For the life of me I can't understand women who date guys with multiple baby mommas. Like do you want to be the next one? Furthermore, ladies you're special, but not that damn special. If a man has one too many kids but spends all his time and/or money on you those are resources his kids aren't getting. So when he gets you pregnant he'll be a deadbeat to your seed too.
This is why I am a huge fan of courting. When this happens the correct amount of time is alloted for both parties to make a proper choice. A video for the young ladies so they know the signs of being courted vs. being played would be very helpful.
Deborrah Cooper you got that right but see a lot of young women don't know the difference between then just wanting that vs trying to get to know them.
I just stopped dating a guy that I thought had insecurity & control issues. An ex-fiance cheated on him in the past. He talked about how women don't want average men. We want men with status. Blah blah blah. Then he started talking about, "The bible says a man is head." This was in reference to a woman he dated that would "clap it up in church" as he called it but she didn't believe in the head of household business. Then would talk more about church. Then tell me he doesn't like being tried. This video spoke to my soul. Oh the bullets I dodged.
I dated the one that couldn't make up his mind about anything, especially marriage. There are too many black men like this in predominately black communities.
The critical dudes have issues. The control freak is sick, and those dudes are weirdos! Been there and left that mess years ago! They don't want you to go to the grocery store without them, because they are insecure and think another guy is getting your phone number. These dudes are all losers. Look out for the control freak, because they can turn on you like a pit bull to be women beaters!
17:15 both of my parents are like this and their marriage unfortunately. Critical and controlling that’s how I was carrying through life for awhile. But luckily I’m changing for the better
Wish I heard this 10 years ago. The insecure guy is all I've ever encountered with during online dating and I wondered why I never took the guys seriously. Can't stay the helL offline looking for gratification and attention from women seeking love from mommy while not able to carry a convo in person. I used to be the same way but then I got a FULL TIME JOB, HOBBIES AND GREW UP and off social media! Never used it to keep in touch because I hate ppl and don't want to see them on my downtime. Lol
I befriended one and he was entitled AF. Expecting women to be submissive and had all these demands but wasn't offering a damn thing. No providing, no commitment or value. Just "going with the flow." Yet he was always trying to boss me around and lead. Foh. Blocked him!!! Ugh the delusion! Whose gonna give a man submission and let him lead when he isn't offering anything but played out dusty dick?
You are funny! I like your style. I am always down for the straight out approach in the raw and a touch of humor always adds spice. You got a new subscriber.
9:15 these men know very well what their doing. Always some truth to their feelings behind their joke. You always spit facts. I used to work with a bum who would act like that
I am so late to the party. Just recently discovered your channel and now I have to watch them every day!!! I am so glad you have created enough videos for me to watch for a long time. 🥰❤️👍🏾
@@Debsterism yeah he does - cause he is short and fat ! But he is very handsome in the face ! But every time he will tel me I’m f’ing somebody if I’m just at home sitting on my couch legs hairy as hell all nappy headed - doesn’t matter what I’m doing he’s always telling me I’m f”big someone or I’m a bitch or slut or hoe - stupid an I really ain’t cheating
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For the life of me I can't understand women who date guys with multiple baby mommas. Like do you want to be the next one? Furthermore, ladies you're special, but not that damn special. If a man has one too many kids but spends all his time and/or money on you those are resources his kids aren't getting. So when he gets you pregnant he'll be a deadbeat to your seed too.
I was just telling a friend how common emotional abuse is. Women don't even notice that it's happening because it has become normalized. Umph!
This is why I am a huge fan of courting. When this happens the correct amount of time is alloted for both parties to make a proper choice.
A video for the young ladies so they know the signs of being courted vs. being played would be very helpful.
Mysasser1 Yup. If a man doesn't provide courtship...I RUN. It's usually because he doesn't want you to see something.
Good idea
Deborrah Cooper you got that right but see a lot of young women don't know the difference between then just wanting that vs trying to get to know them.
Hahaha!
I just stopped dating a guy that I thought had insecurity & control issues. An ex-fiance cheated on him in the past. He talked about how women don't want average men. We want men with status. Blah blah blah. Then he started talking about, "The bible says a man is head." This was in reference to a woman he dated that would "clap it up in church" as he called it but she didn't believe in the head of household business. Then would talk more about church. Then tell me he doesn't like being tried. This video spoke to my soul. Oh the bullets I dodged.
I dated the one that couldn't make up his mind about anything, especially marriage. There are too many black men like this in predominately black communities.
The critical dudes have issues. The control freak is sick, and those dudes are weirdos! Been there and left that mess years ago! They don't want you to go to the grocery store without them, because they are insecure and think another guy is getting your phone number. These dudes are all losers. Look out for the control freak, because they can turn on you like a pit bull to be women beaters!
SMH ex husband was many of these rolled into one. I was a dumbass then but not now.
+andromeda Key word = EX
Goodness gracious. None of your relatives taught you about men? That's just scandalous.
Deborrah Cooper oh I got taught somewhat, but he was very slick SMH
+andromeda Ohhhh.
17:15 both of my parents are like this and their marriage unfortunately. Critical and controlling that’s how I was carrying through life for awhile. But luckily I’m changing for the better
Wish I heard this 10 years ago. The insecure guy is all I've ever encountered with during online dating and I wondered why I never took the guys seriously. Can't stay the helL offline looking for gratification and attention from women seeking love from mommy while not able to carry a convo in person. I used to be the same way but then I got a FULL TIME JOB, HOBBIES AND GREW UP and off social media! Never used it to keep in touch because I hate ppl and don't want to see them on my downtime. Lol
The guy with several baby mamas is sooooo true. So irresponsible and a complete waste of time
I befriended one and he was entitled AF. Expecting women to be submissive and had all these demands but wasn't offering a damn thing. No providing, no commitment or value. Just "going with the flow." Yet he was always trying to boss me around and lead. Foh. Blocked him!!! Ugh the delusion! Whose gonna give a man submission and let him lead when he isn't offering anything but played out dusty dick?
I LOVE you Deborrah! You've changed my life. THANK YOU FOR ALL THAT YOU DO!!!!
You are funny! I like your style. I am always down for the straight out approach in the raw and a touch of humor always adds spice. You got a new subscriber.
Thanks 😊
I love your videos cause u keep it real girlfriend keep them coming!
Zero tolerance!
9:15 these men know very well what their doing. Always some truth to their feelings behind their joke. You always spit facts. I used to work with a bum who would act like that
Your spot on with this list... Love your channel lots of valuable information.
I am so late to the party. Just recently discovered your channel and now I have to watch them every day!!! I am so glad you have created enough videos for me to watch for a long time. 🥰❤️👍🏾
Welcome to the channel!! Please share a link or two on your social media to help other young ladies find their way here.
@@Debsterism will do!!!🫡💯❤️
I told a dude I was dating he was handsome and he took. It wrong and said it was weird
Guess his mom never called him handsome
That was him telling that he had extremely low self-esteem.
@@Debsterism yeah he does - cause he is short and fat ! But he is very handsome in the face ! But every time he will tel me I’m f’ing somebody if I’m just at home sitting on my couch legs hairy as hell all nappy headed - doesn’t matter what I’m doing he’s always telling me I’m f”big someone or I’m a bitch or slut or hoe - stupid an I really ain’t cheating
Yeah my ex was a mean Narcissist! Run! And keep running girls! Get a good pair of running shoes!
We are so similar as it relates to how we communicate with stupid men…no Vaseline!!! Straight henny, no chaser 🤣🤣🤣
ALL.OF.THIS.!!!!!
Wow lol ....you are so right.
😂😂😂 lmao..love your realness
Community dock don't travel far lol
Amen lmao
lol u r a trip love it
Good advice
EXCELLENT LIST👍👍👍💜
Another great video Deborrah! May I have your email to ask you a question?
Use the form at debsterism.com