1. You can’t trust anyone (share surface level information to people you trust( 2. You don’t owe anyone an explanation 3. For a peaceful mind 4. For safety (especially online) 5. For better relationships
You really don't know the true intention of people, so it's best to stay safe by not giving them so much power than they already have all because you couldn't keep some certain details to yourself!. I love this hair on you Lucy ❣
This is so true and powerful. No response is a powerful response. Especially when it comes to dusty gossip and mean people who are out to trigger you. Also silence on your personal life protects you from a lot of intrusion and unnecessary drama. It also maintains your class and mystery ladies 🧚🏻♀️❤️
Another point I want to add to the relationships, when you choose to be selective of who you tell things to, you quickly realise the people that only befriended you because you told them about the in's and out's of your life. Or because they could tell you about the in's and out's of their life. If you have people in your life that will only remain as long as you tell them the nitty gritty of what is going on, then chile they are not for you. Friendships should not be about intrusion of privacy, it should be about mutual interest and love for 1 another.
I remember years ago I was somehow close to someone and one day they told a mutual friend that I dont share my business with them and they were mad about that because they were pretty open to me about the stuff going on in their life (and even things I didnt even ask to know) The thing is I knew from the start what kind of person they were and I didnt want my business to be discussed everywhere. And I was right. I dont even talk to that person anymore.
I think this is a critical step I need to take in my life! It’s like the moment I spit out my plans! They just don’t happen anymore 😢😭 I’ve lost so much because of my mouth! Thank you 🙏🏽
I literally have “a friend” that watches everything I do and criticizes. If I talk about someone met, now she wanna follow them on IG... If I get a new job, she wanna know how much it pays, how much my rent is, how many credit cards I have...my devotional time God told me I be telling ppl too much and some can’t handle it and others are jealous... and too many voices in your spirit causes confusion. Learned the hard way. I’m an oversharer and am working on it. I will have one or two ppl that I confide in from now on and right now I don’t think those ppl are in my life.
My dear u are very right when u said we should keep our relationship away from third party and telling people how ur relationship most times they make you lose that relationship cause that is what happened to my girlfriend which she is regretting now
Hey Lucy, please could you do a video for people who want to transition to power of silence but who dunno how to all of q sudden go about it without appearing "Is everything okay with you?", "you're sounding somehow today", or being seen as rude or something. How does one transition inconspicuously?😩😩
Thank you so much Dear🌸✨ for this Video. My answer to those people is: If you an me are really thight🤝 you already now where I am right now in my life rather were my path in life is going. No explanation needed to them 👀. Period❗️I really do not care what they are thinking about me like 🗣she is to private, mysterious, weird….blablabla! I had learn it the hard way and came back wiser and stronger. And I do not allow that someone like them is putting stones in my path/life🪨☝🏾At the end if you telling them your business you are the one who is feeling the pain not them. So always safe yourself from this people❗️
This video is timely, sometimes I feel I have shared more Dan what I should share with a friend or colleague,den I will tell myself,next time I won't be so open with d person again,tumoro I will still b open again untill a friend did hurt me well,den I know n wished I never brought her that close to myself. I have learnt tho
But what happens when you go to a church and you accidentally over shared about your job and the struggles you're going through with it. Then when you quit that job and you tell them and now they're asking every single time they see you if you got a job yet? How do I politely tell them to mind their own business? I can't stop that I ever shared but I can control what I say and moving forward but I want to also say it in a polite way.
I don't understand the paranoia out there that people want to be out there to destroy your plans. People have other things going on in their own lives too to really worry about other people's lives
1. You can’t trust anyone (share surface level information to people you trust(
2. You don’t owe anyone an explanation
3. For a peaceful mind
4. For safety (especially online)
5. For better relationships
Thank you 😂😂😂😂 I’m out ✌️
You really don't know the true intention of people, so it's best to stay safe by not giving them so much power than they already have all because you couldn't keep some certain details to yourself!. I love this hair on you Lucy ❣
Yes!!
This is so true and powerful. No response is a powerful response. Especially when it comes to dusty gossip and mean people who are out to trigger you. Also silence on your personal life protects you from a lot of intrusion and unnecessary drama. It also maintains your class and mystery ladies 🧚🏻♀️❤️
Always keep your relationship and finance private 🤞🏾
Another point I want to add to the relationships, when you choose to be selective of who you tell things to, you quickly realise the people that only befriended you because you told them about the in's and out's of your life. Or because they could tell you about the in's and out's of their life. If you have people in your life that will only remain as long as you tell them the nitty gritty of what is going on, then chile they are not for you. Friendships should not be about intrusion of privacy, it should be about mutual interest and love for 1 another.
I remember years ago I was somehow close to someone and one day they told a mutual friend that I dont share my business with them and they were mad about that because they were pretty open to me about the stuff going on in their life (and even things I didnt even ask to know) The thing is I knew from the start what kind of person they were and I didnt want my business to be discussed everywhere. And I was right. I dont even talk to that person anymore.
This series is for me🥺❤ ,
Private life = safe life
A private life is a peaceful life so true 💞
I think this is a critical step I need to take in my life! It’s like the moment I spit out my plans! They just don’t happen anymore 😢😭 I’ve lost so much because of my mouth! Thank you 🙏🏽
I literally have “a friend” that watches everything I do and criticizes. If I talk about someone met, now she wanna follow them on IG... If I get a new job, she wanna know how much it pays, how much my rent is, how many credit cards I have...my devotional time God told me I be telling ppl too much and some can’t handle it and others are jealous... and too many voices in your spirit causes confusion. Learned the hard way. I’m an oversharer and am working on it. I will have one or two ppl that I confide in from now on and right now I don’t think those ppl are in my life.
There is a saying "people will judge/hurt with informing you gave them" So it's very true be very care who you tell your personal information.
Me,I learnt the hard way….
I no dey tell anybody anything again
That is so true! You cannot trust people and the Power of Silence is REAL! And keeping a relationship private is super important.
My dear u are very right when u said we should keep our relationship away from third party and telling people how ur relationship most times they make you lose that relationship cause that is what happened to my girlfriend which she is regretting now
A peaceful mind !!! It's definitely why I don't over sharing my life !!
Thank you for this video !
Hey Lucy, please could you do a video for people who want to transition to power of silence but who dunno how to all of q sudden go about it without appearing "Is everything okay with you?", "you're sounding somehow today", or being seen as rude or something. How does one transition inconspicuously?😩😩
Live like introvert it's that simple
Girl you’re on the right path! Keep doing those series 👑
Lucy is like me! I am so private and people get offended when i dont like to share anything
Thank you so much for this , had something I desperately need to share but nah, I’d keep it 😅 don’t break your phone though 🥰
“Did he cheat?! Did you cheat?” 🤣🤣🤣
This has worked for me 💯💗 she is saying something that people should follow
Off topic I love your hair! Any details about the hair?
This is definitely something I wished I would have learned sooner. Great advice 👆🏽
Me too
I agree with all these reasons. You must protect your energy. Excellent video!! 🤗
Thank you so much Dear🌸✨ for this Video. My answer to those people is: If you an me are really thight🤝 you already now where I am right now in my life rather were my path in life is going. No explanation needed to them 👀. Period❗️I really do not care what they are thinking about me like 🗣she is to private, mysterious, weird….blablabla! I had learn it the hard way and came back wiser and stronger. And I do not allow that someone like them is putting stones in my path/life🪨☝🏾At the end if you telling them your business you are the one who is feeling the pain not them. So always safe yourself from this people❗️
This video is timely, sometimes I feel I have shared more Dan what I should share with a friend or colleague,den I will tell myself,next time I won't be so open with d person again,tumoro I will still b open again untill a friend did hurt me well,den I know n wished I never brought her that close to myself. I have learnt tho
nice content 😍
what software are you using to edit, love the color of your editing
Mimi belle🥰🥰 tu es là?
@@beautybyamd3439 coucou 👋 oui je suis la 😂😍😍😍😍
Always here for this episode on the power of silence 💕✨
I'm here for it!♥️🤩u inspire me..thank you!🤗
Amen, yes live a quiet life. Keep your business to yourself. Shutup about your affairs/business.
Omg I just found you & I fricking love your energy!!!!!!!❤❤❤
Absolutely Rigjt!👍🌺
I cant understand People putting their "Private Life "on TH-cam either
Very well said !!
I love love your hair 😍
Absolutely looove this series of videos 👏👏👏👏👑💕
So grateful I found your channel 🦋
I love this series… keep it coming ❤
I love you Lucy 😍💕… you have made me grown . I love you too
This is my favorite place to be, thank you so much for sharing 🧡🥂
Can you talk about what other things we can talk about with our friends aside from our private details and without gossiping anyone? Please sis
Hi Lucy I am learning that at the moment.
I'm tell you...certain ppl...when I tell them my plans it doesn't work out!
80k and that’s on consistency and Jesus
Love you mama ❤❤❤
I love it here.☺️❤️
Thanks a bunch, you are absolutely right about the need for privacy in one's life.
Thank you ❤
Loving the hair 😍😍😍
Loving the hair and makeup.... It's giving 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love this 😍
Thanks for sharing
I love all content
Keep up the good work ♥️
I absolutely love this video 🫶
Thank you for this
Lovely 💖
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗thanks soo much for this video
Amazing lesson much love dear
But what happens when you go to a church and you accidentally over shared about your job and the struggles you're going through with it. Then when you quit that job and you tell them and now they're asking every single time they see you if you got a job yet? How do I politely tell them to mind their own business? I can't stop that I ever shared but I can control what I say and moving forward but I want to also say it in a polite way.
Social media tip: never post your location in real time.
I think you can trust someone. Not sure about "you can't trust anyone".
I don't understand the paranoia out there that people want to be out there to destroy your plans. People have other things going on in their own lives too to really worry about other people's lives
Absolutely!!!!
Mary in the Bible is an example of this, the Bible says "... and Mary kept these things in her heart..."
I think I have that person who wants to have first hand information for a bf... Omg
I love your fire sis. Keep telling us the truth. Thank you❤️
Don’t tell people your feelings. Some people are just going to guilt you to think that your feelings are wrong :/
I took your advice and stopped discussing figures thank u
Nice video
I Stan you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
14:13 what does tmi mean???
Too much information
Love you
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