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- Brad Carr podcast full episode: • Why Males Are Falling ...
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Richard V. Reeves is a British American writer and scholar and a Senior Fellow at the Brookings Institution and director of the Future of the Middle Class Initiative. He is author of Of Boys and Men.
#greatresignation
Why Men Ages 25-34 Are Dropping Out of Work
Im so sick of hearing people talk about men's problems in regards to how they affect women.
yep, fuck the women at this point. They caused this bullshit
Women most affected
Mainstream society caters to women. Theres a Chris rock joke about if a man could get laid in a cardboard box he would.
Agreed, it’s like it’s only significant if it affects women if not no one GAF
It's because women complain the most while men have been living like this forever welcome to a man's world
Working hard used to cover a house, a wife, kids, car, etc. Now 2 jobs won't cover rent!
Not to mention a simple Data Entry job where your responsibilities begin and end with sitting at a desk and typing the things they tell you to now requires a Bachelor's and 3-5 years of experience.
Plus the wife will leave with the kids. 😂
Lack of incentive. If no amount of hard work will result in men getting a GOOD woman to pair up with, then why try. It feels like a rigged game.
Exactly, why pay taxes, build the infrastructure and maintain the economy so that women can have comfortable lives only to look down on us that make it all possible. Men are net tax payers and women are net tax beneficiaries. Their comfortable office jobs are only possible because of hard working men. If they want to treat us like crap then they can look after themselves!
Sadly there IS no game anymore. It was taken away from us so they can reduce population.
There is no incentive. Jobs don't pay anything, nobody wants to train willing able bodied men in a trade because they already want someone older with experience, women want a guy who makes six figures but very few men make that ect. When these jobs pay so low that you can barely afford to eat or pay rent let alone buy a house and take care of a family there is no point.
Lol pathetic, you work hard for only women. Simping has ruined this generation of men.
6' tall guys get several women without even TRYING!
There's no gold medal at the end for working hard.
If your smart with you money you can have a good life. That’s the problem Men don’t want to travel down that bumpy road anymore to reach their goals. They want it just given to them for sitting at home.
So true
Who is looking for a gold medal? If a man needs or wants something why are we trained that we need a company to get that accomplished? Or a degree? Etc-I think people should just get if they need something-
Gold medal? You don't even get a raise of any kind let alone a medal. Just more responsibilities and shittier treatment!!!
@@keithjackson2035no you are ignorant out of touch the problem is is that all these men have seen their brothers fathers and uncles be taking down the strainer by wives or society in general for all their hard work and end up with nothing anyways
America caters to woman and ignore as men. Are these outcomes really surprising?
@Viper 6 ….Are you a “dark person?”
Hahahah yet all leaders are men this dude is dumb
Men are disposable by women and then women are upset because men lose interest in them.
@@Viper-ms9eg on which side of the "and"?
America caters to baby boomers
The great resignation happy to be a part of that👍👍👍👍
Absolutely brotha 💯
I'd still work hard if my effort was rewarded like it used to.
Yeah remember back in the good old days when you work full time and you can actually afford to live those were the good old days I could work full time and rent an appointment now I can work full time and rent a closet in a shitty part of town. Wow what a wonderful country America is 😂😂😂
It's bad enough we've been cannon fodder for drafts and worker ants since the dawn of civilization, we took it in stride because we felt appreciated for it. Though now we're not appreciated or respected in the slightest, it's the opposite. Why in the heck would a man want to contribute to a society/culture that hates him?
People can talk about the cost of living or being treated like crap at work but to be fair, we've endured worse during certain eras. Though the difference now is a hostile culture and very few good women to start families with. We did it for our family, now there's zero incentive.
You’re right in what you’re saying but let’s keep in mind that it’s not just men that get treated like crap at work, women get treated like crap too. This society is rotten, and it’s not just men that are suffering. Honestly there’s no point to working, in this heartless/soulless society, whether you’re a man or a woman.
Agreed.
@@norkar5540pain is inevitable but suffering is optional
Truth is the common man was never really appreciated. There's a reason all the famous paintings are of generals or royalty. You'll never know the names of the men who actually did the fighting or building.
@@norkar5540 _Hey, look! It's an online conversation about men's problems. Let's mention that women also have problems!_
Never fails... 😅🙄
No one on their death bed has ever said that they wish that they had spent more time working
I looked after a lady who was at the end of her life..she said she wished she had not done so much housework...heart breaking.when I said ..but I bet On everyone thought it looked lovely ..she said ,no one noticed.I had been qualified for a long time..but it made me cry when I went home.so,I totally agree..don't flog for nothing.
Richard Reeves finally said it right: men are made redundant both economically and socially. "What are you needed for? Who is relying on you?" People need to be needed. Society hasn't shifted expectations to accommodate men.
This has been a human cataclysm in the making for decades.
Working is slavery. Rich people are complaining because they have no one to walk their dog, mow their lawn, or wipe their butts. I dropped out of the labor force and I have no plans to do myself in. Suicide is caused because of addiction to something and most men that kill themselves is not because of lack of work . Not working is the result of the addiction. Feeling lonely, oh poor me, is just woke. I love being single and not working. The only addiction I have is staying healthy. Quit trying to put people in boxes
Nah. Not no one. Not “no one.” /
Nah. Not Suicide is caused because of addiction to something. Not “Suicide is caused because of addiction to something.” /
How do you pay for food and shelter?
@@mikegkerr I am single, I saved my money and I am retired Navy. I worked enough in my life, dropped out in 2009 at 53. But today working for companies, mostly, is not beneficial. Like running on a treadmill. People who do their own thing, filtering out the Woke noise of the world are better off. They just need confidence in themselves and stay focused. I personally made quite a bit of money since I dropped out. And I only have to get up each day to do what I want.
@Viper 6 well everything is not going to collapse no matter what TH-camr you been listening too. It just feels like that because we aren't being fed free money on steroids.
There's no reason for me personally to sacrifice 5/7 or even 6/7 days of my week for my entire life so that I can watch some pharmacy/beauty store succeed as a company. At that point you're only at the gym for 4-6 hours a week at most, barely doing hobbies, barely talking to people, barely paying attention to opportunities around you. Plus workplace politics are a pain, women start liking you cause you're the only new guy they have seen in years, and we all know what happens when you reject someone at work.
We can automate so much, why the fuck do I NEED to work 40 hours at YOUR company. If I want to take care of my family i want to hunt, plant and grow the food myself, that way I'm actually seeing that my time and effort matters.
Also society tells men there losers for working labor jobs make it make sense..women will literally not even look your way
The real issue here isn’t work the issue here they want more slaves to come work while paying them nothing to enrich them selfs and continue to look down on menn
Work is good for you. Would you rather be poor or make enough money to live well?
@@Brujo2016 well actually, when you invest more into your hobbies you actually can do more and make more. So twitch livestreaming, it's easy to get views if you're established in a niche on youtube, then you have 2-3 different revenue streams there (youtube, twitch, donations). Then with your freetime outside of your "side hustle" You start up second channels and post to instagram which also pays $5 per 1k reel views, (i did a skateboard trick off a curb and it hit 4k views). Thats the Current climate we're in right now. People aren't really interested in dying for a company, people are more interested in what other normal people are doing. livestreamers watch other livestreamers, the community feeds itself. Right now I work 2/7 days a week for 20 hours, I'm a pharmacy Tech (trade school) in manhattan, No food stamps anymore, no cash assistance, just raw budgeting and overcoming obstacles. I have $400 leftover every month from my job alone.
@Viper 6 Growing up there we’re pastors showing a garbage men being made of that if you don’t go to school you’ll end up like that. So when that’s not enough then they keep asking where are the men not to mention your chances of finding a wife is close to 0 if your working minimum wage if not close to 80k. Crazy world we live in when they expect every man to provide and take care of them “oh just go figure it out your a man” your suppose to do this and that blah blah blah
A man without an income becomes depressed and suicidal real quick. This society sucks, because they don't value male employment. I've applied to many jobs, but never get an interview.
Try living like that for 10 years... 😑
No they don’t lmfao working as a wage slave who never owns anything and gives 70% of his money to a slave tax system makes you depressed not being able to go and do what you want any time of the day
I'm 56 i told my boss to shuv his job up his arse
Last year. What's the point in working money is shit
And working travel costs money.
Better off budging of the government in my situation
And I don't care what people think.
Same here, life on welfare is pretty good. Why support a society that hates you.
@@geraldleuven169
I'm entitled to a pension
I was only working for something to do
It wasn't paying any more by time i deducted expenses work related.
That's going backwards.
I've paid my share of taxes so times due to claim some back .
Is better to be a slave at work making someone else rich??
nope
Absolutely not it's a waste of life
You start off there. Then you can buy other people's time and do that same thing yourself.
I don't want to work hard to have a family anymore. Mine was aborted against my will and then I lost thousands and was blamed for everything.
90 percent of women are carbon copies of my ex.
This is probably being done systematically anyway by the elites... Who the women vote for.
Even in this video, you whined about how this is "bad for women". At this point, I no longer care.
Women only care when men aren't buying them things.
Pay us to care
American woman have ruined this country. It's all they CAN DO
Modern western women are absolutely terrible, and the culture does not support keeping families together. They are not worth working to provide for, not worth protecting, not worth caring about.
A good wife and raising a family was the number one motivation for men to work hard in the past. That incentive is gone in the west.
Women suffrage was a mistake.
You know if you want you can pay for a surrogate and have a women birth a baby for you and start your own family!
You just have to be full time dad
I'm just working part time then using the rest of my time to go to the gym or read books on my deck.
Work is dumb workout kids to support
You work part time? How much is your rent?
From day 1 you must save for retirement. Period. All your working years it will grow. Never let a company have you by the balls. If you get layed off or they shut down you will do just fine. Don't be the guy that's broke. The reason we never had kids was because I never trusted any company I worked for. Corporate greed has destroyed this country. I retired at 55. You come first.
You’re incredibly out of touch with what’s going on right now.
He’s saving and investing for himself from day 1. More of us should do this…
so just be a corporate slave anyway? do you expect others to just sell their best years to a greedy company because that’s what you did?
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." Jiddu Krishnamurti
Traditional marriage lowers crime and poverty.
How can you focus with no fault divorce 🤔
Yup, divorce took the steam out of most men, even those who have never married. We all see the stats.
No good jobs why work
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I don't see what is probably the largest single factor mentioned. There are few living wage jobs available for men who have a HS education. Honestly, I'm rather curious as to how the situation for men will improve without this being addressed first.
even with an education.
Wtf... Us 10 million men arent on pain meds. Meds yes not pain meds😂 We have free housing because of are divorced parents and we wont work shitty jobs. Because why would we work hard when we are not needed by women.
I don’t understand how men not working is bad for the economy?
It's simple math really. If men aren't making money then women can't spend it.
@@peopleofearth6250fuck em
The slave owner always needs more workers on the plantation.
It's going to take a lot longer and cost more to get your car fixed house repaired or lawn done without men to do these things expect to see services costing extraordinarily more than they used to because of the lack of men women cannot build roads or skyscrapers or do plumbing or electrical women are not going to build houses or work on your car only men can do that and since there are no more men doing that then how are you going to get your house built your car repaired or your grass cut
@@thehatefull1761 solid point
This is the real reason the financial industry is raising interest rates to force the work ethic back into the lower classes.
not gonna happen, you will see violence before that happens
I feel like I'm somewhat in the middle between old and young at 35. I gotta say it makes way more sense to live a minimalist lifestyle and not work too hard. The only reason I work the job I do is because I have a family. Without that I would really not need much to be fulfilled. I don't need fancy clothes or a fast car. All I would need is to work out, hang out with my friends, and hike. That requires very little money.
its hard to fine meaning
So, make finding meaning your meaning
Easier said than done
Find*
@@danstevens64 Thats the point lol. Find a mountain to climb. Help someone else climb their mountain. All of these create meaning.
Read man’s search for meaning by Victor Frankl
Well, since you’ve been drown in bullshit aphorisms.... I’ll just go ahead and say: I hear ya brother, I’m with ya.
Great content. Keep it up. I have not heard nearly anything on this subject
thank you!
All you need to earned enough to retired in Philippine or other South East Asia.
Cope
I can guarantee their ancestors went through hell and they have nothing to show for it-Most people do not-Money itself is a sham-The identity if the currencies change, the gold currency out the window, thieves in the savings and stock markets- etc- Every one contributed at some point- People are jealous thieves/- the people insanely greedy and people expect things from you.
What is the point and working hard
Great points
glad you enjoyed it
This NILF doesnt do drugs, but he plays a lot of World of Tanks. Ladies, get to work. My welfare depends on it.
The only reason to work is to kiss azz. The job doesn't really care if I die or get cancer the next day outside of work. There's always a replacement. In fact, most jobs have now affected people's personal lives to the point where they hate other humans. Before now, jobs in the good ole days sort of gave men a sense of pride even if they were manual labor. I've had jobs (good and bad pay) where when I got off from work, I did not want to deal with people at all. Not even my own relatives. The only thing that can motivate a man to work is a wife and kids to take care of. Since that has become hard to obtain/maintain, most younger men are just doing the bare minimum to pay for the basic life necessities. I don't know about anyone else, but I've never woke up excited to kiss the boss/manager's azz for employee of the month.
The problem is that the middle class has recognized that men are left without families, today in order to get the essentials for yourself you have to work full time, there is no possibility for a single person to work less, both singles and families are forced to work full time to practice slavery, and that was the intention.
@@borodatborodat6511no def not single men barley have to work part time job with no other bullshit and don’t buy a bunch of dumb shit you’ll be chillin
The reason is government cutting checks. Stop paying people more to sit home then a 9 to 5
Yeah my life is so bad holy shit im fucked
Good for them!!! They are wiser! They will respect themselves more! They do not blindly follow along! They regrade to serve the touch tgat already have! Their ancestors gave… some with their lives… where is theirs?
"Not needed". I think that hit the nail on the head
And? Soyciety practically asked for this
How is this not talked
Its in us men , it kills us inside when you're no longer needed.
That's how cruel it is One day we might all destroy what we used to build
Thats a pretty big call saying we all need to be needed lol. Im 45 years old and have never felt the need to be needed, in fact I actually feel the exact opposite way. The less people relying on me the better. I live for myself, not for leeches.
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And how the F are they surviving?!
Okay off the government churches and parents okay
My dad is an ex pilot and my mom an government worker. I love sleeping in every day
Good for guys.
So, are the women who made this labor study concern there are fewer men to syphon off (monetarily)? I do not understand the concern. Women have decided they can all things men can do and probably better. It takes only one man technically to populate the entire world, and since he is not needed otherwise, once again, I do see the reason for concern. Have a nice day. 🙂 Live long and prosper. 🖖
Yeah you have a college degree and so I do I. But we both are getting someone else even more rich with this degree and only getting hired off of experience. Guy with the glasses sounds like an NPC bot man.
everyone want to be an influencer?
No I don't but neither do I want to be some lazy, self entitled, rich, dickheads slave
Why do you think they are flooding western countries with working age immigrant men? That white genocide conspiracy theory ain't looking so silly now is it?
Women play no role in causing this crisis for men--low-education men are unemployed because the industries that used to gainfully employ them like manufacturing or agriculture have largely become mechanized or off-shored--women didn't take those jobs, they've simply been lost altogether, or low-wage workers in Mexico or China do them. This is a crisis caused by capitalist post-industrialism, not feminism. Women are doing slightly better because they're better at the kind of jobs that are left--service jobs or those that require education. Eventually those jobs will be mechanized too and there will be very few jobs left at all.
As a man, believe me when I tell you, women absolutely play SOME role in the piss poor state of men in this society.
@@miamijules2149 please elaborate
@@miamijules2149not a huge part but some
this is a lie. Majority female educators have been found to grade girls higher than boys for the same work. Universities are openly anti men. Quotas have openly favoured women. Just look at scholarships, way more for women. If you look at sentencing disparities for the same crime men get a higher sentence for the same crime. I'm a software engineer. I went to a conference (I've written books in the field), I got benched from a talk in favour of a woman who had barely graduated and the organisers openly said to my face "she's a woman and it looks better for the conference", I don't waste my time at conferences anymore. I grew up in a poor environment, if I go for training I have to pay more because I'm a white male. I openly stay away from big tech because again you're going to have to work a lot harder to get a promotion. I keep to small companies and have been building my own software business on the side which has now had 6-figure cash flow. A lot of smart male software engineers I know are doing similar things. If you've got half a brain and you're a white male you stay away from the mainstream paths because they openly say they're going to discriminate against you
Women play a huge role in the state of the market period
You know what I noticed right off the fucking bat you guys don't use a d clicker or any audio filtering software so I hear every fucking bit of saliva when you guys talk and it's fucking annoying
As a lesbian no one is saying men are redundant we absolutely need men the issue is that men don’t know how to be men without putting women down in some shape or another everyone wants to feel loved and needed men don’t know how to do that aside from feeling or needing to feel superior based on their gender and not what tangible value they bring to society. (They are so fragile that women merely succeeding to them means they have failed, how about keep going ? Don’t give up ? It’s not about you) There are a small minority of high functioning men who do this I wish they would speak directly to men more and not the Andrew tates of the world who get their ego from sex trafficking women. The world needs men and women to work together men let their ego rule their actions far too much
Society needs to favour men or men will not try because they have been favoring women since the 60s. Noticing lgbt+ budging in too, aight nice perspective.
" Putting women down."
Cis gendered, toxic masculinity, a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle, men are obsolete, we should be able to hate men ... ad infinitum.
Are you serious ??
And why is it that concern can only be shown to men when it benefits women ?
Yeah, "just do more and be better". I've heard that before. The problem is that whenever I ask people why I should do all that when nobody cares or appreciates it all I get is crickets. Or "do it for yourself" or some other contrived bullshit.
I'd rather do nothing and be unappreciated than do everything and still be unappreciated.
@@peopleofearth6250 well honestly it’s funny you mentioned not being appreciated because I find women have this faarrrrrr worst. Whenever a guy does anything significant with his life most people do support him and people IDOLIZE HIME if he does anything amazing think Elon musk or anything athlete. Try to name one women who people respect and idolize unanimously??? I’ll wait…. My point is, there is a track for men if only they knew how much worst it is in the other side they would be embarrassed. Keep going bro you have to if you ever want to have a family do it for them and start now.
@@peopleofearth6250 And what do they do for the betterment of humanity, demand more from men for their benefit ?
Yes I want you
to surrender your rights and your wealth to "empower" me so I can control your life.
Your purpose is to provide for me that way your existence is justified.