I am a child from a mixed-religious home, my grandparents were also muslims infact my official third name is a muslim name but I am now a born again Christian and I can say for sure that religion was a major factor for me in choosing my husband because I know "wetin my eye see" growing up. lol. Apart from the fact that the bible advises against it, I didn't want to raise a family in a divided home, so it was very crucial for me to marry a Christian. I think our belief system plays a huge role in our approach to life except you are still a growing believer, you may not see how dangerous it is. Another thing is if both parties are lukewarm in their faith it may also not be a problem. In the long run, the woman eventually has to succumb and it then begins to look like they are doing two religions, some eventually give in to their husband's for example when they are fasting or during ileya, the wives have to be involved but for men its not the same, during Christmas the man would probably not be involved. Anyway, to each his own, love and light to the both of them. Although practicing different religions, my parents are still married, so I believe the marriage can still work for them, just not for me. lol
People change I agree. But again let’s be truthful and stand by the teachings of the Bible and not always being politically correct 😂 which is going to lead me to what am bout to say. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Periodt
Who is an unbeliever? Good luck missing out on true love because you’re looking for a believer…I’m guessing you’re christian, how many so called christian’s lifestyles even portray that they believe in anything nowadays. Only christians by mouth SMH 🤦♂️
I am a Muslim and I completely understand your view. Because I also think religion is a very crucial factor in marriage even though it's not all but it is very important. I also understand the perspective of lateef and his wife & it is beautiful to see. But, what works for A might not work for B. Plus, Doing religious things together like praying together etc. with whoever I end up with is a big love language for me. So, I don't think I can marry another religion. (No offense, I love my christian friends).
You are so right and that’s it for me as Christian. I can only marry from my religion because I need to be able to fellowship with the person I’m married to and our children when we have them.
This is quite a nice review Mrs Nike For me, when it comes to religion, marriage must first be about where our both feet are planted before the personality of that individual. Christ is my foundation and so should he and so should be our marriage. It doesn't mean I can't have inter religious people as friends, but for marriage, it's a no for me.
As born again Christians, marry like minded Christian because our #1 goal is to live lives that please God here and spend eternity with him. I also belief that every Christian marriage has a purpose to fulfill, not just two people coming together. But if a genuinely born again Christian marries someone else, then that person has a very big assignment: pray, model the life of Christ, preach etc to the other person so they also can be saved and most importantly, stand firm (unwaveringly) on the word of God which is not bread and butter. I strongly belief in two people having the same direction spiritually. I can’t imagine two who are yoked together facing two different direction
I really love how bold you are about distinguishing the Christian and Islamic faith. Before watching, I was like arghh Adenike wants to cause trouble. Will she be diplomatic about it. But kudos !👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾
I honestly pray that we believers come to a knowledge of Christ personally because not marrying someone from a different religion because of what your parents will say isn’t strong enough. Honoring our parents is key but what Christ expects of us is the most important. I’m not undermining the fact that it’s a tough situation to be in, but we have grace by the help of God to deal with it. Bible says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). Also Amos 3:3, can two walk together?,Unless the agree. I believe that for children of God, our faith should be the most solid foundation and most important thing to consider before any other thing in a relationship or a marriage. Again, in the Bible, there have been lots of instances where God told His children to marry from a particular group of people. Literally marrying from your kindred and this goes a long way to affect the children, marriage itself etc. Above all, I pray God’s help and wisdom for us as children of God as we choose our partners. Unless it’s a clear instruction from the Lord or He leads you to marry from a different religion, I personally believe that from what the Bible teaches, it’s best to marry a believer of Christ
She seems like a liberal Christin herself, as her main reason for not wanting to marry him at first was because her parents would not allow. It didn’t seem like that’s strong biblical and spiritual conviction was there. In that case then, she found her match - another liberal person. It that case they agreed so it was. I personally would never even agree because of my spiritual conviction so that wouldn’t work for me. But for her, the faith you have described may have just been a religion for her…
There was a lot of wisdom in that interview. I didn’t takeaway that I should marry outside of my religion, but the message to me was about you should be willing to work out anything with your spouse (or spouse to be) in the name of commitment. Deciding to commit is the key.
I’ve never been a supporter of inter-religious marriages, I’ve had friends who ended up confused because of it. I’ll stick to my religion, don’t even change for me. Your faith grows stronger when you have a partner growing with you, then you can carry your children along and have a united home with no confusion or silent war. Yes, Islam says no compulsion in religion but religion is still one of the things we are encouraged to consider for marriage. Men are allowed to marry non-Muslims because of the belief that he can make her practice Islam and that’s why women are not allowed because you have to follow your husband. We are losing a lot of things to wokeness. God help us!
Watching the video, I was just wondering if Lateef’s parents would still be liberal if His sister brought home a Christian man, 🤣 and accept him with all joy.
Thank you so much for your review. I love how you pointed out the part of personal relationship with God, you get to a point of relationship with God, and you know marrying from a different religion won't appeal to you. I love the personalization there. So relatable!!!
I don’t believe in inter religion marriages, it leaves the children confused and lost. We have this church member (family) mum is a Christian, dad is a muslim; when dad is going to mosque he carries all his children, when mum is coming to church she brings them along. Whenever I talk with the teenage kids, I discover that they are confused and not interested anything about church or mosque.
My observation as well. Our children learn more from our actions/decisions. And I feel such decision tells them louder beyond any spoke word that you are not committed/ lack conviction of what you claim to believe.
It’s funny that you did a reaction video to this.. Because immediately I watched it, I called 2 of my friends to talk about it especially the religion part.. For me, while the Bible tells us to love all, choosing someone in the same faith as I am is very very important to me… In fact, it’s a deal breaker.. And as you’ve said, it doesn’t mean it’s the key to a successful marriage but it just makes a lot of things easier.. Having someone who understands and shares the same faith values with you is just urghhhhh😩😩, beautiful Side note, I’m a littleeeeeeeeeee bit disappointed that the Nze’s mentioned that they wanted to encourage people in the same situation because when they started their channel, I saw them as a new “Christian couple” (if you know what I mean).. Maybe I’m just too rigid with my choices but encouraging people to be unequally yoked as a Christian is wild But obviously, it depends on your relationship with God.. Somethings won’t even be an option when you get to a certain level of relationship with God as a Christian and when the Bible is your guide.... Before he even said to marry you, what conversations did you have and why didn’t you rule it out??? They look very happy and I pray for a very very healthy relationship for them, I love them soooo much too 😩
Thanks so much for this reaction. Really thorough as usual. I like the couple’s testimony I guess to each his or her own. For me as a born again christian I will not even front, my number 1 criteria is my husband to be must be a born christian before we can even start talking marriage and looking at other perspective of our values and what we want in d marriage. The Bible stated not to be unequally yoke and I believe that is for anyone not in this same faith as us.
Marriage is for God’s kingdom agenda, one of the cogent reason according to the Bible is to raise godly seeds unto God. Also, as believes we must understand that marriage is an extension of Christ and the church. That is why a man and woman must be in unionism on all front before they should get married including the issue of faith. Marriage is beyond us, it’s about continuity of a legacy, and all manner of confusion must not be entertained.
At a point she will follow her husband’s religion that’s just the truth. I honestly think inter religion marriages affect the kids and it might not foster unity in the home
Hmmm so Adenike what do you feel about a practising Christian who marries another Christian but that person is a believer but does not particularly practise the Christian walk but they believe in God
Alsooooooooo, I don’t think things in the contract should be things that don’t seem feasible over the years 😭 Because seasons change as you’ve said So obviously things in the contract wouldn’t be “I want you to cook for me everyday” or “I want you to iron my clothes” but obviously things that are necessary for a marriage to work like “I want you to communicate with me instead of fighting and jumping into conclusion aggressively”, “No exchanging of bad words”.. You know, things that remain a constant forever
Islam does allow people to marry within the other Abrahamic faiths. Most Yoruba people have always been liberal when it come to inter religious marriages and I have 3 very successful mixed religious marriages in my family so really don't see it as a big deal. However in the last 20 years, Nigeria as a whole as gone through so much changes and we are not as tolerant of each other's religions as we used to be. As a christian we are not even tolerant of other Christian denominations talkless of marrying a Muslim. I have been to church when a pastor was saying a Pentecostal christian cannot marry a Catholic Christian. So funny because one of my aunties who is Catholic married a muslim Alhaji and today half her kids are Muslims and the other half are Christians. She had the audacity to be complaining to me that one of her sons wants to get married to a muslim lady that wears a hijab and the other one wants to marry a lady that goes to a Pentecostal church ( apparently he should have married a nice Catholic girl). And in my head I'm thinking this aunty is not serious especially since her husband fought his whole family to ensure that she carried on going to church when they got married.
Yes you are correct with both your opinions I understand what you are saying but I am not 100% in agreement. Yes people change but also people forget things easily what they wrote down serve as. a reminder they should get better than what they wrote in that paper not worst. The second one about religion. it is good to share the same faith. Being it a Christian or Muslim etc that is just like a tittle d question is? is the person a good person and fear God. Some people join a religion just because they need a husband or wife they are church goers after marriage they w turn to a beast!!!!! D last church program I went pastor Loreen said it is not being a Christian you should look for in a man. Is he born again that is what matters.🙏🙏
I want to share an opinion on second point concerning religion. It’s really unfortunate that there are “bad” people in the body of Christ and that’s because God gives us the freedom to choice however submitting wholly to Him is the best thing you can do to and for yourself as a believer of Christ. So what we find in the body of Christ is that people choose to surrender certain parts of their lives to Christ and be kings of other parts of their lives hence doing “well” in certain parts and being “beasts” like you mentioned but you realise that when you submit your whole life to Jesus, the Holy Spirit who is our helper corrects you and refines you with refiner’s fire hence bearing the fruits of the Spirit! I believe God still has sons and daughters so I pray the Lord’s grace for us to be led by the Holy Spirit as we choose through His lenses. Shalom!❤
I watched the video too and I was a bit disappointed that Stan and Blessing who are known as a Christian couples would allude in anyway that inter-religious marriage is okay. And I say this because Stan made a statement that they don’t want to encourage other people Apart from the religious aspect, a few things could be learnt from them though
I totally agree with you. I love both couples but as a Christian, you should always make your Stan firm. You don't have to invite such couple especially when you made it clear that your channel ( the other corner) promotes Christian marriages.
Naaah they are a host. They are there to interview and host couples not impose their opinions on them. I’m sure they are not a 100 with the whole idea, hence the reason for inviting this couple and answering their questions and curiosity and that of the viewers
Its easier for muslim men to marry a non muslim because they believe they can convert the wife. As a christain, any character trait im looking for must first be rooted in christ.
We're people made up of diversity and if that is going to prevent us from falling in love and making life beautiful, then that's going to be a problem. "There no compulsion in religion"😊
My parents would probably disown me if I decide to marry a non Christian I will stick to my Christian brothers like that ( even though....sometimes they are not correct like that )
As a Muslim woman , I advise my Muslim sister to only marry a Muslim man or remain unmarried for its better for them. As for the muslim men, marry whomever and teach them the ways of Islam. In sha Allah, they will also see the light.
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I am a child from a mixed-religious home, my grandparents were also muslims infact my official third name is a muslim name but I am now a born again Christian and I can say for sure that religion was a major factor for me in choosing my husband because I know "wetin my eye see" growing up. lol. Apart from the fact that the bible advises against it, I didn't want to raise a family in a divided home, so it was very crucial for me to marry a Christian. I think our belief system plays a huge role in our approach to life except you are still a growing believer, you may not see how dangerous it is. Another thing is if both parties are lukewarm in their faith it may also not be a problem. In the long run, the woman eventually has to succumb and it then begins to look like they are doing two religions, some eventually give in to their husband's for example when they are fasting or during ileya, the wives have to be involved but for men its not the same, during Christmas the man would probably not be involved. Anyway, to each his own, love and light to the both of them. Although practicing different religions, my parents are still married, so I believe the marriage can still work for them, just not for me. lol
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People change I agree. But again let’s be truthful and stand by the teachings of the Bible and not always being politically correct 😂 which is going to lead me to what am bout to say. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Periodt
God bless you...
Who is an unbeliever? Good luck missing out on true love because you’re looking for a believer…I’m guessing you’re christian, how many so called christian’s lifestyles even portray that they believe in anything nowadays. Only christians by mouth SMH 🤦♂️
I am a Muslim and I completely understand your view. Because I also think religion is a very crucial factor in marriage even though it's not all but it is very important.
I also understand the perspective of lateef and his wife & it is beautiful to see.
But, what works for A might not work for B.
Plus, Doing religious things together like praying together etc. with whoever I end up with is a big love language for me.
So, I don't think I can marry another religion. (No offense, I love my christian friends).
Period❤
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You are so right and that’s it for me as Christian. I can only marry from my religion because I need to be able to fellowship with the person I’m married to and our children when we have them.
This is quite a nice review Mrs Nike
For me, when it comes to religion, marriage must first be about where our both feet are planted before the personality of that individual. Christ is my foundation and so should he and so should be our marriage.
It doesn't mean I can't have inter religious people as friends, but for marriage, it's a no for me.
As born again Christians, marry like minded Christian because our #1 goal is to live lives that please God here and spend eternity with him. I also belief that every Christian marriage has a purpose to fulfill, not just two people coming together. But if a genuinely born again Christian marries someone else, then that person has a very big assignment: pray, model the life of Christ, preach etc to the other person so they also can be saved and most importantly, stand firm (unwaveringly) on the word of God which is not bread and butter. I strongly belief in two people having the same direction spiritually. I can’t imagine two who are yoked together facing two different direction
It's a struggle for Believers to just marry any "Christian" let alone an unbeliever 😩
I really love how bold you are about distinguishing the Christian and Islamic faith. Before watching, I was like arghh Adenike wants to cause trouble. Will she be diplomatic about it. But kudos !👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾
You literally said my mind! 😁✊🏽
I honestly pray that we believers come to a knowledge of Christ personally because not marrying someone from a different religion because of what your parents will say isn’t strong enough. Honoring our parents is key but what Christ expects of us is the most important. I’m not undermining the fact that it’s a tough situation to be in, but we have grace by the help of God to deal with it.
Bible says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Also Amos 3:3, can two walk together?,Unless the agree.
I believe that for children of God, our faith should be the most solid foundation and most important thing to consider before any other thing in a relationship or a marriage.
Again, in the Bible, there have been lots of instances where God told His children to marry from a particular group of people. Literally marrying from your kindred and this goes a long way to affect the children, marriage itself etc.
Above all, I pray God’s help and wisdom for us as children of God as we choose our partners.
Unless it’s a clear instruction from the Lord or He leads you to marry from a different religion, I personally believe that from what the Bible teaches, it’s best to marry a believer of Christ
She seems like a liberal Christin herself, as her main reason for not wanting to marry him at first was because her parents would not allow. It didn’t seem like that’s strong biblical and spiritual conviction was there. In that case then, she found her match - another liberal person. It that case they agreed so it was. I personally would never even agree because of my spiritual conviction so that wouldn’t work for me. But for her, the faith you have described may have just been a religion for her…
@@BlessedLPT. 💯 you nailed it👌🏽
@@BlessedLPT. Honestly!!!!,you’ve said it all but I pray the Lord’s help for them
There was a lot of wisdom in that interview. I didn’t takeaway that I should marry outside of my religion, but the message to me was about you should be willing to work out anything with your spouse (or spouse to be) in the name of commitment. Deciding to commit is the key.
I’ve never been a supporter of inter-religious marriages, I’ve had friends who ended up confused because of it. I’ll stick to my religion, don’t even change for me. Your faith grows stronger when you have a partner growing with you, then you can carry your children along and have a united home with no confusion or silent war. Yes, Islam says no compulsion in religion but religion is still one of the things we are encouraged to consider for marriage. Men are allowed to marry non-Muslims because of the belief that he can make her practice Islam and that’s why women are not allowed because you have to follow your husband. We are losing a lot of things to wokeness. God help us!
Watching the video, I was just wondering if Lateef’s parents would still be liberal if His sister brought home a Christian man, 🤣 and accept him with all joy.
Right! Right! Right!
Thank you so much for your review.
I love how you pointed out the part of personal relationship with God, you get to a point of relationship with God, and you know marrying from a different religion won't appeal to you.
I love the personalization there. So relatable!!!
I don’t believe in inter religion marriages, it leaves the children confused and lost. We have this church member (family) mum is a Christian, dad is a muslim; when dad is going to mosque he carries all his children, when mum is coming to church she brings them along. Whenever I talk with the teenage kids, I discover that they are confused and not interested anything about church or mosque.
My observation as well. Our children learn more from our actions/decisions. And I feel such decision tells them louder beyond any spoke word that you are not committed/ lack conviction of what you claim to believe.
It’s funny that you did a reaction video to this.. Because immediately I watched it, I called 2 of my friends to talk about it especially the religion part..
For me, while the Bible tells us to love all, choosing someone in the same faith as I am is very very important to me… In fact, it’s a deal breaker.. And as you’ve said, it doesn’t mean it’s the key to a successful marriage but it just makes a lot of things easier.. Having someone who understands and shares the same faith values with you is just urghhhhh😩😩, beautiful
Side note, I’m a littleeeeeeeeeee bit disappointed that the Nze’s mentioned that they wanted to encourage people in the same situation because when they started their channel, I saw them as a new “Christian couple” (if you know what I mean).. Maybe I’m just too rigid with my choices but encouraging people to be unequally yoked as a Christian is wild
But obviously, it depends on your relationship with God.. Somethings won’t even be an option when you get to a certain level of relationship with God as a Christian and when the Bible is your guide.... Before he even said to marry you, what conversations did you have and why didn’t you rule it out???
They look very happy and I pray for a very very healthy relationship for them, I love them soooo much too 😩
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Children puts a different spin on things!
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Thanks so much for this reaction. Really thorough as usual.
I like the couple’s testimony I guess to each his or her own.
For me as a born again christian I will not even front, my number 1 criteria is my husband to be must be a born christian before we can even start talking marriage and looking at other perspective of our values and what we want in d marriage.
The Bible stated not to be unequally yoke and I believe that is for anyone not in this same faith as us.
they are all such a delight to watch, Lateef is so funny
Just curious…what happens when children come??? It will be refreshing to see if he will still share this view about not compelling them!!!
I enjoyed watching your reaction. I had to go look for and watch their full video. Please do more reaction videos. They are interesting.
Marriage is for God’s kingdom agenda, one of the cogent reason according to the Bible is to raise godly seeds unto God. Also, as believes we must understand that marriage is an extension of Christ and the church. That is why a man and woman must be in unionism on all front before they should get married including the issue of faith. Marriage is beyond us, it’s about continuity of a legacy, and all manner of confusion must not be entertained.
As much as I enjoyed this reaction video, please this your wig and your top is entering my eyes🤭
At a point she will follow her husband’s religion that’s just the truth.
I honestly think inter religion marriages affect the kids and it might not foster unity in the home
Hmmm so Adenike what do you feel about a practising Christian who marries another Christian but that person is a believer but does not particularly practise the Christian walk but they believe in God
I like the video reactions hun💃💃💃
Interesting to see but I hope if his sister wants to marry a Christian,his parents will still be liberal..
Abeg lemme stick to my christian brothers😂
The Bible is our guide and since it says no, i aren't doing it 🥴
Alsooooooooo, I don’t think things in the contract should be things that don’t seem feasible over the years 😭 Because seasons change as you’ve said
So obviously things in the contract wouldn’t be “I want you to cook for me everyday” or “I want you to iron my clothes” but obviously things that are necessary for a marriage to work like “I want you to communicate with me instead of fighting and jumping into conclusion aggressively”, “No exchanging of bad words”.. You know, things that remain a constant forever
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Islam does allow people to marry within the other Abrahamic faiths. Most Yoruba people have always been liberal when it come to inter religious marriages and I have 3 very successful mixed religious marriages in my family so really don't see it as a big deal. However in the last 20 years, Nigeria as a whole as gone through so much changes and we are not as tolerant of each other's religions as we used to be. As a christian we are not even tolerant of other Christian denominations talkless of marrying a Muslim. I have been to church when a pastor was saying a Pentecostal christian cannot marry a Catholic Christian. So funny because one of my aunties who is Catholic married a muslim Alhaji and today half her kids are Muslims and the other half are Christians. She had the audacity to be complaining to me that one of her sons wants to get married to a muslim lady that wears a hijab and the other one wants to marry a lady that goes to a Pentecostal church ( apparently he should have married a nice Catholic girl). And in my head I'm thinking this aunty is not serious especially since her husband fought his whole family to ensure that she carried on going to church when they got married.
Yes you are correct with both your opinions I understand what you are saying but I am not 100% in agreement. Yes people change but also people forget things easily what they wrote down serve as. a reminder they should get better than what they wrote in that paper not worst. The second one about religion. it is good to share the same faith. Being it a Christian or Muslim etc that is just like a tittle d question is? is the person a good person and fear God. Some people join a religion just because they need a husband or wife they are church goers after marriage they w turn to a beast!!!!! D last church program I went pastor Loreen said it is not being a Christian you should look for in a man. Is he born again that is what matters.🙏🙏
I want to share an opinion on second point concerning religion.
It’s really unfortunate that there are “bad” people in the body of Christ and that’s because God gives us the freedom to choice however submitting wholly to Him is the best thing you can do to and for yourself as a believer of Christ.
So what we find in the body of Christ is that people choose to surrender certain parts of their lives to Christ and be kings of other parts of their lives hence doing “well” in certain parts and being “beasts” like you mentioned but you realise that when you submit your whole life to Jesus, the Holy Spirit who is our helper corrects you and refines you with refiner’s fire hence bearing the fruits of the Spirit!
I believe God still has sons and daughters so I pray the Lord’s grace for us to be led by the Holy Spirit as we choose through His lenses.
Shalom!❤
I watched the video too and I was a bit disappointed that Stan and Blessing who are known as a Christian couples would allude in anyway that inter-religious marriage is okay.
And I say this because Stan made a statement that they don’t want to encourage other people
Apart from the religious aspect, a few things could be learnt from them though
What would you have them do?
@@Favybama not to make inter-religious marriage look “cool” for Christians because according to the Bible it’s not.
I totally agree with you. I love both couples but as a Christian, you should always make your Stan firm. You don't have to invite such couple especially when you made it clear that your channel ( the other corner) promotes Christian marriages.
Naaah they are a host. They are there to interview and host couples not impose their opinions on them. I’m sure they are not a 100 with the whole idea, hence the reason for inviting this couple and answering their questions and curiosity and that of the viewers
@@chinuadozie9550....Exactly! they are there to interview. Some of us have friends from other religions too. You have to learn to live and let's live.
Yeah people change 💯
I love the reaction video
And I love the couples
Be unequally yoked with unbeliever, that is the Bible standard, nothing more or less, there is no other way except that written in the scriptures.
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Its easier for muslim men to marry a non muslim because they believe they can convert the wife. As a christain, any character trait im looking for must first be rooted in christ.
Lateef is quite funny
So interesting. Lol.God bless
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We're people made up of diversity and if that is going to prevent us from falling in love and making life beautiful, then that's going to be a problem. "There no compulsion in religion"😊
And I feel like as we evolve it’s always good to update what’s written
My parents would probably disown me if I decide to marry a non Christian
I will stick to my Christian brothers like that ( even though....sometimes they are not correct like that )
As a Muslim woman , I advise my Muslim sister to only marry a Muslim man or remain unmarried for its better for them. As for the muslim men, marry whomever and teach them the ways of Islam. In sha Allah, they will also see the light.