hard to say without the wife's view. I think she does but neither handled the Moms death properly and they both neglected the relationship. That caused a domino effect that affected his relationship with his kids. Especially since they are teenagers that naturally become detached and independent by nature.
Another doormat... Gets treated like sh!t and just goes back to her. "You deserve what you tolerate. You are never a victim of your own decisions, only your circumstances"
you are clearly young and/or childless, and have not lost a close parent. if you were married with kids that age, had lost your mother whom you were close to, you would think twice before just running out the door and abandoning everything you had build into a family for decades.
Well, karma will catch up to OP's daughters, before too long; when the oldest daughter marries a guy who's a cheating lothario, the middle daughter marries a guy who's an abusive tyrant, the youngest dates a boy who's BOTH a cheating lothario and an abusive tyrant, and the girls end up having to raise their kids alone, they'll try to contact OP, and beg him for forgive them, but he'll tell them to kick rocks.⚠️
I understand the OP. He is a husband, a father and a provider all the time. He needed time to be just himself. Its a place we all find ourselves in and I hope he gets through it.
Listening to this story this felt true because lots of key points of which I won't go in detail. The thing I wanted to talk about was how immature the writer was being. I am not insulting or saying it's a bad thing, it's just an observation. You can further understand it by his veiw of his wife being joyful and playful. It feels the writer is stuck in a bottle that hold his sweet memories of past while everything is moving forward. His wife walked over youthful love and is probably just dead inside, she probably isn't cheating. The children being proper kids denotes she also had her fair share of troubles as he is the atm, she's probably the care taker. I think many people suffer from this problem. From the youthful love point of before having kids, parents become robots to take care of the kids, wait until their youngest crosses 10yo, and finally after the pressure of kids lift off, they realize they have become empty husk and nothing youthful stayed inside them. I would say the wife is going through as much as the the husband. That's why if you plan to take 3kids, try to have 2kids with no-1year gap in between and the last kid with a 3-6year gap. In between the gaps try to revitalize relations even if you have to sacrifice your carriers a little.
The wife's so burnt out with the kids that she takes them on a spa day on Father's Day. He's so immature wanting a kiss and an I love you within a 6 month span. Doesn't he realize he's not on his honeymoon anymore? He should be more understanding. Maybe he should contact a bull to give her a good piping while he cheers them on. Maybe he should buy a literal doghouse to move into in the backyard. Wtf is wrong with you? I'm sure OP isn't perfect but to say that the wife has it as bad as him must be some kind of projection from whatever shitshow your life is.
@@Tallguyify "contact a bull to give her a good piping" You know you don't need to make everything about sex. Spa day is a coincidence, they don't even remember it in the 1st place. She didn't go to spa day alone, she went with her kids. As I said many dad's literally forget kids exist until they turn 10. Not taking part in anything except events. "Events" sounds like the dad wanted to do "dad" things than actually becoming a dad. He was a atm and the mom was the caretaker. As I said after three kids, if he never took part in their toddler or child phase as anything but cash support, she might as well remove him from his heart. He could make a moon, but romance doesn't work that way bud. It's the innocence that comes with it, a mother rugged after 3 kids can't go back to newlyweds. But a man who does a job can. A person who does a hard job gets their dream broken in that workplace. For the dad it might have been his job becoming hollow, for the mother it was the place she called home. And God, everyone of you using the word "projection" don't even know what it means. The one who's seld-inserting is you bud not me. I'm just trying to see it from a neutral point of view.
@@imtiaze642 yep. wifes taking care of so much she had imaginary sex in feb. imagine feeling pity and absolutely projecting imaginary scenarios for someone who was so neglectful it nearly drove a person to suicide. And it absolutely is your PROJECTED scenario as your placing this all on some imaginary work bs when BOTH sides cited the exact thing that kicked it off which had zero to do with your imaginary story that wasn't mentioned in the video at all. Work got to him blah blah blah. Men family bad. Men break rock good. Literal drool stamping levels of stereotyping this husband, in your again projected scenario. All while casually chucking stones to build this white knighted wall around the wife. Of course she would cut him out, he WAS just an atm. Dude was trying to take his family out for the entire first half of the video and they were quite literally leaving him behind because they ADMITTEDLY forgot. Both husband and wife stated issues started when he was caring for his dying mother, even SHE stated it was because he disconnected when that happened. Something you ignored to blame on some imaginary work/life imbalance, you literally projected all of that onto the video OVER the actual story so please recognize that yes you are PROJECTING and doing so HARD. Shit the fact people outside the family noticed the fathers absence immediately is all we needed to hear to know you were on some absolute bs with his involvement levels. Absente fathers don't get noticed by NOT being there, active fathers who would be deafening half the cheering section supporting their daughter most certainly do. Dude was considering suicide because he was afraid he was a net negative to his family. You as the absolute stain on humanity that you are: He was probably never involved and it was his job that he was actually upset about, how coulld this idiot expect to be loved after doing thus
@@imtiaze642I love how he gets treated like shit and you’re trying to justify it and even say how he’s immature for wanting to actually be loved and appreciated
@@OTDinosaurScrubs When you have kids, the camera stops being pointed at you at least thats what was teached to us for generations as morals and values, and we like to follow it.
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I have heard this one before and I do not believe OPs wife loves him. She loves having him around.
hard to say without the wife's view. I think she does but neither handled the Moms death properly and they both neglected the relationship. That caused a domino effect that affected his relationship with his kids. Especially since they are teenagers that naturally become detached and independent by nature.
Another doormat... Gets treated like sh!t and just goes back to her.
"You deserve what you tolerate. You are never a victim of your own decisions, only your circumstances"
You (understandably) jumped the gun. He's clearly wary and not even sure he wants it still.
you are clearly young and/or childless, and have not lost a close parent. if you were married with kids that age, had lost your mother whom you were close to, you would think twice before just running out the door and abandoning everything you had build into a family for decades.
@@lothre your projection is very weird TBH.
Imagine gate keeping having self respect and at the same time having none. For real, weird AF.
Well, karma will catch up to OP's daughters, before too long; when the oldest daughter marries a guy who's a cheating lothario, the middle daughter marries a guy who's an abusive tyrant, the youngest dates a boy who's BOTH a cheating lothario and an abusive tyrant, and the girls end up having to raise their kids alone, they'll try to contact OP, and beg him for forgive them, but he'll tell them to kick rocks.⚠️
I understand the OP. He is a husband, a father and a provider all the time. He needed time to be just himself. Its a place we all find ourselves in and I hope he gets through it.
Doesn't love her husband. Loves the idea of having a husband.
Doormat should have left
What’s this account on Reddit called !?
What? I think the last phrase should be reversed. You are a victim of your decisions6
Listening to this story this felt true because lots of key points of which I won't go in detail.
The thing I wanted to talk about was how immature the writer was being. I am not insulting or saying it's a bad thing, it's just an observation. You can further understand it by his veiw of his wife being joyful and playful. It feels the writer is stuck in a bottle that hold his sweet memories of past while everything is moving forward. His wife walked over youthful love and is probably just dead inside, she probably isn't cheating. The children being proper kids denotes she also had her fair share of troubles as he is the atm, she's probably the care taker.
I think many people suffer from this problem. From the youthful love point of before having kids, parents become robots to take care of the kids, wait until their youngest crosses 10yo, and finally after the pressure of kids lift off, they realize they have become empty husk and nothing youthful stayed inside them.
I would say the wife is going through as much as the the husband. That's why if you plan to take 3kids, try to have 2kids with no-1year gap in between and the last kid with a 3-6year gap. In between the gaps try to revitalize relations even if you have to sacrifice your carriers a little.
The wife's so burnt out with the kids that she takes them on a spa day on Father's Day. He's so immature wanting a kiss and an I love you within a 6 month span. Doesn't he realize he's not on his honeymoon anymore? He should be more understanding. Maybe he should contact a bull to give her a good piping while he cheers them on. Maybe he should buy a literal doghouse to move into in the backyard. Wtf is wrong with you? I'm sure OP isn't perfect but to say that the wife has it as bad as him must be some kind of projection from whatever shitshow your life is.
@@Tallguyify "contact a bull to give her a good piping" You know you don't need to make everything about sex.
Spa day is a coincidence, they don't even remember it in the 1st place. She didn't go to spa day alone, she went with her kids. As I said many dad's literally forget kids exist until they turn 10. Not taking part in anything except events. "Events" sounds like the dad wanted to do "dad" things than actually becoming a dad. He was a atm and the mom was the caretaker. As I said after three kids, if he never took part in their toddler or child phase as anything but cash support, she might as well remove him from his heart. He could make a moon, but romance doesn't work that way bud. It's the innocence that comes with it, a mother rugged after 3 kids can't go back to newlyweds. But a man who does a job can. A person who does a hard job gets their dream broken in that workplace. For the dad it might have been his job becoming hollow, for the mother it was the place she called home.
And God, everyone of you using the word "projection" don't even know what it means. The one who's seld-inserting is you bud not me. I'm just trying to see it from a neutral point of view.
@@imtiaze642 yep. wifes taking care of so much she had imaginary sex in feb.
imagine feeling pity and absolutely projecting imaginary scenarios for someone who was so neglectful it nearly drove a person to suicide. And it absolutely is your PROJECTED scenario as your placing this all on some imaginary work bs when BOTH sides cited the exact thing that kicked it off which had zero to do with your imaginary story that wasn't mentioned in the video at all.
Work got to him blah blah blah. Men family bad. Men break rock good. Literal drool stamping levels of stereotyping this husband, in your again projected scenario. All while casually chucking stones to build this white knighted wall around the wife. Of course she would cut him out, he WAS just an atm. Dude was trying to take his family out for the entire first half of the video and they were quite literally leaving him behind because they ADMITTEDLY forgot.
Both husband and wife stated issues started when he was caring for his dying mother, even SHE stated it was because he disconnected when that happened. Something you ignored to blame on some imaginary work/life imbalance, you literally projected all of that onto the video OVER the actual story so please recognize that yes you are PROJECTING and doing so HARD.
Shit the fact people outside the family noticed the fathers absence immediately is all we needed to hear to know you were on some absolute bs with his involvement levels. Absente fathers don't get noticed by NOT being there, active fathers who would be deafening half the cheering section supporting their daughter most certainly do.
Dude was considering suicide because he was afraid he was a net negative to his family. You as the absolute stain on humanity that you are: He was probably never involved and it was his job that he was actually upset about, how coulld this idiot expect to be loved after doing thus
@@imtiaze642I love how he gets treated like shit and you’re trying to justify it and even say how he’s immature for wanting to actually be loved and appreciated
@@OTDinosaurScrubs When you have kids, the camera stops being pointed at you at least thats what was teached to us for generations as morals and values, and we like to follow it.
Dude, this gameplay is so bad.
First🥇🥇🥇
Dont act like you won the world cup
Does it even matter who is first?
Ratioed lol