"She broke up with me, she was everything to me please help"

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  • @j.r.3945
    @j.r.3945 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    “You *were* a junkie?? If you go back to her you still are” has gotta be one of the hardest bars I’ve heard all decade

    • @vs4lt2
      @vs4lt2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11


      🎤

  • @bockman55
    @bockman55 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    At the end of the day bro, nobody cares about your problems. You HAVE to take care of yourself first and foremost before you can ever have a healthy relationship with your future wife and your family. Take FULL responsibility for everything that happens in your life. It is YOUR fault. Own it and become better.

    • @Abrhm77
      @Abrhm77 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      external factors like family issues and stuff is not in your control but how u react to is in your control so what u said is 100% correct

    • @vrl9037
      @vrl9037 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I care. We care about other young men, don't be heartless

    • @Tyrone96Db
      @Tyrone96Db 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its not being heartless, you have to take responsibility, if you were involved you are responsible.@@vrl9037

    • @laserbeam444maddness7
      @laserbeam444maddness7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@vrl9037you’re missing the point brother. He’s trying to say that nobody is going to baby you and save you if you don’t want to get up and do the hard work. We have to take ownership of our own problems and fight it head on instead of thinking someone else will do the work for us.

    • @lc4979q
      @lc4979q 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vrl9037I also care, but as this other guy said, at the end of the day it's up to him to make a change in his life

  • @syedaliraahimnaqvi5297
    @syedaliraahimnaqvi5297 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    That bakwaas
    my guy 😂

    • @lefrondebassem7386
      @lefrondebassem7386 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      bakwaas ??

    • @Jeevan_onYT
      @Jeevan_onYT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hindi / punjabi / urdu way of saying 'rubbish' @@lefrondebassem7386

    • @xpmyt341
      @xpmyt341 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Means "nonsense" i guess...

  • @SmithyWesson
    @SmithyWesson 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +173

    Hamza unfiltered > Hamza

    • @iamnisc
      @iamnisc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It's like you get it when you level up

    • @GE0attack
      @GE0attack 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I'm gonna be honest even this channel feels like losing quality hes doing much of this promo and self circle jerking. Hes in his head too much. I still watch his video to see what he's doing because he's miles ahead of me.

    • @afriking
      @afriking 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GE0attackidrc bout the self promo, but the self jerking is true to an extend. Only time I hated the promo was when he gatekept info about dating then made fun of his fans for not buying his overpriced course

    • @snowywhether6366
      @snowywhether6366 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Both are good. Other channel's videos Are kinda funny to watch lol

    • @alidre2335
      @alidre2335 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GE0attack Yeah, obey your master hamza, silly boy.

  • @judekiv
    @judekiv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I needed this video months ago. I pray this guy listens to your message, I went through the same thing he's dealing with. It DOES NOT end well.

    • @regev1768
      @regev1768 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He did listen to him

  • @chaosfr3959
    @chaosfr3959 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    "you are useless" ? I have some flashbacks of a girl who was saying this kind of thing to me almost every day for a year.
    Stuck in school with her, I couldn't change class. When you're 16, shy and clueless about anything related to masculinity and self-improvement, in a degenerate society, it's so hard to stand-out and say what you think. I was thinking all of that was unforgivable. I was attracted until I see that side of her. Learn, and dream correctly about your future.
    That saved me from killing myself.

  • @filipnikolic6600
    @filipnikolic6600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Get back to the video

  • @JeffroBurnes
    @JeffroBurnes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years. They can work and are successful when both people commit.
    We now own a home, both have our own cars, grow most of our own food and shop whole goods from small local businesses, and have a 2 month old son.
    The journey is long, the rewards will be unlike anything you've ever experienced - especially if you come from a broken household like I did.

  • @Abrhm77
    @Abrhm77 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    BAKWAS🗣💯

  • @estebanhernandezvelasquez6618
    @estebanhernandezvelasquez6618 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You have to understand that there are women who simply are not for you. It doesn't matter how much you work and try. It doesn't matter if you are the most successful, handsome and rich man in the world, there will always be women who will not be interested in you.

  • @vladalex9556
    @vladalex9556 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    bro the thing that I regret the most from the last relationship (very similar story) is the fact that I wasn't steong enough to lave her because she behaved in a very wrong way towards me, before she eventually broke up for good. You will move on don't worry 💪

  • @epaminontas6972
    @epaminontas6972 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video Hamza

  • @BeweNNN
    @BeweNNN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    shit bro you went all out with this one

  • @Megatrenwastaken
    @Megatrenwastaken 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    On a level Samuel is bad for forbidding her from using those apps, he is controlling, he should’ve went out with a woman who wanted that lifestyle

  • @AliAbtahi-p9v
    @AliAbtahi-p9v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hamza could you upload more self improvement educational videos like twice a month because a lot of us still have a lot of stuff to learn.Left❤

  • @BecomingBetter-sz5ph
    @BecomingBetter-sz5ph 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guys, it’s been almost 2 years and I am still overthinking about her once in a while. Even though I am working hard to improve my career, and transform my physique, there are always flashbacks about her betrayal. She left me for another guy.

  • @whaatagain.
    @whaatagain. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "She was everything to you" right yeah
    That's the good part about self improvement
    Your life gets bigger and she doesn't
    You can have even more than her. Forget her she is not going to make a dent in your life when you are growing and she is not.

    • @panos7256
      @panos7256 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually she gradually becomes bigger. And heavier...

  • @Monkaii
    @Monkaii 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've had a similar experience and I needed to hear this. Holy shit bro. Thank you for this, Hamza.

  • @mauriciomagallanes9632
    @mauriciomagallanes9632 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WERE'S MY DO THE HARD WORK, SPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT... muaa 😆

  • @mahadwaqas_
    @mahadwaqas_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hands Down the BEST VIDEO Hamza Has ever recorded, way better than any course or book out there.

  • @JamesAustin-pp7tj
    @JamesAustin-pp7tj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One of my fav vids now. 100 percent honesty and no cookie cutter bs. This is the exact approach this young man needed in order for him to wake up.

  • @fergalg-mu4wd
    @fergalg-mu4wd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I got rejected today, i saw the truth behind it all and noticed my growth over the last few months and couldn’t possibly be more grateful

    • @reyhan7718
      @reyhan7718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hope youre okay bro

    • @fergalg-mu4wd
      @fergalg-mu4wd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reyhan7718i’m great man thanks bro 👍

  • @DeerNailEdits
    @DeerNailEdits 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I'm sorry it has come down to this, there's so much about you I'm going to miss. Goodbye". Then get back to work.

  • @saadmughal_
    @saadmughal_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That "Bakwas" got me bro 😂🇵🇰

  • @bisht2003rahul
    @bisht2003rahul 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    BAKWAS 😭💯

    • @Mefishere
      @Mefishere 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As a brown dude I got a serotonin release when he said bakwas

  • @ramenra8942
    @ramenra8942 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Long distance can work. My coach had a LD relationship , after they met ofc, and after 3 years they are getting married

  • @viktorhorvat-z1v
    @viktorhorvat-z1v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    yuo are my best youtuber

    • @KingAndrei7
      @KingAndrei7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Jesus Christ loves everyone. He died for us all and rose from the dead. All you have to do is accept Him as your Lord and Saviour and repent from your sins and He will save you and grant you eternal life in Heaven.

  • @somerhimpson5987
    @somerhimpson5987 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Hamza,
    I've been on self improvement for over 1½ years now. I've been hitting the gym consistently and meditating. Yet I feel I'm lacking something that holds everything together.
    Some days I'm full of confidence and other days I feel low and don't feel like doing anything.
    Now, I need your advice on my relationship. I'm in a long distance relationship with this woman for 9 months now. Everything was good but since 20 days or so we've been fighting a lot because we're not able to give time to each other (mostly she's the one busier than me the whole day doing her college work most of times).
    She used to text me a lot in the beginning of the relationship and it's not the same anymore, theres no texts or calls from her now and her efforts has decreased a lot from morning to evening but she calls every night and talks only about her day and cares less about how my day went.
    After seeing all this, I don't see a future with her now considering it's a long distance relationship and it's going to take atleast 3-4 years for us to get married.
    I'm not sure if I should break it off with her or I should compromise my expectations. I don't want to leave her because she is a very feminine woman and has all the qualities that I like. But the situations making it tough for us to go through it.
    Advices are welcome.

  • @scott5087
    @scott5087 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You will be just fine. Give yourself time and space. You will see more clearly in 20/20 all that was not right with the relationship. There could be some important signs that you were missing but left out

  • @Brother_In_Christ
    @Brother_In_Christ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not gonna lie, I wish I had Hamza shouting at me (in a caring way) 24/7. That's what a good dad does. Not abusive, but doesn't let you ruin your life.

  • @xenopis7862
    @xenopis7862 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hamza pulled out the "Baquaas bund kar" and I knew this was serious 😂

  • @udontknowme6064
    @udontknowme6064 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was in a similar situation last month, there was this girl in my coaching, she was good looking and objectively beautiful, one day I received an award on stage for scoring top marks, she thought I was cute and we started talking, she asked for my Instagram, I told her I don't use it and so we exchanged our phone no. We used to go on swings and stuff but I got busy with gym and studies thts when she showed me her true colour, she used to blackmail me telling me tht she is supposed to be my priority i told her I need some time because I have too much going on, there was this pressure building on me, so I talked to my best friend he adviced me to break up if it's interfering with my life. I grabbed my balls and told her to leave me alone and I told her tht I can't be emotionally available since I'm not at tht level. I was depressed for 3 days but I'm getting back at it

  • @kanishmod
    @kanishmod 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a fellow brown person, these Jeffrey actions are bakwas! 😂

  • @Codkinghim
    @Codkinghim 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    its always the gf friends (face palm)

  • @Tomasvideos94
    @Tomasvideos94 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Finally first for a Hamza vid after 41 secs but I can’t watch it I’m in class lol

  • @prod.kasper
    @prod.kasper 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Hamza. I just broke up with my girl and there were actually many wife quality traits that she had, but there are still things about her that I don't like and u don't think we're compatible. It's been hard for me but I need to accept the fact that we aren't gonna get back together and I need to move on, because it's not worth it.

    • @sammyseetharam5839
      @sammyseetharam5839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too bro do u have any tips

    • @HamzaFANPAGE-8
      @HamzaFANPAGE-8 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Could u tell me the red flags that made u want to break up. I really want to know what is considered bad in a woman

    • @prod.kasper
      @prod.kasper 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sammyseetharam5839 yooo no way, how recently did it happen to you? it's been a week for me and i think i'm healing, this video helped a lot actually. But whenever I go to school and see her talk to other guys it makes me feel kinda horrible. The girl I was with isn't a degenerate but she has really low self esteem and hangs out with the guys that do drugs sometimes. She's very feminine and wants a similar lifestyle to what i want but we're just not compatible.

    • @sammyseetharam5839
      @sammyseetharam5839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@HamzaFANPAGE-8 this deeply depends on your own values as a man. Some red flags for me were that she was very against changing herself and recognizing bad habits like smoking weed/ drinking. In addition to that I often felt like I carried a lot of the love in the relationship which I understand taking the masculine role is a part of but I also believe as men of self improvement we need our woman to be very in touch with the feminine nurturing side.

    • @sammyseetharam5839
      @sammyseetharam5839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@prod.kasper While my ex is slightly different than yours I understand your pain there’s nothing like seeing other men with her and questioning if they’re your replacement. However what I will say though is as men of self improvement we are constantly evolving and become more desirable and bigger forces in society. I’m sure this has happened to you but I know self improvement has helped me attract better women and it will continue to do that. Some advice I have for you is that those thoughts of wanting to be back with her will come and they’ll be strong but the best thing for you is to double down on self improvement and slowly get addicted to the process. I know when I was with her I fell off the wagon a bit in a few areas so for me right now my main focus has been improving my mental health, healing any trauma/ self doubt, and continuing to improve across many realms. I left her a month ago and this week my urges to reconnect were very strong however after some journaling and dopamine free time alone, I’ve realized all I’ve missed was physical intimacy with her. As a man dedicated to improving himself will this be hard to replace? I think not. Good luck brother

  • @TopG-ee9yf
    @TopG-ee9yf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Idk why but this part goes hard 29:55

  • @Raarya-wc4vc
    @Raarya-wc4vc 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    tbh i was in a long distance relationship for 2 months and honestly that shi won't work
    we planned to meet 3 years later but out of nowhere she told me she wanted a break and when i reached out i found her to be with someone else

  • @theLowestPointInMyLife
    @theLowestPointInMyLife 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the blackpill is coming for humzas subs
    its over for oofy doofy maxxers

    • @agastopiaz
      @agastopiaz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blackpill is dumb. Stop revolving your life around women there’s many other things in life than just women being attracted to you.

  • @spiritofjames8287
    @spiritofjames8287 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    15:02 💀💀💀😂

  • @NBYGamer
    @NBYGamer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    continue posting like this hamza🙌

  • @InisColumbHallewell
    @InisColumbHallewell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    does hamza like beans on toast

  • @MalikCalisthenics
    @MalikCalisthenics 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    15:19-15:34: meanwhile mfs who never got a gf

  • @ThatKidBobo
    @ThatKidBobo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A saying in my country is "Your friend tells you the bitter truth.".

  • @rasool2753
    @rasool2753 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really think you should upload a video describing traits, characteristics and personality of a 10/10 mother

  • @ranqi460
    @ranqi460 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro resetted my NoFap streak when mentioning the beautiful women, gg

  • @mememan6109
    @mememan6109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The more and more I realize how Hansel is saying he is 100% right about all of what he’s saying is the truth he is fucking right about what the fuck is going on with this guy and I believe you’re not gonna have a good time man 21:00

  • @atharvshrivastava
    @atharvshrivastava 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As J Cole said "don't save her , she don't wanna be saved" , my man leave her for the better. Never ever speak to her again.

  • @aethr9
    @aethr9 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro, find your purpose and get your life. Your value has nothing to do with a woman.

  • @lindeermig
    @lindeermig 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just cut off a girl because she gave other people attention when i was hanging out with her and she was not really giving me the attention i deserved. she is cute but i didn't fold just because i like like her. ill keep it short to just update u guys cause i fell i
    need the peace.

  • @musicalblockbusters2057
    @musicalblockbusters2057 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear this. I geniuenly did. I have someome similar in my life right now to whom im begging to stick around. This was the once push i needed to let her go. Thank you.

  • @D4C2Asad
    @D4C2Asad 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Focus on the video

  • @DAnielSaddique-iw7zd
    @DAnielSaddique-iw7zd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does Adonis protocol is free or u have to pay like u do with Adonis school.

  • @mememan6109
    @mememan6109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Siri, thank you for the knowledge you give us. I hope you do very well with your business man. 37:24

  • @ravirajgohil759
    @ravirajgohil759 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    'BAKWAS' ❤

  • @louisphilippepelayo7428
    @louisphilippepelayo7428 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seeing your ex right after a breakup has got to be the most low blow you can give yourself.

  • @soulofexistence
    @soulofexistence 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:49 sucks that happened to your ship man, it had a nice name. I hope you're able to sail once again soon

  • @chunkymonkey3919
    @chunkymonkey3919 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hamza got my dreaming about my future wife now

  • @DylanCanton
    @DylanCanton 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    30:46 marking my spot so I can watch later

  • @khalilh18
    @khalilh18 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Daaamn Hamza thinked way more ahead than we could imagine

  • @newbiegain117
    @newbiegain117 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This saves lives. It saved mine. I’m 29

  • @Koa_ihml
    @Koa_ihml 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    G

  • @tahaahmad-b
    @tahaahmad-b 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bakwaas, best word here (pakistan). We always use this word😂

  • @PlasterParker
    @PlasterParker 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lets go congratulations to the brother

  • @Venom-p2t
    @Venom-p2t 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    19:37 hamza bein hamza

  • @charmsly9506
    @charmsly9506 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    36:49 💀

  • @pruthvirajagnihotri5371
    @pruthvirajagnihotri5371 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    no way bro used "bakwas" lmao

  • @ts5942
    @ts5942 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that Hamza went from Broke > Wealth and people are seriously here asking him questions about their girl problems. honestly shows how pathetic the men of today are.

  • @younneschebli8609
    @younneschebli8609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍🏼

  • @Theboss97199
    @Theboss97199 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    comment for the youtube

  • @aritra3004
    @aritra3004 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bakwaas 😂😂😂 enjoyed that brotha!

  • @IntrovertMaxxing
    @IntrovertMaxxing 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very GG

  • @theranger4435
    @theranger4435 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    W video hamza

  • @andigaming9612
    @andigaming9612 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the best video of Hamza ever

  • @userde3511
    @userde3511 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    19:00 rip levi

  • @jarifbd
    @jarifbd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The last part made me smile

  • @perseveranceoverpower
    @perseveranceoverpower 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We need more men!!!!

  • @rickydavid7281
    @rickydavid7281 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    18:22 That was soo dark

  • @vezy5549
    @vezy5549 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro said bakwaas 💀

  • @M_Tax
    @M_Tax 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Thanks

  • @toshaanthakur7258
    @toshaanthakur7258 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bakwas🦍

  • @swekarl1114
    @swekarl1114 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great vid

  • @rickydavid7281
    @rickydavid7281 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bakwass Lets gooooooo

  • @DAnielSaddique-iw7zd
    @DAnielSaddique-iw7zd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do u have to pay for hamza protocol

    • @mrjaco5065
      @mrjaco5065 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no you don't have to pay for the Adonis protocol. Its on "Adonis Gang" on Skool

  • @MrTaker_
    @MrTaker_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😤😤😤

  • @Mark72727
    @Mark72727 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos are very inspiring. You really change the current generations!

  • @muralikrishna8378
    @muralikrishna8378 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro do main account videos

  • @muralikrishna8378
    @muralikrishna8378 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro stop this shit😭

  • @DanielButt
    @DanielButt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watch honest wqffle videos about you. Bro you did surgery to your ears to be more "Alpha"?

  • @DanielButt
    @DanielButt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro is it true that all you do is dexieve 15 year olds and try make as much money as possible?