you only do it in public, that means I can show my feelings when I'm alone, woohoo, oh wait, you said around people you trust, dang it, i'm just gonna stay emotionally distant then.
@@absstanton498 And a lot of Women want the top 5% of guys but that’s mathematically impossible. You reject the short guy who is nice to you for the tall guy who cheats on you a week later 😂😂 hope you feel “ girly” it’s not your fault you’re delusional it’s societies 😂😂🤣
@@krystalnguyen3285 Thank you, none of the girls I have ever dated or even just the ones I had as friends, didn't like it, as a person I don't bring enough to the table societally speaking, so they either dumped, ghost or block me, usually with some outlandish excuse, that they don't even believe in themselves, they just needed a way to feel better about cutting ties. True Love is scary, someone showing real empathy, understanding and unconditional love, is terrifying, especially when they don't have a job, are on early retirement because of a horrible childhood and have chronic stress, depression, anxiety, stpd, bulimia, childhood neglect, but still smiles and puts your problems before they own and look towards the future and tells you, they would love for you to be in it. Their problems in contrast, seems petty and meaningless, so they feel devalued, because people define themselves by their problems, struggles, their past.. Plus most people nowadays don't have deep and meaningful connections, with anyone, friends, partners, it's also surface level and usually contains some sort of social role play, pretending like you're someone you're not.
Most men ghost their female friends when they commit to a relationship. It's offensive since the partner fails to acknowledge their sacrifice, for them.
I was talking to my friend about my crush, and she said that i have a horrible taste in men, so I asked her type and she said she likes short guys. So I told her I'll keep my 'horrible' taste in men and she can pick up the trash and take the short guys. I realize how rude that was, and please don't find it offensive! It's just a funny story. And now y'all short guys know some girls do like you!
@@golden_kiwi_no because then it makes them feel like oh she’s only going to be my friend and that’s it the boys call us dawg dude bro homie all those things
The middle one is absolutely untrue. A guy will definitely pick you over his guy friends without any hesitation, and that's what his guy friends would have wanted anyway lmao
@the knight it seems you haven't met someone who you've been willing to prioritize over your friends. Genuine love in a romantic relationship will provide a lot more than what a friendship alone can provide..not that friendships are not valuable, they just serve a different role in nurturing a person mentally and emotionally. When you love someone in the context of it being someone you want to spend your life with then you are on a path with that person and you are a team with that person. It would compromise the path if you went off course for a friend who in a loving marriage would also want to honor the path they are on with their spouse first before your friendship. To prioritize friends over a partner would mean you feel you are getting something from your friendship that you aren't getting in your relationship.. perhaps your friends don't make you feel insecure or criticized, you feel more supported and cared for by your friends..that would be understandable then, however, I would have a higher standard in vetting future partners moving forward as you are supposed to feel that your partner is your biggest ally.
My hubby is about the same height as me and I love it. Height shouldn't matter that much. If you don't want them commenting on your weight dont comment on their height
oops i have a crush on my guy friend and he’s shorter than me but not too short and i might have joked around but then when he said he was short i said your not that short
but seriously the height thing there is this one kid who is still 4 foot something and all the girls make fun of him and some girls said “he will never get a girlfriend for how short he is” but he is really nice and he gets made fun of a lot and his friends even don’t really do much
Gosh, I can not begin imagine how he feels. The people who are bullying him for his height are just insecure about themselves. I feel bad for that boy. He should get better friends who can stand up for him or take care of him. Hopefully their words won't get to him 🤞🤞🤞
Actually, the third one is only an insult if the guy's focus isn't you. I've had girls say this third one to me. It registers in my head as, "this girl thinks I could have other girls. I like that." or "this girl finds me attractive, otherwise she wouldn't say that to me." or "she isn't into me but is trying to stroke my ego. it's weird that she thinks I'm not wise enough to realize what she's doing..."
That makes you rare and unique simply because we live in a society where women are typically picky as hell and all think they deserve the top 1% of men 😂
……. I never realized the talking abt other girls thing was such a big deal to some ppl bc me and my bf joke abt that all the time…. There’s this one girl who has liked him for a while now, ever since we started dating, and we joke abt it a lot. I completely understand where that could make some guys upset tho so this was like an eye-opening thing for me….
i’m 14 and 5’7. my guy bsf (the guy i like) is shorter than 5ft. i’m not sure exactly but i know fs he’s shorter than that. one day he texted me and said “*my name*, thank you for helping me realize that my height doesn’t matter and that it is about my personality. I’ve always worried that nobody would like me because people always said “girls aren’t attracted to short guys like you” so thank you for proving them wrong” it was so sweet
I agree with the “Talk to your other girls” cuz that’s implying that you think I’d be cheating and I know that people unfortunately do, but if you say it over and over it’s gonna me a lot of guys questioning if you think that we are cheating.
It's best to never pick on anyone for any physical trait and be very sensitive and positive when discussing health struggles that have effects on outer appearance. Any such concerns should come from a place of love and genuine care. If you want to prioritize love and connection over superficiality then you have to be mindful to not objectify people for their appearance like society teaches. Society does NOT teach love, it teaches lust. Sarcasm is never a productive communication style. It nurtures hostility and distrust as it comes across as demeaning and deceptively hides emotions behind words that mean the opposite of what you really feel. If you want to really connect and foster understanding you need to avoid sarcasm while dealing with conflict openly. Being sarcastic can truly damage a bond and is a toxic symptom of emotional abuse/verbal abuse. If a person (male or female) really makes their partner feel loved, understood and valuable then that person will fill a special role in their heart that can not be filled by a friend and you will naturally want to spend more time with and prioritize that person over a friend. Many people settle for a mediocre relationship in order to fill a void and mark ☑️ next to marriage or next to "in a relationship" rather than single and thats when people find themselves in dynamics where a partner would prefer someone else's company over yours. Having other meaningful relationships is healthy and expected but if you have the depth of relationship that genuine love flourishes on then you definitely are priority and have a huge amount of influence over the other person and how they delegate time to other people. With that in mind be wise and thoughtful in the time you spend with your loved one because YOU are the chosen one to spend time with. Be grateful and do the inner work needed to be able to be your best self. Also, be aware of the power of your influence to encourage and support the positive relationships in your partners life as well as to bring into the light any toxic relationships that do not benefit your partner. If you think of your partners wellbeing then you will both benefit from the positivity that will come from that.
I actually have a male friend who I'll poke fun at his height cause hes shorter then me, I'm very tall for a girl and hes poked fun at my height more than I poke at his. The ironic bit is hes actually like 3 months older than me so it's just kind of one of our "inside jokes" Even though a good chunk of people know about it.
I agree, except for the last one, no matter if you are a man or a fboy, Men are usually creatures of honesty, just never use sarcasm, if you say "Oh maybe you should invite your ex to our wedding" because you're angry, he will invite his ex, because you said so and it's not even to spite you or them. and that applies to everything you say.
hey, if he makes fun of me for being shorter than him, i’m making fun of him for being shorter than average (he’s my guy best friend, we bully each other all the time)
Tbh, I feel bad for guys since height tends to be genetic and being made fun of for height may lead to low self esteem. Whether your crush grows to 6'2 for not, I hope he learns to love the body he's in. Take care!
Man, I'm in isolation then why I'm seeing this?! I don't even have friends or romantic relationship. It's frustrating I don't wanna understand people it drains me emotionally, mentally
Same gose with girls tho with all those things especially with hight for me. I'm really short and really insecure about it and everyone picks on me about it thinking I find it funny and it actually hurts idk why girls do thag to guys it's horrible bc Ik If a Guy said a girl was flat or somthing that would be a whole thing
As a flat tall no not tall giant girl I agree we should stop just please stop making fun of hieght And boys just casually talk about girls breast size and as a flat girl that's a win cause they don't stare
No but people don’t let their boyfriends have friends that are girls coming from a girl that was “the girl friend” usually they end up dating or like each other and that’s probably in most cases. If not, all. And if the guys can have friends that are girls, girls should be allowed to have friends that are boys not saying they should just say it goes both ways.
Well i have so many girl who like me but i am being for real on god and they never said go talk to your other girls and btw it is hard to make me mad but easy to break my heart if i care about you
Things not to say to girls you like or don’t know personally: 1) You’re tall for a girl 2) You have big feet/hands 3) You’re big/too much 4) You’re not like other girls
B-but he has my bestie to talk to- and my other friend and my other other friend and his friends are girls so like- (Jk abt the his friends are girls the rest are true his friends are all boys except for my bestie- I hope..)
No I'm a guy and we don't have feelings when we are in public we hide the pain so this society that we live in doesn't judge us or call us weak we only show are feelings when we are either alone or with are trust worthy friends and family
Well istg if we are together and he wants to flirt or talk w/ other girls he sure as hell better be ready for me to say, “oh, how’s ur new girlfriends?” And say that shit as sarcastic as possible
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We guys hide our feelings in public because people don't care about our feelings. We only express our feelings around the people we trust
you only do it in public, that means I can show my feelings when I'm alone, woohoo, oh wait, you said around people you trust, dang it, i'm just gonna stay emotionally distant then.
Well yeah because whenever guys do show emotions we're almost always called sensitive or we'll get teased
@@mattstash2008 damn right
@@mattstash2008 yeah, that’s just fucked. As a human, we deserve the right to simple HUMAN feelings
@@mattstash2008 That sucks that has happened to so many guys. Feelings are human and guys are human too. How are you?
Is he makes fun of my height then it goes both ways.
yeah but they know that we know it’s just teasing, when we do it to them ig makes them not feel “manly” bc that’s just how guys are
@@absstanton498 And a lot of Women want the top 5% of guys but that’s mathematically impossible. You reject the short guy who is nice to you for the tall guy who cheats on you a week later 😂😂 hope you feel “ girly” it’s not your fault you’re delusional it’s societies 😂😂🤣
@@absstanton498 Nah it's like asking a woman their weight that's off limits.
@@cooleekbrown1728 why
@@nikkisumesh because we get rejected often for not being tall enough.
Title “how to know your crush love in school”
Proceeds to do all of those things to the guy they hate
How to make a boy happy:
Buy them an expensive ass graphics card and
To hang out with da homies :D
Lol
to be honest I would just be happy if she gave me hugs kisses and she showed her personality
@@James_XXIY_crafts That's sweet. I hope your girl knows how much you enjoy being around them. :)
@@krystalnguyen3285 Thank you, none of the girls I have ever dated or even just the ones I had as friends, didn't like it, as a person I don't bring enough to the table societally speaking, so they either dumped, ghost or block me, usually with some outlandish excuse, that they don't even believe in themselves, they just needed a way to feel better about cutting ties.
True Love is scary, someone showing real empathy, understanding and unconditional love, is terrifying, especially when they don't have a job, are on early retirement because of a horrible childhood and have chronic stress, depression, anxiety, stpd, bulimia, childhood neglect, but still smiles and puts your problems before they own and look towards the future and tells you, they would love for you to be in it.
Their problems in contrast, seems petty and meaningless, so they feel devalued, because people define themselves by their problems, struggles, their past.. Plus most people nowadays don't have deep and meaningful connections, with anyone, friends, partners, it's also surface level and usually contains some sort of social role play, pretending like you're someone you're not.
Never complain about the bois
Most men ghost their female friends when they commit to a relationship. It's offensive since the partner fails to acknowledge their sacrifice, for them.
The ego🤡
Imagine not realizing that a woman sacrifices for you by ghosting her hoes when she commits to you
that makes it seem like they had a crush on their female friends
Tbh same I ghosted most of my guy friends when I got into a relationship with the exception of like three
@@flutenanyidk1806thats not normal
I was talking to my friend about my crush, and she said that i have a horrible taste in men, so I asked her type and she said she likes short guys. So I told her I'll keep my 'horrible' taste in men and she can pick up the trash and take the short guys.
I realize how rude that was, and please don't find it offensive! It's just a funny story. And now y'all short guys know some girls do like you!
I hate when I realize that I've done something wrong
Same...but now you know and you can change :) 🌼
My crush keeps asking why I’m so tall 😭
tbh i like short guys better. i’ll never tell my guy bsf that though cause he’ll realize i’m flirting when i remind him i’m taller
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with liking short guys better, but I am interested in the reasons you prefer them more.
how to never get manipulation from anyone
guy here, i confirm that the boys always come first
The only thing that come before the boys it's are mom's
💀
First in EVERYTHING, including sex.
@@jamaldavis3669 exactly.
Yeah good luck telling that to your girlfriend when you finally get one 💀💀
Never call a guy that loves you "Bro"💀
Ok, what about dawg & dude?
@@golden_kiwi_no because then it makes them feel like oh she’s only going to be my friend and that’s it the boys call us dawg dude bro homie all those things
The middle one is absolutely untrue. A guy will definitely pick you over his guy friends without any hesitation, and that's what his guy friends would have wanted anyway lmao
wdym? not in my whole life would i pick my gf over my friends wtf? no guy would choose a girl over his friends, that's not how we work
@@iamgigachad69 ikr bros before hoes for life
@the knight it seems you haven't met someone who you've been willing to prioritize over your friends. Genuine love in a romantic relationship will provide a lot more than what a friendship alone can provide..not that friendships are not valuable, they just serve a different role in nurturing a person mentally and emotionally. When you love someone in the context of it being someone you want to spend your life with then you are on a path with that person and you are a team with that person. It would compromise the path if you went off course for a friend who in a loving marriage would also want to honor the path they are on with their spouse first before your friendship. To prioritize friends over a partner would mean you feel you are getting something from your friendship that you aren't getting in your relationship.. perhaps your friends don't make you feel insecure or criticized, you feel more supported and cared for by your friends..that would be understandable then, however, I would have a higher standard in vetting future partners moving forward as you are supposed to feel that your partner is your biggest ally.
My hubby is about the same height as me and I love it. Height shouldn't matter that much. If you don't want them commenting on your weight dont comment on their height
Thanks dude much appreciated
Finally, someone who gets us
oops i have a crush on my guy friend and he’s shorter than me but not too short and i might have joked around but then when he said he was short i said your not that short
Actually, that's not as bad as you might think it is imo. You sorta said, you aren't short. Hope your relationship is going well!
This is true as a male
Number 4:
"Wanna play the fire truck game?"
he started the “go talk to ur other _____’s” talk so not really my fault
Can you do how to know if a guy likes you over text
but seriously the height thing there is this one kid who is still 4 foot something and all the girls make fun of him and some girls said “he will never get a girlfriend for how short he is” but he is really nice and he gets made fun of a lot and his friends even don’t really do much
Gosh, I can not begin imagine how he feels. The people who are bullying him for his height are just insecure about themselves. I feel bad for that boy. He should get better friends who can stand up for him or take care of him. Hopefully their words won't get to him 🤞🤞🤞
Shes saying all the right things 👍🏻
as a guy, i can confirm this is true
OMG THANK YOU!!!!!!
Actually, the third one is only an insult if the guy's focus isn't you. I've had girls say this third one to me. It registers in my head as, "this girl thinks I could have other girls. I like that." or "this girl finds me attractive, otherwise she wouldn't say that to me." or "she isn't into me but is trying to stroke my ego. it's weird that she thinks I'm not wise enough to realize what she's doing..."
As a boy I can agree with u say don’t let us hang time with our friends it’s not happening
Not me falling for someone who is 4’11… (I’m 5’2) I mean I wouldn’t call him cute but he’s so sweet like ahh❤❤
Yea I will keep that In mind🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💔
This is so true
Me who likes short boys: 😀🤷♀️
That makes you rare and unique simply because we live in a society where women are typically picky as hell and all think they deserve the top 1% of men 😂
……. I never realized the talking abt other girls thing was such a big deal to some ppl bc me and my bf joke abt that all the time…. There’s this one girl who has liked him for a while now, ever since we started dating, and we joke abt it a lot. I completely understand where that could make some guys upset tho so this was like an eye-opening thing for me….
i can confirm my crush makes fun of my height (5’3 at 13) daily. like i’m not even short😭
Funny how a woman thinks she knows what us guys think
Thank you for the truth
i’m 14 and 5’7. my guy bsf (the guy i like) is shorter than 5ft. i’m not sure exactly but i know fs he’s shorter than that. one day he texted me and said “*my name*, thank you for helping me realize that my height doesn’t matter and that it is about my personality. I’ve always worried that nobody would like me because people always said “girls aren’t attracted to short guys like you” so thank you for proving them wrong” it was so sweet
I have did all of these
I agree with the “Talk to your other girls” cuz that’s implying that you think I’d be cheating and I know that people unfortunately do, but if you say it over and over it’s gonna me a lot of guys questioning if you think that we are cheating.
It's best to never pick on anyone for any physical trait and be very sensitive and positive when discussing health struggles that have effects on outer appearance. Any such concerns should come from a place of love and genuine care. If you want to prioritize love and connection over superficiality then you have to be mindful to not objectify people for their appearance like society teaches. Society does NOT teach love, it teaches lust.
Sarcasm is never a productive communication style. It nurtures hostility and distrust as it comes across as demeaning and deceptively hides emotions behind words that mean the opposite of what you really feel. If you want to really connect and foster understanding you need to avoid sarcasm while dealing with conflict openly. Being sarcastic can truly damage a bond and is a toxic symptom of emotional abuse/verbal abuse.
If a person (male or female) really makes their partner feel loved, understood and valuable then that person will fill a special role in their heart that can not be filled by a friend and you will naturally want to spend more time with and prioritize that person over a friend. Many people settle for a mediocre relationship in order to fill a void and mark ☑️ next to marriage or next to "in a relationship" rather than single and thats when people find themselves in dynamics where a partner would prefer someone else's company over yours. Having other meaningful relationships is healthy and expected but if you have the depth of relationship that genuine love flourishes on then you definitely are priority and have a huge amount of influence over the other person and how they delegate time to other people. With that in mind be wise and thoughtful in the time you spend with your loved one because YOU are the chosen one to spend time with. Be grateful and do the inner work needed to be able to be your best self. Also, be aware of the power of your influence to encourage and support the positive relationships in your partners life as well as to bring into the light any toxic relationships that do not benefit your partner. If you think of your partners wellbeing then you will both benefit from the positivity that will come from that.
I don’t care how tall he is as long as he’s not shorter than me 😂
I actually have a male friend who I'll poke fun at his height cause hes shorter then me, I'm very tall for a girl and hes poked fun at my height more than I poke at his. The ironic bit is hes actually like 3 months older than me so it's just kind of one of our "inside jokes" Even though a good chunk of people know about it.
im short and that fucking destroys me
That's true even tho im a guy it's so true all tho things has happened to me
I agree, except for the last one, no matter if you are a man or a fboy, Men are usually creatures of honesty, just never use sarcasm, if you say "Oh maybe you should invite your ex to our wedding" because you're angry, he will invite his ex, because you said so and it's not even to spite you or them.
and that applies to everything you say.
Thank you this is correct
Ur like that Spencer girl
frfr but spencer focuses more on mental wellbeing and this girl is all about relationships. definitely would recommend spencer !!
@@skyx8016 yeah ig
hey, if he makes fun of me for being shorter than him, i’m making fun of him for being shorter than average (he’s my guy best friend, we bully each other all the time)
If a guy makes fun of my height, Ilk do the same though.
As a male I agree
THANK YOU😊
This accurate
My crush is 5,3 he wants to be 6,2 😳
And yes my crush isnt that old he’s 12
Tbh, I feel bad for guys since height tends to be genetic and being made fun of for height may lead to low self esteem. Whether your crush grows to 6'2 for not, I hope he learns to love the body he's in. Take care!
5’3 at 12 is normal for any guy
Thank you so much maybe girls wont pretend like I’m worth nothing
Would like to add one oh yea I love him but he is more of a brother to me
If he’s gonna make fun of my height imma make fun of his that’s fair game and that’s just how it’s gonna work
Jokes on you he has plenty of options
as a guy its true
Man, I'm in isolation then why I'm seeing this?! I don't even have friends or romantic relationship. It's frustrating I don't wanna understand people it drains me emotionally, mentally
as a guy, I formally don’t give a fuck
What if I guy just randomly sits with you and won’t say why he did. (You know that guy as well)
you should never say these things to any human beings 😮
If he tells me to stop hanging out with my female friends does it go both ways bc he literally never hangs out with me
I’d listen to everything you say to me
Same gose with girls tho with all those things especially with hight for me. I'm really short and really insecure about it and everyone picks on me about it thinking I find it funny and it actually hurts idk why girls do thag to guys it's horrible bc Ik
If a
Guy said a girl was flat or somthing that would be a whole thing
As a flat tall no not tall giant girl I agree we should stop just please stop making fun of hieght
And boys just casually talk about girls breast size and as a flat girl that's a win cause they don't stare
No but people don’t let their boyfriends have friends that are girls coming from a girl that was “the girl friend” usually they end up dating or like each other and that’s probably in most cases. If not, all. And if the guys can have friends that are girls, girls should be allowed to have friends that are boys not saying they should just say it goes both ways.
Expected cringe but this was on point.
Well i have so many girl who like me but i am being for real on god and they never said go talk to your other girls and btw it is hard to make me mad but easy to break my heart if i care about you
Things not to say to girls you like or don’t know personally:
1) You’re tall for a girl
2) You have big feet/hands
3) You’re big/too much
4) You’re not like other girls
I know right boys just why do they say that we are insecure about our heights too
Well most girls just want a boy that is atleast tall as them but for the ones that expect six feet stay away from me pls
I dont care about height my crush is 5’1 and im 4’11
True
What happens if the girl has been there since the beginning of time??
We don’t care about our height
B-but he has my bestie to talk to- and my other friend and my other other friend and his friends are girls so like- (Jk abt the his friends are girls the rest are true his friends are all boys except for my bestie- I hope..)
Yea if you go after the boys you getting blocked bruh
I know a man who is 6 foot 9 (i'm not kidding he teaches at my middle school) just a random fact 😂
My 7th grade substitute was 6'10 😭 he thought 6'2 was short but im here being 5'3
@@katlovegood4921 😭😭💀
Oops
am i actually the only guy here or is there other guys watching this?
Nah
Hi I'm just here to make the comments go to 100 there at 99
W Human
why is everyone angry in this comment section lol
W
Go out so Ben s1 fight drop nah why tdh cuz Ben
Yeah well no S- Im gonna make fun of his height if he wants a hourglass girl with big cheeks
Lies just lies, it's just, wow, such I big lie
That show was weird
Bro how do you know you are not a guy and a lot of guys are different and I will still say them 😒🙄
She's bitter
why do you move your head so much
Wait guys have FEELINGS!!?!!!!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!???
Bruh.
No I'm a guy and we don't have feelings when we are in public we hide the pain so this society that we live in doesn't judge us or call us weak we only show are feelings when we are either alone or with are trust worthy friends and family
Yes- everyone knows that
@@goldenpro1096 that’s not even true- Ofc men have feelings
@@goldenpro1096 true bro
This is so true
Well istg if we are together and he wants to flirt or talk w/ other girls he sure as hell better be ready for me to say, “oh, how’s ur new girlfriends?” And say that shit as sarcastic as possible