Stop obsessing over men fancying you - Affirmations (repeat daily)

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  • You are not here to be beautiful for men. You are here to be you. You are worthy. Enjoy the self-love and confidence affirmations.
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  • @moiraclee
    @moiraclee ปีที่แล้ว +28

    i deserve to be treated like the angel i am
    I see my worth, it doesn’t matter if others don’t
    I let the love within me grow bigger and bigger

  • @heather3782
    @heather3782 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I SEE MY WORTH IT DOESNT MATTER IF OTHERS DONT!!!!

  • @-pm6332
    @-pm6332 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love this channel! Among those channels giving dating advices and force women to seek for men to be protected and provided if not they make us feel like we're not good and feminine enough, I really appreciate the way you empowering us, that's actually what we need for embracing and loving our womenhood❤

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is nothing I want more than for women to be unapologetically themselves whatever that looks or feels like. So much love ❤️❤️

    • @-pm6332
      @-pm6332 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alessiasutherberry thank you so much for this ❤️

  • @bluevelvet5476
    @bluevelvet5476 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being so brave and doing this

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw thank you for your acknowledgment lovely 🥹🥰❤️💕

  • @spearl2498
    @spearl2498 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I needed this so much, more than I realised! I wanted to cry as soon as you said it wasn’t my fault 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 - thank you so much

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is not your fault at all!! I am so so glad the video found you lovely. Sending the biggest hug your way!!! 💖💖

    • @spearl2498
      @spearl2498 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alessiasutherberry thank you so much for making it, your channel has been perfect for me and helping me “rewire” my brain around needing male validation 🥺🥺 thank you 💗💗💗💗💗💗

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spearl2498 I am so so glad my channel has helped in some way. Thank you for being so kind and complimentary. 💚 Connecting with lovely people like you keeps me motivated! x

  • @sophieirene5623
    @sophieirene5623 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you!!

  • @Elena-uh2fi
    @Elena-uh2fi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I want to stop craving male validation, but I' afraid that in the end I'll be "too" independent and won't fall for a man. Can you still find love this way?

    • @harmoniousandtranquilhannah
      @harmoniousandtranquilhannah 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can be interdependent which is healthier than hyper independence. Interdependence means we’re meant to connect with others and at the same time we’re meant to be whole and independent. There’s nothing wrong with desiring a man to love you and having some of your needs being met by him, but you are also capable of meeting your own needs and you should only focus on allowing the right man to love you for who you are instead of seeking male validation from the wrong men. It’s okay to want a relationship, but you don’t need a man to love you right now. That will come in time when you’re least expecting it. You are whole and complete as you are no matter what ❤️ 😊

  • @soulpeace2409
    @soulpeace2409 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much❤❤

  • @growlinda
    @growlinda ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “i am more than this body, I am a complex woman”🩶
    i really loved this on a spiritual level, we aren’t just physical. we aren’t just “go to the gym, try on make up, put on clothes” we need to connect to our emotions for true, lasting happiness. when we grow old, we will not have this body anymore. do not get so attached to it.
    “words and actions define me not my appearance.” 🩶
    “i am proud of who i am” 🩶
    - realize that your parents brought you into this world for a reason and that you are one of a kind. god/ the universe/ anything else brought you here to live it, feel it, find you. the world isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, but we have to live in it. we aren’t going to be copy’s of each other and that’s what makes us so lovable 🖤
    “I SEE MY WORTH. IT DOESNT MATTER IF OTHERS DONT.”
    - nothing physical defines you. YOU DEFINE YOURSELF THROUGH THE INSIDE.
    - designer brands don’t define you, clothes don’t define you, wether you do a sport doesn’t define you, getting your nails done every 2 weeks doesn’t define you.
    - if none of those physical things were so emphasized in todays Earth, we would be more connected to ourselves rather than physical material. I’m not saying it’s not okay to like those things, but don’t let them become your reason of living and pleasing others. You should never ever think that way.
    Saying this to myself and anyone else that needs it ❤

  • @Pawros21
    @Pawros21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "I don't need a woman too" and what?
    I recommend that everyone should at some stage go to therapy

  • @gccntt
    @gccntt ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't obsess over men fancying me but these affirmations about self-love really resonated with me 💗

  • @moonlight9333
    @moonlight9333 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel the really heavy energy this brings up for me 😭😭 intense healing

  • @kay_monkay
    @kay_monkay ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You are such an amazing human being! Thank you for taking the time to help women heal 🫶

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for being so amazing that you’ve made the effort to comment and spread the love! ❤️🥰🫶

  • @helloall1289
    @helloall1289 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This channel makes me feel really good about myself I found it today and I am already loving it

  • @luv4.777
    @luv4.777 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am worth more than my body and music that objectifies and s3**al!z3s women isn’t my truth!! I deserve to be happy, not limited. I am not here to exist for men. I am here to exist for myself and for what my divine purpose is. (Feel free to use as affirmations I’m kind of just reminding myself of what my truth is.)

  • @RishikaSinghthetraveler
    @RishikaSinghthetraveler ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg this week I literally wanted affirmations and subliminal for not seeking male validation haha and i have found it :)

  • @lina-rm4ks
    @lina-rm4ks 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "i forgive myself and let go of my mistakes" that's one that i didn't expect to be in there but it made me happy to release that. i listen to these while in stretch and workout, thank you so much 🖤🖤

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aw that makes me so happy - I love listening to affirmations while I stretch too 💗💘🥰

  • @AnaS-hy6kt
    @AnaS-hy6kt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s giving intense healing vibes 🫖😭

  • @mevieira440
    @mevieira440 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg this is awesome! This was recomended to me and I can relate so much... honestly I was feeling kinda guilty when you said so it's not your fault it meant so much!

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw bless you! It is not your fault at all!!! Sending so much love and warmth your way xxxxxx❤❤

  • @auroramathi
    @auroramathi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was an emotional experience. I will now try to listen to this every night before I sleep and every morning before I start the day ✨🧸

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw bless you. Sending so much love and warmth your way xxxxxx❤❤

    • @auroramathi
      @auroramathi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alessiasutherberry and I receive it with an open heart 🤍 your words truly help me get through this difficult chapter of my life!
      I’m recommending your channel to all my friends now 😌✨

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@auroramathi aw bless you!!! Thank you so much lovely 😘😘😘😘

  • @Lexiegrey-r9x
    @Lexiegrey-r9x ปีที่แล้ว +3

    can you make more affirmations please?

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course! I have a affirmations video coming out on Tuesday next week!

  • @jaishreepandey1031
    @jaishreepandey1031 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am really thankful for this mam

  • @vgnsofia
    @vgnsofia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    👏🙏💖

  • @marciafab7
    @marciafab7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you, sweet angel 💚

  • @laquintaford6092
    @laquintaford6092 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t give a damn about their obsession I just know I’m too Royal to be in the ghetto and ya are done robbing me. But u don’t discuss that

  • @minnitreez333
    @minnitreez333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow these are great!

  • @shawty_afaf6545
    @shawty_afaf6545 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank youuuu so much 🤍

  • @asthurajani8569
    @asthurajani8569 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tankooo❤

  • @joakos1122
    @joakos1122 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Modern feminists are destroying dating scene and causing a demographic collapse. You don’t need a man until you need your tire changed 😂

    • @Zebwgar
      @Zebwgar ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We still wouldn’t need men for that and that doesn’t mean we need to date them bc they changed a tire

    • @Zebwgar
      @Zebwgar ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Modern men come under these videos acting all bitter

    • @Moidsaretrashmisandryisbased
      @Moidsaretrashmisandryisbased ปีที่แล้ว +9

      MENZ are more lonely and isolated, bc they are insufferable

    • @Moidsaretrashmisandryisbased
      @Moidsaretrashmisandryisbased ปีที่แล้ว

      Good! Why should we act like doormats for men. I love how upset y’all men get. Making you endless red pill videos bishing yet the lonely rates for moids just keeps increasing. Go Suffer alone

    • @Sonjin3592
      @Sonjin3592 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Why does a woman saying she doesn’t want to date men make men petty and bitter ?

  • @morna224
    @morna224 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much, I just discovered your channel and i am so HAPPY. This is exactly what I've been needing 💕🫶🏿thank you

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for commenting this lovely. Lots of love 💘💘💘💘