i have some discord with barkha mam , on the issue that India is not male dominating society . As rural India is concerned their is huge gape between the liberty of man and women . I am living in village which is not soo backward as other village of India . what I see their women are exploited physically for field work and house work . They have no free time for entertainment . They are totally depend on male of their houses . They are mentally tortured by male of their house and by society directly and indirectly . Reality is that they no idea about their rights .As rural girls is concerned ,they have no ambition about their personal life and their is lots of restrictions on their thoughts . They have no idea about that life is not confined to marriage .
It's not always women who are victims in rural and urban areas both men are victims too I have seen the game live and do you know men are also the victims of domestic violence.
@vinkali G it is in for acheive 5 trillion economy till 2024 we need to support from both sides no one try to become superior and at the same time no one trying to play victim card
Sonal it's good that you can see both the sides of the situation and in the end we have to see each other as partners for our prosperity and not as distant strangers
@@vagabond8066 there are only 2 genders - man and woman... This partnership is naturally created... Men try to disturb the balance and now women are trying the same... Equality is a matter of conscience and social perception... Some statistics cannot undermine that... Working together is in the common interest and national good... Policies are required... Especially to address the rural situation as sitting in the cities we cannot feel the pain of the distant...
Million of thanks to you Barkha Trehan from my deep heart! you raised genuine topics which men are facing all NGO work for men , nobody is there to listen men whatever he is facing you are Exactly Right.
Sir, can't you invite a rural woman, a tribal woman, a college girl, a kaam wali bai, a farmer woman, a factory woman in debate and same type of men in the debate for holistic debate on the issue. Like if you agree.
Theory of Relativity proved cent per cent true to me today, don't know how the debate ended too quickly, although I have watched it for 26 minutes. Felt like just 26sec had passed, Tehran Mam_you were siplended. Gender equality encompasses both women and men, not the former only as we have been taught and debated so far.
I think Barkha ma'am lives in south Mumbai cos most of the time she was talking about the things which has nothing to do with the topic. Saying things like "India is a rape capital is a myth, women are already empowered" was terribly wrong and shows that she has zero knowledge of ground reality. I'm not misandrist but what she was talking totally mislead the discussion and presented a wrong picture of the country. India still has to go a long way to achieve gender equality and women empowerment.
A lot of people suffer in this county on the lines of gender, caste, colour, region, religion, and what not. We need to address all these divides. Once thre is no divide, there will be no discrimination, and hence no need for empowerment.
The crime against men is on rise too. In rural semi urban and urban all places. You need a voice to shed light on this issue as importantly as the other way around. Please look at cases file wrongfully by women with bitter intentions and they just get away with that as if it is normal.
I saw first time equal rights activist 🙏🏻 I live in Patna where gov bus have seat all seat titled only mahilaye , even one seat not left for men why😂😂😂😂😂😂🙏🏻
Rekha Aggarwal mam was right as giving freebies will hurting the dignity of women and disgracing the working women.. But she is thinking by seeing only one side. In my opinion, giving freebies by government is not hurting the wife of daily wages worker, worker whose daily wages is around Rs. 300-500/ day. If we go from, Delhi to Ghaziabad, even at some other place via metro, Daily cost of metro of one person both sides Around Rs 100, if a woman of daily wage worker wanted to work in Delhi in shops, or in restaurant , she will think twice wheather to go or not to go.. because Maximum expenditure will spend on traveling.. Every situation has two faces..what Rekha ji is thinking , is right but not absolutely right.🙂
Eveybody is talking about women empowerment... But the topic is gender equality....... Gender equality leads to womenempoverment. women empowerment dont lead to genderequality. Both are different topics😇
Barkha mam, first time I am watching a women's such a view on feminism.you have pick up such a bright points that will also encourage other women as well.
Barkha trehan ma'm was talking superficially as she does not fully aware of the real condition of Indian women particularly in rural areas. her points are useless and seems as she returned from aaj tak's machhali bazaar debate. Though some points are very relevant and deep.... 1. we are doing great in educating girls but what about work place's environments? it need to be tackled. good work culture and surroundings should be made. points by yogita bayana ma'm. 2. shankar aggarwal threw lights on govt initiatives beti bachao beti padhao in particular, cases of infanticide, nutrition, education etc having concern about male dominance in the society. safety of women is real concern. It encourages women to take parts in industrial activities, political and other male dominance areas exists which are the parameters where India did bad in the report. Apart from this social attitudes need to be changed towards women . As Rekha ma'm said. She pointed the issue out from the free rides for women in delhi. It is bad for women's attitude as well to themselves.
well you said in your pathetic paragraph. Question Einstein ? what about BOYS education RATIOS of boys passing through Colleges...you should be alarmed search this "Education crisis of boys" I am always amazed about Low-Life losers like you roaming this planet...you morons thinks Facebook youtube are for real....they report about hardships society go through and here you whining the very opposite you have been brainwashed to hear empowerment of men & boys....those are ILLEGAL words in INDIA according to you ?
Barkha mam gave different perspective but i think thats not the real issue.. No doubt that boys do suffer a lot but women suffer more than them in real life.. It may be at working place, at homes, at streets or wherever they go.. So earlier for many years men were given preference for anything but now its time to empower women so that they come at equal level to men and then we'll definitely have a healthy debate about gender neutral law
@SHUBHAM HANDEonly women empowerment will lead to gender equality. Rest the panelist barkha mam said is all ok..she gave different perspective i mentioned in the beginning sir.. So if free rides are given to women why not men.. If scholarship for girls are 3000 then why 2500 for boys.. That's so true.. Laws should be there for both of them and should be similar.. But what i meant is that first let the women come in front.. Let them get empowered.. After all its male dominated society
@SHUBHAM HANDE SIR, i don't want to argue or debate with u.. Unless u ensure me that its a healthy discussion.. And also i don't see gender equality and women empowerment as two different topics.. I agree gender equality is issue all over the world but what different about india is many girls are uneducated. Forget Quality Education they are not even getting education.. They must not even be knowing that there's a issue like gender equality.. On the other hand, people send their boys to study, higher education.. And the thinking can be changed through education or rather quality education About rape capital.. I have no knowledge.. But suggestions from u are welcomed.. And thank you for replying to my comment 😊😊
@SHUBHAM HANDE same is my family.. They also never discriminate between me, my brother and my sister.. But its not about u and me.. There are lakhs of villages and lakhs of girls there.. We talk about equality when there is discrimination right? In rural areas even now there is female infoeticide, girls are not sent to schools whereas boys are, no attention is given on their nutrition and health whereas boys are given attention.. And to the surprise, these are women and old ladies in villages who behave like this.. Why?? Because They are uneducated.. They are not even allowed to do what they want.. So your question is on what grounds women are asking for equality.. I just want to say that when all the women will have the power to make their own decisions.. Take their stand.. Their is no male dominance.. When men can take all decision themselves then why not women.. Let the women or girl be like me or ur sister that is independent.. Am not independent yet 😂 btw .. And you forgot to tell me about rape capital.. Please tell.. I really have no idea.. Thank you 😊 i just hope that i make sense somehow..
@SHUBHAM HANDE i think first its education to all, second jobs, these two things must be given or created.. Also we need more strict laws and implementation too.. Bs or ni pta kuch
Ms. Trehan has probably overlooked the fact, that, parents don't go around aborting boy child. They don't stop their sons from going to school. The sex ratio speaks otherwise!
Barkha Ji gave a full twist to whole discussion by including men into the discussion and it was seen in other panelist views which were earlier only for women and then including men as well. Ministry for Men was a very good suggestion! Yeah, few points of her regarding 'rape capital' being a false or fake propaganda was un-necessary but overall a nice discussion from all panel members
still india is a patriarchal society,rural India particularly.As opposed to mrs trehan's views if its a myth,then why a girl is considered a liability for the family in most rural areas?There are huge no of unreported domestic violence incidents towards women under the influence of alcohol
Yeah punk COPY & PASTE this " India anti male Culture" Read well you if you have brain inside..... you must be one those Over educated 3rd class morons wet dreaming to migrate to west to make a buck...Good luck with that ..nobody welcomes indians any more in the west...
@SHUBHAM HANDE well said mate...I am so glad individuals who sees there is another side for this story that Main Stream media Deliberately Ignores Specially in the USA..
Why is this lady shouting !! Raising your voice doesn't make you right . Big picture has a reputation and it should maintain it by avoiding this kind of panelists. Topic was interesting but this lady prompted me to leave the show midway. Highly disappointed.
Do ask the question to those women who are facing sexual assault since childhood By their uncles and cousins. And when they talk to their family her family adviced to keep quiet for the sake of so called reputation in the society. Where is gender quality say miss Barkha mam so called activist
You right. I think our so called protector of culture, the so called nationalist think that talking LGBTQ and their right will anti national and against great culture of India.
I m totally agreed with miss barkha trehan we guys are talking about women only think about men as well we guys are also struggling in verious acsept in life the conclusions is that government is just showing sympathy as they are carrying women as well nothing more than that.....🙏🙏🙏🙏
Barkha mam is completely unaware of the ground realities...come see in rural areas...and to some extent in urban as well..she is just talking about a small section of our society... m astonished at her myopic view...though some points were good like to address male sexual harrassment and to bring about gender neutral laws but to discard the reality that ours is a male dominated society is completely myopic...
Barkha ma'am have very narrow view about world and she is speaking completely different from the reality just to get appreciation from the strong section of society ( males) she is not mentioning the safety issues women face in home, public and work places and they have no political and economic say . in society women also facing problem because women like her who want majority support for their upliftment. ( I agree there must be laws for men and surveys should be there which are men centric ) but this world is Male dominated as they have political & economic power and her mind is too male dominated Now we are moving towards equality but not equal because globally women don't see equal being
Ms. Barkha the men themselves are law, the society has always been working in favour of them. I really can see why men are drooling over you. Obviously you are the one they definitely need. When guests come over the house, your daughter needs to serve snacks and meal, does you son do that too? Have you ever visited rural India where females are forced to drop from school and work at home and farm, so that their brothers can study at school? Do males also carry child to their workplace in informal sector? Do 8 months old girl also need to know what she must wear coz the newspaper is filled up of news about them getting raped and shockingly the no. of such cases is increasing
@@Witcher1989 i don't know why dumbos like you keep citing an exception and then expect everyone to consider that as a norm. Nope dumbo, everyone is not a dumbo
@@Witcher1989 well I have never seen men so much united against or stand up against any atrocities against women like they do these days to imply that women are forcing them down
@@Witcher1989 no dumbo, you can stop your presumptions coz they might work at your home but doesn't work outside. Plus, I don't see females confronting every male for their misogynism. It's just people like you who are triggered by the 'equal status of women' coz your fragile ego won't be able to take it. As a result you try to portray a very rosy picture which is far from reality to show that everything is ok with women. As i am typing the news of murder of a 2 year female child by 4 men is flashing on TV. I don't think you dumbos have done any reality check. Feel sorry for dumbos like you.
Feeling glad that the discussion was based on the true meaning of 'gender' but in India, the issue of gender equality is more tilted toward women because of large cases of female infanticide. Govt. is trying to subsidise girl education, health,& taking steps toward her safety more because these are the reasons behind the death of many newborns. There is no doubt that the right to equality is fundamental for a decent life but to have equality we have to save lives.
We have a good rank in primary education, health etc. Thi shows that younger people are trying to balance the equation out. On the other hand at cooperates the age difference matters.The seniors were brought up by a whole generation which believed that patriarchy is the only way .So I think that more education spreads more the gap decreases . Same goes with population control
Barkha ma'am was irritating for viewers as well as co-panelists.see was like turning a blind eye to the reality that women are in need of some sort of positive discrimination.low female representation in every walks of public life can be cited as an evidence of our patriarchal society.
See... She comes from a family which is privileged... She says what she sees around (his family, friends, etc.). She knows no rural situation... Her limited knowledge is reflecting her iq...
Sonal Vyas i am little disagree with you. 1)if she comes from privileged family she must have resources to learn about the structure of indian society....which is inherently patriarchal. 2)from vedic period to contemporary society,female of lower class enjoyed more autonomy than higher class counterparts.so it should be the women from privileged class to be more vocal about discrimination being faced by them... So as per mine opinion it is the case of burying head in sand and not her social status.
@@arunthakur6998 I agree that she has the resources to study and learn... But she chose to portray a progressive her... Independent one... By privilege I also mean... Sitting in the comforting cities... She has the privilege of judging the situation in rural and other areas of the country... And generalising everything around... Also, I agree... That high royal families constraint their women... But these women with whatever freedom they have... Use it to judge... Do kitty parties... Work in NGOs... To do feminist moments...
Sonal Vyas your insight in societal issue is quite impressive.after a long time i have such an insightful interaction.hoping for great success for women like you as it is the only way to empower women in true sense....see you soon on other important issues...
The SDG Gender Index is itself discriminatory. It only talks about women and that with respect to a specific "western" culture. SDG Gender Index with my comments:- When I look at the parameters and do the analysis, it's shocking that the parameters itself are very very gender biased. Some of the the parameters do not even consider "men" as a gender. 😢😢 5.1 End all forms of discrimination against all women and girls everywhere. What about men and boys? Don't they also have a gender? Or are they not human? 5.2 Eliminate all forms of violence against all women and girls in the public and private spheres, including trafficking and sexual and other types of exploitation. Again what about men and boys? Meaning of Gender equality itself has changed. 5.3 Eliminate all harmful practices, such as child, early and forced marriage and female genital mutilation. Again all parameters for female only. What about male versus female percentage of child labour, Child bullying. % Unnatural deaths , % suicides, % of workforce in dangerous jobs, %deaths dur to cancer, life expectancy???? The list is long. 5.4 Recognize and value unpaid care and domestic work through the provisions of public services, infrastructure and social protection policies and the promotion of shared responsibility within the household and the family as nationally appropriate. All things totally focused on women. What about unpaid care men do like assisting in shopping, driving car and beating traffic. Financial and social planning. Endangering themselves in the all the risky work. What about shared responsibility outside households? Remember, a patriarchal society puts all these responsibility on men. 5.5 Ensure women's full and effective participation and equal opportunities for leadership at all levels of decision-making in political, economic and public life. Who is stopping them. In When a woman raises the issue of a farmers, it becomes a news. All know about a woman's mindset. Less said better. I am leaving 5.6 and 5.a, 5.b 5.c. They are also on similar lines.
Barkha ma'am has spoke abt , laws pertaining to men .Thats never a useless point . But she is just talkng about men. Thts not the point to be made now . We need to work on priorities. It's high time that we work for the betterment of Women.
In addition to this, they all dislike the initiative of free public transport for women,which is intended to provide safe and efficient transport to female.while on the contrary yogita ma'am raise her concern for safty of women at work place. If govt. do some positive discrimination like free public transport they criticise govt by saying that women are capable enough to look after themselves.if this is the case why you are asking for women safety at work place.pseudo feminist...
@@arunthakur6998 thanks for articulating what I wanted to convey... The feminists want all the benefits without be portrayed as such... Blowing hot and cold at the same time ...
Equality....empowerment... How about unsaid but widely prevalent practice of dowry in whatever garb it be! Both men and women are equally responsible for this practice. What aghast me is most of youth still go for this practice. “ Hume kuch nahi chahiye bas baratiyo ka swagat shasndaar hona chahiye”???? Where is men empowerment when it comes to Dowry? Equality for sharing house chores...share in raising kids, take care of one’s own old parents. Why only women when both men and women are working? Education - hygiene facilities, transport, safety! Work - how women can work when so many jobs requires flexible work hours like doctors/nurse, airline industry, Call centers, etc...when still women traveling alone is unsafe! There are law but enforcement is a? Reliable and good Child care system in a given radius. Fraternal leave...no one spoke about it???
Barkha mam...yes we need an institution to collect statistics for men issues... Media won't cover you.. But glad to see you ,and deepika mam fighting for men's rights... Women.empowermemt is more like women appeasement nowdays And it's becoming a business...
Enrollment numbers are bogus . The reality is other way . We work we see and we are pressurized to get students enrolled . Even if the student later comes or not , is not taken down in report studies . Only enrollment numbers are not really "real" ! Period
Barkha Trehan ma'am thank you for raising more concerning points for men. I am agree with you that this is not a male dominated society. rather women empowerment our govt must focus on youth empowerment.
Barkha mam actually u are an mith..and seriously u don't know what kind of situations are faced by women in india in the form of violence discrimination rape and all
Activists like Barkha is there for supporting vulnerable men especially vulnerable due to their strong wives... Thanks for your voice mam 😢
i have some discord with barkha mam , on the issue that India is not male dominating society . As rural India is concerned their is huge gape between the liberty of man and women . I am living in village which is not soo backward as other village of India . what I see their women are exploited physically for field work and house work . They have no free time for entertainment . They are totally depend on male of their houses . They are mentally tortured by male of their house and by society directly and indirectly . Reality is that they no idea about their rights .As rural girls is concerned ,they have no ambition about their personal life and their is lots of restrictions on their thoughts . They have no idea about that life is not confined to marriage .
Her viewpoint is just limited to cities and completely ignoring villages
It's not always women who are victims in rural and urban areas both men are victims too I have seen the game live and do you know men are also the victims of domestic violence.
Barkha mam great speech 👏👏👏
Bharkha Trehan ! A Woman who stand for Man.👍😂
But still the conclusion she wants to bring is that both man and woman should be treated equally so it’s a subtle way of advocating gender equality.
@@jtdt2978 which is not expected by these fat headed people as they keep claiming men are superior so they should be given more rights.
@@kimtae9329 who the hell said that? Who said men deserve more right than women? Don't make up bs to prove you're point.
@vinkali G it is in for acheive 5 trillion economy till 2024 we need to support from both sides no one try to become superior and at the same time no one trying to play victim card
I am following rajyasabha tv,for a long time but never seen someone shouting like this
Trehan Mam our advocate. It's good to see Equal rights activists.
Barkha Trehan mam rocks 👌✌️, such an interesting debate it was. Thanks to RSTV. 🙏
Bharkha Tehran Hats off mam
Yes Gender neutral laws are the need of the hour in India.
I truly support Barkha Mam
Great Debate 👍🏻
Barkha Ma’am hats off 👍🏻
hats off Barkha Maam
Barkha trehan the women I need in my life
Exactly... This feminist movement has reduced men to just some any being opposite to women...
But still the situation in various regions of the country is not conducive for women and it's scary... There is still a long way to go...
Sonal it's good that you can see both the sides of the situation and in the end we have to see each other as partners for our prosperity and not as distant strangers
@@vagabond8066 there are only 2 genders - man and woman... This partnership is naturally created... Men try to disturb the balance and now women are trying the same...
Equality is a matter of conscience and social perception... Some statistics cannot undermine that...
Working together is in the common interest and national good...
Policies are required... Especially to address the rural situation as sitting in the cities we cannot feel the pain of the distant...
@@sonalvyas7893 🙏
Million of thanks to you Barkha Trehan from my deep heart! you raised genuine topics which men are facing all NGO work for men , nobody is there to listen men whatever he is facing you are Exactly Right.
Barkha maam hats off
पुरुष आयोग जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद जिंदाबाद 🙏🙏
Most favorite debate so far, thank you RSTV for inviting people like Barker Tehran on the show.
Better connecting to the perspective of Barkha Trehan...u rocked 👍
*Barkha is right in many points clearly!*
Barkha was awesome..
Sir, can't you invite a rural woman, a tribal woman, a college girl, a kaam wali bai, a farmer woman, a factory woman in debate and same type of men in the debate for holistic debate on the issue.
Like if you agree.
Yes,, why they don't
Theory of Relativity proved cent per cent true to me today, don't know how the debate ended too quickly, although I have watched it for 26 minutes. Felt like just 26sec had passed, Tehran Mam_you were siplended. Gender equality encompasses both women and men, not the former only as we have been taught and debated so far.
Completely agree with Barkha Trehan.
Full support to BARKHA mam... Equality should be there.,, men are now more suffering under the fraud dowry cases
when Barkha Maam was speaking , Anchor Vishal Dahiya is smiling
Exactly, the grinning was just unwavering. I bet most of the males were like that or even more excited at that time. And rightly so.
Barkha Trehan gave a very rational answer.
Barkha Khan.....so respect for you😎💪💪💪💪💪💪
Barkha trehan rocked and smashed it ... favouring men :)
Such a fruitful debate
This kinds of women's could bring equality among all
Notice.. how only men are applauding Barkha 🤣 if patriarchy is a myth then why don't men become house husbands?
Akward
I think Barkha ma'am lives in south Mumbai cos most of the time she was talking about the things which has nothing to do with the topic. Saying things like "India is a rape capital is a myth, women are already empowered" was terribly wrong and shows that she has zero knowledge of ground reality. I'm not misandrist but what she was talking totally mislead the discussion and presented a wrong picture of the country. India still has to go a long way to achieve gender equality and women empowerment.
Educate and empower women that will bring maximum equality
A lot of people suffer in this county on the lines of gender, caste, colour, region, religion, and what not. We need to address all these divides. Once thre is no divide, there will be no discrimination, and hence no need for empowerment.
Barkha Trehan. ..rock
Barkha mam wow finally some logical in gender equality.
Miss Tahran was just shouting, she is far away from reality, she have only about urban, she have no idea for rural
The crime against men is on rise too. In rural semi urban and urban all places. You need a voice to shed light on this issue as importantly as the other way around. Please look at cases file wrongfully by women with bitter intentions and they just get away with that as if it is normal.
@@nikhildehlan6360 oh! Shut up you bigot, this is 'gender equality debate', men don't count.
Today i feel how exploited we are...
I am agree with Rekha Agarwal.
Barkha Trehan seems to be the only person that considers men data also apart from women wrt gender equality
I saw first time equal rights activist 🙏🏻 I live in Patna where gov bus have seat all seat titled only mahilaye , even one seat not left for men why😂😂😂😂😂😂🙏🏻
Well said Barkha trehan madam
Wwat an all-rounder yet healthy debate.....👏👏....each n every dimension covered very beautifully in my perspective....😇thanks a lot RSTV❤️
Rekha Aggarwal mam was right as giving freebies will hurting the dignity of women and disgracing the working women.. But she is thinking by seeing only one side. In my opinion, giving freebies by government is not hurting the wife of daily wages worker, worker whose daily wages is around Rs. 300-500/ day.
If we go from, Delhi to Ghaziabad, even at some other place via metro, Daily cost of metro of one person both sides Around Rs 100, if a woman of daily wage worker wanted to work in Delhi in shops, or in restaurant , she will think twice wheather to go or not to go.. because Maximum expenditure will spend on traveling..
Every situation has two faces..what Rekha ji is thinking , is right but not absolutely right.🙂
Eveybody is talking about women empowerment... But the topic is gender equality.......
Gender equality leads to womenempoverment.
women empowerment dont lead to genderequality.
Both are different topics😇
Bharkha trehan... Abe Bass kar..Rulayega kya ? Seriously didn't expect the debate to go in that direction also. Hats off mam.
Interesting ..!!!
Barkha mam, first time I am watching a women's such a view on feminism.you have pick up such a bright points that will also encourage other women as well.
Barkha trehan ma'm was talking superficially as she does not fully aware of the real condition of Indian women particularly in rural areas. her points are useless and seems as she returned from aaj tak's machhali bazaar debate.
Though some points are very relevant and deep....
1. we are doing great in educating girls but what about work place's environments? it need to be tackled. good work culture and surroundings should be made. points by yogita bayana ma'm.
2. shankar aggarwal threw lights on govt initiatives beti bachao beti padhao in particular, cases of infanticide, nutrition, education etc having concern about male dominance in the society.
safety of women is real concern. It encourages women to take parts in industrial activities, political and other male dominance areas exists which are the parameters where India did bad in the report. Apart from this social attitudes need to be changed towards women . As Rekha ma'm said. She pointed the issue out from the free rides for women in delhi. It is bad for women's attitude as well to themselves.
well you said in your pathetic paragraph. Question Einstein ? what about BOYS education RATIOS of boys passing through Colleges...you should be alarmed search this "Education crisis of boys" I am always amazed about Low-Life losers like you roaming this planet...you morons thinks Facebook youtube are for real....they report about hardships society go through and here you whining the very opposite you have been brainwashed to hear empowerment of men & boys....those are ILLEGAL words in INDIA according to you ?
Barkha mam gave different perspective but i think thats not the real issue.. No doubt that boys do suffer a lot but women suffer more than them in real life.. It may be at working place, at homes, at streets or wherever they go.. So earlier for many years men were given preference for anything but now its time to empower women so that they come at equal level to men and then we'll definitely have a healthy debate about gender neutral law
@SHUBHAM HANDEonly women empowerment will lead to gender equality. Rest the panelist barkha mam said is all ok..she gave different perspective i mentioned in the beginning sir.. So if free rides are given to women why not men.. If scholarship for girls are 3000 then why 2500 for boys.. That's so true.. Laws should be there for both of them and should be similar.. But what i meant is that first let the women come in front.. Let them get empowered.. After all its male dominated society
@SHUBHAM HANDE SIR, i don't want to argue or debate with u.. Unless u ensure me that its a healthy discussion.. And also i don't see gender equality and women empowerment as two different topics.. I agree gender equality is issue all over the world but what different about india is many girls are uneducated. Forget Quality Education they are not even getting education.. They must not even be knowing that there's a issue like gender equality.. On the other hand, people send their boys to study, higher education.. And the thinking can be changed through education or rather quality education
About rape capital.. I have no knowledge.. But suggestions from u are welcomed.. And thank you for replying to my comment
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@SHUBHAM HANDE same is my family.. They also never discriminate between me, my brother and my sister.. But its not about u and me.. There are lakhs of villages and lakhs of girls there.. We talk about equality when there is discrimination right? In rural areas even now there is female infoeticide, girls are not sent to schools whereas boys are, no attention is given on their nutrition and health whereas boys are given attention.. And to the surprise, these are women and old ladies in villages who behave like this.. Why?? Because They are uneducated.. They are not even allowed to do what they want.. So your question is on what grounds women are asking for equality.. I just want to say that when all the women will have the power to make their own decisions.. Take their stand.. Their is no male dominance.. When men can take all decision themselves then why not women.. Let the women or girl be like me or ur sister that is independent.. Am not independent yet 😂 btw
.. And you forgot to tell me about rape capital.. Please tell.. I really have no idea.. Thank you 😊 i just hope that i make sense somehow..
@SHUBHAM HANDE i think first its education to all, second jobs, these two things must be given or created.. Also we need more strict laws and implementation too.. Bs or ni pta kuch
@@Amazing_mother_nature 😂 ok.. 👍
Ms. Trehan has probably overlooked the fact, that, parents don't go around aborting boy child. They don't stop their sons from going to school. The sex ratio speaks otherwise!
The number of child labour boys is six times than of number girls.
Barkha nailed it...amazing she is....equal rights should b there ..here is nthng lyk a woman empowerment in delhi freebie process of metro and DTC...
We need security.
Not freebies. We need help for our protection being girls.
Correct.. safety and security of women right from the childhood must be the focus area .
That's why guns should be more easily available.
If feminist demand equality. You can't expect protection
Barkha Ji gave a full twist to whole discussion by including men into the discussion and it was seen in other panelist views which were earlier only for women and then including men as well. Ministry for Men was a very good suggestion! Yeah, few points of her regarding 'rape capital' being a false or fake propaganda was un-necessary but overall a nice discussion from all panel members
Barkha Trehan Ji. Kudos!
👏👏👍👍🙏🙏
still india is a patriarchal society,rural India particularly.As opposed to mrs trehan's views if its a myth,then why a girl is considered a liability for the family in most rural areas?There are huge no of unreported domestic violence incidents towards women under the influence of alcohol
Yeah punk COPY & PASTE this " India anti male Culture" Read well you if you have brain inside.....
you must be one those Over educated 3rd class morons wet dreaming to migrate to west to make a buck...Good luck with that ..nobody welcomes indians any more in the west...
@SHUBHAM HANDE i am from rural india..unlike cities no women drink alcohol here..only men do and abuse...its high time we ld accept the facts as it is
@@lennardvirajjayasekara2484 the victims of female foeticides must be cursing guys like u...i m not saying west is much better
@SHUBHAM HANDE well said mate...I am so glad individuals who sees there is another side for this story that Main Stream media Deliberately Ignores Specially in the USA..
More than 98% casses of dowery are fake mostly used to extort money from husband.
Barkha trehan 👍👍
V Good discussion. Thanks
Respect human.That's the moral of the story.
Good observation
Why is this lady shouting !! Raising your voice doesn't make you right . Big picture has a reputation and it should maintain it by avoiding this kind of panelists. Topic was interesting but this lady prompted me to leave the show midway. Highly disappointed.
Who is that?
this is debating... u conservative people why r u always in pblm.... i think ur birth is ur bighest pblm
Same here
UPSC Motivaton shouting is not debating
Barkha mam hats of...
Send barkha to big boss house
Do ask the question to those women who are facing sexual assault since childhood
By their uncles and cousins.
And when they talk to their family her family adviced to keep quiet for the sake of so called reputation in the society.
Where is gender quality say miss Barkha mam so called activist
What about LGBT... third gender????
You right. I think our so called protector of culture, the so called nationalist think that talking LGBTQ and their right will anti national and against great culture of India.
Mrs Trehan is right we need to bring some laws which are really talk about gender equality in terms of men also.
Respect for barkha maam
Please provide subtitles to your videos
Because some time it becomes difficult to get word
There is an option for caption ...click on the top right
good work barkha ji. only you were talking out of box
I m totally agreed with miss barkha trehan we guys are talking about women only think about men as well we guys are also struggling in verious acsept in life the conclusions is that government is just showing sympathy as they are carrying women as well nothing more than that.....🙏🙏🙏🙏
Can you please add subtitles too?!!!
Not expected of Rstv to invite utterly irrational panelists like Barkha Trehan!
Barkha mam is completely unaware of the ground realities...come see in rural areas...and to some extent in urban as well..she is just talking about a small section of our society... m astonished at her myopic view...though some points were good like to address male sexual harrassment and to bring about gender neutral laws but to discard the reality that ours is a male dominated society is completely myopic...
Trehan mam
Hats off
Barkha ma'am have very narrow view about world and she is speaking completely different from the reality just to get appreciation from the strong section of society ( males) she is not mentioning the safety issues women face in home, public and work places and they have no political and economic say . in society women also facing problem because women like her who want majority support for their upliftment. ( I agree there must be laws for men and surveys should be there which are men centric ) but this world is Male dominated as they have political & economic power and her mind is too male dominated
Now we are moving towards equality but not equal because globally women don't see equal being
Ms. Barkha the men themselves are law, the society has always been working in favour of them. I really can see why men are drooling over you. Obviously you are the one they definitely need.
When guests come over the house, your daughter needs to serve snacks and meal, does you son do that too? Have you ever visited rural India where females are forced to drop from school and work at home and farm, so that their brothers can study at school? Do males also carry child to their workplace in informal sector? Do 8 months old girl also need to know what she must wear coz the newspaper is filled up of news about them getting raped and shockingly the no. of such cases is increasing
@@Witcher1989 i don't know why dumbos like you keep citing an exception and then expect everyone to consider that as a norm. Nope dumbo, everyone is not a dumbo
@@Witcher1989 well I have never seen men so much united against or stand up against any atrocities against women like they do these days to imply that women are forcing them down
@@Witcher1989 no dumbo, you can stop your presumptions coz they might work at your home but doesn't work outside. Plus, I don't see females confronting every male for their misogynism. It's just people like you who are triggered by the 'equal status of women' coz your fragile ego won't be able to take it. As a result you try to portray a very rosy picture which is far from reality to show that everything is ok with women. As i am typing the news of murder of a 2 year female child by 4 men is flashing on TV. I don't think you dumbos have done any reality check. Feel sorry for dumbos like you.
@@kimtae9329 lol all she come up with is dumbo. She is pissed bcoz a woman took a stand for men
@@kimtae9329 do one thing just kill us we are so bad it's like women poop rainbows..lol
Feeling glad that the discussion was based on the true meaning of 'gender' but in India, the issue of gender equality is more tilted toward women because of large cases of female infanticide. Govt. is trying to subsidise girl education, health,& taking steps toward her safety more because these are the reasons behind the death of many newborns. There is no doubt that the right to equality is fundamental for a decent life but to have equality we have to save lives.
Rekha Agrawal ji she is agree with everyone 🤣🤣🤣
We have a good rank in primary education, health etc. Thi shows that younger people are trying to balance the equation out. On the other hand at cooperates the age difference matters.The seniors were brought up by a whole generation which believed that patriarchy is the only way .So I think that more education spreads more the gap decreases . Same goes with population control
Women are not already empowered,Barkha..
Much need to be done!
Gender equality goes a toss when girl gets a rich rishta
11mins down, disappointed by the quality of discussions..
Is Barkha being sarcastic?
Barkha ma'am was irritating for viewers as well as co-panelists.see was like turning a blind eye to the reality that women are in need of some sort of positive discrimination.low female representation in every walks of public life can be cited as an evidence of our patriarchal society.
See... She comes from a family which is privileged... She says what she sees around (his family, friends, etc.). She knows no rural situation... Her limited knowledge is reflecting her iq...
Sonal Vyas i am little disagree with you.
1)if she comes from privileged family she must have resources to learn about the structure of indian society....which is inherently patriarchal.
2)from vedic period to contemporary society,female of lower class enjoyed more autonomy than higher class counterparts.so it should be the women from privileged class to be more vocal about discrimination being faced by them...
So as per mine opinion it is the case of burying head in sand and not her social status.
@@arunthakur6998 I agree that she has the resources to study and learn... But she chose to portray a progressive her... Independent one...
By privilege I also mean... Sitting in the comforting cities... She has the privilege of judging the situation in rural and other areas of the country...
And generalising everything around...
Also, I agree... That high royal families constraint their women... But these women with whatever freedom they have... Use it to judge... Do kitty parties... Work in NGOs... To do feminist moments...
@@arunthakur6998 certain people waste their privilege...
Sonal Vyas your insight in societal issue is quite impressive.after a long time i have such an insightful interaction.hoping for great success for women like you as it is the only way to empower women in true sense....see you soon on other important issues...
The SDG Gender Index is itself discriminatory. It only talks about women and that with respect to a specific "western" culture.
SDG Gender Index with my comments:-
When I look at the parameters and do the analysis, it's shocking that the parameters itself are very very gender biased. Some of the the parameters do not even consider "men" as a gender. 😢😢
5.1 End all forms of discrimination against all women and girls everywhere.
What about men and boys? Don't they also have a gender? Or are they not human?
5.2 Eliminate all forms of violence against all women and girls in the public and private spheres, including trafficking and sexual and other types of exploitation.
Again what about men and boys? Meaning of Gender equality itself has changed.
5.3 Eliminate all harmful practices, such as child, early and forced marriage and female genital mutilation.
Again all parameters for female only. What about male versus female percentage of child labour, Child bullying. % Unnatural deaths , % suicides, % of workforce in dangerous jobs, %deaths dur to cancer, life expectancy???? The list is long.
5.4 Recognize and value unpaid care and domestic work through the provisions of public services, infrastructure and social protection policies and the promotion of shared responsibility within the household and the family as nationally appropriate.
All things totally focused on women. What about unpaid care men do like assisting in shopping, driving car and beating traffic. Financial and social planning. Endangering themselves in the all the risky work. What about shared responsibility outside households? Remember, a patriarchal society puts all these responsibility on men.
5.5 Ensure women's full and effective participation and equal opportunities for leadership at all levels of decision-making in political, economic and public life.
Who is stopping them. In When a woman raises the issue of a farmers, it becomes a news. All know about a woman's mindset. Less said better.
I am leaving 5.6 and 5.a, 5.b 5.c. They are also on similar lines.
Barkha ma'am has spoke abt , laws pertaining to men .Thats never a useless point . But she is just talkng about men. Thts not the point to be made now . We need to work on priorities. It's high time that we work for the betterment of Women.
@@GK-sx2dm There r serious issues too , might not be fashionable at all the times.
Barkha trehan🙏🙏
Still these women wants reservation in Lok Sabha... And then say Article 15 is disgraceful!!! Hypocrisy...
In addition to this, they all dislike the initiative of free public transport for women,which is intended to provide safe and efficient transport to female.while on the contrary yogita ma'am raise her concern for safty of women at work place.
If govt. do some positive discrimination like free public transport they criticise govt by saying that women are capable enough to look after themselves.if this is the case why you are asking for women safety at work place.pseudo feminist...
@@arunthakur6998 thanks for articulating what I wanted to convey...
The feminists want all the benefits without be portrayed as such...
Blowing hot and cold at the same time ...
Equality....empowerment...
How about unsaid but widely prevalent practice of dowry in whatever garb it be! Both men and women are equally responsible for this practice. What aghast me is most of youth still go for this practice. “ Hume kuch nahi chahiye bas baratiyo ka swagat shasndaar hona chahiye”???? Where is men empowerment when it comes to Dowry?
Equality for sharing house chores...share in raising kids, take care of one’s own old parents. Why only women when both men and women are working?
Education - hygiene facilities, transport, safety!
Work - how women can work when so many jobs requires flexible work hours like doctors/nurse, airline industry, Call centers, etc...when still women traveling alone is unsafe! There are law but enforcement is a?
Reliable and good Child care system in a given radius.
Fraternal leave...no one spoke about it???
Barkha is good logic
rekha mam always rocks..👍❤
Barkha ma'am 👍
Barkha mam...yes we need an institution to collect statistics for men issues...
Media won't cover you..
But glad to see you ,and deepika mam fighting for men's rights...
Women.empowermemt is more like women appeasement nowdays
And it's becoming a business...
Enrollment numbers are bogus . The reality is other way . We work we see and we are pressurized to get students enrolled . Even if the student later comes or not , is not taken down in report studies . Only enrollment numbers are not really "real" ! Period
Women's should always dress in a suitable manner
Barkha Trehan ma'am thank you for raising more concerning points for men. I am agree with you that this is not a male dominated society. rather women empowerment our govt must focus on youth empowerment.
Jai Mata Di
How was your prelims guys ? Cutoff kya expect karre
Such a superficial debate!! Far away from Realities
Barkha mam actually u are an mith..and seriously u don't know what kind of situations are faced by women in india in the form of violence discrimination rape and all
Bharkah trehan is best... I totally agreeee with this girl
Please provide subtitles..