Hlub Yus Tus Kheej Thiaj Kaj Siab. 7/31/2021
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Pojniam hmoob yeej khwv tshaj. Cov txiv neej hmoob tsis paub hlub Pojniam tsis paub pab Pojniam
Nws tseeb rau koj xwb kv pab kv pojniam hv nb yog li hais kom ncaj mog
@@johnjohnson7522 kuv tus yeej pab kuv os tabsis kuv hais raws li feem coob uas kuv pom2 xwb. Tsis tau tias txhua2 tus tabsis peb hmoob feem coob yeej coj li ntawv
Dangg. So many butt hurt people..lol. she just saying Hmong lifestyle is not healthy. Which honestly is not! We need to admit the bad things in our culture to make changes. Stop getting so butt hurt when someone critiques us. We need to stop, listen, and reflect on the truth.
The truth hurts! I agree that Hmong people eat way too much!
@@MaiActivitiesAndThings and work too hard
@@whatheck6797 yes, that too!
I agree. Too many people wasting food. I’ve been and have hosted many gatherings including funerals and parties. Half of those food are thrown out.
I agree 100% with you
This story is to convince us that Chinese is better than Hmong? For the record, every culture has it own challenges and wealth. One is not better than the other.
Great story... Thanks for sharing! True we hmoob eat too much and waste so much foods too. Over due & over cook!
Txiv neej hmong tsis paub hlub poj Niam tsis paub coj zoo li lwm haiv neeg.
It sounds like she might be bragging but it's the truth. Hmong people over work their nyabs. And they expect too much. They have gatherings and theres always cooking and cleaning involves. Some people are hating bc its the truth.
This story is both sad and happy. I love this story and I agree, peb hmoob do expect nyab’s and daughters to work extremely hard. Life your life the way you want if have the choice. Who care is your a trophy wife, skilled cook, or whatever. People are going to hate regardless and be jealous. It’s your life, do what makes you happy.
Zoo siab rau yam yus Muaj yus tau es hlub yus tus kheej xwb..
Ok so you're bragging about being a trophy wife. No one is talking bad about you marrying Chinese, yet you talking low of your daughter marrying Hmong.
Right
She’s fortunate that she doesn’t have mean Chinese in-laws who despised Hmong ppl. Bc lord, I feel bad for those Hmong women who got prejudice chinese in-laws!
Well, I am a man, a father to a daughter and a husband to a wife. I raised my daughter to have her own mind and do what is best for her. I was raised to think about what others think and take actions on that. I feel that our culture enslaves is to those who wants to control us. My daughter will not be living the Hmong wife life as she will be a doctor in a year. I treat my wife with freedom and she can choose to do what she wants. If she does not want to be with me than she does not have to. No death due us part thing.
I got very lost listening to this story. First, I thought it was going to be about karma because of someone stealing the buried treasure, then it was a orphan story, then it turned to marrying a Chinese guy, becoming happily married because it required little labor, hating on the hmong lifestyle because its hard work, then envying it, hating it again, boasting about Chinese health and how to make some sort of yam tea. Then at the end, remind us to love both culture 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
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My same thought....
Good for you sister that you and your mother was lucky to have marry a good husband even if their another race. But don’t sit there and crap about your own kind, about how fat or how hard they have to work. Not everyone is lucky like you nor not everyone that is Hmong is like that. Have some respect for the Hmong people too. There are always good and bad in every culture, every race and every color. If you’re gonna brag then don’t talk down on Hmong.
Exactly.
I'm listening to this as I'm chowing down to deep fried chicken wings, fried banana peppers with a little salt on top, and rice. 🤣
I completely understand this. As I age, I do missed the traditional things. Every culture does things differently and it’s not that one is better than the others. We need to respect each other’s cultures. It’s true that Hmong women does so much for their husband’s family and still these families continues to belittle the Nyab… Let’s do better moving forward to our future daughter in laws….
Yes, you're right. Depends on culture and individual I am a good person and love my wife. Unfortunately I took care of her for the 2 years she left so I couldn't find someone like her 8/1/21
It’s true back in the days and some till this day Hmong are small minded
This story has a lot of loose ends… like did anything happened to the guy that killed her grandparents? Did anything happen when her stepdad didn’t get anything?
I know, it's kind of all over and never really have a point.
Being a nyab to Hmoob it is expected too much from her. It is sad. Never satisfied by in laws or sometimes by the husband. Damn if you do and damn if you don't.
May, you look beautiful. This story is from being sold as a child bride, to marrying a good older husband to.... thank you for sharing your mom's and your story, sister
Yuav hmoob ce tus zoo yog luag tus xwb yu tau tus g zoo ces ua siab mu yuav suav xwb os
The reason you didn't have to work so hard like 'hmoob nyab' is because you don't have inlaws and ncauv hmoob tsis nrog koj tus txiv cov khwv tij nyob. If you live in china trust me, all asian women work harder than men you would not be saying this. You have no relatives to cook a huge party for/with so you would never understand. You drink potato water and reckon that it's soo good for you but in the end you still in pain? Koj paub thuam peb hmong kawg.
We Hmoob women are the most dedicated and when come to love and be with our husband once we are marrying to him, we will stay forever. Wish we were not like that sometimes because men does not see that. It is so for us women.
It's a great lesson to learn. It's about spoil vs hard work. Your mother was spoiled by your father so she became lazy and dependent on him. So when she married hmong she does not want to be a real wife and work hard to establish a life from scratch. Every culture has it's own structure and there's good and bad.
Kuv ce twb g xav yuav hmoob thiab os
Jv xav.....muab ib txoj rau kj pab hais peb mloog o kv ces mloog kj txhua hmo kv thiaj pw tsaug zog xwb o niam laus aw
yg ma suav yeej hlub poj niam dua hmoob os vim kv yg ib tus ntxhia hmoob npog tuaj yuav txiv suav ma, lawm hlub yus tshaj li os
Oh Nej yuav suav lo yuav txawj hlub Nej kawg li.
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yg lawm os yuav suav yuav mi ka los lawv yeej hlub li lawv poj niam tiag tiag thiab
She’s right. She’s not insulting anyone, she’s speaking the truth and yes, the truth hurts. So stop complaining and make changes so that we can all live a healthier life. I’m a nyab myself and I live 75% of my life in the darn kitchen. We have HUGE families, therefore, we cook more, wash more, clean more, and work more. Hmong men gets offended by this story because they typically are not the ones living in the kitchen day & night.
The truth always hurts a common thing in our community. Instead of accepting and learning from it to change in order to accelerate, they feel attack or to begin with they were already antagonists of truths 🙄
Hahaha now the new generations of Hmong women are acting like them older generations of men.. they expect a lot from their men …
@@Mrhangi3 it's 100% from both sides if that's too much to handle then obviously you've forgotten who gave birth to you. Equality does not mean new generations are expecting too much. However, you've compared that with men from back in the days only reflects that you too, acknowledged the reason why men gets offended by this story. I feel sorry for whoever is your significant other. 😕
Thanks for sharing your beautiful story with us. I agree with you, being a Hmong nyab and hmong daughter is lots of work. Hmong people do eat a lot and most of us is overweight. As a Hmong nyab and hmong daughter I never get to rest.
Zoo kawg lm. Koj tsis khuvxim koj lub zog. Ua tau li tej laus qhuab qhia.
So you said you are a slave? You are living in the USA, land of the free. If you think you are over work then rest. Go on a vacation or something. There are a lot Hmong men out there are super nice too, and we do appreciate our Hmong women so much.
@@mathieuyang5113 appreciate but also help in daily task; wash dished after wife cook or cook along together, clean up together. Help cook and clean in big gatherings.
I see that Hmong Vietnam are different. The guys do all of the cooking and cleaning. And, the women sit around and chit chat. Chinese & Vietnamese are different from Hmong culture for sure.
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Omg loved that fresh fruit picture.
Yog yuav yuav tug nplua nuj ces yuav tsum yuav mab, yuav suav li tej laus ib txwm hais xwb, tiag-tiag nawb!.. vim peb hmoob tseem tsis tau nplua nuj ne💸💸💵💵💵💵
Qhov peb txom nyem tshaj yeej vim qhov🤱 yug tub, muaj ntxhais coob dhua li qhov uas yus hlub taus.. Thaum lawv loj hlob tag ces tag yus lub sijhawm taus-taus lawm, ua tsis tau dabtsi.. thiaj txom txom nyem tiag.
Long story butt full of lessons for some of us to ponder. Thank you for sharing
Yes. I agree. Marrying into a hmong family, you work harder because hmong people expect a lot out of you as a nyab. I watch my mom growing up.
Koj khwv kawg yom May. Mus vacation tseem hais dab neeg thiab los yog koj twb record Cia lawm 😁 yuav tsum ua li ko thiaj tau nyiaj ov lol.
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Im in process of loosing weight this is a very good motivation 💪thank you!
Me too. 1 scoop of rice only, ok?
@@sircha5304 yes but is very hard for only 1 scoop 😭😭
This story does not need to be told. Who cares about your wonderful life
So sad
What a Beautiful Story ❤
Koj noj qab noj zoo los koj teb muaj mob thiab ces pauv tsi ntxiv xwb os
Tus niam Tais koj tias haus kua qos es yog hom qos twg os muaj ntau yam qos ne
Hmoob as humans we do not know how to love and share to poor people, orphans, out of wedlock children and their mother, divorcee, daughters and widows. These are the most being hateful to Hmoob people. It is very sad and heartbreaking to be in their shoes.
Niam ntsuab teev aw cas koj cov txiv ko ntxim qab ua luaj li os.
Sab tov hu li cas os
Whoa! I see a lot of mixed feelings and comments-half positive and half negative. I do feel the story was incomplete. What happened to the man who ‘supposedly’ stole her parent’s money? It seems the mother (tug nam tais) eventually knew who it was - someone from the village. I wish the daughter would have elaborated more about her father - what part of China did he come from? Why did he choose to live among the Hmong? It makes me wonder if he was an outcast or an orphan himself. He may not have been ‘Chinese’ at all. I’m sure he has an interesting story too that led him to do business with the Hmong and to live amongst them. There are so many ethnic groups that lived amongst each other, especially in China. He may have come from China, but maybe he is of another ethnic group. Who knows. What I do appreciate is the truth to this story….which is tug Nam Tais’s experience as an orphan and being sold off to an older Chinese man. She was threatened by her own people. Dead or alive, she will marry this Chinese man, knowing that there is a chance she could be murdered for her organs. And the relatives were OK with this. This is pure selfishness and greed. I think it’s more important to emphasize this, than to say that she was looking down on her own people. I don’t think she was spoiled at all. I think she was fortunate her Chinese husband happened to be more loving and caring. Her relatives were marrying her off blindly. Yet, she ended up with a better life. And let’s acknowledge it, Hmoob nyaabs work their butts off and receive very little credit, acknowledgement, nor respect. I completely understand what this lady’s mother is talking about and what she [herself] is talking about. Yuav Hmoob yeej khwv dlua. I know it from my own experience. This is an incredible story no matter how any one of us feel about it. This is the first time I’m hearing about someone (from tug Nam Tais’s generation) marrying a Chinese man-especially knowing that our relationship with the Chinese is rooted in oppression and hostility. For the daughter to still acknowledge her own people, speak the language, and allow her own daughter to marry her mom’s relative…I think that speaks volumes. Had she not share this story, I would have never imagined that Hmong people (back in the days) allowed their daughters to marry Suav. And to know that there is such a Hmong lady who married outside of her culture…..I find her story compelling. I am happy tug Nam Tais lived a better life and so did the daughter.
Welcome to the hmong life😩😬
Nqhis koj cov txiv ko kawg li os
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Koj yog hmong saw suav lo zoo ma cov phem lo muaj cov zoo lo muaj hmong lo ib yam.
Great story
Omg! What a pathetic life. She probably had no Chinese friends that’s why she be tripping on her selfish Hmong half because it’s her Hmong family that gives a damn about her.
That's what I think too, that's why she has no gathering, no one to cook for.
May, es tus Niam Tais no puas qhia rau koj tias nws hau cov kua qos dabtsi? Es peb Xav mus nrhiav los hau thiab. Thank you
Koj daim duab kom nej mu de txiv qhov twg o
Koj muaj muaj es koj niam tais pluag pluag ua cas ho muab tau ob puas pub xwb
tej zaj neej neeg ko ce twb tsi tsim nyog muab tuaj rau niam ntsuab teev piav li os piav tau niag twb tsi muaj pau muaj ntsi li es?
Vuag koj mus lub state dab tsi na? Kuv xav yuav ib co lo noj os
Niam tais aw- kj tsim nyob zoo siab tias kj tseem muaj hmoo tau ib tug ntxhai yuav hmong os. Kj qhuas txoj suav tsi yog lawm. Peb muaj phoojywg suav noj ntau tshaj hmong nawb. Thiab lawv ua mov rau party mas tseem ua ntau2 tshaj peb hmong. Tsi tas li tseem muaj doj tshaj mov hmong nawb. Nrog kj zoo siab tias kj tseem muaj txoj hmoo tau ib tus ntxhai mus yuav hmong. Tog hmoo ntuj zoo heev.
Tsis nkag siab koj cov ntawv koj sau li os
Cov neeg es noj me me hom neeg no yog neeg qia dub....nws hlub nws tu kheej nws yeej hlub tsis tau tu sab nrauv....nej mus txog tej yim neeg es ua noj me me rau tau lub rooj loj xwb zaub mov twb tas tsis txaus txhab ces yim no nplaum tshaj ncuav nplaum lawm
Yog kawg, noj kua daj kua dub ntau dhau, peb hmong mam noj rau ntsev xwb.
May cas xav noj koj cov txiv ua luaj
The story is surreal and fiction at time in Laos, especially life living at the time of her mom in Laos. There are too many things irrelevant since in the beginning to the end of the story saying her parents were rich and educated. This was because her dad was Chinese born She didn't stop to criticizing Hmong tribes. She's pointing out that Hmong people were born poor and had no socialization. Only Chinese born are human being there.
Hey sis! What’s the name of your new scary story channel?
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Oh. Sweetie. You’re lucky that you’re in America and don’t have to deal with traditional Chinese in-laws where they expect their daughter in-law(s) to katow bc they’re seen as second class citizens. If you were Hmong living in China, married to a Chinese, they would slave you just as much as a nyab Hmong. I’ve seen both of my hmong sisters have it good and have bad marrying outside of their kind. Don’t stereotype, unless you slept with 100% of the world’s Hmong population.
Can't find your other channel
To sum up, dont work too hard and eat healthy....🥴
Cas koj txoj dab neeg no koj hais los thuam Hmoob xwb o tu viv ncaus, qhov tseeb suav na cuaj2 khaum heev thiaj noj me2 liko. Peb muaj ib tug ntchais yuav suav ler nplaum2 li nej ntag noj ib taig mov xwb g pub noj ntxiv ler
Only thing I got out of this story was don’t get fat and Chinese seems to be better people than Hmong.
Ca kuv sau ntawv rau koj tu Face es Saib lom zem ho tsi tau koj li os niam ntsuab teev kuv xav xa ib zaj neej neeg rau koj os
This story was very confusing. I got lost whose telling the story.
May, I think you are working too hard, your last few stories are confusing, don't work so hard niam tsuav teev!! We want to keep listening to you for many more years !!
Koj twb yog roj tshav hmoob yog koj paub noj qab haus hu ua cas koj. Ho tsis tuaj educate kuv kom sawv daws paub yog tus tsis nyiam los tsis ua cas hos tus nyiam los ho pab tau nws tus kheej koj hais tsis tseeb
Susv cov zaub mov mas haj yam greasier pork belly nrog rock sugar and source of sauce especially oysters sauce and soy sauce hmoob thaum ub tej zaub mov mas tsis greasy li all natural tiam no tuaj nyob luag ntuj ces yoog lug txuj lawm xwb
Haiv neeg dab tsis lis nws yeej muaj nws qhov zoo thiab txhob xav tias suav thiaj zoo thiab thiaj muaj nyiaj xwb
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Well said, what a beautiful story, sad but happy ending....
Teb chaws Australia yog thib ib lawm lau hmoob aw.
Koj qhov saib lom zem LLC twg tsis yog koj hais lawm as!!! Nws yog ib tug poj niam txawv2 los hais dab neeg lawm xwb as.
What’s the purpose of this story? To bash on Hmong people? To brag about being half Chinese? I’m so lost.