Man, I wish you had talked to me during my childhood. My lack of emotional resilience in the face of bullies wasted years of my childhood. At that time, I didn't know what to do... I used to get panic attacks in public.
Now you know !! and you can make a huge difference by given this knowledge and tools to the children close to you, give them the gift you wish you had been received.
You are an amazing teacher! I am the leader of our kindness group at my school and I am going to use your video in my campaign, I actually was bullied recently and used your methods, it really did work!
I found this very insightful, thank you. I have shared this as a resource to my daughter who is currently experiencing bullying at school. I will also recommend this video to the school.
I live in Zimbabwe, and my son is always facing bullying of all forms, and thank you to a friend who told me to listen to your video, I am so grateful that i did, Thank you so very much this is wonderful advise and I will be sharing with other
you are the best bully teacher ever. you ca me to the high school and we came that day was the best because of two things that you taught me a lot on bullying and the second one is when we got to go crazy when the tornado drill happened brook gibbs u are awesome. I have really bad asthma too. PS you got a good Batman voice I think you could be Batman. I get bullyed by my weight and one person does that and continues on with my best friends after best friend and then I don't have any friends then well I do have friends but not a lot you really taught me a lot thank you for that. You are so amazing I don't know how to just explain.
So often there is a physical threat that is a component to real bullying that reinforces the bullies verbal attack. Bullies violate your personal boundaries both physically and emotionally. It take a certain degree of emotional and intellectual strength to not let your feeling get hurt when you are victim of bullying.... however it is this very lack of strength that bullies look for when picking a target. The duck example is really apropos because no amount of buoyancy oil will get that baby duck to the surface unless you remove your hand. Targets of bullying often feel that sense of helpless. Some even commit suicide while all the while pretending to the bully (and friends and family as well) that it doens't bother them. No doubt your technique is a great starting tool to deal with bullies, the problem has a great deal more depth to it, in my humble opinion. Name calling (you're an idiot) in and of itself is not bullying, name calling is just a technique bullies use, and its usually just the tip of the iceberg.
... They SHOULD be punished... I like the conditional tense and the small print behind that expression. Yes, aggressive people should be punished and yes, help should be just a call away... but, reality is that we're often left to fend for ourselves, and to succeed under those conditions we need resilience and a good dose of inner conviction (and perhaps a measure of humor). That's something one can only get from parents, siblings and friends... the affirmation that we are worth while as a person and that, despite the fact life is often unfair, we can always get on top of our problems. It's not easy, but it can be done
There is only one golden rule and that is when you flatten the bully, the bullying stops! I ignored them for years and the bullying continued. It won't work but it did help me survive because I had confidence in myself. So all the garbage that was said I ignored and that helped me but it did not stop the bullying.
Some just keep on yelling. Even louder when you keep calm and start to threaten you physically. Didn't want to talk. Just hurt you the way they are hurting.
Mr. Brooks you are a blessing to many. God bless you as you continue to empower humanity to overcome evil with good.
I hope someday there will be a teacher in every schools like this man.
You are doing a great job Brooks, keep up! Big hand clap to you.
agreed!
Love him he came and talked to my school and he made everybody feel so much better ❤️
Man, I wish you had talked to me during my childhood. My lack of emotional resilience in the face of bullies wasted years of my childhood. At that time, I didn't know what to do... I used to get panic attacks in public.
Me too! hey don't be sad from regret! You learnt a great lesson that you would have never learnt before. the only way is forward in our predicaments!
I still do
Now you know !! and you can make a huge difference by given this knowledge and tools to the children close to you, give them the gift you wish you had been received.
You are an amazing teacher! I am the leader of our kindness group at my school and I am going to use your video in my campaign, I actually was bullied recently and used your methods, it really did work!
I found this very insightful, thank you. I have shared this as a resource to my daughter who is currently experiencing bullying at school. I will also recommend this video to the school.
My favorite part is the duck story, I laughed so genuinely hahaha
I live in Zimbabwe, and my son is always facing bullying of all forms, and thank you to a friend who told me to listen to your video, I am so grateful that i did, Thank you so very much this is wonderful advise and I will be sharing with other
How is your son now?
Go Gibbs! Ur my favorite funny, and resilient person
Dude, your teaching is so amazing. I'm so blessed 👍
One day this video is going to save a life or prevent suicides because of bullying. Keep it up this is really cool!
Hey dude you came to my school today (rockfield) and I just wanna say you did a great job! Thanks for coming to our school I laughed a lot. :D
you are the best bully teacher ever. you ca me to the high school and we came that day was the best because of two things that you taught me a lot on bullying and the second one is when we got to go crazy when the tornado drill happened brook gibbs u are awesome. I have really bad asthma too. PS you got a good Batman voice I think you could be Batman. I get bullyed by my weight and one person does that and continues on with my best friends after best friend and then I don't have any friends then well I do have friends but not a lot you really taught me a lot thank you for that. You are so amazing I don't know how to just explain.
Hi brooks, i love your videos and makes me stronger about my feelings.. Just wanna thank you!
Thank you so much sir thats helping me feel better and happier 👍
So often there is a physical threat that is a component to real bullying that reinforces the bullies verbal attack. Bullies violate your personal boundaries both physically and emotionally. It take a certain degree of emotional and intellectual strength to not let your feeling get hurt when you are victim of bullying.... however it is this very lack of strength that bullies look for when picking a target. The duck example is really apropos because no amount of buoyancy oil will get that baby duck to the surface unless you remove your hand. Targets of bullying often feel that sense of helpless. Some even commit suicide while all the while pretending to the bully (and friends and family as well) that it doens't bother them.
No doubt your technique is a great starting tool to deal with bullies, the problem has a great deal more depth to it, in my humble opinion. Name calling (you're an idiot) in and of itself is not bullying, name calling is just a technique bullies use, and its usually just the tip of the iceberg.
... They SHOULD be punished... I like the conditional tense and the small print behind that expression. Yes, aggressive people should be punished and yes, help should be just a call away... but, reality is that we're often left to fend for ourselves, and to succeed under those conditions we need resilience and a good dose of inner conviction (and perhaps a measure of humor). That's something one can only get from parents, siblings and friends... the affirmation that we are worth while as a person and that, despite the fact life is often unfair, we can always get on top of our problems. It's not easy, but it can be done
good topics for me and my students to learn and discuss with. thank yoiu!
Pretty cool stuff to learn about!!!!👍🏼
There is only one golden rule and that is when you flatten the bully, the bullying stops!
I ignored them for years and the bullying continued. It won't work but it did help me survive because I had confidence in myself. So all the garbage that was said I ignored and that helped me but it did not stop the bullying.
then what shll i do
Can you give some details of your situation.
But in any case, you can do this www.quora.com/How-can-I-brain-drain-my-enemies/answer/Kyrani-Eade
Some just keep on yelling. Even louder when you keep calm and start to threaten you physically. Didn't want to talk. Just hurt you the way they are hurting.
I remember you coming to my school! Bullard. U did the resilience volunteer thing with my friend spencer
Dude your the best and so funny I hope you have a great time
I wish u could go to the Waupaca Middle School!💚
I watched this in school and thought it was funny so I am watching it now!
You did a great job at south good message
This is a meme at my school
SAME DEADASS
SAME
Is this the same of what they call as the gray rock method for dealing with narcissists?
This is amazing !
You guys seriously have to give me those music tracks instrumentals and songs!
Please Come To FL School's ,Spring Hill,,, come to central high school, and springsted high school please thanks,
I agree, the tampa bay needs it too
Thank you for you...you are appreciated...
Whats the name of the older Gentleman who is demonstrating the technique at the end of the video?
Life Golden Rule 👍
could there really be a new way to go for targets?
Similar rule appy to narcissists.
Today I watched this video in school btw
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You too
Yeah literly today
Okay
Thanks !
Whats the Name of the man at the end?
Galliano Marr, yes! I'd love to know who that is.
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@@rainbow9987 Thank you!
Love you, but please correct the idea that girls‘ rejection constitutes bullying to a boy - that is sexist
You went to my school today.m
بدنا ترجمة :(
BULLY IN JAIIIL
I want meet this person
Brooks what is ur email?
i wanna ask smthin
Contact form at brooksgibbs.com