I'm gonna call BS on her saying that her husband neglected her. She got bored a d instead of talking to her husband and/or asking for a divorce she cheated.
I don't condone cheating in any shape or form. Saying that, man or woman, if your ignore your spouse long enough you can't be surprised when they find someone else. I actually feel bad for everyone involved in this story.
part of marriage is talk each other, lack of sex (from the man side) is synthom of something deeper and hurtfull to be discussed togheter, this woman is simply a like a dog.
I agree that neglect as well as infidelity (but not with same scope) is hurtful and to be avoided at all costs. neglecting then cheating is unforgivable. cheating because you're deeply neglected and in spite of repeated attempts to communicate emergency to adress problem is more understandable but not excusable though. cheating is never a solution. if you are to destroy your marriage at least do it cleanly and honestly, break and don't cheat. once single again go do what you want, but not before. cheating will destroy the marriage anyway
her husband is too nice i would of sent the photos to her company showing her sleeping around with a client and during work hours as soon as the divorce was finalized and then she would have to find a new job and place to live.
I strongly believe in the vows acknowledged at the alter. However, everyone seems to only mention 2 of them: 1) "For better, for worse..." 2) "Forsaking all others..." There is a 3rd which carries just as much weight as the first 2 which the husband clearly violated: (1 Cor 7:3, 5): "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband... Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control". I'm NOT giving the wife a pass for what she did but, in this case the husband was at fault as well & should not have gone Scorched Earth 🌎 on her. Both of them exhibited and executed poor communication skills.
clearly the reason for renouncing custody is that the scandal at work did not leak out, getting the deal closed with a relationship is a conflict of interest. I'm sorry about o.p. clearly she deserved a better husband, clearly he wanted a nurturing woman, I wouldn't be surprised that the relationship with Beth already existed before he discovered the cheating
This marriage was doomed no matter what. Both the husband and wife are too self absorbed for any other outcome. Heads up, I bet the nanny won’t last either.
I think communication would have made it easier. It's better to talk things out than cursing inwardly. The son in the story was the collateral damage, I would say.
actions are consequences this 304, instead of communicating her distress to her husband and, if left abandoned, trying an amicable divorce, chose to cheat. not only betraying her neglective husband but destroying her family. thinking lies can last forever is delusional.
A true story of France in 2010. A man stoped having sexual relations with his wife She did not take a lover but went to tribunal. Guess what the judge decided : the husband was condemned to make love to his wife at least once a week. Sex makes part of matrimonial duty
Guys, it’s a real jungle out there and the work itself and the work environment can be exhausting and soul crushing but if you are committed to your spouse and your marriage then you can’t retreat from and surrender the field of battle to the forces of chaos that are everywhere. You must remain strong and vigilant yet tender and loving. The stakes are too high.
Correct me if I’m wrong. I listened to this in the subway and could have just not heard. But I do not recall her attempting to have a discussion with her husband before crossing the line.
I hate when a station uses a lieing title to bait and hook you into listening to a story so they can make money. Where in this story did their son spat in her face and said he hated her?
You should have went straight back to your boss and told him about the inappropriate way he was acting and to give him to someone else. If the boss won't do that then quit because you deserve to be treated like a professional. And it didn't seem like you were putting up much of a fight. Just in your mind.
The whole explanation is BS. According to her math she was 40 and they were married for 7 years. They started a casual relationship that got serious and they married 2 years later. This means she was 31 when they met. She had been riding the CC for at least 13 years. She got bored and longed for the thrill of new relationships instead of the security of one long relationship. She missed the CC and got back on it while she still could. She wanted to have her cake and eat it to.
AND OF COURSE ALWAYS BLAME THE HUSBAND. RIGHT?? OH I AM THE VICTIM HERE, WHY IS HE SO CRUEL.?? WELL, IF SHE HAND;T OPEN HER LEGS TO ANOTHER MAN THEY WILL BE TOGETHER. HER HUSBAND WAS WORKING HARD FOR HER AND HIS SON AND SHE DIDN'T APPRECIATE IT. HYPOCRITE.
this woman and her child are the real victims,her husband the one who ignored her because he really up to on the side,no man acts like that, a strong suspect that he alreadj🎉y had things on the side things to hide.that Nanny was already staying at their house.that spells out a whole new angle of infidelity.and that Jay was nothing more than a damn predator praying on Lonesome married women. according to the story he never even offered a sense of permanent commitment.I've been around and to my Everlasting shame I have been with married women or women with boyfriends. It Takes a Thief to know a thief.the man in the story are the criminals and are disgusting.!😂
I'm sorrbut she got what she deserved , yes her husband should have given her the attention she needed but she should've made it clearer that if didn't improve what could hate their relationship. Yet Woman always take the shit option, if your not happy be honest and leave . An affair is never the option it destroys families including when a man does it as well . They always regret it after but not when they are getting screwed 😢
The husband is a jerk for totally ignoring his wife. There is no job that requires 100% of the husband's time and energy. He is a selfish moron. He chose his son over his wife. He had time to check up on his wife , but no time to show love to her. A tru3e jerk. He had NOT always been faithful. He substituted his work for his wife. Then he used his son to blackmail his wife. A true selfish jerk. He jsut wanted to get rid of his wife and shack up with the nanny all along.
The hubby was clearly a POS, but there is no justification for cheating. She should have sought a divorce early on, but she didn't. She had to pay the piper, and his bill was painful.
The problems caused by the husband led to the unforgivable behavior of the wife. Cheating can never be justified, but the husband is also to blame here. There is no logical explanation for his neglect of his wife for a long time, for whatever reason. Of course, it cannot be compared to the betrayal of his wife, but he is still guilty.
Guys, it’s a real jungle out there and the work itself and the work environment can be exhausting and soul crushing but if you are committed to your spouse and your marriage then you can’t retreat from and surrender the field of battle to the forces of chaos that are everywhere. You must remain strong and vigilant yet tender and loving. The stakes are too high.
I'm gonna call BS on her saying that her husband neglected her. She got bored a d instead of talking to her husband and/or asking for a divorce she cheated.
That's the price you pay for infidelity....... always count the Cost before It's Lost.
Corporate 304 gets caught😂
Awww......Jay was such a nice guy.....screwing a married woman and breaking up a nice family A real dreamboat....hahahahaha
lol 😂
The question that no one ever ask………”What is the purpose of being faithful when you are totally ignoring the one you are being faithful to?”
You asking what's the point if you "feel" like you are not a priority?
excellent observation graysoldier
You take a vow to God and each other.....better or worse......
I don't condone cheating in any shape or form. Saying that, man or woman, if your ignore your spouse long enough you can't be surprised when they find someone else. I actually feel bad for everyone involved in this story.
part of marriage is talk each other, lack of sex (from the man side) is synthom of something deeper and hurtfull to be discussed togheter, this woman is simply a like a dog.
@@pam8352 that goes both ways. Like I said, man or woman.
Than talk, go get counseling, stop being a 304! Get a divorce don't cheat!
I agree that neglect as well as infidelity (but not with same scope) is hurtful and to be avoided at all costs. neglecting then cheating is unforgivable. cheating because you're deeply neglected and in spite of repeated attempts to communicate emergency to adress problem is more understandable but not excusable though. cheating is never a solution. if you are to destroy your marriage at least do it cleanly and honestly, break and don't cheat. once single again go do what you want, but not before. cheating will destroy the marriage anyway
He didn't just ignore her. He was banging the nanny. He knew she would eventually stumble and provide cause for a divorce.
her husband is too nice i would of sent the photos to her company showing her sleeping around with a client and during work hours as soon as the divorce was finalized and then she would have to find a new job and place to live.
She said that he didn't come home for her like he did for her son. He was working hard for them both.
Another mistake or grave error? Bla!😬😡👎🏻🤮
A little far fetched telling a 5 year old
I strongly believe in the vows acknowledged at the alter. However, everyone seems to only mention 2 of them:
1) "For better, for worse..."
2) "Forsaking all others..."
There is a 3rd which carries just as much weight as the first 2 which the husband clearly violated:
(1 Cor 7:3, 5): "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband... Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control".
I'm NOT giving the wife a pass for what she did but, in this case the husband was at fault as well & should not have gone Scorched Earth 🌎 on her.
Both of them exhibited and executed poor communication skills.
clearly the reason for renouncing custody is that the scandal at work did not leak out, getting the deal closed with a relationship is a conflict of interest. I'm sorry about o.p. clearly she deserved a better husband, clearly he wanted a nurturing woman, I wouldn't be surprised that the relationship with Beth already existed before he discovered the cheating
Total BS men think of sex non stop. Total fiction.
This marriage was doomed no matter what. Both the husband and wife are too self absorbed for any other outcome. Heads up, I bet the nanny won’t last either.
I think communication would have made it easier. It's better to talk things out than cursing inwardly. The son in the story was the collateral damage, I would say.
actions are consequences this 304, instead of communicating her distress to her husband and, if left abandoned, trying an amicable divorce, chose to cheat. not only betraying her neglective husband but destroying her family. thinking lies can last forever is delusional.
So it’s okay for her to be interested or disinterested in their relationship
But when her husband does it
It’s a big problem and justification
The misleading text in thumbnail was unnecessary. Like when the hell did the son spat.
This is the main reason that dog ownership has become so popular ,,more faithful than any woman
A true story of France in 2010. A man stoped having sexual relations with his wife
She did not take a lover but went to tribunal. Guess what the judge decided : the husband was condemned to make love to his wife at least once a week. Sex makes part of matrimonial duty
That's not newsworthy. Call us when a judge makes a WIFE have sex with her husband.
I wonder wonder how many AI servers are dedicated to creating this misogynistic, incel revenge porn
Guys, it’s a real jungle out there and the work itself and the work environment can be exhausting and soul crushing but if you are committed to your spouse and your marriage then you can’t retreat from and surrender the field of battle to the forces of chaos that are everywhere. You must remain strong and vigilant yet tender and loving. The stakes are too high.
Correct me if I’m wrong. I listened to this in the subway and could have just not heard. But I do not recall her attempting to have a discussion with her husband before crossing the line.
She complained because he worked nights now she mad cause he found someone better 😅
You can't neglect your spouse. If you no longer feel loved divorce. Don't cheat.
THAT WAS NOT A MISTAKE IT WAS A DECISION. A VOLUNTARY DECISION. STOP BEING CYNICAL.
Poor, poor 304…..
Can't do what he did in a family
He goes out every day to earn money, she should be working on maintaining her home.
I hate when a station uses a lieing title to bait and hook you into listening to a story so they can make money.
Where in this story did their son spat in her face and said he hated her?
Life is work. Work is Work. Marriage is the hardest job. Life and work gets in the way of a marriage. But that's life.
Plenty of woman have used children against a father in a divorce. I don't agree with this being done by any parent though.
You should have went straight back to your boss and told him about the inappropriate way he was acting and to give him to someone else. If the boss won't do that then quit because you deserve to be treated like a professional. And it didn't seem like you were putting up much of a fight. Just in your mind.
Seems to me the story about the so called neglect is BS.
You all know that you can always recalibrate your work choices and get another job? No promotion, perks or money is worth everything.
You can tell the story is real by the 10 minutes of justifying why she cheated
The whole explanation is BS. According to her math she was 40 and they were married for 7 years. They started a casual relationship that got serious and they married 2 years later. This means she was 31 when they met. She had been riding the CC for at least 13 years. She got bored and longed for the thrill of new relationships instead of the security of one long relationship. She missed the CC and got back on it while she still could. She wanted to have her cake and eat it to.
Hahaha karma so sweet ain't it lol dont worry he wont remember u for long lol nice karma so beautiful 😂
AND OF COURSE ALWAYS BLAME THE HUSBAND. RIGHT?? OH I AM THE VICTIM HERE, WHY IS HE SO CRUEL.?? WELL, IF SHE HAND;T OPEN HER LEGS TO ANOTHER MAN THEY WILL BE TOGETHER. HER HUSBAND WAS WORKING HARD FOR HER AND HIS SON AND SHE DIDN'T APPRECIATE IT. HYPOCRITE.
this woman and her child are the real victims,her husband the one who ignored her because he really up to on the side,no man acts like that, a strong suspect that he alreadj🎉y had things on the side things to hide.that Nanny was already staying at their house.that spells out a whole new angle of infidelity.and that Jay was nothing more than a damn predator praying on Lonesome married women. according to the story he never even offered a sense of permanent commitment.I've been around and to my Everlasting shame I have been with married women or women with boyfriends. It Takes a Thief to know a thief.the man in the story are the criminals and are disgusting.!😂
@@jesusmartinez1358 In today's world you don't succeed in the corporate culture by working 9 to 5. Highflyers generally work 80 hours a week or more.
Yep! Ignore your wife mate is inviting
someone to jump the fence bruh! ...
No excuse for cheating
but stupid initiating cause ...
I'm sorrbut she got what she deserved , yes her husband should have given her the attention she needed but she should've made it clearer that if didn't improve what could hate their relationship. Yet Woman always take the shit option, if your not happy be honest and leave . An affair is never the option it destroys families including when a man does it as well . They always regret it after but not when they are getting screwed 😢
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
What’s the original reddit post?
The husband is a jerk for totally ignoring his wife. There is no job that requires 100% of the husband's time and energy. He is a selfish moron. He chose his son over his wife. He had time to check up on his wife , but no time to show love to her. A tru3e jerk. He had NOT always been faithful. He substituted his work for his wife. Then he used his son to blackmail his wife. A true selfish jerk. He jsut wanted to get rid of his wife and shack up with the nanny all along.
Blamethemale syndrome, also know as white knight to the rescue.
A woman's pov with a male Ai voice_
*sounds wrong!*
He was cheating too
Excuses, excuses, excuses, zero accountability, total delusion! Typical modern women!
Ten minute ads? Are you kidding me?
The hubby was clearly a POS, but there is no justification for cheating. She should have sought a divorce early on, but she didn't. She had to pay the piper, and his bill was painful.
hell with the blackmail--fight for your son
The problems caused by the husband led to the unforgivable behavior of the wife. Cheating can never be justified, but the husband is also to blame here. There is no logical explanation for his neglect of his wife for a long time, for whatever reason. Of course, it cannot be compared to the betrayal of his wife, but he is still guilty.
Guys, it’s a real jungle out there and the work itself and the work environment can be exhausting and soul crushing but if you are committed to your spouse and your marriage then you can’t retreat from and surrender the field of battle to the forces of chaos that are everywhere. You must remain strong and vigilant yet tender and loving. The stakes are too high.