I spent over 50k on surgery ?.. Was it worth it ? Spilling all the tea !

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  • @missblunco
    @missblunco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1575

    “I’ve done all of this & I don’t really feel happy” that’s what these young women need to hear. Thank you for your honesty!

    • @sammyocgirl7411
      @sammyocgirl7411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      lol her lips look CRAZY BLOW UP DOLL

    • @Mindyours1999
      @Mindyours1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      @@sammyocgirl7411 so unnecessary to comment this when she says she’s very vulnerable and that posting this was hard. What did you get out of posting this on her video?

    • @heidimorales5121
      @heidimorales5121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you for also mentioning you've had several cosmetic surgeries done and said you also are not happy. This is important to hear. I'm glad women are speaking up about it to inform other women.

    • @summerwilkerson434
      @summerwilkerson434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I love her lips and her jaw line 🤷‍♀️

    • @Ronnienumber1fangirl
      @Ronnienumber1fangirl ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@summerwilkerson434 her lips look too fake

  • @PurposelyObtuse
    @PurposelyObtuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    I honestly think every woman should wait until you’re at least 25 years old before pursuing surgery. Most of your desires for changing yourself alleviates around that era! Thank you for sharing! You’re a gorgeous woman!

    • @AndraCornelia27
      @AndraCornelia27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I do believe you are right

    • @autumn551
      @autumn551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Very true, especially because, the prefrontal cortex which is the decision-making part of the brain is only fully developped around that age.

    • @cindy03709
      @cindy03709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I actually really agree with this. There should be an age limit, and 25 sounds great!

    • @PurposelyObtuse
      @PurposelyObtuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@cindy03709 I doubt it would happen. Our insecurities is generational wealth for them.

    • @cindy03709
      @cindy03709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PurposelyObtuse true sadly

  • @gravityclarity
    @gravityclarity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1072

    I think it's important for women to share these experiences. I used to want a rhinoplasty but I wouldn't want to end up with something I like less than what I have naturally.

    • @janelle_godin
      @janelle_godin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Most rhinoplasties go well though especially if you go to a good surgeon and you guys communicate properly

    • @gravityclarity
      @gravityclarity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@janelle_godin they probably do. I just think I'm probably better off not altering myself that significantly. I have a feeling I would never be fully satisfied with my appearance.

    • @janelle_godin
      @janelle_godin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@gravityclarity thats facts! I had a nose job and my only regret is that i actually think my surgeon made it a little too natural looking for what i paid lol. But yes youre right, if youre a perfectionist like me, youll never be 100% satisfied with what your surgeon does

    • @gravityclarity
      @gravityclarity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sbocaj22 well that obviously goes without saying. Not sure why you felt the need to comment that...

    • @sbocaj22
      @sbocaj22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gravityclarity because of your words “it’s important for women to share”. There’s this general notion that ppl other than women don’t get cosmetic work done and that’s also part of the stigma in this whole issue.

  • @louannking24
    @louannking24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I personally waited until I turned 38 to start doing surgery.. And I don't regret it tbh.. Because as a woman your body changes tremendously throughout the years due to hormones, pregnancies, etc.. Also, you need to be mature enough to chose wisely and to weigh the pros and cons of any procedure x

    • @ohsoyouthinkyoucandance
      @ohsoyouthinkyoucandance ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is gonna be me. I just turned 35, 2 kids, still popping out more but when I’m done with kids I want to get surgery about 40!
      boobs lips fillers and maybe a little booty lift or filler 😅

  • @sd1556
    @sd1556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I wish you showed some before and after photos

  • @maryb6776
    @maryb6776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    You just gained a follower. Not everyone is brave enough to be opened about something as personal as surgery and the pro’s and con’s.

    • @ShantrellYoung
      @ShantrellYoung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right?! She legit doesn’t care and just puts it out there lol I subbed too just now because of that 😊

    • @zayraroa
      @zayraroa ปีที่แล้ว

      you shouldn’t .. i tell ppl the truth all the time

  • @heidimorales5121
    @heidimorales5121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Damn! This video was eye-opening to me. I've always wanted a nose job, my lips done, and breast augmentation. After watching this video and hearing you have breathing problems, made me decide my ability to breathe is more important. And I no longer want my lips done. I still do want a breast augmentation and I'm still getting it done. But after hearing everything, I'll be happy with just my boobs done and to a proportion that fits my body. I'm glad you made this video. Not a lot of people are brutally honest about the pros and cons of comestic surgery.

    • @realmaureenoyakhilome
      @realmaureenoyakhilome 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please what did she say about the boobs? I’m too lazy to listen. Thanks.

    • @heidimorales5121
      @heidimorales5121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @𝙄𝙑𝙃𝘼𝘿𝙀 she mention pain but it also looks like she had them done a little too big. And ripple skin I'm assuming from the healthy process. She also mentioned sometimes the implants change shape. I'm a mother of 3 who breastfeed. I really want a breast augmentation but I've also done my own research and continuing to do my research for a breast augmentation. I knew a few girls that theirs look amazing. Listen to 6:40

    • @Skeleton_Black
      @Skeleton_Black 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      honestly i don't think people even need these done unless there is some type of deformity. 8/10 women who get lips done. there was nothing wrong with their lips in the first place. they didn't even have the original kylie jenner (before) lips.

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Please do thorough research on breast augmentation. Most people are removing them now due to a sickness they get after having it.

    • @realmaureenoyakhilome
      @realmaureenoyakhilome 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heidimorales5121 May be you should consider working with what you have like a lift and fat transfer . I am not a doctor tho but that seems more reasonable if you aren’t bothered about scars & very confident of whom the doctor is.. incase of life and death situations cos every surgery is a risk… Thank you for doing the lords work. I appreciate.

  • @amberblack6908
    @amberblack6908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I used to hate my nose. But I realized I hated it because it was like my dad's and I didn't see him for years. We fixed our relationship and I've learned to love my nose. My kids have the same nose so I have to find beauty in it. I would hate to say "I hate my nose" in front of my daughter. I want her to see her nose as unique and perfect for her face. Our noses show our family ancestry and if people don't find it beautiful, they don't have to look. Those who truly love you won't mind if you have a big nose. 🥰

    • @LCx829
      @LCx829 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hated my nose but it was my dads nose and he died when I was 16. So now I won’t touch my nose because I don’t ever want to forget how much I look like my dad.

    • @chloejones6240
      @chloejones6240 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I never felt insecure about my nose until my mom got a nose job so i’m glad you’re trying to make your kids proud of their features

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate my nose because it looks ugly

  • @goldengirl113
    @goldengirl113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    This is one of the realest videos ive ever seen on getting plastic surgery, especially from a gorgeous girl like you! I wish more girls were this open. I would also love the 300 to use towards getting away from a toxic parent and being free lol. Merry Christmas

  • @SarcasticaleeXP
    @SarcasticaleeXP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I always wanna understand the though process that went through all of this. I remember as a teenager I hated my appearance so much. I wanted to be bigger, have bigger boobs, smaller forehead, defined chin, nicer hair, straight teeth you name it. I remember I had this almost compulsion to look at myself on different angles in the mirror just to cry about it before going out. Some of this insecurities lasted a couple of years while others lasted more than a decade. At some when I was alone I tried some different looks and thought to myself "hey, this is not that bad'' but I would never go out like that. After some time I changed places, friendships, work, lived on my own, deleted social media, found a partner and it just all got better after that. In 2022 I went out in a way that I would've dare to do 10 years before because I felt disgusting, there is something so fulfilling about looking at the worst part of yourself and just being at peace with it, dare I say even love it now, its crazy. I wonder if you disliked it so much or if at some point you thought it was fine, or that you would like it after? How was your mind treating you while you were insecure (what were you saying to yourself)? The fact that you are still not happy makes me worried. Anyways, I hope you are good, take care.

    • @PurposelyObtuse
      @PurposelyObtuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I said this! I used to look in the mirror like a Bruce Springsteen song, “I wanted to change my hair, my clothes and my face!” It’s so deep. I wanted higher cheekbones, smaller lips, and dental work. The dental work. No regrets there. But I needed dental work due to an accident that chipped my front tooth. Causing other teeth to come in a little crooked. Lol I didn’t do the other things, because the desire completely disappeared around 25. I just remembered looking in the mirror and being settled with my body. I remember thinking, if I change my face I’ll probably have to get used to that too. It took years for me to love myself. But being settled happened around 25 years old.

    • @SarcasticaleeXP
      @SarcasticaleeXP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@PurposelyObtuse Its so weird right? it feels like it comes out of nowhere. Funny enough I was 25/26 last year so I can definitely relate with you there. Probably a mix of growing up and putting myself in better places. Anyways I'm glad that you don't deal with that torment anymore.

    • @yanarmv
      @yanarmv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I was a teen I always hated my nose because of my bump. I hated seeing my side profile and was very self conscious about it. Now that I‘m 20 years old, I can proudly say that I fell in love with my nose, and all the other unique features on my body that I was self couscious about. I would never consider plastic surgery at this young age, because right now in these years you look the best. I wish that more women were like us! Anyways I wish you all the best and never stop loving yourself!💕

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yanarmvyou’re not special because you don’t want plastic surgery right now.

  • @Kitty77777
    @Kitty77777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    I love how transparent you are, not many people open up about surgeries. You are so beautiful ❤ and I really want a rhinoplasty 😢

    • @cutesushhi
      @cutesushhi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      you don’t need one baby 🖤

    • @alanadezao4213
      @alanadezao4213 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here 😭

    • @xxcruiserlove26xx
      @xxcruiserlove26xx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i just got one and its the best decision i ever made. To each there own but as long as your healthy both physically and mentally, go for it 💕

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cutesushhihow do you know she doesn’t need one?!! Stop parroting what you’re hearing on the internet.

    • @cutesushhi
      @cutesushhi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DX-d i can have my own opinion. sarah is genuinely gorgeous even before her facial revisions. and i am very glad that most of her experiences worked out for her. rhinoplasties don’t always go right if you don’t want to pay the good money for it and can cause hella complications….just so you know…

  • @dulcembiza4705
    @dulcembiza4705 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m a post op nurse and I must say the depression and anxiety is easily a huge chunk of the healing process.

  • @uranus0996
    @uranus0996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Having had a rhinoplasty that completely changed my life I definitely agree with everything you’ve said. I had a horrible hump after I had fainted and hit the desk. But the pain was horrible and definitely went over the post depression after the surgery I had a flood of regret but then it got better. The other surgeries have horrible consequences as well you really have to think more than twice getting the surgery and if you are ready for the change. Think hard why are you doing it, to follow a trend or you think it’ll make you feel better

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d ปีที่แล้ว

      I still didn’t understand, how was the rhinoplasty a bad experience?

  • @xolovenicole
    @xolovenicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The same people that you were afraid of judging and criticizing you for having surgeries 9/10 would be the same people shaming people for not being honest about saying they had surgeries! People will complain either way. It was nice hearing you be so transparent about your experiences

  • @R2C2__
    @R2C2__ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so good to hear. The truth. I respect anyone that reveals their surgeries bc it’s a relief to know it does take alot of work to look great.

  • @Sev.T.G8572
    @Sev.T.G8572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Loved how transparent you were! I also did a rhinoplasty 3 years ago and I thank the stars I did it. Like you, my nose is not 100% symmetrical, I have scarring tissue on my left side which makes it slightly thicker, but my God, it's still far better than what I had naturally. My new nose made my other facial features pop out to the point it looks like I had work done on them too when I haven't. Sometimes I even forget it was altered as it sits so naturally on my face. Ironically, prior my nose job I would always have a congested and runny nose, but I no longer have this problem. So my surgery, while done for completely superficial reasons, also fixed my breathing. If I went back in time, I would do it again.

  • @marissss5910
    @marissss5910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had rhinoplasty, and I do not regret it. I got it done for aesthetic reasons and because of my breathing. The surgery actually helped me breathe better. For anyone that wants to get surgery, just make sure you do it for the right reasons and you go to a professional that specializes in that area.

  • @ashleysalazar2012
    @ashleysalazar2012 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have never had plastic surgery but something you said made me think about when I broke out in hives over the summer and wouldn't go outside until it cleared up. It sounds dramatic but when it was all gone and I looked at myself for the first time after I was back to normal I actually felt pretty, which I never had before. It really woke me up to just accepting what I look like. I stopped relying on makeup after that.

  • @mstarburst
    @mstarburst 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    The night before my surgery I remember having almost an existential crisis...every cell in my body was telling me to run outta the hospital lmao I started thinking why the hell am I doing this, who am I really doing this for...do I really hate myself this much? Or is this self love? Changing something about yourself is exciting but it's also emotional (and I'm not an emotional person lol) maybe it's different for me because I didn't get the result I wanted but I kindve expected my life would change and all my insecurities would be gone and I wouldn't have to feel like me anymore. But trust cosmetic surgery can only do so much, its a scalpel not a magic wand. Some people do get truly amazing results but I think that's because they are either starting from a pretty good base anyway or they get lucky.

  • @blanca.kitsune
    @blanca.kitsune 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Thank you for opening up to us and for being so real! ❤️

  • @jessicahuynh2116
    @jessicahuynh2116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love that you’re so open and real. There’s always risk with surgery even with the best hands.

  • @alexisferdinand1261
    @alexisferdinand1261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If anyone is reading this and considering buccal fat removal PLEASEEE look up surgeons talking about this procedure!! for the long run, that buccal fat pad removed from inside the cheek could cause “hollow face” and enhance the appearance of face sagging as you age /: buccal fat holds your face up so as you age, it could help keep the lift you see and removing these fat pads can enhance the look of a droopy face .. by all means, do as you will! But please pleaseee consider these kinds of surgeries

  • @jessicadaniels9860
    @jessicadaniels9860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I feel the same way about my rhinoplasty! My nose isn’t perfect but it’s way better than it was prior. I don’t regret it. It was $10k in North Carolina. Next up I’m getting brow lift, mid face lift with fat transfer and lip lift. I can’t wait. To be honest; even if you don’t get a “perfect result” MOST of the time people do look a lot better after plastic surgery and that’s just the reality of it. I feel like when many people think of plastic surgery they automatically think of “botched” but the reality is that happens to very few people! Plastic surgery is a booming business and it always will be.
    When you decide to get a cosmetic procedure done you just have to know ahead of time that most people wont get it or understand and that’s OK. I don’t tell anyone what I’m doing and keep it private. 😊

  • @blueramos4516
    @blueramos4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I got breast and Lypo in 4 areas. I was extremely sad after surgery, I felt so low for weeks. Also, the nightmares. I wish they would have warned me. Also, way more painful than they made it seem like It was going to be. It's been 8 months and I feel like maybe 2 months ago I started feeling like "myself". It's still difficult to lay down on my back. I dont regret it, Just wish I was more prepared. Thanks for sharing!I

    • @Skeleton_Black
      @Skeleton_Black 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what do you mean by nightmares? are you happy with the results though? i always wanted surgery but never gotten any because i am scared of the pain. people always saying the pain isn't bad but i don't know how?? how is it not painful?

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting…

    • @blueramos4516
      @blueramos4516 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Skeleton_Black Thankfully I’m very happy with the results! I love the lypo most. I think I had nightmares because of the pain? So even when I was sleeping I was in pain and maybe my mind was running. So I would just wake up exhausted. That’s my guess.

  • @SamanthaJee
    @SamanthaJee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Sarah thank you for being so open and honest. Loved this video! You’re so beautiful, you don’t need any other surgeries!

  • @Ronnieisalone
    @Ronnieisalone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love how vulnerable you are with us! And I appreciate it that it shows how close you are to us the fans :)

  • @alexachess7882
    @alexachess7882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl this video was such a breath of fresh air, thank you for your transparency! being i have a virgo moon i completely felt in my soul the overthinking/overanalyzing comment. your outlook and energy on plastic surgery just put me at ease on the future decisions i will be making. doing everything for me and only me, but still knowing nothing will ever be perfect. thank you for the information and positivity! xx

  • @xxfox
    @xxfox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I used to have terrible cystic acne. I cut out gluten and it completely cleared up. You look amazing!

  • @karahdaniel7266
    @karahdaniel7266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hey Sarah I’ve been subscribed to you for awhile and I have to admit this video was so amazing and transparent. I love the fact you really informed those who may be looking into getting surgery but aren’t really aware of the recovery time or the downside of things. Thank you so much for this information hope you enjoyed the holiday season. Oh yea the 300 dollars would be pretty amazing to receive

  • @md8465
    @md8465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had a brow lift, and I loved it. You went through all those things, maybe because you are too young. I was 50 plus when I had mine, and it was one of the best decisions. I never had headaches or migraines. I did go through an anxiety period after this surgery. I had a nose job in Mexico and never had breathing problems. I am thinking about having a mini lift, but I think of the anesthesia, and I chicken out.

  • @brookelyn4828
    @brookelyn4828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I really appreciate this video

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The problem with boob jobs is that they have to be maintained every decade or so. It's not a one and done like rhinoplasty.

    • @mssarellano1799
      @mssarellano1799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Skinny is in again so im guessing So is us flat chested ladies lol

    • @natalijadizdar7824
      @natalijadizdar7824 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate big breasts.I prayed to god every night to not make them grow big.I am so thankful.Tastes are not discussed.Some people like red color and i like white color.Happy New Year 🥳🫶

  • @ytq321
    @ytq321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you're such a beautiful & genuine person and i feel like you understand me. i have body dysmorphia so i'm constantly wishing i could change everything about myself (nose, hairline, chin, body, the list goes on)... i've also had lots of laser procedures done for either veins or acne that were a waste of money or went wrong and made my skin worse. not only that, i had my eyebrows microbladed and i hated it so i got it removed but now there's scars. i've had horrible acne most of my life and i'm also a very skinny/petite person so i'm self-conscious of my weight all over and in my face. nobody could comprehend the mental toll all of this takes unless they've gone through similar. sorry this is a lot. i just had to vent. thank you for making me feel less alone. i subscribed :)

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Judging by your profile photo, you’re already absolutely beautiful. I know BDD is a mental disorder though…

    • @ytq321
      @ytq321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stuff1784 in my mind i can justify the reasons why i appear more attractive like the angle and makeup lol. but you're kind and i appreciate it!

  • @jocelyn2827
    @jocelyn2827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I was watching another video that describes the depression that you experience after a major event/accomplishment, it went into detail about the brain chemistry behind it but basically all the adrenaline and excitement leading up to the surgery and you ride the high up until after. That post-surgery depression is normal but it’s made worse since you’re bed bound and generally sore/in pain during recovery. They were describing how you could exercise or do hobbies, etc. after to boost your mood but post-surgery activities like that aren’t possible. Add to that the trauma that many girls talk about when seeing their post-surgery body all bruised and bloody immediately after.

  • @crystalhale3394
    @crystalhale3394 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I appreciate her honesty. She looks young and younger women need to hear this. I just had a mommy makeover at the age of 38 and after two kids. It’s something that I wanted for several years (after first kid) and I did a ton of research and found an amazing Dr. The cost of my tummy tuck and breast lift (no implant) was $45k but he’s in Beverly Hills and he specializes in mommy makeovers. I hope that women wait until they feel they really need surgery, do proper research, and be sensible and not go with trends bc they are fleeting. Also, I understand that everyone has different financial situations, but cheaper is not always better. ❤

    • @MelinaBrave
      @MelinaBrave 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      power to you sis! do you like the results?

  • @julia-ex7im
    @julia-ex7im 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    do u have any pictures of what your face looked like before all the surgery? I'm really curious to see. You look amazing

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm curious too. Honestly, she was probably just as gorgeous.

  • @sammieee4545
    @sammieee4545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate your transparency about surgery and how you didn’t glorify surgery. I feel like these topics have to be talked about more instead of just the pros. Thank you for being vulnerable and bringing light to this.

  • @danielleh5692
    @danielleh5692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hey girl! I have been off birth control for almost 3 years and dermatologist will tell you to go on birth control because it truly does help. BUT I didn’t want to go on hormonal BC so I was prescribed spironolactone and it’s amazing! I would suggest looking into it because it’s great for hormonal acne

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spirnolactone didn’t do s*** for my acne lol. I had to do Accutane. It is different for everyone though.

  • @416Ezzi
    @416Ezzi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What I’ve learned in life Sarah is no matter how much money we spend on insecurities or wants they only really feel good in that moment over time really u think about it more and most the time it ain’t even worth it we all been there

  • @karlita6591
    @karlita6591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    TEA TREE OIL! For your acne. Keep your skincare routine as simple as possible. I find that when I stop washing my face AM and PM and just wash it when it’s dirty, my acne is calmer. Simply use moisturizer if necessary and sunscreen always. But keep it super simple.

  • @Incognito0o0o0
    @Incognito0o0o0 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude I’m heavily into mental health and something so small and subtle as difficulty in breathing to any capacity can caused anxiety in ALL parts of life. It can cause anxiety when you wake up when your showering when you’re doing pretty much anything because breathing is literally our life and your body knows it. Basically your body goes into fight or flight constantly. You are a strong girly to deal with that type of stress. Praying for your mental well being sending love

  • @Jakaibaby
    @Jakaibaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love your honesty and vulnerability, i have definitely question getting surgery but i realized that it’s best for me to do everything naturally , I know it’ll feel better and be more rewarding and i love the way working out makes my body feel, And just wanna put my opinion out here as well for any girls thinking the same thing.

  • @fairylush7997
    @fairylush7997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it’s so amazing that you are so honest about this all. There is nothing wrong with wanting to get things changed about yourself because you don’t like them. So many of us hate things about how we look and just sort of learn to accept it, but if it becomes something we obsess over there is nothing wrong with intervening… What is wrong is when celebrities lie and say they’ve never had work done, because they think we are fools and unable to see that’s a lie.

  • @rakdhalzukary6362
    @rakdhalzukary6362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for being honest. We need more content creators who have done plastic surgeries to talk about this honestly and transparently. The point where you talked about constantly wanting another plastic surgery and never feel happy or pleased; Id say we tend to choose easier options to solve harder issues, and by issues I mean mental issues. We live in a toxic society where there are tons of ways to belittle ourselves or lose self-love, one of which is seeing perfection on social media all the time. And when reaching the point where we feel less and we need to seek help, we choose to fix the outside, not the inside because it's easier and results are faster. Now here is my advice, if you feel less in any way please seek help that can relieve the self-love inside you again instead of risking your body health and like Sarah experienced, mental health as well. Wish you all good health, Happy new year ❤️

  • @d.andrews9316
    @d.andrews9316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are so sweet. I’ve never had any type of plastic surgery, but I really relate to what you said about having bad anxiety after surgeries. I have had a few major surgeries growing up, and that is so true!! One was when I was 16 and I struggled in school afterwards and just felt like I was not myself for a good while.
    And $300 would be cool especially after the holidays have passed. Good luck to everyone! ❤

  • @Kimwo57923
    @Kimwo57923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As someone who had a septorhinoplasty, your nose is never the same, the first month was actual hell, I looked like I had been punched with a baseball bat, and the pain was unbearable, I was not eating, talking, couldn't not walk or move, then for the first year I could feel my actual bones shifting and cracking when I would change sides I slept on, I could barely touch it, let alone put makeup on it for like 2 years, and having a facial is still a dream (5 years later), forget jumping into the water, forget kissing without a care, forget sleeping next to someone soundly, forget wearing glasses and sunglasses for long periods of time, if someone or something accidentaly hits you in the face, expect the worst pain of your life (one time when I suffered a heat stroke and passed out, before I fell I instictively turned my face away while falling to the floor uncounscious - that's how you know the pain is insane). I am not even mentioning the body dismorphia it can give, you don't feel like yourself. However, my surgery was still worth it since I could not breathe before at all and my quality of life was awful. So if its purely for aesthetic reasons - dont get it, I have friends who, like Sarah, cannot breathe normally anymore, have had complications and chronic pain. A rhinoplasty is a VERY serious surgery and beware!

  • @naariznica3133
    @naariznica3133 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    For a long time i wanted to get my nose 'fixed' because it had a bump and the alar base was too wide to fit the euro centric beautify standards. I've been coming to this conclusion for a long time, but this video helped me to realise there is nothing in need of fixing in the first place. My nose does its functions perfectly and it still looks cute! What I actually wanted to fix with surgery was my mental health and self image which I'm still working on! That's something that I think a lot of women get mixed up because we can all forget to look deeper and just try to find the easiest solutions to our problems. Thank you for sharing! Regarding the giveaway maybe it's too late lmao but I'd like the iphone... My phone has been beat up af and i some weird light is shining from the cracks. I did plan to start filming reels or possibly tiktoks on it since it means I'll actually have a good camera and that's something i wanted for a looong time - i can and want to positively contribute to the online community 💃xx

    • @derpwadder
      @derpwadder ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you came to the realization ❤

  • @Olivia-bl8ez
    @Olivia-bl8ez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU for being honest about this. It’s so refreshing to see people being honest about their surgeries and experiences.
    Also side note for people considering a BBL, keep in mind it is the DEADLIEST plastic surgery. It became so popular many people didn’t even consider this, but it’s still a surgery. Stay safe out there everyone and make sure to really research a doctor before. even the best doctors have surgeries with complications. But i work in the medical field and the plastic surgery I’ve seen out of other countries is wild… like medicine 101 of what NOT to do. It may cost more but is way more worth it to pay more to see a doctor in the US. I’ve seen so many people go to Mexico for surgery to save money then have to pay so much more than they would have to fix serious complications.

  • @natthecat4330
    @natthecat4330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for being so honest and transparent. You did an amazing job explaining everything. Wish you all of the best ❤

  • @MACM0mmy
    @MACM0mmy 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video was so insightful and helpful. Thank you for being open and honest. I really want a nose job and wish I got it done years ago so it can be perfect and healed already lol.

  • @BluBerryPi
    @BluBerryPi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for posting this. I moved to Miami 1.5 years ago and all of the girls look like you and I had no idea that they weren't naturally that way. Because no one speaks openly about these things I assumed their looks were entirely natural and I felt incredibly depressed and ashamed to go out in public until I finally got fed up and scheduled my own procedures. I wish I would have know this sooner.

  • @jessicam71411
    @jessicam71411 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did they use thread for your brow lift?

  • @skidwell248
    @skidwell248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’re so sweet and real. Thank you for your balanced view on all of this. 💗

  • @ashleygrey7986
    @ashleygrey7986 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who had a septoplasty and had my nasal polyphs removed I couldnt imagine going back to not being able to breathe. It feels like youre suffocating.
    I really appreciate your honestly. Not just about having the procedures but the down sides.

  • @karimehendrix
    @karimehendrix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love that there’s actually content to you. You’re not like these other airhead beauty’s lol. You acknowledge a lot of things other influencers don’t and I love it. I love supporting you!! ❤

  • @brissainiguez7747
    @brissainiguez7747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was diagnosed with rosacea within the last couple of years and I went through a period where I was struggling with my flare ups, especially around my chin. I need to take antibiotics for a month just for my flare ups to go away and that causes other uncomfortable side effects I started using a CBD infused elixir that really helped. I’ve been using it over the last 8 months and haven’t had a flare up at all. It’s worth discussing with your dermatologist to see which product will work for your skin type. Hope this helps!

  • @jaikeloui5720
    @jaikeloui5720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    girl i love your videos!!! so good for binge watching and your energy is so true and calm, keep it going w the bag!! perioodddd

  • @BB-lf4hd
    @BB-lf4hd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you show before and after pics of all your surgeries?

  • @missjulianne
    @missjulianne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girly I recommend going to a derm and asking for Retin-A (Tretinoin) and clindamycin! It changed my skin for the better!

  • @kimbaker4352
    @kimbaker4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So being a nurse I would not recommend using a hormonal therapy to get rid of acne, you have to remember whenever you put something in your body it can come with it own set of risks. I would say to keep track of what makes your acne worse, diet, lack of sleep, products your using that could be clogging your pores, a new product that maybe causing an issue, it literally could be anything. I know everybody wants a quick fix, but it’s not worth it if it can cause other problems down the road.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Insecurity is your issue, not surgery. Getting depressed and anxiety etc is what you should work on and surgery can't "fix" that. A different doctor for that.

  • @sira_nush
    @sira_nush 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did a nose job and I have the same problem with breathing but it doesn’t really bother me much. Another problem that I’ve faced and it bothers me is clogged ears. It was so annoying and sometimes even hurting. But I do some exercises and use ear drops and now it’s much better. But overall the nose job was worth it lol

  • @gabriellabilic9432
    @gabriellabilic9432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. I loved how open and honest you were about your experiences! I appreciate the transparency. Hope you had a wonderful Christmas! Keep on posting! I watch every single video!

  • @SaraSalva-c3r
    @SaraSalva-c3r 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Are your teeth real? I always thought they were veneers. How do you get them to white?

  • @jaeren6621
    @jaeren6621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    the realest 🫶🏼

    • @Theripepear
      @Theripepear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So "the realest" is the top comment on this video. On a video that is literally about how to became as fake as you can. Wtf??😂🤭
      Okay I will listen to the video now.

    • @lovejaimo
      @lovejaimo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Theripepear 💀💀💀

  • @karrielynn
    @karrielynn ปีที่แล้ว

    Skin care tip for breakouts since you asked! Less is more. Maybe your skin just needs a good detox. Sometimes, it just needs a break. 💓 you are beautiful, btw ❤️

  • @denissemartinez9071
    @denissemartinez9071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So happy you’re posting more frequently now! Get that coin while enjoying what you do babe. Happy holidays and congrats on hitting 50k!

  • @abjealva
    @abjealva 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To improve headaches make sure you ease on drinking coffee (one cup a day), drink lots of water (2 liters a day), even when you first get the pain, drink a bottle of water right away (small sips), and make sure your eyes/vision is checked or you have the right prescription.

  • @FLOWWITHDEMI
    @FLOWWITHDEMI ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey SC, with your skin I found anti fungal tablets help or a anti fungal diet - no sugar(including fructose) dairy and gluten - that can help ! Bone broth helps too for gut health as it is all connected ❤ love your channel x

  • @imamirrorballxo
    @imamirrorballxo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it’s kind of sad that i’m 16 and clicked on this video because I was considering getting plastic surgery. ty for being so honest

  • @gueritaloc
    @gueritaloc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm too scared to do any surgery because I won't like how it comes out. Glad you can tell both pros & cons. Merry Christmas btw God bless

  • @girlscarf
    @girlscarf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for being so honest and open, its so refreshing

  • @brosiad7184
    @brosiad7184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s awesome that you are real and honest about your surgeries!!! Thank you for being transparent

  • @mytelf5878
    @mytelf5878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now that you have done all this work on the outside, the Virgo in you needs to work on who you are on the inside. No matter how much surgery you do, it will never be perfect. You and your Spirit is who you are, and please know, you are beautiful inside and out.

  • @alexis_aldana
    @alexis_aldana 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like how you put out there the pro and cons, not to mention people always things plastic surgery is so easy, it’s come with the price of healing too, happy for you girl! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! 🎁

  • @sarahwales6276
    @sarahwales6276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw Palmetto and B5 cleared my skin 7 years ago, I had continous breakouts and inflammation. Also MSM (sulfur) in hot lemon water (mornings only, it will effect sleep). Sulfur is one of the most important beauty minerals for hair skin and nails that most people lack in their diet.

  • @taharahpayne
    @taharahpayne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your transparency and openness is sooo refreshing and absolutely beautiful ✨️ Thank you for this video 😘

  • @rocio4evr8
    @rocio4evr8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the honesty, especially about how you feel despite what you’ve had done. I think it’s human to feel like we can/should always improve, I wouldn’t be hard on yourself tbh.

  • @jasminetemplin
    @jasminetemplin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We love an honest queen! Such a great informative video, thank you! X

  • @terexa3035
    @terexa3035 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your honesty in this thank you for telling the truth about your struggles w your surgery people need to know what they are getting into! You're literally so beautiful! And if the giveaway is still open I would love the iPhone to start doing makeup tutorials!

  • @yourfav1720
    @yourfav1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’re beautiful just as you are right now 💜 thank you so much for being transparent with us.

  • @Mindyours1999
    @Mindyours1999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re absolutely beautiful and have a great personality, refreshing to hear honesty this way.

  • @sirenuty892
    @sirenuty892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love how transparent you are about this! Merry Christmas btw, hope you’re enjoying this holiday season 🎄 either prize is amazing ❤

  • @isabellafernandez1654
    @isabellafernandez1654 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow thank you so much for being honest and vulnerable!!!! You gained a follower!

  • @lesliegarcia4909
    @lesliegarcia4909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for being so transparent with us, I honestly hate my nose and I’ve always wanted to get it fixed but I’m scared of regretting it later on.
    I would love the $300, I’m unemployed and with a baby boy I would love to get baby and myself something nice, since my husband is the only one employed it’s been hard especially during these times where everything is so expensive 🙁

  • @meganoleary584
    @meganoleary584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience I love videos where people are open and honest about this!

  • @jazminedelgado3819
    @jazminedelgado3819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re not afraid to say things the way they should be. And maybe you didn’t have a person on TH-cam telling the cons straight up when you were thinking about your own surgeries, but trust me this video will help so many people. Thank you for letting me know about the “dark side” of surgery. I admire your bravery and girl you’re absolutely beautiful. ❤
    P.S. I would like to enter the iPhone giveaway 🎉

  • @kitti2345
    @kitti2345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I realized once you start getting work done then all the sudden you see all these issues on your natural self that you never seen before. I'm in a process of hating myself and going through a depression and with 3 surgeries I want to get done.

  • @sormehmehri6206
    @sormehmehri6206 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for being clear and honest, although I'm not thinking about getting any of these surgeries done but this video was so valuable for me and I think everyone must see it.
    Btw try working out and having a personal trainer so maybe you can gain some muscle and be more ✨thick✨

  • @amnaklacar5891
    @amnaklacar5891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    did you try retilols best thing for hormonal acne that is not responding to oral antibiotics is tretinoin if you never used retinoic acids before you can start with milder ones. Geek and Gorgeous retinal A-game really helped keep my hormonal break outs in check. Tretinoin is a lot stronger and needs medical supervision but delivers amaizing results A-game is like 50% less effective but milder more tolerable and good for milder acne.

  • @roser9194
    @roser9194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ok but I’m crying rn. I’m a perfectionist too and wanted many surgeuries since I was 14. Now I know it’s very painful and we girls have to do all these things to fit it beauty standards and there’s a chance we will never be happy at the end either 😪

  • @6myra6
    @6myra6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your head space! Thank you for being so honest. I didn't realize how long the recovery can be.

  • @samanthasanchez2835
    @samanthasanchez2835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved this video! It’s refreshing to hear some of the cons of these surgeries. I’ve had a breast Aug and chin lipo but I’ve always wanted a rinoplasty I’m just a little scared! Lol but I think you look amazing girl and I’m so glad you’re posting again! Thanks for doing this giveaway, both sound awesome! Hope everyone had a happy holiday 🎄

  • @Lietotajvards9
    @Lietotajvards9 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I dont have money for daily things, yet many people can afford expensive surgeries...

  • @revilsdr
    @revilsdr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Breathing issues are very typical when people get rhinoplasty’s, because they reduce the size of the nasal cavity so much the airflow is restricted. It often does require a revision even more expensive than the original surgery to fix. Some plastic surgeons are only focusing on the outside appearance and not the inside structure of the nose to ensure that it still does what it actually supposed to do, breathing. It’s actually the number one procedure for revisions.

  • @elizabeth172
    @elizabeth172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing all this info! Glad you were able to open up! I would honestly just give the $300 to my mom so she can treat herself! ❤

  • @sarahm7842
    @sarahm7842 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iv also had multiple surgeries. Just booked another 2 procedures for March. My rhino is also from Turkey, they def overcharged you!
    I don’t look at surgery like it brings me happiness, I do it to increase my money (I also work in the industry) and enhances my self confidence

  • @gogochow7525
    @gogochow7525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At this point, the problem is more in your mind than anywhere else. Have you sought for therapy yet? It sounds like it could help you a lot with your body image.

  • @ev1836
    @ev1836 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always appreciate these kind of videos. Thank you for being transparent!

  • @NayaRuth
    @NayaRuth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Girl! You’re so helpful and so real! ✨

  • @Hannah1998a
    @Hannah1998a ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a boob job & to be honest it was the best decision for me. I’ve wanted it since I was 16, but had it done at 23. Everyone’s experience will be different. For me, having a boob job was one of the best things I’ve ever done.