Who cares about age if we're both grown ass adults?? And why lie about it or beat around the bush?? I will never understand that! Maturity isn't about numbers. I'm embarassed for the insecure stripper girl that "has arthritis in her hands." The more she talks, the dumber she sounds. Just stop, girl. 😬 One thing I've never understood is why even wear weaves when your natural hair is so BEAUTIFUL! 🤯🤯🤯 My brother's gf gets weaves all the time and she barely has any of her own hair left! Its from getting weaves for so long! He said he was horrified when he seen her without a weave after her ex ripped it out. 😳😂😂😂 I'm not black, but I have naturally curly hair. My mom is full blooded native American with pin straight hair. She didn't know how to properly care for my curly hair growing up so it was always frizzy and would just do its own thing. I grew up HATING my curly hair. In high school, I started straightening it. All the heat damaged my hair and my curl pattern. When I was like 29-30, it was to the point where no matter what I did, it always looked unhealthy and frizzy. So I decided to start the process of repairing it. Did THE BIG CHOP. I could literally sit on my hair before and I got it cut just past my shoulders. It took me 2 years to get my healthy hair back! Now when I go to the salon, I always get complimented on how healthy it is, how soft it is. "Feels like baby hair!" I embrace my natural hair and I very rarely use heat on it now. Every once in a while I'll straighten it, but I'd rather have my natural, healthy, moisturized curls. If I ever have daughter, I'll definitely be big on embracing her natural hair, no matter what texture it is, and I'll be doing my research on how to care for it if its different than mine. I think another reason I hated my curly hair was because I grew up native. Everyone around me had pin straight hair. I was always insecure about my pale skin as well because everyone around me was dark and I got treated like shit for it. Even from my own family members and other people in the tribe. Doesn't bother me now. I was born this way and that's perfectly fine! 😊 I think men don't understand what a little makeup can do for a woman's confidence. And I'm not saying that all women need it to feel good about themselves. What I mean is there have been days I cried for an hour or two or had a bad day. I put makeup on and it makes me feel GOOD. Its like an added boost of confidence. A pick-me-up. When you look good, you FEEL good. There are times I'm bored AF at 2am, so I decide to do my makeup just for fun. Sitting in my bed glam AF with unmatched pjs on. Feelin myself! 💅💋🥰🤣🤣🤣 I am just as comfortable not wearing makeup. Some of us really DO wear makeup for ourselves. And yes, sometimes we wear makeup for others. I have had girls' nights out at bars and clubs. Half the fun is doing our hair and makeup! Sometimes, we just want to look and feel good while we're out having fun with our friends. 😀 I once had a guy ask me flat out, "How come someone like you is single with no kids? Are you crazy?" I was laughing so hard at the bluntness! 🤣🤣🤣 I said, "I just haven't found someone I want to be with or have kids with." He said, "Somethin got to be wrong tho." 🤣🤣🤣 We weren't on a date, we were coworkers at work. I could tell he liked me, but I wasn't into him and I wasn't looking for a relationship at that point. If I'm into someone, I will most definitely answer any questions openly and honestly. Why lie or withhold information if you're trying to find your husband? Just lay it all out there! If he's not the one, then he's not the one. Be glad he told you (or ghosted you). He didn't waste your time! It has taken me so long to finally realize that my husband is out there and he will only be available to me when I've put in the work to improve myself and my life. Can't just come in empty-handed, half-assed, and not trying to IMPROVE myself. My husband deserves better than that! 💯 After every relationship, I've taken A YEAR OR TWO, to just be single and to allow myself to process that whole relationship and what ended it. I can't just jump from relationship to relationship. I went on a date one time like 6 months after a relationship ended. He was so kind, polite, respectful, and the conversation was great. I really enjoyed my time. I gave him a hug and I thanked him for taking me out. It wasn't him, it was just the timing. I wasn't ready to date again.
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what you do for a living surely does define you
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"I'm a woman of God". What is that supposed to mean?
Who cares about age if we're both grown ass adults?? And why lie about it or beat around the bush?? I will never understand that! Maturity isn't about numbers.
I'm embarassed for the insecure stripper girl that "has arthritis in her hands." The more she talks, the dumber she sounds. Just stop, girl. 😬
One thing I've never understood is why even wear weaves when your natural hair is so BEAUTIFUL! 🤯🤯🤯 My brother's gf gets weaves all the time and she barely has any of her own hair left! Its from getting weaves for so long! He said he was horrified when he seen her without a weave after her ex ripped it out. 😳😂😂😂
I'm not black, but I have naturally curly hair. My mom is full blooded native American with pin straight hair. She didn't know how to properly care for my curly hair growing up so it was always frizzy and would just do its own thing. I grew up HATING my curly hair. In high school, I started straightening it. All the heat damaged my hair and my curl pattern. When I was like 29-30, it was to the point where no matter what I did, it always looked unhealthy and frizzy. So I decided to start the process of repairing it. Did THE BIG CHOP. I could literally sit on my hair before and I got it cut just past my shoulders. It took me 2 years to get my healthy hair back! Now when I go to the salon, I always get complimented on how healthy it is, how soft it is. "Feels like baby hair!" I embrace my natural hair and I very rarely use heat on it now. Every once in a while I'll straighten it, but I'd rather have my natural, healthy, moisturized curls. If I ever have daughter, I'll definitely be big on embracing her natural hair, no matter what texture it is, and I'll be doing my research on how to care for it if its different than mine. I think another reason I hated my curly hair was because I grew up native. Everyone around me had pin straight hair. I was always insecure about my pale skin as well because everyone around me was dark and I got treated like shit for it. Even from my own family members and other people in the tribe. Doesn't bother me now. I was born this way and that's perfectly fine! 😊
I think men don't understand what a little makeup can do for a woman's confidence. And I'm not saying that all women need it to feel good about themselves. What I mean is there have been days I cried for an hour or two or had a bad day. I put makeup on and it makes me feel GOOD. Its like an added boost of confidence. A pick-me-up. When you look good, you FEEL good. There are times I'm bored AF at 2am, so I decide to do my makeup just for fun. Sitting in my bed glam AF with unmatched pjs on. Feelin myself! 💅💋🥰🤣🤣🤣 I am just as comfortable not wearing makeup. Some of us really DO wear makeup for ourselves. And yes, sometimes we wear makeup for others. I have had girls' nights out at bars and clubs. Half the fun is doing our hair and makeup! Sometimes, we just want to look and feel good while we're out having fun with our friends. 😀
I once had a guy ask me flat out, "How come someone like you is single with no kids? Are you crazy?" I was laughing so hard at the bluntness! 🤣🤣🤣 I said, "I just haven't found someone I want to be with or have kids with." He said, "Somethin got to be wrong tho." 🤣🤣🤣 We weren't on a date, we were coworkers at work. I could tell he liked me, but I wasn't into him and I wasn't looking for a relationship at that point. If I'm into someone, I will most definitely answer any questions openly and honestly. Why lie or withhold information if you're trying to find your husband? Just lay it all out there! If he's not the one, then he's not the one. Be glad he told you (or ghosted you). He didn't waste your time! It has taken me so long to finally realize that my husband is out there and he will only be available to me when I've put in the work to improve myself and my life. Can't just come in empty-handed, half-assed, and not trying to IMPROVE myself. My husband deserves better than that! 💯
After every relationship, I've taken A YEAR OR TWO, to just be single and to allow myself to process that whole relationship and what ended it. I can't just jump from relationship to relationship. I went on a date one time like 6 months after a relationship ended. He was so kind, polite, respectful, and the conversation was great. I really enjoyed my time. I gave him a hug and I thanked him for taking me out. It wasn't him, it was just the timing. I wasn't ready to date again.