Those moms that "watch your every move" AND THEY ARE NOT EVEN MOMS OF YOUR CLASS are called haters. They have to troll, have an opinion and feel some type of way about you totally unwarranted. Please don't let them continue to live rent free in your brain. They don't not like you.... They love you and they hate that they are not you. You mentioned the friend who thinks so highly of you and you don't know why.... It's because you have a light and it's beautiful. I see it and feel that way too. That's why I watch. You are so put together even when you are not. I'm trying to get my life together as a single person and watching you gives me hope that I can in a very classy and attractive way. Idk if this comment makes since but in a nutshell... The way you carry yourself is beautiful stop letting people who don't matter break you down. That's what they want to do because they don't like that you are so organized, stylish , educated, attractive, just put together as an adult and not on that boring childish other vlogs that do wigs and makeup and we watch them clean their house yada yada yada
Parents who feel the need to monitor your classroom, especially when their child is not in your room, have TOO much time on their hands. You're a great teacher who makes learning interactive and meaningful. Keep doing YOU! ❤
I’m sorry you’re going through that with parents, especially when you don’t have their children in your class. I’m about your age, child free, and I’m not a teacher. Teachers are super heroes because kids are challenging enough throw in the parents behavior too and it’s a miracle there’s anyone willing to teach. I love your lifestyle vlogs. I hope you and your family are far away from the SoCal fires.
Keep your head up! You’re one of the few content creators I genuinely look forward to watching every time you post. I admire you as a younger fellow black woman educator. Also, you’ve been shining lately the hair, lashes, nose ring-this is truly your ME season!
🎉GOD shall prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies. Psalm 23:5. Sounds like you've got hallway monitors looking for something to report. So sad. I remember a friend's story about a parent who raised hell at their child's school for 3 years. The parent made continual unreasonable demands on the school, the board, and the district. By the end of it all, this parent's own family was ripped apart in the process. I'm not sure if it was a result of the drama the parent caused with the school or if the drama with the school was started because of family problems. Sad sad irreversible ending. You keep advocating and building community. You are sharing actions of a socially & emotionally well educator. ❤❤❤
I love your piercing. I’ve been contemplating getting one for years. You’ve inspired me to go for it in 2025. Loving the Me Season!!! Thanks for sharing!!
Soo glad to see you! I'm happy to hear you're really focusing on yourself and what you need. Teaching is such a unique profession where it is so incredibly hard to have those boundaries and to "leave work at work." I know I struggle with it as well. I love watching your teaching videos and have learned so much from you over the last several years. I do hope you continue to post and share things about your classroom and what you're doing. But I understand if you are moving into a space where you can't do that anymore. Hope you're well and in no danger from the fires.
I hope that you and your family are safe in California from the wildfires. I also hope that you stay encouraged and let the negativity roll off of your back. You've got this!!!!🙂
1) I have found that those that complain about the school or teachers the most would never consider doing the job themselves. When I hear people complain about my school district I want to send them an application so that they can come and show all the experienced people how it is supposed to be done. 2) The only people that I "know" in California are the TH-cam people that I watch. I hope you are safe and far away from the wildfires. 3)Dogs are my favorite creatures on earth. I love when I get to see your fur babies.
Definitely keep doing YOU. Some parents need to get a life. Be blessed! Be safe from those fires. I’m here in GA. No school tomorrow because snow is expected. We are doing the teacher happy dance.
As a fellow teacher, I am always here to support you. You are an incredible teacher and human being and you will get through this challenge of awful people/parents. I do like the lifestyle vlogs plus a little teaching.
Hi I read your comment and wanted to offer some encouragement I actually successfully transitioned out of teaching and boosted my income significantly. The key is to look for and market your professional skills. Look for mid-level positions on par with your skills and experience. And always negotiate your compensation package.
It's totally ridiculous! If they are doing that without having kids in her class, can you imagine if their kids were in her class? It would have been pure H!!!
If those cyber stalking moms aren’t planning on quitting their jobs to educate their own children Monday through Friday, 8 hours a day… they need to leave teachers alone. They’re apart of the problem…
The fact that you don't work with their children is completely insane. These 3 parents need a life. How sad and sick, I'm sorry this is happening to you. 💜
Them having the time and energy to hate watch is pathetic and embarrassing to them and I pray you don’t feel like you have to censor yourself in any way. How about use that time and focus on loving your kid. 😊 I am really really hope you have a strong, supportive admin who knows who you are and are willing to step to bat for you because I cannot imagine having to deal with all of that drama (esp as an experienced teacher).
Dear Unrealistic Moms Creeping Around on Tanya’s page, Let it go!!! How dare you impede on content that is not for you?! Rhetorical. As a parent you do not have any right to demonize anything teachers do. A hurt dog will holler ladies! No one goes to these lengths of stalking teachers online unless they have a guilty conscious. Leave her be and focus your attention on your children being up to par! Your parent behavior isn’t giving tiger mom. It’s giving creep!
I enjoy watching your videos. Wishing you peace and blessings. Also, the lunch box was very cute. If you don’t mind, can you please share the link for it.
You speak a sad truth. Teaching has become so stressful with all the extra "stuff." I totally get having to be strategic in your next moves. Take your time, explore pros/cons. Pray for discernment and direction.
Hurting people hurt others, and those parents have to find something better to do. Do not allow these emotional squatters to take up any residence in your life. Take care.
I'm gonna throw this out there about these moms...Is the "company" you mentioned a couple of vlogs ago one of their exes? And obviously you don't have to respond to that, but there are so few things that I can think of that would warrant such behavior. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I am sorry you are dealing with the messiness of teaching! I absolutely can relate to your experiences. I find it ridiculous that you do not teach their scholars, but they are giving so much energy to divisiveness and ignorance. Keep sharing from your classroom because they want you stop! They want to see an interruption in your life because they are unhappy! There are teachers who need to see and hear your work and dedication to students and their successful outcomes! 😊
The moms sound like they are in kahoots with the parents of the kids that were in your class last semester. Is your administrator dealing with the moms and supporting you? It’s good that you have a lot of experience in education that you can manage this kind of b.s. as it can be stressful. Are the moms also going after other teachers that have social media such as instagram? Tick tock? Facebook? If not, I would ask them what their REAL issue with you is. This is pure harassment and that’s a crime. Also, I’m in the same boat as you in the sense of reevaluating my next steps in this career. Some food for thought is you could work part-time next school year (e.g., half-day) if your district allows it, and explore other jobs with the extra time you’ll have. You could also try a “no-spend” year to increase your savings to allow you to take a sabbatical comfortably should you want to in the future.
It definitely feels like mob mentality and it has been targeted towards me. I am glad that I have a strong sense of self and am able to hold myself down in the midst of all this.
Those moms that "watch your every move" AND THEY ARE NOT EVEN MOMS OF YOUR CLASS are called haters. They have to troll, have an opinion and feel some type of way about you totally unwarranted. Please don't let them continue to live rent free in your brain. They don't not like you.... They love you and they hate that they are not you. You mentioned the friend who thinks so highly of you and you don't know why.... It's because you have a light and it's beautiful. I see it and feel that way too. That's why I watch. You are so put together even when you are not. I'm trying to get my life together as a single person and watching you gives me hope that I can in a very classy and attractive way. Idk if this comment makes since but in a nutshell... The way you carry yourself is beautiful stop letting people who don't matter break you down. That's what they want to do because they don't like that you are so organized, stylish , educated, attractive, just put together as an adult and not on that boring childish other vlogs that do wigs and makeup and we watch them clean their house yada yada yada
Wow...You are the best hype person ever! Thank you for such the kind words and the support. It really does help.
Parents who feel the need to monitor your classroom, especially when their child is not in your room, have TOO much time on their hands. You're a great teacher who makes learning interactive and meaningful. Keep doing YOU! ❤
"I am MORE than just a Teacher!" Words to live by! 😊 Tfs
I've been thinking about you and Megan and hope neither of you or your families are in the path of the fires. Take care of yourself.
We are safe thankfully.
I’m sorry you’re going through that with parents, especially when you don’t have their children in your class. I’m about your age, child free, and I’m not a teacher. Teachers are super heroes because kids are challenging enough throw in the parents behavior too and it’s a miracle there’s anyone willing to teach. I love your lifestyle vlogs. I hope you and your family are far away from the SoCal fires.
Keep your head up! You’re one of the few content creators I genuinely look forward to watching every time you post. I admire you as a younger fellow black woman educator. Also, you’ve been shining lately the hair, lashes, nose ring-this is truly your ME season!
🎉GOD shall prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies. Psalm 23:5.
Sounds like you've got hallway monitors looking for something to report. So sad.
I remember a friend's story about a parent who raised hell at their child's school for 3 years. The parent made continual unreasonable demands on the school, the board, and the district. By the end of it all, this parent's own family was ripped apart in the process. I'm not sure if it was a result of the drama the parent caused with the school or if the drama with the school was started because of family problems.
Sad sad irreversible ending.
You keep advocating and building community. You are sharing actions of a socially & emotionally well educator.
❤❤❤
You are a praying woman…pray over those moms that are watching your every move. God will take care of them.
Believe me I have been.
@ sit back and watch God keep his promises. Trust in the Lord.
I love your piercing. I’ve been contemplating getting one for years. You’ve inspired me to go for it in 2025. Loving the Me Season!!! Thanks for sharing!!
It's one of those things where it gets to the point where you just wake up and go do it. I am sure you will look great!
Soo glad to see you! I'm happy to hear you're really focusing on yourself and what you need. Teaching is such a unique profession where it is so incredibly hard to have those boundaries and to "leave work at work." I know I struggle with it as well.
I love watching your teaching videos and have learned so much from you over the last several years. I do hope you continue to post and share things about your classroom and what you're doing. But I understand if you are moving into a space where you can't do that anymore.
Hope you're well and in no danger from the fires.
I hope that you and your family are safe in California from the wildfires. I also hope that you stay encouraged and let the negativity roll off of your back. You've got this!!!!🙂
My family and I are safe. Thank you for checking in!
Hi! Hope you are staying safe ❤ Glad to hear you’re in your Me season! You deserve it, girlie 🫶🏾
1) I have found that those that complain about the school or teachers the most would never consider doing the job themselves. When I hear people complain about my school district I want to send them an application so that they can come and show all the experienced people how it is supposed to be done.
2) The only people that I "know" in California are the TH-cam people that I watch. I hope you are safe and far away from the wildfires.
3)Dogs are my favorite creatures on earth. I love when I get to see your fur babies.
My family and I are safe. We did have a family member lose their home, which is heartbreaking, but they are safe. Thank you for checking in.
Definitely keep doing YOU. Some parents need to get a life. Be blessed! Be safe from those fires. I’m here in GA. No school tomorrow because snow is expected. We are doing the teacher happy dance.
Praying you and your family are safe 🙏🏿
We are safe. Thank you for asking.
I really like your nose ring.😊
Keep being GREAT!
As a fellow teacher, I am always here to support you. You are an incredible teacher and human being and you will get through this challenge of awful people/parents. I do like the lifestyle vlogs plus a little teaching.
Sounds like these moms are frustrated that you are not intimated by them and that you know your worth. Keep being you!
I’m in the same predicament. I make so much in my current teaching salary that I would have a major pay cut if I leave education.
I want to leave!!😂
Hi I read your comment and wanted to offer some encouragement I actually successfully transitioned out of teaching and boosted my income significantly. The key is to look for and market your professional skills. Look for mid-level positions on par with your skills and experience. And always negotiate your compensation package.
@ Thank you for this advice and encouragement! If you don’t mind sharing, what career are you now in?
The fact that the Karen's are not even in your class is wild
Right! I got upset after she said that part
It's totally ridiculous! If they are doing that without having kids in her class, can you imagine if their kids were in her class? It would have been pure H!!!
If those cyber stalking moms aren’t planning on quitting their jobs to educate their own children Monday through Friday, 8 hours a day… they need to leave teachers alone. They’re apart of the problem…
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hope you and your family are safe from the fires
We are, thank you for your concern.
We had a couple days off due to the weather, and today I put in to come in later to ease myself in.
I love your nose piercing . It looks soooo good on you!
Thank you!
Hi! I pray you and your family are safe.
We are safe.Thank you for asking!
❤️🌻❤️🌻❤️
hiii , have you done a classroom tour ? i think it’s so prettyyy
Of other classrooms I have had, but not this one.
The fact that you don't work with their children is completely insane. These 3 parents need a life. How sad and sick, I'm sorry this is happening to you. 💜
Them having the time and energy to hate watch is pathetic and embarrassing to them and I pray you don’t feel like you have to censor yourself in any way. How about use that time and focus on loving your kid. 😊
I am really really hope you have a strong, supportive admin who knows who you are and are willing to step to bat for you because I cannot imagine having to deal with all of that drama (esp as an experienced teacher).
Praying you are safe from the fires, I know you are very close to LA and I’m hoping you and your family are not having to evacuate.
@@dee_byrd We are safe. Thank you for asking!
Dear Unrealistic Moms Creeping Around on Tanya’s page,
Let it go!!! How dare you impede on content that is not for you?! Rhetorical. As a parent you do not have any right to demonize anything teachers do. A hurt dog will holler ladies! No one goes to these lengths of stalking teachers online unless they have a guilty conscious. Leave her be and focus your attention on your children being up to par! Your parent behavior isn’t giving tiger mom. It’s giving creep!
❤🙏🏽
I enjoy watching your videos. Wishing you peace and blessings.
Also, the lunch box was very cute. If you don’t mind, can you please share the link for it.
I will see if I can find the link. It randomly showed up when I was on Instagram.
@@SmartieStylelrno worries, I appreciate you for taking the time to respond!
You speak a sad truth. Teaching has become so stressful with all the extra "stuff." I totally get having to be strategic in your next moves. Take your time, explore pros/cons. Pray for discernment and direction.
Sorry Tanya. I just have to speak up. I’m in the advocating season.
I respect the season 🙂
Hurting people hurt others, and those parents have to find something better to do. Do not allow these emotional squatters to take up any residence in your life. Take care.
I hate that you’re experiencing this parental harassment.
I'm gonna throw this out there about these moms...Is the "company" you mentioned a couple of vlogs ago one of their exes? And obviously you don't have to respond to that, but there are so few things that I can think of that would warrant such behavior. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Lol...No, there is no connection there, but I love your connection to trying to make it all make sense somehow.😅
@ Right?!? 🤪🤪🤪
I am sorry you are dealing with the messiness of teaching! I absolutely can relate to your experiences. I find it ridiculous that you do not teach their scholars, but they are giving so much energy to divisiveness and ignorance. Keep sharing from your classroom because they want you stop! They want to see an interruption in your life because they are unhappy! There are teachers who need to see and hear your work and dedication to students and their successful outcomes! 😊
The moms sound like they are in kahoots with the parents of the kids that were in your class last semester. Is your administrator dealing with the moms and supporting you?
It’s good that you have a lot of experience in education that you can manage this kind of b.s. as it can be stressful. Are the moms also going after other teachers that have social media such as instagram? Tick tock? Facebook? If not, I would ask them what their REAL issue with you is. This is pure harassment and that’s a crime.
Also, I’m in the same boat as you in the sense of reevaluating my next steps in this career. Some food for thought is you could work part-time next school year (e.g., half-day) if your district allows it, and explore other jobs with the extra time you’ll have.
You could also try a “no-spend” year to increase your savings to allow you to take a sabbatical comfortably should you want to in the future.
It definitely feels like mob mentality and it has been targeted towards me. I am glad that I have a strong sense of self and am able to hold myself down in the midst of all this.
I think you’re being bullied and harassed by these parents. Look at putting in a formal complaint.