Women, please have self respect and don’t put up with a cheating txiv dev. In addition, Don’t let others tell you or convince you to stay with a cheating husband because if that works in you then you are part of the problem why the txiv dev keeps doing what they do best.
Lam nyob xwb yeej tsis xav sib hlub lawm ces txhob nkim koj lub neej os. Txhob yug los xiam tiam li ko vim tias we only live once in this beautiful world. You are wasting your time on a man who doesn’t love you 100%.
Me niam laus koj mas thiaj txawj yog tus tsim nws ua li koj ua yeej yog kawg txiv neej yog tus hlub peb peb yeej tsis khuv ua phem tab sis luag twb tsis txuag yus ces ua li ko ces yeej sib pauj tau lawm os mog
So sickening how everyone is on the man's side if he cheats and has a family in secrecy. BUT if it was the woman, ppl would yell and abandon her and tell the man to leave her. If your husband truly loved you, he wouldn't have done anything with his first cousin 😂 shows you how much "love" and "respect" he has for you.
Your story makes me so sad, sister, because everything you've detailed is so true of human nature - men. Many people - women, say they'll never stay but we don't know how strong or weak we'll be when that time comes especially if you were always lead to believe that you had a great strong marriage with an amazing man. People talk, but most can't walk because like you said, xav pes tsawg zaj los hlub nws, nco nws, khiv xim lub neej because nothing has ever tainted your marriage before then. My heart aches for you and I'm so sorry that for the rest of your life, so long as you still stay with this man, you will forever love and hate him 💔. There may be happy days, but happy will never ever be what it once was
Cov txiv neej phem ua tau li no los pheej muaj cov pojniam ruam li no thiab. Ua pojniam uv tus txiv cheater ces yus yog tus poob peev tsaj, tsis hais yuav ua zoo npaum twg. You think him stressing from you giving him more kitty 🐱 is torture? He die happy with white hair and you still love and take care of him. You are the type of women, cheaters like to bait to meet their lifestyle.
Move on. He has a whole other family, and you didn't know. He lied and cheated. Wow. You need to move on. Why stay when your marriage and his dirty laundry got aired to everyone.
Ntuj aws pojniam Hmoob aws, thov tsum (STOP) giving in nej lub #2 hole rau cov niag txiv dev nov thiab laud? Ua cas tsis kawm ua neej kom muaj Moral Principles es yuav mus cia luag ua yus lub qhov Quav os.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob uas pheej zam txim rau cov txiv dev mus ua2 dev tas los zam txim tas zam txim tuaj mas dhuav cov poj niam no khawg. Cov poj niam no puas poj niam npe. Cas pheej hais qhov txias2 siab tab sis ho tsis muab nrauj es pheej nyob ua dab tsi...SMH. Please leave a marriage this miserable. Life is short. Go start over and be good to yourself and live the best life.
I can never forgive them Both. I can’t fix my marriage to love him again… Never again 😢 That’s crazy how we hmong girls forgive our cheating partners 🥱
Huav peb lub neej hmoob cov niam tsev yog cov raug tsim rau txoj kev mob siab tus txiv tham laus nkauj ntau tshaj lwm haiv neeg vim cov kwv tij neej tsa pheej muab cov niam tsev nias nyob lub neej uas lawv tus txiv tsis hlub lawv es thiaj muaj cov neej neeg uas tus txiv neej ua hluas tsim tus poj niam no ntau ua luaj li no los ma.
Viv ncaus aws..kuv twb tau ua li koj thiab ua neeb kho thiab nrhiav tshuaj tawv nruj rau tau 2.3 xyoo thaum kawg yog cheating tus kwv mus cheat thiaj tsis muaj zog xwb. Hais rau cov Viv ncaus yog thaum twg koj tus txiv tus kwv tsis muaj zog lawm ces nej yuav tau soj ntuam ua ntej mam pab kho nawv.
Hmong txoj Cai uas lwm tus poj niam Tham lawv tus txiv es yog tus poj niam cem thiab hais es tseem yuav kom tus poj niam mus kho tus hluas nkauj thiab. Quav dev tshaj plaws dhuav hmoob txoj Cai no tsis muaj lus hai li lawm so speech less.
Txawm yuav nyiam sib tsuav ntsuag npaum twg los txhob ua Qhov Quav nawb. Thaum hluas mas tsis ua cas thaum laus cas yuav hnav diaper nrog nraim ov qhia li no rau txhua tus pojniam paub
Can you limit how many sad Hmong women stories with cheating husband. It’s get so annoying on how many of these women just put up with their cheating spouses. It’s just getting old.
Yog koj txias siab lawm ua li cas koj tseem yuav nws mas? You must like living with misery that’s why you are still with him. He will keep cheating on you because he knows you can’t leave him. When a man knows that he is your weakness, he will take advantage of you.
Ntuj os teb aw cas cov niag txiv dev hmoob thiab muam dev hmoob no es yuav tsis leem cai li os. Koj tu kuv tu los zoo ib yam li os. Tsis yog yuav kev li, yog siab phem xwb. Koj tus na tseem tham tu hluas, peb tej ces tham niag pog laus tshaj yus lawm.
People in the comment is hating on this txiv dev yet even the other women took it upon herself to sleep with him knowing hes married. And the wife still takes this txiv dev back because she cant resist the lust she has for this txiv dev. If you ask me, theyre all sick freak to me lmao.
Tus sister aw koj ruam dhau lawm os koj tus txiv twb thaum hluas nkauj tawm 3xyoos koj tseem tsis paub thiab na tos koj tus txiv mu thawj ua cua nab los lawm los yog nws ua cua nab mu lij qhov kwj deg lawm ne
Seems like he was only sorry that he got caught but sometimes love is blind. It’s ok sister. You may need to get some therapy to overcome this betrayal. Marriage is worth fighting for and it’s ok to admit that you can’t let his cheating/lying ass go. Take it one day at a time. I hope you and your hubby work out this marriage and stay strong!!
You will never be happy. His infidelity will replay in your head over and over again and it’s eating you alive that’s why you’re telling your story. Best wishes
Niam ntsuab teev kj zaj neej neeg no mas tus niam tsev no ruam li kv kiag mloog tas mas kv txoj kev mob rov sawv tuaj tiag tu2 lub ❤️ li os
This story is sick. Makes me want to divorce my husband. I'm so sick of men, period!
Do it do it! Just do it!
Then you can come tell us your story of life as a poj nrauj living from house to house
Is your husband just like this txiv dev too?
Agree
Why the need to apply the journey of others to yours. Unless, he is like this guy in the story. Run if so.
AWOMEN sister!!!
I’m with you on this!!
Koj mas hais yog tshaj li os sister ❤❤
Women, please have self respect and don’t put up with a cheating txiv dev. In addition, Don’t let others tell you or convince you to stay with a cheating husband because if that works in you then you are part of the problem why the txiv dev keeps doing what they do best.
Lam nyob xwb yeej tsis xav sib hlub lawm ces txhob nkim koj lub neej os. Txhob yug los xiam tiam li ko vim tias we only live once in this beautiful world. You are wasting your time on a man who doesn’t love you 100%.
Yog lawm
Ua qhov quav xwb ces thaum laus kawg nyuab siab
Me niam laus koj mas thiaj txawj yog tus tsim nws ua li koj ua yeej yog kawg txiv neej yog tus hlub peb peb yeej tsis khuv ua phem tab sis luag twb tsis txuag yus ces ua li ko ces yeej sib pauj tau lawm os mog
So sickening how everyone is on the man's side if he cheats and has a family in secrecy. BUT if it was the woman, ppl would yell and abandon her and tell the man to leave her. If your husband truly loved you, he wouldn't have done anything with his first cousin 😂 shows you how much "love" and "respect" he has for you.
Your story makes me so sad, sister, because everything you've detailed is so true of human nature - men. Many people - women, say they'll never stay but we don't know how strong or weak we'll be when that time comes especially if you were always lead to believe that you had a great strong marriage with an amazing man. People talk, but most can't walk because like you said, xav pes tsawg zaj los hlub nws, nco nws, khiv xim lub neej because nothing has ever tainted your marriage before then. My heart aches for you and I'm so sorry that for the rest of your life, so long as you still stay with this man, you will forever love and hate him 💔. There may be happy days, but happy will never ever be what it once was
Tim koj tus txiv dev tsis tsim txiaj xwb os. Yog nws tsis txiaj ces nws yig dab laug lawm txawm pog thab los nws yeej tsis thab
Liam ib yam o
Yog kawg❤❤
Cov txiv neej phem ua tau li no los pheej muaj cov pojniam ruam li no thiab. Ua pojniam uv tus txiv cheater ces yus yog tus poob peev tsaj, tsis hais yuav ua zoo npaum twg. You think him stressing from you giving him more kitty 🐱 is torture? He die happy with white hair and you still love and take care of him. You are the type of women, cheaters like to bait to meet their lifestyle.
Agreed 💯
Oh sh*t, it's open relationship and free for all. Stop wasting precious time with a cheater.
Neb txoj dab neeg no mas txaus luag kawg li thiab ho chim siab npau taws xav tua neeg
Move on. He has a whole other family, and you didn't know. He lied and cheated. Wow. You need to move on. Why stay when your marriage and his dirty laundry got aired to everyone.
Kuv ces zoo tib yam li tus me niam tsev no thiab os ntuj as cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li no os hmoob aw
GIRL MOVE ON STOP WASTING YOUR LIFE WITH THIS TXIV DEV
I agree with him, why stay married if you’re going to act like that.
Ntuj aws pojniam Hmoob aws, thov tsum (STOP) giving in nej lub #2 hole rau cov niag txiv dev nov thiab laud? Ua cas tsis kawm ua neej kom muaj Moral Principles es yuav mus cia luag ua yus lub qhov Quav os.
Right? 😂 Ua ua qhov quav ces ib hnub twg qhov quav tsis muaj tom xib lawm ces thaum yus laus, quav los quav nawb!
Sister don't stay in that relationship, don't let your relatives force you to stay. Find your own happiness. Once a cheater always a cheater
Tsi xav hai lis os hlub2 koj os me viv ncau aws leej twg ntshib thiaj paub mob siab os😢
Mus kom tau rab loj kiag xwb mas ... txiv neej li ko nyuam qhuav ntxim
Zaj nov hais tau mob siab kawg.
Luag nrov nrov. Txaus luag dhau tim tib tug plig cua nab nkaus xwb
Cas koj yuav hais tau txaus ntshai ua luaj thiab txaus tu siab ua luaj na es koj puas muaj txiv lawm yog g muaj txiv lawm no teb kuv nb
Koj hai yog tshaj plaw os tu me Viv ncau aw kuv ces cov txiv neej zoo li ko ces kuv dhua222 tshaj plaw lawm os
yog tshaj li
If you’re still beautiful, we can make your husband jealous 😂😂😂😂..let me know
I give you a lot of props for taking him back
Tu me Viv ncau aw yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog
Peb cov poj niam hmoob uas pheej zam txim rau cov txiv dev mus ua2 dev tas los zam txim tas zam txim tuaj mas dhuav cov poj niam no khawg. Cov poj niam no puas poj niam npe. Cas pheej hais qhov txias2 siab tab sis ho tsis muab nrauj es pheej nyob ua dab tsi...SMH. Please leave a marriage this miserable. Life is short. Go start over and be good to yourself and live the best life.
I can never forgive them
Both. I can’t fix my marriage to love him again…
Never again 😢
That’s crazy how we hmong girls forgive our cheating partners 🥱
Tos poob nyiaj ntau2 los vim yog poob rau ob lub noob thiab lub txiv lws
Ca yuav hai tau tu siab mob siab tshaj li os
Nej ma g muaj tu ntse li paj yeeb tsha tu Niam lau lawm lau hmoob meka ca muaj cov zoo li no thiab😂😂😂
Huav peb lub neej hmoob cov niam tsev yog cov raug tsim rau txoj kev mob siab tus txiv tham laus nkauj ntau tshaj lwm haiv neeg vim cov kwv tij neej tsa pheej muab cov niam tsev nias nyob lub neej uas lawv tus txiv tsis hlub lawv es thiaj muaj cov neej neeg uas tus txiv neej ua hluas tsim tus poj niam no ntau ua luaj li no los ma.
Viv ncaus aws..kuv twb tau ua li koj thiab ua neeb kho thiab nrhiav tshuaj tawv nruj rau tau 2.3 xyoo thaum kawg yog cheating tus kwv mus cheat thiaj tsis muaj zog xwb. Hais rau cov Viv ncaus yog thaum twg koj tus txiv tus kwv tsis muaj zog lawm ces nej yuav tau soj ntuam ua ntej mam pab kho nawv.
Have some self respect for yourself… no wonder he did that to you, he knew you would stay. So sad
Hmong txoj Cai uas lwm tus poj niam Tham lawv tus txiv es yog tus poj niam cem thiab hais es tseem yuav kom tus poj niam mus kho tus hluas nkauj thiab. Quav dev tshaj plaws dhuav hmoob txoj Cai no tsis muaj lus hai li lawm so speech less.
Lub neej tiam txiv neej muaj mob si tsis yog Tim dab lawm. tim kev nco hluas nkauj xwb tsis tas kho
Koj ruam koj thiaj tseem yuav koj niag txiv liam ko, yog xav pauj tau kev ntsim siab kav tsij mus nrog kiag lwm tus pw kom nws mob siab tuag. Koj tseem rov los ua thaj haib kiv niag txiv dev ko thiab xwb ces koj poob peev loj dhau lawm os
Tell more scary stories.. i dont like the ones that is just sending a message .. drop those and replace with scary stories!!! Please!!! 🙏
Tên đàn ông tồi phụ nữ mình thật khổ thân,
Qhov no yog tim koj xwb2 nawb yog vim li cas koj ho tsis mus tos koj tus txiv mas es tseem cia tej poj laib li ntawv mus tos thiab mas
Cas zoo li koj ua maiv puv lawm puas yog
Txawm yuav nyiam sib tsuav ntsuag npaum twg los txhob ua Qhov Quav nawb. Thaum hluas mas tsis ua cas thaum laus cas yuav hnav diaper nrog nraim ov qhia li no rau txhua tus pojniam paub
Can you limit how many sad Hmong women stories with cheating husband. It’s get so annoying on how many of these women just put up with their cheating spouses. It’s just getting old.
Right? So many headaches 😂😂😂 I usually just skip them
I understand but that’s the reality of Hmong women
She doesn't get to choose what kind of stories she recieve. It's what people send her.
Just don’t listen if you don’t like these kind os stories. Majority of drama is due to these real life stories.
No one's forcing you to listen!
Tham tsi muaj qab hauv li
😂😂
Nej cov hmoob mekas twb zoo zoo no ne g liam li hmoob nplog no ne cas zoo no ma lo no es tsi yg liam lo
Ib niag poj niam es liam2 ua txhua lub qhov es nej tseem tias yog ib tug poj niam zoo thiab no ntuj aws
Can u go XXX the next love story. Haven't listened to u for awhile, but ur story has more action now....
Cas hmoob nplog ua ib tug xwb mas hmoob mekas cem npaum nkaus li dev tom dab xwb tab cas nej hmoob mekas rov ua rau nej nej hais g tau li ma
Hahaha g yog mus thawj ua cua nab nws mus thawj nkag qwj tsw lau lawm xwb 😅
😂😂😂😂txhob ruam ruam mas peb cov niam tsev na. Thawj mus rau poj niam 2ceg lawm xwb laus.😢
20 xyoo ntxiv rau 9 es muaj 29. Sib yuav thaum muaj 9 xyoo?
Yog koj txias siab lawm ua li cas koj tseem yuav nws mas? You must like living with misery that’s why you are still with him. He will keep cheating on you because he knows you can’t leave him. When a man knows that he is your weakness, he will take advantage of you.
Cas koj tus txiv ko mas cas yuav ntxim koj lub ncaws taw ua luaj.
A women
Ntuj aw noob nyoog nim qhuav 50 tawm xyoo xwb es twb noj tshuaj lawm ces tsi tas hais li os
What is meb dud? Someone please explain to me.
Nyob z
Ntuj os teb aw cas cov niag txiv dev hmoob thiab muam dev hmoob no es yuav tsis leem cai li os. Koj tu kuv tu los zoo ib yam li os. Tsis yog yuav kev li, yog siab phem xwb. Koj tus na tseem tham tu hluas, peb tej ces tham niag pog laus tshaj yus lawm.
😂😂😂😂😂.....koj tus txiv tus plig ham tsis mus thawm ua ib tug cua nab mus lij lwm lub qhov av lawm los mas 😄
Hahahahah
Ntuj aw ib niag meb cab xwb es tseem muaj cai qhov twg mus kho naw
Yog nyob es xav li koj los yog ua li koj es nyob ua dab tsi naws
People in the comment is hating on this txiv dev yet even the other women took it upon herself to sleep with him knowing hes married. And the wife still takes this txiv dev back because she cant resist the lust she has for this txiv dev. If you ask me, theyre all sick freak to me lmao.
Why stay with a daddy dog?! Quit wasting your precious time, the fire ain’t the same no more.
Tus sister aw koj ruam dhau lawm os koj tus txiv twb thaum hluas nkauj tawm 3xyoos koj tseem tsis paub thiab na tos koj tus txiv mu thawj ua cua nab los lawm los yog nws ua cua nab mu lij qhov kwj deg lawm ne
Seems like he was only sorry that he got caught but sometimes love is blind. It’s ok sister. You may need to get some therapy to overcome this betrayal. Marriage is worth fighting for and it’s ok to admit that you can’t let his cheating/lying ass go. Take it one day at a time. I hope you and your hubby work out this marriage and stay strong!!
You will never be happy. His infidelity will replay in your head over and over again and it’s eating you alive that’s why you’re telling your story. Best wishes