and move on ot doesn't have to ne a train smash..it's not always about being right

  • @zolandawo976
    @zolandawo976 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful and refreshing friendship 💕

  • @kellyjoseph7448
    @kellyjoseph7448 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    batho i so love Zizi. You ladies are out of this world...

  • @babsiesankobe182
    @babsiesankobe182 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really enjoyed watching this video, it reminded me of my friendship with my bestie.

  • @noloyisogcilitshana3612
    @noloyisogcilitshana3612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wish I could like this one a billion times...therapeutic indeed👌

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Lord is sovereign ❤️

  • @matshidisomolete1906
    @matshidisomolete1906 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the friendship content! There's so much content on romantic relationships out there that we tend to forget that friendships are also relationships that need to be nurtured and that one needs to be intentional about it.

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel like the only time I get to see Zizi true character is when she’s with Namhla, she’s the reason why I think I know her better than before

  • @Somia_Mhlophe
    @Somia_Mhlophe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    best video I've watched all day, this is lovely ladies❤❤you two remind me of my best friends🤣

  • @Lizmhlamnyane2604
    @Lizmhlamnyane2604 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Mrs Moloko, I love you ❤

  • @lebogangpheko893
    @lebogangpheko893 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are in, compliments my Diye 💯😘💕💐🤗

  • @nontobekotau9773
    @nontobekotau9773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this video so much and I feel like I got to know more about you.

  • @isabellasekgabi6111
    @isabellasekgabi6111 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yoh this is soo beautiful 😭❤️..... I definitely Sbwl such a friendship

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️🙏🏾 it’s possible sissy… as long as you’re willing to invest and you find women who are also willing to invest 😘❤️

  • @kwenam796
    @kwenam796 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my favorite video 😂😂❤❤I keep on coming back

  • @angayozi4212
    @angayozi4212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The prettiest girls in the whole of mzansi ke sana

  • @grannyditlhake2051
    @grannyditlhake2051 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Noo Zizi can talk 😂😂😂Haikhona🤣and uNamhla is the calm one 😊I love your relationship

    • @Poshkin24
      @Poshkin24 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yho😂 ilove her❤️

  • @luyandagazu9619
    @luyandagazu9619 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her smile🤗🤗🤗♥️I love it

  • @nthabisengbrown
    @nthabisengbrown ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I genuinely enjoyed this video, I honestly learned a lot thanks for your honesty 🥰

  • @ayandamtyebi6825
    @ayandamtyebi6825 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this friendship ❤. The friendship is genuine and love based.

  • @phiwokuhlegumbi5716
    @phiwokuhlegumbi5716 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so fun. I love your friendship 💐🔥😍

  • @nolkie_02
    @nolkie_02 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂did I not feel mature after watching this, especially the friendship talk because I'm quick to just end friendship when we are fighting. But now I know better 💖

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😄😄😄 we should give people in our lives grace honey…. We’ll all human beings, so we’re bound to all make mistakes…
      But obviously we also have to learn to draw the line somewhere bandla 😘😘😘

  • @thapelotolamo2487
    @thapelotolamo2487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Zizi's sense of humor 🤣 😂 love the friendship

  • @sessyphiri3321
    @sessyphiri3321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I resonate much with Namhla’s point of view so much while learning a lot from Zizi..❤️☺️

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you were able to find valuable in both of us sissy…. 😘😘🌸
      Be sure to also subscribe to Namhla’s channel, maybe you’ll relate to her a lot 😘❤️

    • @sessyphiri3321
      @sessyphiri3321 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zizi_moloko subscribed..

  • @veehlwatika3082
    @veehlwatika3082 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this video! Friendship is so precious🥰❤

  • @fikiledhlame9550
    @fikiledhlame9550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed this conversation. 😊 Thank you ladies ❤

  • @nellynelly4577
    @nellynelly4577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your friendship is so cute and very encouraging guy and I learn something new every time I watch ivlogs zenu ❤

  • @busishauntelle
    @busishauntelle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Healthy friendships ❤❤ This was beautiful to watch

  • @lesegomoloto1029
    @lesegomoloto1029 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so beautiful it made me miss my besti she passed on 2021....she was my soulmate 😢

    • @zizi_moloko
      @zizi_moloko  ปีที่แล้ว

      My deepest condolences sissy…. 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️

  • @sphumym
    @sphumym ปีที่แล้ว

    i just love you guys and your energies. enjoyed watching this

  • @olunjengudle3199
    @olunjengudle3199 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank God I was dying already, ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭😂😂😂

  • @gin.k
    @gin.k ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so cute🧡. I appreciate the time & effort you put into your friendship.