Whats special is that the parties are more mature, more experienced and as a man u have made some bread. You have most shit figured out. The probability of a successful marriage is much higher when the parties are mature.
@michaelafubwa8125 I would argue it's more probable to have a successful marriage if you come from money and status. Izo zingine watu hubeba too much baggage and trauma from a hard life especially women who are always jittery about the prospects of survival. That experience you are talking about was never an issue when boys used to get married after initiation in the past. Your experience affects only your actions not the person you elope with. Whatever they decide to do is up to them not you
Even as you give Kaka a lot of flowers, remember he once used to date Sage and they even got a girl child together and that was during his marriage with Nana Owiti,,, I am so sure Kaka is the cause of this break up, he has really taken that chic through a lot in as much as he looks so innocent and a some kind of a perfect husband.
Buana no man is monogamous. Shida ya madem wengine wanataka ukae nao tu ... inalead tu umalaya. afadhali uoe wawili ukae nao, kuliko kukuwa na mmoja na malaya fote
I married at 28 and my late wife was 26 at that time. We had a good 8yrs marriage life that l can't regret even for a minute. She was a virgin when we started dating, she finally gave me one cute boy and a beautiful gal that I need to raise them to the standard we envisioned.
I remember hearing mwaf complain that Sharon Mundia said she got married too young (I think at 25?) and then he used Steph Curry as an example and said Curry got married at 23 so what was Sharon Mundia saying about getting married too young? He of course did not distinguish that Curry probably had a multi-million dollar contract at that point and could afford to get married (or do whatever he wanted honestly). Whether you get married at 23 or 33 (if you have serious financial issues, your marriage probably won't work). Financial stability has to be looked at and men in kenya need to come to terms with this reality.
Nameless and Wahu have survived coz of professional marriage therapy right from the beginning of their union. I love them and I’m their silent follower since tene. I have heard nameless say therapy saved their marriage.
Watu wa diaspora hebu kujeni I need your views on this. Is it only me who notices in Kenya 30yrs is taken as soo old ama ni Mimi tu? Juu hii nchi za Europe manzee at 30 bado tuko so young haki. Ndio people start thinking where to start na settling like marriage
life expectancy in a subsaharan country like kenya is 62..... in a european like netherlands it's 82.... in the subsaharan land most people are not living, it's survival as they wait to "be called home by the lord"... injili and poverty
@@Qqambaa Inafikanga mahali lazima uamue kama utaendelea kujidanganya ama you face the harsh realities of life na haikuangi rahisi kujitoa but what has to be done must be done! Its now 6 years since I decided to face the reality.
reaaon for divorce can never be an age thing people marry by thirty but still separate due to infidelity, hypagamy and alot of other things...some times the "iko nini" attitude is misleading this young generation let facts remain facts....🐐mwafreeka you insist no one is a second timer in this life time and no one has this shit figured out so avoid biting your own tongue people should be allowed to live how they see right....IKO NINI!!
...but unasahau....our parents used to support each other... ..just because mothers never bragged about it...but the amount of time your dad bought you stuff...or mamako anakwambia you wait when the dad ata rudi atawanunulia...but she's the one that slips that money to the father to sort... ...that's why you never knew your dad was jobless...mpaka aki get another job hamtajua as kids...juu the mother atampatia ata fare akakae kamkunji na wazee wanzake arudi jioni...
Marriage is complex thing, for instance Individual Differences: Each partner brings their own background, values, and experiences into the marriage. Life Changes: Over time, people change. Career shifts, parenthood, health issues, and other life events can alter priorities and dynamics within the marriage, requiring constant adjustment, At some point lets embrace change, as man be self sustaining,
Divorce rates 😮 in africa you go t a healthy sixty percentage chance for your marriage to survive in Europe its about 40 america a little less than 30 percent. Tink about this halafu vitu vingine vyote as discussed ni ngumu sana
Mwaf needs to stop comparing the west to Kenya. They are two totally different worlds. He tries to compare everything, but they are no stat's in kenya on crime on divorce rates, nothing. What I've seen in kenya with all my relatives is that the women just literally run away from their husbands (there is no formal divorce with lawyers and courts so therefore, they're no stats) and they run away usually because of domestic violence issues or alcoholism issues or both. Also, African men are the poorest in the world because they come from such poverty stricken countries. I did not know any woman in my family that did not provide (they were forced to because in many cases the men had low incomes or no incomes - and with the alcoholics, they had zero incomes) This is why if you go to markets in Kenya, it's 99% women. The Mama mboga's are women hustling to put food on the table for their kids. You hardly see men. Where are they? Kenyan men need to start being more honest with themselves when it comes to this issue of economics. Why would any woman submit to a broke man? or submit when she is paying 50% of the bills and in many cases, probably most of the bills?
Imjn Nana owiti aliacha king kaka kitambo nivenye king kaka amekua anajaribu kumake things work but ikashindikana juu Nana alikua ashaanza kumuonyesha madharau so ikafika point king kaka ikabidi akubali she is taken 😢😢😢 i feel pain for king
Right. Was just wondering the same. What does it even mean when they're the poorest men in the world? lol We live in the modern world and not in the stone age anymore. African men need to stop overrating themselves.
Guys i think ive got life figured out. 1.Avoid human interaction 2.Don't believe anyone or anything 3.Dont invest in anything, ( Kula pesa yako yote kwa hoteli) 4.Always be happy at the expense of everyone including your health. 5.Kaa kwako (you're paying too much rent to be out here in the streets) 6.Attend Raw n Unkut 4
Mwaf please leta mkurugenzi tena 🙏🙏 iko nini 🔥🔥
Mwaf Abel Mutua anafaa adonjo tena, itaweza sana!!🔥🔥
nimetoka kuona raw and uncut--all i can say is raptcha ni mziii. wuehh!!!
Nunua tikiti ya 4 tafadhali 😁
@@IkoNini mbona baado youtube haija verified chanel navenye sahii tumesonga...148k
@@IkoNini Mwaf Yo, kitu ikidonjo ntaketootiko ya mutu moja at least
Kwani what's so special about getting married at 30 plus. Hizi vitu ni gambling zote there's no guarantee anyways
Yeah, I agree. People are different and life has different formulae for everyone.
@georgelay5426 kabisa wa kuona vumbi ataona TU vumbi hata akioa kama abraham
Whats special is that the parties are more mature, more experienced and as a man u have made some bread. You have most shit figured out. The probability of a successful marriage is much higher when the parties are mature.
@michaelafubwa8125 I would argue it's more probable to have a successful marriage if you come from money and status. Izo zingine watu hubeba too much baggage and trauma from a hard life especially women who are always jittery about the prospects of survival. That experience you are talking about was never an issue when boys used to get married after initiation in the past. Your experience affects only your actions not the person you elope with. Whatever they decide to do is up to them not you
💯
Even as you give Kaka a lot of flowers, remember he once used to date Sage and they even got a girl child together and that was during his marriage with Nana Owiti,,, I am so sure Kaka is the cause of this break up, he has really taken that chic through a lot in as much as he looks so innocent and a some kind of a perfect husband.
@@justustiego.tiego.365 covert narcissistic
Buana no man is monogamous. Shida ya madem wengine wanataka ukae nao tu ... inalead tu umalaya. afadhali uoe wawili ukae nao, kuliko kukuwa na mmoja na malaya fote
I married at 28 and my late wife was 26 at that time. We had a good 8yrs marriage life that l can't regret even for a minute. She was a virgin when we started dating, she finally gave me one cute boy and a beautiful gal that I need to raise them to the standard we envisioned.
I salute you bro🙏🙏
you were so lucky sir.
I like the calmness here when you guys are talking. But I think age isn't a factor it is the maturity that comes with experience maybe family etc
With men greatest % maturity comes with age.
@@Hero-ef4nqno! Maturity doesn't came with age. It's what you've been exposed to.
Things happen, but maturity helps sometimes. In all, it's gambling...relationships end but life must go on.
I remember hearing mwaf complain that Sharon Mundia said she got married too young (I think at 25?) and then he used Steph Curry as an example and said Curry got married at 23 so what was Sharon Mundia saying about getting married too young?
He of course did not distinguish that Curry probably had a multi-million dollar contract at that point and could afford to get married (or do whatever he wanted honestly). Whether you get married at 23 or 33 (if you have serious financial issues, your marriage probably won't work). Financial stability has to be looked at and men in kenya need to come to terms with this reality.
Kibe the king, long live master, wherever you are I will be grateful for what you taught me.
Mwaf keep telling them
Me too,,,,
I feel like btn 2022 and 2023 Kibe taught me things that Changed my perspective abt several things in life..
@@binbenmartin3425 Kibe is now a jobless 50 year old man in kenya. What exactly did you learn from him? how to become a loser?
💯
SO KIBE WAS RIGHT
I'm not surprised.
@@BobFriend-l5b Never doubt Kibe. 😆 🤣 😂
Kibe has called most of these marriages 💯
@@telmoworldmedia If you see a man is being hated by most women just know there is a very good chance that guy is on the right track.
Kibe ni mugaka😂😂
Nameless na wahu wanafaa kupewa respect
alongside Jay z and Beyonce
You mean Beyonce alitoa album mzima about healing from Jay Zs cheating..watu wana vumilia juu hawapendi drama
Nameless and Wahu have survived coz of professional marriage therapy right from the beginning of their union. I love them and I’m their silent follower since tene. I have heard nameless say therapy saved their marriage.
Sasa juu umewataja ni kama mambo itakua mbadala.
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@ICTProfits
@@ICTProfits😂😂😂😂
Nameless parents seem to have also set a good example.
Watu wa diaspora hebu kujeni I need your views on this. Is it only me who notices in Kenya 30yrs is taken as soo old ama ni Mimi tu? Juu hii nchi za Europe manzee at 30 bado tuko so young haki. Ndio people start thinking where to start na settling like marriage
Diaspora has less family pressure when it comes to marriage.
life expectancy in a subsaharan country like kenya is 62..... in a european like netherlands it's 82.... in the subsaharan land most people are not living, it's survival as they wait to "be called home by the lord"... injili and poverty
@@generalcomments6694 mi nko 28 naona age mates washamarry .sina haraka
Age is a factor to consider when marrying,me i married at 22,we divorced after our first born ,i think marrying at early 30s is better
I like the way you are so deep today.... You are saying sense... Keep it up
Mwaf, King Kaka amejaribu. 24 years na Umefika 14 year hio ni noma. Mimi yangu haikufika hapo na nilimarika nikiwa 31 years!!
Yangu ilikaa 7 years nikaondokea . I got tired
@@ericonchangu7830mnanivunja moyo kwani inafikanga time watu wanakosana 😂😂
@@Qqambaa Inafikanga mahali lazima uamue kama utaendelea kujidanganya ama you face the harsh realities of life na haikuangi rahisi kujitoa but what has to be done must be done! Its now 6 years since I decided to face the reality.
Yap!Unavumuliaaaa but it reaches a time unasema enough is enough!@@Qqambaa
Somebody pay me a ticket for law and uncut of rapcha
Sio law😂😂RAW
😂@@youngboyneverbroke7561
Contact me nikununulie regular you represent us watu wako mbali.
ingia live ya friday utapata kama huyuko far na nai
😂😂😂😂😂wah
These statements is see them as delusions of grandeur. I don't give a damn what's happening in other people's lives
The fact that you have to say it means you give a fucking damn if you didn't we'd never know
marriage ~ the only war where u shared a bed with the enemy ⚔
reaaon for divorce can never be an age thing people marry by thirty but still separate due to infidelity, hypagamy and alot of other things...some times the "iko nini" attitude is misleading this young generation let facts remain facts....🐐mwafreeka you insist no one is a second timer in this life time and no one has this shit figured out so avoid biting your own tongue people should be allowed to live how they see right....IKO NINI!!
This is a podcast and it's about their individual views not the gospel truth. You have the freedom to agree or not.
..Marriage after 35 years..Some reality of life has hit..and pragmatism takes hold, and unseen qualities come into view..
Watu wenye walioa wakiwa wayoung na sahii wako in their late 30s na early 40s wanadivorce design moja haijuani😢
Divorce itakuwa mob in the future
Nothing wrong with getting marriage at early age , this happened when Celebrities status, if it’s for normal couples this could not have happened
so sio fame and money only that can keep a woman. syllabus gani hii ladies husoma we get a look
Infact most that work are not famous and have average money
...but unasahau....our parents used to support each other...
..just because mothers never bragged about it...but the amount of time your dad bought you stuff...or mamako anakwambia you wait when the dad ata rudi atawanunulia...but she's the one that slips that money to the father to sort...
...that's why you never knew your dad was jobless...mpaka aki get another job hamtajua as kids...juu the mother atampatia ata fare akakae kamkunji na wazee wanzake arudi jioni...
Wueh!Bro ya huyu guest alikuwa na hiyo crew!My pal,who was called Aineah also died in that accident.😢
Sasa nana ni single mother 😅😅
Mwaf ongelelea story ya Lily philips
Marriage is complex thing, for instance Individual Differences: Each partner brings their own background, values, and experiences into the marriage.
Life Changes: Over time, people change. Career shifts, parenthood, health issues, and other life events can alter priorities and dynamics within the marriage, requiring constant adjustment, At some point lets embrace change, as man be self sustaining,
Kwa marriage to work one partner should look just stupid by compromising some things otherwise marriage iko na ngori mob
This will go over many peoples heads.
Good lessons
Divorce rates 😮 in africa you go t a healthy sixty percentage chance for your marriage to survive in Europe its about 40 america a little less than 30 percent. Tink about this halafu vitu vingine vyote as discussed ni ngumu sana
Sounds like a conversion you had when they broke up a month or two ago
Hata Siya Kholisi (ZAR rugby captain) seperated with the wife.
Mwaf needs to stop comparing the west to Kenya. They are two totally different worlds. He tries to compare everything, but they are no stat's in kenya on crime on divorce rates, nothing.
What I've seen in kenya with all my relatives is that the women just literally run away from their husbands (there is no formal divorce with lawyers and courts so therefore, they're no stats) and they run away usually because of domestic violence issues or alcoholism issues or both.
Also, African men are the poorest in the world because they come from such poverty stricken countries. I did not know any woman in my family that did not provide (they were forced to because in many cases the men had low incomes or no incomes - and with the alcoholics, they had zero incomes)
This is why if you go to markets in Kenya, it's 99% women. The Mama mboga's are women hustling to put food on the table for their kids. You hardly see men. Where are they?
Kenyan men need to start being more honest with themselves when it comes to this issue of economics. Why would any woman submit to a broke man? or submit when she is paying 50% of the bills and in many cases, probably most of the bills?
Marriage maturity haikujangi juu mtu ako 30 lol... Kuna wengi wako hio age group and they are still not fit for marriage...
Not fit or gave up on marriage?..
@savvytherealsavage not every one who gets married was prepared for marriage. That's the point I'm making, I'm not referring to king kaka and nana.
Kaka ali ruka na sage kwaivo nana pia ana weza kuwa amepata gachunwgwa
You are sick... marriage has alot to do with sacrifice from both sides. No tolerance no marriage bruh...but hapo kwa age hamjui chochote
Anza podcast yako utueleze kitu unajua ambayo hao hawajui tuskie pia
@johnstoneolefa913 kwani wee ni mwaf 🤔 matako yako
Exactly I agree with you . Lazima ujikubali kuwa stupid at some point otherwise it won't work
Sasa bro surely sacrifice na saa hiyo bibi yako anakulwa huko.
@@h-thegreat depends with how much you can tolerate...but a cheating one is a danger ⚡ chorea...
I believe Nana & Kaka are and 'll remain cool /committed couples. I feel It's content attention Matters.
Hawa hawaachani
Imjn Nana owiti aliacha king kaka kitambo nivenye king kaka amekua anajaribu kumake things work but ikashindikana juu Nana alikua ashaanza kumuonyesha madharau so ikafika point king kaka ikabidi akubali she is taken 😢😢😢 i feel pain for king
Marriage is a scam 😅😅😅😅😅
Kiki
Hawa tumewazoeya na KIKI. Hapa Kuna Ngoma inaenda ku drop
I doubt
@@wycliffepoet5201 catch me dead if I believe those clout chasers.
Bro most marriages are just pathetic..nothing peculiar about King Kaka..stop the ignorance guys
Hii kitu ya African man, what does that mean?. People are people. Marriage is btn wati wawili, pls dont generalize.
Right. Was just wondering the same. What does it even mean when they're the poorest men in the world? lol We live in the modern world and not in the stone age anymore. African men need to stop overrating themselves.
Guys i think ive got life figured out.
1.Avoid human interaction
2.Don't believe anyone or anything
3.Dont invest in anything,
( Kula pesa yako yote kwa hoteli)
4.Always be happy at the expense of everyone including your health.
5.Kaa kwako
(you're paying too much rent to be out here in the streets)
6.Attend Raw n Unkut 4
Hakuna divorce apa ni Kiki tu.
wajuaje,ilitangazwa ktn