Sis Tumi, growth begins when you take accountability of your actions, accept your wrongs and find a way to rectify them. Justifying your actions does not make your wrongs right.
Tumi is a perfect example of what gaslighting is,she is very loud and manipulative there’s absolutely no need to justify your actions sisi you need to learn how to be a good listener in as much as you think you are a good speaker,you keep contradicting yourself and in Mondes defence you turn to look immature,Monde is a very mature guy he stood firm to his actions to a point where he said nothing is worth justifying his actions!All I can say is Tumi khula sthandwa Sam wisdom is a women’s strongest weapon and it’s expected to be displayed through out.
@@Fifi-Chawaz Monde has had it. Sometimes people we think are disposable turn out to be the ones we need the most. By the time he’s up there, Tumi who thinks beauty is everything will be too old for him. She better self correct now and humble herself now.
Gogo skhotheni admit your mistakes you not always right.Monde big up bhuti wam you are soo matured and honest i love it... otherwise i love both of you ngathi ningalungisa❤
Amen🙏🏽, but l think before doing that a professional assistance is needed for both of them to do introspection and take accountability, more especially my lovely beautiful sister. I see gunuine love between the two of them. Beautiful 💞
Yohhh Tumi much as you a win,Monde is a very rare breed yeeey don't let this man go.whoever finds him will NEVER let him go. What a smart,handsome, young clean,humble gentleman ❤
I want to see Monde more. He’s got a media personality. I think he’d do so good in the media space. He should have a podcast. I like how he speaks, he’s very articulate. Such a nice soul and humble man. I just want the best for him 🕯
You guys are living proof that love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship this is just so sad 😢 I wish the both of you luck in all your future endeavors
Soze, there’s no excuse for a man who comes home at 6, there’s no way your can control your anger to such disrespect. When you decide to get married, you decide to commit yourself to someone else. I think Monde was still growing up, he had to go through that in order to find who is. He also needs to learn to handle stress. Akayi etshwaleni now cause his learning to deal with emotions after the tragic events. All in all he comes across as a very genuine person. Hope he finds himself and finds peace. But he’ll be fine moving forward.
And this kind of behaviour is boring motho get married without understanding the meaning of commitment you can’t get married and continue doing everything you were doing as a single person
What I like and admire about both is that they are both hard workers, visionaries, and young adults who are willing to change their lives. South Africa needs people like this...they don't wait for things to happen, they make things happen. May God continue to light your path
There’s so much love and respect between you too.I wish Monde could take time to dig deep and uproot any issues that cause anger on his side,I believe that anger and lack of problem solving are the main issues here.Anger is a thief, it can steal more from him,Also it takes two people to ruin marriage, if Gogo can also work on issues of concern that Monde raises..These two could go far!!
Tumi ,Monde is very observant and I think he's a listener he pays detailed attention to smaller issues that you think don't matter. The rest I give it to Ntate Modimo❤
Gogo Skhotheni's BF right now can tell that girl will be leaving him to go back to hubby the chemistry is just too strong, and she said she wants the old Monde back and if he can give her that trust me shes a gone girl, shes still madly inlove with bab'Shange
1st Podcast ever I watched/listened till the end, I am not a podcast gang but this one yona was very informative not for indaba zenu but how civil and matured the two parties play and acknowledge each other. The only flop I pick up is Gogo is still hanged up on being innocent, Cheating is cheating. You were still married and yes you had longer loved Baba ka Liyana kodwa you were still married to him and that does not excuse it other wise thank you for sharing such sensitive part of yoll and sending healing to you both and your little girl.🕯
Gogo stop running away from your mistakes and justifying something you did, instead admit the things you did that damaged your relationship and apologise. Stop posting negative things on social media one thing that is most important as a woman is to protect your household and the images of both your man and yourself in the public. You can see and you know monde is private about his life, therefore there was no need to broadcast everything on social media ❤ You guys can fix this I believe in this relationship shame
Lol im proud?? Hae gogo eish. She needs to turn the defence mode off. Lol they need to be honest with themselves. And this had to be done off media. Come on guys
I fully understand Monde’s frustration, lowkey this is just painting him as the bad person and Tumi is “innocent” . Lapho they were both wrong . Praying for a fresh start for Monde . Super happy for Tumi too 🤷🏾♂️. Yeah neh
You guys need to be honest with each other, YOU BOTH CHEATED ON EACHOTHER WHILE MARRIED. weather mentally you were in the marriage or not, stepping out of your marriage emotionally & physically is cheating. This is step1 towards healing, kudo's to you guys👏. kodwa Skhotheni needs to acknowledge her wrongs and stop fighting to just acknowledge and apologize...sometimes its ok to not have the last word.
Gogo I love how you don't shy away from what happened and how you remember the point of asking a question. Inbetween the highs and lows of the emotions within the conversation.That's what kept you from off ramping. When things started becoming tense well done to you. I see some of me in you. We keep learning and growing.
I honestly think that Tumi wants Monde back more than anything in her life, she is hiding it but We see it. Baby girl you are human, accept that you are human and accept your feelings and accept that you make mistakes. I love you
Monde big up my brother!!! I wish you find a person who’ll mend your heart. Keep on staying real, don’t pretend for you’ll end up losing a genuine treasure ..
Exactly this marriage stands a good chance ,the only issue here is that uTumi isn’t mature enough to hold herself accountable for her actions and you can tell it’s her actual character,she needs to go get therapy and if they ever choose to fix go for marriage counselling as a couple.
Broke up with my baby daddy because he lost his parents at a young age and it affected him like Monde. We are good co-parents and I still love him but I know we are better off apart.❤
Monde genuinely does regret his behaviour He's indirectly asking for forgiveness I love how they communicate without biting each others heads off I'm currently going through a divorce myself and my soon to be ex husband can't communicate without getting aggressive . It's always been my daily prayer for us to communicate like adults, the way they do I believe they'll fix things
i have so much respect for you guys. when its not working out cut it off before you become toxic and even harm the children. breaking up and being able to be in the same space like this is doesnt mean people should go back together.
Thank u guys for being an example and having a honest conversation. We don't celebrate the breaking up of marriages, but u guys working on yourselves and giving each other space is good start. What's meant to be will be
Eish I am so trouble with this Mama ka Liyana please watch this video again and self correct 😢. Love you guys and you guys were really perfect for each other
Skhotheni 😭,just admit and don't run away from what you did n not justify it. Monde be honest about yourself n how you feel exactly. Hope you both heal and be fine.
The guy was trying to speak out the problem here is Tumi is so loud and keep over powering him with her gaslighting and loud voice ,you can tell Monde is genuinely a peaceful person who can settle for peace rather than being right,he is such a mature individual however I hope he learns to speak out irrespective of what the circumstances are.
I want to say it won’t because Skhotheni has admitted to all the things themat she’s done wrong and she wants to change… Monde is defensive… also see how she apologises when he tells her she’s jumping in esakhuluma.
No ways I’m fasting for this couple to go back to each other… South Africa is boring without this couple. 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️ For MONDE Shange and Gogo Skhotheni to go back together.🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🙏
The sad part is that Monde would rather just keep quiet than talk or argue he has a lot to say but uGogo bandla uyamvala yooh and cheating is cheating let's not justify that as a married woman or man.
@@NomsaNokuthula monde is out where? Fact is you didn’t watch the same podcast we all watched, cause even a blind man can see that these people still love each other so much
Nomsa I agree with you, even though he’s not completely out, but Tumi usamthanda kakhulu it’s very sad to see. I’ve been in that situation, and I think the guy might completely move on and yena she never will. She even tries to hurt him with the things she says but she’s just not winning. It’s very sad I’ve been there 💔
Skhothane came to put her own fire while gaslighting Monde. She doesn’t have any accountability for her actions and behaviour. She is busy sugar coating her faults while he wants Monde to speak the truth.
That’s why I will never get married, she was def gonna cheat 😢how do you leave your wife and kids every weekend the whole night even, and come back drunk🙄he was also busy with something TUMI didn’t get to find out about it
I have so much respect for grootman Monde. Tumi you’ve lost such a good man, a calm and collected man who inspired you to succeed. These ones out there are going to finish you and you’ll look for Monde and won’t find him. I feel so sad when marriages end😭
May God give you strength Monde,you have been through the most shame.Losing parents at a younger age is very painful and traumatizing which affects our entire life
This is why you don't rush to divorce. You can take a break in a marriage or a relationship to breath, look at what the breath has done for you two but now you have divorced. We don't quit when going through problems in a relationship
All i see is, these two are still inlove but unfortunately sometimes love isnt enough to sustain a relationship..anyway big ups the both of you,such maturity❤❤❤
Well done guys I love your maturity to be able to sit down and talk. I never knew monde, he is such a cool dude. All the best to you. Will always remain a fan of your work
I strongly believe these two are still in much love with one another and deep down they know the marriage still stands a chance. The inky problem is that they didn't know how to deal with their son's condition so much that it drifted them apart.If they can seek God's intervention in their situation everything is highly fixable.
the last part says it all ''''UZONGICABUZA'''' bt uthi unomuntu i dnt believe her, basafunana xem jst give them 2 months they wil be back together mark my words...
Monde still loves Gogo😢 Gogo seems like she’s guarding her ❤ I want them to get back together so bad but I’m conflicted. May God guide them on what’s best for both of them ❤❤❤❤
This was soooo beautiful to watch, the looove I saw there, the respect and just seeing 2 people being content with their experience and admitting.. How you 2 speak good of each other..!! 🙌❤️ Thank you maLiyana and may most learn from you..!!
Gogo, you can't take a decision that you are no longer in love with your husband, then engage in another relationship, thats pure Cheating, you suppose to disengage from Monde, emotional n physically so.then move on.
Sis Tumi, growth begins when you take accountability of your actions, accept your wrongs and find a way to rectify them. Justifying your actions does not make your wrongs right.
Thank you 🙏 someone has said it. 😊
Exactly, ufuna ukhuluma yedwa. Uthetha kuthethwa.
Yoh and she doesn’t listen always ready to respond
Thank GOD someone told her the truth
Exactly she makes excuses for all she has done hai ngeke
Tumi is a perfect example of what gaslighting is,she is very loud and manipulative there’s absolutely no need to justify your actions sisi you need to learn how to be a good listener in as much as you think you are a good speaker,you keep contradicting yourself and in Mondes defence you turn to look immature,Monde is a very mature guy he stood firm to his actions to a point where he said nothing is worth justifying his actions!All I can say is Tumi khula sthandwa Sam wisdom is a women’s strongest weapon and it’s expected to be displayed through out.
She is childish and lacks accountability. She needs to speak to a professional.
Today I respect grootman Monde. Aai Tumi whether you checkout if marriage or not, without divorce you’re an adulterer sesi. You lost such a good man
True. Introspection and growing is needed. Otherwise, they love each other.
@@Fifi-Chawaz Monde has had it. Sometimes people we think are disposable turn out to be the ones we need the most. By the time he’s up there, Tumi who thinks beauty is everything will be too old for him. She better self correct now and humble herself now.
@@Bandile24 Definitely, introspection is really need on her side, she will win his heart again if she corrects herself. I understand Monde.
Gogo skhotheni admit your mistakes you not always right.Monde big up bhuti wam you are soo matured and honest i love it... otherwise i love both of you ngathi ningalungisa❤
Uyazivuma izono zakhe and take responsibility 🎉🎉
Monde bandla is so humble ,it is very mature of him to not wanna air up laundry ka mama ka liyana❤❤😢
He’s a very humble and respectful man who acknowledges his mistakes ❤
True he loves her....
He is such a good person!
Awhuuu Monde when he said “When is God going to STOP taking from me” it cuts deep 😢
I felt that yoo
eish yah
Eish 😢
Eish I wish they both can heal n u can even hear the pain from both their voices
Whisper in Liyana's ears while sleeping, "tell her that his brother is no more and he will never see him." She'll never talk about it again.
That's what they taught us and its working ❤
The fact that they can talk about everything, thats priceless they can overcome everything honestly
Agreed! ❤
Me too
💯 ❤
Ngoba niyawabona amaphutha enu, kungcono and there is a hope
Amen🙏🏽, but l think before doing that a professional assistance is needed for both of them to do introspection and take accountability, more especially my lovely beautiful sister. I see gunuine love between the two of them. Beautiful 💞
Skhotheni, please accept ur mistakes and apologize, to Monde, and get back together
Pls
Monde cheated 1st there's more to this
Please please guys get back together🙏🙏 ❤
Please dear
Both of them must accept their mistakes and apologize.....cheating is cheating even how we can decorate it....
Yohhh Tumi much as you a win,Monde is a very rare breed yeeey don't let this man go.whoever finds him will NEVER let him go. What a smart,handsome, young clean,humble gentleman ❤
Monde is actually better off without her.
can god pls help them to be together again pls god
And he is physical😊 why are you guys avoiding that.
I want to see Monde more. He’s got a media personality. I think he’d do so good in the media space. He should have a podcast. I like how he speaks, he’s very articulate. Such a nice soul and humble man. I just want the best for him 🕯
Monde wanted his wife to shine whilst he’s behind the scenes. You’re right it’s his turn to shine now.
Well the venting is his baby. He taught her everything
Monde is so emotionally intelligent.
I respect him for this.
You guys are living proof that love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship this is just so sad 😢 I wish the both of you luck in all your future endeavors
There is one thing I like about Liyana's mother ,she still respects Monde actually they respect each other, Love and light guys
Fix things since u know ur mistake. Love finds a way
Soze, there’s no excuse for a man who comes home at 6, there’s no way your can control your anger to such disrespect. When you decide to get married, you decide to commit yourself to someone else. I think Monde was still growing up, he had to go through that in order to find who is. He also needs to learn to handle stress. Akayi etshwaleni now cause his learning to deal with emotions after the tragic events. All in all he comes across as a very genuine person. Hope he finds himself and finds peace. But he’ll be fine moving forward.
Exactly how I feel shame I would never accept that
@@zarmashlangu7306 Ey Yabo la, there’s soo much that could be said.
I wish I could like this comment hundred times ❣️❣️
And this kind of behaviour is boring motho get married without understanding the meaning of commitment you can’t get married and continue doing everything you were doing as a single person
Nami Shem I wouldn’t tolerate such Monde bemqhela rhaa uTumi that disrespect I once ended my relationship bcz of that
What I like and admire about both is that they are both hard workers, visionaries, and young adults who are willing to change their lives. South Africa needs people like this...they don't wait for things to happen, they make things happen. May God continue to light your path
Praying for Monde’s healing😢😢😢❤❤
Hey hes emotional drained😢😢
Monde wants mama ka Liana back
Hi guys yoo anisebahle hai bantu ngoba mna ndiyabona niyathandana noliyana unidinga nobabini ndincedeni ndifuna ukuva nibuyeleni please apho kunathando khona nendlela ikhona bafethu NAMI ngishatile 20 years and inkinge zikhona kodwa kuhlaliwa phansti kulungiswe unkulunkulu akayibusisile idivoce
@@FezekaTyalane-p2iI think it’s too late now interests are different now I don’t see it working
@@NalediSkosana-t1yI don’t think so
Hi guys thanks for tuning in
comment if you watching from work🥰
❤
On the desk mtase
@@OsegoGontse same
On my desk
Less than 20 Min in but I'm already teary
Monde you are a really man. To be here is not about money you are humble and honest. Keep moving bhuti wami.
When he said “someone who loves you to a point where you get shy” ❤this is deep
Monde's voice cracking when he talks about Liyana losing her brother and what she went through just broke my heart 🥺😔
Hau...Monde needs to be comforted too, he's a parent who lost a child. Father's emotions matter too
Monde I'm proud of you as man to choose not to be a public figure based on your personal life
There’s so much love and respect between you too.I wish Monde could take time to dig deep and uproot any issues that cause anger on his side,I believe that anger and lack of problem solving are the main issues here.Anger is a thief, it can steal more from him,Also it takes two people to ruin marriage, if Gogo can also work on issues of concern that Monde raises..These two could go far!!
Tumi ,Monde is very observant and I think he's a listener he pays detailed attention to smaller issues that you think don't matter. The rest I give it to Ntate Modimo❤
These two will remarry, the love they still share is undisputed
I wish
True I think they were just frustrated most of the time.
But they can do well together❤
i see that love
Gogo Skhotheni's BF right now can tell that girl will be leaving him to go back to hubby the chemistry is just too strong, and she said she wants the old Monde back and if he can give her that trust me shes a gone girl, shes still madly inlove with bab'Shange
What I'm seeing here is two people who are still growing and finding their way around this life thing. May life do the both of you good ❤️.
1st Podcast ever I watched/listened till the end, I am not a podcast gang but this one yona was very informative not for indaba zenu but how civil and matured the two parties play and acknowledge each other. The only flop I pick up is Gogo is still hanged up on being innocent, Cheating is cheating. You were still married and yes you had longer loved Baba ka Liyana kodwa you were still married to him and that does not excuse it other wise thank you for sharing such sensitive part of yoll and sending healing to you both and your little girl.🕯
She is lying about being innocent, she is dirty
I am so happy you can sit down and talk like this❤❤❤❤that is giving peace
Love you 2 so much
The fact that you can still sit and talk together, speaks volume❤️
Gogo stop running away from your mistakes and justifying something you did, instead admit the things you did that damaged your relationship and apologise. Stop posting negative things on social media one thing that is most important as a woman is to protect your household and the images of both your man and yourself in the public. You can see and you know monde is private about his life, therefore there was no need to broadcast everything on social media ❤
You guys can fix this I believe in this relationship shame
Facts
Well spoken
You nominated for presidency. Ngizwe nge voice ikhuphuka ukuthi kuza amanga and cover ups la
Lol the more gogo keeps justifying her wrong. It sounds more wrong. Lol ai some women are manipulative
Lol im proud?? Hae gogo eish. She needs to turn the defence mode off. Lol they need to be honest with themselves. And this had to be done off media. Come on guys
The connection and chemistry is still there....Monde is very calm...mature and articulate however very soft!
Monde deserves his flowers 💐 guys👏🙌
Such a gentleman 👌
He's chilled....mina I would have long stood up from there.... she's manipulative that hoe
100% 👏🏽💐🙌🏽
💐
True without but🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
🕯>>> For Mama Liyana and Baba Liyana to fix things.🥺🥺
In the name of the most high. Things must be fixed Ninani❤❤
Oh please
Bcz they are still in love with each other
Please guys resolve your issues
They are still in love❤.alot just things happened and it’s life
When he "said mama kaLyana" aah😢😍❤️❤️❤️this guy is sooooo humble
I fully understand Monde’s frustration, lowkey this is just painting him as the bad person and Tumi is “innocent” . Lapho they were both wrong . Praying for a fresh start for Monde . Super happy for Tumi too 🤷🏾♂️. Yeah neh
Monde he is so humble . I wish he was my brother 😔🔐
You guys need to be honest with each other, YOU BOTH CHEATED ON EACHOTHER WHILE MARRIED. weather mentally you were in the marriage or not, stepping out of your marriage emotionally & physically is cheating. This is step1 towards healing, kudo's to you guys👏. kodwa Skhotheni needs to acknowledge her wrongs and stop fighting to just acknowledge and apologize...sometimes its ok to not have the last word.
Gogo I love how you don't shy away from what happened and how you remember the point of asking a question. Inbetween the highs and lows of the emotions within the conversation.That's what kept you from off ramping. When things started becoming tense well done to you. I see some of me in you. We keep learning and growing.
After this podcast nilungise izinto just like Seemah & Ghost please ❤😂
Sebewabonile amaphutha abo manje abalungise impela
Ke kopa le lokise hle ke bona lerato❤
❤
Fix plz
Please❤
I honestly think that Tumi wants Monde back more than anything in her life, she is hiding it but We see it. Baby girl you are human, accept that you are human and accept your feelings and accept that you make mistakes. I love you
I see it.
Monde big up my brother!!! I wish you find a person who’ll mend your heart. Keep on staying real, don’t pretend for you’ll end up losing a genuine treasure ..
Skhotheni sana
Even if monde benalo ixesha le 2nd chance skhotheni akazboni i mistakes zakhe
Exactly this marriage stands a good chance ,the only issue here is that uTumi isn’t mature enough to hold herself accountable for her actions and you can tell it’s her actual character,she needs to go get therapy and if they ever choose to fix go for marriage counselling as a couple.
And Tumi akafun tuuu uvuma mistakes zakhe . Soze ba as long esacinga ba uright uSkhotheni
Thank you guys for showing us that separation is good to find each other… keep up ❤
Broke up with my baby daddy because he lost his parents at a young age and it affected him like Monde. We are good co-parents and I still love him but I know we are better off apart.❤
Oh Slindo
@thembi🎉., w. . .. q. Q. Qq q q q.q q.qqqqqqqqqqqq qqqqqqqqqqqqq
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Salute 🫡 to you sis
It's how he calls her Mama Leyana for me 😢❤
Eish ❤️🥲🫂
The respect is too much ❤😢
"You were respecting me coz you were hiding it from me "😂😂😂
The fact that he did it, screams disrespect!
Monde genuinely does regret his behaviour
He's indirectly asking for forgiveness
I love how they communicate without biting each others heads off
I'm currently going through a divorce myself and my soon to be ex husband can't communicate without getting aggressive . It's always been my daily prayer for us to communicate like adults, the way they do
I believe they'll fix things
Sending you love and light sisi.
@@xolileradebe8022 thanks sis
i have so much respect for you guys. when its not working out cut it off before you become toxic and even harm the children. breaking up and being able to be in the same space like this is doesnt mean people should go back together.
you see how monde is so calm very mindful 😻🥰
Esibuya kwatiktok phakamisani izandla😂🎉❤
👻
Yebo
Yimi
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🙋♀️
Monde wathetha kamandi ngo Tumi😢❤❤❤wow 😊one day ngiyafisa nilungise zinto wonke nawo ama mistakes
I love how they made coparenting a priority after they break up. We wont judge you both if you get back together we see the love.
Thank u guys for being an example and having a honest conversation. We don't celebrate the breaking up of marriages, but u guys working on yourselves and giving each other space is good start. What's meant to be will be
Learnt alot from this hey . Respect is everything in a relationship
Eish I am so trouble with this Mama ka Liyana please watch this video again and self correct 😢. Love you guys and you guys were really perfect for each other
Skhotheni 😭,just admit and don't run away from what you did n not justify it. Monde be honest about yourself n how you feel exactly.
Hope you both heal and be fine.
The guy was trying to speak out the problem here is Tumi is so loud and keep over powering him with her gaslighting and loud voice ,you can tell Monde is genuinely a peaceful person who can settle for peace rather than being right,he is such a mature individual however I hope he learns to speak out irrespective of what the circumstances are.
We all agree with Monde, Skhotheni is beating around the bush
Also gay allegations
I also don't believe 😂
This was beautiful to watch. Love and light to you both ❤
This relationship still has a chance i tell you🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞Even the way they talk says it all, it just need time and healing 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
True
yes I see a potential enkulu
True ❤
Very true hey.
I want to say it won’t because Skhotheni has admitted to all the things themat she’s done wrong and she wants to change… Monde is defensive… also see how she apologises when he tells her she’s jumping in esakhuluma.
The ending almost sounded like they are getting back together 😭😭♥️🔥. Why can't they ??
South African let’s sign a petition for them to get back together. Siyi Country we need you guys together❤
😢please
Count me in😂❤️
They still love each other laba😂we're not fools
Nam Futhi IL bring all my friends
A whole petition!!!!!!!!!? 😂😂😂respect us please 😅😮
No ways I’m fasting for this couple to go back to each other… South Africa is boring without this couple. 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️ For MONDE Shange and Gogo Skhotheni to go back together.🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🙏
Bathong fasting vele Mpumi 😂😂
When are we starting shame i wanna join you🤞
Tell us date and time we are within😭😶
Let's fast bo Chommie..Mina it doesn't make sense to me ukuthi they separated 💔
I'm with you😂
The sad part is that Monde would rather just keep quiet than talk or argue he has a lot to say but uGogo bandla uyamvala yooh and cheating is cheating let's not justify that as a married woman or man.
This is how grown ups communicate big ups to you guys❤❤❤much love
The pain from tumis laugh when monde said he doesnt care whether she has a boyfriend or not....fact is monde is out and tumi still loves him
@@NomsaNokuthula monde is out where? Fact is you didn’t watch the same podcast we all watched, cause even a blind man can see that these people still love each other so much
@@nthabisengdlamini4971you couldn’t have said it any better
@@nthabisengdlamini4971phinda ubuze sisi ❤
Nomsa I agree with you, even though he’s not completely out, but Tumi usamthanda kakhulu it’s very sad to see. I’ve been in that situation, and I think the guy might completely move on and yena she never will. She even tries to hurt him with the things she says but she’s just not winning. It’s very sad I’ve been there 💔
I think Monde accepts situations and moves on
Not Gogo downplaying her cheating 😂this level of maturity is truly commendable shame!🙌My anger levels would never allow me!
lol 😂 so true cabanga she cheated nje that it .😂but i understand her
Skhothane came to put her own fire while gaslighting Monde. She doesn’t have any accountability for her actions and behaviour. She is busy sugar coating her faults while he wants Monde to speak the truth.
That’s why I will never get married, she was def gonna cheat 😢how do you leave your wife and kids every weekend the whole night even, and come back drunk🙄he was also busy with something TUMI didn’t get to find out about it
@@charleeningeu6334No one is going there
I have so much respect for grootman Monde. Tumi you’ve lost such a good man, a calm and collected man who inspired you to succeed. These ones out there are going to finish you and you’ll look for Monde and won’t find him. I feel so sad when marriages end😭
😢 please take Liyana to a child therapist. She’s hurting 😢
I agree with you 😢
Boyo is now her spiritual friend😭😭😭😭
i also support this view Lili needs to see a therapist-she has been through a lot.
I agree 😢
This is very mature conversation,i wish co- parents allow themselves to heal in this way.
Praying for healing, light and love for you guys❤
Monde is hurt coz gogo is not taking accountability to what she did. It’s best for you guys to co-parent coz you both not healed by the way.
Big ups to Monde yhuu maturity on its level best😇💯💫
Well said. Monde is very matured
I just like the manner in which Monde is handling this 👍💯....... He so matured yoh🫡😇
Broh niggar deserves better 🔥🔥🔥😍🙌
right , He exposed the kind of the woman she was dealing with
i feel like theres still room for this to be fixed, and I genuinely hope you guy find each other again
Yoh mina....I love you guys together😢😢this is heart breaking.....can you guys not fix things gogo..?...monde?
May God give you strength Monde,you have been through the most shame.Losing parents at a younger age is very painful and traumatizing which affects our entire life
This is why you don't rush to divorce. You can take a break in a marriage or a relationship to breath, look at what the breath has done for you two but now you have divorced. We don't quit when going through problems in a relationship
FACTS 💯
happy to see yol together, 4 Monde Jr!!!
All i see is, these two are still inlove but unfortunately sometimes love isnt enough to sustain a relationship..anyway big ups the both of you,such maturity❤❤❤
So Gogo brought Monde here to speak alone while Monde sits there. Listening is a very rare skill to have in life. Remember that
When Skhotheni jokingly asked “uzong’cabuza?”
Not me saying “haibo, usefuna uku cheatela uCurrent manje” 😂😂😂
There’s chemistry here🥹 literally enjoyed the whole conversation.
Niyanqena yin uvele nibiyelane?Ngoba wow😊
Well done guys I love your maturity to be able to sit down and talk. I never knew monde, he is such a cool dude. All the best to you. Will always remain a fan of your work
I strongly believe these two are still in much love with one another and deep down they know the marriage still stands a chance. The inky problem is that they didn't know how to deal with their son's condition so much that it drifted them apart.If they can seek God's intervention in their situation everything is highly fixable.
Kanti ishone nini ingane sekune divorce nje phakathi
You misunderstood Monde with the image issue. He is very right about that. With you your image is easy to just dent
She totally misunderstood him. Yho hay Tumi akekho ryt tuu. Monde is better off😢
@@alettamhlontlo6348 she is too defensive
Bro
I really admire how there is respect between them as they converse. I hope they find a way to each other again.
You two are so much in love 😍 You will find one another all over again❤️
God help you🙏🏽
You guys are so civil.
Good parents.
A lot of couples can learn a lot from this.
All the best for the both of you with the future.
the last part says it all ''''UZONGICABUZA'''' bt uthi unomuntu i dnt believe her, basafunana xem jst give them 2 months they wil be back together mark my words...
Loved the episode. Showed reality of what our generation is experiencing from both genders.
Gogo talk less, listen & lower volume. ❤
Monde has respect 🥺❤️
Too much❤
Kakhulu
Too much his very humble
He is such a polite human being 👌
UBafo is so humble yhooo, he's very calm. He takes his time to listen and respond with respect 🫂❤️
❤❤❤
Monde still loves Gogo😢
Gogo seems like she’s guarding her ❤
I want them to get back together so bad but I’m conflicted. May God guide them on what’s best for both of them ❤❤❤❤
One thing about Monde he is a gentleman
Very much 👌
This was soooo beautiful to watch, the looove I saw there, the respect and just seeing 2 people being content with their experience and admitting.. How you 2 speak good of each other..!! 🙌❤️
Thank you maLiyana and may most learn from you..!!
mina im Monde and Monde is me... the pain in his voice ; hes so broken..
Gogo, you can't take a decision that you are no longer in love with your husband, then engage in another relationship, thats pure Cheating, you suppose to disengage from Monde, emotional n physically so.then move on.
She must just accept that she’s wrong on this one. She was still married to him so that means she cheated on Monde 😢
Ur smart Monde, I like ur thinking ur brains 🎉
Monde can be a great manager, yall should consider working together. Very wise
I love how both of you take accountability towards your marriage not working out. But you guys still love each other mara❤