Thank y'all for sharing y'alls wisdom!❤ My husband and I celebrated our 17th March 30th! We've been together for 22 years, ages 18 and 19. People tell us they want what we have lol! That's sweet and flattering, however they have no idea! We've been through hell with heaven on our side! Some people want your outcome but don't want to go through the process. Much love y'all!
Thank you Lynette and Stanley for your wisdom. I am young and most people my age have those Instagram relationships. I love the bun in a bang i have the one with a swoop. They are a life saver on a bad hair day. Much love to you both. This is one of my favorite channels positive black people.
I am very introverted. I struggle in my relationships because of that need for space but also the need for quality time. I get exhausted when socializing and my work environment requires so much of it.
Black love is a beautiful thing. Congratulations on 17 years of marriage! No comparison, but you guys remind me of myself and my husband. We will be celebrating 23 years of marriage this July. We have been through some skit, but we know there is no one else we'd rather go through the skit with than each other. I tell people all the time marriages require work, but if you approach it realistically your marriage will be successful.
Stanley you are so right. My LW and I grew into one and didn’t let the struggles of life tear us apart. I lost her last year to Covid and I miss the life we had. I love y’all’s relationship. I love a strong black family.
Yes. I’m tired of ppl saying relationship goals and not know what they went through or are going through at that time with that particular couple in order for them to say relationship goals. Oh well. To each it’s own, right? Haha. Not the hostage situation. Lol.
Yes!! Let them know what those relationship goals mean! It takes hard work, dedication, seeing someone at their worst, loving them through their flaws, seeing how they are when a job is lost, when money is funny and when it’s flowing like honey. But ohhhhh when you make it! Yes indeed! It’s so worth it
I'm loving this bang & bun look on you, Lynette!!! Both of you guys were dropping gems in this video, from the introverted stuff to the relationship stuff!
I am an introvert too....my husband don’t understand that after being “on” all week I have to have a me day or at least some me time or I am no good! It takes a lot out of me being around people especially when I’m the host or “the life of the party” cause everybody else sitting around looking grumpy.
Life will send you through hills and valleys. We must have a foundation to keep us rooted. No wind can blow you away when HE is your foundation. Love You Guys
Yes!!! Company drains me😩 I love having company but I hate entertaining. That alone time is pure gold. And yes....I feel you in the as card either not there or running out 😂 let’s not even get on the battery dying on you.
I'm am introvert/extrovert and I just go get a hotel room. Everytime I try to take me time at home, my momma, the cat, the dog, somebody need something. Woo chile!
I feel the same way, my husband works nights shift and I work day starting every other weekend on Friday I don’t see him until Monday. Don’t get me wrong we love each other so much. I’m a RN and he is a lab technician. So I understand I live close to Richmond we need to go to dinner 😀😀😀
I'm such an introvert! Anytime I'm forced to be around people, I have to get in the bath and then take to my bed for DAYS to get back to myself. I went through a phase when I was looking at homes (just for fun) in Great Falls, VA. I saw a lot of homes with two master suites. However, they were million dollar homes but I don't know y'alls life. 😆 Okay, I've inserted my opinions in enough. Lynette, love the bun & bangs. Does it have combs in the buns or do you just use pins? Cute bow earrings too! Stanley, that was the sweetest thing I've ever heard anyone say about their wife. PS. Love watching you two!
Yes Lynette!!! I'm an introvert and it took my husband about three and a half years into our marriage before he finally really oh, and I mean really gave me my me time. once he realized how much nicer I was to him because I had some me time, oh he gives me all of me time I need now. I have my own separate room in our house that is specifically dedicated for this purpose. If I'm in this room don't nobody call me, don't nobody bother me unless it's a life-and-death situation. Now, let me continue to watch the log LOL. P.S. I love to help others, but if I don't get alone and recharge, I can't help anybody
Did the taxes yesterday, it wasn't bad at all! Love the Lynette Look! Yes, thought about the other folk that was in my life, couldn't / wouldn't handle whats going on. Love YALL!!
I feel like the older I get, the more I'm becoming an introvert and I'm really outgoing. It's weird. I can adapt to a large crowd, but I hate feeling confined.
Great video y'all 🤗 Lots of wisdom 🧠🤔shared and I'll remember it📓 once I settle down, which would be a long time. But anyway thanks for this video🙂🧘🏿♀️🙏🏾
Love your look Lynette. My flow is like y'all. I have been married for 16yrs and no kids. My husband has one, but us together we don't have any and I am 56 years old. Love you guys spirit.
This video CRACKED me up y'all. Too funny! Lynette I know you can't wait for the normalcy of going out to get eyebrows done whenever you want. I sure miss going out when I want to. I'm being patient though, no big hurry.
Family you are dropping gems aka wisdom.on realtionship. I feel you on coming from a broken home same here. You guys are soul mates designed by God. When I see your love for each other, I cheer for you. I been riding with you guys since day one
Stanley I loved your portion on relationship goals. You spoke the truth. Folks only see the outside or the pretty as I call it. Lynette baaaaaby that bun and bang was gorgeous on you!!!!
LifeWithUsTV you’re welcome! You both spoke a good word but hearing it from Stanley was critical. Not too many men step up and speak honesty like that. This is why you guys are loved by everyone who comes across this channel.
You Tube finally got this “skit” right😂 Everyday your videos are in my recommendations. Anyway, I totally agree with Stanley you were preaching good!!! Everyone does have different formulas!! The pandemic taught me, time waits for no one, and we all should be constantly evolving! I will be 50 next week, single my son graduated saved money and bought his home and now it’s time to do me. When I want to move around, I can move around and if I sit around waiting for others… I will be stuck!!! That ain’t happening!!
I love the relationship advice! You guys are such a great example of true love for young black people. I truly appreciate it. And I work at BJ's!! I wish I had been there to see you guys!
I love ya'll vibe man! I really needed to watch this video. My wife and I are 5 years together, 2 years married and chile... it is rough! We fight or just flat out don't talk to each other (we are on day 5 in a row not talking as we speak). I be ready to be like bye! 👋🏾 I'm outta here! And we just bought a home together smh.
I love y’all together. I can’t imagine being with someone at my age..48..I like my space and my tolerance is so low. I think it’s easier to work in a marriage when you younger. When you older, you get set in your ways. Just my opinion.
OMG...we have a talkative tax lady too! If I did not know yall were in VA, I would have thought we have the same lady! lol. By the way you both looking good!! Brows done, hair done, beard done! Yall ready!
Stop being mean to Stanley.. witcho mean butt. Love them sunglasses. I understand what you mean Stanley. PREACH!!! Ok Lynette that Bun and Bang is on point when I grow my hair back I’m going to purchase one. Love that shirt on you.
Hey y'all --I'mma get that bang hair style -nice Lynette--Stanley nice beard shape up and nice message of relationship--you gotta drop more message men perspective 👍🏽 Lynette I call myself an "in between" introvert extrovert.
Hey girl.... but, it's true you gotta communicate for sure :) and he still ended up giving you your space after you shared your needs with him.... your a very young couple and are doing it as a couple.... Hey brother, you are on point... you have to grow together. ooow girl, loving those sun glasses.. Are you able to build onto your 1st level and add a bedroom ?
Y’all gave some great info about love , marriage and relationships. Thank you for imparting wisdom. Looking forward to my forever. And I’ll keep this info.
W we have a lot of similar things in common. my mother was also on drugs and I had to step up and help raise both of my younger brothers one being 13 years younger. So I definitely understand. And my husband also came from a broken home so it is definitely a challenge trying to become one with someone when each of you are breaking chains off yourselves and growing, but it's also a beautiful experience to do it together especially if you do it with God
Lynnette I am a July Leo and I am also a introvert people think Leo's always want attention dope! I am with a July Cancer who is an extrovert and when I think I am going to be off by myself this ninja takes off!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lynette I think we are sisters 😂😂 I am an introvert and understand. Love y’all channel. Congratulations on 17 years and thank y’all for wisdom. I’m a newly wed (1yr) and I see what y’all are talking about. I am glad we made it thus far. It is not easy but, I love seeing the growth in our lives already. Oh and I love the freedom of not having kids. I’m not sure why everyone thinks that we have to have them. Any who. Looking for the next video.
LifeWithUsTV yes we must do this again when y’all get back from vaca. I die laughing when I think about the look on Stanley’s face. “U did that every Sunday?” LMBO.
If yall are serious about investing, my husband and I own a real estate investment company in Iowa. Not only do we invest, but we also help other investors with finding properties that fit their criteria of need.
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That style suits you very well Lynette
I need this bang!
17 years congrats thats a blessing...
Thank you
Thank y'all for sharing y'alls wisdom!❤ My husband and I celebrated our 17th March 30th! We've been together for 22 years, ages 18 and 19. People tell us they want what we have lol! That's sweet and flattering, however they have no idea! We've been through hell with heaven on our side! Some people want your outcome but don't want to go through the process. Much love y'all!
Come thru with the 17 years yassss
Thank you Lynette and Stanley for your wisdom. I am young and most people my age have those Instagram relationships. I love the bun in a bang i have the one with a swoop. They are a life saver on a bad hair day. Much love to you both. This is one of my favorite channels positive black people.
Thank you Nowelle. Love your name!
Aww thank y’all ❤️❤️❤️❤️😀😀😀😀😀
I am very introverted. I struggle in my relationships because of that need for space but also the need for quality time. I get exhausted when socializing and my work environment requires so much of it.
trust me i understand
Black love is a beautiful thing. Congratulations on 17 years of marriage! No comparison, but you guys remind me of myself and my husband. We will be celebrating 23 years of marriage this July. We have been through some skit, but we know there is no one else we'd rather go through the skit with than each other. I tell people all the time marriages require work, but if you approach it realistically your marriage will be successful.
Thank you. Yassss 23 years
Yes, I’m an introvert! It is mentally exhausting to be around people for too long. I need my me time to reset and prepare for people again!
There's a lot of gems in this video and I can appreciate that. Thank you!!! 💕
Thank you
Stanley you are so right. My LW and I grew into one and didn’t let the struggles of life tear us apart. I lost her last year to Covid and I miss the life we had. I love y’all’s relationship. I love a strong black family.
Omggg Samuel we are so sorry!! We can’t even imagine. Virtual hugs
Stanley gave us a WORD on this here video. Take head..
Thank you!
Love the honesty! Real relationships are work! Congrats on 17 years! God Bless!
Thank you
Yes. I’m tired of ppl saying relationship goals and not know what they went through or are going through at that time with that particular couple in order for them to say relationship goals. Oh well. To each it’s own, right? Haha. Not the hostage situation. Lol.
im with you on that one
Can totally relate! Still enjoy a solo camping trip every year...just re-energizes me.
Preach 🙌👏 Stanley! You are telling the truth!
for sho fam!
Okay Lynette, me you and Chan need to get together one of these days!! And I can just imagine Stanley, Charles and Dre together😆😆😆
Oh yes.... can you imagine. We need to do that before the 2020 cruise for sure. 😂
Yes!! Let them know what those relationship goals mean! It takes hard work, dedication, seeing someone at their worst, loving them through their flaws, seeing how they are when a job is lost, when money is funny and when it’s flowing like honey. But ohhhhh when you make it! Yes indeed! It’s so worth it
Preach girl preach
I'm loving this bang & bun look on you, Lynette!!! Both of you guys were dropping gems in this video, from the introverted stuff to the relationship stuff!
Thank you 😎
I am an introvert too....my husband don’t understand that after being “on” all week I have to have a me day or at least some me time or I am no good! It takes a lot out of me being around people especially when I’m the host or “the life of the party” cause everybody else sitting around looking grumpy.
I totally understand
Stanley preached a word
Awesome words of encouragement for couples. Relationships definitely take a lot of work!
Amen to that!
Life will send you through hills and valleys. We must have a foundation to keep us rooted. No wind can blow you away when HE is your foundation. Love You Guys
Thank you!
Wow...y'all story is real...thank you so much for the testimony!
Too real 😎lol
Yes, Lynnette come through with the real talk. I love y'all!
Thank you! Love yal right back.
Chu talm bout Lyn?? U 2 are Absopositively WONDERFUL together!! :D BTW loving your nail color Linette.
Thank you fam
Thank you for sharing family
Stanley is deep- re: him going in on relationships goals!
Praying for you both God bless you.
Thnx
Exactly buying a home the stuff they don't tell you.
For sho smh.
Yes!!! Company drains me😩 I love having company but I hate entertaining. That alone time is pure gold. And yes....I feel you in the as card either not there or running out 😂 let’s not even get on the battery dying on you.
I'm soooo lucky to have a job that I dont have to deal with people because it helps alot. That SD card be a whole mood!
I'm am introvert/extrovert and I just go get a hotel room. Everytime I try to take me time at home, my momma, the cat, the dog, somebody need something. Woo chile!
i can flow in and out of both too oddly enough but when its time to be alone i need to be alone lol
I feel the same way, my husband works nights shift and I work day starting every other weekend on Friday I don’t see him until Monday. Don’t get me wrong we love each other so much. I’m a RN and he is a lab technician. So I understand I live close to Richmond we need to go to dinner 😀😀😀
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Awesome talk . Thank you for your openness 🙏💖
I am glad yall got each other
Us too. Thnx
I'm such an introvert! Anytime I'm forced to be around people, I have to get in the bath and then take to my bed for DAYS to get back to myself. I went through a phase when I was looking at homes (just for fun) in Great Falls, VA. I saw a lot of homes with two master suites. However, they were million dollar homes but I don't know y'alls life. 😆 Okay, I've inserted my opinions in enough. Lynette, love the bun & bangs. Does it have combs in the buns or do you just use pins? Cute bow earrings too! Stanley, that was the sweetest thing I've ever heard anyone say about their wife. PS. Love watching you two!
Being a introvert is sooooo complicated. Its not a million dollar budget yet :)
Huntie! I do that all the time and here my hubby he be all up in my face! I love him but I needs my space!!!! Gotta love marriage!
Amen to space lol
Yes Lynette!!! I'm an introvert and it took my husband about three and a half years into our marriage before he finally really oh, and I mean really gave me my me time. once he realized how much nicer I was to him because I had some me time, oh he gives me all of me time I need now. I have my own separate room in our house that is specifically dedicated for this purpose. If I'm in this room don't nobody call me, don't nobody bother me unless it's a life-and-death situation. Now, let me continue to watch the log LOL.
P.S. I love to help others, but if I don't get alone and recharge, I can't help anybody
trust me, it took Stanley awhile because he loves being in my space lol
I like you guys........thank you for sharing.
Thanks Stanley
Did the taxes yesterday, it wasn't bad at all! Love the Lynette Look!
Yes, thought about the other folk that was in my life, couldn't / wouldn't handle whats going on. Love YALL!!
amen sista
Relationship take work I'm married 7 years been with my Husband 18 years so trust it takes work..
Ohhhh yes
I feel like the older I get, the more I'm becoming an introvert and I'm really outgoing. It's weird. I can adapt to a large crowd, but I hate feeling confined.
I flow in between both. I can function very well as an extrovert but after awhile I have to be left alone lol
Great video y'all 🤗
Lots of wisdom 🧠🤔shared and I'll remember it📓 once I settle down, which would be a long time. But anyway thanks for this video🙂🧘🏿♀️🙏🏾
Thank you!
Love your look Lynette. My flow is like y'all. I have been married for 16yrs and no kids. My husband has one, but us together we don't have any and I am 56 years old. Love you guys spirit.
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This video CRACKED me up y'all. Too funny! Lynette I know you can't wait for the normalcy of going out to get eyebrows done whenever you want. I sure miss going out when I want to. I'm being patient though, no big hurry.
omg, i want to go out but its wayyyy too early. Imma let THEM go out first lol
Family you are dropping gems aka wisdom.on realtionship. I feel you on coming from a broken home same here. You guys are soul mates designed by God. When I see your love for each other, I cheer for you. I been riding with you guys since day one
Thank you fam!
Happy late Anniversary to the both of yours many more blessed ones for your
Stanley I loved your portion on relationship goals. You spoke the truth. Folks only see the outside or the pretty as I call it. Lynette baaaaaby that bun and bang was gorgeous on you!!!!
Thank you Mo!
LifeWithUsTV you’re welcome! You both spoke a good word but hearing it from Stanley was critical. Not too many men step up and speak honesty like that. This is why you guys are loved by everyone who comes across this channel.
You guys are just Beautiful I wish nothing but Happiness to you too
Thank you Joey
Great video!! I am an introvert too. Love days when I can be to myself where no one asks me to do nothing or ask me nothing. Love yalls channel
You Tube finally got this “skit” right😂 Everyday your videos are in my recommendations. Anyway, I totally agree with Stanley you were preaching good!!! Everyone does have different formulas!!
The pandemic taught me, time waits for no one, and we all should be constantly evolving! I will be 50 next week, single my son graduated saved money and bought his home and now it’s time to do me.
When I want to move around, I can move around and if I sit around waiting for others… I will be stuck!!! That ain’t happening!!
Ayeeee thats because you are supposed to be over here!! welcome home cuzzin.
Y’all are so cute! Love the time, the teamwork, and the wisdom here.
Thank you
Congrats on almost 17!!! That's amazing that the two of you have been putting in the work to make it 👍
Thank you
Love the Honesty ❤ We could have a whole 3 hour conversation around this topic! ❤❤❤❤
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I love the relationship advice! You guys are such a great example of true love for young black people. I truly appreciate it.
And I work at BJ's!! I wish I had been there to see you guys!
Aww thank you. For real??? Omg that would have been so dope!
That part Stanley
I love ya'll vibe man! I really needed to watch this video. My wife and I are 5 years together, 2 years married and chile... it is rough! We fight or just flat out don't talk to each other (we are on day 5 in a row not talking as we speak). I be ready to be like bye! 👋🏾 I'm outta here! And we just bought a home together smh.
I love y’all together. I can’t imagine being with someone at my age..48..I like my space and my tolerance is so low. I think it’s easier to work in a marriage when you younger. When you older, you get set in your ways. Just my opinion.
I definitely can see that
OMG...we have a talkative tax lady too! If I did not know yall were in VA, I would have thought we have the same lady! lol. By the way you both looking good!! Brows done, hair done, beard done! Yall ready!
Lol, thank you. Omg she talks our Head off
Now I truly know why I love watching you two, you guys remind me of my husband and I. I feel for my son, his mother in law moved in with him. Lol
Thank you! i feel for your son too lol, i know that struggle.
Our stories are so similar. We have been married for 27 years.
Aww 🥰 congrats to y’all
I just started watching u guys Carnival Videos (waiting to watch part 5). Anywho I just Watched relationship goals and y’all are on POINT!! 😁😊
welcome to the family. thanks!
❤❤❤❤. Thank you. Needed that and right on time too.
You are so welcome
Yeah we always get good money from the State and Federal is less but we just bank it and that's it.
Girl, you're blessed. Drives you around town too? I just want to know does 👏Stanley 👏have 👏any👏 single 👏brothers? Lol
Thank you! i wish, his is married with 3 kids smh
@@LifeWithUsTV 😂 darn it lol!
Good advice.
Glad it was helpful!
Enjoyed your insights on what it tatakes to makes a marriage work, will definitely get to making my list...someday lol!!
Thank you! one day :)
Stop being mean to Stanley.. witcho mean butt. Love them sunglasses. I understand what you mean Stanley. PREACH!!! Ok Lynette that Bun and Bang is on point when I grow my hair back I’m going to purchase one. Love that shirt on you.
omg look what the cat drug in!!!! Where you been at? lol
@@LifeWithUsTV Secretely making money.
Hey y'all --I'mma get that bang hair style -nice Lynette--Stanley nice beard shape up and nice message of relationship--you gotta drop more message men perspective 👍🏽 Lynette I call myself an "in between" introvert extrovert.
Thank you. I can flow in between them too honestly but at some point I need my space lol
Hey girl.... but, it's true you gotta communicate for sure :) and he still ended up giving you your space after you shared your needs with him.... your a very young couple and are doing it as a couple.... Hey brother, you are on point... you have to grow together.
ooow girl, loving those sun glasses..
Are you able to build onto your 1st level and add a bedroom ?
We can add on but we may outgrow our neighbors and will not the return if and when we sell.
Y’all gave some great info about love , marriage and relationships. Thank you for imparting wisdom. Looking forward to my forever. And I’ll keep this info.
TY
W we have a lot of similar things in common. my mother was also on drugs and I had to step up and help raise both of my younger brothers one being 13 years younger. So I definitely understand. And my husband also came from a broken home so it is definitely a challenge trying to become one with someone when each of you are breaking chains off yourselves and growing, but it's also a beautiful experience to do it together especially if you do it with God
oh wow, you are my sista from another mister
Thanks for sharing...good insights, great outlooks...loving your love...😍😍
Thank you!
Sound advice you too🤗
Thank you
I'm a new subscriber...I love y'all. I've been bing watching you're videos. Such a strong couple. I truly admire you two😘😘 XOXO from Greensboro, NC.
awww thank you, welcome to the fam!
Lynnette I am a July Leo and I am also a introvert people think Leo's always want attention dope! I am with a July Cancer who is an extrovert and when I think I am going to be off by myself this ninja takes off!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Loved your words of wisdom
Thank you!
Great wisdom and advice
Thank you
CUTE DO LYNNETTE! YES!! and thank you Stanley for the Wordt.
Thank you!
Lynette I think we are sisters 😂😂 I am an introvert and understand. Love y’all channel. Congratulations on 17 years and thank y’all for wisdom. I’m a newly wed (1yr) and I see what y’all are talking about. I am glad we made it thus far. It is not easy but, I love seeing the growth in our lives already. Oh and I love the freedom of not having kids. I’m not sure why everyone thinks that we have to have them. Any who. Looking for the next video.
Heyyyy sista! Hunnie that freedom is sooo wonderful huh lol
I retract my previous statement. Stanley roll up on your me day? Awwwww
Just stole my day smh
Yes yes!!! Miss and #muchlove
Hey boo
Great video
Congratulations 💕
Lynette took me all the way out at 1:00
lol
Girl your hair always look nice, and Stanley I love his beard
Thank you
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Love this vlog! You guys spoke a mouthful! What's your sign? U remind me of an aquarius
Thnx. Both Leos
Stanley said you preaching real good but he hungry lol.
Hahaha he doesn't want me to be great!! We had soooo much fun with yal.
LifeWithUsTV yes we must do this again when y’all get back from vaca. I die laughing when I think about the look on Stanley’s face. “U did that every Sunday?” LMBO.
Lmboooo. Joe probably think we are nuts 😂😂😂
LifeWithUsTV no u forgot he married to me lol
Awesome video as usual ❤️‼️❤️‼️
Thank you!
Ha ha you two are cute
thank you
and yes my husband has a long beard like his and his is WHITE along with his mustache
I enjoyed your Vlog , I live in Richmond Va
Thanks you so much. Rva
What was the name of the channel you said had you crackin up?
Isthisaquickie. (One word)
If yall are serious about investing, my husband and I own a real estate investment company in Iowa. Not only do we invest, but we also help other investors with finding properties that fit their criteria of need.
Email me lifewithustv@gmail.com
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Heyyyyyyyy. Nice meeting you tonight
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