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Such an intense and thought-provoking video! It really makes you question the balance between letting go and holding on. The dilemma of whether to ignore or engage is so real and relatable. Great job bringing up such a controversial topic!
Great insights! This highlights the importance of maintaining self-control and setting firm personal boundaries in relationships. Too often, people get caught up in chasing validation rather than recognizing their value. A high-value man isn’t someone who plays games but someone who understands that his time and energy are valuable. Testing a woman’s intentions isn’t about manipulation-it’s about ensuring she’s genuinely interested and willing to invest as much as he is. If she’s inconsistent or draining, walking away isn’t a loss-it’s self-respect. This mindset isn’t just about relationships; it applies to every aspect of life. Solid advice!
Noone is that busy than can't send a text or tell you "sorry I'm busy but we'll talk next week" if they're genuinely busy.. disappearing for days means they don't care or think about you. That's the hard truth. If they're going through a bad time then they're not good for you anyway
Excellent video. I’m going through this right now, after a unique situation that morphed into a emotional relationship. She’s a coworker, which makes it worse. I decided to keep our relationship strictly professional, and she is trying to reach out on a more personal level. I won’t have it, and it’s driving her nuts.
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she disrespected me after showing real intentions, she never tried to reach out till now, but disrespecting me is a red line.....if and only if she tried to reach out in either way or even after she acknowledged she misbehaved, i will only set boundaries and let her go......disrespecting me will never be tolerated, sry she could have told me directly that she is not interested respectfully and she can't keep engaging and i will respect her and if she came back, she is welcomed ..... disrespecting is never been a solution.....WHO the hell planted in there heads those stupid ways ! women in general need to behave and learn real social skills, not playing around, misbehaving or even disrespecting 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
This one chick knew I liked her then proceeded to play all of these EXACT games over the next 3 years. One night she sees me going out and hits me with the “hey how have you been!” right after. I left it on read for two weeks. … My reply was that I kept it on read, unfollowed her, removed her as a follower and unfriended on Facebook. My drunk clarity showed me what it really was but I waited to act on it obviously and I’m glad I did. It was like an intervention. At the time, I was mad offended more than anything. No one has time for that disrespect 😂
I’m lesbian and I do the same thing . Whenever these fem females play these games . I leave me read and delete their number. A woman usually stops responding when she mentions something she wanted from u and when u say oh i don’t have it rn but soon I will . They start texting u 4 days late or a week later 😂 I delete em hos. Once a woman was so interested in me . She even chased me for few months cuz she needed a place to stay and a car to ride in . Then one day I asked her about her day and she told me everything she did and how she took the train to go see her friends and then I responded omg I love riding the train . Once I mentioned how I ride the train she stopped texting me 😢 she went 4 days without texting me . From there I knew she wanted someone with a car remind u I have a car I was just testing to see what she wanted from me and once she stopped texting me Ik she just needed a place to stay and free rides everywhere. Her number been blocked and deleted
I'll tell You what is controversial. How can two people create a healthy relationship when one feels they need to learn thousands of hours of strategic planning like this? First, you’re told to play the other person out, like a psychopath, to exploit all their mental rules just to get them interested. Then, you’re told to use another set of mind games to keep them, so everything becomes a fake game. After that, of course, everything will fall apart because it’s built on mind games by broken people. All these coaches are alone because they profit from promoting hookup culture, and it’s destroying everything including their own relations. Don’t watch this bullshit, don’t play people-if something works, it works; if not, leave it. Don’t play games, or you’re just playing yourself.
There were valid reasons that our ancestors limited women for everyone sake , no permission to manipulate and cause lack of trust , women in business are not trustworthy unless they are formulated to act on certain rules.
Sir i wanna ask please help! Im working with her at the same place.. when i pull away and not giving her attention she seems to chase me and want me to look at her but i never look only when she tries to come and follow me and keep talking to herself near me then i talk... im tired of her always avoiding topic when i try to connect with her and ask her. So its been like 2 weeks avoiding her, and now i wanto connect with her again she seems to avoid connecting again. I don't understand does she likes me or not? Because im confused
Please sir there is a lady at my friend's place of work she said it openly that she is not attracted to him but my friend really love her if he send her message she won't reply and if she will reply she just answer casually. But when they see face to face they both talk and seperate ways. How can my friend win her heart because it's like she blocked my friend in watsapp a day ago? He will not allow me to rest. He has been trying to avoid her based on some of your lessons but very difficult because they work at the same place of work. Please your candid advice is needed. Thanks
from my experience, i had the same exact situation.....sorry but she is not interested at all and maybe there is someone else.....he can't win her heart, if he showed real intentions, thats fine, if she rejected let her go immediately....if he tried more it will backfire and his heart will break.....i had the same exact situation so please listen to my advice and let her go, if he still didn't confront her, let him try to marry her respectfully and officially, without being needy, if she denied.....never try to get in touch with her again, and don't be sad....being needy will lead her to disrespect him rejection is waaay more good than being disrespected. the down emotion of being rejected is way to easy than being heart broken after disrespect
He needs to talk to her about it. Make his intentions known to her and find out where she really stands. it should be a form of closure. And if really she isn’t interested..He has to move on as there are lots of women out there…he HAS to stop blowing up her phone and move on for real. When she sees him thriving, she’ll want to get close to him and then it’s his choice if he still wants her. BUT it’s really important for him to move on. Join my Podium community for deeper insights and exclusive access to my course-special discount for the first 20 men, using the link below. stoicapproachtolife.podia.com/joinnow PROMO CODE - STOICK11
Bro, thanks for the advices. BUT the old videos, without this weird AI guy, were much better (with the old AI voice too). Idk if you are getting more views with this AI guy, if not, getting rid of him could be a good idea!
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Ignore her. Don't ever give her a chance to dog you out again.
Such an intense and thought-provoking video! It really makes you question the balance between letting go and holding on. The dilemma of whether to ignore or engage is so real and relatable. Great job bringing up such a controversial topic!
Great insights! This highlights the importance of maintaining self-control and setting firm personal boundaries in relationships. Too often, people get caught up in chasing validation rather than recognizing their value. A high-value man isn’t someone who plays games but someone who understands that his time and energy are valuable. Testing a woman’s intentions isn’t about manipulation-it’s about ensuring she’s genuinely interested and willing to invest as much as he is. If she’s inconsistent or draining, walking away isn’t a loss-it’s self-respect. This mindset isn’t just about relationships; it applies to every aspect of life. Solid advice!
This just recently happened to me yesterday and I waited a few hours to respond with a simple "thanks" to a bday message she sent me
Noone is that busy than can't send a text or tell you "sorry I'm busy but we'll talk next week" if they're genuinely busy.. disappearing for days means they don't care or think about you. That's the hard truth. If they're going through a bad time then they're not good for you anyway
If you are prioritizing yourself you are building value but you do have to strike a balance between responding and connecting
Excellent video. I’m going through this right now, after a unique situation that morphed into a emotional relationship.
She’s a coworker, which makes it worse. I decided to keep our relationship strictly professional, and she is trying to reach out on a more personal level. I won’t have it, and it’s driving her nuts.
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when she reach out and she's married already she's a goodbye treat him like dead and no where to be found
she disrespected me after showing real intentions, she never tried to reach out till now, but disrespecting me is a red line.....if and only if she tried to reach out in either way or even after she acknowledged she misbehaved, i will only set boundaries and let her go......disrespecting me will never be tolerated, sry she could have told me directly that she is not interested respectfully and she can't keep engaging and i will respect her and if she came back, she is welcomed ..... disrespecting is never been a solution.....WHO the hell planted in there heads those stupid ways !
women in general need to behave and learn real social skills, not playing around, misbehaving or even disrespecting 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
This one chick knew I liked her then proceeded to play all of these EXACT games over the next 3 years.
One night she sees me going out and hits me with the “hey how have you been!” right after. I left it on read for two weeks.
… My reply was that I kept it on read, unfollowed her, removed her as a follower and unfriended on Facebook.
My drunk clarity showed me what it really was but I waited to act on it obviously and I’m glad I did. It was like an intervention.
At the time, I was mad offended more than anything. No one has time for that disrespect 😂
I’m lesbian and I do the same thing . Whenever these fem females play these games . I leave me read and delete their number. A woman usually stops responding when she mentions something she wanted from u and when u say oh i don’t have it rn but soon I will . They start texting u 4 days late or a week later 😂 I delete em hos. Once a woman was so interested in me . She even chased me for few months cuz she needed a place to stay and a car to ride in . Then one day I asked her about her day and she told me everything she did and how she took the train to go see her friends and then I responded omg I love riding the train . Once I mentioned how I ride the train she stopped texting me 😢 she went 4 days without texting me . From there I knew she wanted someone with a car remind u I have a car I was just testing to see what she wanted from me and once she stopped texting me Ik she just needed a place to stay and free rides everywhere. Her number been blocked and deleted
if she's playing a push and pull game, walk away.
Thjs one is one of the best.
How about , ( what the hell do you want ) .
Great video
Thanks man
I'll tell You what is controversial.
How can two people create a healthy relationship when one feels they need to learn thousands of hours of strategic planning like this?
First, you’re told to play the other person out, like a psychopath, to exploit all their mental rules just to get them interested.
Then, you’re told to use another set of mind games to keep them, so everything becomes a fake game.
After that, of course, everything will fall apart because it’s built on mind games by broken people.
All these coaches are alone because they profit from promoting hookup culture, and it’s destroying everything including their own relations.
Don’t watch this bullshit, don’t play people-if something works, it works; if not, leave it. Don’t play games, or you’re just playing yourself.
Just find another woman that does not play these idiotic games
Just ignore if she reached out,
There were valid reasons that our ancestors limited women for everyone sake , no permission to manipulate and cause lack of trust , women in business are not trustworthy unless they are formulated to act on certain rules.
Refuse to play mind games
Sir i wanna ask please help! Im working with her at the same place.. when i pull away and not giving her attention she seems to chase me and want me to look at her but i never look only when she tries to come and follow me and keep talking to herself near me then i talk... im tired of her always avoiding topic when i try to connect with her and ask her. So its been like 2 weeks avoiding her, and now i wanto connect with her again she seems to avoid connecting again. I don't understand does she likes me or not? Because im confused
Please sir there is a lady at my friend's place of work she said it openly that she is not attracted to him but my friend really love her if he send her message she won't reply and if she will reply she just answer casually. But when they see face to face they both talk and seperate ways. How can my friend win her heart because it's like she blocked my friend in watsapp a day ago? He will not allow me to rest. He has been trying to avoid her based on some of your lessons but very difficult because they work at the same place of work. Please your candid advice is needed. Thanks
from my experience, i had the same exact situation.....sorry but she is not interested at all and maybe there is someone else.....he can't win her heart, if he showed real intentions, thats fine, if she rejected let her go immediately....if he tried more it will backfire and his heart will break.....i had the same exact situation so please listen to my advice and let her go, if he still didn't confront her, let him try to marry her respectfully and officially, without being needy, if she denied.....never try to get in touch with her again, and don't be sad....being needy will lead her to disrespect him
rejection is waaay more good than being disrespected.
the down emotion of being rejected is way to easy than being heart broken after disrespect
He needs to talk to her about it. Make his intentions known to her and find out where she really stands. it should be a form of closure. And if really she isn’t interested..He has to move on as there are lots of women out there…he HAS to stop blowing up her phone and move on for real. When she sees him thriving, she’ll want to get close to him and then it’s his choice if he still wants her. BUT it’s really important for him to move on.
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Thanks so much for your reply sir
Why buy a book when there's a library move on
Bro, thanks for the advices. BUT the old videos, without this weird AI guy, were much better (with the old AI voice too). Idk if you are getting more views with this AI guy, if not, getting rid of him could be a good idea!
Appreciate the feedback, I'll consider it!
Is this ai?
This AI dude is not very pleasant to watch---h