I thought I had released all 'father' wounds and forgiven all that could be forgiven and even forgotten. This video brought up so much of what was left over and covered over. Thank you, Brad, for this gift of further healing.
Light bulb moment, thank you Brad, I heard you say, "I can't take responsibility for what others have done." and dad raped me for years and he said it was my fault and I just got it, it wasn't my fault, I am not to blame! Thank you and blessings to you Brad. I hope all other rape survivors get help from this too.
Bless your heart. I'm so sorry that your father did that. Thank goodness your finding ways to heal. I need a tapping video to forgive the Universe for allowing such horrible things happen to innocent people.
I've come here via Melanie Bundock, a fellow EFT Practitioner. I have been absolutely gutted this Father's Day seeing all these lovely posts about great Dads in my timeline and I am struggling because I do not have that with my Dad. I listened to your video all the way through but began to cry, my throat closed up and it felt like someone punched my solar plexus. I know, from these body reactions that I have a lot of work to do so I am going to try to watch this video and try to tap along. Thank you so much for making it Brad.
I'm also here because of things stirred up on Father's Day. My dad is a narcissist and doesn't know how to have an emotional relationship with me nor his other 2 daughters. His parents were alcoholics so he obviously didn't get the connection he needed to offer that to others. It still hurts though and I don't know how to heal it. I also hope this video helps. PS. My newsfeed on fb was also flooded with praises to others' amazing fathers. I'm so glad that people had fathers that they really appreciate but it was hard to not have those shared feelings. Yes, thanks to Brad and all people sharing ways to heal.
When I still was on Facebook, I simply “fasted” from it on any holiday celebrating parents. There are plenty of folks who have non celebration- worthy parents. We went No Contact about 2 1/2 years ago from my NPD parents and my husband’s messed up family. No regrets. You cannot love people into being someone they are not. Sometimes the only answer is to honor their right to choose their own path and hold a space of forgiveness - from a suitable distance!
I cannot heal someone else’s heart for them. They have to want to heal their own heart. A saying that came out of my healing heart months ago ❤️ I believed I could love someone enough, and model vulnerability and connection enough that it would create a loving path for someone else to show me the same. And when that was not possible, it led to great grief, suffering and shame. I am so lit up picturing the potential of how the rest of my life will be without this and other limiting beliefs around love 🥰 I love you and your work Brad, for the irreplaceable role you've played and will continue to play in this :)
Started crying at the first karate chop point...definitely hit a nerve. Will be working with this one in the days ahead as I head into the Thanksgiving holiday with my family. Thank you Brad for your life changing work ❤️
I was looking for a tapping to forgive an ex and let him go (I am a true fan of yours), started tapping saying his name but at some point I started saying “dad” and all the tears came out...will be working on this and tapping this one out, I am truly grateful for you and all that you do, thank you Brad 🙏🏽💓
The gratitude I have towards you for the generous offering of spiritual healing is simply ineffable - but sublime and majestic. I cannot thank you enough for this Brad, and I shall move forward to the future as I forgive my past; thank you.
This is the first video of yours I have watched. A person in a FB group I am in recommended your work. Thank you very much. I am a survivor of horrific exploitation and abuse. After years of therapy, I am going to try tapping to help move residual energy blocks in my body. Peace be with you and I am grateful I have found you!
Wow...this time I really teared up 😢 last night I had a conversation with my crazy dad and it really hit me that he loves me and my siblings in his own toxic way, but he will never be the dad we needed him to be... So now let my healing begin... well, technically let my healing continue 😝 thank you for making this!
I just want to thank you so much from the bottom of my heart God🌹 bless you for the difference you will make in my and many other peoples' lives ❤️ Thank you
Wow I was in tears when finishing this tapping. I came across a male work colleague who reminded me a boy who 'bullied' me in my childhood, that left me feel inadequate and ashamed. I choose to release any embarrassment and shame. And I'm glad I am no longer numbing myself for this feeling and allowing myself to heal. Thank you so much.
Brad, absolutely love your videos! Would you ever consider doing a tapping video on completely Absent Fathers, for those of us who never had a dad at all? Though I've never consciously harboured any resentment or negative feelings as I simply didn't know him (he took off before I was born), I feel like a lot of my problematic patterns in my relationships with men stem from not having the protection, safety and security of a dad when I was growing up. So I've always subconsciously looked to men to fill that gap and ultimately end up completing the pattern of abandonment/rejection. A video for women (or men) who are dealing with wounding around not having fathers at all would be so incredibly helpful! Thank you.
Thank you for the great suggestion - I will add it to the list. In the meantime, I hope these might help: th-cam.com/video/ra1_nZHGpkk/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/Owhv3Fxxbv8/w-d-xo.html
Fantastic, thank you! It almost feels difficult even connecting to the term/feeling of rejection or abandonment when he was never there in the first place, so I’ll try the second video now :) Thank you for always being present with us!
I'm currently working in a grief recovery program on healing from issues with my Dad and my ex-husband. So much fear that I won't be able to heal fully from Dad stuff....and so much fear that I won't be able to do it fully without being in touch with him......which I don't think I will ever be ready to do. And that scares me too.....
Thank you for sharing this tapping session publicly I scrolled thru the choices and was drawn to your energy and I like that you get right to it instead of spending a lot of time talking before the tapping.
hello Brad this is exactly what I needed I have been wanting to find a way to deal with my father issues as well as mother issues. I ant thank you enough. is perfect timing and a blessing
Brad, once again the universe answered my prayers. I was having so much pain with this issue and it came to a head today when this little video popped up in my sidebar. Your work is so precious to me, thank you. PS, I love the new hairstyle, it looks great! Deborah
Thank you so much. This really helps me talk through things that are hard, loosen up stuck feelings that I want to believe im already past. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Me: I’m over 5 minutes in, and I’ve not had a strong emotional reaction, yet. Maybe all my father issues are healed! Brad: Healing any belief that it’s my fault. Me: 😭😭😭 *cries for the rest of the session* So, basically, nope! Still more work to do. Thanks, Brad. ❤
It's my first time with this video I have a big terrible with dad I feel by shame and guilt about his feelings like it's my responsibility.. I believe I'll heal. Thank you very much💚
Letting go of the fault childhood Kimberly felt from being told it was her fault that she let her Mum brainwash her about her Dad. Letting go of the fault teenage and young adult Kimberly felt from being told she was selfish and insensitive because she didn’t call or visit her Dad more. Letting go of the fault 39yr old adult Kimberly felt from being told it’s her fault for trying to set boundaries with her Dad. Letting it go....letting it go...💙
Mine is the same and I didn’t feel anything whilst tapping on this. I pretty much have no feelings left for him at all anymore. Don’t want to feed him any more of my energy.
When I first saw you, my reaction was, "Get this joker off my phone". Then you did that hand scratch thing lol, and you got my attention. Damn your good!
Thank you so much for making a tapping video with this topic Brad🕯️🙏 I'm finding it hard to fully get into it like there's a big fear to deal with the grief and pain. Usually I just get into your videos and sometimes I do the lather, rinse, repeat and I see the healing. With this particular one I keep listening to it but haven't found the bravey to start tapping is that my ego?
Could be. Please be compassionate with that part of you that is resisting this... maybe one of these will help: th-cam.com/users/results?sp=mAEB&search_query=brad+yates+resistance
A MONSTROSITY of a Aha moment tnight Tapping with my practitioner - “issues with being THE Dad”!! Stepping in as the provider for my family years ago when my Dad stepped out. And realizing I don’t know what it feels like to just be a daughter and I sister to my Mum and brother; this role I know and have resented for a long time is the one of Dad. No wonder my jaw has been so tight and tired the last few weeks as this erupts up- so much anger and resentment linked to this. I AM letting go of being the Dad. 🫳 I AM discovering what it means to be a daughter and sister 🥰
I wonder why every time the topic of parents is dealt with, forgiveness must necessarily be introduced. Who as an adult still works on parental wounds is because he still has an injured child inside. And if you have to talk to the inner child, you can't ask him to forgive. It would be enough just to listen and validate any emotion. But no, let's insert forgiveness that makes us fall back into the most useless do-gooders and for the work itself it is useless. You can heal by letting go and without forgiving. Also because the problems with the father could also contain physical violence. It is difficult for a parent to go through this parenting work without thinking about himself and his need to be forgiven as a parent. This work is faced by a father, not a son.
I hear you. It's a matter of how you define forgiveness. For me, forgiveness is more about the freedom we give ourselves, and attaining freedom is what these videos are about. But feel free to change the words as suits you best.
@@tapwithbrad He apologizes if by chance I had a bad tone, but forgiveness for me means "You must always understand and justify what your father does". I wasn't even allowed to feel anger. Thanks for your welcoming reply
I thought I had released all 'father' wounds and forgiven all that could be forgiven and even forgotten. This video brought up so much of what was left over and covered over. Thank you, Brad, for this gift of further healing.
Light bulb moment, thank you Brad, I heard you say, "I can't take responsibility for what others have done." and dad raped me for years and he said it was my fault and I just got it, it wasn't my fault, I am not to blame! Thank you and blessings to you Brad. I hope all other rape survivors get help from this too.
Bless your heart. I'm so sorry that your father did that. Thank goodness your finding ways to heal. I need a tapping video to forgive the Universe for allowing such horrible things happen to innocent people.
@Gwen Lyndsong - Hope you've healed and are restored & happy. Many hugs to you!
I'm so sorry to hear what you've been through and I'm so happy to hear tapping has helped you realised none of it was your fault
I've come here via Melanie Bundock, a fellow EFT Practitioner. I have been absolutely gutted this Father's Day seeing all these lovely posts about great Dads in my timeline and I am struggling because I do not have that with my Dad. I listened to your video all the way through but began to cry, my throat closed up and it felt like someone punched my solar plexus. I know, from these body reactions that I have a lot of work to do so I am going to try to watch this video and try to tap along. Thank you so much for making it Brad.
I'm also here because of things stirred up on Father's Day. My dad is a narcissist and doesn't know how to have an emotional relationship with me nor his other 2 daughters. His parents were alcoholics so he obviously didn't get the connection he needed to offer that to others. It still hurts though and I don't know how to heal it. I also hope this video helps. PS. My newsfeed on fb was also flooded with praises to others' amazing fathers. I'm so glad that people had fathers that they really appreciate but it was hard to not have those shared feelings. Yes, thanks to Brad and all people sharing ways to heal.
When I still was on Facebook, I simply “fasted” from it on any holiday celebrating parents. There are plenty of folks who have non celebration- worthy parents.
We went No Contact about 2 1/2 years ago from my NPD parents and my husband’s messed up family. No regrets. You cannot love people into being someone they are not. Sometimes the only answer is to honor their right to choose their own path and hold a space of forgiveness - from a suitable distance!
I cannot heal someone else’s heart for them. They have to want to heal their own heart.
A saying that came out of my healing heart months ago ❤️
I believed I could love someone enough, and model vulnerability and connection enough that it would create a loving path for someone else to show me the same. And when that was not possible, it led to great grief, suffering and shame. I am so lit up picturing the potential of how the rest of my life will be without this and other limiting beliefs around love 🥰 I love you and your work Brad, for the irreplaceable role you've played and will continue to play in this :)
Started crying at the first karate chop point...definitely hit a nerve. Will be working with this one in the days ahead as I head into the Thanksgiving holiday with my family. Thank you Brad for your life changing work ❤️
I was looking for a tapping to forgive an ex and let him go (I am a true fan of yours), started tapping saying his name but at some point I started saying “dad” and all the tears came out...will be working on this and tapping this one out, I am truly grateful for you and all that you do, thank you Brad 🙏🏽💓
The gratitude I have towards you for the generous offering of spiritual healing is simply ineffable - but sublime and majestic. I cannot thank you enough for this Brad, and I shall move forward to the future as I forgive my past; thank you.
This is the first video of yours I have watched. A person in a FB group I am in recommended your work. Thank you very much. I am a survivor of horrific exploitation and abuse. After years of therapy, I am going to try tapping to help move residual energy blocks in my body. Peace be with you and I am grateful I have found you!
Hey man you have really an inspiring story.. could you share the results after these 3 months ?
Love and light 🙏:)
Wow...this time I really teared up 😢 last night I had a conversation with my crazy dad and it really hit me that he loves me and my siblings in his own toxic way, but he will never be the dad we needed him to be... So now let my healing begin... well, technically let my healing continue 😝 thank you for making this!
Hard one to get through, but I did. Thank you.
Thank You! Your channels was recommended to me by my brother. I pray this will turn things around. What a crazy 8 months it has been.🙏💝🙂
This was a teary one for me.. has to do 3 rounds of tapping.. thank you so very much..
I just want to thank you so much from the bottom of my heart God🌹 bless you for the difference you will make in my and many other peoples' lives ❤️ Thank you
A deep, deep sense of peace with this one today 💜 how wonderful....lol tearing up 🥰
Wow I was in tears when finishing this tapping. I came across a male work colleague who reminded me a boy who 'bullied' me in my childhood, that left me feel inadequate and ashamed. I choose to release any embarrassment and shame. And I'm glad I am no longer numbing myself for this feeling and allowing myself to heal. Thank you so much.
Brad, absolutely love your videos! Would you ever consider doing a tapping video on completely Absent Fathers, for those of us who never had a dad at all? Though I've never consciously harboured any resentment or negative feelings as I simply didn't know him (he took off before I was born), I feel like a lot of my problematic patterns in my relationships with men stem from not having the protection, safety and security of a dad when I was growing up. So I've always subconsciously looked to men to fill that gap and ultimately end up completing the pattern of abandonment/rejection. A video for women (or men) who are dealing with wounding around not having fathers at all would be so incredibly helpful! Thank you.
Thank you for the great suggestion - I will add it to the list. In the meantime, I hope these might help: th-cam.com/video/ra1_nZHGpkk/w-d-xo.html
th-cam.com/video/Owhv3Fxxbv8/w-d-xo.html
Fantastic, thank you! It almost feels difficult even connecting to the term/feeling of rejection or abandonment when he was never there in the first place, so I’ll try the second video now :) Thank you for always being present with us!
Thank you. The tears flowed!
I'm currently working in a grief recovery program on healing from issues with my Dad and my ex-husband. So much fear that I won't be able to heal fully from Dad stuff....and so much fear that I won't be able to do it fully without being in touch with him......which I don't think I will ever be ready to do. And that scares me too.....
Thank you for sharing this tapping session publicly I scrolled thru the choices and was drawn to your energy and I like that you get right to it instead of spending a lot of time talking before the tapping.
hello Brad this is exactly what I needed I have been wanting to find a way to deal with my father issues as well as mother issues. I ant thank you enough. is perfect timing and a blessing
Thanks so much for ALL your help!!!!! I do feel soooo much better!!!!
Thank you Brad for making this video. All the videos I have done on your channel have really helped me.
Thank you. I cryed. 💗
Wow thank you Brad!! Love you!
Brad, once again the universe answered my prayers. I was having so much pain with this issue and it came to a head today when this little video popped up in my sidebar. Your work is so precious to me, thank you. PS, I love the new hairstyle, it looks great! Deborah
Thank you so much. This really helps me talk through things that are hard, loosen up stuck feelings that I want to believe im already past. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Thank you brad! I so appreciate your time an energy towards these videos 💜😊
Me: I’m over 5 minutes in, and I’ve not had a strong emotional reaction, yet. Maybe all my father issues are healed!
Brad: Healing any belief that it’s my fault.
Me: 😭😭😭 *cries for the rest of the session*
So, basically, nope! Still more work to do. Thanks, Brad. ❤
Thank you
Thank you so much for this amazing video that helped me heal deeply childhood wounds 🙏🙏🙏
This I why I came across your videos today!!
I needed to resolve this!!🤭😂
Thank you! Thank you !! Thank you!!
It's my first time with this video I have a big terrible with dad I feel by shame and guilt about his feelings like it's my responsibility.. I believe I'll heal. Thank you very much💚
This is right on time.Thankyou
Love this...Does your whole family tap?
beautiful...means so much
Letting go of the fault childhood Kimberly felt from being told it was her fault that she let her Mum brainwash her about her Dad. Letting go of the fault teenage and young adult Kimberly felt from being told she was selfish and insensitive because she didn’t call or visit her Dad more. Letting go of the fault 39yr old adult Kimberly felt from being told it’s her fault for trying to set boundaries with her Dad. Letting it go....letting it go...💙
Thank you so much 💕
TY Brad, will certainly 'lather, rinse and repeat' this video🙌🙌
Thank you, I really needed this.
Yeah mate
Thanks Brad for the video, you really helped me to process some of the thoughts and emotional pain around my daddy issues!
Thank you for this one I really needed it 🙏🏽
Mine is the same and I didn’t feel anything whilst tapping on this. I pretty much have no feelings left for him at all anymore. Don’t want to feed him any more of my energy.
Thank you x
Poweful session that came to me exactly when I needed it. Thank you, Brad!!
Thank you Brad!
This worked wonderfully
Thank you 🙏
Thank you.
I'll definitely be considering this one. Lots of troubles with that man (sigh).
I got a heart on this, but its missing. Weird.
When I first saw you, my reaction was, "Get this joker off my phone". Then you did that hand scratch thing lol, and you got my attention. Damn your good!
I was thinking the same thing like..wth is he doing?! but when he put into words every single thing I feel I has to respect him and the method.
If he could’ve done better, he would’ve done better 💜
Thank you so much for making a tapping video with this topic Brad🕯️🙏 I'm finding it hard to fully get into it like there's a big fear to deal with the grief and pain. Usually I just get into your videos and sometimes I do the lather, rinse, repeat and I see the healing. With this particular one I keep listening to it but haven't found the bravey to start tapping is that my ego?
Could be. Please be compassionate with that part of you that is resisting this... maybe one of these will help: th-cam.com/users/results?sp=mAEB&search_query=brad+yates+resistance
@@tapwithbrad thank you for your kindness Brad ❤️ 🙏 I'll look at the video now 🙏🦋
thank you brad. ..... wow
You are amazing!!!!
My father is a narcissist and I feel indifference toward him. I am wondering if this is feeling that I need to mend/release?
A MONSTROSITY of a Aha moment tnight Tapping with my practitioner - “issues with being THE Dad”!! Stepping in as the provider for my family years ago when my Dad stepped out. And realizing I don’t know what it feels like to just be a daughter and I sister to my Mum and brother; this role I know and have resented for a long time is the one of Dad. No wonder my jaw has been so tight and tired the last few weeks as this erupts up- so much anger and resentment linked to this.
I AM letting go of being the Dad. 🫳 I AM discovering what it means to be a daughter and sister 🥰
THANK YOU
I’m really grateful for you
Please can you make tapping videos for dealing and caring for difficult older family members that have dementia or Alzheimer’s. Thank you 🙏
I hope you might find this helpful: th-cam.com/video/GF8-e-vtXPs/w-d-xo.html
Brad Yates thank you so much I will definitely watch it 🙏
i did't to my mom ohhhhhhhh i feel a lot ... and i burp and cough and yawn how possible is that
thank you brad
If he could have done better...why didn't he???
Arigato gosaimas
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I wonder why every time the topic of parents is dealt with, forgiveness must necessarily be introduced.
Who as an adult still works on parental wounds is because he still has an injured child inside.
And if you have to talk to the inner child, you can't ask him to forgive.
It would be enough just to listen and validate any emotion.
But no, let's insert forgiveness that makes us fall back into the most useless do-gooders and for the work itself it is useless. You can heal by letting go and without forgiving.
Also because the problems with the father could also contain physical violence.
It is difficult for a parent to go through this parenting work without thinking about himself and his need to be forgiven as a parent.
This work is faced by a father, not a son.
I hear you. It's a matter of how you define forgiveness. For me, forgiveness is more about the freedom we give ourselves, and attaining freedom is what these videos are about. But feel free to change the words as suits you best.
@@tapwithbrad He apologizes if by chance I had a bad tone, but forgiveness for me means "You must always understand and justify what your father does". I wasn't even allowed to feel anger. Thanks for your welcoming reply
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my dad just died. thank you for this video.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Can I use this with a teenager starting down on self destruction?
Yes - please do.
@@tapwithbrad Thank you so much.
😭....❤️💜🙏
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a little long
Thank you