Ever since i got (a little lol) better about shutting my mouth, I got to see how they are truly much better at coming up with solutions! I was like: So THIS is what I’ve been missing out on running my mouth?! 😂😅
My running mouth is out of control I talk a lot and I get too excited and men feel it and it turned them off! I need to remind myself to answer with very short answer and let them initiate questions and talk more! 🤦🏻♀️
So good, right? The old school ladies knew how to do this. My grandma in law would explain the problem to her husband like what should we do? That always sent him in action. He's a good man and he loves her ❤️
To prevent your man from taking you for granted or lose interest is keeping you and your man in balance ☯ to captivate him with your femme essence 🌸 to stay connected ~ Beautiful 💙 stay engaged in the moment by leaning back to allow them to fill the space by leaning in ...let him lead. Ask what do you think, listen and agree ...let him problem solve DO not critique or criticise !!! You may do it differently, better, etc but that's challenging or competing with him which shuts him down 💥 KABooM connection over 💣
I'm very much appreciating the rediscovery of my feminine energy after years of having to take care of business. I do have to say though, I have chatted to men on chat sites. Please don't judge me, but most men and particularly the married men are on there because they only get sex with their wife or gf only once a week. They may never physically stray but they think about sex every day and they are now using chat sites to find sexual gratification elsewhere. The pull back, once a week, leaving him wanting more....he will want more and with anyone on the internet chat scene.
Take the compliment Adrienne! First thing 9 thought too ! I totally agree no specs lighter hair nice though maybe streaks would be even better for you if you want the darkness too and better length you're really looking beautiful 😍
When you touched on the topic of "do you notice how much men love music?" YESSS!!! I was with this great man (who I still care for deeply, hence, why I watch your videos) and he took me down his "memory lane" and put some music on. He was tapping the dashboard with his hands and singing softly to me. Then he was pointing out the singers musical attributes. He reminded me of MY DAD. My dad does this...all of this. We both share a passion for music.
This is a great reminder as I find myself feeling anxious and pursuing a man a bit who may possibly be a little unavailable. Stepping back and focusing on myself. Thank you 🙏
Glad you are mentioning the spiritual part Unfortunately the world and society TRY to exclude it but the healthy marriages I know are very aligned “spiritually” not a Bible thumping or going to church couple (all great too) but spiritual is always better than religion That’s when the true living God is involved in the relationship to make it healthy...it’s always about the fruit and bearing it...This is good Adrienne! ❤️
🤣 I was cleaning the toilet tonight before I watched this video and I was thinking loving thoughts of my man as I cleaned it because he’s coming to my home for the first time to help me tidy and organize my home 🤣 Good timing video!! 😉 we will get spiritual on this vision. I’m totally in my femme and receptive and he’s totally being my manly hero. He feels amazing being in my feminine energy because he tells me. Thank you for years of training Adrienne 😘
Adrienne you are a godsend 💖. I love your videos and programs. I have you to thank for my happy marriage. Watching this is a wonderful refresher, I forget sometimes to really listen when he talks. Also I can get into the maintenance mode and I want to go a hundred miles an hour. this causes friction. I need to be more conscious and reconnect to my inner girl. 💖
I just started this video and I already feel so hopeful that it’s going to be a huge help to me and my man. I have been anxious attached lately-nothing like I was when we first got together- because my son is ODD and is putting a wedge between us and it’s making me feel afraid he’ll walk away. I remember it being said in another video about attraction…I need to find a way to be high value when everything around me is chaos ♥️
I love your FEMM programs, such deep stuff in there! I will use the tips from this video, love the kissing tip and the 1.5x a week tip. Still working on how to energetically walk away…it’s so hard!
Not saying what you want and need including sex is the one that destroys a relashionship also keeping him in the state of limbo that he doesnť know what to do with you make him tierd of chasing he will leave you in the dust.just listen to him really care for him and make him notice that you care for him and be honest with him.thank you🌻😊nobody has time for stupid games and anything that you gain by games and manipulation will fade.And one more thing you let the chemistry die the whole relashionship will die.😊
This is what I believe in my heart. The kind of guy who responds to games are probably not the guy that is emotionally/mentally balanced. But the truth is most guys especially players respond really well to this stuff 🤷🏾♀️
We were supposed to get married. We met a wedding organizer, signed up prenup and spent 2 years getting to know each other but last week he confessed to me that he was scared and thought marriage this early woukd be too extreme. I am now devastated. I cant accept it. Two years weve been together, hes always been consistent to me, treated my family and friends right and was overal a very good guy. I never introduced men i dated in the past to my family and friends because i was careful and private with my dating life. But this guy was so perfect and consistent I let my guards down and introduced him to my family and friends. Im so devastated. What did i do wrong? Gosh what can i do to fix this and (im embarrassed to say it) to convince him to go on with the wedding as planned? Im so sad and nervouse right now. Btw Adrianne ive been following you for two years now, you changed me into a feminine woman. Im just so confused with my relationship now. Id appreciate any piece of advice
Hello there! Play it cool. Let him know you are scared too. That loving someone forever is scary but also beautiful. And that together you will as a team endure whatever life brings you. Let him know you’re excited to become a “his last name” and if you have to, you’ll move in with your life and eventually get some other man’s name but that you really like his.
Adrienne. I really liked this video. Thank you. You are so sweet, smart and super feminine. I love to watch you and learn from you. Thank you for what you do to help us. Blessings
I would love to learn this. I really want to have a future to marriage, but just don’t know steps and steps to make it right. So many lessons out there and I don’t know what’s right for me.
I highly recommend Adrienne's programs; learning about feminine energy and how to embody it has totally changed my life! Her programs are incredibly affordable and easily accessible, which is wonderful. Good luck to you on your journey! 💖
Listen to Adrienne! And purchase as many of her programs as you can - FEMM Tools for Dating, 500 Ways to Talk to a Man ebook, New Man Manifesto. I finally feel confident in intimate relationship to stay grounded in who I am, relax into my feminine essence (and body!), and let go of control! So liberating and fun, and ultimately the most loving thing you can do for yourself and your partner or potential partner! Blessings to you.
Hi, love your videos thank you. Can I ask what should you do if you feel angry at your man over a small thing and you find yourself being snappy with him due to this and acting more masculine (even after youve talked aboht it with him)
Perhaps your question is directed to Adrienne, however I had some thought around this. I think when we get snappy over small things it's because there's really something more important beneath it that we are really upset about. And T HAT is what would be helpful for us to communicate
The answer from take back is good. I would add only that people are a reflection of our own inadequacies. If you pick on him, how do you also pick apart yourself? Show him love and acceptance and find those warm things for yourself too. ❤️
Hi adrienne. Im dating a good guy since 1 month ago. im 34 and he’s 36. In spite he’s “young” is very masculine and show up every day, asked me to be his girlfriend, i told him i wanna be married someday. But im not sure if he will be able soon to be my provider. He has a really good carrer but o dont know if he could take me to travel and the kind of life i want. He’s the guy that more effort has made to be with me.
I encourage you understand that people also have potential and might not out of the gate be your dream guy.. You are always free to keep your options open and just date him and continue to quantum date and keep your options open be sure that he’s aware that he’s not the only one. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
Interesting! Adrienne, I have read the opposite advice of submissive women to have MORE sex so as to saturate his desire. I don't know which method works better to improve a relationship? I want it every day! It's also scary to try a different method such as reducing frequency despite my desire. I will try this and let you know!
Hi Adrienne, I tried it by keeping busy. It made him initiate more, but at his frequency, which is less than my own. It's hard to relax from being busy to giving in, but that's a story for another day. I don't think this changed my relationship much but I'll wait it out and give further updates.
What to do with a guy, good bit younger than me and the father of our baby, in a committed relationship; he’s isn’t showing up and responsible as much, but says he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me. Not easy for me.
People are not perfect as you know. But if he loves you and the child, as he says, let him know you need certain things done to uphold that love. That you and the baby love him and need to be a team for the little one. When he is good reward him in special ways.
This is great timely video for me. What do you suggest for dealing with my man, who I see 4X a week. He has a habit of scrolling on his phone when we are sitting together. I end up feeling miffed or make a comment that I guess I should be on my phone too! I would like to find a better way to deal with this than making passive aggressive comments! Thank you for all you teach. I have learned so much from your videos and programs ❤️
Have a boundary in place and discuss it. "I don't want to tell you what to do, yet when you scroll I feel" and "how can we fix this?" Look into "500 Ways" for how to script anything with a man: diamondgirl.me/3JGfcO3
Is my man going to think about me every day and miss me if he’s upset with me or he’s thinking 🤔 about his mental and emotional thoughts about why he ended our relationship
How long do you put on this show to make him wonder if whst you're doing, if you find him funny, if you find him intelligent, if you find him handsome, when you'll give him sex? If it's outta balance can you actually get it back on track? 👀🧐🤔
Well we live together at his moms and we stuck up each others ass... and he’s become lazy with pursuing and me resentful and anxious with me because I feel like I have to pursue him and full him up and I’m so sick of it!
@@Adhara740 Exactly, softly move your energy onto other topics and things you enjoy doing. Be warm when he comes around. Learn more about scripts and feminine energy with my ebook: diamondgirl.me/3JGfcO3
I don’t know why he thinks I’m competing with him I never even tried doing that, on top he tells me I’m uneducated is why I should need him. Anyway, hope this helps me.
That is very interesting to me. My ex husband was January and absolutely obsessed with music. I learned a lot about music from being with him for 20 years. We are good friends now that we have healed from our divorce, we talk about music. Now I’m with a man from March, two years going….and oh my….also like rain man when it comes to music. I think he would choose music over food if he was stranded on an island.
There u go. March men had a passion and if he's women let him have it he will love her for the rest of his life. Yes January and March r passionate people only January man is a bit difficult to live with at times but good hearted. All the best in your relationship
everything u just mentioned, I have tried. None of it worked. He just works and goes for cricket, then home to watch a Hindi movie. I’m not even thought of, he tells me he can’t stand to see my face.
Hey Adrienne, thank you so much for these tools. I'm curious to know something about my guy. We have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We always have so much fun together and I love being around him, the feeling seems mutual. He told me he wants me to be in his life on our date 2 days ago. He kept saying it until I asked what being in his life looks like. He said he wants me to be his girlfriend. I feel like I really do want to be his girlfriend yet we don't have that daily communication which I'm not down for...I mentioned that our communication worries me a bit and he said his days start at 4am and end late, by the time he gets home he is dead tired and that I should then call. I've called once or twice but I feel like that's more masculine energy and like....surely if you want someone to be in your life you need to have the daily communication in addition to the meet ups? Please advise 🙏
Not necessarily, but if you want a man who is more available, it’s not him. He’s into his job and work and men are on one track at a time. When he’s with you, I bet he’s with you 110%. Before you commit have the clarity chat. That means discussing how often you date, call, travel, sex, meet family etc.
I just lost a man as I had the same issue , my man didn’t have time for me on Saturday nights always out with his mates , he seemed to only want me in the week after work yet when at home he would be always sleep early as so tired. So no conversation . Yet when we was together we was great. In the end I told him it was obvious I wasn’t his priority and felt I came 4th in his life. I upset him as i wanted more communication . Without working on it he walked away. It’s sad he couldn’t look at what was wrong and try and work on it .
Dear Adrienne, I saw your video. It is very empowering. However I am currently at the point where we jst started of and its been jst few months only. He started to ask a lil bit of space. I don't know hw to react on this. He is nice guy who does give small genuine efforts in relationship bt also pulls back at times in terms of expressing things too. I need help. Pls is there any solution to this.
adrienne, i ended things with my only 4 months bf because he wasn't doing what i expected but i never gave him the chance to, he has gone away sad thinking he has this issue and can't provide these things to me, i asked him to meet and he wants to on tuesday, how do i tell him i was wrong to put all these expectations on him and not give him space and want to take it from the start again (while employing these methods)?
So if my man doesn't follow through onb opportunities to problem- solve, and Instead says things like "I don't have all the answers ", or "you can just call technical support, they are very helpful".… then I'm thinking I'm dealing with a man who is not in his Masculine energy, right?
Not at all. These ARE his solutions and please m, go with them. He is not Krishna or Jesus Christ. If he solves it, go with it. Say, “ok I’ll do that, thank you.” And if your wiser side has solutions, use your intuition and wisdom. He’s not here to fix your problems for you, but as a team. If he delegates and it works for you, try it or at least ASK so he is in his masculine and fixing mode.
Dear women who are reading this, it is coming from the heart and I hope you will be able to feel the truth in my words. I desire for all us women to have a self worth so strong, there will be no need for these videos anymore, because they are manipulative. Ask yourself how come you tolerate relationships in your life, where you have to put in so much effort to get something back, that is self explanatory in other relationships? Why do you have a need to control everything? I was once like that and watched similar videos to this one, but as I grew more mature, I am able to sit with the pain caused by not being loved properly instead of learning all the tricks and tips on how to get love. From the universal point of perspective, by applying this tips to your own life, the energy you are feeding into is the „I am not worth a natural reciprocal type of attention from the man I like/desire“, so you are basically growing your belief of „I am not enough“ or „who I am naturally without manipulation will never be chosen/loved“. I wish for everyone to heal their specific pain but manipulation is never the answer. Vulnerability on other hand is, and you will save yourself so much time, venting out at the core incompatible partners if you just new your specific needs and then ask if this could be met by this man. And then again, to be self loving enough to end the relationship, where the answer is something less than what you would need it to be. Men are not children.
You didnt understand what she is talking about .She doesnt talk about manipulation,she talks about women leaning more into feminine energy instead of pursuing man and i dont see anything wrong with it.
She's right my friend ... Too much of a good thing is not in balance ... My ex advice to me was play hard to get ... I didn't get it at the moment but I do now ☺️
What if they started a lot but now month goes by and they are perfectly fine not to have sex with you. It's been going on like this for awhile. You've communicated that you want once a week or what's normal and you've done everything it won't change. They try to fix it but it's like that maybe once in two weeks and they're not too bothered by it. You suggest that you just wanna be friends because it feels more companionship or friendship because of the lack of sex (affiction is there. They're touchy and they compliment you but is ok with lack of sex n say it happens in their long-term relationships which is a year long. Ours is a year long as well. They give a lot of excuses like they never orgasim we are both women. That she's always faked it for a connection. She's had over 90 sex partner before me so it's hard to believe that she has a low sex drive or never orgasimed. She got me a beautiful engagement ring and in a process of buying a house for us and wants to get married to me and is generous with money. I don't understand whats going on.. Should I stay should I leave should I see others? She says if I sleep with others she'll lose feelings for me.
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@@user_abcxyzzlmao you must be an uneducated person because the vagina is literally made to stretch like elastic. Also, this is a common, yet oddly judgmental comment that has a hateful tone toward the anatomy and sexual a autonomy women.
Thank you for sharing your entirely subjective advice. Maybe it would fit for the 14 -16 year old, but not for an adult woman. 1, 2, 3 kiss, look in the eye, hold....what a ..??? How much energy do you want us to spend on manipulation? If this tactic comes to you naturally, this is YOU, but in no way is this transferable to an entirely different person. Do you know how much work this is? And not the good type of work, the kind where you get yourself to "act " a certain way, instead of really being in your power. An no," men" do not generally connent though music, people do, and people are different. I love music and connect through this and my bf does not. Again, this is entirely subjective non- advice that I based on manipulation and acting. Do better
Agreed. I got such a gross feeling from this video, I had to turn it off halfway through (and this is from someone who has followed her for years). The "advice" is so manipulative, she makes it sound like her entire relationship is built on manipulation (it may not be). I wish I could un-listen to everything I heard about making the guy feel "unsure" and restricting sex to 1.5 times a week. Fucking crazy.
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Ever since i got (a little lol) better about shutting my mouth, I got to see how they are truly much better at coming up with solutions! I was like: So THIS is what I’ve been missing out on running my mouth?! 😂😅
Yes. I know. I’m with you. 🤐
Girl same boat🤣
My running mouth is out of control I talk a lot and I get too excited and men feel it and it turned them off! I need to remind myself to answer with very short answer and let them initiate questions and talk more! 🤦🏻♀️
So good, right? The old school ladies knew how to do this. My grandma in law would explain the problem to her husband like what should we do? That always sent him in action. He's a good man and he loves her ❤️
Yes sister 😅🎉
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To prevent your man from taking you for granted or lose interest is keeping you and your man in balance ☯ to captivate him with your femme essence 🌸 to stay connected ~ Beautiful 💙
stay engaged in the moment by leaning back to allow them to fill the space by leaning in ...let him lead.
Ask what do you think, listen and agree ...let him problem solve
DO not critique or criticise !!! You may do it differently, better, etc but that's challenging or competing with him which shuts him down 💥 KABooM connection over 💣
@@iamme17449 to relax…?
To rest in your feminine energy takes work & skill development, but it’s nothing like my full-time job 😂😂😂
I'm very much appreciating the rediscovery of my feminine energy after years of having to take care of business. I do have to say though, I have chatted to men on chat sites. Please don't judge me, but most men and particularly the married men are on there because they only get sex with their wife or gf only once a week. They may never physically stray but they think about sex every day and they are now using chat sites to find sexual gratification elsewhere. The pull back, once a week, leaving him wanting more....he will want more and with anyone on the internet chat scene.
Your hair looks so pretty this lighter colour and with the soft waves, it’s so feminine you look like summer goddess ☀️♥️
Thank you so much. But I miss my darker hair.
You're getting prettier year by year dear Adrienne
Thank you so much. I’ve had struggles as of late and facing menopause and mid life is an interesting rebirth in an older body. But this is life. ❤️🙏🏼
Take the compliment Adrienne! First thing 9 thought too ! I totally agree no specs lighter hair nice though maybe streaks would be even better for you if you want the darkness too and better length you're really looking beautiful 😍
I know! I've been watching you blosoming over 4 years ago and I know your struggles! Trust me you're rocking it dear 💜💜💜
Stunning isn't she! ❤
When you touched on the topic of "do you notice how much men love music?" YESSS!!! I was with this great man (who I still care for deeply, hence, why I watch your videos) and he took me down his "memory lane" and put some music on. He was tapping the dashboard with his hands and singing softly to me. Then he was pointing out the singers musical attributes. He reminded me of MY DAD. My dad does this...all of this. We both share a passion for music.
This is a great reminder as I find myself feeling anxious and pursuing a man a bit who may possibly be a little unavailable. Stepping back and focusing on myself. Thank you 🙏
Glad you are mentioning the spiritual part Unfortunately the world and society TRY to exclude it but the healthy marriages I know are very aligned “spiritually” not a Bible thumping or going to church couple (all great too) but spiritual is always better than religion That’s when the true living God is involved in the relationship to make it healthy...it’s always about the fruit and bearing it...This is good Adrienne! ❤️
Adrienne Everheart hearing her itself is soothing
🤣 I was cleaning the toilet tonight before I watched this video and I was thinking loving thoughts of my man as I cleaned it because he’s coming to my home for the first time to help me tidy and organize my home 🤣 Good timing video!! 😉 we will get spiritual on this vision. I’m totally in my femme and receptive and he’s totally being my manly hero. He feels amazing being in my feminine energy because he tells me. Thank you for years of training Adrienne 😘
Just Luv you Lady! God bless you in this way that you help us and touch our lives & relationships. Keep doing what you do! 🥰
Thank you so much. I’m honored to be in your life and help women around the world.
Adrienne you are a godsend 💖. I love your videos and programs. I have you to thank for my happy marriage. Watching this is a wonderful refresher, I forget sometimes to really listen when he talks. Also I can get into the maintenance mode and I want to go a hundred miles an hour. this causes friction. I need to be more conscious and reconnect to my inner girl. 💖
I just started this video and I already feel so hopeful that it’s going to be a huge help to me and my man.
I have been anxious attached lately-nothing like I was when we first got together- because my son is ODD and is putting a wedge between us and it’s making me feel afraid he’ll walk away. I remember it being said in another video about attraction…I need to find a way to be high value when everything around me is chaos ♥️
I love your FEMM programs, such deep stuff in there! I will use the tips from this video, love the kissing tip and the 1.5x a week tip. Still working on how to energetically walk away…it’s so hard!
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Not saying what you want and need including sex is the one that destroys a relashionship also keeping him in the state of limbo that he doesnť know what to do with you make him tierd of chasing he will leave you in the dust.just listen to him really care for him and make him notice that you care for him and be honest with him.thank you🌻😊nobody has time for stupid games and anything that you gain by games and manipulation will fade.And one more thing you let the chemistry die the whole relashionship will die.😊
This is what I believe in my heart. The kind of guy who responds to games are probably not the guy that is emotionally/mentally balanced. But the truth is most guys especially players respond really well to this stuff 🤷🏾♀️
I appreciate these videos. I need to work on that; leaning back and listening more. I am working on creating that busy, engaged life. Thank you,
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I love your energy
Thank you! Happy you are here!
I’m FINALLY reading to purchase a program! I’m so excited to learn more from you and to CHANGE! ❤️
Excited for you. Keep up the good work! 🥰
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Thank you for the support!
I am here to learn to shut my mouth..lol
You explained this on a deeper level 🌷🌷 thank you! 🙏🏼
We were supposed to get married. We met a wedding organizer, signed up prenup and spent 2 years getting to know each other but last week he confessed to me that he was scared and thought marriage this early woukd be too extreme.
I am now devastated. I cant accept it. Two years weve been together, hes always been consistent to me, treated my family and friends right and was overal a very good guy. I never introduced men i dated in the past to my family and friends because i was careful and private with my dating life. But this guy was so perfect and consistent I let my guards down and introduced him to my family and friends.
Im so devastated. What did i do wrong? Gosh what can i do to fix this and (im embarrassed to say it) to convince him to go on with the wedding as planned?
Im so sad and nervouse right now.
Btw Adrianne ive been following you for two years now, you changed me into a feminine woman. Im just so confused with my relationship now. Id appreciate any piece of advice
Hello there! Play it cool. Let him know you are scared too. That loving someone forever is scary but also beautiful. And that together you will as a team endure whatever life brings you. Let him know you’re excited to become a “his last name” and if you have to, you’ll move in with your life and eventually get some other man’s name but that you really like his.
Move on … not in
you’re so kind Adrienne thank you for this ❤
Thank you
Adrienne. I really liked this video. Thank you. You are so sweet, smart and super feminine. I love to watch you and learn from you. Thank you for what you do to help us. Blessings
I would love to learn this. I really want to have a future to marriage, but just don’t know steps and steps to make it right. So many lessons out there and I don’t know what’s right for me.
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I highly recommend Adrienne's programs; learning about feminine energy and how to embody it has totally changed my life! Her programs are incredibly affordable and easily accessible, which is wonderful. Good luck to you on your journey! 💖
Listen to Adrienne! And purchase as many of her programs as you can - FEMM Tools for Dating, 500 Ways to Talk to a Man ebook, New Man Manifesto. I finally feel confident in intimate relationship to stay grounded in who I am, relax into my feminine essence (and body!), and let go of control! So liberating and fun, and ultimately the most loving thing you can do for yourself and your partner or potential partner! Blessings to you.
Needed this thank you!
Love your hair 😍
Nice reminder!
The half part is up to you ;)
Hi, love your videos thank you. Can I ask what should you do if you feel angry at your man over a small thing and you find yourself being snappy with him due to this and acting more masculine (even after youve talked aboht it with him)
Perhaps your question is directed to Adrienne, however I had some thought around this. I think when we get snappy over small things it's because there's really something more important beneath it that we are really upset about. And T HAT is what would be helpful for us to communicate
The answer from take back is good. I would add only that people are a reflection of our own inadequacies. If you pick on him, how do you also pick apart yourself? Show him love and acceptance and find those warm things for yourself too. ❤️
How nice to see you 🌻
Hi adrienne. Im dating a good guy since 1 month ago. im 34 and he’s 36. In spite he’s “young” is very masculine and show up every day, asked me to be his girlfriend, i told him i wanna be married someday. But im not sure if he will be able soon to be my provider. He has a really good carrer but o dont know if he could take me to travel and the kind of life i want. He’s the guy that more effort has made to be with me.
I encourage you understand that people also have potential and might not out of the gate be your dream guy.. You are always free to keep your options open and just date him and continue to quantum date and keep your options open be sure that he’s aware that he’s not the only one. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
36 is not young for a dating man at all.
This was God sent thank-you 🙏 💜 💖 💗 💜
Interesting! Adrienne, I have read the opposite advice of submissive women to have MORE sex so as to saturate his desire. I don't know which method works better to improve a relationship? I want it every day! It's also scary to try a different method such as reducing frequency despite my desire. I will try this and let you know!
Hi Adrienne, I tried it by keeping busy. It made him initiate more, but at his frequency, which is less than my own. It's hard to relax from being busy to giving in, but that's a story for another day. I don't think this changed my relationship much but I'll wait it out and give further updates.
Great info but my an is on the spectrum and none of this is working
What to do with a guy, good bit younger than me and the father of our baby, in a committed relationship; he’s isn’t showing up and responsible as much, but says he loves me and doesn’t want to lose me. Not easy for me.
People are not perfect as you know. But if he loves you and the child, as he says, let him know you need certain things done to uphold that love. That you and the baby love him and need to be a team for the little one. When he is good reward him in special ways.
Yeah, that married man, that keeps him working for me.
I love your necklace!! Where is it from ??
This is great timely video for me. What do you suggest for dealing with my man, who I see 4X a week. He has a habit of scrolling on his phone when we are sitting together. I end up feeling miffed or make a comment that I guess I should be on my phone too! I would like to find a better way to deal with this than making passive aggressive comments! Thank you for all you teach. I have learned so much from your videos and programs ❤️
Have a boundary in place and discuss it. "I don't want to tell you what to do, yet when you scroll I feel" and "how can we fix this?" Look into "500 Ways" for how to script anything with a man: diamondgirl.me/3JGfcO3
Thank you Adrienne. I will do that!
Is my man going to think about me every day and miss me if he’s upset with me or he’s thinking 🤔 about his mental and emotional thoughts about why he ended our relationship
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How long do you put on this show to make him wonder if whst you're doing, if you find him funny, if you find him intelligent, if you find him handsome, when you'll give him sex?
If it's outta balance can you actually get it back on track? 👀🧐🤔
Make sure it’s not a show but your real life. This is the beauty of this work is that feminine energy is authentic and honest.❤️❤️
Exhausting
I love your work
Well we live together at his moms and we stuck up each others ass... and he’s become lazy with pursuing and me resentful and anxious with me because I feel like I have to pursue him and full him up and I’m so sick of it!
Peel your energy off him and get busy with your life. Life is too short to wait around.
@@Adhara740 Exactly, softly move your energy onto other topics and things you enjoy doing. Be warm when he comes around. Learn more about scripts and feminine energy with my ebook: diamondgirl.me/3JGfcO3
What video do you recommend best if you are in separation to reel them back in?
I don’t know why he thinks I’m competing with him I never even tried doing that, on top he tells me I’m uneducated is why I should need him. Anyway, hope this helps me.
Maravilhosa! ❤
I think your husband is from January or March we feel music deep
That is very interesting to me. My ex husband was January and absolutely obsessed with music. I learned a lot about music from being with him for 20 years. We are good friends now that we have healed from our divorce, we talk about music. Now I’m with a man from March, two years going….and oh my….also like rain man when it comes to music. I think he would choose music over food if he was stranded on an island.
There u go. March men had a passion and if he's women let him have it he will love her for the rest of his life. Yes January and March r passionate people only January man is a bit difficult to live with at times but good hearted. All the best in your relationship
Adrienne, I do not know how to order your products.
You are a Goddess 💗
everything u just mentioned, I have tried. None of it worked. He just works and goes for cricket, then home to watch a Hindi movie. I’m not even thought of, he tells me he can’t stand to see my face.
If you’re still with him after he’s treating you like complete shit, you’re the idiot and maybe you like been treated that way
Hey Adrienne, thank you so much for these tools. I'm curious to know something about my guy. We have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We always have so much fun together and I love being around him, the feeling seems mutual. He told me he wants me to be in his life on our date 2 days ago. He kept saying it until I asked what being in his life looks like. He said he wants me to be his girlfriend. I feel like I really do want to be his girlfriend yet we don't have that daily communication which I'm not down for...I mentioned that our communication worries me a bit and he said his days start at 4am and end late, by the time he gets home he is dead tired and that I should then call. I've called once or twice but I feel like that's more masculine energy and like....surely if you want someone to be in your life you need to have the daily communication in addition to the meet ups? Please advise 🙏
Not necessarily, but if you want a man who is more available, it’s not him. He’s into his job and work and men are on one track at a time. When he’s with you, I bet he’s with you 110%. Before you commit have the clarity chat. That means discussing how often you date, call, travel, sex, meet family etc.
I just lost a man as I had the same issue , my man didn’t have time for me on Saturday nights always out with his mates , he seemed to only want me in the week after work yet when at home he would be always sleep early as so tired. So no conversation . Yet when we was together we was great. In the end I told him it was obvious I wasn’t his priority and felt I came 4th in his life. I upset him as i wanted more communication . Without working on it he walked away. It’s sad he couldn’t look at what was wrong and try and work on it .
Dear Adrienne,
I saw your video. It is very empowering. However I am currently at the point where we jst started of and its been jst few months only. He started to ask a lil bit of space. I don't know hw to react on this. He is nice guy who does give small genuine efforts in relationship bt also pulls back at times in terms of expressing things too.
I need help. Pls is there any solution to this.
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I So want this bad....It's going to happen ....💖
I love you and your eyes are tripping me out. Something’s is different
She has had eye surgeries multiple times. She may not be wearing makeup either.
But why?! If i wanna have sex every day .. what is wrong with that?😂 can.t woman have sex more that 1 time/week?
adrienne, i ended things with my only 4 months bf because he wasn't doing what i expected but i never gave him the chance to, he has gone away sad thinking he has this issue and can't provide these things to me, i asked him to meet and he wants to on tuesday, how do i tell him i was wrong to put all these expectations on him and not give him space and want to take it from the start again (while employing these methods)?
You tell him with your energy! Get that fresh start for yourself in the meantime it makes all the difference. It makes him feel free ❤
Thank you 😊
And what do u do when its a online assosiation n u havent met yet
You got to meet or it’s not real. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
Some of this is so manipulative. That part we can leave put. The makes sense. But the manipulation is not necessary in a healthy setting
"Some of it makes sense" is what was intended.
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It doesn’t leave him hot for you
He’ll look elsewhere
If this is the case, pass on that man. Use my 100 men tool.
So if my man doesn't follow through onb opportunities to problem- solve, and Instead says things like "I don't have all the answers ", or "you can just call technical support, they are very helpful".… then I'm thinking I'm dealing with a man who is not in his Masculine energy, right?
Not at all. These ARE his solutions and please m, go with them. He is not Krishna or Jesus Christ. If he solves it, go with it. Say, “ok I’ll do that, thank you.” And if your wiser side has solutions, use your intuition and wisdom. He’s not here to fix your problems for you, but as a team. If he delegates and it works for you, try it or at least ASK so he is in his masculine and fixing mode.
Dear women who are reading this, it is coming from the heart and I hope you will be able to feel the truth in my words. I desire for all us women to have a self worth so strong, there will be no need for these videos anymore, because they are manipulative. Ask yourself how come you tolerate relationships in your life, where you have to put in so much effort to get something back, that is self explanatory in other relationships? Why do you have a need to control everything? I was once like that and watched similar videos to this one, but as I grew more mature, I am able to sit with the pain caused by not being loved properly instead of learning all the tricks and tips on how to get love. From the universal point of perspective, by applying this tips to your own life, the energy you are feeding into is the „I am not worth a natural reciprocal type of attention from the man I like/desire“, so you are basically growing your belief of „I am not enough“ or „who I am naturally without manipulation will never be chosen/loved“. I wish for everyone to heal their specific pain but manipulation is never the answer. Vulnerability on other hand is, and you will save yourself so much time, venting out at the core incompatible partners if you just new your specific needs and then ask if this could be met by this man. And then again, to be self loving enough to end the relationship, where the answer is something less than what you would need it to be. Men are not children.
You didnt understand what she is talking about .She doesnt talk about manipulation,she talks about women leaning more into feminine energy instead of pursuing man and i dont see anything wrong with it.
Only 1.5 times per week?!?! That ain’t enough!!! I’d prefer 1.5 per day
A lot of people do, but consider less to keep him pursuing you. 🤣
She's right my friend ... Too much of a good thing is not in balance ... My ex advice to me was play hard to get ... I didn't get it at the moment but I do now ☺️
What if your man always wants to have sex lol to the point I feel annoyed he’s all over me too much?
He loves you , don’t take for granted ! I was in a marriage and the guy never wanted it , because he was getting outside !!! Be grateful
What if they started a lot but now month goes by and they are perfectly fine not to have sex with you. It's been going on like this for awhile. You've communicated that you want once a week or what's normal and you've done everything it won't change. They try to fix it but it's like that maybe once in two weeks and they're not too bothered by it. You suggest that you just wanna be friends because it feels more companionship or friendship because of the lack of sex (affiction is there. They're touchy and they compliment you but is ok with lack of sex n say it happens in their long-term relationships which is a year long. Ours is a year long as well. They give a lot of excuses like they never orgasim we are both women. That she's always faked it for a connection. She's had over 90 sex partner before me so it's hard to believe that she has a low sex drive or never orgasimed. She got me a beautiful engagement ring and in a process of buying a house for us and wants to get married to me and is generous with money. I don't understand whats going on.. Should I stay should I leave should I see others? She says if I sleep with others she'll lose feelings for me.
how the relationship would look like if both man and woman are in their feminine energy
then someone is not leading which is a more masculine trait
You have to Out Girl him and wait him out. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
Then it's obvious the man is gay. Why would a fem woman accept a fem man? She must got issues
Not if he's done with u & found someone else he sees is better..
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That seems more like work for us. 😂😢
Keep trying new things which at first feel different. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
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I’ve been married for 21 years. I have a very high sex drive. I love it 6-7 days a week. 😁 Is that bad?
Hellz nooo....
I don't think so. I like the same. 😅
You must be loosey goosey down there. Take a break girl!
NOT BAD AT ALLL
@@user_abcxyzzlmao you must be an uneducated person because the vagina is literally made to stretch like elastic. Also, this is a common, yet oddly judgmental comment that has a hateful tone toward the anatomy and sexual a autonomy women.
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If you do this means you are manipulating the person you are trying to build a healthy relationship with
No it does not. It means you have boundaries and the common sense to know that letting someone have space allows natural attraction.
Thank you for sharing your entirely subjective advice. Maybe it would fit for the 14 -16 year old, but not for an adult woman. 1, 2, 3 kiss, look in the eye, hold....what a ..??? How much energy do you want us to spend on manipulation?
If this tactic comes to you naturally, this is YOU, but in no way is this transferable to an entirely different person. Do you know how much work this is? And not the good type of work, the kind where you get yourself to "act " a certain way, instead of really being in your power.
An no," men" do not generally connent though music, people do, and people are different. I love music and connect through this and my bf does not. Again, this is entirely subjective non- advice that I based on manipulation and acting.
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You’ve clearly got some work to do on your attitude. Sheesh.
Agreed. I got such a gross feeling from this video, I had to turn it off halfway through (and this is from someone who has followed her for years). The "advice" is so manipulative, she makes it sound like her entire relationship is built on manipulation (it may not be). I wish I could un-listen to everything I heard about making the guy feel "unsure" and restricting sex to 1.5 times a week. Fucking crazy.
Is this witchcraft?
Lol. No. But some might think it is. It’s just the laws of the universe really. Masculine and feminine energy don’t follow any certain religion.