Rachel is such the perfect person for Kaitlyn to be talking to right now in this moment. This is honestly the perfect guest to have right now. For Kaitlyn to see another successful woman her age doing fine, living in her truth and peace and contentment is so hope-giving and vulnerable and supportive.
I’ve loved Big Rach from day one and she continually reminds me why she’s so incredible. I really love seeing Kaitlyn having such an incredible support system around her to hold space through this separation. I truly hope her and J can be friends! ❤
I really enjoyed this podcast, it's a conversation between two mature women, not afraid to light up the society fears, doubt women of our ages can face. I follow Rachel since her time in Bachelor and I just discovered Kaitlyn. I'm 36 successful too, in a relationship but with no kids yet and I totally recognize myself through your stories 🙏🏾 it's good to feel understood. Women, I wish and I have no doubt you will find your full path. You are creative, easy going, eager with challenges. God has a good storage for you, and I pray you will have the family you completely deserve 🙏🏾
love Rachel!! Articulate, so present and emotionally calm….and I love Kaitlyn for being so real. We are here for you!! You two need to do this regularly!! 🩷🩷
Hi KB! I know you’re eager to be a mama so just wanted to say that you can chase that dream without waiting for a partner. At 37 I delivered by baby girl, conceived with a donor, because I too ended a relationship and felt like I was running out of time. I didn’t want to pick the wrong guy out of urgency. Love can come later. Go after what you want and don’t let a guy determine if you get to be a mom! Best decision of my life!
What an amazing interview! LOVED the bracelet moment! Nothing happens by coincidence! And totally agree with Rachel reaching out to Charity on her own. That’s my girl!
So great to wake up to see this convo pop up in my feed. Love seeing 2 of my most fave Bachelorettes! And Rachel is absolutely right! I’d much rather tune in to the pod. than scroll Instagram.
The concept of “inside treats” has really helped to put some things into perspective for me. I got married this past New Years, and since then have struggling with the idea of posting the photos. It was such a special day for me and something about posting them just so people could hit a like button and move on felt really off to me, but it also felt weird not posting about such a big day.. Your discussion regarding this has really solidified for me that I really don’t want to post the photos. And I appreciate you giving me that clarity!
Regarding 15:09, its sooo interesting to realize just how different people can be. I am the exact opposite of these two ladies, I crave a quiet, calm, peaceful life so hearing their perspective of what they want in life and talk about how much they work and how they both genuinely love it and want more is so interesting as someone that literally craves the complete opposite. Neither perspective is right or wrong, they’re just completely different and I love that I’m at a place in life where I don’t feel shame in accepting that anymore. American society puts so much focus and importance on what you do and how productive you are and how much you have both in money and family that it makes people like me who genuinely do not have any kind of “dream career” that they want to work super hard towards or a desire for children and a big family…like some of us just want to make enough money that we can cover our expenses and live life in a cozy house with our partner and cats reading, painting, drawing, cooking, cleaning, watching the seasons go by, gardening. This is what I crave; not a family, not a job, this. And that’s okay just as it’s okay for these incredible women to crave more and more 🫶🏽 One side note though, I have BPD, MDD and ADHD and used to be a comercial interior designer which was a career that demanded creativity on command, managing and tracking an insane amount of small details and important detailed info on several concurrent projects while having to talk to, email and meet with a LOT of people from coworkers and clients, to consultants and product reps, city planners, architects, engineers…*sigh* I was on track to become a 35 year old director of interiors at a pretty big firm in my city but had been battling with undiagnosed mental illnesses for years and one day I just gave out. I quit and retreated into my house and have spent the last year or so in therapy working towards a diagnosis at first and now understanding it and how it presents with me and learning to cope. So I suppose there’s reasons why I crave a quiet life sans people (aside from my husband 🥰). That said, even if you’re not going through mental health issues it is still okay to crave a quiet life. You don’t have to be this productive machine with a goal to leave some kind of mark in this world ❤
Aunty Rach looks so cute these days. I feel her vulnerability right now and the strength in that is beautiful. Rooting for her always and loved hearing her speak to Kaitlyn 🤍
Also just wanted to say I have been loving the vibe in your podcasts recently, as well as the guests. It's interesting to hear you talk about wanting to help people by talking through what you are experiencing right now. I totally understand that, I often feel that call myself. However I really feel like I get way more out of the discussions I hear on podcasts rather than instagram. Instagram has such a weird chaotic vibe. It can be fun sometimes. But I feel like these kind of videos/discussions are the ones that I really get something useful out of.
From one control freak to another. My therapist said to always remember control is an illusion, the only thing you can control is how you respond to each situation.
Great podcast! Thank you! Two of my favorite Bachelorettes! Kaitlyn you do you and I hope you never share anything because you feel you have to or are feeling pressured. Please don’t think your followers won’t follow you without getting what some believe they are entitled to. The people who feel they are entitled to more and are demanding more are the people you may want to block or just ignore.
I love both of you so much! Love how honest you are and just speaking what's real right now. So good for the soul and mind. Already looking forward to your next podcast together
Kaitlyn, your true supporters don’t need to see your every move on social media. Your podcast is a wonderful way to keep in touch and stay connected. Especially now that you’re on TH-cam. ❤️
I literally love them both. I listen to every higher learning episode and love it so much!! but I wish Rachel would also do another podcast with Kaitlyn hahah I love them together! Or one where Rachel talks to female guests about conversations like this! So still the one with Van Lathan on current political and social topics(love van! lol) and then one like this because it would be completely different than what she’s already doing. We all would love more Rachel in our lives 💜🥰 haha and Kaitlyn you are killing it! Love hearing you talk about everything you’re going through and your insight into things. I’m 37 and relate so much to you💜
This was so good! I was thinking why Rachel was not at the Men Tell All because that would of awesome! But thanks for explaining and that is total understandable.
DAMN! Got a chill when Rachel was describing that they messed up with the Rabbi and apologized and then learned and are attempting to rectify it. Seems an easy concept for all of us to be able to incorporate into our lives.
Loved this ep! But for some reason was the audio weird for anyone else? It only played through one AirPod during the interview and then both on ad reads
These are 2 girls that wanted to find love but maybe not marriage at the moment and that’s ok. But in the meantime they broke someone’s heart or had their heart broken. I hope they find what they are looking for someday.
Really enjoyed listening to Rachel & Kaitlyn conversation. Kaitlyn this period of your life is time to prioritize what’s more important to you personally. I know Rachel has prioritized her career instead of starting a family which she always said she wanted. At 38 years old and as she Rachel said , she didn’t freeze her eggs must be difficult to hear so many Batch friends like Nick & Becca now having babies must be very sad for you both. So, I’m praying for you both and hope God will answer all your prayers. Don’t give up Kaitlyn my fellow Canadian. ❤️🙏
Whoa...focused on her career instead of starting a family...you have zero idea what's going on behind closed doors and your comment makes it sound as though she owes you something. Which, i hate to break it to you, that she owes you diddly squat. This is exactly why she says that she doesn't need to explain everything about her life to anyone. It's clearly working because you're there stewing about why she said she wants a family and isn't, in your very myopic view and opinion, doing anything about it. You have no clue what's going on behind closed doors at all and I'm happy that she's chosen to keep slaying. If she ends up having a family, I'm sure she will be an excellent parent. If she doesn't, she will continue to be an excellent person to those around her.
@@tinytots247 This is not a negative statement to Rachel. She said on numerous podcast looking back she didn’t prioritize starting a family but has forgiven herself for putting career ahead of husband n starting a family. Go back and check out all Rachel statements on numerous podcast and you will hear her talking about the topic. Hope you’re satisfied.
@@bernicefletcher5096 agreed. This is obviously something that both her and Kaitlyn have in common and may be one of the reasons why they’ve run into problems in their personal lives and relationships.
@@bernicefletcher5096 Well, as you say, if she's forgiven herself, why keep crucifying her and making her feel sorry and sad because all the other Bach ladies are having kids? Why not allow her to navigate her life as she will? If she never has kids, no matter how much she's talked about them, what is it to the rest of us? It really is amazing how entitled people feel in controlling the lives of others.
I feel so sorry for Bryan for marrying someone like her. She seems so self centered and selfish. Divorce is the best thing to happen to him. I hope he meets someone who can truly appreciate him
2 out of three of my least favorite Bachelorettes. Add Katie Thurston, and that would be my 3. Kaitlyn...you went to Chris and Lauren's wedding, yet you interview Rachel, the one who got him kicked off the show & tried to ruin his reputation. Then she tried to ruin Hannah Brown over a song!😠
If you would like to help people, you need to advise how a relationship won't break down, we don't need to know exactly why your relationship with Jason did not work out but we were routing for the both of you and it would be know a bit what went wrong 😍
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Rachel is such the perfect person for Kaitlyn to be talking to right now in this moment. This is honestly the perfect guest to have right now. For Kaitlyn to see another successful woman her age doing fine, living in her truth and peace and contentment is so hope-giving and vulnerable and supportive.
Absolutely. Their candor was refreshing and I’m sure will be helpful to many people.
I agree.
I swear, I could listen to these two for HOURS. Kaitlyn, feel free to record even more convos with Rachel!
I’ve loved Big Rach from day one and she continually reminds me why she’s so incredible. I really love seeing Kaitlyn having such an incredible support system around her to hold space through this separation. I truly hope her and J can be friends! ❤
I really enjoyed this podcast, it's a conversation between two mature women, not afraid to light up the society fears, doubt women of our ages can face. I follow Rachel since her time in Bachelor and I just discovered Kaitlyn. I'm 36 successful too, in a relationship but with no kids yet and I totally recognize myself through your stories 🙏🏾 it's good to feel understood.
Women, I wish and I have no doubt you will find your full path. You are creative, easy going, eager with challenges. God has a good storage for you, and I pray you will have the family you completely deserve 🙏🏾
Such a good vibe. Rachel is forever the best for standing for important topics
love Rachel!! Articulate, so present and emotionally calm….and I love Kaitlyn for being so real. We are here for you!! You two need to do this regularly!! 🩷🩷
My forever fav bachelorette Rach, love her, a realist. Great interview. They're a good team.
Hi KB! I know you’re eager to be a mama so just wanted to say that you can chase that dream without waiting for a partner. At 37 I delivered by baby girl, conceived with a donor, because I too ended a relationship and felt like I was running out of time. I didn’t want to pick the wrong guy out of urgency. Love can come later. Go after what you want and don’t let a guy determine if you get to be a mom! Best decision of my life!
What an amazing interview! LOVED the bracelet moment! Nothing happens by coincidence! And totally agree with Rachel reaching out to Charity on her own. That’s my girl!
I think the best thing for a relationship famous or not "share what you want to share" I think that is best.
So great to wake up to see this convo pop up in my feed. Love seeing 2 of my most fave Bachelorettes! And Rachel is absolutely right! I’d much rather tune in to the pod. than scroll Instagram.
Rachel is perfect for Kaitlyn to be talking to now!! Let's goooo
The concept of “inside treats” has really helped to put some things into perspective for me. I got married this past New Years, and since then have struggling with the idea of posting the photos. It was such a special day for me and something about posting them just so people could hit a like button and move on felt really off to me, but it also felt weird not posting about such a big day..
Your discussion regarding this has really solidified for me that I really don’t want to post the photos. And I appreciate you giving me that clarity!
Regarding 15:09, its sooo interesting to realize just how different people can be. I am the exact opposite of these two ladies, I crave a quiet, calm, peaceful life so hearing their perspective of what they want in life and talk about how much they work and how they both genuinely love it and want more is so interesting as someone that literally craves the complete opposite. Neither perspective is right or wrong, they’re just completely different and I love that I’m at a place in life where I don’t feel shame in accepting that anymore. American society puts so much focus and importance on what you do and how productive you are and how much you have both in money and family that it makes people like me who genuinely do not have any kind of “dream career” that they want to work super hard towards or a desire for children and a big family…like some of us just want to make enough money that we can cover our expenses and live life in a cozy house with our partner and cats reading, painting, drawing, cooking, cleaning, watching the seasons go by, gardening. This is what I crave; not a family, not a job, this. And that’s okay just as it’s okay for these incredible women to crave more and more 🫶🏽
One side note though, I have BPD, MDD and ADHD and used to be a comercial interior designer which was a career that demanded creativity on command, managing and tracking an insane amount of small details and important detailed info on several concurrent projects while having to talk to, email and meet with a LOT of people from coworkers and clients, to consultants and product reps, city planners, architects, engineers…*sigh* I was on track to become a 35 year old director of interiors at a pretty big firm in my city but had been battling with undiagnosed mental illnesses for years and one day I just gave out. I quit and retreated into my house and have spent the last year or so in therapy working towards a diagnosis at first and now understanding it and how it presents with me and learning to cope. So I suppose there’s reasons why I crave a quiet life sans people (aside from my husband 🥰). That said, even if you’re not going through mental health issues it is still okay to crave a quiet life. You don’t have to be this productive machine with a goal to leave some kind of mark in this world ❤
Such amazing, powerful women. Rachel is so emotionally mature and Kaitlyn is so real. Love them😍
This might have been one of my favourite interviews! I love hearing you two support each other and lift each other up! Love you both!❤️
My gosh what a good vibe! Such a beautiful conversation between two mature women who understand who they are.
Aunty Rach looks so cute these days. I feel her vulnerability right now and the strength in that is beautiful. Rooting for her always and loved hearing her speak to Kaitlyn 🤍
Totally loved this convo......keeping hope alive ladies......onward/upward.....
These two are the best combo! Thanks to both for being you, so so good.
Amazing conversation! I wish I could be a fly on the wall of their off-mic convo too!! lol
I love Rachel's perspective. I'm going through a bunch of things and she has some great ideas 😀💡
Also just wanted to say I have been loving the vibe in your podcasts recently, as well as the guests. It's interesting to hear you talk about wanting to help people by talking through what you are experiencing right now. I totally understand that, I often feel that call myself.
However I really feel like I get way more out of the discussions I hear on podcasts rather than instagram. Instagram has such a weird chaotic vibe. It can be fun sometimes. But I feel like these kind of videos/discussions are the ones that I really get something useful out of.
From one control freak to another. My therapist said to always remember control is an illusion, the only thing you can control is how you respond to each situation.
Died when this popped up! So excited to hear two of my fave power girls!
Rachel Lindsey- Abasolo is my favorite Bachelorette ❤
Great podcast! Thank you! Two of my favorite Bachelorettes!
Kaitlyn you do you and I hope you never share anything because you feel you have to or are feeling pressured. Please don’t think your followers won’t follow you without getting what some believe they are entitled to. The people who feel they are entitled to more and are demanding more are the people you may want to block or just ignore.
Bracelet “exchange” was it for me!! I loved this conversation
Another great guest and amazing convo! Love you and Rach! ❤❤❤❤
This was such a treat to watch. Always nice hearing from Rachel 😊
I love both of you so much! Love how honest you are and just speaking what's real right now. So good for the soul and mind. Already looking forward to your next podcast together
Kaitlyn, your true supporters don’t need to see your every move on social media. Your podcast is a wonderful way to keep in touch and stay connected. Especially now that you’re on TH-cam. ❤️
Good for you Rachel we love you talking about Bryan on your podcasts!!😊
Great convo with great women ❤ as a fellow single 38 yr old, Kaitlyn you got this ❤
My two fav bachelorettes!!!
Thank you for bringing these topics on, Rachel! 🫶🏽
Love Big Rach! Kaitlyn, you need to stop caring about what faceless strangers think about you. We don’t know you. Live in your own truth
Loved this, you and Rachel are fantastic 🎉
Best interview!! Love you both together and Rachel is amazing.
OMG seeing this pop up today was so exciting! I just know this will be a great ep ❤
We love and are proud of you for taking the time for you!!! DO not feel obligated to share :)
Wait, why did the bracelet-eyelash exchange make me tear up 🥺🥹🥺
Absolutely hilarious and sweet
That was such a beautiful moment of Bachelorette sisterhood.
Did.not.want.it.to.end! Keep talking, ladies!
I literally love them both. I listen to every higher learning episode and love it so much!! but I wish Rachel would also do another podcast with Kaitlyn hahah I love them together! Or one where Rachel talks to female guests about conversations like this! So still the one with Van Lathan on current political and social topics(love van! lol) and then one like this because it would be completely different than what she’s already doing. We all would love more Rachel in our lives 💜🥰 haha and Kaitlyn you are killing it! Love hearing you talk about everything you’re going through and your insight into things. I’m 37 and relate so much to you💜
Well, this conversation was just DELIGHTFUL and needs to be a regular occurrence.
These two are top notch! Great convo.
This was so good! I was thinking why Rachel was not at the Men Tell All because that would of awesome! But thanks for explaining and that is total understandable.
Okay, but I could actually listen to these two talk all day. 🥰
Loved this one! You both are amazing women ❤
Two of my favourites! I am so excited to listen!!!! 🙏❤️🙏❤️
I clicked on this soooo fast!! My two faves ❤.
Now can I join the off mic session? Haha
Great podcast! Just a note, seems to be an audio issue and right side audio isn't working. Worked on last one with Lo.
The bracelet moment!!! 😭❤️ absolutely loved this interview
The eyelash moment/bracelet is my favorite part.
You all are the best!! Loved this episode.
Could have listened to you two for several more hours!
I really enjoyed this discussion and will definitely have to check out Rachel’s podcasts about the Jewish-AA relationship.
DAMN! Got a chill when Rachel was describing that they messed up with the Rabbi and apologized and then learned and are attempting to rectify it. Seems an easy concept for all of us to be able to incorporate into our lives.
That laugh is everything. Good energy ❤
Loved this ep! But for some reason was the audio weird for anyone else? It only played through one AirPod during the interview and then both on ad reads
yes it happened for me too. Could only hear clearly from one earpod.
Fabulous interview! Amazing young women❣️🤩🤩
That was incredible. Love you both ladies❤
How is Rachel so gorgeous the most dressed down
Clicked so fast! Loved this conversation
Ooo love the bracelets! Where are they from?
Yesssssss Rachel ❤
I love watching ur podcast with rachel ❤
very good interviews, big R and Kathlyn are always power duo.
RACHEL I ❤ U !!!!!
Great podcast!!! Thanks!
Love you both! Good energy!
I love you and it’s true. Most your fans want you happy lovely!❤
I thought the same in regards to which leads came back for Charity.
Rachel ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️Nothin but love for this.
Two of my favorites!
Love Rachel , I’m def a #thoughtwarriors iykyk :)
Around the 17:00 mark, Rachel says she's a control freak and I'm like,...you don't say.
This is so wholesome
For some reason this video’s audio only works on the left side of my airpods, not the right side 😕 😐
Same!!
Same here.
Me too
These are 2 girls that wanted to find love but maybe not marriage at the moment and that’s ok. But in the meantime they broke someone’s heart or had their heart broken. I hope they find what they are looking for someday.
Really enjoyed listening to Rachel & Kaitlyn conversation. Kaitlyn this period of your life is time to prioritize what’s more important to you personally. I know Rachel has prioritized her career instead of starting a family which she always said she wanted. At 38 years old and as she Rachel said , she didn’t freeze her eggs must be difficult to hear so many Batch friends like Nick & Becca now having babies must be very sad for you both. So, I’m praying for you both and hope God will answer all your prayers. Don’t give up Kaitlyn my fellow Canadian. ❤️🙏
Whoa...focused on her career instead of starting a family...you have zero idea what's going on behind closed doors and your comment makes it sound as though she owes you something. Which, i hate to break it to you, that she owes you diddly squat. This is exactly why she says that she doesn't need to explain everything about her life to anyone. It's clearly working because you're there stewing about why she said she wants a family and isn't, in your very myopic view and opinion, doing anything about it. You have no clue what's going on behind closed doors at all and I'm happy that she's chosen to keep slaying. If she ends up having a family, I'm sure she will be an excellent parent. If she doesn't, she will continue to be an excellent person to those around her.
@@tinytots247 This is not a negative statement to Rachel. She said on numerous podcast looking back she didn’t prioritize starting a family but has forgiven herself for putting career ahead of husband n starting a family. Go back and check out all Rachel statements on numerous podcast and you will hear her talking about the topic. Hope you’re satisfied.
@@bernicefletcher5096 agreed. This is obviously something that both her and Kaitlyn have in common and may be one of the reasons why they’ve run into problems in their personal lives and relationships.
@@bernicefletcher5096 Well, as you say, if she's forgiven herself, why keep crucifying her and making her feel sorry and sad because all the other Bach ladies are having kids? Why not allow her to navigate her life as she will? If she never has kids, no matter how much she's talked about them, what is it to the rest of us? It really is amazing how entitled people feel in controlling the lives of others.
@@tinytots247 Agree. That person has been trolling Rachel about having a family. She needs to mind her own business!!! Period.
My 2 fav ! Strong, inspiring women 💞
Loved this
@offthevine Marsai Martin could/ should play Rachel Lindsay in her movie.
Yessss two faves!
I feel so sorry for Bryan for marrying someone like her. She seems so self centered and selfish. Divorce is the best thing to happen to him. I hope he meets someone who can truly appreciate him
My two favoritesssss❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love you both - my two favourites!!!
❤❤❤
i love you kaitlyn
Did she say her two main exs from the show are having kids?? Shawn was the only one I have heard of that is having kids
Nick Viall is also having a baby
Take the advice from a pro. You owe no one any explanation, keep your business private please.
2 out of three of my least favorite Bachelorettes. Add Katie Thurston, and that would be my 3.
Kaitlyn...you went to Chris and Lauren's wedding, yet you interview Rachel, the one who got him kicked off the show & tried to ruin his reputation. Then she tried to ruin Hannah Brown over a song!😠
If you would like to help people, you need to advise how a relationship won't break down, we don't need to know exactly why your relationship with Jason did not work out but we were routing for the both of you and it would be know a bit what went wrong 😍
Nick's exes. Great taste.
Wonder what went wrong with Extra….
Yay! 🎉🎉🎉
Rachel gives off "I'm always right" vibes.
That's your insecurity speaking.
Holy Shit