I mean understand Angel’s point but there’s a ton of research that shows when BW “date down” they and their resulting children are more likely to slip into poverty than men who do the same. So while Eboni’s tone was stank and unnecessary so was Iyanla’s question. we gotta stop telling BW to choose better men, than yell at them when they do.
Angel is out of touch and is as wrong as Iyanla. I completely agree with you. Black women’s statistics are positively through the roof, while black men are the complete opposite. It statistically makes no sense for a black woman to date below her means, especially to simply appease the black community. I feel Ebony was completely justified in her mannerisms and response.
I disagree with Angel - because you got to take into account - that 50 percent of marriage that end in divorce due so because of economics - because of money issues - some of the best people in the world have the best work ethic but they paycheck don’t reflect that . I say don’t who you want have your standards and respect folks decisions
That bus driver part was spot on! I’m divorced and “dating”, but these men around here don’t want to grow with you by any means. They expect to jump on someone else’s successful train but be catered to and not demeaned for lacking themselves. There’s no grace or understanding given, just expected for their plight. I’ve always been willing to work with potential and in the past, once they get a lil leg up, they turned around and treated ME like the broke-y. No ma’am, no ham, no burger these days. You don’t have to buy me birken bags, just manage the level you’re at SUCCESSFULLY if you expect me to become involved.
To Josh, Angel, and the man himself Kevin: Y’all have no clue how much y’all inspire me and motivate me to keep pushing! Y’all may not be a motivational podcast, more so informational, but; the topics, conversations, love in the room, and the positive connectivity that y’all have is amazing! Y’all are GREAT!! I look forward to y’all every week! I’m coming to your show Kev, in Sacramento!!
Nurse here👋🏾 Not everyone with an infection develops symptoms; since there is technically no disease without symptoms we use the term STI, because it is more scientifically accurate.
Kev: Liss, move your leg from under my leg... no, that's your left leg move your right. Just give us the ticket 😭🤣🤣🤣 Angel: Turn your body cam off nobody needs to see anymore of this 😂
Kev: Do you schedule the showers between the 13th and 14 hours? Emirates: Would you like that? Kev: Yes, of course, just to flex on the people who shower on the ground 😂
I think what’s missing from the dating conversation is what has happened to black men in America that has led to this. I think what Iyanla was hinting at. Mass incarceration due to wrongful convictions, gang violence, and police violence all affect the dating pool. Then when these men get out of prison all of their rights are taken. A lot of them need therapy to push them into a new mindset to show them they can still be successful and just have to find ways around the cards they are dealt. Now with that being said black women have held the community down and have had to achieve more success to be the example where it was lacking from the men. Hats off to black women. They deserve the world and more. Basically I get both sides but no one should have to settle.
It’s more about what people’s financial life is like than their job title. When I was last dating, my strong preference was for a fellow white collar professional. I’m an engineer and still in the upward swing of my career and thought I could relate better to someone in the same space in life. Plus I wanted someone who was already financially stable so that we could join forces instead of having to wait for them to catch up (I know that many blue collar workers make good money and are stable). I met my husband, who was a laborer who repaired pallets and I had to decide pretty quickly if that was a deal breaker for me because he was pretty happy with his life at the time. He owned his home and car, he could afford to take care of his kids and buy what he wanted, and he was able to save more than I was even though I made twice as much. So I told him, as long as he doesn’t mind that I make more than him, I’m good with it. We’ve since invested in each other and have a great life. He moved on to driving a truck (he used to do it back in the day) and is looking at starting his own business (he also ran in business back in the day).
Go head Kev...I totally agree Eboni K should date who she wants, and I can't believe that ppl are so upset because she doesn't want to date the "bus driver". Date who you want and don't settle because of what society says to black women you guys will never expect that from any other women and you wouldn't expect a man to date anything other than his preference.
I disagree with Angel here because if you look at the top values alone, no matter what the value is (for men it might be looks, for women it might be money), men don't be dating down at all. So many average at best dudes will only claim IG model girls and nothing less. I'm not like that but I fully support women having higher standards for their desired trait in a man because men have ALWAYS done it and continue to do it with no one doing anything but congratulate them for it. Flava Flav was and still is dating beyond his facial means! Other black men (I am not naming names) date beyond their body build means. Why is it ok to do that with looks, something that could be impossible to safely change but not with earning potential which is far easier to improve?
Date who you want to date. You can have a preference. The thing is, you have to be prepared for whatever options are available to you based on your choice and realize that others may be looking for the same preference.
Even in the Tyler Perry movie, he had a job as a bus driver. Kimberly Elise’s character had no job and had no finances once her husband put her out. So of course she could date the bus driver. She didn’t have anything herself.
I get Iyanla saying to be open minded but Ebony K (and statistically many black women in the US), don’t want to deal with (long term) the pay disparities, the resentment, the bruised male ego. Not to mention having to front the $ for them to travel or go out with you. Perhaps they can’t get the time off work. Lifestyles have to match too in the long run.
@@AudioGAWD what you’re actually witnessing isn’t a double standard but women who realized they can & do get what they want on their own. So there is no double standard bc we aren’t asking for a partner to complete us / take care of us, but one who will step up meet us at our level. Not only financially responsible, btw. Emotional intelligence, spiritual and mental health are also attributes at the top of any woman’s list. Also…. Idk why these convos are always so heteronormative but lgbtq women hold these same standards for women they’re seeking. If someone doesn’t at least have the same mentality/intentions we’re looking for then we go find it elsewhere. Simple.
@@Taewills 👏👏👏 Like I previously stated, black women are the only women who are taught to date down and below standards. Especially during a time where black women are EXCELLING far beyond black men and even some white male counterparts. Socio-economical class and status have to be compatible for multiple reasons. They’re just mad black women have better options when we date up and outside of our race!
Kimberly Foster had an interesting take on the bus driver conversation. She mentioned that the class/social differences can lead to resentment and cruelty ... not specifically the income differences.
@@yes_anotherone3260 yes! I saw only a snippet of that - I meant to watch the whole thing. From personal experience it was lumped together for me. Both with a male partner and a female partner. In the end I just learned it’s not my job to ensure anyone else’s success unless they’re my minor child. Although I can be sympathetic or empathetic to someone’s situation, I’m not going through life constantly making allowances for them or staying behind with them bc my activities or accomplishments make them feel bad about themselves. And I damn sure won’t be blamed for them being where they are.
I watch the show all the time! Just wanted to say that my therapist recommended “Marriage be Hard” and read a little portion to me and I’ll definitely be getting it! I’m not married yet but I am seriously dating and she said it’s a great read😁 great job guys 👏🏾
Eboni K Williams and any other woman should date who they want without judgment. She is not a young woman trying to meet folks while she's in college or while she's still trying to find her way. She is an established woman of certain means and she dont have to settle on the bus driver because yall want her to. There's always an attempt to try to "humble" black woman, but today is a new day..💛
All Kev’s examples are people who met young. How do you date as an older person. I think it would be unreasonable to expect a person who’s settled on to date a person still building. You gotta have that personality
Thank you!!! I get tired of ppl giving examples of couples who met in college. Eboni looks like she’s in her early 40s. Any man that age or any person that age is already settled into who they are are really close to it.
Yes that's true. I'm in a similar situation to Kev, met my husband when we were 17 and built our lives together for the last 18 years. If I was dating today I would have no idea how to vet a good husband 😅
@@babygirl4949 y’all are absolutely right. Kev and especially Angel, are just out of touch on this topic. It sounds like they were dating their equal. But as for Ebony who is a multimillionaire celebrity attorney, dating a bus driver is simply not realistic nor sensible.
Iyanla asking Eb, a successful attorney, etc. if she would date a bus driver was just dumb. Date someone that you are equally yoked with. The better question would be to have asked Eb if she would date a public defender or LGAL. That would be a person that would be mentally equally yoked, but not financially equally to her. That’s a more realistic dating scenario for her.
On the bus driver convo... Sooooo.... I met the love of my life in Kmart. He was kind, sweet and generous with a great sense of humor. He drove a trash truck... I am a receptionist. Loved me some him.... Found out he lived in a homeless shelter... Fast forward 1 year later.... He dumped me for somebody with a bigger house... Chile... never again.
Thank you! And I bet he was a black man. Don’t lower your standards, especially when they aren’t meeting the basic necessities of life. An absolute opportunistic dusty bum!
I believe Iyanla's point is that if ur looking for love & happiness, you need to look beyond their financial status & look at the content of their character. If that second one is great but he's a bus driver, try giving him a chance if you desire to be treated well.
Iyanla was wrong and that type of talk is only taught to black women. Black women are taught and conditioned to dating down and below standards, but are now waking up and refusing that ridiculous rhetoric. Ebony is a multimillionaire attorney who should not be chastised for refusing to date below her tax bracket, which involves a bus driver.
@@moonlite1752 I seen a whole bunch of white, Asian and brown women who married blue collar workers. And live wonderful lives and travel and been married way longer than the black community goes online and complain about each other. We are fixated on the wrong and than go on complaining when we actually the ones who put ourselves in the position we are in with our mindset cause we just don’t get it
@@Calebjones87 If you are NOT black, EXCUSE yourself from speaking on black women and the black community! Nothing you said refutes what I stated. I SAID, what I SAID and it’s absolutely FACT! Go away😒
@@Calebjones87 thank you for mentioning this, because I see the same ignorant talking points spread about other races not "dating down." It's an elitist talking point, and most people aren't part of the elite.
“ there is no amount of money that can you treat you right “ So true Kev ! That was a bar However , class is real and some men do not feel Comfortable being with someone of a different class background .
I appreciate the body comments! I work out almost every day and my fat don't budge either!!! I work out for the health! Thank you for sharing in my frustrations and allowing me to not be alone!!!! LOL
(bus driver) the problem with these conversations is noone knows how to properly ask a question. Its always general questions with broad answers being answered by specific people with specific views. its shouldn't be "would you date a bus driver" it should be "what kind of occupation do you think the partner with the qualities you looking for does?"
What most people fail to realize is that working out stimulates fast loss and muscle growth (weightlifting really). Your diet is the most important part of fitness. They don’t have a metabolism problem. They just eat too much lol. Kev says it all the time, everyday is a cheat day. You can’t expect to see results if you’re exercising but eating what you shouldn’t.
My trainer said if you cheat everyday it's not cheating that's just your regular food 😂 and "weight loss happens in the kitchen". It's a hard adjustment but if the goal is health and longevity and not just weight loss for looking better then it makes it easier to be consistent.
@@joanna0988 your trainer is absolutely right 😂😂. It takes a lot of work to form certain habits but it depends on how bad you want it. Just so happens that some people want a strawberry short cake more than they want a flat stomach lol.
Happy Birthday Kev, glad you enjoyed your vacation & your birthday weekend!!! I didn't see the MochaFest videos but Im not surprised!!! Ppl out here losing their minds and acting like STI's don't exist!!!!! I'm with Kev, I'm judging!!!! I can't imagine dating now, it seems miserable and draining!!!
More in-depth the delineation is between the word disease versus infection. A disease is something one has to manage like kidney disease, sickle cell, etc. An infection is where you get the medicine to cure (get rid of) the infection.
I wouldn’t mind dating someone making less than me or not working a “glamorous” job. However, most often that partner is easily triggered and intimidated. So everything becomes about having and not having money. It’s like dating someone shorter than me. No issue. As long as you don’t start telling me to not wear my heels because I’m already 5’10.
Its women that work at fast food restaurants but refuse to date a bus driver...Nothing wrong with dating a bus driver if your in the same income bracket...but if you're an millionaire of course you want someone whos on your level..
I wish someone asked men if they were comfortable dating women who out earn them. From my experience other men talk down on men who are out earned by their wives. Then the husbands in turn seek women who they out earn so they can feel like they’re a big man. At 40 I really can’t see being with someone who is still figuring it out. We’re supposed to be having fun and enjoy he fruits of our labor.
When I worked in the law enforcement field, I would not date anyone in that field but I never necessarily discounted someone (outside of my field) that didn't have the same education or financial level. They also had to demonstrate that they were pursuing a better standard of living, i.e., financial, emotional, physical.
Not with Angel on this one. Because as she said men discount women for looks so women can discount a man for the career he choose. No one is putting them down that are simply saying they are not for them.
I don’t understand this conversation. I feel like Eboni K is entitled to say who she wants to date and the caliber of men she wants. If black men can say the don’t date black women because of this this and that, she can say she don’t want no broke bus driver. It’s just that simple.
I am so happy you responded about that comment that insinuated that your friend paid for you. I saw it and thought it was the rudest comment and so offensive. 😤
Keep in mind, during Freaknik, a lot of sex workers, including strippers and others, were out there amongst the women who were not there for that. A lot of that activity was not just by average women and girls who were just out there for fun.
There is nothing wrong with practicing hypergamy. Wealthy men won’t date unattractive women and neither will men who work as bus drivers. 😂. Nothing wrong with having standards.
It’s always a problem when a woman has a preference, however women are tasked with being the type of woman a man wants. Can people simply have their preferences respected. Even if you feel it’s unreasonable or unrealistic. People have to choose a mate for themselves.
Melissa calling Big Sean “that girl baby father” is hilarious
On Gin & Juice she called him “Baby Sean”
😂😂😂
Disease is managed and an infection is curable. At Planned Parenthood, we had an entire training on the difference so we could educate the community.
Thanks for the clarification!
Thank you!!!
Kev dressed like Will Smith’s dad from that Fresh Prince episode 😂
IT JUST HAP-PENED 😂
@@blackscreenrelaxation5824 😂😂😂
@@blackscreenrelaxation5824 😂😂😂😂
HOW COME HE DON'T WANT ME MAN!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@@blackscreenrelaxation5824 😂😅
🎯 Target needsta stop playin' 'round and make Angel 👼🏾 one of their official influencers cuz she makes EVERYTHING from there look SOOOO GOOD!!! 🤩🤩
Right! I immediately go and look for it!
I just bought that set. It Soo freaking comfy
Fe noel x Target collection was 🔥🔥
Right!! Like real expensive and cute
I just wanna say Angel has been killin' on A Black Lady Sketch Show 🙏🏿
Swear!!! She's SO dope!
NO CAP!!!!
I love that Angel showcased her perfectly matching shoes on the desk! 😂 I just love her
That's exactly what i was telling myself !!!
Been tuning in to this podcast for a long time now. The theme song at the end is STILL a bop.
I hope they never change it.
I mean understand Angel’s point but there’s a ton of research that shows when BW “date down” they and their resulting children are more likely to slip into poverty than men who do the same. So while Eboni’s tone was stank and unnecessary so was Iyanla’s question. we gotta stop telling BW to choose better men, than yell at them when they do.
Angel is out of touch and is as wrong as Iyanla. I completely agree with you. Black women’s statistics are positively through the roof, while black men are the complete opposite. It statistically makes no sense for a black woman to date below her means, especially to simply appease the black community. I feel Ebony was completely justified in her mannerisms and response.
I disagree with Angel - because you got to take into account - that 50 percent of marriage that end in divorce due so because of economics - because of money issues - some of the best people in the world have the best work ethic but they paycheck don’t reflect that . I say don’t who you want have your standards and respect folks decisions
LMAO Melissa real for the warning just in case Big Sean said it was on sight 😭😭
That bus driver part was spot on! I’m divorced and “dating”, but these men around here don’t want to grow with you by any means. They expect to jump on someone else’s successful train but be catered to and not demeaned for lacking themselves. There’s no grace or understanding given, just expected for their plight. I’ve always been willing to work with potential and in the past, once they get a lil leg up, they turned around and treated ME like the broke-y. No ma’am, no ham, no burger these days. You don’t have to buy me birken bags, just manage the level you’re at SUCCESSFULLY if you expect me to become involved.
Yes! I've done this so many times. Ask me how many reached back for me??
@@erind2261 exactly! It’s never reciprocated.
THIS! ALL OF THIS!
Angel: STDs can be cured it's the trying to take the stigma away from things
Kev: Right.... imma put it back 😂
Angel and Kev + Joshy 😂are the best podcaster team on YT. Their adlibs and personalities mesh hilariously
To Josh, Angel, and the man himself Kevin:
Y’all have no clue how much y’all inspire me and motivate me to keep pushing! Y’all may not be a motivational podcast, more so informational, but; the topics, conversations, love in the room, and the positive connectivity that y’all have is amazing! Y’all are GREAT!! I look forward to y’all every week! I’m coming to your show Kev, in Sacramento!!
❤❤❤
Nurse here👋🏾 Not everyone with an infection develops symptoms; since there is technically no disease without symptoms we use the term STI, because it is more scientifically accurate.
Kev: Liss, move your leg from under my leg... no, that's your left leg move your right. Just give us the ticket 😭🤣🤣🤣
Angel: Turn your body cam off nobody needs to see anymore of this 😂
Kev: Do you schedule the showers between the 13th and 14 hours?
Emirates: Would you like that?
Kev: Yes, of course, just to flex on the people who shower on the ground 😂
‘If only to flex on people who shower on the ground!’ Rolf😭💀🤣
I think what’s missing from the dating conversation is what has happened to black men in America that has led to this. I think what Iyanla was hinting at. Mass incarceration due to wrongful convictions, gang violence, and police violence all affect the dating pool. Then when these men get out of prison all of their rights are taken. A lot of them need therapy to push them into a new mindset to show them they can still be successful and just have to find ways around the cards they are dealt. Now with that being said black women have held the community down and have had to achieve more success to be the example where it was lacking from the men. Hats off to black women. They deserve the world and more. Basically I get both sides but no one should have to settle.
"officer help me pull up my draws" 😂😂😂😂
It’s more about what people’s financial life is like than their job title. When I was last dating, my strong preference was for a fellow white collar professional. I’m an engineer and still in the upward swing of my career and thought I could relate better to someone in the same space in life. Plus I wanted someone who was already financially stable so that we could join forces instead of having to wait for them to catch up (I know that many blue collar workers make good money and are stable). I met my husband, who was a laborer who repaired pallets and I had to decide pretty quickly if that was a deal breaker for me because he was pretty happy with his life at the time. He owned his home and car, he could afford to take care of his kids and buy what he wanted, and he was able to save more than I was even though I made twice as much. So I told him, as long as he doesn’t mind that I make more than him, I’m good with it. We’ve since invested in each other and have a great life. He moved on to driving a truck (he used to do it back in the day) and is looking at starting his own business (he also ran in business back in the day).
Exactly
Good Decision!! ❤
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Love that you all have the LSU Angel Reese jersey in the studio! Geaux Tigers!
Go head Kev...I totally agree Eboni K should date who she wants, and I can't believe that ppl are so upset because she doesn't want to date the "bus driver". Date who you want and don't settle because of what society says to black women you guys will never expect that from any other women and you wouldn't expect a man to date anything other than his preference.
People aren’t mad at her dating preference
@@oladeebiazazi4538 Ummm...EBONI K WILLIAMS PREFERS TO DATE a man that match her income or above.. lol you funny tho.
The way Kev entirely missed Angel's "G = guts" joke 🤣🤣
I disagree with Angel here because if you look at the top values alone, no matter what the value is (for men it might be looks, for women it might be money), men don't be dating down at all. So many average at best dudes will only claim IG model girls and nothing less. I'm not like that but I fully support women having higher standards for their desired trait in a man because men have ALWAYS done it and continue to do it with no one doing anything but congratulate them for it. Flava Flav was and still is dating beyond his facial means! Other black men (I am not naming names) date beyond their body build means. Why is it ok to do that with looks, something that could be impossible to safely change but not with earning potential which is far easier to improve?
This is my argument men never waiver in their standard BW are always pushed to change ours
I see regular couples every day...
Date who you want to date. You can have a preference. The thing is, you have to be prepared for whatever options are available to you based on your choice and realize that others may be looking for the same preference.
Yes, and you might not be your preference's preference.
That woman is a lawyer, a TV Host, an author and a millionaire...a bus driver is not even on her socioeconomic level. Chile, the resentment.
Being in my mid 40s, I grew up in the theme song era and appreciate good ones. That ending jingle to close out the show is a bop lol.
Definitely
I love how Angel always checks Kev.... AHT AHT... let people be a blessing to you. Just say thank you :)
Even in the Tyler Perry movie, he had a job as a bus driver. Kimberly Elise’s character had no job and had no finances once her husband put her out. So of course she could date the bus driver. She didn’t have anything herself.
I get Iyanla saying to be open minded but Ebony K (and statistically many black women in the US), don’t want to deal with (long term) the pay disparities, the resentment, the bruised male ego. Not to mention having to front the $ for them to travel or go out with you. Perhaps they can’t get the time off work. Lifestyles have to match too in the long run.
That's a weird double standard that exist, but anyone can do what they want.
@@AudioGAWD what you’re actually witnessing isn’t a double standard but women who realized they can & do get what they want on their own. So there is no double standard bc we aren’t asking for a partner to complete us / take care of us, but one who will step up meet us at our level.
Not only financially responsible, btw. Emotional intelligence, spiritual and mental health are also attributes at the top of any woman’s list.
Also…. Idk why these convos are always so heteronormative but lgbtq women hold these same standards for women they’re seeking. If someone doesn’t at least have the same mentality/intentions we’re looking for then we go find it elsewhere. Simple.
@@Taewills 👏👏👏 Like I previously stated, black women are the only women who are taught to date down and below standards. Especially during a time where black women are EXCELLING far beyond black men and even some white male counterparts. Socio-economical class and status have to be compatible for multiple reasons. They’re just mad black women have better options when we date up and outside of our race!
Kimberly Foster had an interesting take on the bus driver conversation. She mentioned that the class/social differences can lead to resentment and cruelty ... not specifically the income differences.
@@yes_anotherone3260 yes! I saw only a snippet of that - I meant to watch the whole thing. From personal experience it was lumped together for me. Both with a male partner and a female partner.
In the end I just learned it’s not my job to ensure anyone else’s success unless they’re my minor child. Although I can be sympathetic or empathetic to someone’s situation, I’m not going through life constantly making allowances for them or staying behind with them bc my activities or accomplishments make them feel bad about themselves. And I damn sure won’t be blamed for them being where they are.
I watch the show all the time! Just wanted to say that my therapist recommended “Marriage be Hard” and read a little portion to me and I’ll definitely be getting it! I’m not married yet but I am seriously dating and she said it’s a great read😁 great job guys 👏🏾
“What is wafting?!” had me on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂
“What salvation do I have if I’m not better than somebody else?” I need a whole convo on THAT mess alone!
Eboni K Williams and any other woman should date who they want without judgment. She is not a young woman trying to meet folks while she's in college or while she's still trying to find her way. She is an established woman of certain means and she dont have to settle on the bus driver because yall want her to. There's always an attempt to try to "humble" black woman, but today is a new day..💛
I will never recover from “pool of servants hearts” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂
Can y’all imagine Covid holding a press conference to let the public know they’re still around 😂.
Key and Peele would definitely make this into a hilarious sketch 🤣
LOL!! Alexa, play "Never Left" by Swoope
😂😂
All Kev’s examples are people who met young. How do you date as an older person. I think it would be unreasonable to expect a person who’s settled on to date a person still building. You gotta have that personality
Thank you!!! I get tired of ppl giving examples of couples who met in college. Eboni looks like she’s in her early 40s. Any man that age or any person that age is already settled into who they are are really close to it.
Yes that's true. I'm in a similar situation to Kev, met my husband when we were 17 and built our lives together for the last 18 years. If I was dating today I would have no idea how to vet a good husband 😅
@@babygirl4949 y’all are absolutely right. Kev and especially Angel, are just out of touch on this topic. It sounds like they were dating their equal. But as for Ebony who is a multimillionaire celebrity attorney, dating a bus driver is simply not realistic nor sensible.
Iyanla asking Eb, a successful attorney, etc. if she would date a bus driver was just dumb. Date someone that you are equally yoked with. The better question would be to have asked Eb if she would date a public defender or LGAL. That would be a person that would be mentally equally yoked, but not financially equally to her. That’s a more realistic dating scenario for her.
I’m dying at the Mochafest portion 😂😂😂 I know someone who attended. Flew in and everything. She recorded every one else but not herself 😅😂
Sketchy 😭😭
On the bus driver convo... Sooooo.... I met the love of my life in Kmart. He was kind, sweet and generous with a great sense of humor. He drove a trash truck... I am a receptionist. Loved me some him.... Found out he lived in a homeless shelter... Fast forward 1 year later.... He dumped me for somebody with a bigger house... Chile... never again.
Thank you! And I bet he was a black man. Don’t lower your standards, especially when they aren’t meeting the basic necessities of life. An absolute opportunistic dusty bum!
I believe Iyanla's point is that if ur looking for love & happiness, you need to look beyond their financial status & look at the content of their character. If that second one is great but he's a bus driver, try giving him a chance if you desire to be treated well.
Iyanla was wrong and that type of talk is only taught to black women. Black women are taught and conditioned to dating down and below standards, but are now waking up and refusing that ridiculous rhetoric. Ebony is a multimillionaire attorney who should not be chastised for refusing to date below her tax bracket, which involves a bus driver.
@@moonlite1752 I seen a whole bunch of white, Asian and brown women who married blue collar workers. And live wonderful lives and travel and been married way longer than the black community goes online and complain about each other. We are fixated on the wrong and than go on complaining when we actually the ones who put ourselves in the position we are in with our mindset cause we just don’t get it
@@moonlite1752 That's not true though. Don't the non-black blue collar workers have non-black wives?
@@Calebjones87 If you are NOT black, EXCUSE yourself from speaking on black women and the black community! Nothing you said refutes what I stated. I SAID, what I SAID and it’s absolutely FACT! Go away😒
@@Calebjones87 thank you for mentioning this, because I see the same ignorant talking points spread about other races not "dating down." It's an elitist talking point, and most people aren't part of the elite.
Imagine all dem Starbucks baristas going to Mocha Fest thinking they're about to learn new skills...hone their craft! 😂
“ there is no amount of money that can you treat you right “
So true Kev ! That was a bar
However , class is real and some men do not feel Comfortable being with someone of a different class background .
This episode made think how grateful I am to be saved-saved and to be married. I wouldn't survive this here world.
Babaeeee yes yes LORD this is not my world 🌍 even my children say they don’t want nooo parts of this crazy 😜
Kev should work that "older people trying to do car sex" bit into his comedy sets. That was hilarious!
A pool of servant’s hearts???!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Joshy be out here with the punchlines lowkey 😭😭😭
“What Salvation do I have if I’m not better than someone else” 😅 yikes 😬
I appreciate the body comments! I work out almost every day and my fat don't budge either!!! I work out for the health! Thank you for sharing in my frustrations and allowing me to not be alone!!!! LOL
“It’s a big back summer”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Angel kept them bad tail shoes on her desk for the whole episode. I’m not mad at her!
(bus driver) the problem with these conversations is noone knows how to properly ask a question. Its always general questions with broad answers being answered by specific people with specific views. its shouldn't be "would you date a bus driver" it should be "what kind of occupation do you think the partner with the qualities you looking for does?"
The other thing is if it worked well that way all the people in similar fields would be in thriving relationships, even thr high end ones.
This episode was so funny, Y’all are Fearfully and Wonderfully made. Kev & Angel y’all good.
What most people fail to realize is that working out stimulates fast loss and muscle growth (weightlifting really). Your diet is the most important part of fitness. They don’t have a metabolism problem. They just eat too much lol. Kev says it all the time, everyday is a cheat day. You can’t expect to see results if you’re exercising but eating what you shouldn’t.
My trainer said if you cheat everyday it's not cheating that's just your regular food 😂 and "weight loss happens in the kitchen". It's a hard adjustment but if the goal is health and longevity and not just weight loss for looking better then it makes it easier to be consistent.
@@joanna0988 your trainer is absolutely right 😂😂. It takes a lot of work to form certain habits but it depends on how bad you want it. Just so happens that some people want a strawberry short cake more than they want a flat stomach lol.
@Ira Sponsible Sugar addiction is real though 😅
I be in the live & come watch the whole thang like I wasn’t! I love y’all asses!!!
Josh said it exactly right!! DISEASES WERE FLOATING IN THAT DOG ON WATER!!!
Everything on Angel's desk:
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The single shot was "singling"😂
Ong...the car Secs convo had Me CRYING😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭
Can’t wait for the Detroit show Kev🙌🏾It’s been a long time coming and The City shows out. See you Saturday🫶🏾
Happy Birthday Kev, glad you enjoyed your vacation & your birthday weekend!!!
I didn't see the MochaFest videos but Im not surprised!!! Ppl out here losing their minds and acting like STI's don't exist!!!!! I'm with Kev, I'm judging!!!!
I can't imagine dating now, it seems miserable and draining!!!
"I'm gonna be swollen n chaffed" 😂😂😂😂
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, KEV!🎂
More in-depth the delineation is between the word disease versus infection. A disease is something one has to manage like kidney disease, sickle cell, etc. An infection is where you get the medicine to cure (get rid of) the infection.
I wouldn’t mind dating someone making less than me or not working a “glamorous” job. However, most often that partner is easily triggered and intimidated. So everything becomes about having and not having money. It’s like dating someone shorter than me. No issue. As long as you don’t start telling me to not wear my heels because I’m already 5’10.
The synchronized “NO!” had me weak 22:58
Its women that work at fast food restaurants but refuse to date a bus driver...Nothing wrong with dating a bus driver if your in the same income bracket...but if you're an millionaire of course you want someone whos on your level..
I’m so glad I don’t mess with Twitter too tough. It’s mainly for when my mom gets mad at me for not liking her food selfies.🤷🏾♀️
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I would love to see yall do travel shows!
Man, y’all had me dying at my work desk. 😅😅. Trying to laugh quietly
I wish someone asked men if they were comfortable dating women who out earn them. From my experience other men talk down on men who are out earned by their wives. Then the husbands in turn seek women who they out earn so they can feel like they’re a big man.
At 40 I really can’t see being with someone who is still figuring it out. We’re supposed to be having fun and enjoy he fruits of our labor.
The altar was full because the balls were empty!!! 😂 I'm dead!
I swear I love y'all podcast, I really get a good laugh because people be out here wildin these days 🤣🤣
They called in "Mocha Fest" because "badussy-con" didnt test well.
Guess I gotta be on the Patreon now. I was waiting for the Detroit tickets 😅
Anybody else thought of Tanjiro when they saw Angel's fit? No? I'm the only anime nerd? No worries that's cool 😅
I can TOTALLY see it being reminiscent of Tanjiro Kamado's fit! 🍫🤓👌🏾
Hey that makes more sense now that you mention it 😂😂😂
I had that thought too!
Random act of helpfulness.... amazing
“before the sun clocked in at earth” 😂😂😂
I would have been right with Angel and the shower idea 😂😂😂
When I worked in the law enforcement field, I would not date anyone in that field but I never necessarily discounted someone (outside of my field) that didn't have the same education or financial level. They also had to demonstrate that they were pursuing a better standard of living, i.e., financial, emotional, physical.
I am so excited to see Kev at the Detroit show!😁❤
So creative, what's great about the budget videos are the recipes are simple and easy. And I'm confident it's healthier than McDonald's
1:12:34 I’ve come across some creeps on Christian Mingle. No app is safe😢
Was hoping you guys would cover the pool party
Angel you look great! you're someone's goal weight. Keep going for your health. You already know you're enough and Big Tank love it❤
Happy Birthday Kev! I wish you great health and prosperity 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Not with Angel on this one. Because as she said men discount women for looks so women can discount a man for the career he choose. No one is putting them down that are simply saying they are not for them.
Angel with the finger😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂that was hilarious
"I say Jeeezuuus is excellent" done took me down 😂😂
26:27 lol I agree we never wanted Sierra Mist we definitely don’t need a Starry 😂😂😂😂
I need Angel's outfit, immediately.
Target baby!!! Some of those collections there are 🔥 🔥🔥
@@fancyfanny6143 good to know, because yass!!
FIRST! Let's GOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
I don’t understand this conversation. I feel like Eboni K is entitled to say who she wants to date and the caliber of men she wants. If black men can say the don’t date black women because of this this and that, she can say she don’t want no broke bus driver. It’s just that simple.
11:08 Angel!!!! 😂😂 , you’ve been missed! ❤
I am so happy you responded about that comment that insinuated that your friend paid for you. I saw it and thought it was the rudest comment and so offensive. 😤
Keep in mind, during Freaknik, a lot of sex workers, including strippers and others, were out there amongst the women who were not there for that. A lot of that activity was not just by average women and girls who were just out there for fun.
There is nothing wrong with practicing hypergamy. Wealthy men won’t date unattractive women and neither will men who work as bus drivers. 😂. Nothing wrong with having standards.
baby yoda with the angel reese jersey 😂😂😂
The way Joshy is positioned on the screen, i thought they cut a part out of Angel's desk and put him under there 😂
O can't wait until Y'all come back to Houston TX.🔥🥰🤟💪🙏💃🕺
47:15 I guess that orchestra was really 'bussin' 🎶
Lufthansa has the best airline food I’ve ever had.
It’s always a problem when a woman has a preference, however women are tasked with being the type of woman a man wants. Can people simply have their preferences respected. Even if you feel it’s unreasonable or unrealistic. People have to choose a mate for themselves.