@@canadianbrotv1303lol... Enough of your broke ass... 100k a day... Shower the children in gold... Then they will travel the planet if not the Galaxy building empire after empire... This is not a delusion... It is actually a mass psychosis... They are all buying into this
I'm 40 and I seen BW doing this since I was 15. We all grew up watching our mothers, aunts, cousins...etc, struggle being single mothers. Crying at night, praying for a good man to come that never did. For the next generations of BW to grow up and do the exact same thing, fall into same trap that mama and auntie fell into.... that's insane to me.
At this point people are ostracized and verbally attacked as snobs if they refuse to engage in the behavior that leads to this. And if someone finds out that you prevent your children from socializing with large amounts of children that come from single parent households and discourage your children from dating and marrying them, watch out.😂
I say it all the time I blame single mothers and some fathers I have a 12 year old daughter she does not get here way at all stop babysitting these lil girls they become 20 plus years old and still be lil girls because they never had to deal with their issues they always get save by somebody
As someone who was raised by a single mother... that ish traumatized me emotionally and delayed my emotional maturity and discipline about a decade later in my life than it should have been. I'm just now in my mid thirties starting to gain the success and achievements I should have been in my mid twenties. These women don't even give a thought to how it all effects a child's psyche and the future adult they become! Smh
Modern BW and women in general don't give af about kids. If they couldn't get clout and a paycheck from having them, the birth rate would be even lower.
Me too bro & most of the time u ain't gone realize how f'd up yo mind is from that shi until u grown as hell 💯. The main reason they don't even think about how it effects us as the child is cuz they too busy tryna prove a point. My mom was too busy tryna prove how much she ain't need a man not even realizing I need to see one be one so I can know how to maneuver through life as one.
And it is enabled by the women in our society with clichés like; independent strong black, can do bad all by myself, I don't need a man etc. Ad nauseum. Sickening.
@skysimba8953 and that's exactly why we have no communities anymore. Black women love ro blame the men, but it's all their fault. And it's not even close.
When I was in college I waitressed at an all female restaurant. Sooo many of the girls would get pregnant/ had kids. I asked one day how do y'all afford this and they said "everything is paid for by the government" •doctor appointment ✅️ •food stamps/wic ✅️ •daycare ✅️ •childbirth/delivery ✅️ •carseats ✅️ •medicaid/chip ✅️ •housing ✅️ After that I was disgusted 😫🤮
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I can't live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.
It's always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
Why should she learn anything? She knows there'll be a step-babydaddy around the corner waiting to clean up her mess. All she has to do is be patient. And it's unlikely that she'll tell her daughter, "I was out here heauxing and paid the price. Don't do what I did. The consequences are too high." We're so comfortable living in dysfunction, it's not funny.
@misspiscesdreamz Another excuse. There is a right and wrong way to do everything. She already ADMITTED IN THE VIDEO that she preferred to be married, so knock it off! And it's women who file for divorce 80% of the time anyway. That's a fact look it up. You're wrong.
If the government stopped financially supporting single baby mamas, you’d start seeing these women make better choices with who they have unprotected sex with
The thing is, black women in her family won’t tell her nothing. My little cousins not even 18 and on her second baby not married and no one knows who the father is and grandma nem don’t say nothing
@@the_dwight_waythey baby the sons and self sabotage the daughters. They use their sons as the boyfriend and help the daughters turn out just like them. Black women have always been the problem in our community
You CANNOT tell them ANYTHING. They think it’s gonna keep dude in her life and think he’s gonna marry her because she has his baby--girllllll please. They think they are different. They’re NOT😐😐
sisters cheer on other sisters who announce they are single and pregnant. Let her say she wants to commit to a man and build a family and they will attack her.
And if Kamala gets in, she's going to be rewarding this. 10K for child care for new mothers, now you have to wonder is it 10K per kid or a one time thing? If it's per child, watch the natal ward see a hard spike in births. The babies are also SM accessories and props. #TWINNNG
No self control and no “P” control whatsoever. Everyone needs to keep their lustful desires in check and be responsible because in the end, the children are the ones who pay for it dearly.
The issue is this, most people do not have the ability to control their urges, good parents understand and try to teach their children not to trust themselves but expect to mess up meaning stay out of situations where your may succumb to your own feelings.
It's not even about P control because most people lack self control. The issue is preventing unwanted pregnancy. That is the issue. If you're going to sleep around (you shouldn't be but if) at least don't bring a child into your dysfunction.
As a man I have no problem saying this is 100% our fault.. at some point it's not going to be allowed and that's going to be the ugliest thing we ever saw
Not in the black community. That sounds good on social media and on TH-cam, but time and time again you're seeing women in her circumstance continuously getting chosen. Maybe not married, but they're definitely not lonely. Black men need to raise their standards.
@@Lord_God__ Nah, bruh. You mean the hood community. The hood is not representative of most black people, dummy. And I hope that you try that trolling shyt with me. I'm a troll slayer extraordinaire, son.
@@PrinceJancelotwrong. These woman choose poorly. Blame them. Woman make all the decisions, they control access to sexx and who gets born. Blame the woman, not the crappy men they have babies with. Then they expect a quality man to come and take care of some losers kids. Not going to happen. A new guy would have to share this girl with two kids and two other men. He will NEVER be first in her life. She CHOSE this, she now has to live with the consequences. No dude is going to sign up for this chaos.
These women want these kids, not Men.Then turn around and drop them off at day care. That is not raising children, that is abandoning your children for money…
You sound silly , I know children in 2 parent households who still have to go to daycare so that their parents can provide for them and not have to rely on the government. Damn if someone does and damn if they don’t .
My kids are not LUCKY to have a two parent household. Marry before you carry was the only option in our book. If you take parenting seriously then you put yourself in that situation.
Like Anton said basically. Once you peal back the onion, you see who they really are. She presents herself as a nice and polite. She’s wearing medical scrub’s , presenting a perception that she contributes on the workforce.. but as soon as you look deeper, you find out why she’s in the boat that she’s in.
It's always that one chick that has to get online and tell her business. WE DON'T CARE. You already admitted you're "another statistic", so nothing you say holds weight. This is extremely frivolous.
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The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Black women create more broken homes than black men if you out 100 black men and 100 black women in a room and make the ones who have kids stay . There would be 61 black women mothers and 45 black men who are fathers black women are the problem
Imagine taking advice from a 2 time baby mom. And it has nothing to do with please don't have kids out of wedlock. Or with a man who doesn't value you past sex.
Hyenas don’t like discipline, structure and order. It’s harder for them to do right and way easy to do wrong. As long as this country give them an excuse book to use 😂
I got to hang out with my grandfather today who is 85 years old he literally told me that we as men built society for women and now there gonna destroy it welp good luck grandson then walked away and I didn’t get it till I got home.
Women say they off their unborn because they don't want to raise a child in a bad situation. And when they do raise children in a bad situation they say "at least I didn't off my baby" or "how can you blame the parent that stayed" and want kudos for doing something totally preventable! Round and round we go. Absolutely deranged.
This is the single biggest issue facing black folks today- there can be no discussion of addressing disparities in wealth, criminal justice or academic achievement until this issue is confronted - building generational wealth will never happen if it persists.
Being a single mother isn't bad, it should be rewarded because it takes a lot of strength to do. Most women dont plan for it , men lure them to sleep with them use them and leave, she ends up pregnant. Usually heartbroken and confused as well. No not all women want to kill there innocent children, they didn't do anything wrong the men did! Why punished the innocent Baby and let the guy who just hurt me get away? And a woman cannot make a.man use a condom, usually women still get pregnant that way. Again this is a.mans problem. Men Should get a vasectomy if they don't won't kids instead of telling women to kid their children! I bet you they won't get a vasectomy, there not go too put their body through that surgery, but they will tell you to murder your own children in a heartbeat. Evil.
not just condoms..any kind of birth control. I had and IUD/Mirena when I was married. so glad I didn't let him impregnate me because he physically assaulted me.
They're really out here wearing that single baby mama title and pitching their promo like its WWE. 2x Intercontinental Baby Mama Champion. Marching down to the ring with her theme playing. "You Let Him Hit It Raw."
I made a vow no children out of wedlock…I never got married and I never had children. I have no regrets and raising children properly is no joke. She is so silly and immature…yes…Marry b4 you carry
I made a bad decision and had ONE kid with a man who is very involved. I accept that it was reckless as hell! But we stepped up and he is doing great. But to be a single mom…..TWICE is the epitome of dumb. A girl I know on FB has 6 by 5 diff dudes and be posting scripture all day HAHAHA
There is no hope for this 'community' as long as those who carry the next generation deem a basic family structure as unnecessary, will always remain the foot of the chain SMFH
Shiiii you better think again if you think we got it bad, better take a looking to the Latin community they ain't wrapping and packaging bricks of that white and moving fetynal and deleting their own away by huge numbers and deleting passport bros for nothing, This is bigger than Nino Brown 🤣🤣🤣 Ask some of them they moms be having 10 12 chillen with multiple fathers with a capital S its just not plastered in the streets and media like our community not to mention their domestic violence in their community is stupid high.
There are many nurses that take Plan B as birth control. It’s insane. They see patients with health/ mental issues and they live the same lifestyles as said patient. They are all fighting to procreate with Poookie and RayRay
A LOT of these women need to let go of feminism, find a good man, and put themselves in his hands, because they don't have the gray matter to get it done.
I really wanna understand why “it didn’t work out” after the pregnancy, but everything was working fine before the pregnancy. And who ended the relationship?
This whole boyfriend thing is so detrimental to us ladies! We’re single or we’re married, no in between. No man should be living with you, having Sx with you, you shouldn’t be cooking for him or anything. Stop playing these boyfriend/girlfriend games because you give away all of the benefits of marriage without marriage so what’s the point. We have to get ride of these boyfriend/girlfriend titles, that way you’ll always know if a man is serious about you because he’ll have to marry you if his is. Boyfriend/girlfriend is friends with benefits and babies.
Years ago I drove Uber and picked up this woman with a stroller. It was raining outside and the woman was standing there with an umbrella and stroller. The baby couldn't have been more than 3 or 4 montha old. I got out and held the umbrella why she put the car seat in the car and I put stroller in back. I ended up driving this woman to a CHURCH for something. The woman talked about the church, her family, being a mother, etc etc. I never once heard her say "husband" or "boyfriend" or even mention the "father." When we got to church I helped her take stroller out and she thanked me and wanted to tip me. This was 2016 ir 2017, before you could tip in app, but I refused it. I remember feeling so bad for that woman and the baby. Imagine having a baby and having to do it all on your own. I was raised by a single mother. I curse single mothers and the men who abandon their children. Nothing is guaranteed, but do not be reckless and intentionally create broken homes. It's pure madness!
My sweet precious daddy was born without father in 1933. My grandmother was raped and went through the pregnancy and had my dad. He thankfully had a very good, sweet uncle who stayed with him through it all. My dad became a very successful person and was extremely smart😊 he was my rock and I miss him terribly 😢😢
This is EXACTLY why I don’t go to baby showers of unwed women. By doing that we are celebrating trauma of future children and the bad behaviors that caused this situation. Shaming this type of behavior and NOT funding it the best to do in order to stop it or at least lessen it.
I’ve been a single parent of 2, they’re both adults now. It was hard at times, thankfully I had a great support system (my family) I was raised in a 2 parent home so I know the benefit and necessity of both parents to create a stable environment. Too many of these young women are too busy trying to high 5 each other, saying how strong they are and develop a circle of encouragement, but neglect to emphasize that this isn’t and shouldn’t be the goal! That’s why this continues! I never encouraged being a single parent, I’m not saying we should shame anyone but let’s keep it real bc our children are suffering while single mom’s are patting themselves on the back….
I read the comments on her tik tok and it was truly sad and pathetic. Other women calling her strong and congratulating her , WTH? I would l bet money there will be baby #3 with another man. This young woman will likely never be married or know what it’s like to have a man love her for her and stand by her.
Pregnant single .. and a CNA / Nursing Assistant. Good luck . It’s gonna be Rough getting School clothes and filling the Xmas tree .. Marry b4 u Carry .. Kids are beautiful, reality child are expense.
I’m dealing with a baby mama right now who decided to keep our baby. Because she felt like it was the right thing to do aka, all the wrong reasons to keep a baby. she pushed me away. From the time she got pregnant up until now and wants to raise the baby on her own with her mother and grandmother. Because they enable her childish behavior. It really is true when they say be careful who you lay up with.
How is she going to afford to raise a second child on her own. This is madness, she will need a third bedroom plus extra help if she goes back to work. 🤦🏾♀️🇬🇧🇯🇲
I was a single mom of 5 kids. I was raised in a two parent household and surrounded by my grandparents as well. How I got them …long story but I am proud to say they are all very successful. People ask how did I do it I said sacrifice. It was no longer about me it was about providing them with a stable home and a safe environment. I dated from time to time but no one came to my home. I put myself through school and got a good job but it wasn’t easy. So women it happens but you have to make serious sacrifices. They are all grown and on their own and I met a wonderful man and is about to say I do. I made that bed so I had to lay in it and do right by my children.
I have one. His dad passed away. When I tell you. You couldn't pay me to have another. Even if I was to get married I dont want any more children under any circumstances!
I think the best way to curtail the epidemic of single motherhood in the black community would be to pass rulings to the affect that no man should be financially responsible for any child born out of wedlock.
Do the math . Most single moms are near or at poverty level with child #1 With each additional child the single mom is at risk of falling below the poverty level and staying there ( She has to stay at or below poverty level for govn't aid that she cannot do without ) Imagine what she could do if she had a degree , nice income and no kids. Her possibilities would be endless There are single moms who have 6 kids b'cuz they too were looking to have a two parent household with men who didn't plan on staying around to raise a bunch of kids that were not his One last thing. If you can't find a positve male figure for the kids you already have. Warn them about the ones that's out there and teach them to do better
Black women create more broken homes than black men if you out 100 black men and 100 black women in a room and make the ones who have kids stay . There would be 61 black women mothers and 45 black men who are fathers black women are the problem
Bruh must either have a good job, looks a certain way, or she wanted to anchor ⚓ herself to a dude who doesn't didn't want her for nothing more than a "short" time.
@@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 It's all by design. She knows that the system will make that guy pay for 18 to either 21 years. She x 2 on the payroll of so me Child Support Enforcement office.
Obviously she's not good mentally she has to get on social media to vent about a situation she created. These women know what type of men they are laying down with and not using protection. Thats just wild! Everytime i see a pregnant women on social media thats not with the father of the baby i think about HOUSTON & ATLANTA 🤣😂🤣😂
Before I even read your comment I literally said the exact samething fam😒...WHY DO they do that too themselves NOBODY CARES , not even the babies father
Now she want a single childless man with his shit together smh
After being a fling to a dude that wouldn’t piss on her if she was on fire.
100 k salary
@@canadianbrotv1303lol... Enough of your broke ass... 100k a day... Shower the children in gold... Then they will travel the planet if not the Galaxy building empire after empire... This is not a delusion... It is actually a mass psychosis... They are all buying into this
6 ft tall at least
@@cadbane6523 get with the times man it's 6 ft 9
I'm 40 and I seen BW doing this since I was 15. We all grew up watching our mothers, aunts, cousins...etc, struggle being single mothers. Crying at night, praying for a good man to come that never did. For the next generations of BW to grow up and do the exact same thing, fall into same trap that mama and auntie fell into.... that's insane to me.
It’s part of our culture now, these are not mistakes anymore. They are foolish…
@@reemoe9374it’s crazy as hell to watch it play out 3 generations
At this point people are ostracized and verbally attacked as snobs if they refuse to engage in the behavior that leads to this.
And if someone finds out that you prevent your children from socializing with large amounts of children that come from single parent households and discourage your children from dating and marrying them, watch out.😂
I say it all the time I blame single mothers and some fathers I have a 12 year old daughter she does not get here way at all stop babysitting these lil girls they become 20 plus years old and still be lil girls because they never had to deal with their issues they always get save by somebody
They don’t ‘fall’, they choose.
As someone who was raised by a single mother... that ish traumatized me emotionally and delayed my emotional maturity and discipline about a decade later in my life than it should have been. I'm just now in my mid thirties starting to gain the success and achievements I should have been in my mid twenties. These women don't even give a thought to how it all effects a child's psyche and the future adult they become! Smh
Modern BW and women in general don't give af about kids. If they couldn't get clout and a paycheck from having them, the birth rate would be even lower.
This is absolutely fakktxx u ant lying at all I completely relate
If your dad wasn't around it's your DADS fault not your mom's. Unless u blame your mom for not shmaborting u.
💯% facts
Me too bro & most of the time u ain't gone realize how f'd up yo mind is from that shi until u grown as hell 💯. The main reason they don't even think about how it effects us as the child is cuz they too busy tryna prove a point. My mom was too busy tryna prove how much she ain't need a man not even realizing I need to see one be one so I can know how to maneuver through life as one.
They talk about it like they just failed a high school exam 🤣
Why many people should not become parents.
Facts 🤣🤦🏾♂️
🤣🤣
This has been normalized to our detriment
Amen
And it is enabled by the women in our society with clichés like; independent strong black, can do bad all by myself, I don't need a man etc.
Ad nauseum. Sickening.
@@skysimba8953🎯 it is sickening 🤢
Facts!
@skysimba8953 and that's exactly why we have no communities anymore. Black women love ro blame the men, but it's all their fault. And it's not even close.
She’s still a child. You can tell by her demeanor.
Sad she is 26?
@@jeanleigh18527
That is a 27 year old bop
Stunted growth
*She never had a father herself.*
When I was in college I waitressed at an all female restaurant. Sooo many of the girls would get pregnant/ had kids. I asked one day how do y'all afford this and they said "everything is paid for by the government"
•doctor appointment ✅️
•food stamps/wic ✅️
•daycare ✅️
•childbirth/delivery ✅️
•carseats ✅️
•medicaid/chip ✅️
•housing ✅️
After that I was disgusted 😫🤮
Mean while our veterans fight for this country and come back fucked up and get no help.
Know more than a few chicks in that same boat
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I can't live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.
It's always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks
You won't regret it
Yes Am like what is the point of her video
This is a damn epidemic. Pitiful. She learned nothing from the first child.
She learned how to suck us for her stuff.
Why should she learn anything? She knows there'll be a step-babydaddy around the corner waiting to clean up her mess. All she has to do is be patient. And it's unlikely that she'll tell her daughter, "I was out here heauxing and paid the price. Don't do what I did. The consequences are too high." We're so comfortable living in dysfunction, it's not funny.
@@fudgematthew33 This is 100% the truth.
U can't control how another person will act so even in a marriage husbands switch up and abandon their family.
@misspiscesdreamz Another excuse. There is a right and wrong way to do everything. She already ADMITTED IN THE VIDEO that she preferred to be married, so knock it off! And it's women who file for divorce 80% of the time anyway. That's a fact look it up. You're wrong.
If the government stopped financially supporting single baby mamas, you’d start seeing these women make better choices with who they have unprotected sex with
Hell yea.
Im starting to believe that now
Facts
Even getting married to a man don't guarentee anything.
There are a lot of social programs so I highly doubt it.
The thing is, black women in her family won’t tell her nothing. My little cousins not even 18 and on her second baby not married and no one knows who the father is and grandma nem don’t say nothing
HYENA BEHAVIOR
And to make things worse they probably will vote for Kamala
This needed to be said... The families will help them in almost every way, but tell the sons they have to man up and figure it out.
@@the_dwight_waythey baby the sons and self sabotage the daughters. They use their sons as the boyfriend and help the daughters turn out just like them. Black women have always been the problem in our community
Yep very true
Single and pregnant I don’t need to watch the whole video and you have a 6 year old . SHES FOR THE STREETS 😂!!!!!!
I think said she have an almost 6 year old not 6 months .
Right 6 years old.
She said Six years old
why marry a man when you can just date him.
You CANNOT tell them ANYTHING. They think it’s gonna keep dude in her life and think he’s gonna marry her because she has his baby--girllllll please. They think they are different. They’re NOT😐😐
She said a whole lot of nothing.
No accountability, all I hear is a bunch of mush mouth talking, and clout chasing behavior.
Word salad
Isn't that always the case?
She’s just looking for coddlers
Literally said nothing
sisters cheer on other sisters who announce they are single and pregnant. Let her say she wants to commit to a man and build a family and they will attack her.
Misery loves company.
@@skysimba8953facts. It’s sad
This is sad but true !
IKR? That makes absolutely no sense at all. SMH
All facts. She's a servant or slave if he works n want's her to be a stay at home mom
She says: "Everything happens for a reason." Correct. YOU'RE THE REASON.
No accountability whatsoever... into other news
The reason is very simple and very brutal: you failed to keep your knees tightly together.
That baby is income to her
And a burden to society it will grow up to commit crimes. Repeat rinse.
😂😂😂😂🤦🏾💯💯💯
@Thaddeus-ml8if single black mothers are supply the prison pipe line
And if Kamala gets in, she's going to be rewarding this. 10K for child care for new mothers, now you have to wonder is it 10K per kid or a one time thing? If it's per child, watch the natal ward see a hard spike in births. The babies are also SM accessories and props. #TWINNNG
So is every other non blacks .
I hope you're not trying to claim only black people commit crimes .
No self control and no “P” control whatsoever. Everyone needs to keep their lustful desires in check and be responsible because in the end, the children are the ones who pay for it dearly.
Actually, for a few generations, by now.
These girls tend to have little help, from aunts and decent uncles
The issue is this, most people do not have the ability to control their urges, good parents understand and try to teach their children not to trust themselves but expect to mess up meaning stay out of situations where your may succumb to your own feelings.
@@kathleenking47 It's been decades of the same sob stories.
People have the ability to control their urges, they just refuse to do it! @@RenardGarzaro
It's not even about P control because most people lack self control. The issue is preventing unwanted pregnancy. That is the issue. If you're going to sleep around (you shouldn't be but if) at least don't bring a child into your dysfunction.
Her dating market value just decreased even more
Good because she don’t need to be dating anybody.
No it didn’t. Not in the black community
As a man I have no problem saying this is 100% our fault.. at some point it's not going to be allowed and that's going to be the ugliest thing we ever saw
Not in the black community. That sounds good on social media and on TH-cam, but time and time again you're seeing women in her circumstance continuously getting chosen. Maybe not married, but they're definitely not lonely. Black men need to raise their standards.
@@Lord_God__ Nah, bruh. You mean the hood community. The hood is not representative of most black people, dummy. And I hope that you try that trolling shyt with me. I'm a troll slayer extraordinaire, son.
I will never accept this as normal. Its literally the downfall of our community.
Me either! It's shameful and embarrassing. There are literally all forms of birth control for women, no excuse!
Agreed! #speakingfacts
Intelligence of a 12 year old. We are so broken as a people
Men never changed.
😏It takes two💯👍🏾
@@PrinceJancelotwrong. These woman choose poorly. Blame them. Woman make all the decisions, they control access to sexx and who gets born. Blame the woman, not the crappy men they have babies with. Then they expect a quality man to come and take care of some losers kids. Not going to happen. A new guy would have to share this girl with two kids and two other men. He will NEVER be first in her life. She CHOSE this, she now has to live with the consequences. No dude is going to sign up for this chaos.
Its becuase of the xy in our community
Like Sis. Shahrazad Ali said, "most black women don't mature past the age of 14"...once I started looking at it, she's right!
These women want these kids, not Men.Then turn around and drop them off at day care. That is not raising children, that is abandoning your children for money…
@@tonybarnes2473 facts most men don’t desire just having kids. Men make no profit off of kids, they become a legacy that’s either good/bad.
When I was with my ex 👀
I wanted dem babies 👀
I agree tho kids going to daycare 8 hours .,...parents at work 10 hrs
That aint raising a family
No stupid that means u have to work to take care of them
You sound silly , I know children in 2 parent households who still have to go to daycare so that their parents can provide for them and not have to rely on the government. Damn if someone does and damn if they don’t .
My kids are not LUCKY to have a two parent household. Marry before you carry was the only option in our book. If you take parenting seriously then you put yourself in that situation.
Great! Also make sure you lead that house with God's love.😅
Or, be celebate, until you marry....or even, stay a Virgin
The help isnt here as much these days😢
Lots of married couples end up single parents.
@@2okaycolayou’re missing the point entirely!
@@2okaycolayeah single and co-parenting is not a single parent.
Like Anton said basically. Once you peal back the onion, you see who they really are. She presents herself as a nice and polite. She’s wearing medical scrub’s , presenting a perception that she contributes on the workforce.. but as soon as you look deeper, you find out why she’s in the boat that she’s in.
It's always that one chick that has to get online and tell her business. WE DON'T CARE. You already admitted you're "another statistic", so nothing you say holds weight. This is extremely frivolous.
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Birth control or keep your legs closed. Babies or STD’s
Black women create more broken homes than black men if you out 100 black men and 100 black women in a room and make the ones who have kids stay . There would be 61 black women mothers and 45 black men who are fathers black women are the problem
Imagine taking advice from a 2 time baby mom. And it has nothing to do with please don't have kids out of wedlock. Or with a man who doesn't value you past sex.
@@derrickchapman8462 That’s modern black women for you.
I made a bad mistake and it was so big I decided to make it a second time.
😂 marry before you carry! What's so hard about following that concept?🤦♂️🚫👎
Not for BLACKS
@@blackqueen5201 shut up, fool.
I love that phrase, and it's so true....
Hyenas don’t like discipline, structure and order. It’s harder for them to do right and way easy to do wrong. As long as this country give them an excuse book to use 😂
They act like that's not even an option. It's either single motherhood or abortion.
It’s called get married FIRST!! 🤦♀️
*Pffft, no man gonna Marry her.*
Give it 2 years and she will be pregnant with #3.
Pookie does not have marriage on his mind and that’s who BW breed for
Or just use protection? 🤔
Then you will be a married single parent !
Ideally, but women like this don’t even have the mindset it takes to make a marriage work in the first place or to pick the right man.
And we're supposed to marry these women.😢
Absolutely not! If you get married you’re an TOIDI! Please stay single forever. Y’all don’t need w omen for ish.
So why didn’t you marry your baby mama before you got her pregnant?
We’re supposed to marry Pookie’s fling and side piece 🤦🏾♂️
@@Lord_God__ You ARE the bookie so what’s the difference?
@@karenmassey8354 I don't have kids.
I got to hang out with my grandfather today who is 85 years old he literally told me that we as men built society for women and now there gonna destroy it welp good luck grandson then walked away and I didn’t get it till I got home.
👆 he's right
And she's PROUD of her situation and her two trophies
They weren’t earn trophies, they were participation trophies😂
She said, "this is hard. really hard". Was she talking about saying no to pookies and keeping legs closed? lol
She should of gotten married to the kids father
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 before she got pregnant
@@JustChristianBlackbefore she had sex
@@JustChristianBlack both I had a friend like this right now
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115he’s probably a pookie bum. She should have not been having raw relations
Black women don’t take life seriously but always has a message
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I swear. This is why i don't have any friends. Oh, well! Priorities are all fucked up. It's a shame.
Exactly 💯 and they love them pookie Ray Rays and Chad.
Please don't say bw. I am a bw and would never do that. Never have done that. You act like we are all the same. We aren't.
And the message is keep making the same mistakes over and over again 😂
One nightstand ad. 😂
Dead 😂😂
Women say they off their unborn because they don't want to raise a child in a bad situation. And when they do raise children in a bad situation they say "at least I didn't off my baby" or "how can you blame the parent that stayed" and want kudos for doing something totally preventable! Round and round we go. Absolutely deranged.
This is the single biggest issue facing black folks today- there can be no discussion of addressing disparities in wealth, criminal justice or academic achievement until this issue is confronted - building generational wealth will never happen if it persists.
It's not a journey...it's a trail of bad decision after bad decision. That's the type of person she is
It's the pookie and Ray Ray syndrome 😂 modern women love the bad boy and these are the results they get .... being a single mother no marriage at all
Fast forward 5 years she will be on TikTok talking about raising her standards.
or Kendra G
@philipperkins5111 …🤭
Won't even take five years 😂
Or looking for a childless man to accept her and her 2 children
Tired of this still happening in 2024. They comfortable to be single mothers but uncomfortable with condoms and abortion.
Being a single mother isn't bad, it should be rewarded because it takes a lot of strength to do. Most women dont plan for it , men lure them to sleep with them use them and leave, she ends up pregnant. Usually heartbroken and confused as well. No not all women want to kill there innocent children, they didn't do anything wrong the men did! Why punished the innocent Baby and let the guy who just hurt me get away? And a woman cannot make a.man use a condom, usually women still get pregnant that way. Again this is a.mans problem. Men Should get a vasectomy if they don't won't kids instead of telling women to kid their children! I bet you they won't get a vasectomy, there not go too put their body through that surgery, but they will tell you to murder your own children in a heartbeat. Evil.
not just condoms..any kind of birth control. I had and IUD/Mirena when I was married. so glad I didn't let him impregnate me because he physically assaulted me.
Make it Make sense please
These types of women never learn all they do is gain trauma and baggage not wisdom
Being a single mom is a fast way ticket to having a lifelong victimhood pass. Thats why so many of them make that choice.
facts
@@Raisin.Grapesdifferent for men
I would be ashamed.....😫
American women especially black women are never ashamed of nothing
No WE AS WOMEN NEED TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY AND KEEP OUR LEGS CLOSED
They're really out here wearing that single baby mama title and pitching their promo like its WWE.
2x Intercontinental Baby Mama Champion. Marching down to the ring with her theme playing. "You Let Him Hit It Raw."
The black community is so broken, I don’t even know how it begins to be fixed
They refuse to obey TMH!
I made a vow no children out of wedlock…I never got married and I never had children. I have no regrets and raising children properly is no joke. She is so silly and immature…yes…Marry b4 you carry
Yep, that's how you do it.
I made a bad decision and had ONE kid with a man who is very involved. I accept that it was reckless as hell! But we stepped up and he is doing great. But to be a single mom…..TWICE is the epitome of dumb. A girl I know on FB has 6 by 5 diff dudes and be posting scripture all day HAHAHA
As a BW I am tired of hearing this. It’s too common.
Me too...smh
There is no hope for this 'community' as long as those who carry the next generation deem a basic family structure as unnecessary, will always remain the foot of the chain SMFH
Only in our community this ratchet behaviour having kids out of wedlock is normalised,black single moms are hurting our community sad
Shiiii you better think again if you think we got it bad, better take a looking to the Latin community they ain't wrapping and packaging bricks of that white and moving fetynal and deleting their own away by huge numbers and deleting passport bros for nothing, This is bigger than Nino Brown 🤣🤣🤣 Ask some of them they moms be having 10 12 chillen with multiple fathers with a capital S its just not plastered in the streets and media like our community not to mention their domestic violence in their community is stupid high.
Keisha only wants Pookie.
Good Men get Used.
That's the truth.
She looks like she works in the medical field...does she not understand contraception?
CNA
She probably has access to get morning after/plan B pills at will
@@clintonjohnson5435lol these be the main people that have all these kids and I’m wondering how she’s affording it
There are many nurses that take Plan B as birth control. It’s insane. They see patients with health/ mental issues and they live the same lifestyles as said patient. They are all fighting to procreate with Poookie and RayRay
You should see the pitty party in her comments. All the pregnant single mothers telling each other it’s going gonna be alright
A LOT of these women need to let go of feminism, find a good man, and put themselves in his hands, because they don't have the gray matter to get it done.
No! Well if I were a man I wouldn’t get with any women. I’d be like Mike Tyson when he was his greatest!
When I bw says she wants a good man, she’s says the “looking” after good silent.
16 million single parent households 80% female.
24 million children under the age of 18 years old.
Yes the single parent households are 80% women because the man left.
Men also need to stop bustin in women they have no desire to be with. EVERYONE is to blame.
Lack of fathers in the home, lack of culture and generational curses
Pookie strikes again
Pookiesha and pookie you mean.😂😂😂.
Nah. She had choices. The Baby Trap didn't work. This is common in the community.
At this point you can’t even blame Pookie these women volunteer to create broken families..🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
Pookies: 27,726,391
Single moms: 0
😂😂
Pookie is just running laps around these 304s😂
Won’t have an abortion BUT will have a second child, as a single mom AGAIN 😂🤣🤢😅🤣🤢😅🤣🤢😅🤣🤢
I have never understood that logic at all 🤢 🤦🏿♀️
She could have kept all of that B.S to herself......🙄
I really wanna understand why “it didn’t work out” after the pregnancy, but everything was working fine before the pregnancy. And who ended the relationship?
I refuse to have children outside of marriage.
Period. Like at all. I don’t even wana converse if he don’t have marriage in play book 😂💅🏽
@@YogaWDía thank you !!! Because we ain’t doing that 🤣🤣🤣
@@grace.n.godministries AT ALL
Same here
Who the hell is she to give ADVICE while seeking SYMPATHY 😂😂
This whole boyfriend thing is so detrimental to us ladies! We’re single or we’re married, no in between. No man should be living with you, having Sx with you, you shouldn’t be cooking for him or anything. Stop playing these boyfriend/girlfriend games because you give away all of the benefits of marriage without marriage so what’s the point. We have to get ride of these boyfriend/girlfriend titles, that way you’ll always know if a man is serious about you because he’ll have to marry you if his is. Boyfriend/girlfriend is friends with benefits and babies.
In Nigeria, she would be shamed or worse, especially in certain states in the north.
Single guy here, no kids She has no chance.
Facts! Same here
Those kids are already behind in life sad 😢😢😢
Single mother's ALWAYS got a damn journey..... I'm so tired of them.
No pity over here!!! She CHOSE that!!!! You get a pass for the first one…again???? Yeah, that a choice….🤷🏽♀️🙄
she will blame men later and the sisterhood will say, "men got her pregnant" instead of saying "she ALLOWED pookies to run thru"
Nahh no passes
Years ago I drove Uber and picked up this woman with a stroller. It was raining outside and the woman was standing there with an umbrella and stroller. The baby couldn't have been more than 3 or 4 montha old. I got out and held the umbrella why she put the car seat in the car and I put stroller in back. I ended up driving this woman to a CHURCH for something. The woman talked about the church, her family, being a mother, etc etc. I never once heard her say "husband" or "boyfriend" or even mention the "father." When we got to church I helped her take stroller out and she thanked me and wanted to tip me. This was 2016 ir 2017, before you could tip in app, but I refused it. I remember feeling so bad for that woman and the baby. Imagine having a baby and having to do it all on your own. I was raised by a single mother. I curse single mothers and the men who abandon their children. Nothing is guaranteed, but do not be reckless and intentionally create broken homes. It's pure madness!
My sweet precious daddy was born without father in 1933. My grandmother was raped and went through the pregnancy and had my dad. He thankfully had a very good, sweet uncle who stayed with him through it all. My dad became a very successful person and was extremely smart😊 he was my rock and I miss him terribly 😢😢
This is EXACTLY why I don’t go to baby showers of unwed women. By doing that we are celebrating trauma of future children and the bad behaviors that caused this situation. Shaming this type of behavior and NOT funding it the best to do in order to stop it or at least lessen it.
Exactly, and same!💯
She's the type that thinks she deserves a HVM 😂😂😂😅😅
Getting Pregnant For Social Media LIKES is 😔
Bring back shame and shunning
I don’t understand how you’re a single mom and then you do it AGAIN!
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Pregnant in the scrub outfit. Real Legendary 😂
I’m saving all this content for my son’s keep posting ladies😂😂😂
I’ve been a single parent of 2, they’re both adults now. It was hard at times, thankfully I had a great support system (my family) I was raised in a 2 parent home so I know the benefit and necessity of both parents to create a stable environment. Too many of these young women are too busy trying to high 5 each other, saying how strong they are and develop a circle of encouragement, but neglect to emphasize that this isn’t and shouldn’t be the goal! That’s why this continues! I never encouraged being a single parent, I’m not saying we should shame anyone but let’s keep it real bc our children are suffering while single mom’s are patting themselves on the back….
Antwon, your “yass queen” with the dead stare , took me out 😂😂😂😂
Nowadays pregnancies last longer than the relationships!
Those looks Anton was giving though... HILARIOUS!!!! 🤣😄
This really makes sense to them 🤡
I gave up on our people. They're beyond saving, and I don't feel bad at all.
Same, they're a lost cause.
The black family is done fam
I read the comments on her tik tok and it was truly sad and pathetic. Other women calling her strong and congratulating her , WTH? I would l bet money there will be baby #3 with another man. This young woman will likely never be married or know what it’s like to have a man love her for her and stand by her.
Pregnant single .. and a CNA / Nursing Assistant. Good luck .
It’s gonna be Rough getting School clothes and filling the Xmas tree ..
Marry b4 u Carry ..
Kids are beautiful, reality child are expense.
I’m dealing with a baby mama right now who decided to keep our baby. Because she felt like it was the right thing to do aka, all the wrong reasons to keep a baby. she pushed me away. From the time she got pregnant up until now and wants to raise the baby on her own with her mother and grandmother. Because they enable her childish behavior. It really is true when they say be careful who you lay up with.
go to court and file for joint custody and get a DNA test,,,,
Then have a whole party to celebrate this 😂😂😂
How is she going to afford to raise a second child on her own. This is madness, she will need a third bedroom plus extra help if she goes back to work. 🤦🏾♀️🇬🇧🇯🇲
Can someone please explain to me why these women don't use birth control? Under Obama care I think it's either free or almost free. I don't get it.
Trauma and most likely didn’t have a father to help raise her.
They love raw sex too much
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@@gammafrosthow does trauma stop you from taking a pill?
@@Underratedcommentator what I meant is that they most likely grew up in a toxic environment and see getting pregnant with no commitment as normal
They treat children like fashion accessories or photo 'Ops' to post on-line, to impress. Shameless.😢
I was a single mom of 5 kids. I was raised in a two parent household and surrounded by my grandparents as well. How I got them …long story but I am proud to say they are all very successful. People ask how did I do it I said sacrifice. It was no longer about me it was about providing them with a stable home and a safe environment. I dated from time to time but no one came to my home. I put myself through school and got a good job but it wasn’t easy. So women it happens but you have to make serious sacrifices. They are all grown and on their own and I met a wonderful man and is about to say I do. I made that bed so I had to lay in it and do right by my children.
I have one. His dad passed away. When I tell you. You couldn't pay me to have another. Even if I was to get married I dont want any more children under any circumstances!
"This is harrddd!"... so I'm gonna do it again 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Crazy work!
I think the best way to curtail the epidemic of single motherhood in the black community would be to pass rulings to the affect that no man should be financially responsible for any child born out of wedlock.
She's not comfortable with getting rid of her baby, that's great. But is she comfortable with taking birth control?
She wasn't comfortable telling guy to wear a condom either
Yeah this ish is truly mind boggling
Do the math . Most single moms are near or at poverty level with child #1
With each additional child the single mom is at risk of falling below the poverty level and staying there ( She has to stay at or below poverty level for govn't aid that she cannot do without )
Imagine what she could do if she had a degree , nice income and no kids. Her possibilities would be endless
There are single moms who have 6 kids b'cuz they too were looking to have a two parent household with men who didn't plan on staying around to raise a bunch of kids that were not his
One last thing. If you can't find a positve male figure for the kids you already have. Warn them about the ones that's out there and teach them to do better
Black women create more broken homes than black men if you out 100 black men and 100 black women in a room and make the ones who have kids stay . There would be 61 black women mothers and 45 black men who are fathers black women are the problem
Ok blah ....blah....blah... so enjoy your kids single smh NOT VERY SMART MOVE !!
Soo she didnt think about plan b. Im so confused
Bruh must either have a good job, looks a certain way, or she wanted to anchor ⚓ herself to a dude who doesn't didn't want her for nothing more than a "short" time.
*She intentionally got pregnant to baby trap him.*
That is why he dumped her, and rightfully so.
@@anthonyhuber-permanentlyre7808 It's all by design. She knows that the system will make that guy pay for 18 to either 21 years. She x 2 on the payroll of so me Child Support Enforcement office.
Its championed to be a single mother.
Obviously she's not good mentally she has to get on social media to vent about a situation she created. These women know what type of men they are laying down with and not using protection. Thats just wild! Everytime i see a pregnant women on social media thats not with the father of the baby i think about HOUSTON & ATLANTA 🤣😂🤣😂
0:16 why woman always want to share their unsolicited life stories 🙄
They think their trauma is unique.
They hope some dummy will bail them out of trouble
Let them expose themselves and mind your own business
@@koreylr😂😂
Before I even read your comment I literally said the exact samething fam😒...WHY DO they do that too themselves NOBODY CARES , not even the babies father