Story 1: They had years to put her into therapy but instead they just dropped her on OP using her as an emotional support animal. They have only themselves to blame.
Story 1: NTA obviously. Lisa thinking OP's responsibility was to be an emotional support human for her daughter is infuriating. OPs father suggesting she make life's decisions to keep the peace in a house she's about to move out of is telling. I can't imagine what it's actually been like for OP living in that house since the passing of her mother. The entire family needs therapy to address the codependency, unfair treatment, and how to move forward.
I’m on meds for anxiety and depression and I force myself to do things without the support of my friends because I don’t want to be a burden on them, I take my bag and meds with me and always hold my stress ball… nta I hope op enjoys the out of state college and give her dad and step mom some space
IMAGINE STEP SLUG SITTING IN BATHROOM 🚽 STALL CRYING AND SCREAMING FOR YOU TO WALK HER TO CLASS !! CALLING POLICE ON FRIENDS THAT VISIT YOU ! BECAUSE SHE DOESNT WANT YOU TO HAVE ANY COMPANY !! REFUSING TO EAT IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND ! THREATENING 2. CUT HER WRIST IF YOU GET DRESSED UP 2 GO OUT TO PARTY WITH YOUR FRIENDS !! ACTUALLY TAKING SEVERAL PILLS 💊 IF ALL OF YOUR ARE NOT THE SAME CLASSES
Story One. OP, your step-mom needs to move in with your step sister if she can't 1be alone at college . That is her child, and you owe her anything, least of all sacrificing your education. In light of the the crap they tried pull about cutting off financial support that neither of them raised contributed to, I would move out, and make sure that they do not have access to any of your college, or financial documents or college funds. They have violated your trust. Your father is a coward for not standing up to his wife over this. I would tell him and her that they are cut off. Your Dad and step-mother are ahs. You are not her daughter's emotional support human, you are his daughter and her step-daughter. Story Two. OP, your father needs to grow a spine stand up to his wife. He is the idiot who opened his mouth. Your step-siblings are not your responsibility, they are your father and his wife's. His wife is not entitled to think it is OP's responsibility to take care of her children. If they want a baby sitter they should pay for one, not try to manipulate you into doing it. Teaching your children healthy ways to deal with disappointments, and to respect other people's boundaries is called parenting. They should try it sometime. You don't always get what you want in life, and no one owes you anything. The sooner their children learn that, the better. Story Three. DO NOT reward entitlement. For their attitude alone, I would bar them from using your property at all, at least until they sincerely apologize. Story Four. OP, your Mom is an AH. You do not owe your step-sister anything. Neither does your aunt.
Story one: OP has no obligation to be step sis’ emotional support animal. Run, run, run else she’ll cling to you like a limpet! Story two: Dad and step mother want a free babysitter.
DAMN THESE WEAK PARENTS HAVE NO PROBLEM TRYING TO FORCE SOMEONE ELSE CHILDREN ON THEIR OWN CHILDREN! NOT ONE OF THESE PARENTS HAS EVER OFFERED A RED CENT ! NOT THEIR SIBLINGS ///. NOT THE FREE NANNY ! AGAIN ! NOT YOUR FAMILY
Story 1: They had years to put her into therapy but instead they just dropped her on OP using her as an emotional support animal. They have only themselves to blame.
Story 1: NTA obviously. Lisa thinking OP's responsibility was to be an emotional support human for her daughter is infuriating. OPs father suggesting she make life's decisions to keep the peace in a house she's about to move out of is telling. I can't imagine what it's actually been like for OP living in that house since the passing of her mother.
The entire family needs therapy to address the codependency, unfair treatment, and how to move forward.
I’m on meds for anxiety and depression and I force myself to do things without the support of my friends because I don’t want to be a burden on them, I take my bag and meds with me and always hold my stress ball… nta I hope op enjoys the out of state college and give her dad and step mom some space
IMAGINE STEP SLUG SITTING IN BATHROOM 🚽 STALL CRYING AND SCREAMING FOR YOU TO WALK HER TO CLASS !! CALLING POLICE ON FRIENDS THAT VISIT YOU ! BECAUSE SHE DOESNT WANT YOU TO HAVE ANY COMPANY !! REFUSING TO EAT IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND ! THREATENING 2. CUT HER WRIST IF YOU GET DRESSED UP 2 GO OUT TO PARTY WITH YOUR FRIENDS !! ACTUALLY TAKING SEVERAL PILLS 💊 IF ALL OF YOUR ARE NOT THE SAME CLASSES
Story One. OP, your step-mom needs to move in with your step sister if she can't 1be alone at college . That is her child, and you owe her anything, least of all sacrificing your education. In light of the the crap they tried pull about cutting off financial support that neither of them raised contributed to, I would move out, and make sure that they do not have access to any of your college, or financial documents or college funds. They have violated your trust. Your father is a coward for not standing up to his wife over this. I would tell him and her that they are cut off. Your Dad and step-mother are ahs. You are not her daughter's emotional support human, you are his daughter and her step-daughter.
Story Two. OP, your father needs to grow a spine stand up to his wife. He is the idiot who opened his mouth. Your step-siblings are not your responsibility, they are your father and his wife's. His wife is not entitled to think it is OP's responsibility to take care of her children. If they want a baby sitter they should pay for one, not try to manipulate you into doing it. Teaching your children healthy ways to deal with disappointments, and to respect other people's boundaries is called parenting. They should try it sometime. You don't always get what you want in life, and no one owes you anything. The sooner their children learn that, the better.
Story Three. DO NOT reward entitlement. For their attitude alone, I would bar them from using your property at all, at least until they sincerely apologize. Story Four. OP, your Mom is an AH. You do not owe your step-sister anything. Neither does your aunt.
STORY 2:
OP (to dad) How much money are you contributing towards my apartment? None! Therefore, how much say do you have in how I run my home? None!
Story one: OP has no obligation to be step sis’ emotional support animal. Run, run, run else she’ll cling to you like a limpet!
Story two: Dad and step mother want a free babysitter.
Go where you want. Not you problem
DAMN THESE WEAK PARENTS HAVE NO PROBLEM TRYING TO FORCE SOMEONE ELSE CHILDREN ON THEIR OWN CHILDREN! NOT ONE OF THESE PARENTS HAS EVER OFFERED A RED CENT ! NOT THEIR SIBLINGS ///. NOT THE FREE NANNY ! AGAIN ! NOT YOUR FAMILY
Just what is that bloke in the background doing with all those monstera leaves? It’s bugging me.
Ur are not Jane support Animal u owe Lisa or daughter nothing
This voice is so annoying, why would anyone use it?