@@Harvey-j1v I do concur with you about crying for someone you adore however, not in public. Go home & weep your heart out. That is how a real man behaves!
No one is holding a gun to these women's heads, they are there by choice. Their lives and lifestyles have improved by being with this man. It's not for me personally but just cos I wouldn't do it, it doesn't mean it's wrong or not understandable. I understand their decisions. It's part of women's rights, they r exercising their rights by doing what they want and making their own decisions. I respect them cos they know what they want and went after it.
Angiyiboni into ekhalisayo la Uma ugane wafica abanye yazi nawe ukuthi basazofika bakufice, ngoba nawe awufikanga nasimangaliso la esizokwenza June obekwenzeka, ungakhohlwa umuntu wesithembu mawusemusha angakuthengela ibhanoyi elizohamba wena wedwa.
True, I think that's why I even tolerated this idea of isthembu and why the wives let it come this far, then you watch Mnakwethu ubone how other men are ubone nje ukuthi weeeh
I sometimes watch this thing for few minutes. I am from another country on our motherland. I really don't understand this polygamous set up, even virtually from far we can feel the pain of these women, why do they accept this life?
Something I don't understand. You have agreed to be in a polygomous marriage ...Why block him from taking another wife? Or is there a limit and the wives feel like he's surpassing it? Ga ke tlhaloganye.
What about MaYeni who is a project manager at the Port Shepstone municipality? Mseleku didn't have all this money when he married these women. He was already married to all 4 of them when he accumulated all that he has now. So these women are not in it for the money.
Basically he just told them, “I have a mistress aka cheating on you but I’d look like you to meet them” so he has a fifth wife without coming out saying it for sure. Talk about manipulative narcissistic behaviour. It’s all about him and what he wants, no one else matters. He feels as the man, he has the right to do whatever he wants and his wives should be fine with it. I mean, the ultimatum is that, because they won’t accept her as a wife, then she’ll stay a girlfriend, and he’ll continue cheating on them with her and that will be their fault. If y’all don’t see the toxicity in polygamy, then I don’t know. First of, none of these women chose to be in this situation to be honest.
🤣🤣🤣 that’s bullshit my love The only woman who did not necessarily choose to be in this situation is mamkhulu (first wife) I say ‘necessarily’ cause she could’ve left, but at the same time it’s not black and white to just leave a marriage and someone you love As for the rest, they came into this arrangement knowing what it is exactly, they can’t be mad at him wanting more wives when they themselves were once the ‘more wives’
😂 But these women knew who this man is before they got into the type of marriage. It's only that at the time, they were desperate for the comfort that came with being part of his family, now that they have gained what they wanted, they giving him problems. For me they also just as manipulative as he is
This guy has no respect whatsoever..'i am just letting you know i am seeing someone. Which wife in their right mind would want to meey th gf to their husband?h want u to suprise him letle kadi bf le nena
I don't get why he needs permission when he is still gonna do whatever he wants to do regardless of how these women feel... As much as sithembu is african tradition, I still think it's a form of lust and greed
I do agree I think the whole tradition of sthembu was started from a place of lust and greed...and many wives saw that it's better to let him do it than have many outside kids
8f you have money or wealth then you're powerful. Look at the lords, kings and gods they had or havin multiple wives but if you understand the reason of that then you'll understand the polygamy. Polygamy got lot of valid reasons and media is confusing you guys.
All Mselekus wives are cute. Museleku is an African man, I support him 100 times the 3 younger wives serves them right.I only pity macele that one was forced to agree.😂😂😂😂😂
Uma ugane indoda yesthembu ekwenza konke like uMseleku yazi nje ukuth noma inini ukhona ozongena, so lento wena as wife ayingakukhathazi cos ungene wazi... uyindoda Mseleku !!
So, is he going to have children with Ma-Mtolo wa se Durban? Ma-Mtolo doesn't want to be married as well? They have probably heard about her from other people, that's if she does exist.
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I love how Ma Yeni handles her husband.😂
This guy is dramatic.... honestly how can a grown man like him cry for a wife ..😂😂 uyazensisa wena
😂😂😂😂 and he already has 4
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I cry too. For a woman..thats how much we value women in our lives ❤
He knows what he wants
@@Harvey-j1v I do concur with you about crying for someone you adore however, not in public.
Go home & weep your heart out.
That is how a real man behaves!
How I laughed at this when he said he's seeing someone, translation
"Bafazi bam' ngiyajola"!!! Hawu kodwa Mseleku!!!!!
Bwahahahahhaaa 🤣🤣🤣. When you put it like that I died😂😂
Mina ngiyamthanda uMseleku uthembekile kumakhosikazi akhe.
@@thembekilemkhize❤
Mbali😂😂😂😂😂😂"akaze ngimbone umuntu oxolisa njengo Mthombeni"😂😂😂
Lapho ngimthanfani😅😅😂❤
MaKhumalo said it mouthful. This is a chess game. Mseleku is doing this for commercial purpose
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"akekho u-number five kodwa ukhona"
This man is manipulative yoooh 😂
Oksalayo they are still with him by choice because no one will leave mseleku 🤣🤣🤣
Yep and calculating
No one is holding a gun to these women's heads, they are there by choice. Their lives and lifestyles have improved by being with this man. It's not for me personally but just cos I wouldn't do it, it doesn't mean it's wrong or not understandable. I understand their decisions. It's part of women's rights, they r exercising their rights by doing what they want and making their own decisions. I respect them cos they know what they want and went after it.
Ndaleka, Shuku 👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽 respecting peoples choices
Amen 🙏🏽
Wenza kahle uMakhums azihlekele wafika endodeni yesithembu kumele angazixaki ngokuphatheka Kabi.
These woman did not find this man wealthy, they have built and grown with him!! It's not easy to just up & go.
Angiyiboni into ekhalisayo la Uma ugane wafica abanye yazi nawe ukuthi basazofika bakufice, ngoba nawe awufikanga nasimangaliso la esizokwenza June obekwenzeka, ungakhohlwa umuntu wesithembu mawusemusha angakuthengela ibhanoyi elizohamba wena wedwa.
Mseleku is a well spoken man hey...Hai these Zulu men
True, I think that's why I even tolerated this idea of isthembu and why the wives let it come this far, then you watch Mnakwethu ubone how other men are ubone nje ukuthi weeeh
I sometimes watch this thing for few minutes. I am from another country on our motherland. I really don't understand this polygamous set up, even virtually from far we can feel the pain of these women, why do they accept this life?
But polygamous marriage is common in Africa, the UAE and Asia. It's not difficult to understand. It's not a uniquely Zulu thing.
Maybe ur from ader planet not dis planet 3
There is no pain here, they do this by their willingness not fosted, when I compare you to this women I see pain to you
@@ssgmd193 forced not fosted🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✌🇿🇦👊
@@ssgmd193 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Something I don't understand. You have agreed to be in a polygomous marriage ...Why block him from taking another wife? Or is there a limit and the wives feel like he's surpassing it? Ga ke tlhaloganye.
Yey lendoda ave ihlakaniphile ibashaya nge strategy labo mama nd sekuyafana nokut bavumile
Yazin uMusaa une drama 🤣😂
Yeeyy😂😂
Ey futhi🤣🤣🤣
Zivele zidume just like that, "ukhona umuntu engizwana naye"
I don’t understand why Thobile and Mbali are in this polygamy marriage because they have their careers
Money
Imali yendoda esebenzile imnandi.
@@kopanomofokeng6562 sibi semali Ndoda my happiness comes first.
A career is not a husband
What about MaYeni who is a project manager at the Port Shepstone municipality?
Mseleku didn't have all this money when he married these women. He was already married to all 4 of them when he accumulated all that he has now. So these women are not in it for the money.
Basically he just told them, “I have a mistress aka cheating on you but I’d look like you to meet them” so he has a fifth wife without coming out saying it for sure. Talk about manipulative narcissistic behaviour. It’s all about him and what he wants, no one else matters. He feels as the man, he has the right to do whatever he wants and his wives should be fine with it. I mean, the ultimatum is that, because they won’t accept her as a wife, then she’ll stay a girlfriend, and he’ll continue cheating on them with her and that will be their fault. If y’all don’t see the toxicity in polygamy, then I don’t know.
First of, none of these women chose to be in this situation to be honest.
🤣🤣🤣 that’s bullshit my love
The only woman who did not necessarily choose to be in this situation is mamkhulu (first wife)
I say ‘necessarily’ cause she could’ve left, but at the same time it’s not black and white to just leave a marriage and someone you love
As for the rest, they came into this arrangement knowing what it is exactly, they can’t be mad at him wanting more wives when they themselves were once the ‘more wives’
😂 But these women knew who this man is before they got into the type of marriage. It's only that at the time, they were desperate for the comfort that came with being part of his family, now that they have gained what they wanted, they giving him problems. For me they also just as manipulative as he is
They chose to be there .. the rules of engagement were clear ...right from the onset
This could never be me -- sorry. I value myself too much.
Tasha ngifuna ube unkosikazi wam wesibili
Izinsizwa bazibe njengo Baba uMseleku 👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏
Am very impressed with the manner in which he addresses his wives.
He is very humble towards them.
I hope some men would learn from him.
Mangwabe one si zatho on this polygamy she is in here for testing musa😅😂
Ozo khala u Musa
Mangwane is a psycho😂
This guy has no respect whatsoever..'i am just letting you know i am seeing someone. Which wife in their right mind would want to meey th gf to their husband?h want u to suprise him letle kadi bf le nena
MANGWABE AKAQEQESHWANGA. YHOOOO SHE IS ANGRY AT THE FACT THAT UTATA KA THOBILE WACELA UMNTANA WAKHE AVULE IGATE! UMNTU OMDALA NGEWAYE HLILE AYOVULELA ABANTWANA BAKHE IGATE? EZINYE IZINTO ZIYOTHUSA, NGASKE NJE UTHI UVULEKA MHLABA NDINGENE 🤭🤭🙊🙊🙈🙈
😂😂😂😂 owaphi yena lo MaMtolo😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don't get why he needs permission when he is still gonna do whatever he wants to do regardless of how these women feel...
As much as sithembu is african tradition, I still think it's a form of lust and greed
You clearly don't understand polygamy.
@@SkySportNewsFans you're absolutely right
@@SkySportNewsFans but she is right he's not asking for permission...he's just telling them what he's going to do...
I do agree I think the whole tradition of sthembu was started from a place of lust and greed...and many wives saw that it's better to let him do it than have many outside kids
8f you have money or wealth then you're powerful. Look at the lords, kings and gods they had or havin multiple wives but if you understand the reason of that then you'll understand the polygamy. Polygamy got lot of valid reasons and media is confusing you guys.
Umhle kodwa Shibase❤kubobonke uMbali yena unomqolo akayithathi into engeyiyo nakubani ndiyamthanda pho kakhulu u gal uMak yifake uMacele yena shame unox inzelelo lwezithembiso ezingenzekiyo imenze umntu ombi kanti akembanga ka ngako bambisanani galz buqhubeke ubomi subanyoroza abanye MaK
All Mselekus wives are cute. Museleku is an African man, I support him 100 times the 3 younger wives serves them right.I only pity macele that one was forced to agree.😂😂😂😂😂
uyahlupha nanku umyeni.. akekho kodwa ukhona
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kumnandi khona la esthembini 😂ngoba babuye bashlekise(Owalaphi uMamtolo?)❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 Zulu culture is too much, Iyoooh!
Makhumalo and Mayeni i love you babies,afuni ungatsho🥰 😊
Makhumalo ndiyamthanda uhlezi ehleka( Laughing all the time uhlale usweet Makhumalo❤
umakhumalo wabuza i answer mengasiyena umfazi uyi girlfriend at this moment😂😂
Sfebe se ndoda
😂😂😂😂😂😂 this man is a manipulater shem wuu
I like how Mayeni handles her husband 😂😂😂😂
No wife number 5 but there'll be plenty girlfriends..probably even have more kids
Mseleku 😂
Cha ungehlule. Manje yena he can do as he pleases ngapha amakhosikazi abheke yena no mjolo allowed for them.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I miss this Show
The way makhumalo is laughing 😂😂😂😂
I just love mayeni 😂😂😂
We smakade hhyi nalo Mseleku wakhona hhyi xem ngavese nghlale nghlupheka
Better to bring no 5 home otherwise kusezoshuba lha😂
Uma ugane indoda yesthembu ekwenza konke like uMseleku yazi nje ukuth noma inini ukhona ozongena, so lento wena as wife ayingakukhathazi cos ungene wazi... uyindoda Mseleku !!
😂😂 not ma cele saying " induko again" when musa walked in
I just Mbali ❤❤❤
Bazogcina bewu 10
Umseleku uzishaya u David owayenama concubine.😂😂😂Uyazitsshela.
Usho uSolomon
😂😂😂😂😂 eish
Mr Mseleku😂😂😂
What a very intelligent father I have ever seen
Mhle makhumalo betuna❤❤❤
Sukanini madoda izinja zikamjebhula ukhona number 5 ngeyiphansi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂ongaseyena futh uMakhumalo usewu MaMtolo
@@thembelihletheh1691 zajika izinto,, 🤣🤣🤣
@@thembelihletheh1691 ubeqinisile MaKhumalo uma eth usebadlalisa umdlalo we chess
Yoh kante monna o, o bereka yang. Technically he has a number 5 nje haibo ntate o. I will never get to understand this honestly speaking. Yoh
umakhumalo wabuza I answer mengasiyena umfazi uyi girlfriend at this moment😂😂😂
The issue of number 5 is somehow a joke but eish I am afraid of pregnancy if could happen that will make things worse
And most shocking for me is that in all of this, zancinzas etc..the use of protection is not a topic. Not in their planet. Lawd!
Mayeni owamaphi lomaMtolo
Truth is thy nkow now, azlime zyetsheni😂😂😂
Makhululo uyahamba phambili❤
Yhoooo Mthombeni
Lol aai lendoda is really manipulative 😂
Wife number 2 and 3 are my favorites yoooo😂😂😂😂😂😂
Uyadelela u Mseleku .
🤣🤣lomjita bafwethu
Fleta Wells
ngowaka Mtolo kwani ubani obuzile😂😂😂
Phoebe Course
Unedrama shame lobaba🤣
Jacobi Ridge
Upton Cape
Orn Cove
But the way they do not respect this man. Wow!
Uyindoda Mseleku
Usekhona uno 5 kodwa angeke ngimshade ngiphoqwa yisimo ukhona akekho😂😂😂😂😂Mayeni owakuphi yena lomaMtolo Mseleku ngowase Durban😂😂😂😂 unedrama.lobaba abamyeke
Kuthwa ngumayeni huuu akanagama umamtolo😂😂😂
McKenzie Ports
Tjo number 1 umayeni
Pagac Place
Yingakho komele inhliziyo yakho uyibeke phambili ungasabi nje ukwala. Kodwa imali tjo iyinkinga zinengi izinkinga zemali onayo nongenayo
If my husband came to me and said I have a girlfriend I've been seeing and I'd like you to meet her, but not worry I won't be marrying her.
So, is he going to have children with Ma-Mtolo wa se Durban? Ma-Mtolo doesn't want to be married as well? They have probably heard about her from other people, that's if she does exist.
Uyangchazake uShibas la nomaKhumalo
Catherine Radial
This young man can be disrepectful to his wives
Hartmann Lock
Uya funek
Watsica Roads
This is nothing but greed, one wife is enough
Braun Road
Ray Harbor
bayizindlunkulu bonke 😂😂
Ritchie Points
Welch Flats
Leave Mseleku alone all those women agreed to be manipulated
Murazik Cliff
Tolo ngk🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️
NKOSIYAM YII
Aka ncengi koba kokwabo kuna ma business and ofundile😅 theres no love from mangwabe
Jenkins Trafficway
Lang Key
Buckridge Shoal
Mangwabe 😂😂
Uzoqala ngokuxolisa emva kwalokho zidume ha ha ha ha ha ha. Ene sho zivele zaduma
Lol there is only 1 wife for this Baba here📍Only 1 the rest amagende nje.😂
I think MaYeni was supposed to be the 1st wife
Kanti wena bhuti wami mthombeni oze ufikephinakushada kwanelemanje
This guy uyamthanda ngampela u mamtolo bakithi