I am not a mother but I find this fascinating. This method really respects the child as an independent human being. Though children still depend on their parents for food, safety, and shelter they can still do many things on their own. And will grow to be respectful and conscious adults. I love this!
As part of my lazy Montessori efforts, I used to put a mark on the milk jug about halfway down. My son loved to pour his own milk but couldn't handle the full jug. So I poured it when it was full, but then when it hit the mark, he was allowed to pour it himself.
I love this parenting/teaching style because it really fosters a sense of independence and respect. As a kid I had no control and grew up overly cautious, as a teen I never joined any clubs or went anywhere ever period, because I grew up too scared to leave home unless my parents said it was okay. I'm gonna be an adult soon and I'm still scared to walk around the block on my own. Thank you for these videos, I've always wanted to foster when I grow up and be a dad and this is something I hope to implement with my future kids and, if I get over my fear and become a teacher, I'll implement this with my students too!!
I went to a Montessori school from age two until fourth grade. I am now a senior in high school and 100% credit the person I am today to my Montessori background. I talk to my parents everyday about how amazing my experience was growing up with these tools and feel so well-rounded. I will no doubt carry this method down to my children.
I’ve worked in some Montessori Early Years settings, and I was never sold on the method. It felt like we had a lot of very bright kids choosing tasks that were too easy for them instead of selecting tasks that challenged them, or children would always select the same tasks instead of a wider variety. I’m still not sure it works for every child when you have around 20 four year olds in a room, but I am really loving seeing how it works on a smaller scale that can be more easily personalised.
I don't have kids myself but am slowly purchasing smaller budget friendly items to help my friend with her kids. Her daughter just turned 2 and this is such a great idea to help them get started early in life with being independent and helping with things around the house when they're older and not just expecting someone else to do it. It helps foster and develop a love for learning independence which seems to be in short supply these days. Back when I grew up I never heard of Montessori I just was taught this stuff.
Picking the right fruit can be very tricky business lol. Your family is so precious! We homeschool our kiddos so thanks for sharing! I'm looking forward to more videos!
I absolutely love your videos! I'm completely new to Montessori. It's such an amazing way for children to grow in confidence and independence. My baby is 6 months old and look forward to implementing this in the future.
My youngest turns 18 this week but when my 3 kids were little I did something similar to this when my 2nd one was a toddler because my first had a birth injury that left him severely delayed and we had a lot of therapy for him but it was a long time before he would do a lot independently. My girls were able to do a lot. This respects them and allows for self expression so you don’t get the screams and the “NO ME!!” Yelling lol. Love the high chair! Nothing wrong with second hand! With my first, my husband left me homeless before he was born so my mom was a mover and someone was moving and throwing away a bunch of baby items so that’s how I got a lot. Congrats on the babies!
I've just started watching your videos and every one I have watched has had me feeling inspired! I am definitely going to start implementing some Montessori type organization around our kitchen! I love the set ups that you've come up with for your kids, great job & excellent videos. Thank you!
i’m definitely a teenager and eventually i want kids and this method is seems really good for kids! i don’t think i would use all aspects of this method but i really like this kitchen method
I just discovered montessori and I am so impressed with how advanced your daughter is in this video. I am definitely going to continue watching your channel and implementing this method into our life and my 1 1/2 year old daughter's life.
SUCH a SMART and BIG HELP for parents! It makes it so easy and fun for the kids when they can be independent themselves and do the "big kid or adult" things just like us! It also makes it easy especially when you're taking care of a younger baby that she can almost help herself and not have to ask majority of the time! Only if she can go grab the items, loved this concept and idea! We have the same setup, very similar, in our house too!! 🙏🏽😍 Seriously it has helped so much and she learned so much as well!!!
I have a 2 year old and she is pretty independent. I never knew I was teaching her in Montessori methods. The whole bathroom and kitchen is not something I've done all the way. Im going to implement these tips! Thanks :)
that's amazing, the way that she knows what she has to do, your daughter is so cute, I'm fascinated with all that, you're an awesome mom, seriously that's amazing
I love the snack drawer. My son 28 months can access the crockery and utensils but I hadn't made a snack area for him yet I must do that. You may be surprised about the breakages my son has only broken a couple when he was under 2 and now doesn't. He never hurt himself. But I totally understand we are all different :)
Another great video! Very informative and we'll put together. Mom of 6 here. I am envious of how you started from the begining with Montessori. We are learning now and implementing what we are able to do and growing so much. Your videos really do inspire me and have helped me chamge my perspective on a lot of my child rearing. Thank you 💕
only knew like the basics of montessori and never really thought much of it but after seeing it in your everyday life I have to say i am impressed! Will definitely look into this more when I have children
Wow you have so many things in your fridge! A lot of times we inadvertently do everything for our child that we don't realize many of these chores can be taught to them at a young age.
Hey! I recently subscribed to your channel and have watched videos over and over again trying to make need lists and learn all of this wonderful information you're sharing. You are doing an awesome job presenting all of it in a very approachable, informative and entertaining way :) just wanted to say thanks!
She is amazing! I wish I was more independent! I didn't learn independence until I moved out of my parents home. And they will still cripple me when they can.
Educator, not parent here. I love the Montessori approach and child-led learning. I'm excited to see parents implementing this in their homes. This is definitely educational for me and how I can provide a set up fr my students. Definitely subbing!
I love your videos even tho I’m not a mother, i still learn new methods from your channel when i want a child i will know how to raise them to be independent ect!❤️❤️
Loved this, especially how you manage to make every video informative and thorough but concise and to the point in a very relatable language and approach! Would love your thoughts on managing areas of the kitchen that for safety reasons are off limits for toddlers such as the stove/cooker which they could also reach once they are up in their tower. Thank you!
Wow!! So impressed! My 2 year old still drinks from cup with a lid and straw! 🤭 you are doing something right! I’m just to afraid to give up that control and have to clean it all up! 🤣 but I’m going to start letting her have access to her utensils and plates! Thanks for the video! Beautiful girls!
You might spend more time cleaning up, but you quickly find yourself saving twice that amount of time doing things for your child that they can do themselves, so overall it's a wise time investment!
Hi Ashley, your videos are super inspiring! Thanks for that! I have to make one remark tho. Of course it's personal choice and e.g. time capabilities etc., but I just wanted to point out that you're creating a lot of plastic trash by using those fruit pouches. I use a refillable one for fruit smoothies and self-made yoghurt for my daughter and we love it. Also there is possibilities to use plates, cups, bowls made of bamboo. #lessplasticisfantastic
Thank you for your videos! This has guided me on a couple of decisions. I wanted to ask, what did you use to cover your table? Is that just plain vinyl?
Love this! Can you tell me what exactly it is that you put on the table on her side? We have a wooden table as well & it can be a pain to clean sometimes. Thank you!
Great video! One simple solution you could consider might be to purchase a few pieces of plain white Corelle dishes and bowls your daughter can access herself and use, because they’re “real” but do not break easily.
As I've said before LOVE your channel. I was wondering what type of activities can you do with the learning tower? I can't find any videos on that and figured you would be the best person to ask.
I'm glad i'm not the only one who doesn't want my toddler to have unsupervised access to breakable stuff yet. My toddler still throws stuff without warning, and I have fiestaware which is actually pretty durable and hasn't broken yet the couple times he's thrown his plate after dinner, so he's more likely to hurt someone than learn anything.
Hi Ashley, I was just wondering at what age did Kylie get really good at not spilling the cup? Also curious about the junior chair, does her feet rest on the second step while she’s sitting? I have a very similar chair but he can’t get on the chair if the second step is too high but if I lower it his feet doesnt rest on it while sitting...
Wow amazing!! My baby girl is 8 months old now and we've been using your videos as guides for her. I would love to see how you Start and when you start this process?
Awww, Mia is so adorable, she's growing up so fast! I love how you organized the drawers for Kylie, everything is within reach! At the preschool we used to have a water cooler jug as a water station, that was one of the activities and they enjoyed getting the water themselves, or just play with it and make a huge puddle, lol! The learning tower is something I want to get, that's a must if you have a toddler. We have the Stokke chair and Alex stopped using it, he wants an adult chair to sit on. I don't know how to make him start using that again. Thank you, Ashley, for making this video ❤️!
I really need to get her water station set up! I actually sort of forgot about it until I filmed this video, and I was like, ohhhh yeahhhh! Lol. And that’s so odd that he doesn’t like his Stokke chair! Do you buckle him into it? If so, that could be why. Kylie HATES being buckled in, we gave up on that battle a long time ago. Lol
What do you use the bell pitcher for at your house hold? I've seen this item few times in your video and wondered what the intent is compared to other products. TIA!!! (Ex: Looks like a good practice of hand eye coordination/motor skills but wondered if you have your children drink from this, too?)
Love this video and all your Montessori videos, please keep posting more. What is the plastic over part of your kitchen table? Where did you get that!? I DEFINITELY need that!!
This is amazing and I can’t waist to have an adaption of this parenting style, I personally want to span the age of the independence out like wait until 5 or so until I let them serve and prep there own food and the porcelain plates
Great setup! I have to keep ours locked now. Kaylee pulls the drawers open and throws everything out of them onto the floor. It’s been a work I’m process. I totally agree / understand not using the ceramic plates. I’d be washing our entire collection 5 times a day with how many times Kaylee dumps our cabinets and drawers 😂 awesome video!
I love the philosophy behind this, and I'm really impressed by the respect you have for your daughter and the level of independence she already has at the tender age of 2. However, I have no idea how I could implement much of this stuff in my own home, unfortunately. Your kitchen is absolutely huge, whereas I live in a small apartment in a European capital city. Machines (dishwasher, washing machine and tumble dryer) take up most of the toddler height space, and the work surface is about 1m square and right next to the hob so sadly no space for my daughter to help me prepare meals. Although montessori involves a minimalist element, it also seems to require a use of space that doesn't seem feasible for the home we currently have, at least as far as the kitchen goes anyway...
One of those folding two-level step stools would be perfect for a small space to get your child up to counter height. Then when your child is done helping, you can fold it up and tuck it away! :)
I’m loving this video, and the tips and ideas. But I’m also haunted, by what your table covering is 😂. I’m also wondering if I could use an ezpz Mat in it so I could go ahead and transition my blw infant to table and out of the big high chair right away.
Thanks for the videos! I'm getting to know the Montessori methods and philosophy through them. We've just moved into a new apartment and we're going to renovate the kitchen. One of our main concerns is that our little boy, 18 m/o, will play around while we cook. I also hate the devices that keep the closets and drawers closed - I can't open them :) So we decided to close the kitchen area with a counter and a gate. Now I'm not so sure this is a good idea, according to the Montessori way. What do you think about it, from your experience?
I love your kitchen set up! I was wondering when you started using the high chair? I have a traditional one now and I would love to switch but I'm a little nervous, my toddler is a wiggle worm and still clumsy, or more interested in grabbing some food and walking around to eat.
We’ve been using that chair since a little after she turned 1. Mine is the BIGGEST clumsy wiggle worm, too, but when she was littler I just used the little buckle to make sure she didn’t fall out (after she climbed up into it herself, of course). Once she got older and started fighting me about the buckle, I stopped buckling her in. She continued to wiggle and once actually rolled right out of the chair onto the floor... fortunately she wasn’t injured beyond a little bruise, but after that she was much more careful of herself because she understood the consequences and has never fallen out again. Not to mention, she’s MUCH more agile getting in and out now, too, as a 2 year old.
Hi! When your girls were little, did you ever have to put them in the junior chair or were they always able to climb in and out by themselves? My son is 14 months and I want to transition him to something more independent such as junior chair.
If you’re needing a high chair, I would recommend the Ikea Antilop because you can pull it right up to the table and don’t even have to use the tray. :)
Hi Ashley, Your 2 daughter is so lovely... loved your videos and your idea , i hope you will make 1 video about your work out routine, and how you get back in shape after pregnancy , ,,;))
I noticed kiley's chair on the little ikea table as panels I believe thise were added. What is the reason for this 😁 curious looking to get my almost 7month old the same table kit
How did you start teaching her how to get things on her own? I guess I'm trying to understand because I have a 23 month old and I just can't see her do quite this much. I can see her maybe grabbing her plate and putting it on the table and maybe putting her dishes in the dishwasher but things of course would get stressful with her very strong personality and I could see her giving up and telling me no. I stumbled upon your channel and I am just getting into learning more about Montessori. I would love to implement some Montessori in our home. I guess I'll need a Montessori for beginners book 😆
She’s had a lot of practice. We started this journey when she was still only 6 months old. Keep at it, and over time, your daughter will get there. I would highly recommend “Raising an Amazing Child the Montessori Way” by Tim Seldin as a good “beginner“ book! 😊
I love kids learning to be independent at a young age. I have a question though. So typcially they say toddlers/children learn through play and pretend to act like adults. And pretending creates more imagination. Since they are learning to handle a kitchen even before preK, do your kids play pretend or will they do that in preK/kindergarten with the fake kitchen/foods and other household items, or would they find that boring with their peers since they already do the real thing or find it hard to wrap their head around pretending to do it? That was something I wondered about. 🤔 💁♀️
Hello, may i ask how old your daughter is ? I have a nearly 20 month old boy and im not sure what is acheiveable at his age and what is expecting too much ? Up until now i have been more of a "traditionnel style" parent with praise and consequences (time out) and honestly not really what i wanted. Your videos have inspired me to do better. So if you have any starting tips fo a child this age i would apreciate it . I dont know where to start . Thanks
Question for you. I have a high dining table (barstool height) and I don’t know how to create independence for our future little one at meal times with such a tall table (setting table, putting their own items into the table, getting up that high, etc.). Do you have any ideas?
Hey Ashely, please tell me : I have a 28 month old and a 12 month old and I didn’t know about this method of parenting is it too late for me? Any recommendations at all or even books?
Ashley Eklund. Of course there’s a difference between 24 months (2 years) and 3 years. But that’s the same ideology of saying “48 months” for a 4 year old (which you don’t) since 4 and 5 years olds have much different milestones. It just doesn’t seem necessary to keep saying your little ones age in months after 2. If they’re 30 months you can easily say 2 1/2. 🤷🏼♀️
Hi, I love your videos! I am fascinated by this method of parenting. I am also going into teaching young children so this is very interesting! I do have a question though: what are the benefits of the learning tower as opposed to just a stool that boosts a child to the right height? Thank you! Love your videos!
Added safety! 👍🏻 Toddlers can be very clumsy and are prone to falling/stepping off by accident. In a kitchen setting where you may not be right next to them the entire time, this is of paramount importance. :)
I am not a mother but I find this fascinating. This method really respects the child as an independent human being. Though children still depend on their parents for food, safety, and shelter they can still do many things on their own. And will grow to be respectful and conscious adults. I love this!
MySeasideRendezvous me too!
I don’t even have kids !!
When she poured the milk into her glass, I was thoroughly impressed! I’m definitely going to research this method!
The little tiny “be right back!” melted my heart😍 She’s so cute!
Same!
As part of my lazy Montessori efforts, I used to put a mark on the milk jug about halfway down. My son loved to pour his own milk but couldn't handle the full jug. So I poured it when it was full, but then when it hit the mark, he was allowed to pour it himself.
I thought you were going to say you refilled it to that line on the jug every time it would get empty. Haha. Either way it’s a good concept. 🥰
I love this parenting/teaching style because it really fosters a sense of independence and respect. As a kid I had no control and grew up overly cautious, as a teen I never joined any clubs or went anywhere ever period, because I grew up too scared to leave home unless my parents said it was okay. I'm gonna be an adult soon and I'm still scared to walk around the block on my own. Thank you for these videos, I've always wanted to foster when I grow up and be a dad and this is something I hope to implement with my future kids and, if I get over my fear and become a teacher, I'll implement this with my students too!!
Literally don’t have kids! However love the montessori philosophy! When I have kiddos we’re totally going this route😘
Jami Douglas Ditto!!
Awesome that you're educating yourself on this method before having children. I wish I had done that. I'm learning now and my daughter is already 3.
I’m right now setting up my home to be a Montessori style home daycare ! Thanks for all the Help
I love how you offer to give her the help but ultimately let her lead the way, it’s brilliant !!! So clever, and inspirational ❤️
Oh my goodness, your girls are PRECIOUS, like did anyone notice how beautiful they are? The video was great too of course 😊
i like the way she gets her own drawer, i'm going to look into setting something up like this for my 3.5yo.
I went to a Montessori school from age two until fourth grade. I am now a senior in high school and 100% credit the person I am today to my Montessori background. I talk to my parents everyday about how amazing my experience was growing up with these tools and feel so well-rounded. I will no doubt carry this method down to my children.
I’ve worked in some Montessori Early Years settings, and I was never sold on the method. It felt like we had a lot of very bright kids choosing tasks that were too easy for them instead of selecting tasks that challenged them, or children would always select the same tasks instead of a wider variety. I’m still not sure it works for every child when you have around 20 four year olds in a room, but I am really loving seeing how it works on a smaller scale that can be more easily personalised.
I have NEVER heard of this but as a mom of twin boys (they’re 20 months old) I thank you for uploading this lol
My favorite part was watching her pick her food. So cute....
I don't have kids myself but am slowly purchasing smaller budget friendly items to help my friend with her kids. Her daughter just turned 2 and this is such a great idea to help them get started early in life with being independent and helping with things around the house when they're older and not just expecting someone else to do it. It helps foster and develop a love for learning independence which seems to be in short supply these days. Back when I grew up I never heard of Montessori I just was taught this stuff.
Picking the right fruit can be very tricky business lol. Your family is so precious! We homeschool our kiddos so thanks for sharing! I'm looking forward to more videos!
Yes, it’s a several minute decision EVERY. DAY. 😂 Thank you so much for watching!
Yessss
I absolutely love your videos! I'm completely new to Montessori. It's such an amazing way for children to grow in confidence and independence. My baby is 6 months old and look forward to implementing this in the future.
My youngest turns 18 this week but when my 3 kids were little I did something similar to this when my 2nd one was a toddler because my first had a birth injury that left him severely delayed and we had a lot of therapy for him but it was a long time before he would do a lot independently. My girls were able to do a lot. This respects them and allows for self expression so you don’t get the screams and the “NO ME!!” Yelling lol. Love the high chair! Nothing wrong with second hand! With my first, my husband left me homeless before he was born so my mom was a mover and someone was moving and throwing away a bunch of baby items so that’s how I got a lot. Congrats on the babies!
I've just started watching your videos and every one I have watched has had me feeling inspired! I am definitely going to start implementing some Montessori type organization around our kitchen! I love the set ups that you've come up with for your kids, great job & excellent videos. Thank you!
i’m definitely a teenager and eventually i want kids and this method is seems really good for kids! i don’t think i would use all aspects of this method but i really like this kitchen method
I pray and hope you meet your furniture husband soon ❤😊
I just discovered montessori and I am so impressed with how advanced your daughter is in this video. I am definitely going to continue watching your channel and implementing this method into our life and my 1 1/2 year old daughter's life.
I love this! I went to a Montessori preschool from 2-4 and I remember cutting my own eggs, pouring water, and getting my own food for lunch.
i went to montessori school for 9 years and i loved it, it’s really helped me to be independent and love learning
It's so cute to see her do all that! I'm pretty sure I wasn't able to do all that at such a young age. It's kinda amazing!
SUCH a SMART and BIG HELP for parents! It makes it so easy and fun for the kids when they can be independent themselves and do the "big kid or adult" things just like us! It also makes it easy especially when you're taking care of a younger baby that she can almost help herself and not have to ask majority of the time! Only if she can go grab the items, loved this concept and idea! We have the same setup, very similar, in our house too!! 🙏🏽😍 Seriously it has helped so much and she learned so much as well!!!
Kylie LOVES her independence, and I am all too happy to prepare the environment for her. :) Thanks for watching!
Awe so cute, reminds me of the movie Matilda💘💘💘💘
I have a 2 year old and she is pretty independent. I never knew I was teaching her in Montessori methods.
The whole bathroom and kitchen is not something I've done all the way. Im going to implement these tips! Thanks :)
that's amazing, the way that she knows what she has to do, your daughter is so cute, I'm fascinated with all that, you're an awesome mom, seriously that's amazing
I love the snack drawer. My son 28 months can access the crockery and utensils but I hadn't made a snack area for him yet I must do that.
You may be surprised about the breakages my son has only broken a couple when he was under 2 and now doesn't. He never hurt himself. But I totally understand we are all different :)
Definitely a must!
Another great video! Very informative and we'll put together.
Mom of 6 here. I am envious of how you started from the begining with Montessori. We are learning now and implementing what we are able to do and growing so much. Your videos really do inspire me and have helped me chamge my perspective on a lot of my child rearing. Thank you 💕
Thank you! I was looking where to get the toddler chair and the learning tower, I'm so happy you shared this 💖
only knew like the basics of montessori and never really thought much of it but after seeing it in your everyday life I have to say i am impressed! Will definitely look into this more when I have children
I can't believe how indipendent she is given her age!!
Providing the opportunities for it is key. 😊
Yes my nine year old helps me fry
Wow you have so many things in your fridge! A lot of times we inadvertently do everything for our child that we don't realize many of these chores can be taught to them at a young age.
Wow such an independent child...God bless her.and also you Ashley for al the efforts in making her independent 😊
I have one drawer already dedicated to my kids, but this gave me ideas on what to do with the "junk drawers" in the kitchen!
Hey! I recently subscribed to your channel and have watched videos over and over again trying to make need lists and learn all of this wonderful information you're sharing. You are doing an awesome job presenting all of it in a very approachable, informative and entertaining way :) just wanted to say thanks!
You are so welcome!!! 😊
That learning tower is so cool!! I'm really glad I found your channel. 😍
She is amazing! I wish I was more independent! I didn't learn independence until I moved out of my parents home. And they will still cripple me when they can.
Educator, not parent here. I love the Montessori approach and child-led learning. I'm excited to see parents implementing this in their homes. This is definitely educational for me and how I can provide a set up fr my students. Definitely subbing!
I love your videos even tho I’m not a mother, i still learn new methods from your channel when i want a child i will know how to raise them to be independent ect!❤️❤️
Loved this, especially how you manage to make every video informative and thorough but concise and to the point in a very relatable language and approach! Would love your thoughts on managing areas of the kitchen that for safety reasons are off limits for toddlers such as the stove/cooker which they could also reach once they are up in their tower. Thank you!
Wow!! So impressed! My 2 year old still drinks from cup with a lid and straw! 🤭 you are doing something right! I’m just to afraid to give up that control and have to clean it all up! 🤣 but I’m going to start letting her have access to her utensils and plates! Thanks for the video! Beautiful girls!
My parents said that they taught us by just letting us pour water all over our face. We learnt pretty quickly after that.
You might spend more time cleaning up, but you quickly find yourself saving twice that amount of time doing things for your child that they can do themselves, so overall it's a wise time investment!
My baby is almost one and he drinks water and smoothies from a shot glass
ERinaa same here :)
Hi Ashley, your videos are super inspiring! Thanks for that! I have to make one remark tho. Of course it's personal choice and e.g. time capabilities etc., but I just wanted to point out that you're creating a lot of plastic trash by using those fruit pouches. I use a refillable one for fruit smoothies and self-made yoghurt for my daughter and we love it. Also there is possibilities to use plates, cups, bowls made of bamboo. #lessplasticisfantastic
For the milk, what about getting one of those little price milks, in the little plastic bottles. You could just wash and refill it when you're done.
Wow shes like a little adult!!!!
Insane how independent she is! I’m sure they’re gonna have a great life and future with you as their mom 💗
Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm pregnant with 13 weeks now, and super anxious for doing this with my baby.
Kisses from Brasil.
Could you do a video on potty training? making them fully independent in the washroom wiping etc
Thank you for your videos! This has guided me on a couple of decisions. I wanted to ask, what did you use to cover your table? Is that just plain vinyl?
Love the snack drawer! I need to do the same!
She loves being able to choose snacks for herself. :)
Me too
Love your videos! Love how your little girl does things on her own !
I love these ideas! And the girls are so cute! I’d never heard of the kitchen tower, but I’m getting one for my grand daughter for Christmas.
Love this! Can you tell me what exactly it is that you put on the table on her side? We have a wooden table as well & it can be a pain to clean sometimes. Thank you!
Great video! One simple solution you could consider might be to purchase a few pieces of plain white Corelle dishes and bowls your daughter can access herself and use, because they’re “real” but do not break easily.
I love this method of parenting! It teaches such great everyday tools and independence!!!
As I've said before LOVE your channel. I was wondering what type of activities can you do with the learning tower? I can't find any videos on that and figured you would be the best person to ask.
I'm glad i'm not the only one who doesn't want my toddler to have unsupervised access to breakable stuff yet. My toddler still throws stuff without warning, and I have fiestaware which is actually pretty durable and hasn't broken yet the couple times he's thrown his plate after dinner, so he's more likely to hurt someone than learn anything.
Yes, that would certainly be frightening from a safety perspective!
Hi Ashley, I was just wondering at what age did Kylie get really good at not spilling the cup? Also curious about the junior chair, does her feet rest on the second step while she’s sitting? I have a very similar chair but he can’t get on the chair if the second step is too high but if I lower it his feet doesnt rest on it while sitting...
Omg this was just too cute!! I couldnt stop smiling
I love your videos. I work as a babysitter and I try to use Montessori metods. Your videos help a lot.
Wow amazing!! My baby girl is 8 months old now and we've been using your videos as guides for her. I would love to see how you Start and when you start this process?
OMG Kylie is the cutest!
Thank you 😊
Where did you purchase that black chair for your toddler? I like it it’s nice !
Awww, Mia is so adorable, she's growing up so fast! I love how you organized the drawers for Kylie, everything is within reach! At the preschool we used to have a water cooler jug as a water station, that was one of the activities and they enjoyed getting the water themselves, or just play with it and make a huge puddle, lol! The learning tower is something I want to get, that's a must if you have a toddler. We have the Stokke chair and Alex stopped using it, he wants an adult chair to sit on. I don't know how to make him start using that again. Thank you, Ashley, for making this video ❤️!
I really need to get her water station set up! I actually sort of forgot about it until I filmed this video, and I was like, ohhhh yeahhhh! Lol. And that’s so odd that he doesn’t like his Stokke chair! Do you buckle him into it? If so, that could be why. Kylie HATES being buckled in, we gave up on that battle a long time ago. Lol
We don't buckle him into it, but I am going to try and move the foot part lower and see if it makes any difference.
What do you use the bell pitcher for at your house hold? I've seen this item few times in your video and wondered what the intent is compared to other products. TIA!!! (Ex: Looks like a good practice of hand eye coordination/motor skills but wondered if you have your children drink from this, too?)
Hi where did you get the stackers for her plates? And well done to her she’s so good and doing really well. How could you not be beaming with pride 😍
Love this video and all your Montessori videos, please keep posting more. What is the plastic over part of your kitchen table? Where did you get that!? I DEFINITELY need that!!
This is amazing and I can’t waist to have an adaption of this parenting style, I personally want to span the age of the independence out like wait until 5 or so until I let them serve and prep there own food and the porcelain plates
I didn’t know my toddler girl is Montessori... we are just like this!
Holy cuteness!
Great setup! I have to keep ours locked now. Kaylee pulls the drawers open and throws everything out of them onto the floor. It’s been a work I’m process. I totally agree / understand not using the ceramic plates. I’d be washing our entire collection 5 times a day with how many times Kaylee dumps our cabinets and drawers 😂 awesome video!
Yikes! 😬 lol
Thank you !! It looks so easy just takes discipline
I love the philosophy behind this, and I'm really impressed by the respect you have for your daughter and the level of independence she already has at the tender age of 2. However, I have no idea how I could implement much of this stuff in my own home, unfortunately. Your kitchen is absolutely huge, whereas I live in a small apartment in a European capital city. Machines (dishwasher, washing machine and tumble dryer) take up most of the toddler height space, and the work surface is about 1m square and right next to the hob so sadly no space for my daughter to help me prepare meals. Although montessori involves a minimalist element, it also seems to require a use of space that doesn't seem feasible for the home we currently have, at least as far as the kitchen goes anyway...
One of those folding two-level step stools would be perfect for a small space to get your child up to counter height. Then when your child is done helping, you can fold it up and tuck it away! :)
I’m loving this video, and the tips and ideas. But I’m also haunted, by what your table covering is 😂. I’m also wondering if I could use an ezpz Mat in it so I could go ahead and transition my blw infant to table and out of the big high chair right away.
It’s actually a vinyl floor runner covering that we purchased in a roll from Home Depot! ;)
Hapa Family Thank you!!
Wow that’s amazing! Your daughter doesn’t play with the food . How do you do that ?
Thanks for the videos! I'm getting to know the Montessori methods and philosophy through them.
We've just moved into a new apartment and we're going to renovate the kitchen. One of our main concerns is that our little boy, 18 m/o, will play around while we cook. I also hate the devices that keep the closets and drawers closed - I can't open them :) So we decided to close the kitchen area with a counter and a gate. Now I'm not so sure this is a good idea, according to the Montessori way. What do you think about it, from your experience?
For the plates and bowls, you could probably replace them with metal or wood.
WOW and she's 2? Impressive!!!
I love your kitchen set up! I was wondering when you started using the high chair? I have a traditional one now and I would love to switch but I'm a little nervous, my toddler is a wiggle worm and still clumsy, or more interested in grabbing some food and walking around to eat.
We’ve been using that chair since a little after she turned 1. Mine is the BIGGEST clumsy wiggle worm, too, but when she was littler I just used the little buckle to make sure she didn’t fall out (after she climbed up into it herself, of course). Once she got older and started fighting me about the buckle, I stopped buckling her in. She continued to wiggle and once actually rolled right out of the chair onto the floor... fortunately she wasn’t injured beyond a little bruise, but after that she was much more careful of herself because she understood the consequences and has never fallen out again. Not to mention, she’s MUCH more agile getting in and out now, too, as a 2 year old.
Hi! When your girls were little, did you ever have to put them in the junior chair or were they always able to climb in and out by themselves? My son is 14 months and I want to transition him to something more independent such as junior chair.
Superbe vidéo !
La salle de jeu a l’air géniale !
😄😊
Thank you!!
This is so precious! I’ll definitely be doing this with our son! ❤️
❤ your video...but wc high chair do u recommend d one with a tray or one without
If you’re needing a high chair, I would recommend the Ikea Antilop because you can pull it right up to the table and don’t even have to use the tray. :)
Hi Ashley, Your 2 daughter is so lovely... loved your videos and your idea , i hope you will make 1 video about your work out routine, and how you get back in shape after pregnancy , ,,;))
I noticed kiley's chair on the little ikea table as panels I believe thise were added. What is the reason for this 😁 curious looking to get my almost 7month old the same table kit
Hi Ashley,
Thank you very much for your videoes!
Where did you buy your littlr metal jugs?
Thank you in advance
Kind regards, Yana
Amazon! :) I believe there’s a link in the description box! 👍🏻
@@HapaFamily Thank you for taking time to answer! It is not easy with a big family. All the best, Yana
How did you start teaching her how to get things on her own? I guess I'm trying to understand because I have a 23 month old and I just can't see her do quite this much. I can see her maybe grabbing her plate and putting it on the table and maybe putting her dishes in the dishwasher but things of course would get stressful with her very strong personality and I could see her giving up and telling me no.
I stumbled upon your channel and I am just getting into learning more about Montessori. I would love to implement some Montessori in our home. I guess I'll need a Montessori for beginners book 😆
She’s had a lot of practice. We started this journey when she was still only 6 months old. Keep at it, and over time, your daughter will get there. I would highly recommend “Raising an Amazing Child the Montessori Way” by Tim Seldin as a good “beginner“ book! 😊
I don’t know if you’ve already made a video like this but I would love to a day in the life of Montessori practice
I love kids learning to be independent at a young age. I have a question though. So typcially they say toddlers/children learn through play and pretend to act like adults. And pretending creates more imagination. Since they are learning to handle a kitchen even before preK, do your kids play pretend or will they do that in preK/kindergarten with the fake kitchen/foods and other household items, or would they find that boring with their peers since they already do the real thing or find it hard to wrap their head around pretending to do it? That was something I wondered about. 🤔 💁♀️
At that age, I think the fun would be the part about playing with the other kids, regardless of her knowledge of a "real" kitchen. 😊 just mho
Hello, may i ask how old your daughter is ? I have a nearly 20 month old boy and im not sure what is acheiveable at his age and what is expecting too much ? Up until now i have been more of a "traditionnel style" parent with praise and consequences (time out) and honestly not really what i wanted. Your videos have inspired me to do better. So if you have any starting tips fo a child this age i would apreciate it . I dont know where to start . Thanks
Kylie was just about the same age in this video 🥰
I wish our house had the space and functionality to be like this
Thank you thank you for this series!!!!!! Very helpful!!!
You’re very welcome. 😊
Did you set up a kitchen for her too? Like the ikea one, for instance
Question for you. I have a high dining table (barstool height) and I don’t know how to create independence for our future little one at meal times with such a tall table (setting table, putting their own items into the table, getting up that high, etc.). Do you have any ideas?
Hey Ashely, please tell me : I have a 28 month old and a 12 month old and I didn’t know about this method of parenting is it too late for me? Any recommendations at all or even books?
She’s 27 months... so she’s 2 years old. Lol Always find this funny when people go over 2 years with those months.
Brooke Stop there's a reason why people use months.. different milestones between 24 months and 3 years old..
Ashley Eklund. Of course there’s a difference between 24 months (2 years) and 3 years. But that’s the same ideology of saying “48 months” for a 4 year old (which you don’t) since 4 and 5 years olds have much different milestones. It just doesn’t seem necessary to keep saying your little ones age in months after 2. If they’re 30 months you can easily say 2 1/2. 🤷🏼♀️
@hapababy where did you get your plastic table protector?
It’s floor runner material we bought at Home Depot. :)
She so cute 😍
You’re an awesome mom ❤️
Hi, I love your videos! I am fascinated by this method of parenting. I am also going into teaching young children so this is very interesting! I do have a question though: what are the benefits of the learning tower as opposed to just a stool that boosts a child to the right height? Thank you! Love your videos!
Added safety! 👍🏻 Toddlers can be very clumsy and are prone to falling/stepping off by accident. In a kitchen setting where you may not be right next to them the entire time, this is of paramount importance. :)
Hapa Family That makes a lot of sense, thanks for the reply!