Only a Super Empath Can Destroy The Narcissist, Here's How

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  • @tamiemjoyce
    @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

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    • @MyFreeLife111
      @MyFreeLife111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @lornasquires6188
      @lornasquires6188 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hi Tammi.
      I resonate with your messages. I was labeled the “scapegoat” by one of my brother’s social worker wife. I would Love to finally make peace with my empathic qualities. I have found it to be to my detriment for most of my life. I feel so much, at times it is exhausting. I would so love to be a ‘Super Empath’.
      I Love hearing the idea of overcoming the shadow side of it and being empowered to really show people Love without offending them. And also, how to deal with a certain Narcissist in my life. 😢🙃🤞🏼

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@lornasquires6188 keep watching! I have a lot of good advice for people like you on my channel!
      If you want to go deeper with me, you can learn more here: www.TamieMCoaching.com

  • @sherrymurphy855
    @sherrymurphy855 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    "... they've been through the fire more than once ... " 💥 " never underestimate the super empath." Thanks Tamie - as always. ❤️

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @sherrymurphy855 You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 💕

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think people underestimate us at their own peril. We can cut people with our words.

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    When you totally stop going to gatherings where a particular Narc is going to be - that’s when the other family & friends clearly see who this toxic person is all about. Because this toxic person can’t help but be destructive - so they go on to the next one in the line of fire & that’s when everyone sees that it’s not the Super Empath that is the cause of all their shortcomings. Truth comes to light - real fast !

    • @ljOB510
      @ljOB510 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I sure hope so because we had his mom's surprise 70 bday party at my house with all HIS family and then 3 WEEKS later he takes a brand new stranger to their house for Thanksgiving 😮 Like wow. Unbelievable

    • @opencanswithzans
      @opencanswithzans 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why should we stop going to gatherings with this person? Doesn't that mean they have won, and have bullied us into silence?

    • @fifilafleur5555
      @fifilafleur5555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not for my family. They are still hoodwinked by the narcissists. Doubtful they will ever see the truth. They reject it.

    • @HestiaBHN1
      @HestiaBHN1 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Hmmmm. Maybe.

  • @AAXS-op1vo
    @AAXS-op1vo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    It happens to me ALL the time. It is exhausting and depressing. But our desire to continue to vibrate HIGH keeps us trying to do the right thing. It. Is. Exhausting.

    • @Jillinks
      @Jillinks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I have learned to find it empowering. Takes a bit of work, but each experience gets less exhaustive and feels like I've conquered another narcissist. Way to go.

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oof, it takes me 5 minutes to work it out now. Sometimes less. Keep healing and you will see how strong and powerful you are. Tamie has said it a thousand times and I was not in that place for ages, but once you get there, it is a game changer.

    • @gwendolynwehage6336
      @gwendolynwehage6336 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have learned to say when challenged about something, " I disagree" without any explanations. If they press me I calmly and joyfully walk away as if they said nothing at all. Eventually they stopped bothering me and began the gossip, then I ignored the gossipers too. They are all out of my life except on rare occasions.

  • @gwendolynwehage6336
    @gwendolynwehage6336 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    There have been so many times those in the family seem angry with me all the time when I have done nothing worthy of anger. I have even been treated this way when I have given good gifts or kind words as though I was foolish for expressing myself in these ways. I began feeling joyful about blessing someone else only to sense demeaning for my joy. They see me the way they want to see me and not what I am in reality. When I would reach out to them to reconnect I was met with disinterest instead of love and kindness. When I decided to withdraw myself from as many of them as I could get away from, they would try to get me back through family functions. When i began to think maybe they were sorry and wanted to make amends, I saw that they had "invited me to the party so I could see them ignoring me." It was clear that they wanted me to see them all loving on one another but not on me. They really hated it when I didn't show up to see them anymore. I know this because they would call me to find out why I was not coming. Their need to know "why" was to intimidate me into answering so they could negate my 'excuses", as though I was obligated to show up to be their battering ram. I began simply saying; "I had other plans" with no explanation, if they pressed me I would repeat myself in a friendly voice. Their antics were not working and I was more joyful than ever that I didn't have to attend these hateful gatherings again. This nonsense has been going on since I was a small child. I thought later in life that perhaps they would change as they grew but they never grew and they never changed. I was the scapegoat at four years old when they snarked at me all the time for silly things and until this very day. They are much more covert now because I have cut them off.

    • @HestiaBHN1
      @HestiaBHN1 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Me too. I have discovered my Inner Being ( see Abraham Hicks) and now She is enough for me. She is giving me everything I wanted from family, lovers, husbands, and friends.
      The Universe knows what its doing.

  • @Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S
    @Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    FACTS. I'm grey rocking right here in the house. We have 2 children together.....Thank you for your videos. You are speaking facts about a lot!! Ive been waking up to this narc abuse.... And i am going to make sure our children have access to both of us, so i continue to evolve...

  • @edjohnson3685
    @edjohnson3685 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This is a re-occurring event in my life that continues to happen back to back. I especially experience this at church. Religion breeds narcissists drawn to religious leadership and power positions. Once they have power at church, they wield their new found weapon to continually control others. Sorry, just venting I think. It never ends, that's the bummer.

    • @keithbarbaro7590
      @keithbarbaro7590 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      True. Narcissists love clergy and law enforcement. Here in my working class Queens neighborhood people with narcissistic traits admire priests and police.

    • @Burbankelly
      @Burbankelly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      UGH! And they use your confessed sins and Jesus against you! Churches need to use people who have the gift of discernment on their hiring staff! WHY don't they?

    • @charliepatterson9321
      @charliepatterson9321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      " I'm a Christian " = I'm better than you 🤪

    • @brendarewan7441
      @brendarewan7441 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@charliepatterson9321
      Is this sarcasm? Atheism?

  • @flz_5848
    @flz_5848 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Hey Tamie, have you ever thought about making a video about self-described "Spiritual Empaths" who are actually just covert narcissists? I had the misfortune of dating this starseed-shaman wannabe for 2.5 years and in it, experienced a lot of put-downs and gaslighting. He even coerced me into doing hallucinogens with him. I'm glad it's over now but it fucked with my own belief system for a long time and I realize that these people are unfortunately very common in spiritual spaces. I think more people should beware of them!

    • @HestiaBHN1
      @HestiaBHN1 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. I just recently cut ties with a male friend of 40 years, because he was a spiritual guru wannabe. I finally realized he was manipulative, charismatic, charming, love-bombing, snd INAUTHENTIC.
      He kept all of our spiritual discoveries VONCEPTUSL, rather thsn VISCERAL. He tslked the tslk, but does not reslly walk the walk. And he keeps several women on a string, with regular phone calls and love-bombing.
      We are/were his "supply." And hes angry and vengeful since I cut the ties. I cut off his source.
      But it was a false source ( and I always felt drained.) All adductions are dubstitutes for God...or better ssid...our Inner Being.
      In AA they say, "You cant get enough of what you dont need.
      But Ive cut the string.
      Males snd male wannabees, are all anoit the money snd fame. They are VERY outer-directed. Thats ego. They want to be famous. Thats ego.

  • @kristahackleylmt2064
    @kristahackleylmt2064 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm still alive and so very thankful. I still have purpose on Earth. 🙏

  • @pheonixdawning9496
    @pheonixdawning9496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Word for word I experience this daily
    I'm getting stronger daily but need help cutting ties permanently

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @pheonixdawning9496 This will help: www.tamiemcoaching.com/the-freedom-class-self-study

  • @CrzYbaDmutha2245
    @CrzYbaDmutha2245 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I have quite the collection of victories.

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congrats!

  • @kennethlapointesongwriter3330
    @kennethlapointesongwriter3330 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm a sigma empath. I can be fooled at first by a narc, but once I realize what I'm dealing with, it's game over for them. They can't win. Impossible.

  • @shirleyramlakhan5220
    @shirleyramlakhan5220 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    With spiritually and an empathy like myself. Narcissistic is child play to us.

  • @tamarasanders5264
    @tamarasanders5264 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My past and present life make total sense now. I broke my Narc. relationship off three days ago. I can breath. My head is now rebalanced. I am a Super Empath and very proud of it. Love and Light too you❤

  • @berivera1964
    @berivera1964 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Definitely had this experience, over and over again.

  • @gi_sho_nuff
    @gi_sho_nuff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Soooo gooood! I have been experiencing a coworker who is a constant grieving soul
    Everything bad happens to him. He's constantly starting me down from across the room while we work. And we work with elderly people so the general vibe is positive and empathetic so it's right up my alley! But I've noticed that my constant uplifting attitude has made him dislike me for some reason. Possibly because he can't believe that I can come in on a Monday and be as happy as I appear or whatever it is he has decided to "Gray rock" ME! I'm taking it in stride but I enjoy recognizing it and smiling right back into his resentful face. And givingvmy clients the awesome positive energy they need!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @gi_sho_nuff The light and love in you disturbs the demons in him. Be the light and love anyway! 💕

  • @cmskitties
    @cmskitties 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    thanks Tamie, love the vid, so spot on. I found the best way to slay a narc is to go no contact and live an epic life

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ohfoshobro4723 Exactly! And you're most welcome! Thanks for watching!! 💕

  • @3dholliday
    @3dholliday 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tysm, I was feeling a little bad about cutting out a couple gfs who started rumors about me that were so outlandish and dumb. It was actually slander but losing friends that you have had for 50 years hurts.

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @3dholliday It does hurt, for sure. You know what hurts more? Staying "friends" with people you've long outgrown. Staying "friends" with people who carry envy and jeleousy toward you while pretending to be your friend. Staying "friends" with people who withold and feel entitled. 💕

  • @DOLOROSA292
    @DOLOROSA292 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I found you when i was betrayed by them. The universe knew that i needed you. You gave me a step to ascend again, even higher. Thank you for existing.

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @DOLOROSA292 You're so welcome, Love! I'm happy to know my videos have been helpful!! 💕

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tamiemjoyce I agree!

  • @JackNance22
    @JackNance22 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sometimes I can't believe how hard you hit the nail on the head, Tamie. Another masterpiece of a video, thank you.

  • @Greenwitch_Garden
    @Greenwitch_Garden 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is me. ❤ I used to take it personally, but then I started healing and realizing I just bring out who people really are. Thank you

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Greenwitch_Garden That's a great way to look at it... and completely accurate, in my view! 💕

  • @LFN7
    @LFN7 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is by far the most brilliant summery ever! Thank you!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @LFN7 You're welcome! Thanks for tuning in!! 😊

  • @anitakern1216
    @anitakern1216 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Spot on

  • @CatherineOshea-kc9sp
    @CatherineOshea-kc9sp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes I have had this experience but couldn’t understand it. To have someone dislike you just by your presence …it makes so much sense now thank you

  • @helenwashington6212
    @helenwashington6212 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This happens to me a lot and they seem to go out of the way to pick a fight with me .

  • @Cellia836
    @Cellia836 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sounds a lot like me. I always reflect the truth right back at people who lie constantly and you think they can play games with me. I always end up being harshly rejected for it.. at first that use to bother me. Up until now I have been realizing that is a reverse compliment that they are giving me.

  • @numa333
    @numa333 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for giving it a name. Currently in an extremely high conflict divorce with the mother of all narcs meeting a man who spent 15 years healing from his shit to break generational curses for his child. Thank you.

  • @chandac3839
    @chandac3839 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Omg! You are describing me to a T! Can't stand liars, the truth is always always the way to go.

  • @natajitrcindhuchao898
    @natajitrcindhuchao898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is very empowering and supportive for super empaths. Thank you. 🙏🌸

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @natajitrcindhuchao898 You're welcome! Thanks for tuning in!! 😉

    • @natajitrcindhuchao898
      @natajitrcindhuchao898 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are inspiring, thank you for your channel. 🤍🌼

  • @harlawood9811
    @harlawood9811 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I truly believe I was born a super empath. One of my Brothers was a pathological lier and I can always see the truth. I tell people God tells me things and he does through the truth, as it always comes out one way or another. Although this last boyfriend took me a while to see thru him as he was a covert narcissist. I didn’t even know they existed. I dumped him and I’m glad I did and didn’t waist anymore time! So thank you for these videos! They are helpful! ❤

  • @christyzierenberg1969
    @christyzierenberg1969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    WOW! You described me to a T but I never knew there was a name for it, I just go about my day and just deal with the narcissist as it comes. It took me a little bit to understand myself and the narcissist that I deal with on a daily basis but after I figured it out I can easily call "BULLSHIT" on their crap and put them in their place. What I think is wired is why was I attracted to my narcissist husband in the first place? I guess we are a match because I'm the only one that doesn't put up with his crap. Sometimes I wonder why I'm still here for him and don't move on. I ask God for his decrement all the time. I Sometimes think others who don't understand think that I'm bold and to outspoken and maybe look at me as a control freak but they have no idea what I deal with or how my narcissist husband is able to pull the wool over their eyes to make me look like the bad guy. Thank you for helping me put a finger and a name to what type of personality I have and eventhough I know I'm not a heartless blunt person ,I now know why I am the way I am to call people that cross me out! Thanks again!❤

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @christyzierenberg1969 You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 💕

  • @etaokha4164
    @etaokha4164 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've been through abuse and abandonment from my narc mother but I never went around abuse people or using people.

  • @arianasha
    @arianasha 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    SPOT ON !
    Thank you so much Tamie..

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @arianaasha You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 😊

  • @gloriae1621
    @gloriae1621 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Need to share..I live next to a narcissistic neighbor. I'm 100% a super empath. At first, I tried to be supportive based on all the "hardship" she told me about her life. Well... After years of listening and her trying to manipulate me. She did give it a good try. I decided to disengage. Hello rage 😂I put up a fence. Oh no, more rage😂😂 I totally shut her out. Although there are times I want to go there. I just pretend that she doesn't exist. It's killing her! Eventually, this no contact and shutting her out and her family. Yes, she has her family involved, too, and thank God the neighbors don't talk to her due to her erratic behavior. Eventually, there will be peace.I hope❤

  • @AarnessMusic
    @AarnessMusic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I did not realize I was a super empath until I found myself fighting to survive a war with a narcissist. I'm on the other side now

  • @The.Essential.Coaching
    @The.Essential.Coaching 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    On top of being intelligent, this woman is so beautiful ! I love your hair colour 😍

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's very kind. Thank you! 💕

  • @stevesanders8523
    @stevesanders8523 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I knew I was somewhat empathetic but didn’t know I would be considered a super empathetic.

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I love being called a super empath, makes me feel powerful, even if it was used against me by those who brought me into this world.

    • @stevesanders8523
      @stevesanders8523 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m sorry bumblebee. It must be hard on you. Keep recovering. You can do this….

    • @bumblebee_ms
      @bumblebee_ms 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stevesanders8523 Thank you for the encouragement. Have a nice day.

  • @bacmeb
    @bacmeb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This resonated deeply with me as someone who has been a truth teller my entire life and done the work of healing from narcissistic parents. Thanks for your content, it's nice to feel seen.

  • @stevesanders8523
    @stevesanders8523 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looking back, I can now see that when I started putting my foot down and not giving into her, she withheld intimacy in the beginning. Then she started becoming passive-aggressive with her comments.

  • @LaDonnaShielded-kc7zm
    @LaDonnaShielded-kc7zm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Tamie! You are always super supportive and it's appreciated ❣️ Donna

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey, Donna! You're most welcome, Love! Thanks for watching!! 💕

  • @littlemule1
    @littlemule1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen! Great timing, Godsend of a video reinforcing what I’m dealing with right now. How absolutely validating. If a super empath needs the declaration of who they are, this is the video!❤ Listening to this cements the truth!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @littlemule! Glad you liked it! Thanks for watching!!

  • @sunlightprism
    @sunlightprism 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is my story. I'm very grateful for your work, thanks for doing what you do, Tamie.

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @sunlightprism You're welcome! Thanks for tuning in!! 🙂

  • @CheriBice
    @CheriBice หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been in this narcissist relationship for almost 22 years trying to heal myself and your videos have taught me a great deal noy only of the narcissist but more importantly ME. Thank-you. Finding my power again even though the narcissist has controlled everything money character everyday living everything ! Again thank you for helping giving all of our power back!

  • @jennw6809
    @jennw6809 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well you've just explained what's happened with nearly every therapist I've had. I'm like, only halfway there but still make a perfect projection screen for others' shit. I guess I'm still just at regular empath level. Thanks for laying out where I'm trying to go.

  • @Carol-lynnMulcahy
    @Carol-lynnMulcahy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It now understand more why they told their friends that "this one's different " when we first started dating.
    Im seeing the light of the truth that's in front of me

  • @mreous333
    @mreous333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The Projection Controlling Syndrome (my own name for the emotions and actions that characterize narcissists use of projection to control others) is a mind twist for those who don’t have any education on the behavioral/mental/emotional complex of narcissism or even about controlling behavior. It’s even more mind boggling when you stand by someone and help them deal with a narcissist who has targeted them only to later have the target do the same to you that the narcissist did to them and be just a clueless and irresponsible of what they are doing.
    I have a landlord/housemate/friend who, in the first year I lived here, had signs of PTSD or being self-absorbed, and in a few normal situations showed she was emotionally impulsive and reactive without thinking rationally and choosing her response. The second year I was here, in 2020 during COVID, we had a middle-aged woman who was a Malignant Narcissist as a tenant who targeted the landlord. She had to repeatedly be talked to over leaving cigarettes on the ground in the backyard, even when given a can to dispose them. Instead of switching to vaping, or just disposing of them properly, she became very defiant. She eventually had to smoke on the street. Her insecurity, emotional instability and impulsivity, gaslighting, blame-shifting, and emotional drama was toxic and extremely over the top. We had to document everything and the landlord had to resort to installing cameras, increasing rules, hiring a lawyer and using only text/email as contact which the tenant harassed her on a daily basis about a lawsuit over a law statute about utilities that she could not comprehend or do math on. We first found out that we could not use some footage against her to get her out of the house because she was not notified of the camera. She lost a job and refused to work, started drinking heavily, and when she moved out at the on New Year’s Eve win 2020, I removed 10 empty bottles of vodka from her room. Throughout this endeavor, my landlord would often panic, struggle to think rationally and not react impulsively and could not figure out why the tenant was doing what she was doing for nearly a year. Having studied psychology and controlling behavior on my own for 30 years, I knew what she was doing, but did research and was able to identify her behavior as extremely narcissistic.
    A few years pass and we had some tenants being confused about all the rules and who felt targeted and harassed by the landlord. Talking to both sides separately, now I don’t think I was being told the whole story, but I noticed a trend of things changing. I did not see anything irrational or alarming. I did, however, witness and experience the landlord being more controlling, talk down to people and be condescending from time to time.
    Last year, everything changed. She gave me a petty/double standard rule and as a functional adult I ignored it. I suspect now that it triggered trauma. Notes started to appear around the house and text messages were constantly sent over “rules’ we did not know existed. Even with two other tenants I knew they were targeted at me. Her behavior was very petty, self-absorbed, and obsessive compulsive. She hid measuring cups because I kept leaving one in a drainer, while the metal rack they were stored on, some pots on the rack, and some hanging baskets in the kitchen had large amounts of cat hair all over in plain sight. When I ended communication with her last fall (I was working two night/graveyard jobs and too tired and uninterested in her drama to confront her) I audibly witnessed her starting to target another tenant who later confirmed she was out of control. He had to talk to her and she started to be ‘nice’.
    She targeted me again. I caught her trying to spy on me using a camera she installed in the kitchen without notifying anyone. I heard her from my room in the living room say my name one early morning in a way I knew she was watching me on security footage. I talked with the other tenants in front of the camera the next day who I asked to identify the equipment on the shelf behind them and tell me when and how they were notified about it being installed. They hadn’t been notified. I also mentioned several other things she had been doing. The next morning I heard the landlord in the living room being shocked and confused about what she was watching and she had one of the tenants go out the garage to find out what was going on.
    That weekend while I was trying to sleep for work she dramatically resorted to name calling, insults, and blame-shifting about my complaints, saying I was the reason for everything. Verifying my suspicions that she had targeted me for nine months. Her behavior was demonstrating to me that she was equating me with the past toxic tenant while she herself was the very dramatic drama queen that she has repeatedly stated she has been tired of having in the house, since other female tenants have also caused issues. No sense of self-reflection.
    She has been making things or actions that normal people dismiss as trivial or insignificant into excuses to be frustrated or angry, deliberately uncooperative, childishly retalitory, and stubborn. I can hear a lot from my room and being the loudest person in the house all this time, I have heard her for a year going through the house on a daily basis chronically fault-finding and often heard her express emotions of frustration and anger. No matter how many rules we follow it’s never enough.
    She kept interrogating and harassing me about normal usages of doors. She resorted to autolocking the door knob to the back door to a private backyard when I kept leaving the house and not locking the deadbolt during the day in a safe and quiet neighborhood while grown adults were home. Also tried to convince me that someone could “walk through the door’ if we don’t lock the doors at all times. I have lived in the area for 50 years and I am a true crime fan. The likelihood of that happening during the day while adults are home in an area where murder rates are very low is next to zero.
    Recently, I had a talk with her and the whole conversation was exactly as described in videos. I knew what was occurring. She resorted to gaslighting, trying to convince me that she told us about the camera and that it was not working when I talked to the tenants. After the hell we went through in the past over cameras installing the camera was unnecessary and not telling us crossed a boundary she knew not to cross. The fact that she obsessive-compulsively targeted me when I am the only tenant in 5.5 years who has cleaned house, deep cleaned and consistently taken out the garbage/recycle, and she used to hold me in very high regard and my behavior has not changed demonstrates how she has lost focus on being a competent landlord or a kind friend.
    She has also made the excuse that she has difficulty differentiating her job as a property manager and being a landlord at home - an admission of the need for counseling. The fact is that she has unresolved trauma from the past tenant and instead of seeking counseling, reading books, or learning from TH-cam on better emotional control or emotional intelligence, she has resorted to using controlling behavior and operant conditioning to ‘manage’ the house and keep male tenants ‘in line’ to compensate for her ineptitude to manage people properly.
    I have had my reasons for not moving out, but am in a position that I can finally bail. Like in all situations, I have learned and become psychologically stronger. You also learn that if you talk to others about a situation like this that they have no idea how to help, but they quickly say “Get out of there!” I already know what I need to do.

  • @sarahsara.k4914
    @sarahsara.k4914 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just came across your channel and loved your content...as a matter of fact I destroyed the narcissist fragile ego just a few days ago

  • @CynthiaSchoenbauer
    @CynthiaSchoenbauer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like the idea of interdependent. It shows each person working independently for their own goals and with their own talents for what is good for them INSIDE of good relationships that we need. Independence requires good relationships. It leans into them to develop and follow one's own will.

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @CynthiaSchoenbauer Exactly! 💕

  • @agnieszkaszczepaniak2583
    @agnieszkaszczepaniak2583 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks. it's the perfect time of my life to hear it. I have never ever thought about myself as a super empath - but currently, after your explanation, I understand why so many things happened to me in the past

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @agnieszkaszczepaniak2583 You're welcome, Love! I hope it helped!! 💕

  • @wyt-Emma
    @wyt-Emma 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do love your teaching, Tamie. Yes, I am clear with who I am after being played fool by NPD!

  • @kathleenrosado6949
    @kathleenrosado6949 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Tamie for validating my feelings!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @kathleenrosado6949 You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 💕

  • @deebaskumardass4829
    @deebaskumardass4829 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for your support ❤

  • @johndrayton8960
    @johndrayton8960 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤😢You have to go through the shit, and survive...

  • @opalaminah9646
    @opalaminah9646 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All me …..and why the narcissist, I have went no contact with can’t stand me yet won’t leave me alone. Praying 🙏🏽 for him to just go on with his life. I will NEVER GO BACK WITH HIM EVER 🎉

  • @MD-op9dg
    @MD-op9dg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I needed this video. Thank you, so very much.

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @MD-op9dg You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 😉

  • @iantimings4802
    @iantimings4802 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    All this resonates, thanks again for affirming.
    I like the colour repetition in the background, I think it creates an uncomplicated and simple but strong effect.
    I hope you and yours have a great weekend 🖖

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @iantimings4802 Thanks for the positive feedback! I hope you enjoy your weekend too!! 😊

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh I know this. I'm the truth teller and the covert narcissist can't handle it. I can relate to all of it.

  • @WarrioroftheAges
    @WarrioroftheAges 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Our love is so pure and real it seems our purpose is often to heal family’s who can’t ever love us in a genuine way. Only the strongest amongst us are super empaths!
    Some of us call this the Heyoka. The SACRED CLOWN. Was born into this planet to be a mirror for others for so long. Once I became an empowered Empath it went into overtime.
    Thank you for speaking on this.!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Interesting term! Thank you for sharing!

  • @hadielshabazz3738
    @hadielshabazz3738 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    While I just got into a war with narcissist its painful countering with love and truth it's so effective, narcissist ate ruthless and venomous though

  • @moondancer-js7pu
    @moondancer-js7pu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen to that!
    Thank you soul sista 💕

  • @franciscote9292
    @franciscote9292 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    heroes and villains

  • @MariaNI-yf1bz
    @MariaNI-yf1bz 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is so true. I have battled a couple of female narcissistists in the educationsystem who tried to save their ego on the back of my nephew.

  • @FreeeeeeeDom
    @FreeeeeeeDom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That was a profound enlightening video 💖 Thank you

  • @musabalakolo8761
    @musabalakolo8761 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very thorough and coincide video.

  • @linanndlima7599
    @linanndlima7599 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Needed to hear this message. Thank you.

  • @charliepatterson9321
    @charliepatterson9321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I personally do not identify as a super empath . Whilst i do have empathy . I identify as a bike . Im two tired .
    Im too tired of narcissists

    • @terrianneharrison5669
      @terrianneharrison5669 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You'll get there. Give yourself time to heal, forgive yourself for falling for it, and, most of all, recognize your strength and worth.

  • @AUDIS477
    @AUDIS477 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Im a Super Empath and didnt even know it!!! I can walk into a room and im just hated or loved, people in my family have tried to destroy me since I was a child, they have always hated me because I spoke to truth, and I stood up for myself! I am genuinely a good person and I’ve had many friends and I’ve lost in the past because they cannot understand why I am the way that I am, they always say there must be some motive, but for being loving and being giving!! Ive ALWAYS KNOWN MY WORTH and have been hated for it.

  • @jeffreyzeiss1326
    @jeffreyzeiss1326 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was a fascinating and most informative video... many thanks!!!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @jeffreyzeiss1326 You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 🙂

  • @GTMamaBear
    @GTMamaBear 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was wondering why God had me taking a narcissist to court. It makes sense now! I even quit a weekly business group out of principal that I’ve been in for seven years because of this person. Her lies, distortions, gaslighting, power trips, stonewalling, etc. I won’t deal with the lack of accountability nor the flying monkeys she was able to entrain to also come after me. Honesty and integrity and truth are what drives me beyond anything else - hence spending so many years burning through lifetimes of shadows. Past sovereignty, autonomy is my driving force towards the Divine!!!

  • @MoulikaMorou-t5u
    @MoulikaMorou-t5u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Looking good as always Tammie❤

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! 💕

  • @williamharris9417
    @williamharris9417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    well done. well said.

  • @OTTODNIH
    @OTTODNIH 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Once again you are Spot On!! I just came out a yr long engagement with narcissist female .

  • @Goethe2andFro
    @Goethe2andFro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "loyal to the truth" ✨🙌🏾

  • @thiagofoliveira
    @thiagofoliveira 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Totally on point! Best explanation I ever saw regarding this subject.
    From one Super Empath to another. A pleasure and an honor to make your acquaintance.

  • @dadunnaki
    @dadunnaki 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Tamie, is there any linkage between Super Empaths and Sigma Males and Sigma Females? Thanks.

  • @clairelicciardo6198
    @clairelicciardo6198 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fascinating insight! Incredible understanding and ability to express so clearly such craziness!!! ❤🙏

  • @lisaatkinson6276
    @lisaatkinson6276 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video! It’s never too late to become a super empath!

  • @riskydabs3710
    @riskydabs3710 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What Pissed my Ex off the most when she was in the process of giving me the silent treatment blaming and devaluing me I told her it’s funny the same things she told me she didn’t like that her baby daddy would do to her she’s doing to me and she did not like that comment she met me with more rage and belittling and all I could say is exactly my point and from there we haven’t spoke

  • @mikefigures5075
    @mikefigures5075 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hello 😍

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @mikefigures5075 Good morning!

  • @brittanywilliams4174
    @brittanywilliams4174 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The narcissist tried to reach out and hurt me last night 😂big mistake. It did hurt some but I made sure that I won. I calmly destroyed them with their own medicine. I’d say it’s safe to say they regret crossing me again. They won’t forget that run In. 😂❤ I am healing and can enjoy it more now.

  • @stephaniehaney3130
    @stephaniehaney3130 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I most definitely one.. I had a spiritual awakening 10 years ago after multiple traumatic experiences one being separated from my identical twin by a narcissist. I have been self actualizing since. I am no contact with my ex but recently and I was onto all of his manipulations and I called him out on everything which just fueled the fire. He definitely seemed shocked at how on point my intuition is

  • @HerminaBlackstock-b1h
    @HerminaBlackstock-b1h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another powerful message thanks to you my sister.🙏💪💟❤️⭐

  • @dalebeaulieu9590
    @dalebeaulieu9590 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yes

  • @pattimollica8788
    @pattimollica8788 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    totally spot on- thx!

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @pattimollica8788 You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 💕

  • @tweetiebetty
    @tweetiebetty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes this is me.

  • @GreatThemeParkAdventures
    @GreatThemeParkAdventures 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    @TamieMJoyce what are your thoughts concerning Dark Empaths?

    • @sharonjb.y111
      @sharonjb.y111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm, "dark empaths.."; sounds like something a narcissist would invent to deflect from themselves, thus making everyone like them, namely, no one is good, we're all dark, manipulative and nasty.

  • @bettydoughtery3920
    @bettydoughtery3920 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Right on. Thank you.. It all
    resonates.

  • @licigutz5818
    @licigutz5818 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My narcissistic mother in law who is 80 said that I am no joke and she is scared of having anything to do with me. She does not bother me at all stays out of my life 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @donaldcummings6439
    @donaldcummings6439 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good job! I'm looking forward to your next video presentation. Thank you.

  • @MeCynthiaAnn
    @MeCynthiaAnn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you bunches Tamie,
    God bless you.
    From JANESVILLE, WI

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @MeCynthiaAnn You're welcome! Thanks for watching!! 😉

    • @MeCynthiaAnn
      @MeCynthiaAnn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tamiemjoyce huuugs…. always looking forward to the videos.

  • @tabbycat802
    @tabbycat802 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very Good first one I've seen, I Will now follow x x

  • @gtrmarv333
    @gtrmarv333 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yep 💜 🎼 ☕️

  • @aprendiz272
    @aprendiz272 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don't wanna brag. I will just say: "The light came to the darkness but the darkness didn't recognize it because their deeds were shamefull"

    • @brendarewan7441
      @brendarewan7441 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thais sounds like a Bible paraphrase. 🙌🏾

  • @Kallejulmust
    @Kallejulmust หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your very generous gift! ❤️

    • @Kallejulmust
      @Kallejulmust หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tamiemjoyce ....and thank you so much for you teachings. Worth every cent.

    • @Kallejulmust
      @Kallejulmust หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you want to hear a good narc joke (you probably know them all already).
      What do narcissists and flat earthers have in common?
      They both think the universe revolves around them!
      Hilarious. That really brightened my day that one.

  • @adamslosar5574
    @adamslosar5574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    divorce is the correct answer. Then no contact no matter what.

  • @ssingletary3195
    @ssingletary3195 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe I’m an empath on the way to the super upgrade

  • @malin114
    @malin114 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes ❤

  • @Joshdifferent
    @Joshdifferent หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bingo

  • @tammyshinabery8818
    @tammyshinabery8818 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a super empath, however I would love to talk more with you, all you say resonates with me. How can I speak privately with you???

    • @tamiemjoyce
      @tamiemjoyce  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @tammyshinabery8818 You're welcome to purchase a private 1:1 session here: www.tamiemcoaching.com/privatesessions

  • @samuelanderson2503
    @samuelanderson2503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I shall come as A THIEF IN THE NIGHT children GOD IS HERE MORE THAN EVER BEFORE in the beginning the word was with GOD and the word was GOD this knowledge is beyond human mental acquisition and to the leaders of humanity please seek these knowledgeable capacitated individuals for the direction of the human race they will advise innovative procedures Selah