Thank you for talking about the communication part. Not chasing. I almost texted him tonight but keep reminding myself that he has the power to reach out & he hasn’t. Every time we reconnect (from him ghosting) is because I reach out first, basically letting him know he still has a chance. I would love to hear from him and have closure, but it’s up to him to grow a pair for once. 🤐
Kelly, I love that you said "don't reach out, at least not directly." The runner has to do this, every time. I don't think there *is* an exception. I'm still new at this TF stuff (yay for me 🙄) but from what I've seen, the DF/pursuer reaching out always resets the process. The DM has created this situation because they've never *not* been fawned over. This is a self-imposed part of their lesson, and if you never let them learn it, this will drag on for YEARS. They need to learn to appreciate you. And if you keep reaching for them, they'll *never* learn to appreciate you. ❤ You do such good readings! ❤
I had an “Aunt Cookie” who was called “Cookie” since birth! That statement warmed my heart. That means grams & aunt Cookie are part of my ancestral team of angels ❤
My DM and I reconnected this last Tuesday after two months of no contact. We spent the night together. He invited me to his gig today. I decided to go to his gig tonight. He basically ignored me. Went and sat at another table and hung out and talked with other people I didn't even know. I left quietly after sitting by myself for 20 minutes. He sent me a message and called me. He said, "Thank you for coming. I didn't even see you leave." I didn't call him back. I texted, "No problem. You did great. People really liked it " and then I blocked him on social media and my phone. Then I deleted every single picture, video and memory of him on my phone. Tomorrow, I'm going to put everything he gave me or that reminds me of him, into a box. I'm gonna seal it and put it in the basement. I am worth respect. I have value. I am worth consideration. I am choosing me.
Ok you can do that, but are you sure? Maybe he is just nervous, and he is kinda scared kicking the tires, I know you don’t deserve that,,So I have an idea, a suggestion that may help you feel better about the situation. Ok you deleted the picture’s if you can not retrieve them, you may miss them later, but you made the decision, cool you can accept that. How about unblocking the connection? If he doesn’t know your reaction, he will reach out, and then you can have your power back, you don’t have to accept his call or anything else. But you can have a conversation about your feelings about it feeling rude cold and just unacceptable behavior that you just don’t want to tolerate. Let him hear how you feel, because, there’s a chance he is just ignorant of his behavior, or just maybe he can explain his feelings on the manner. I agree that he was unthoughtful, perhaps extremely uncomfortable and putting on a “ show “ to cover his nerves. If anyone gets angry why not let be someone besides you? Being hurt and feeling rejected is awful, and it’s not fair, and you shouldn’t accept it, but about fairness, men are pretty bad at hints and reading people , I know I’m one, and I have probably been him, walking around with a necktie on, feeling uncomfortable but trying to be cool and friendly with everyone, head really in clouds, and I have had situations like this, and looking back on those experiences, she was probably feeling like you, and I never really realized what I had done, and just be dumb founded, and running around in my head, and sometimes it’ may come to light with some deep soul searching, but most of time, the guy will never know, and think all kinds of illusions, she must’ve found somebody else she didn’t like me the way I parted my hair. She just a flake., etc etc. Sweet heart if I may ask you for gentle forgiveness for our stupid pride, or ego, men what do really have? Take that and we are like plucked chicken’s.. Play it cool 😎 give it back, BUT explain why, tell him how you feel. We stand in front of the commode we are maybe 4or5 to remember the lifting that lid, my Daddy “ whipped me “ enough, lol keep mom happy lol. And when we get really older we can sit on it too, and we don’t need that pride, that makes us think we’re all that. So that’s what hurt you ? A man, gee only we know over here. You hold your head up, and you unblock and ignore it he will call. Ok even if you don’t tell him how you felt and feel, I promise you will feel better when ol dopey reaches out, then you’ll have some choices, You gave power to a fellow that doesn’t even know how it affected you. You showed him right? He doesn’t know, but you can allow him to get curious, and we do, just like you, communicate how can it be rekindled by throwing water on a small spark 🧨? Ok he was not checking the amber’s, he may have felt you were the only one he didn’t need to stoke, yes obviously 🙄 a dumb move. I get your frustration, but don’t he put fuel in the tank, don’t he do something like a man that you admire? You guys don’t arm wrestle correct ? With all my love in my soul. I can tell you’re both in love 🥰, 😂 So when he contacts you, You can let it ring 6 x s I told you he will, and you can say Oh it’s you, that’s enough for him to know something about to come to a head what ever his response is, you tell him very clearly that your feelings are hurt, he will not like it, he won’t be oh I don’t care, No no I have never known a true man to disregard this, because we go we think out of our way to avoid hurting women it hurts us very deeply as men to feel we are not the greatest heroes and Gods of war etc etc, we are boys always, but we have some qualities . And after you have explained yourself and humbled him, we always feel Chesters and humiliated, but once he gets to say his peace, he’ll be humbled, and he will try to get it right, I tell it may take a few reminders, old habits die slowly. Lastly if you are the savy woman I can see you are, after all that you want real attention and truest love from him, stroke his ego a little after you pegged him down a notch. Use your strength and that’s in teaching him gentle the old horse, you have more power than you remember? You are the star, he I assure you believe you was the confident one ☝️. Seducing is not a bad thing. Now all the male s of this soul tribe will think that I’m rolling over,lol no I want you guys to make it and you can, by not slamming your options,and talk. You do it! You’re a winner go get your prize 🏆
@@markminter3960I'm trusting my intuition. If he is my TF, then neither of us can do anything wrong. The choices we make are necessary and that's unique to all of our connections. I can't think about what this connection is anymore. I need to prioritize healing and stepping into alignment with myself. If we are counterparts like that, he will heal as well. I can't worry about that anymore.
Seems harsh. I say that because recontact means the beginning of getting the relationship in a healthy place through communication. 20 minutes wasn’t a long time considering the long time you waited for union. You got to tell m’en very explicitly and gently what they need to do. Yes they can be clueless. This saddened me. Seems like you guys were on the road. 😢
Even if I might not relate to the reading I still enjoy listening to you talk 😂 your reactions always make me smile. Sometimes I listen to you to fall asleep too! 🥰 Thank you for all that you do, thank you for being you~
I believe in this journey and i love my DM unconditionally and he's an amazing and gentle human being. But i don't know if he'll ever feel ready. And it's exhausting, no matter how much you try to focus on your own healing and growth. You're literally intertwined at the point of recognition, forever. It's hard.
Yes it’s hard, I suggest you get your rest, or meet with your friends bc it will change focus for a few moments. I hope it’s helpful, because I know I feel it too.
TFs and high level soulmates demonstrate a lot of intense psychic energies between them! You could probably teleport objects/apports and the telepathic exchanges are off the charts. People thinks it’s just love at first sight and insane chemistry. It can be an incredible destructive process if there is no one to guide you through it. I’m almost halfway through this video! 😇
I hope you have so much fun on your vacation! You deserve it! We are so lucky to have you in our lives, Kelly. Know that you are loved. Thank you so much for sharing your gifts with us. I’ll miss you while you’re gone 😅❤😊
Setting boundaries is such an important lesson for me to learn as it concerns her returning to me...yes, someone told me that there is no such thing as twin flames, but I never believed that..for me, your advice not to chase and reach out has been the most beneficial for me..not crazy, I do whisper to her at night before I go to sleep..everything in this reading is so resonant for me..I get so high after your readings(who needs drugs/), with all the hope it brings, that I have to tether myself to my couch to keep from floatting up to the ceiling
This reading was so mind blowing. I had been asking for clearer sign regarding what's happening in my TF journey. One day I'm all in & the next I'm ready to give up on my twin. As soon as you said, "I don't know why I just wanted to call you Cookie", I lost it. My twin calls me Cookie and I believe in 94 was the first time I ever laid eyes on him. Everything you said reasonates 1000%. I'm not sure if he is still involved with a karmic partner, but I'm certain that there are other karmic interferences such as family, friends & finances. One of your other readings resonated a lot as well because we've been doing this going on 11 years. There's a lot of fear & confusion. I know he'll come back but in what condition. I've always been the one to reach out but not this time. I'm tired of the cycles, it's draining. I don't need him to have it all together but I do need him to have a significant amount of healing done. My prayer is that we are finally coming to the end and will reach our final reunion soon. This reading renews my hope. Thank you so much Kelly! 💜
I gave him a journal My sister passed a few months ago - she loved him and thought we should be together - we called her cookiemom!! She loved to bake cookies and sent them to my person
I STRONGLY CLAIM & AFFIRM THE POSITIVE ENERGIES FROM THIS READING. ADITYA PROPOSED ME & I SAID YES. WE ARE NOW IN A HAPPY, HEALTHY, ROMANTIC, COMMITTED & PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP. SO MOTE IT BE. THANK YOU SO MUCH MOTHER UNIVERSE. I AM GRATEFUL FOR IT ALL.
I'm starting to understand the benefit of "not chasing". When in no-contact, if you give in, it will stunt their personal growth. Why would they have to work any harder? They've got you and now they can stay in their spiritually immature "stuck" position. The contrast provides clarity in their life on what needs to change. You sweetened the deal by being around but it made them lazy. With no contact, they'll set boundaries, make necessary changes, and if the love was real, come running back to you ASAP.
His brother always in the middle of us I did dream about him yesterday only the Universe knows better thank you for your reading sending you love thank you 🙏 ❤
I have been watching “avoidant” videos and one said two things to seem attractive to an avoidant (I have read that a lot of avoidants ghost) 1 - don’t chase, 2 - use risk assessment language when there is a conflict, (a lot of avoidants are leaders/ business people who understand how to deal with risk assessment, not so much about feelings)
Before my daughter was commissioned into the armed forces ( 4 years ago), I gave her a journal. Before I gave it to her, I flipped through the pages and wrote exactly what I want to say to her right now. Knowing she would read it at some point on her journey. We haven't talked since she left, due to 3rd party meddling. Everything you say resonates with me and this situation. On another note: I won 2nd place in a cookie contest for my county, and she loves my cookies.
My avoidant TF suddenly discarded me 12 months ago. He ended up in rebound relationship - married a few months later, my intuition has told me it is toxic. Got a call from him last week of the blue saying he can’t deal with current situation (confirmed toxicity). He has organised to see a counsellor to “sort out his life”
Absolutely resonates. I strongly and wholeheartedly claim communication n Union with my person n all the positive energies in this reading. Ty so so much. Iam learning n growing.
Believe me, there’s no way I’ll be contacting him. He ghosted me. Therefore, I moved on & have empowered myself. Am in Empress mode now. Empresses don’t chase they get chased instead. 😉
Thank you for the reading and most of them resonates. In my case it her sister stopping her and creating confusion. I am 💯 sure that we would get back together as I have been experiencing a spiritual awakening the next day she left me. Am in the journey towards healing. I was guided to journal my thoughts but I did not. Now am going to start. I guess we completed 12 yrs in our relationship and a renewal in our energies are happening. Love to the Universe and thank you angels for guiding us through. We are going to be together soon ❤❤❤❤ with my daughter Thooriga (her name means artist paint brush) love you ammu ❤❤❤❤
Thanks Kelly it resonates and there's one particular thing you said that made me know you're talking about my person and I. Surprised the shit outta me actually. You bet I believe in counterparts. She is either my twin or soulmate no doubt. Thank you God bless. Thank you God for your blessings and protection 🙏
I had a personal reading done on him where he was "channeled". According to his higher self he's feeling like it's too late to make amends and is in fear of time wasted (for the both of us) but is in high regret for stepping away too soon after our encounter. So I did reach out as a way to indicate that he's not too late. I hope that wasn't a mistake but another reason I reached out was cuz there was mention that his life feels like it's falling apart and he's learning uncomfortable lessons, suffering in silence as he has burned bridges with others by pushing people away. My heart was going out to him because I myself have been going thru a lot. But my message to him, as usual was in a casual nature. Letting him know that he's been in my thoughts and that I hope he's doing well and to let him know it's not too late if he wants to get more acquainted with me. But if not, then I would wish him well without any bitterness or resentment towards him. I even told him a long time ago that I was willing to take things slow but I guess it is what it is.
Men do not integrate emotion, the same way women do. That is why women think he’s needing someone to comfort him, and it falls flat. Because women and men do not process emotion the same way. Sometimes, loving someone isn’t “chasing”. It’s just showing love and compassion. But that doesn’t negate what the DM is going through, and how he processes it. They are just different than the DF. ☺️
Coincidentally that happened today, I cut off communication weeks ago because of intrusion, karmic and toxic others joining in so enough......all of what you are saying resonates. I don’t chase but I was concerned that there is depression, ego, dependancy etc, etc. there is a soul connection but I let it play out, don't pry, let them sort it out..... the energy is always in my thoughts.....maybe it works both ways. I fear for his sanitysake. I did reach out after he did. Probably wrong, from what you are saying.
My intuition has been saying not to contact him, so I haven’t. But I’m not waiting for him, I’m working on myself and I do miss him and my intuition has been telling me it isn’t over, I’ve felt crazy because of how he treated me in the break up because it just isn’t him.
This reading made me remember a book I have read a long time back. It's called the language of flowers by venessa diffenbaugh. I'll re read it again today
Does it count that he calls me by my nickname, Tookie lol You opened with the exact thought on my mind…questioning our connection. We are actually back communicating after 2 years, and I can feel the growth on both ends. However, it’s still a journey, I have these moments. And I have to realign my thoughts. I have too much that I want to accomplish to get too caught up on how long or what action he’s taking. Be patient and positive, and focus on self. Naturally it’s working, me drawing him in, being focused on myself…I think lol FYI…we’ve been doing this dance since 2007. Life was just happening. But we have always come back together somehow. I can admit it here, I love him unconditionally. But I love me more ❤
He is born in 94❤I was making oatmeal cookies homemade.when I turned on the reading. He left in October 18th 2018 due back January 18 2020 married her and their anniversary is in 3 days . I pray over them . If he needs to learn lessons with her I can not teach ❤ I loved him like none before and I have been alone ever since ❤
My sweet kitty Wally was previously named Mr. Cookie at the shelter, but I thought Wally was more fitting. Mr. Cookie sounded a bit pervy to be honest lol
As always, you’re right on target. I’m feeling detached and beginning to question this TF connection. Sept 4th May very well be significant in a possible betrayal. I agree with you about that card about reaching out to him. My intuition says otherwise. You’re right, it’s not easy knowing that he’s still involved with the karmic and just focusing on Divine Timing. I’m just not sure how much more patience I have left in me to continue . I’m hanging on but becoming more detached as time passes. He just won’t let go though. Thanks Kelly. Light and love ❤️
He listens to Elvis a lot 😊 Big fan. I’ve been questioning today if he indeed is my TF because he is inconsistent in communication, breaks plans and agreements often. He is with controlling karmic, and he often gets bouts of depression. When that happens he doesn’t like talking & doesn’t reach out. He is struggling because feelings for me not going away, but he cannot act on them. I’ve been struggling to reconcile that he confessed to being in love with me yet he has no intention of putting the past behind him. We are in a bit of stale mar.
5:08 I honestly didn't know if I believed in the soulmate thing until he came back into my life but the moment we were reunited, I felt whole. And now that we're back in separation the hole feels even bigger.
I say good nite and I love him every night when I'm going to bed. 💕 So it makes me wonder if he does the same. This relationship is totally different in every way. And I love him ❤️ I don't know why he's not my usual type but I can strongly say he is my person. When we are together it's pure love and sparks 🥰 thank you my 🦋🦋❤️
I'm processing to move on, I've been stagnant too long. In terms of contact, I can't. I've already been ignored so I am considering pulling the final rug. I've been that low, that my cat bless her, has been looking for hugs, and I have been asking her to go away, I just couldn't deal with her. It helped me understand the notion of loving something but being unable to deal with them. Feeling stuck in a mental prison is a thought that has resonated over the past couple of weeks. Not a place I want to be.
Lol, no I'm not a cookie lol. I was sitting here thinking about monkey bread , cinnamon rolls, blueberry muffins, cheese cake,banana and zucchini bread, pumpkin bread
Thank you, we both share a birthday of 9/4. I found out on our birthday that he has been involved in another relationship. She posted it on social media. Now he lives with her. He has been constantly lying about seeing someone for the post 9 months.
Beautiful reading as always❤❤ my empath ability and intuition says my twin flame will reach out soon and is still inlove with me but the small negative part of me says don't talk wet lol its been bout 28years .but the feelings that I've picked up on last month or so have been intense it was that strong I wonder for few minutes wat was happening I also getting signs every where and his name popping up every where and our song coming on etc plus my higher self felt that he was in karmic relationship and that he works at construction and alot of readers have been saying that lately. Anyways I love listening to ur readings they are brilliant ❤
Thank you for talking about the communication part. Not chasing. I almost texted him tonight but keep reminding myself that he has the power to reach out & he hasn’t. Every time we reconnect (from him ghosting) is because I reach out first, basically letting him know he still has a chance. I would love to hear from him and have closure, but it’s up to him to grow a pair for once. 🤐
Stay strong. I wasn't yesterday. I regret it.
Good for you sis
Ha! Yes, I wrote those exact words in my Journal last week. Exactly!
Stay strong if he doesn’t reach out then you’re definitely better off without him.
Kelly, I love that you said "don't reach out, at least not directly." The runner has to do this, every time. I don't think there *is* an exception. I'm still new at this TF stuff (yay for me 🙄) but from what I've seen, the DF/pursuer reaching out always resets the process. The DM has created this situation because they've never *not* been fawned over. This is a self-imposed part of their lesson, and if you never let them learn it, this will drag on for YEARS. They need to learn to appreciate you. And if you keep reaching for them, they'll *never* learn to appreciate you. ❤
You do such good readings! ❤
Kelly, thank you for this reading. Setting boundaries is a great thing. ❤❤
I had an “Aunt Cookie” who was called “Cookie” since birth! That statement warmed my heart. That means grams & aunt Cookie are part of my ancestral team of angels ❤
❤thanks for your sharing this, it well s up my eyes with emotion happiness 😊
4:48 true, I started my ministry for Twinflames in 2016. It takes a Twinflame to overStand and innerstand this journey.
My DM and I reconnected this last Tuesday after two months of no contact. We spent the night together. He invited me to his gig today. I decided to go to his gig tonight. He basically ignored me. Went and sat at another table and hung out and talked with other people I didn't even know. I left quietly after sitting by myself for 20 minutes.
He sent me a message and called me. He said, "Thank you for coming. I didn't even see you leave." I didn't call him back. I texted, "No problem. You did great. People really liked it " and then I blocked him on social media and my phone. Then I deleted every single picture, video and memory of him on my phone.
Tomorrow, I'm going to put everything he gave me or that reminds me of him, into a box. I'm gonna seal it and put it in the basement.
I am worth respect. I have value. I am worth consideration. I am choosing me.
I'm sorry you had to feel that way. Hugs.
Ok you can do that, but are you sure? Maybe he is just nervous, and he is kinda scared kicking the tires, I know you don’t deserve that,,So I have an idea, a suggestion that may help you feel better about the situation.
Ok you deleted the picture’s if you can not retrieve them, you may miss them later, but you made the decision, cool you can accept that. How about unblocking the connection? If he doesn’t know your reaction, he will reach out, and then you can have your power back, you don’t have to accept his call or anything else. But you can have a conversation about your feelings about it feeling rude cold and just unacceptable behavior that you just don’t want to tolerate. Let him hear how you feel, because, there’s a chance he is just ignorant of his behavior, or just maybe he can explain his feelings on the manner. I agree that he was unthoughtful, perhaps extremely uncomfortable and putting on a “ show “ to cover his nerves.
If anyone gets angry why not let be someone besides you? Being hurt and feeling rejected is awful, and it’s not fair, and you shouldn’t accept it, but about fairness, men are pretty bad at hints and reading people , I know I’m one, and I have probably been him, walking around with a necktie on, feeling uncomfortable but trying to be cool and friendly with everyone, head really in clouds, and I have had situations like this, and looking back on those experiences, she was probably feeling like you, and I never really realized what I had done, and just be dumb founded, and running around in my head, and sometimes it’ may come to light with some deep soul searching, but most of time, the guy will never know, and think all kinds of illusions, she must’ve found somebody else she didn’t like me the way I parted my hair. She just a flake., etc etc. Sweet heart if I may ask you for gentle forgiveness for our stupid pride, or ego, men what do really have? Take that and we are like plucked chicken’s..
Play it cool 😎 give it back, BUT explain why, tell him how you feel. We stand in front of the commode we are maybe 4or5 to remember the lifting that lid, my Daddy “ whipped me “ enough, lol keep mom happy lol. And when we get really older we can sit on it too, and we don’t need that pride, that makes us think we’re all that. So that’s what hurt you ? A man, gee only we know over here. You hold your head up, and you unblock and ignore it he will call. Ok even if you don’t tell him how you felt and feel, I promise you will feel better when ol dopey reaches out, then you’ll have some choices,
You gave power to a fellow that doesn’t even know how it affected you. You showed him right? He doesn’t know, but you can allow him to get curious, and we do, just like you, communicate how can it be rekindled by throwing water on a small spark 🧨? Ok he was not checking the amber’s, he may have felt you were the only one he didn’t need to stoke, yes obviously 🙄 a dumb move. I get your frustration, but don’t he put fuel in the tank, don’t he do something like a man that you admire? You guys don’t arm wrestle correct ? With all my love in my soul. I can tell you’re both in love 🥰, 😂 So when he contacts you, You can let it ring 6 x s I told you he will, and you can say Oh it’s you, that’s enough for him to know something about to come to a head what ever his response is, you tell him very clearly that your feelings are hurt, he will not like it, he won’t be oh I don’t care, No no I have never known a true man to disregard this, because we go we think out of our way to avoid hurting women it hurts us very deeply as men to feel we are not the greatest heroes and Gods of war etc etc, we are boys always, but we have some qualities . And after you have explained yourself and humbled him, we always feel Chesters and humiliated, but once he gets to say his peace, he’ll be humbled, and he will try to get it right, I tell it may take a few reminders, old habits die slowly.
Lastly if you are the savy woman I can see you are, after all that you want real attention and truest love from him, stroke his ego a little after you pegged him down a notch. Use your strength and that’s in teaching him gentle the old horse, you have more power than you remember? You are the star, he I assure you believe you was the confident one ☝️.
Seducing is not a bad thing. Now all the male s of this soul tribe will think that I’m rolling over,lol no I want you guys to make it and you can, by not slamming your options,and talk. You do it! You’re a winner go get your prize 🏆
Big hugs ❤ you are worth it. He just slipped ❤ human are the meanest creations
@@markminter3960I'm trusting my intuition. If he is my TF, then neither of us can do anything wrong. The choices we make are necessary and that's unique to all of our connections. I can't think about what this connection is anymore. I need to prioritize healing and stepping into alignment with myself. If we are counterparts like that, he will heal as well. I can't worry about that anymore.
Seems harsh. I say that because recontact means the beginning of getting the relationship in a healthy place through communication. 20 minutes wasn’t a long time considering the long time you waited for union. You got to tell m’en very explicitly and gently what they need to do. Yes they can be clueless. This saddened me. Seems like you guys were on the road. 😢
Even if I might not relate to the reading I still enjoy listening to you talk 😂 your reactions always make me smile. Sometimes I listen to you to fall asleep too! 🥰 Thank you for all that you do, thank you for being you~
You are the most empathetic of any of the readers I watch.
Thank u ❤😊
Totalt agree!! She’s really amazing, love to you all❤
Yes 👍
I believe in this journey and i love my DM unconditionally and he's an amazing and gentle human being. But i don't know if he'll ever feel ready. And it's exhausting, no matter how much you try to focus on your own healing and growth. You're literally intertwined at the point of recognition, forever. It's hard.
Yes it’s hard, I suggest you get your rest, or meet with your friends bc it will change focus for a few moments. I hope it’s helpful, because I know I feel it too.
😅Yes it's hard, I feel I have to go thru it- you can't go around it- it's smack dab in my life. 6:34
Hugs!
I agree…maintain no contact. Dont directly reach out.
TFs and high level soulmates demonstrate a lot of intense psychic energies between them! You could probably teleport objects/apports and the telepathic exchanges are off the charts. People thinks it’s just love at first sight and insane chemistry. It can be an incredible destructive process if there is no one to guide you through it.
I’m almost halfway through this video! 😇
I really appreciate your comment, you said so perfectly . 😊
I hope you have so much fun on your vacation! You deserve it! We are so lucky to have you in our lives, Kelly. Know that you are loved. Thank you so much for sharing your gifts with us. I’ll miss you while you’re gone 😅❤😊
Setting boundaries is such an important lesson for me to learn as it concerns her returning to me...yes, someone told me that there is no such thing as twin flames, but I never believed that..for me, your advice not to chase and reach out has been the most beneficial for me..not crazy, I do whisper to her at night before I go to sleep..everything in this reading is so resonant for me..I get so high after your readings(who needs drugs/), with all the hope it brings, that I have to tether myself to my couch to keep from floatting up to the ceiling
This reading was so mind blowing. I had been asking for clearer sign regarding what's happening in my TF journey. One day I'm all in & the next I'm ready to give up on my twin. As soon as you said, "I don't know why I just wanted to call you Cookie", I lost it. My twin calls me Cookie and I believe in 94 was the first time I ever laid eyes on him. Everything you said reasonates 1000%. I'm not sure if he is still involved with a karmic partner, but I'm certain that there are other karmic interferences such as family, friends & finances. One of your other readings resonated a lot as well because we've been doing this going on 11 years. There's a lot of fear & confusion. I know he'll come back but in what condition. I've always been the one to reach out but not this time. I'm tired of the cycles, it's draining. I don't need him to have it all together but I do need him to have a significant amount of healing done. My prayer is that we are finally coming to the end and will reach our final reunion soon. This reading renews my hope. Thank you so much Kelly! 💜
I gave him a journal
My sister passed a few months ago - she loved him and thought we should be together - we called her cookiemom!! She loved to bake cookies and sent them to my person
I agree. You need to throw that “contact me” card away‼️😉
I just finished an energy clearing ritual.🌟TF are very real. Thank you Kelly for this reading.
Thanks I need to do that too tomorrow, yes it is very real 🎉
I STRONGLY CLAIM & AFFIRM THE POSITIVE ENERGIES FROM THIS READING. ADITYA PROPOSED ME & I SAID YES. WE ARE NOW IN A HAPPY, HEALTHY, ROMANTIC, COMMITTED & PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP. SO MOTE IT BE. THANK YOU SO MUCH MOTHER UNIVERSE. I AM GRATEFUL FOR IT ALL.
You are The Best❣Love your sense of humor! i totally get your snippets of jokes (234 confirmation im crazy 😄). THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO! 🥰
I'm starting to understand the benefit of "not chasing". When in no-contact, if you give in, it will stunt their personal growth. Why would they have to work any harder? They've got you and now they can stay in their spiritually immature "stuck" position. The contrast provides clarity in their life on what needs to change. You sweetened the deal by being around but it made them lazy. With no contact, they'll set boundaries, make necessary changes, and if the love was real, come running back to you ASAP.
❤ I'm here when ever it's time❤
I am crazy right there with you! 😁💖
Your timing is impeccable! ❤
I cannot keep my own personal mental health going waiting indefinitely. I will take a big hit emotionally.
Your mental health takes priority over everything else and everyone else.
His brother always in the middle of us I did dream about him yesterday only the Universe knows better thank you for your reading sending you love thank you 🙏 ❤
I have been watching “avoidant” videos and one said two things to seem attractive to an avoidant (I have read that a lot of avoidants ghost) 1 - don’t chase, 2 - use risk assessment language when there is a conflict, (a lot of avoidants are leaders/ business people who understand how to deal with risk assessment, not so much about feelings)
Lol nevermind that last part about the birthday confirmation
Thank you for teaching about counterparts. I'm just learning, and my journey is really unique, but your readings help me. ❤
Before my daughter was commissioned into the armed forces ( 4 years ago), I gave her a journal. Before I gave it to her, I flipped through the pages and wrote exactly what I want to say to her right now. Knowing she would read it at some point on her journey. We haven't talked since she left, due to 3rd party meddling. Everything you say resonates with me and this situation.
On another note: I won 2nd place in a cookie contest for my county, and she loves my cookies.
I love this reading and thank you for having a sense of humor 😊
Yeah she does and she’s such a a lady with manners, and the humor is just a flow of it. I agree well said !
I am not chasing just detached working on myself, he knows how I feel about him and how meeting him triggered my spiritual awakening.
My avoidant TF suddenly discarded me 12 months ago. He ended up in rebound relationship - married a few months later, my intuition has told me it is toxic. Got a call from him last week of the blue saying he can’t deal with current situation (confirmed toxicity). He has organised to see a counsellor to “sort out his life”
Hello Divine Empress!! I always love your counterpart readings ❤ thanks again 🙏🏼
Claim ❤I deserve a heart to heart, eye to eye conversation with truth.
Absolutely resonates. I strongly and wholeheartedly claim communication n Union with my person n all the positive energies in this reading. Ty so so much.
Iam learning n growing.
Its parrot talk I've seen videos of owners do it with their birds. So cute
Thankyou Kelly really resonates. TYSM.X
Thank you Kelly 💚💚💚
Soooo ready to hear this ❤❤❤
Boy that is true we have seen all sides and have a unbreakable bond I do feel attached to them oh I am glad they think I am their match
If it's meant to be, he will find his way back to me.
Amen thank u lord jesus thats wat i needed to hear .
I adore my person, I long for him.
He did 😮
Thank u dear Kelly❤🙏😇
I made cookies 2 days ago and growing up my favourite pet I ever had was a dog made Cookie
Maybe reach out by manifesting through 5D
I love how excited you get when the Empress and Emperor card come out together 😊 🧡🩷
Saw 444 while listening to this reading 11:20 🎉🎉🎉 claiming all deservings ❤
Thank you 🙏 your readings gives me so much hope in my journey ❤
Spot on, thanks…😊
Thank you so much 💓 😊
hahah i would sign my emails and cards to him as cookie and that's my reddit name lol thank you :)
Believe me, there’s no way I’ll be contacting him. He ghosted me. Therefore, I moved on & have empowered myself. Am in Empress mode now. Empresses don’t chase they get chased instead. 😉
Thank you x
Ive been called cookie monster since i was a kid
You're amazing. I was chowing down on some cookies when you said that. Lol
Wat a reading last three days ❤
Thank you for the reading and most of them resonates. In my case it her sister stopping her and creating confusion. I am 💯 sure that we would get back together as I have been experiencing a spiritual awakening the next day she left me. Am in the journey towards healing. I was guided to journal my thoughts but I did not. Now am going to start. I guess we completed 12 yrs in our relationship and a renewal in our energies are happening. Love to the Universe and thank you angels for guiding us through. We are going to be together soon ❤❤❤❤ with my daughter Thooriga (her name means artist paint brush) love you ammu ❤❤❤❤
Thanks Kelly it resonates and there's one particular thing you said that made me know you're talking about my person and I. Surprised the shit outta me actually. You bet I believe in counterparts. She is either my twin or soulmate no doubt. Thank you God bless. Thank you God for your blessings and protection 🙏
Yes, don't reach out. Enjoy the life. If he is meant to be mine, he will be guided and back
My nickname in high school was Cookie 🥰
I had a personal reading done on him where he was "channeled". According to his higher self he's feeling like it's too late to make amends and is in fear of time wasted (for the both of us) but is in high regret for stepping away too soon after our encounter. So I did reach out as a way to indicate that he's not too late. I hope that wasn't a mistake but another reason I reached out was cuz there was mention that his life feels like it's falling apart and he's learning uncomfortable lessons, suffering in silence as he has burned bridges with others by pushing people away. My heart was going out to him because I myself have been going thru a lot. But my message to him, as usual was in a casual nature. Letting him know that he's been in my thoughts and that I hope he's doing well and to let him know it's not too late if he wants to get more acquainted with me. But if not, then I would wish him well without any bitterness or resentment towards him. I even told him a long time ago that I was willing to take things slow but I guess it is what it is.
You shirt is so cute
I'm done waiting I can't wait anymore I don't want to wait anymore
Men do not integrate emotion, the same way women do. That is why women think he’s needing someone to comfort him, and it falls flat. Because women and men do not process emotion the same way. Sometimes, loving someone isn’t “chasing”. It’s just showing love and compassion. But that doesn’t negate what the DM is going through, and how he processes it. They are just different than the DF. ☺️
Yay love offer!
Thanx u this resnates alot y a blessing may God bless u in abundance ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
For over a year now readers have been saying "He is trapped in his head. In a hell of his own making." Yes.
Coincidentally that happened today, I cut off communication weeks ago because of intrusion, karmic and toxic others joining in so enough......all of what you are saying resonates. I don’t chase but I was concerned that there is depression, ego, dependancy etc, etc. there is a soul connection but I let it play out, don't pry, let them sort it out..... the energy is always in my thoughts.....maybe it works both ways. I fear for his sanitysake. I did reach out after he did. Probably wrong, from what you are saying.
My intuition has been saying not to contact him, so I haven’t. But I’m not waiting for him, I’m working on myself and I do miss him and my intuition has been telling me it isn’t over, I’ve felt crazy because of how he treated me in the break up because it just isn’t him.
This reading made me remember a book I have read a long time back. It's called the language of flowers by venessa diffenbaugh. I'll re read it again today
White /Chocolate cokies crums strechin from the kitchen to the upsairs bedroom
Does it count that he calls me by my nickname, Tookie lol You opened with the exact thought on my mind…questioning our connection. We are actually back communicating after 2 years, and I can feel the growth on both ends. However, it’s still a journey, I have these moments. And I have to realign my thoughts. I have too much that I want to accomplish to get too caught up on how long or what action he’s taking. Be patient and positive, and focus on self. Naturally it’s working, me drawing him in, being focused on myself…I think lol
FYI…we’ve been doing this dance since 2007. Life was just happening. But we have always come back together somehow. I can admit it here, I love him unconditionally. But I love me more ❤
Kelly,why don't you do pick a card piles,I miss those and was looking out for those ❤
I just did the pendulum guide and divine said NO to reaching out
He is born in 94❤I was making oatmeal cookies homemade.when I turned on the reading. He left in October 18th 2018 due back January 18 2020 married her and their anniversary is in 3 days . I pray over them . If he needs to learn lessons with her I can not teach ❤ I loved him like none before and I have been alone ever since ❤
Have a wonderful vacation!
My sweet kitty Wally was previously named Mr. Cookie at the shelter, but I thought Wally was more fitting. Mr. Cookie sounded a bit pervy to be honest lol
As always, you’re right on target. I’m feeling detached and beginning to question this TF connection. Sept 4th May very well be significant in a possible betrayal. I agree with you about that card about reaching out to him. My intuition says otherwise. You’re right, it’s not easy knowing that he’s still involved with the karmic and just
focusing on Divine Timing. I’m just not sure how much more patience I have left in me to continue . I’m hanging on but becoming more detached as time passes. He just won’t let go though. Thanks Kelly. Light and love ❤️
He listens to Elvis a lot 😊 Big fan. I’ve been questioning today if he indeed is my TF because he is inconsistent in communication, breaks plans and agreements often. He is with controlling karmic, and he often gets bouts of depression. When that happens he doesn’t like talking & doesn’t reach out. He is struggling because feelings for me not going away, but he cannot act on them. I’ve been struggling to reconcile that he confessed to being in love with me yet he has no intention of putting the past behind him. We are in a bit of stale mar.
5:08 I honestly didn't know if I believed in the soulmate thing until he came back into my life but the moment we were reunited, I felt whole. And now that we're back in separation the hole feels even bigger.
I say good nite and I love him every night when I'm going to bed. 💕 So it makes me wonder if he does the same. This relationship is totally different in every way. And I love him ❤️ I don't know why he's not my usual type but I can strongly say he is my person. When we are together it's pure love and sparks 🥰 thank you my 🦋🦋❤️
He loves cookies and I would bring cookie dough with me when I went to his house so we could bake them after dinner
I'm processing to move on, I've been stagnant too long. In terms of contact, I can't. I've already been ignored so I am considering pulling the final rug.
I've been that low, that my cat bless her, has been looking for hugs, and I have been asking her to go away, I just couldn't deal with her. It helped me understand the notion of loving something but being unable to deal with them.
Feeling stuck in a mental prison is a thought that has resonated over the past couple of weeks. Not a place I want to be.
I clearly identify as a Kelly cookie😄🙏🏽🌸
He has new beginnings all the time because I do t count in his mind
My pride won’t have him back now. Although it would be fun to watch him try lol
He a Scorpio king of cups I’m Pisces queen of cups ❤
Amen thank you amen amen amen amen amen amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😮
Lol, no I'm not a cookie lol. I was sitting here thinking about monkey bread , cinnamon rolls, blueberry muffins, cheese cake,banana and zucchini bread, pumpkin bread
'94 was the year his parents divorced and they moved away causing our first separation for almost 30 years.
Like your shirt/top❤
Wow. I like chocolate chip cookies.
I love cookies too 😊😊😊
Thank you, we both share a birthday of 9/4. I found out on our birthday that he has been involved in another relationship. She posted it on social media. Now he lives with her. He has been constantly lying about seeing someone for the post 9 months.
His April birthday. & he flaked but, I am worthy
WORK.. oh, the masculine
Just watched the movie, Only You ❤️
I do want Max back
Beautiful reading as always❤❤ my empath ability and intuition says my twin flame will reach out soon and is still inlove with me but the small negative part of me says don't talk wet lol its been bout 28years .but the feelings that I've picked up on last month or so have been intense it was that strong I wonder for few minutes wat was happening I also getting signs every where and his name popping up every where and our song coming on etc plus my higher self felt that he was in karmic relationship and that he works at construction and alot of readers have been saying that lately. Anyways I love listening to ur readings they are brilliant ❤