I experience another trend. There are to many young men between 25-35 to can’t find suitable women. So divorced women are highly popular because they are most in western countries economically undependent. So I think at that time it was acceptable and sometimes necessary to practice polygamy. But nowadays society has changed, women and men have changed. So it’s not practical anymore. Despite that many relationships get together in pure love and not because women need men to care for them financially. And that’s also beautiful for a men to know he is chosen in pure love because of him not because the woman need a men to provide for her! 🙏🏻✨
You have a good point, but have you ever been to a refugee camp? There are many women/widows/single mothers who could benefit from being married, even as a 2nd,3rd,or 4th wife...the amount of war, famine, limited resources, etc make polygamy a good counter measure for all times, past, present and future.
Islam is not declining tho. It’s the second largest religion and it’s constantly growing. I don’t get the idea of having to marry a married man because there “a declining population”. It just devalues ur wife by marrying whoever simply to “care for them”. You can care for someone without marrying them, give donations to them and their family if that’s how much they care. But marriage allows intimacy and care that should only be shared between one husband and wife.
@@nishat_8605 You miss the point. A marriage is a contract. If marriage with up to 4 wives is in the Quran there is nothing but good. Why make a woman a charity? What kind of love is based on physical satisfaction? If I read your reply correctly you have limited the institution of marriage to a sexual act. Marriage is the backbone of a community. The first line of defense. Blessed is the man who can protect 4 women in these evil times.
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Great lecture! I believe polygamy is stigmatised because men abuse it. Instead of being extremely wary of transgressing Allah's laws for polygamy and treating it as an added responsibility, they disregard it and use it their own advantage. Polygamy in Islam is a benefit for women, but a challenge for men. This is why Allah repeatedly told men in the Quran to stick to monogamy if they fear injustice, and at another instance, Allah ordered men to avoid putting themselves in difficult position regarding women. This is GOD HIMSELF acknowledging that it is not easy for a regular man to uphold the dignity of polygamy. Great efforts by Thaqlain! My go-to channel for Islamic lectures. Hoping to see further expansion on such difficult topics.
Islam is rational logical reasonable and blessing for the mankind because unlike other faiths islam is the religion by Allah swt Ashadu an la ilaha illa Allah Ashadu anna Muhammad un rasulallah Ashadu anna maulana ali un wali Ullah
Islam does not permit polygamy ( with M ), which means multiple husbands and wives , but it permits polygyny ( N ), which means multiple wives only. Please correct the term. Prof. S. A. BAEISA
In America, there is polygamy either the spontaneous way or the organized one. You can easily find a married man with " a girlfriend " or even more than one of those. You can also find a man " LEGALLY married to one woman and have another wife. Everything is fine. Unless something goes wrong. For instance, if someone complains about something related to this subject, it can easily bring the case to the legal system.
Asalamualikum, I don't think you'll find that the blessed Prophet Moses had a 2 wives in the Bible but Jewish tradition does have this belief. It honestly makes no difference to me but thought I'd put that out there for anyone who might discredit this scholar.
What a nonsense topic. If a man takes a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife with the knowledge and acceptance of all persons in this, WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT PARTY TO THIS?
Why should marriage only be for rich men....because women dont want money they want happiness...The problem is theres no justice in polygamy for women today....nabi saw visited all his wives daily...women alone every second day,single mothers half of our lives...we want love and affection too...men get sex everyday while women having a husband being alone every second day,whats the point all women in polygamy alone moat of the time.
It is the context of historical time. Battles and wars men were massacred in thousands, ofcourse it’s not relevant today compared where your living. That’s why Islam allowed this practise.
In West it is so easy for muslim to have 4 wife's. Man marry 4 wife's ,produce lots of kids and not worry at all. Social security provide housing,benefits,money,.
Wiladat Mubarak! Just coming from Jashan in karachi And the speaker Maualana shenshah Naqvi!
I heard he has 3 Wives, either way he is a Clown of the Highest Order.
I experience another trend. There are to many young men between 25-35 to can’t find suitable women. So divorced women are highly popular because they are most in western countries economically undependent.
So I think at that time it was acceptable and sometimes necessary to practice polygamy. But nowadays society has changed, women and men have changed. So it’s not practical anymore. Despite that many relationships get together in pure love and not because women need men to care for them financially. And that’s also beautiful for a men to know he is chosen in pure love because of him not because the woman need a men to provide for her! 🙏🏻✨
You have a good point, but have you ever been to a refugee camp? There are many women/widows/single mothers who could benefit from being married, even as a 2nd,3rd,or 4th wife...the amount of war, famine, limited resources, etc make polygamy a good counter measure for all times, past, present and future.
We need it more today. Declining population.. economic security...a head of family to guide family
No
Islam is not declining tho. It’s the second largest religion and it’s constantly growing. I don’t get the idea of having to marry a married man because there “a declining population”. It just devalues ur wife by marrying whoever simply to “care for them”. You can care for someone without marrying them, give donations to them and their family if that’s how much they care. But marriage allows intimacy and care that should only be shared between one husband and wife.
@@nishat_8605 You miss the point. A marriage is a contract. If marriage with up to 4 wives is in the Quran there is nothing but good.
Why make a woman a charity? What kind of love is based on physical satisfaction?
If I read your reply correctly you have limited the institution of marriage to a sexual act. Marriage is the backbone of a community. The first line of defense. Blessed is the man who can protect 4 women in these evil times.
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Great lecture! I believe polygamy is stigmatised because men abuse it. Instead of being extremely wary of transgressing Allah's laws for polygamy and treating it as an added responsibility, they disregard it and use it their own advantage. Polygamy in Islam is a benefit for women, but a challenge for men. This is why Allah repeatedly told men in the Quran to stick to monogamy if they fear injustice, and at another instance, Allah ordered men to avoid putting themselves in difficult position regarding women. This is GOD HIMSELF acknowledging that it is not easy for a regular man to uphold the dignity of polygamy.
Great efforts by Thaqlain! My go-to channel for Islamic lectures. Hoping to see further expansion on such difficult topics.
JazakAllah. We hope you are also introducing us to your family and friends. Let's bring as many people closer to the School of Ahlulbayt as we can :)
Islam is rational logical reasonable and blessing for the mankind because unlike other faiths islam is the religion by Allah swt
Ashadu an la ilaha illa Allah
Ashadu anna Muhammad un rasulallah
Ashadu anna maulana ali un wali Ullah
Allahuma sualıy ala Mohammed waalı Mohammed wa'ajılfarahum
Understanding better the psychology of women and how we have a pull towards having children and how much it fulfills us, polygamy is a mercy.
Allahumma salli 'alaa Mohammad wa Aali Mohammad wa 'ajjil farajahum wa farajanaa bihim .
Islam does not permit polygamy ( with M ), which means multiple husbands and wives , but it permits polygyny ( N ), which means multiple wives only. Please correct the term.
Prof. S. A. BAEISA
Where in the bible says Moses had two wives?
Numbers 12
www.biblestudytools.com/bible-study/topical-studies/did-moses-have-two-wives-or-just-one.html
@Thaqlain it really does not clear Moses had 2 wives or he was referring to the same wive he had. So it's just a speculation.
Indeed. But it does hint that he had another wife. And that's precisely the speaker's intention here: that the idea itself is well founded.
God said so, roll credits.
Good to know the wisdom, but the wisdom is not the reason.
In America, there is polygamy either the spontaneous way or the organized one.
You can easily find a married man with " a girlfriend " or even more than one of those. You can also find a man " LEGALLY married to one woman and have another wife. Everything is fine. Unless something goes wrong. For instance, if someone complains about something related to this subject, it can easily bring the case to the legal system.
Asalamualikum, I don't think you'll find that the blessed Prophet Moses had a 2 wives in the Bible but Jewish tradition does have this belief. It honestly makes no difference to me but thought I'd put that out there for anyone who might discredit this scholar.
Hey. Where are you from?
What a nonsense topic. If a man takes a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife with the knowledge and acceptance of all persons in this, WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT PARTY TO THIS?
Vice, it's as simple as that. It needs to pretend Jesus words in the NT do not exist.
Today there is less legitimate males as well. So many men jobless, homeless, on drugs etc.
Indeed.
Can a man have 4 women at a time or 4 women in all including the divorce and dead wife
At a time.
Fair to women right to marriage
True I am one of them
Why should marriage only be for rich men....because women dont want money they want happiness...The problem is theres no justice in polygamy for women today....nabi saw visited all his wives daily...women alone every second day,single mothers half of our lives...we want love and affection too...men get sex everyday while women having a husband being alone every second day,whats the point all women in polygamy alone moat of the time.
No one is forcing her into polygamy. She cannot get married unless it is her consent 🙂
It is the context of historical time. Battles and wars men were massacred in thousands, ofcourse it’s not relevant today compared where your living. That’s why Islam allowed this practise.
❤️🤲🏻
In West it is so easy for muslim to have 4 wife's.
Man marry 4 wife's ,produce lots of kids and not worry at all.
Social security provide housing,benefits,money,.
Abrahim have 2 wives
You need to redefine polygamy. I dont see it as polygamy. Maybe use a different work.
*word
We need to destigmatize polygamy or polygyny.
@@Thaqlain No we don’t.
Cohabiting
Women just overvalue themselves
A man's value lies in his words :)
@@Thaqlain No doubt. And Polygamy has no place in our modern age.
Thanks for sharing your opinion. For us the only opinion matters is that of Allah and his Messenger 🙂
@@Thaqlain Matters change over time. Just as now we are aware of marrying our cousins is not wise.
This subject is also found in the hadith. Anything which is for Ummah is discussed by the divine guides.