Bar has a lot of flaws but i liked hearing him say one of his goals was to *actively* bond with his daughter. We need more fathers, especially on this show willing to actually be around their children and play an active role in their lives. He’s got some work ahead of him but he doesn’t seem like a bad guy
@@222ritsu I agree, but like always someone change after the birth of the 1st child is born. I wasn't surprised it was Ashley, watching her with her instructor you see the best of Ashley. When I met Bar & Shaun ( his mom) he appears to been raised without boundaries, by his brothers or the streets. His face is swelled like he's on lean, honestly I find them both disrespectful as all hell though
@@Niqquhchris6 a lot of men have strange relationships with their mothers. Their mums have this emotionally incestuous relationship with them. That’s more time why some men have issues and distorted ideas of what their partners should be. And also you’ll know the ‘evil mother in law’ stereotype that comes from overbearing mothers, jealous of their sons relationship and constantly crossing boundaries
Would a good decision be to have your shit together BEFORE having a baby? Wouldn’t it be wise to get married before having a baby? Seems like good decision making isn’t something she’s accustomed to.
@La Original You're not _wrong,_ but OP was looking on the bright side. Mistakes are made by everyone, but not all of them result in a beautiful, healthy baby girl like Bar and Ashley's "mistake" did.
Shes a black woman they're built Ford tough💅💪 THATS the difference🤣🤣🤣 sad but true... wish she'd leave Bar and find a man that can match her drive though
I don’t want to blame their parents entirely but I was jst about to say it’s so sad they didn’t have a good start but was trying so hard to hold each other down like, kinda we’re all we got. Tryin so hard to come across like we can shame everybody and do this but they need help. I mean, a lot of it. Let’s do this together but mane tht generational curses is a real thing
@@MegaLadylove2012 Yes you have that right the generational curse. I understand it all to well now that my kids are young adults. And I was raised so.. so..old school. I had to put the old with the new ok😂😂🤣🤣🙏🏿❤. I love pastor Tea, I could start this off with I TOLD YOU SO. BUT, IM NOT GOING TO SAY THAT😂😂😂. AFTER SHE SLID IT RIGHT IN THERE
Ashley mom is kinda right though. Their marriage is not going to last if he can’t stand up to his mom and tell her that she is not the #1 woman in his life anymore.
@@MegaLadylove2012 I’m trying to figure out why she’s okay with an uneducated “man” that set himself up to be permanently unemployed with those tattoos. I think he knows Ashley will continue to pay the bills. And I guess he figures the Teen Mom checks are good for now.
Well doing all that "hold you down" crap for a man that is NOT your husband is what you don't do. So many women do that. Doing Supervisor/Manager duties when their position is the janitor. Stop that. Get the level up and THEN do those duties. Stick to that too. Men will respect you when you do so.
Ashley is honestly such a good mom, i almost died when she was crying and her baby said "mommy hurt", baby you go through everything you go through for a reason, but god has blessed you with this child, and everything you do now, will all be worth it in the end. God is so good, AMEN!
I love Ashley. She’s real and accountable. People paint her as dramatic and chaotic. It’s hard when you’re misunderstood however you the only one being honest and real. Showing both your good and bad.
On top of that it’s the first time she seeing her son daughter she worried bout her grand baby 🤨 my momma act like nobody here when her grandson in the room ..... and he 4 😂😂😇
@@prettygirlcronicals8772 YES, WHEN MY 1ST AND ONLY GRANDBABY CAME OVER FOR THE 1ST TIME. MY DAUGHTER & HER MAN SMILED AND SAID DANG MOM 😂😂😂🤣🤣. THEY WASNT TRIPPING THEY WERE HAPPY PER MY DAUGHTER. YOU LOVE HER JUST AS MUCH AS WE DO MOM AND SHE GOT EMOTIONAL
Ashley is a mature young woman. She's able to evaluate her own emotions with a level of awareness that's pretty rare, especially at her age. Good for her!
They are a couple that I keep rooting for individually and together. Its so cute to see them working together and striving to becoming better people individually and together
No Shade But I Was Always Told When You Walk Into Someone's House 🏠 You Are The One Who Suppose To Speak 1st🎯 But I'm Glad Ashley Slept On It And Had A Whole Different Thought On The Situation 🤗
Okay but if someone walks into someone’s house with their baby and you just head the child out the the mothers hand without saying a word the mother that a lil disrespectful
Ok I Get What Everyone Is Saying... Ijs My Stating My Comment like Everyone Else On Here Do. This Was Not Up For Debate🤷 Oan: Everyone Have A Nice And Bless'd Day🤗 Let Me Get Ready For My Birthday 🥳 Tomorrow 💃
Ok I FINALLY found my people cuz everyone is all like "Yay, rooting for them", and I'm here like "what in the toxic co dependency is really going on?" Not cute at all.
Bar mom seems like she’s jealous because of Ashley fr she should have let that go when she found out Ashley was pregnant tbh. I’m glad Ashley figured out how to handle that cause chile..
Which part ? The domestic abuse ? Her being the only provider and taking care of their little girl ? Pitty fights ? If you satisfy by such a storyline, it’s worrying honestly... elevate, that’s not a good storyline
@@LemonGreenism Every person on the planet has problems. These peoples are just televised. So what if she supports him, maybe she prefers emotional support over financial, its not about gender roles or money to everyone. I don't know if he followed through with it, but I believe there was mention of anger management clases, if anything, thats a start in the right direction. Some people make excuses for their actions rather than taking responsibility which I saw them both do, more than once. Your partner is supposed to love you, support you and strengthen you through hard times...I applaud them for TRYING. That's all anyone in this life can continue to do.
@@Cmrb48az as a person who has been indecisive about whether I should work out my relationship this comment was very helpful. Comparing my situation to others is never wiser because not everyone air out their dirty laundry.
I love pastor Tea, she shoots straight from the hips. She tried to give them both tough love, she tried to nurture them both and she had to set her boundaries with them both at times. And like most 1st time gmoms, she had to go cry and pray harder for these kids than herself first. I love that pastor Tea listened to everyone on LIVE. When everyone reached out and told her Ashley maybe trying to hurt herself❤🙏🏿😊
@MsEjay9 That was frustrating, wasn't it? At least she acknowledged it wasn't a helpful thing to say but like come on did she really _need_ to say it at all? Especially so soon after everything happened.
It’s not a back handed compliment. She didn’t like him because of his attitude and treatment towards her daughter and his terrible habits, which made him ugly. I understand what she meant.
I just love the way Ashley is so supportive of Bar and how she pushes him and she knows that all he needs and wants is love 💕😘💘💕😘 and how he is so in love with her good job Bar keep on building the love and respect that you two have for one another
I love how they got everything they went after too Ashley finished school graduated has her own home and raising they daughter and I believe bar just got his GED and they are engaged I’m rooting for them they are human living real life I love how open they have been especially being black we needed her story on this franchise I love it ❤️
@@Hannah-sg4sr well she had a baby number one, and number two she’s has gotten older which is supposed to happen. So she looks pretty amazing! Idk what your seeing but she has done so much to look that good. And idk what weight you think she has gained because she lost a lot. Sounds to me like your someone that can’t complement others.
I liked them together!! It’s because of their mother’s the relationship failed , they both have their faults but they were young figuring out life at the same time together.. living a certain lifestyle that had to change quickly because they were bringing a child into the world but I think they definitely could have made it through it all together but the constant interference from the moms who are the ADULTS in the situation played a part in the biggest issues in their relationship
Yeah I was cringing a little bit cause I wouldn’t be able to talk to my parents like that, but they probably have a closer relationship where cursing is really not that big of a deal 🤷🏾♀️
My dad's a preacher and that's how I talk. Cussing doesn't make you a bad person. In fact, I feel like it makes you more real. This old mindset has got to go. I'm thankful my parents let me be who I am in front of them instead of having to put on an act🤷♀️ and I'm sure Ashley's mom is the same.
I loved this couple , I wish things could be different for them …. I didn’t even realize I was in a toxic verbally abusive relationship until I watched their story …. It was tough to leave because I kept going back but watching this made me better I’m glad I left & I pray I never go back !!!.
They really are cute together, aside from the DV. I've only seen a little of this couple; I hope they were able to move forward and grow so nothing like that ever happens again.
When you come into someone's house, YOU speak to them. That woman was just happy to see her baby's baby, apparently her 1st grandchild, for apparently the 1st time. I think if Ashley hadn't stormed out, Shen would've eventually said hi.
They didn’t get along before then. Imagine somebody you not getting along with snatching your baby out your hand and ignoring you. You would’ve been like “oh I should’ve spoke first”. I think his mom would’ve ignored her either way.
That was rude of the mom to not say hi to her she went straight to the baby and took her out of her arms she should have say hi right there🙄Everybody bashing Ashley because they feel like she should've have say hi first but remember they wasn't on good terms and the mom threaten her and ruin the baby shower
Love them......and their story. Shen is my exact MIL and my partner and I also removed ourselves from the chaos and it’s all you can do. Best wishes to their little family!
All you need is a hug and then when more happens you require your parents to do more and step in and complain when they don't. Some ppl need to be told I told you so because obviously when her mother was talking logic to her she didn't get it until he went upside her head! Now she wants a hug 🙄🙄
@@tatianalily5544 I get what you saying, but that’s a career, he’s not looking for a career, he’s trying to get a regular job and A LOT a places don’t do face tattoos
This story Inspired me so much wish I could, Tell her Face to Face how much she just impacted on my life 🥺 I wish to them more happiness, openness and success in life 😌💯
I have fully embraced my son’s girlfriend, flaws and all. She’s always welcome in my home, whether they stay together or not. She’s like a daughter to me.
I am glad they worked it out. No relationship is perfect and every individual is different which means your not always going to agree. But dont let the bad out way the good and everything will work itself out. No relationship is easy I am happy for them.
She went from educated and strong to talking/acting all gangster & crazy at one point. It's sad to see a strong human being snap like that so clearly over men. If only he knew how lucky he was and did right they maybe coulda kept it together. This young love stuff rarely ever works out BC females and males just mature at different times. I pray she finds her grounding again. ....guys will play games & claim us women are the obsessed or jealous ones. I find females to be so trusting & so forgiving. As an attractive female I have dealt more with obsessive possessive jealous men, more than I have been that way myself, or another female. Men, have some confidence in yourself and keep your eyes on what you have, I promise it will save a ton of relationships. Just thankful that they finally matured and realized they both wanted the best. I saw potential and tbh was shocked that it went quite as sour as it did. We both knew their hearts were for eachother, just had to go through a lot to see what was most important, and again it was all a huge lesson in growing up. Praying u both work it out, bc the love is clearly there.
Ashley needs some 101 etiquette, she walked into someone's house and didn't speak. When you walk into the room where people are it's the one walking in that should speak;.
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The part where she was crying, wiped her tears and then smiled and made Holly feel like she was okay..when she wasn’t. Been there, strength.
That’s some real mama strength 🖤💪🏾
I’ve done that so many times with my kids.
It was so sad how she was crying and Holly said mom hurt and she had to stop and say she's fine it breaks my hearrt awee!
Motherhood for sure.
Aww i know! 🥺🥺🥺 she's such a strong mama bear!
Wow it amazes me how tears can be turned on and off so quickly. But I was never able to do that but I’m not that talented
That did make me tear up a little
Bar has a lot of flaws but i liked hearing him say one of his goals was to *actively* bond with his daughter. We need more fathers, especially on this show willing to actually be around their children and play an active role in their lives. He’s got some work ahead of him but he doesn’t seem like a bad guy
agreed
@@222ritsu I agree, but like always someone change after the birth of the 1st child is born. I wasn't surprised it was Ashley, watching her with her instructor you see the best of Ashley. When I met Bar & Shaun ( his mom) he appears to been raised without boundaries, by his brothers or the streets. His face is swelled like he's on lean, honestly I find them both disrespectful as all hell though
Actions speak louder then words. Do what you say. Say what you mean.
5 years passed and Bar is still not working, not in school, just got his ged.I could never see the attraction. He just needs someone to support him.
is known gonna adress the fact that he has multiple teardrops on his face which means he dropped two bodies and is probably a shooter. I meeeeann!?
His mama will NEVER like you, you took her man.
Literally how it seems
Mothers like that disgust me
😭😭😭😭
Awful that this is real and not talked about with clingy mothers. "Son-husbanding"
Lol😂😂😂
“Don’t touch me..Don’t touch the pillow”😂
😂😂
And why did she sound so sweet when she said it😭
That part Cracked me up😅
That’s me! Ong and I got another one coming !!
Bar's smile was so cute, like he was out of his element not knowing what to do to help.
They're a cute couple and both seem like they're great kids.
The way his mom talks to him is mad weird.
Mothers and their boys. I hate the dynamic
@@vanessaissa3577 Idk wym
@@Niqquhchris6 a lot of men have strange relationships with their mothers. Their mums have this emotionally incestuous relationship with them. That’s more time why some men have issues and distorted ideas of what their partners should be. And also you’ll know the ‘evil mother in law’ stereotype that comes from overbearing mothers, jealous of their sons relationship and constantly crossing boundaries
@@targaryangot2494 I hate that. That’s so nasty.
I think it’s dope ! Always gotta amp your kid !
Ashley is literally the prettiest teen mom ever. She keeps herself up so well.
literally like omg
she's always on point 👌👌
No Cheyenne is
@@Heaven-vo8mi hm..
@@BMUNNEEE I mean Cheyenne has that round baby face that make her so adorable, but Ashley is gorgeous too.
Ashley is seriously mature well beyond her years. She’s my favorite
See I respect young mothers who are actually doing something with themselves while they have a child... I’m glad she makes good decisions ♥️
Would a good decision be to have your shit together BEFORE having a baby? Wouldn’t it be wise to get married before having a baby? Seems like good decision making isn’t something she’s accustomed to.
@@Laoriginal718 lmaooo you a negative Nancy… sounds like you mad at your mom for being a single mother 😭
@La Original
You're not _wrong,_ but OP was looking on the bright side.
Mistakes are made by everyone, but not all of them result in a beautiful, healthy baby girl like Bar and Ashley's "mistake" did.
u need to respect them ither ways
@@Laoriginal718 stuff happens sad your mom didnt do those things
Ashley is my favorite. She’s always been strong and confident. Unlike literally all of the other teen moms, lol.
Lol i like her and Chey
@@Spokentruths725 same. I love Cheyenne too. I liked Jade too before when she was on Young and Pregnant.
Ashley ain't a teen mom tho
She was 20 when she had her kid
@@headsNshoulders Well, she got pregnant at 19. That’s still a teenager, even though she’s not considered a minor.
Shes a black woman they're built Ford tough💅💪 THATS the difference🤣🤣🤣 sad but true... wish she'd leave Bar and find a man that can match her drive though
It’s the part where she breaks down crying then acts like nothin is wrong within 5 seconds to stay strong in front of Holly... I felt ts 💪🏽💯💚
I feel like Bar and Ashley would’ve been fine if it wasn’t for their parents
I don’t want to blame their parents entirely but I was jst about to say it’s so sad they didn’t have a good start but was trying so hard to hold each other down like, kinda we’re all we got. Tryin so hard to come across like we can shame everybody and do this but they need help. I mean, a lot of it. Let’s do this together but mane tht generational curses is a real thing
@@MegaLadylove2012 Yes you have that right the generational curse. I understand it all to well now that my kids are young adults. And I was raised so.. so..old school. I had to put the old with the new ok😂😂🤣🤣🙏🏿❤. I love pastor Tea, I could start this off with I TOLD YOU SO. BUT, IM NOT GOING TO SAY THAT😂😂😂. AFTER SHE SLID IT RIGHT IN THERE
He's way too immature
Facts
@Ebony P
He's young still.
Everyone starts off immature but he's growing.
Ashley mom is kinda right though. Their marriage is not going to last if he can’t stand up to his mom and tell her that she is not the #1 woman in his life anymore.
Ashley is way to mature for Bar..sad to say but no woman that’s trying so hard to give her best to her child, should have to put up with that
Black women are always too mature for them but Ofcourse they ain’t trying to hear tht. Thts the problem
@@MegaLadylove2012 that’s right !
@@MegaLadylove2012 I’m trying to figure out why she’s okay with an uneducated “man” that set himself up to be permanently unemployed with those tattoos. I think he knows Ashley will continue to pay the bills. And I guess he figures the Teen Mom checks are good for now.
Well doing all that "hold you down" crap for a man that is NOT your husband is what you don't do. So many women do that. Doing Supervisor/Manager duties when their position is the janitor. Stop that. Get the level up and THEN do those duties. Stick to that too. Men will respect you when you do so.
If she was that mature she would have gotten married before getting pregnant.
Ashley is honestly such a good mom, i almost died when she was crying and her baby said "mommy hurt", baby you go through everything you go through for a reason, but god has blessed you with this child, and everything you do now, will all be worth it in the end. God is so good, AMEN!
Yes she is a good mom
Amen 🙏🏿🥺
He will be 32 before he gets a job.
Amen
Fake tears
Bar was so fine before the tatts on his face 😭
I totally agree. He messed up when he got them
Onb
It makes me so sad he was so handsome before
Yea
I wonder who is Norm ? And what the other tatt says?
Ashley’s voice is so pretty. Strange comment but forreal
I agree and she speaks so eloquently 😂
I said the same. She sounds so cute.
fr tho
Yes and she is so beautiful period isn't she
So she was 20 when she had her baby??? she weren’t even a teen 🥴
They’re both so attractive. Baby Holly is gorgeous too 💕
Tru
Holly is her grandmothers twin ❤️
yes they are such an attractive couple
Yes they are both attractive and wish them the best very cute couple
Yassss
I love Ashley. She’s real and accountable. People paint her as dramatic and chaotic. It’s hard when you’re misunderstood however you the only one being honest and real. Showing both your good and bad.
Him putting his hands on her is a no🙅🏾♀️
If they do it once they’ll do it again. They don’t change.
Thank. You. Oh lord, not as much comment about that than about the fact he’s « fine ». He’s a bum...
@@LemonGreenism Fr in the beginning she said she danced for money and what was he doing ?
@Alissa hopefully
@Alissa Not y’all making shit up. She never lied.
The "dont touch me" & the "dont touch the pillow" i sooo felt that. It was exactly how i felt in labor/pain.
I love when Tea cried when she relalized her baby girl just had a baby girl of her own
“She didn’t speak to me” correct me if I’m wrong but if you walk in somebody’s house you’re suppose to speak. You could have spoke.
i agree but at the same time if she could come take the baby out of her arms SOMEBODY could’ve said something 😂
Righttttt!!!!
On top of that it’s the first time she seeing her son daughter she worried bout her grand baby 🤨 my momma act like nobody here when her grandson in the room ..... and he 4 😂😂😇
@@trecrazysexycool right.
@@prettygirlcronicals8772 YES, WHEN MY 1ST AND ONLY GRANDBABY CAME OVER FOR THE 1ST TIME. MY DAUGHTER & HER MAN SMILED AND SAID DANG MOM 😂😂😂🤣🤣. THEY WASNT TRIPPING THEY WERE HAPPY PER MY DAUGHTER. YOU LOVE HER JUST AS MUCH AS WE DO MOM AND SHE GOT EMOTIONAL
Ashley had a huge glow up, she was already beautiful in the beginning but she just kept getting more beautiful
I love how loving baby Holly is. She loves her mommy and her daddy. That means no matter what they make her feel safe.
Ashley is a mature young woman.
She's able to evaluate her own emotions with a level of awareness that's pretty rare, especially at her age. Good for her!
Some Aries ♈️ have that gift
They are a couple that I keep rooting for individually and together. Its so cute to see them working together and striving to becoming better people individually and together
No Shade But I Was Always Told When You Walk Into Someone's House 🏠 You Are The One Who Suppose To Speak 1st🎯 But I'm Glad Ashley Slept On It And Had A Whole Different Thought On The Situation 🤗
Are you talking about her getting mad about bars mom acknowledging the baby and not saying a word to Ashley?
Okay but if someone walks into someone’s house with their baby and you just head the child out the the mothers hand without saying a word the mother that a lil disrespectful
Idk about no one taking my new baby out my arms tho.
@@PnRShdn I Feel You On That Part💯
Ok I Get What Everyone Is Saying... Ijs My Stating My Comment like Everyone Else On Here Do. This Was Not Up For Debate🤷
Oan: Everyone Have A Nice And Bless'd Day🤗 Let Me Get Ready For My Birthday 🥳 Tomorrow 💃
Ashley’s glow up 😍 the scene where she got mad his mom didn’t speak. I was always taught when u walk into someone’s home you always speak first. 🤷♀️
I was thinking the EXACT same thing!!!
Respect!
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 thus the mfkin ☝🏾
If I’m walking into someone house with my baby and they grab my baby without saying a word to me of course I’m gonna be mad
@@kysznn2176 I get that but I think she just got caught up in the excitement. It was kinda blown outta proportion.
As someone who literally watched this since I was 11, this is not cute anymore. She deserves better and he deserves for himself to do better
Im glad I finally found a comment saying this because every other comment is talking about how they’re rooting for them. This is toxic
Omg me too because this is not cute, it may look cute for now but I’m future it will definitely break the household
Ok I FINALLY found my people cuz everyone is all like "Yay, rooting for them", and I'm here like "what in the toxic co dependency is really going on?" Not cute at all.
I love how Tea continually has a forgiving heart and open spirit with Bar. She’s very supportive of Ashley. I love that ❤
I criedddddd when Holly asked, “Mommy hurt?”
Ashley is a true inspiration and the epitome of what a strong black woman is. Man I love her
Bar mom seems like she’s jealous because of Ashley fr she should have let that go when she found out Ashley was pregnant tbh. I’m glad Ashley figured out how to handle that cause chile..
They'll be fine on the long run. If they stay focused on each other. I like their storyline
Which part ? The domestic abuse ? Her being the only provider and taking care of their little girl ? Pitty fights ? If you satisfy by such a storyline, it’s worrying honestly... elevate, that’s not a good storyline
@@LemonGreenism right
@@LemonGreenism Every person on the planet has problems. These peoples are just televised. So what if she supports him, maybe she prefers emotional support over financial, its not about gender roles or money to everyone. I don't know if he followed through with it, but I believe there was mention of anger management clases, if anything, thats a start in the right direction. Some people make excuses for their actions rather than taking responsibility which I saw them both do, more than once. Your partner is supposed to love you, support you and strengthen you through hard times...I applaud them for TRYING. That's all anyone in this life can continue to do.
@@Cmrb48az well said.
@@Cmrb48az as a person who has been indecisive about whether I should work out my relationship this comment was very helpful. Comparing my situation to others is never wiser because not everyone air out their dirty laundry.
I really like her parents. So respectful and real ♥️
Especially her biological dad
Her mother was something else
Does anybody else get brown skin saweetie when they look at Ashley’s face? She’s so pretty ✨
I can kinda see that. I also think she resembles TH-camr Dana Alexia if you’re familiar.
@@glocan I never heard of Dana Alexia.
Thanks for putting me on, sis ✨💕
Similar but she's prettier than her to me. She kind of reminds me of Teanna Taylor.
Absolutely not.
More so Tyeana Taylor I think that's how you spell her name lol
I think the best thing they did was move away from their families.
They honestly look so much happier now then what they were before together 🙏🏼
I love Ashley’s mom she so supportive and she shows tuff love and I love that about her ♥️
I love them together now. They’ve grown so much ❤️
I love pastor Tea, she shoots straight from the hips. She tried to give them both tough love, she tried to nurture them both and she had to set her boundaries with them both at times. And like most 1st time gmoms, she had to go cry and pray harder for these kids than herself first. I love that pastor Tea listened to everyone on LIVE. When everyone reached out and told her Ashley maybe trying to hurt herself❤🙏🏿😊
I’m crying the proposal was everything! Their love seems so genuine, still rooting for em! 🙌🏾
It's not just Bars mom. Ashley mom has faults.
Agree ☝🏾
Facts
I REALLY don’t like that she started that convo about dv with by basically saying I told you so
@MsEjay9
That was frustrating, wasn't it?
At least she acknowledged it wasn't a helpful thing to say but like come on did she really _need_ to say it at all?
Especially so soon after everything happened.
(It's around 23:03, if anyone here reading these comments wants to watch that part)
I love how they talk thru they problems
Gramma saying you look just like yo daddy, he ain't cute but you is 😖😬 not a back handed compliment
But she’s a preacher doe
Smdh
The other time she said u look just like ur dad, you so pretty... so I'm sure it was a joke
It’s not a back handed compliment. She didn’t like him because of his attitude and treatment towards her daughter and his terrible habits, which made him ugly. I understand what she meant.
I just love the way Ashley is so supportive of Bar and how she pushes him and she knows that all he needs and wants is love 💕😘💘💕😘 and how he is so in love with her good job Bar keep on building the love and respect that you two have for one another
That breakdown about him not doing enough while talking to her mom…..whew! I remember that same conversation I had with my mom.
“I could start the conversation by saying I told you so, but…” seems like a passive aggressive way of saying “I told you so”.
I was waiting for this comment because FR. The way she worded it to fit it in…. so unnecessary
I completely agree with Ashley on someone taking my baby outta my arms without acknowledging me is just out right rude.
I love how they got everything they went after too Ashley finished school graduated has her own home and raising they daughter and I believe bar just got his GED and they are engaged I’m rooting for them they are human living real life I love how open they have been especially being black we needed her story on this franchise I love it ❤️
Agreed
He's a bum
💖
@@onemillionmilesonthebeach9747 what?
They are happily married
She just gets prettier & prettier, meanwhile Bar… 😅
Love how they are both committed to making it work out 🤍
What’s wrong with the mom… telling her about the proposal…
She was right abt it tho they ended up not getting married so her mom was completely right bar is outta control
Bar admitted that the proposal was scripted for the show
@@angelm5835 just that proposal they were already engaged by the time they filmed it so they re-did it for the show 😭
It was a way to convince her not to do it. Saying she wasn’t going to the wedding
Ashley really glowed up and lost weight throughout the years
She looks older now she looked more pretty with the weight just saying 😬
@@Hannah-sg4sr well she had a baby number one, and number two she’s has gotten older which is supposed to happen. So she looks pretty amazing! Idk what your seeing but she has done so much to look that good. And idk what weight you think she has gained because she lost a lot. Sounds to me like your someone that can’t complement others.
@@a.raw_mfkkk that makes sense thank you 😊
23:03 "I could start this conversation off by saying I told you so"
You just did. You already did.
The way Ashley cuss in front of her mama makes me very sure that her mama be cussing too as a preacher.
Right?! That was crazy!😅
Her mama is always cussing and it’s crazy 😂
When Holly said "Mommy hurt" , she deserves to see her "Mommy fine"
Dang these kids have respect and humility 🙏🙏🙏 God bless this family and I pray for nothing but the best for them
I liked them together!! It’s because of their mother’s the relationship failed , they both have their faults but they were young figuring out life at the same time together.. living a certain lifestyle that had to change quickly because they were bringing a child into the world but I think they definitely could have made it through it all together but the constant interference from the moms who are the ADULTS in the situation played a part in the biggest issues in their relationship
The growth between them is real
I’m really rooting for these two 😩🙏🏾❤️
Thought her mom's a preacher, if I'd talked like that in front of my parents I'd be trying to find my upper lip, cause it would've been smacked off!!
😂😂
Yeah I was cringing a little bit cause I wouldn’t be able to talk to my parents like that, but they probably have a closer relationship where cursing is really not that big of a deal 🤷🏾♀️
My dad's a preacher and that's how I talk. Cussing doesn't make you a bad person. In fact, I feel like it makes you more real. This old mindset has got to go. I'm thankful my parents let me be who I am in front of them instead of having to put on an act🤷♀️ and I'm sure Ashley's mom is the same.
@@EA0822 fr
Hello!
I cannot stand Bars hair 🤣🤣🤣👀
I’m definitely cheering for them and praying fr they going to make it!
I loved this couple , I wish things could be different for them …. I didn’t even realize I was in a toxic verbally abusive relationship until I watched their story …. It was tough to leave because I kept going back but watching this made me better I’m glad I left & I pray I never go back !!!.
Awe I hope he does better for his family she is a good woman and she loves him so much . Pray everything works out for them ❤️
I’m really happy they got back together. Aside from all the mess that make a good couple.
Hope he grew up. Haven’t watched in a while.
They really are cute together, aside from the DV.
I've only seen a little of this couple; I hope they were able to move forward and grow so nothing like that ever happens again.
When you come into someone's house, YOU speak to them. That woman was just happy to see her baby's baby, apparently her 1st grandchild, for apparently the 1st time. I think if Ashley hadn't stormed out, Shen would've eventually said hi.
Exactly. I agree!
They didn’t get along before then. Imagine somebody you not getting along with snatching your baby out your hand and ignoring you. You would’ve been like “oh I should’ve spoke first”. I think his mom would’ve ignored her either way.
@@everybodyhatesnasia1670 thank you!
So while she was grabbing her child from her hands she couldn’t say “Hello”?
They don’t get along and then you take my baby and ignore me it’s a problem
He should’ve been had a job😂why wait till u get pregnant to do all that
Exactly
That was rude of the mom to not say hi to her she went straight to the baby and took her out of her arms she should have say hi right there🙄Everybody bashing Ashley because they feel like she should've have say hi first but remember they wasn't on good terms and the mom threaten her and ruin the baby shower
These two youngsters are gorgeous & so is their daughter
I’m hoping & wishing everything works out for them
I absolutely love Ashley and bar. I hope they continue to grow & be happy
32:46 This broke me “mommy hurt” 😔
I swear her relationship gives Me a lot of hope. I hope me and mines fine back together but different and strong
Love them......and their story. Shen is my exact MIL and my partner and I also removed ourselves from the chaos and it’s all you can do. Best wishes to their little family!
I really like Ashley, but when he called her out on sleeping with some guy in front of her kid... valid.
That girl is beautiful like her face is to die for 😍😍😍😍
Damnnn her mom reminded me of my mom back when all I needed was a hug
All you need is a hug and then when more happens you require your parents to do more and step in and complain when they don't. Some ppl need to be told I told you so because obviously when her mother was talking logic to her she didn't get it until he went upside her head! Now she wants a hug 🙄🙄
I’m sorry babe- I’m a mom sending you that love
@@Beefer-e4j thank you 🙏🏾💙
Although they’ve gone through a lot you can tell he genuinely loves her
It's interesting to see how their anger and their family dynamics affecter their relationship so much.
Its so nice too see them so happy and together as a family.😊
“ mommy , mommy hurt “ awwwwww
Why on Earth did bar tattoo his face?? I understand tattoos are a way of expressing yourself.
Man just write a journal why the heck you need to ink your body for 🤦🏾♀️
@@Fatima-rz9vt expression duh. Not just documentation.
Ashley is such a strong young woman
That ankle braclet and shoes 😆🤣
she is definitely the definition of ima b there thru thick nd thin & i got you 5L. bye there so cute i love this
How would Bar think he would get himself a job with those face tattoos? Self sabotage
He doesn’t care and doesn’t want a job.
You can still get a job with face tattoos 🧍🏾♀️
I’m literally work in hospital you be how surprised how many doctors and surgeons have face tattoos
@@tatianalily5544 I get what you saying, but that’s a career, he’s not looking for a career, he’s trying to get a regular job and A LOT a places don’t do face tattoos
@Fluffy Bear
Careers still require an interview most of the time, except someone owning their own business or something.
when she said she danced i was like, “oh alr” and then she said her momma was a preacher and my face did a whole 🫣
This story Inspired me so much wish I could, Tell her Face to Face how much she just impacted on my life 🥺 I wish to them more happiness, openness and success in life 😌💯
Yes these amazing
They’re cute together
Aww man I’m so happy they figured it out holly is so beautiful, love their family
I have fully embraced my son’s girlfriend, flaws and all. She’s always welcome in my home, whether they stay together or not. She’s like a daughter to me.
So happy that they worked it out! Wish nothing but the best for both of them
I am glad they worked it out. No relationship is perfect and every individual is different which means your not always going to agree. But dont let the bad out way the good and everything will work itself out. No relationship is easy I am happy for them.
She went from educated and strong to talking/acting all gangster & crazy at one point. It's sad to see a strong human being snap like that so clearly over men. If only he knew how lucky he was and did right they maybe coulda kept it together. This young love stuff rarely ever works out BC females and males just mature at different times. I pray she finds her grounding again. ....guys will play games & claim us women are the obsessed or jealous ones. I find females to be so trusting & so forgiving. As an attractive female I have dealt more with obsessive possessive jealous men, more than I have been that way myself, or another female. Men, have some confidence in yourself and keep your eyes on what you have, I promise it will save a ton of relationships. Just thankful that they finally matured and realized they both wanted the best. I saw potential and tbh was shocked that it went quite as sour as it did. We both knew their hearts were for eachother, just had to go through a lot to see what was most important, and again it was all a huge lesson in growing up. Praying u both work it out, bc the love is clearly there.
Bar is cute but the tattoos over his eyebrows sucks
I totally agree
When they said you’re officially a grandma she started crying 😮💨😢❣️
Ashley needs some 101 etiquette, she walked into someone's house and didn't speak. When you walk into the room where people are it's the one walking in that should speak;.
If she’s 20, that’s not a teen mom.
When you enter someone home you are the one who’s supposed to speak!!!!