Dear Big Guy, Talking About My Parents When Yours Threw A way Their First Borns Is Wild.

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  • @OwamieEntertainment
    @OwamieEntertainment  ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Expecting me to be quiet when my X is dragging my mom as if his mom is perfect should be illegal. I refuse to be the bigger person in expense of my mental health akebeee

    • @khanya1080
      @khanya1080 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      The fact that l don't see anything wrong with this video means that l am a little toxic as well.🤣🤣🤣🤣
      I am here for the drama.People will continue to drag you because in the black community a women is also shamed for speaking up for herself, we are meant to take it and keep quiet, because if our aunts and grandmother's survived it ,then we are expected to stick it out.Imagine 🚮.

    • @pennelopeN44
      @pennelopeN44 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You have every right to defend your Mom vele .I would too.
      But did Big lie on that voice note that's what people want to know?we still waiting for you to say he lied my mom didn't sleep with her Sister's husband! My stepmother is not my aunt .
      People want to know is your Mom(may she rest in peace ) part of Mihlali's gang or the side chick gang that sleeps with married?also if she is the second wife it does mean she dated a married just like bo Mihlali and them. So Mihlali might marry Leeroy also you never know .I mean your Mom did graduate as well.
      I mean they can't get married out of nowhere right. You have dragged Big Guy's parents even way before be revealed this.
      Your mouth is as dirty as your white tongue!you revealed sensitive information about Big Guy's family even before he revealed this.
      You can spit it out but can't swallow it,shame on you !
      Both of you drag each other we enjoy the entertainment,make fools of yourselves😂

    • @conquer7259
      @conquer7259 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Keep on responding but at what cost? I wish I could delete messages, comments before you see them…you felt somehow when Jecky came for you while you guys had a history, but you did the same for Promise n to ur ex husband as always…we even know thier house plan coz of you, we know how useless n a domkop he is….Owamie I just want the entertainment commentary channel back…I don’t mind opening ur dm’s, comments before you do so I delete all the nonsense (kidding kidding, I’m a health care work working 7-7-that profession you left😫)….but can’t you ask ur cc to filter n delete some things when she’s not busy or during school holidays 🫠

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. ปีที่แล้ว +7

      “akebeee” 😂❤️

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Maybe we don't get it because we were not emotionally involved with BG but from where I'm standing in the broader scheme of things this guy doesn't matter. Don't respond to their videos, we also now know your experience dating him so keep moving. You reacting makes people now want to go watch what they said about you. Your channel moves from being a celebrity blogger to now your kwaal with the Hlongwane's, it's not a good look.

  • @chomieyajeso1702
    @chomieyajeso1702 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    If you can dish it!! You must receive le wena.. 😹😹😹

  • @DeeDee-dy3qy
    @DeeDee-dy3qy ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I was expecting you to sue Big guy as per usual but here you are giving him a warning..in all honesty you started this whole chende

    • @vuyokaziqhagi9474
      @vuyokaziqhagi9474 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      An it’s so painful now when it’s done to her….hypocrite.

    • @DeeDee-dy3qy
      @DeeDee-dy3qy ปีที่แล้ว +18

      At least she sknows now how Big guy felt after all her story times

  • @nosiphoradebe6297
    @nosiphoradebe6297 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ive said it before...I'll say it again......Keep that man and his entire family OUT of your mouth Sis!!!!

  • @sanga8349
    @sanga8349 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    At least Mihlali’s name will rest now bcz kaloku 1+1=👀😂😂😂

    • @sanga8349
      @sanga8349 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@kikilee2203 if you don’t get it, forget about it😂😂😂

    • @pennelopeN44
      @pennelopeN44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sanga8349 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

    • @pennelopeN44
      @pennelopeN44 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kikilee2203 she is from a polygamous marriage.

    • @ncedisakhewu
      @ncedisakhewu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

    • @mpumelelobuthelezi5644
      @mpumelelobuthelezi5644 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tell me about it 😹

  • @dineomoeketsi408
    @dineomoeketsi408 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    This video has just confirmed that you should have never brought Big Guy and his family on the internet, the first time we tried telling you. You are not the 1st woman on the planet to go through a divorce. Even Lovelyti went thru one and we dont know the details yet she is a blogger. The slow learner that you are shting on is the one that helped you start your channel from a cellphone and bought you data and got a faster hardrive and boosted your laptop so you can edit and upload. The computer science graduate. The slow learner that would let you record them even though we could all see that he does like cameras in his face. If you dont see anything wrong with this I completely give up. As much as you made compromises he did as well that is what is called a marriage. Heal Mtakabawo and leave Promise alone.
    Ps: that recording is from a over a year ago and you did not address anything in that recording.

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi ปีที่แล้ว +25

    You can't cry wolf when they talk about your mom being a side chick and having been married by her sister's husband when you've been talking about his family & parents chile. Hypocrisy lala
    You can't now come here & say "we're not our parents mistakes".

    • @bongiwemapoma4630
      @bongiwemapoma4630 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dankie...all I've heard is the horror this guy was and his family. She started with the parents

  • @dibubuworld
    @dibubuworld ปีที่แล้ว +109

    When Owami was coming for her ex's family, the witchcraft, their poorness the hiv was ok and he has to keep quiet. You can still lobe her but differantiate between right and the wrong from her.

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She talks about her experiences with them, things she saw first hand. Not random and fabricated things.

    • @conquer7259
      @conquer7259 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What’s fabricated in bigguy’s words?, you listen n trust Owamie too much.

    • @dibubuworld
      @dibubuworld ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@neosjournal_ you guys are enabling her instead if advising her. She is now calling her ex nasty names, domkop, slow etc. Forgetting that she kipited with him for a long time and even paid her own lobola but now because things did not go according to her she is coming for him. All the years she stayed with him was he not domkop, was he not slow. He started to be all this nasty things after divorce. If you really love her like you claim, she must go seek professional help. How is it that everyone is rubbing her the wrong way. Fellow youtubers, her family.(dad). Not so long ago she was fighting with Lulu also calling her domkop, then Kedi, Jackie, Promise etc the last is endless. At some point you need to check yourself and ask yourself Why? All these people are after her, she us the victim in all this or she is telling her experiences. Few months ago itcwas car guards and securiity guards who shelad her becausevshe was not wearing a make up and weave. That on its own sats a lot about her. If you listened to her attentively she contradicts herself a lot. When she started talking about her dad, she painted a bad picture about him. Today she says her father tried his best to treat them equally. The question is why is he taking him to court for maintenance if the old man did his best for all of them according to her today. It's back and forth. You need to love her enough to see when she is not right.

    • @butternut10111
      @butternut10111 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Then talk abt things u can be accountable for too.. she was there, she witnessed it, it's part of the story.. not I heard that this and that.. tell me how u going to talk abt ur past life and not be able to explain why u couldn't go to "ur room" without passing passing by ur inlaws bed room and not try to explain how the rooms were structured... The HIV was part of her story ... She was the one taking HIV test.. yooh mara how is this the same?? Ur explaining something that happened to u, and the other person, instate of explaining what happened to them where u were involved, they talk abt how ur mother got to become pregnant with u😅😅 like really, where were u there??? See how completely different are the 2 things??

    • @chomieyajeso1702
      @chomieyajeso1702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏👏👏👏👏

  • @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689
    @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Now uyasabisa, There is nothing you haven't told us about BigGuy's family. The one that took you in when you had nowhere to go. Now claiming that you will embarass them. If you had anything on them you would have definitely said it, that's just the person you are. We have been telling you forever stop being judgemental and speaking ill of others as if you are perfect. Funny how your channel was all about dragging others and making money out of it and now you the one being dragged worse on the same channel. Karma seriously works in mysterious ways. I am not laughing just suprised that we find ourselves here.
    Remember when Lerato was crying because of you!!!
    Remember when you were rushing to be the first one to report about Mbali's divorce!!!
    Not even your Venda eye saw this one coming

    • @DeeDee-dy3qy
      @DeeDee-dy3qy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 😊

    • @KantsiMdesignes
      @KantsiMdesignes ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ten past 4!!!!

    • @DearLisa
      @DearLisa ปีที่แล้ว

      😮

    • @dlaminilomalove2023
      @dlaminilomalove2023 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Venda eye is blind, she is a bully thiz lady

    • @gerginasbo5988
      @gerginasbo5988 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True dear this girl has a problem like you can't fight with all people in SouthAfrica.watella nthwena

  • @mphohappiness1736
    @mphohappiness1736 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    When they go low, Owamie becomes a submarine. I would definitely fight harder when my mother is dragged

    • @criticallyspeaking
      @criticallyspeaking ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Submarine😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Submersible chile😂😂she usually says she's too short to become the bigger person

    • @NomNom22398
      @NomNom22398 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      submarine? mhmm SA? no heaven for us unfortunately 🤣

    • @DiamondQuality1
      @DiamondQuality1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      FACTS!! Queen Ninja doesn't take masepa😂😂😂🎉🎉

    • @lebom2456
      @lebom2456 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂 Submarine!!!!!

  • @nokuthulantikazi4437
    @nokuthulantikazi4437 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Moral of the story don't tell your partner every dirt of your past and of your family

    • @Gabby.2490
      @Gabby.2490 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      100% right

    • @sapatrioticcitizen8718
      @sapatrioticcitizen8718 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Pillow-talks backfiring 😂

    • @julietkaunda9600
      @julietkaunda9600 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      True coz when you fight they will always bring it up and insult you with it

    • @pamellayantolo3797
      @pamellayantolo3797 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Learn that a hard way 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

    • @molebohengmaphepha80
      @molebohengmaphepha80 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sapatrioticcitizen8718 🤣🤣🤣

  • @bronnamp
    @bronnamp ปีที่แล้ว +36

    People need to stop telling people how to deal with her history with her ex, we all deal differently. Some heal better by keeping quiet and moving on and others heal by sharing her their story.

    • @luyandaziyanda5354
      @luyandaziyanda5354 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How

    • @KaraboMooki-p8e
      @KaraboMooki-p8e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly plz jus let Owami do what works for her, any problems u have with her sharing this, jus don't watch, n let us learn from her mistakes

  • @Positive_vibes1982
    @Positive_vibes1982 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The moral of the story: when you are fighting with your ex, never drag their parents because you won't like it when they do the same to your parents 🤣🤣🤣

    • @g07t3522
      @g07t3522 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a big mess 😬

    • @g07t3522
      @g07t3522 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a big mess 😬

  • @tulz123
    @tulz123 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    We will never hear the end of this. 😂😂😂

    • @julietkaunda9600
      @julietkaunda9600 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It will drag on forever like the Russia and Ukraine war😂

    • @tulz123
      @tulz123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@julietkaunda9600 looking forward to the next video in that case. 🤪🤪

  • @shongwekhanyisile03
    @shongwekhanyisile03 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Ever heard the saying "sometimes silence is the best answer". As much as you both say you've moved on, it's pretty clear there's still a lot of unresolved issues.
    You've clarified a lot that was said about you which is fair & justifiable but I think you dont have to retaliate everytime something is being said about you.
    My 2 cents is "Never wrestle with pigs, you'
    ll get muddy & the pigs will love it".
    I pray you find healing & close this chapter because this is just toxic nje.

    • @jay02021
      @jay02021 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m here for the drama.

    • @starcaron8282
      @starcaron8282 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      If silence Is what works for you good for you, but it doesn't work for Owamie allow her to be herself

    • @zamanguninxumalo6014
      @zamanguninxumalo6014 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@starcaron8282 but the talking doesn't work for her at this point. she is dragging herself to the pits. it's so sad.

    • @khanyisilemkhonta7804
      @khanyisilemkhonta7804 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's better to be silent if you don't have a platform ai mine vele I support her

    • @shongwekhanyisile03
      @shongwekhanyisile03 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@zamanguninxumalo6014 Couldn't agree with you more hence my comment above. I hope oneday she wakes up and realizes that something's are just not worth her time and energy. Love and light to her 💗

  • @blessingnyathi1532
    @blessingnyathi1532 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    😂😂u call him stupid now but truth be told u would still be married to him had he not cheated.😂😂

    • @yangankenkana5034
      @yangankenkana5034 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But that doesn't mean you do no knw that you married you sister owam loved that guy but cheated on her bcz he's being love, he didn't see divorce coming

  • @Claire-yt6xx
    @Claire-yt6xx ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I've come to the conclusion that Owamie is extremely narcissistic. She also comes accross as being bitter. Perhaps having such a big platform on TH-cam has caused moghel to become self involved and self indulgent because phew.....she loves to throw punches but whenever they are thrown her way it turns into a hour video with justifications and explanations for HER behaviour. I have never heard her claim her parts in anything. It's always what the other person or persons have done. She can talk about whatever but when the shoe is on the other foot she runs to the courts. My sister you must be able to eat what you dish out to others. And I mean that sincerely. It's enough now hayi ke.
    Furthermore....you did not debunk or refute or PROVE...what he said to be incorrect...the other thing that's making me wonder now is the way you've been explaining to us, how your father treats YOUR MOTHER'S children.....hmmmmm. One can only wonder. Also, the fact that you actually took the other girl to court....for saying LESS damning things about you that your ex has done....and you only issue a WARNING to him.....I would've done the same as it pertains to what big guy has said about you.
    As for "I don't have to explain myself to anyone...."....BUT YET.....You're STEADY on here explaining yourself. And the one time it's something you might not be able to refute...now you choose peace???? And now you're saying your father treated you fairly with all your other siblings....but PREVIOUSLY you stated your dad did not care about you and your mother's children......even in her death. So which is it because now I'm confused hle.
    But I digress.....

    • @charlottehanyane3443
      @charlottehanyane3443 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So would be quiet when your parents were dragged? Dont lie. She did the right thing.
      She said that her father treated them the same. Which ear were you listening with? He treated them all badly.
      Your point is your point no matter how worped it is.

    • @nkhensanenthane3862
      @nkhensanenthane3862 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@@charlottehanyane3443u r so funny, the hypocrisy is real. It's the fact that u enjoyed story times of a man and his family for the longest time. The man speaks for 1 minute there is an hour of the most useless video that doesn't even deny anything because the truth is the truth. Insulting a man for filth does not mean he lied. She brought the parents here, not him.

    • @Ameerah07
      @Ameerah07 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Aker I called her out when she made that soweto video than deleted the video.
      Her ninjas made her think she's some sort of Celebrity. Now she was talking about big guy D n sex toys were suggested. If big guy replied with pushy smells. Then she's gonna cry wolf😅😅😅ai this girl wenu tires me

    • @Claire-yt6xx
      @Claire-yt6xx ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ameerah07 No definitely. We are getting tired of the BS now. She needs to learn humility

    • @sanga8349
      @sanga8349 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck finding a summary for this essay 😂😂😂

  • @malebs8332
    @malebs8332 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Owamie you should have ran the audio faster. 🤦 Did you really have to put us through that torture though?😢

  • @kaymab011
    @kaymab011 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    But I still didn't hear owamie say "no my mom was not a cleaner in the house and no my step mom is not my mothers sister" 😒

    • @chomieyajeso1702
      @chomieyajeso1702 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @pennelopeN44
      @pennelopeN44 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly 🤣🤣

    • @MoratuwaSesothong
      @MoratuwaSesothong ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Neh 😂😂😂😂😂 ka voice ya Mac G

    • @cebisilemabaso8445
      @cebisilemabaso8445 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i love queen ninja but i wanted to know if they were really sisters. Now that its out there

    • @ncedisakhewu
      @ncedisakhewu ปีที่แล้ว

      📍

  • @mpumelelobuthelezi5644
    @mpumelelobuthelezi5644 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Niyafana nina 🥴

    • @proudlysa774
      @proudlysa774 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢🤞🏼

    • @juliamaloka70
      @juliamaloka70 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hence they were married, i believe they were made for each other, even shhhhhhmoney doesnt make a difference in Queen Ninja, this is who she is, same level with BG

  • @nosihlekabhungane
    @nosihlekabhungane ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Big guy gives me Andile Mpisane vibes 🧍🏾😭😭😭😭

    • @mpumieh2696
      @mpumieh2696 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol... u slowly 🐌 yo . U Mr

    • @Noko_Masholoane
      @Noko_Masholoane ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hai wena😂😂

    • @gloriamtunani7085
      @gloriamtunani7085 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How he became a teacher is another questionable situation😭🤣🤣🤣

    • @butternut10111
      @butternut10111 ปีที่แล้ว

      The broke version Neh..

    • @Chauke_Ntshovelo
      @Chauke_Ntshovelo ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@butternut10111😂😂😂

  • @thandekamdlovu5212
    @thandekamdlovu5212 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    But you started this thing of bringing and dragging the guy and his family here now ziyakhala on a loud speaker

  • @KHAY28
    @KHAY28 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Divorce/breakups are messy shame. Two people who once did this life thing together and "loved" each other... are here today😢 makes me sad
    soul ties are deeper than we think

    • @gloria08322
      @gloria08322 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I honestly think this is why God hates divorce. He knows what it does to people. Owamie will never be the same Shem!

    • @KHAY28
      @KHAY28 ปีที่แล้ว

      @gloriantuli7607 Word. That's why he hates s*x before marriage also. It truly does take away something from each partner when they separate.
      The old men was just trying to protect us but ke 😪 humans

    • @tumelomothoa2860
      @tumelomothoa2860 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sad indeed

  • @thabanglebjane6310
    @thabanglebjane6310 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is sad, bt still you the one who started this over sharing abt his life n his family , now that he is doing the same you wanna dictate what, how n when he should share.

  • @nonhlanhlambhele466
    @nonhlanhlambhele466 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Owamie once said big guy passed his degree with flying colours jikijiki he is slow ....yemama 😮

    • @JessicaMSports
      @JessicaMSports ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Owamie lies a lot.

    • @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689
      @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JessicaMSports 🤣🤣Yey Kwin Ninja never lies, don't you know. 😂😂

    • @SAHotspot101321
      @SAHotspot101321 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There is someone who is book smart and not smart in life things. I think big guy is book smart

    • @Anonymous-td9iv
      @Anonymous-td9iv ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She said he’s book smart but not street smart

    • @tumelomothoa2860
      @tumelomothoa2860 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

  • @NeneMo5
    @NeneMo5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I pray healing to you and your ex husband.

  • @vuyokaziqhagi9474
    @vuyokaziqhagi9474 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    So u both jst don’t want to move on?????

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yoh yazini😭

    • @xolisilezungu1564
      @xolisilezungu1564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eish coz both of them ba wrong for dragging imndeni yabo

  • @continuedgrowth8554
    @continuedgrowth8554 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    u ARE a thief Owamie !!!u stole my heart shem 😊 never have I ever loved someone on these TH-cam streets like this. I relate to you so much. Keep being true to you Sisi, you will attract your true tribe in this space❤. Stay bless Queen 🥷🏽

    • @chloebadass9526
      @chloebadass9526 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love her so much and I don’t care what eeeeeerbady say.

    • @hlurilemaluleke5355
      @hlurilemaluleke5355 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chloebadass9526 LOL ERHG

  • @veronicalizekamemani8673
    @veronicalizekamemani8673 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    like the fact that you were cool atleast. But now do not ever ever respond to these thing Owamie. Keep quite because they know that you will respond hence they keep provoking you. Silence is golden mama. You do not need to explain yourself to your Ninjas because they know you. Focus on building your brand and make money.

  • @matanato01
    @matanato01 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You both need to move on,we shouldn’t know any of this,but we will listen and watch because we like Sgaxas🤣🤣.But shem,this is low,from the both of you.I wish you would take a page out of Beyonce’s book and not waste your time addressing every single thing said about you,people will always talk but you know your truth and that’s all that should matter.

    • @mphamokubayi5204
      @mphamokubayi5204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂I’m also just her for the sgaxa but otherwise owami needs to stop addressing each and everything. She’s giving these people too much airtime

    • @matanato01
      @matanato01 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣 free entertainment sana

  • @EutopianNewsnetwork
    @EutopianNewsnetwork ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aaaybo cc you've been pressing the buttons all along and he has been quiet. He is now probably owning his crap. Please stop Owami, I beg you, breathe in and out.

  • @tulz123
    @tulz123 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    BigGuy never said you had a bad relationship with your siblings or did I miss something? 😏

    • @LadyDide
      @LadyDide ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ma doto doto says that's y all family doesn't like owamie n her siblings

    • @tulz123
      @tulz123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LadyDide thank you for clarifying. Missed that on Ma dot dot’s video. 😂

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LadyDide🤣

    • @Anonymous-td9iv
      @Anonymous-td9iv ปีที่แล้ว

      True. She didn’t address the actual allegations

    • @joanpheto5538
      @joanpheto5538 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what I thought… the whole video is just ranting and deflection..

  • @tremainexichavo60
    @tremainexichavo60 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Kanti why didn’t you sue Big guy for the abortion thing and only sue Lynn who relayed the message as if it’s the truth?

    • @butternut10111
      @butternut10111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Myb Couse she is the publisher.. I don't know thou

    • @gloriamtunani7085
      @gloriamtunani7085 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don’t need a law degree to understand the concept of Defamation of Character and what it entails💀

    • @gloriamtunani7085
      @gloriamtunani7085 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@butternut10111 spot on💯

    • @tremainexichavo60
      @tremainexichavo60 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gloriamtunani7085 I hear you but what i wanna know is why is she letting big guy get away with tarnishing her name and only punish Lynn?

    • @samo379
      @samo379 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why waisting her time, knowing Big has no income. The only thing she can do to him, is to get him arrested

  • @xolelwathandokazimantungo6457
    @xolelwathandokazimantungo6457 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Marriage ain't supposed to end like this kodwa. Being divorced doesn't mean become enemies.

  • @nondumisomhlongo
    @nondumisomhlongo ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I can imagine how sad this is for you, especially since your mom is late😢. Maybe you guys should be careful when dragging each other not to involve other people, especially parents.

  • @rebotilemogadime4169
    @rebotilemogadime4169 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have not watched the video and told myself that I won't watch any videos Owamie posts about Big guy. I wish someone can assist Big guy to open his own TH-cam channel so that he can give his side of the story as well so that both sides are heard by whoever wants to hear it. Somethings are just not for the streets and this is just it. I love ypur content but this one is not it sis.

  • @Nomsazf3zx
    @Nomsazf3zx ปีที่แล้ว +23

    😂😂 you are such a liar Owamie you trying to cover up that your mom was a home wrecker ,how did Big know that such information?were you not married?

  • @dineomogosi7
    @dineomogosi7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Who gave you this good home training that you kept telling us so much about? The very mother that definitely became a side chick to another woman's husband. So the only difference between your mother and Mihlali is that the Mary Jane in your father's life allowed your mother to be taken in as a second wife darling. You see throwing stones while living in a glass house is dangerous? Judgement is always bad for humans.

    • @nokuthulantikazi4437
      @nokuthulantikazi4437 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True

    • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
      @Elizabeth-vu1tb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So because Im a product of rape. I have no right to speak against it?

    • @sibahlesgwane
      @sibahlesgwane ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Judge her for her action bethuna… she is not responsible for what her mother did. She has lived by her values and you can’t pin her on that…

    • @tshegoeulendambadulula7447
      @tshegoeulendambadulula7447 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haiibo... So that's what you managed to gather from this entire video? Haiii no ka tlala ka wena saan, o starring.

    • @tshegoeulendambadulula7447
      @tshegoeulendambadulula7447 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sibahlesgwane these rumours are not even confirmed but she's already taking them and running with them as fact. The dangers of ignorance🚮.

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yazi I love you Owamie, I honestly do... however this back and forth must end can it be you please who puts the stop to it, please it's getting deeper and deeper and others people's lives are being innocently and unintentionally dragged ...i.e. your mom, your step mom, Big Guys siblings, your siblings shwele mntane nkosi end it please...you know madodot is going to respond and many others are going to have a field day, tswa daar, leave them tu
    I'm not suggesting that you must let people walk all over you but these are deep family secrets from both sides stay away because to us it's just gossip but to those mentioned are being affected

  • @nokuthularadebe8739
    @nokuthularadebe8739 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Two women in the house! Did I not die 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Abo_TheSouthAfricanBarb
    @Abo_TheSouthAfricanBarb ปีที่แล้ว +22

    So O is a product of adultery?! No wonder you act the way you do. You are PROJECTING baby. Heal baby, heal.

  • @madeinafrique2849
    @madeinafrique2849 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is not good for my mental health, I wish y’all would stop .

    • @MashLi19
      @MashLi19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The best comment on this comment section.

  • @MsSwanlake
    @MsSwanlake ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're Cancerian so I don't doubt that you are an empath, very loving and nurturing naturally. This season is for Cancerians to finally find clarity, close out cycles, learn and practice self love and move on with life.
    Keep your energies and vibrations high, these people do this to try distract and disturb you from your life's purpose and what is coming, but little do they know that all this is helping you close out circles and leave all hangups behind so you can receive even bigger gifts.
    Rest, rest, rest, lots of water and nourish your body and soul, don't fight it, the spirit knows what the body needs.
    Strength, love and light to you❤💛💛💚

  • @simelenihlongwane8242
    @simelenihlongwane8242 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yhoo guys, I pray I never be this bitter 😢😢😢

  • @mbt9820mpp
    @mbt9820mpp ปีที่แล้ว +58

    One question to Owamie: Have you gone to therapy after the divorce?

    • @EvelynSTYN
      @EvelynSTYN ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Clearly not thats why she is so bitter! She thinks people who cheer her on here love her while they actually truly really hate her! If this was their friend would they let them do this? Absolutely NOT

    • @kabuzaneo417
      @kabuzaneo417 ปีที่แล้ว

      She didn't. I'm glad Jesus Son left her ass

    • @mphonsango1522
      @mphonsango1522 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's beside the point. No one will stand and watch someone drive a malicious narrative about their mother. Especially when they are late. If Big guy can dish it then he should take it. He started all this. Owamie has every right to retaliate, whichever way as well.

    • @mandiejackson
      @mandiejackson ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@EvelynSTYNwhy are you here watching a “bitter woman’s.”video?

    • @qinisekandwandwa2878
      @qinisekandwandwa2878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One more question, has big guy gone for therapy after the divorce? The way he keeps popping up unprovoked says otherwise.

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Owamie those are not facts, it depends on the type of marriage. Stop lying.

  • @lebom2456
    @lebom2456 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 you speaking Tswana, giving sound advice 👌🏽

  • @nondumisomhlongo
    @nondumisomhlongo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But how did Big Guy find out about such a deep family dynamic? Yoh pillow talk iyasishaya yaz 🤦🏽‍♀️. Well that’s if he heard it from Owamie.

  • @triston9618
    @triston9618 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yooh 😢😢😢this guy, why why why? I really hate man who talk too much, i really don't see the need for this haibo.

  • @vuyokaziqhagi9474
    @vuyokaziqhagi9474 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Is your stepmom ur mothers sister that u did not clarify….is he lying about that???

  • @nomcebobuthelezi944
    @nomcebobuthelezi944 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not me not noticing I'm watching on owamie entertainment until I saw comments 😂

  • @sibon6729
    @sibon6729 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Riveting stuff. Am rather confused that it’s not Big Guy and his parents that you are not suing. I would assume if you did, they would be exposed in court and you would have a great chance of clearing your name and getting the truth out. Maybe there are more videos that I need to watch. Either way, am entertained.

    • @starcaron8282
      @starcaron8282 ปีที่แล้ว

      They don't have anything to their names, she would be wasting her money by taking them to court. It's not a surprise it's being smart

  • @nomsantsoane3984
    @nomsantsoane3984 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Iyoh but owamie in this situation you are wrong shem .aowa please ask your close ones about this situation. Your behaviour is not good

  • @mathelesenyeho7811
    @mathelesenyeho7811 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This guy dated a gossiper and should have known his shandis will be public when things go south! I hope you both heal

    • @konwabaxuba9747
      @konwabaxuba9747 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But he is no different 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Is he not the one who started it!

    • @butternut10111
      @butternut10111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hawu moguy they were married, way b4 she become a gossiper.. the guy started it.. so what do we call him??😂

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Bee-dp3stNo! She did

    • @maloasevilakazi3853
      @maloasevilakazi3853 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@tendanipelaelo6293 she did shame!!

  • @bigbrownbabe
    @bigbrownbabe ปีที่แล้ว +34

    So your mom was a Mihlali before getting married ? Im beginning to understand that obsession with M ...

    • @Nomsazf3zx
      @Nomsazf3zx ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was worse than Mihlali because they say she was a cleaner I feel bad for the first wife

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Nomsazf3zxSo you know she was a cleaner?

  • @dakaloramabulana6551
    @dakaloramabulana6551 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Not Owamie coming for Big guys parents, Bigger guy and Bigger girl😭😭😂😂😂

    • @lydiamokhethi7587
      @lydiamokhethi7587 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @palesaneo3817
      @palesaneo3817 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sanga8349
      @sanga8349 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not Bigger guy and Bigger girl!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

    • @philasibonge.mkhize
      @philasibonge.mkhize ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭 I'm gonna smack you

  • @sasaskitchen2435
    @sasaskitchen2435 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m really shook
    How can he say things like that Bathong 😭

  • @mphonsango1522
    @mphonsango1522 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    'It was like 2 women staying in the house' 😂😂😂

  • @simangelezulu9241
    @simangelezulu9241 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You lobolad yourself for the same guy you call dom today, who is really dom ?

  • @TeachersCornerwithMissMilton
    @TeachersCornerwithMissMilton ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Honestly well said ninja ,one should not judge a person based on their parents but their individual actions .

  • @butternut10111
    @butternut10111 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    And also, we have come alooooongggg way to this peaceful person u are.. I can sense from how ur talking.. it's not with grief just relief of imagine if u were still there, dealing with this and his family.... such dumbness.. yoh Owamie, God has favoured you soon much.
    I have experienced that kind of relief in my past that when I heard what is happening.. I literally thanked God and cried tears for the love that God showed me and favoured me and took me out of that relationship kicking and screaming.. and wow, how greatful I was and I see it in u and so thankful and glad that we made it to the other side 🎉🎉❤

  • @khanyikay3611
    @khanyikay3611 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yabo nje if you continue with this parents argument with Big Guy id see that you yourself also don’t respect your late mom so why should he. Of course if you respond he’s gonna drag. Let your mom rest! Choose your battles and this one honey, it ain’t it. Of course you’ve been dishing it out to him, he’s doing the sam now so take the bitter pill and keep it moving. But if you can’t, keep this up and down going on, make views and money out of your own late mom?! All in the name of “I’m not a bigger person”. You need tough love sisi at times. Let this one go and let your mom Rest In Peace. She didn’t sign up to be on the internet, You did.

  • @mammsytshidd6483
    @mammsytshidd6483 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Was he really a teacher? Coz he can't even make a sentence. Modzimo 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @mmathemak7078
    @mmathemak7078 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was supposed to be a private VN to Big Guy after drinking 5 Long Islands in private with your loyal home girl Ninja 😭😭😭😭 not us!!!We still love you thou will laugh about this later❤❤❤❤

  • @KeituForever
    @KeituForever ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We should start calling him little guy.

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Owamie stop giving Promise advise. Let her exercise her choice. You are also unfair.

  • @globalmediaentertainment6557
    @globalmediaentertainment6557 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Atleast mihlali will rest ,now we know and pls respond to promise saying you are the product of infidelity I want to see something 😂😂😂😂

  • @lifetings4304
    @lifetings4304 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your star sign is Cancer♋... It's your traits/attributes to be super kind, caring and very emotional internally (although you try to show a strong/tough external persona).❤️

  • @kgomotsokhwinana
    @kgomotsokhwinana ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Owamie for president 😂😂😂wait a minute 😂🔥🔥🔥

  • @nombulelombambo4828
    @nombulelombambo4828 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Favourite by default 😫😫😫😫 why am I feeling like I'm in a submarine 😫

  • @joanpheto5538
    @joanpheto5538 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Owami you talked a lot about his family therefore you should expect the same from him…this is a messy divorce and you chose violence first..

  • @starcaron8282
    @starcaron8282 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    we are here for you ninja ,i for one know what it feels like dealing with a pathological liar it creates a lot of trauma and its hurtful uri how does the person who you loved become soo vile ? those who say you are bitter have not walked a mile in your shoes us who know what it feels like understand and support you in fighting for yourself and we love you.

  • @malvapudding8793
    @malvapudding8793 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    cme across Owamie's ex saying Owamie is a 'wake up,make up and go, without bathing',yoh these guys are really bashing each other

  • @Grow_with_Paballo
    @Grow_with_Paballo ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how you speak Sesotho/Setswana ❤

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here yoh😍

  • @khanyisacitwa4932
    @khanyisacitwa4932 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All narcissists are like this Owamie I’m glad you are able to stand up for yourself and you know this narc fool what exactly what he is

  • @Bellah226
    @Bellah226 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ohh so you are a product of cheating, no wonder you hate it so much. Sorry girl just heal and move and treat ppl better. The same way you giving your mom grace pls gv others grace.

  • @onthegrindwiththabitha
    @onthegrindwiththabitha ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not me not realising that the owami entertainment is baaaaack

  • @zinhlemthembu1067
    @zinhlemthembu1067 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The more I listen the more she doesnt make sense I have never seen such pain, misery, hatred, desperation, bitterness,evilness 😮😮😮😮am actually lost for words.

  • @tatsohrams
    @tatsohrams ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He probably told u a lie abt his siblings 😅😂😂

    • @sanga8349
      @sanga8349 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm ปีที่แล้ว

      Right 😂😂😂 man are something else truly

    • @tatsohrams
      @tatsohrams ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Vv-fl2rm 😂😂😂😂😂😆

    • @DelisileNgema
      @DelisileNgema ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sanga8349😂😂😂

  • @pennelopeN44
    @pennelopeN44 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Owamie, Miss Fear Fokol, The blogger they blog about!
    The one that NEVER LIES😂 one thing about you I know you will defend yourself right, so how is that in an one hour video you forgot to mention that Big Guy lied in this voice note ?
    You dragged his family and forgot to call him a liar regarding this one. Big Guy alleged that Your mom was a Home wrecker sweetheart not only that she slept with her own sister's husband how disgusting! If that is true.
    This can't be true right ? Big guy is obviously lying right Owamie? but how can you forget to call him a liar since you hate it when someone lies on your name or is it true that your Mom was allegedly a cleaner sleeping with her Sister's husband?
    Madam ,The blogger they blog about before dragging Big Guy's family I think the first thing you were suppose to address is that shibooboo!

    • @vuyokaziqhagi9474
      @vuyokaziqhagi9474 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She did not even want to touch if that is true or not..

    • @marciamohale6720
      @marciamohale6720 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nje!!!!! The knower of everything. The expert of relationships.

    • @tshegoeulendambadulula7447
      @tshegoeulendambadulula7447 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you had been a day 1 ninja, you wouldn't be talking smack like this.

    • @queenm2723
      @queenm2723 ปีที่แล้ว

      But, miss... she did say she doesn't know what happened between her parents. Your blatant ignorance shows that you are a nunju who's just determined to hate.

    • @ginakuhlmann211
      @ginakuhlmann211 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wonder who you are or who sent you, you are so deeply personal... what did Owamie do to you, because Wow.

  • @tatsohrams
    @tatsohrams ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is a slow learner
    He will realise in years that the gal is using him😂😂😂😂

    • @manneilengmatla
      @manneilengmatla ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Slow leaner with degree and what yr ninja have ??

    • @tatsohrams
      @tatsohrams ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manneilengmatla she have more money 💴 😂

    • @manneilengmatla
      @manneilengmatla ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tatsohrams are u sure?

    • @tatsohrams
      @tatsohrams ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manneilengmatla yes

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Favorite by default" 🙈🙈🙈🙈

  • @pearlmchunu2824
    @pearlmchunu2824 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yoh this guy Mara, why is he speaking about your parent's business like this. Men are meant to protect yini Lena tjo l'm really sorry sis

  • @nthabelengkubeka5073
    @nthabelengkubeka5073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If anything, I feel like the woman that should be questioned is the first wife. But asikho lapho.
    Where do we get the full audio ka big guy? Cause I haven’t heard where he spoke about you and your halfsiblings.

  • @Sukoluhle88
    @Sukoluhle88 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I see some people saying you shouldn't have spoken about this, but who would keep quiet if they dragging their parents, if family is your weak point then it's okay because most of us families are our weak points unlike other humans

  • @patriciamthethwa2375
    @patriciamthethwa2375 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "He is not normal"......Owamieeeeeeeee!!!!!!!😂😂😂

  • @noxlove2151
    @noxlove2151 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Talk about fucking around and finding out 😭😭😭

  • @AFRICAN-TALES.3447
    @AFRICAN-TALES.3447 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    seriously this Man is a teacher🤔 poor kids

  • @m.letseku78
    @m.letseku78 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We know we react differently when something triggers us, some keep quite and it work for them and others vent it out and it works for them and what works for the other might not work for the other. So other people advices Owamie to keep quite and ignores? Is keeping quiet gonna work for her? Sad

  • @fululuruli1477
    @fululuruli1477 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing because I thought you are a bad person. It is important to listen to both side of the story

  • @kaysongo6785
    @kaysongo6785 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have so much love for you but I wish you can stop talking about this man, we have heard your peace now put it to rest yooo. You have been talking about him and his family for a long time now he speaks about yours it's a no go no mama we love watching you but please stop you have done enough now😢

  • @nompumelolo
    @nompumelolo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is embarrassing, on both sides yoh

  • @butternut10111
    @butternut10111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yooooh guys.. Kanti kwenzakalani in the TH-camville?? Yeyeniii!
    Anyway.. mina I'm hearing very well wat ur saying... Tell ur story.. where u were involved not my parent's story.. but I low key want to hear how ex father in law lost his job Couse in me come out this laughter that I can't justify and didn't expect.. like u know when ur in a taxi and someone is talking and they get off the taxi and leave u hanging😮😢😅😂😂? WOW I laughed Couse my imagination took me to places that were driven by ur laughter and I can't reach it.. I just have to hear it Cyrus 😂😂.. how did he lose it Owamie bathong???

  • @vulrym
    @vulrym ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yoh, I am triggered 😢. Being married to a pathological liar who will do and say anything to shame you about things that are not even true. I ask myself how did I even end up here. I know and feel you queen. Big guy has stooped so low, shame on him, sies🤮

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And the sad part is, because he sounds so soft or "sweet", no one really believes.nor tries to imagine what you go through or have been through. Emotional abuse at its worst

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eish, sorry Mama 😢

  • @keaobakamoraloge944
    @keaobakamoraloge944 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dead. "Did you hear how slow he speaks? Mara nna guys I tried" 😂😂😂.
    As I was listening to the voice note, I thought to myself gore, hai mara Owami mo ne o bumpile blind. Mara we forgive you 😂😂😂

    • @nokwazishezi7580
      @nokwazishezi7580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yoooo Owamie is heartless 💔💔💔

    • @maloasevilakazi3853
      @maloasevilakazi3853 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@nokwazishezi7580 a coward will go for a God given imperfections. Nothing to laugh about here. We grew up with slow people, mahweleya you name them . Only fools will find humour in this because they are living far from reality or they pretend not to know about these things in the name of supporting Owami. How stupid my God.

    • @sihleqengqeleka7125
      @sihleqengqeleka7125 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yet she paid lobola for him, as slow as he is... Interesting!

  • @thando_tlng
    @thando_tlng ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy birthday ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉OWAMIII I LOVE YOU ❤❤❤

  • @zukhanyefunani4973
    @zukhanyefunani4973 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please tell us how the father lost his Job I'm curious

    • @nondumisomhlongo
      @nondumisomhlongo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol no Zuki maan. They should stop this maan.

    • @msvee1320
      @msvee1320 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂🤦‍♀️

  • @vuyosunduzwayo2016
    @vuyosunduzwayo2016 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pls put this mr big situation behind,we miss the happy bubbly owami

  • @Rea_Malatse
    @Rea_Malatse ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You see what pillow talks do
    😅.

  • @portiatlou8348
    @portiatlou8348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eix this is really sad like I don't know what to say love and hugs to you Owamie