The TikTok Squatters Drama Is Taking Over The App
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A woman may not want to abruptly say someone is not welcome if they don't want to be attacked by men they don't know
So true!
But then again she did mention that she was ok with the random dude staying at her place while the friend went home. That doesnt scream feeling unsafe at all or having your friends back. That sounds like the plan was for them to stay the first night.
No, that sounds like "I don't mind to let this guy (whom ive known a bit through the day,) sleep on the couch for one night so he doesn't have to sleep on the street" or whatever. @@tahliachapman1010
Oh be quiet. So letting these men jump her fence was a better idea? Lmao
Exactly
I think it's worth considering that two young women, when faced with a group of belligerent drunk men, will act accommodating and polite until they are safely away from the group.
100% true. It is scary.
Yup! It’s called the fawn response.
Not trying to take away from what you're saying at all, just want to say, as a dude at 5'3 I would probably do the same.
So let's let them in so they can attack us....huh?
So let's let them in where they can do whatever they want to us and our stuff....huh?
That part about him showering and cooking breakfast is very relevant because it shows audacity.
So their not supposed to eat or shower the whole time their there?
@@Naturegurl124 are you one of the guys or their girlfriend or something? you're posting this kinda shit on all kinds of comments
@@Naturegurl124 The way they did it was the problem, cause if you're a guest you still need to be polite and have manners in these situations. the way they just used things without asking and just how they did things without even consulting them ESPECIALLY when you use someone's hygiene products or food
@@CitrusSap The only thing they did was cook some eggs that they supposedly didn't pay for but we don't even know who bought those eggs? Maybe she didn't buy them either? And I have no clue how she knows what he used in the shower or not? That's why I'm calling bs on this whole story
@@Naturegurl124 you can tell what someone uses in a shower based on where they’re left and HOW they’re left. I know when my siblings use my stuff it’s not hard. Also the apartment is hers, she very obviously bought the eggs. Why are you defending people who shouldn’t be defended?
"We got locked out again." implies you're not wanted.
He literally says the first night they could get their stuff. That means you aren’t allowed night 2 for sure.
"we were very respectful and kind" YOU SHOWED UP AT 4AM. TWICE. theres nothing respectful about that.
Yeah I was kind of thinking the same thing especially if they see all the lights out and know everybody's asleep but the guys still continue to wake them up
@@GalacticPossum They really do, I completely agree. One looks like he just woke up, having slept through English class, the second one is confused and has no idea his hat is on backwards. Dude, the 90's called and would like you to time travel back to that era and from there you can both continue on to Bedrock where it's okay to call them gals. Let's try "women" or perhaps just use her name.
@@sunnysday59 as a 90's kid i actually feel insulted you would lump all 90's in with them entitlement wasnt something we 90's kids did it was the generation after us that did that. if anything they are trying to "borrow" the 90's look and are not pulling it off very good if you ask me lol it would be more accurate to say they are generation mimics.
We’re they suppose to sleep on the street bc you also can’t get a hotel at that time of the night but okay
@@CRAZyLittleMeMe are you fcking slow?? You plan ahead! Just like they bought tickets ahead of time they should have acted like grown adults and figured out where they were staying. You have the mentality of a 2 year old
Some men will really show the most abhorrent behavior and then say "Well no one TOLD me (a grown man who should know how to function in society) that we couldn't come into your house free of charge and eat your food and drink your alcohol and USE YOUR DAMN BODY WASH, so how was I supposed to know?" Like what?! And then the playing victim... this behavior is so weird. Semi-good looking people always think they can get away with stuff on Tiktok bc they get just a little bit of hype and then become the worst people you've ever met in your life.
But still crying over bodywash is petty lol I wouldn't make a big deal about something so small and stupid
@@Naturegurl124 dude it's violating. These people are disgusting to help themselves to someone else's private possessions without their consent
@@OpqHMg It's bodywash 😆 you can't be serious? Plus how would she even know what he used in the shower or not? 🤨
@@Naturegurl124 my body wash is expensive af i’d be pissed 😂
@@Naturegurl124you can tell especially if it's the expensive.
“This is out of character for me!” Every dude trying to avoid accountability.
literally, i instantly checked out
They are mad that they have gotten caught and have consequences and not that their own actions put them in this situation.
His wording was very telling - he said "those of you who know me know that it doesn't align with my character". That wasn't a denial. He wasn't saying, "I don't do stuff like that", he was just saying "my friends wouldn't expect this of me". And, somehow, I think those people who know him well would fully expect douchey behaviour from him.
Never comes with like...admiting fault
@@andysmith1996 right? And idk what I’m supposed to think when he does the same thing 2 nights in a row, even after his behavior was brought up directly the first day. I think his character comes through bright and clear but internet clout is a hell of a drug.
The first guy seems like the type that does shitty things all the time, then goes "I apologize, let's just move on" every time
“Let’s just get along” 😂
And the second one seems like he never apologises for anything.
"I was just joking, you shouldn't take everything so serious"
Yeah... I know we know very little but they seem the type of guys who are "don't be so sensitive, it's a joke" type of deal.
These dudes are text book manipulators
"We were never made to feel unwelcome." That's not really a defense for anything. It just makes them sound clueless.
I love this sentence because it was paired with "we had to jump the fence twice because we were locked out. "
@@lucar2293”Man, that fence entrance is super odd! They should fix how hard it is to get over!” - Them, probably
do they not understand that "niceness" doesn't mean they're invited to stay? that people can be kind, chill, vibing you could say, but neither expect nor want you to stay the night? "feeling welcomed" is not the same thing as BEING welcomed. like just because i FEEL as though someone likes having me around, doesn't mean i can expect them to be chill if i just went and made myself comfy in their guest bedroom having not been explicitly invited to stay the night.
call it a stretch (but i don't really think it is) but consent is the exact same way. doesn't matter if they seem to like you, doesn't matter if they agreed to let you do something one time, you need to get a definitive "yes" EVERY time. she let you stay one night? cool, she consented to that. she locks the door and never verbally (or via text) tells you the door's unlocked so you can stay over another night? she didn't consent to another sleepover. all the niceness in the world doesn't mean "yes". only "yes" means "yes".
That's exactly what I was thinking 😂
@@Darkfyyreconsent is not a stretch at all. The dudes read very "wdym we were bad, we didn't even assault her" to me. The threat of assault is like... why having random dudes in your home is scary.
Using a girl's shower and making breakfast without asking is partner only type shit. They knew it was all violating.
“I’m sorry you feel that way” is 100% a manipulative tactic to make her seem crazy and to not actually apologize for what they did.
If the neighbors even complained about them banging on windows and stuff then clearly, they aren't invited. I don't believe a word he is saying. And I'm sorry but on what planet do you stay a whole weekend in someone's house rent free and eat their food completely free??? gimme a break.
Yeah, I agree to a point. Except I live in a college town and this is like 100% legit "frat guy" behavior. The part that trips me out is the fact that she LET THEM BACK IN. That doesn't align with common sense. I don't know why if your 100% telling the truth on the internet, why you would let them in AGAIN. That doesn't compute.
If it’s a friend or family member then yeah, you shouldn’t have to pay but someone who is more or less a stranger, there needs to be communication. Plus if I was even staying with my parents and wanted to make some eggs, I would ask them if I could use their eggs, not just go ahead and fry them up
@@Dascia2 They had their stuff in there, still. If I had to give her the benefit of the doubt, I'd say they probably did something like that. Keep manipulating the situation in to extending a single night invite in to a weekend stay.
A lot of people that are either timid or overly polite will stay polite for a LONG time in that kind of situation, which is exactly what manipulators hope for.
@@Dascia21. They had their stuff inside her apartment I’m pretty sure, and 2. Some people don’t want confrontation lol, I am a person like that. I can definitely imagine myself letting someone like that back in, just so it won’t start anything. Although now stories like this is making me find my voice lol.
A@@Dascia2
If they were invited to “stay for the weekend” why did they then “organise another place to stay” and just “needed their stuff”? If they - as he puts it - felt welcomed and had been invited to stay the whole weekend, then finding somewhere else to stay wouldn’t have been needed. The first guy’s story made no sense and has a few contradictory statements. I believe her.
Great point
Oh I see. He thinks he's so attractive and irresistible that people will let him do whatever he wants
And re: tiktok comments he’s being proven right
Yeah that’s exactly it, he’s probably never been told no in his life
Typical entitled dude behavior
That's what I'm getting. The lady said that they thought she was mad because she wasn't getting enough attention from them which seems to check out with the rich handsome guy tik toker entitlement
Exactly 😂😂😂
You know her roommates boyfriend told them it was OK to stay there. He just neglected to tell the girls. I would bet money on it
i literally thought i must have missed something bc they didn’t talk abt him at all, why isn’t she mad at the roommates boyfriend and making him deal with??? wouldn’t that be ur first step?
@@steph15036some people have no common sense
Doesn't sound like he lives there so he can't give permission for people to stay.
@steph15036 He wasn't the one making it a problem really, the guys were. It was made clear they weren't wanted and that the bf had no right to give permission. Granted she may not have known for sure if the bf did do it.
@@Ashbrash1998 oh yeah i know he’s not the cause of the trouble and he might not have been the one to tell them to stay! i was just saying that if u have a conflict with ur roommate’s boyfriend’s friends, the logical first move is to ask your roommate’s boyfriend to step in and speak with them lol. i think it’s really really weird that he wasn’t involved in solving this issue (according to her vid), bc he’s the only one in the story who has ties to both groups.
It sounds like the roommates BF told them they could leave their stuff there for the night, and they took that invite and ran with it.
That's what I'm thinking. The bf gave them the ok without checking with the people actually renting the place and then wanted the girls to be the bad guys and tell them no.
Right! And wasn’t the roommates boyfriend how they even knew where the house was? Why else would they be there at this random house near Coachella lmao
Dude bro even said the door was unlocked so they “could come in and get our stuff”!!!
@@rebelks88Exactly what I just commented! He slipped up there. Why would they be getting their stuff if they're staying???
the BF that doesn’t even seem to pay rent or stay at HER place and had no right to give them permission anyway😂. he’s just as bad as they were in my opinion.
"Are you mad because we didn't give you enough attention" 🥴
I almost threw up 🤢
Oh those guys are FOR SURE in the wrong. The moment he said "it breaks my heart" the giant red flag went FLYING up the flag pole at warp speed.
But I feel like she is being dishonest still.
@@Naturegurl124support your argument
@@Naturegurl124the fact you’re up and down in this comment section responding to almost virtually every comment defending this disgusting men is actually astounding, how can you be wrong every single time you choose to comment? It’s almost impressive
@@Naturegurl124it kinda just seems like you’re a fan of these tiktok boys and that’s why you’re defending them lol
@@kaaaaaaaaks maybe they’ll notice them defending the boys 💕 /s
“She took it to social media” I would’ve taken it to the police.
if you were a single woman out there and some rando dude kept jumping the fence and knocking on the window I would be terrified and it was so entitled. BLEAH.
I don't understand why she just didn't go and call the cops
@@sebastianmosqueda5959 The video does explain what happened with the police that was called: The men lied to the police and the police took their word for it despite the truth being the opposite.
Multiple random men that are very drunk and probably on drugs.
@@sebastianmosqueda5959 yeah because the cops are always so quick to respond and take people seriously.
I don't know what it's like in America, but here I would definitely call the cops and I would never open the door to them at 4am. Even if they do have a gun they aren't going to shoot it through a door.
“Brandon said the door’s unlocked and we can come in and GET OUR STUFF” dude just outted himself on his lie that they were invited to stay the weekend. 😂
He literally said "we were told the door was unlocked so we could come get our stuff." Not go to bed, not use our stuff. That's not how you talk about a place you originally thought you were staying.
As Judge Judy says… ‘If you tell the truth, you don’t need to have a good memory’. In other words… telling the truth means you don’t need to remember your ‘story’ every time you tell it.
Literally what I said. His ass messed up
13:25 for anyone looking 😂
These guys are incredibly privileged and basically weaponizing that they’re “nice guys”. If she was afraid of them, what do you think she’s going to do while they are in her house? A woman has to be nice to a man if they feel their safety is at risk.
I feel like these guys purposely took advantage because they thought they could away with it. They also did not bother to change their behavior after the first incident because they were weaponizing their willful incompetence.
Yeah, sure it hurts your heart that she posted a TikTok. I’m glad she had TikTok at least because they deserved to be called out.
Nice guys ™
They aren’t nice guys, they think they are granting us the privilege of their hotness. I completely agree they took advantage of those women.
This isnt squatting. This is breaking and entering
The fact that they didn't have the woman's phone number to call her and ask to unlock the house makes it pretty obvious they weren't invited to stay there.
The second guy is giving "my dad's a politician" vibes.
"We were never made to feel unwelcome." It's almost as if being a woman being woken up by multiple men going over a fence trying to get into your house will make you feel unsafe and you're trying not to get a bunch of men to assault you.....
Do you know why i don't believe the guys? Because they keep calling the woman that rents that place a "girl." It's very belittling. It's not as bad as "female" but not respectful.
That's the dumbest thing I ever heard...! I don't get why women have a problem with being called a female either? It's a technically correct word and we call men "males" and it's not a problem
Infantilsing, yeah.
@jadecoolness101 Why is calling a women "female" infantilising tho?? It's a proper term to use for a woman. It's not like the word "baby" or something
@@Naturegurl124 female isn't infantalizing. It's more dehumanizing.
@@Naturegurl124 female isn't infantalizing. It's more dehumanizing.
These men are not understanding that they are STRANGERS overstaying their welcome. Why are you so entitled you can sleep at an airbnb someone else paid for.
These guys are full of s**t. There are always guys like this. I dealt with them when I was a kid and it's always some girl who has to just deal with it cause they don't feel like they can say no in certain situations and it sucks.
I don’t blame the girls one bit either. It’s always some giant dude that could murder her in one hit.
Also them not having an AirBNB of their own but tickets to Coachella, this was their plan all along. To find girls that find them cute and just crash at their place to stay.
@@callahardy8639this, so many dudes who do this sh*t who go to Coachella…. I’ve heard this same story from a dozen other girls
So they were told they could stay or they where not? It sounds like they were telling the truth if they were told they could stay because some girl couldn't say no regardless
Learn to say no then
"We were nice to her, we got along, we were having fun"
So? Doesn't entitle you to stay in her home???
I'm getting major creep vibes. These are the types of dudes to coerce a women into Relations and then justify it because "well! You didn't say no! I FELT completely welcome!"
Even if someone did allow you to stay at theirs its disrespectful to show up at 4am and expect things to just be open for you and feel like you can wake people up to get it. And the fact that they had another place to stay but felt entitled to wake those poor girls up to get their stuff at the same time instead of just going to bed at the other place and collecting their stuff in the morning is just fucking disgraceful. Doesnt matter if they were allowed to stay or not (and my opinion is they werent) their behaviour was inexcusable and they should have just applogised rather than try and 'defend' their entitlement
You mention the part where the one guy makes it clear that he is lying and can't keep his story straight. If he was told it was cool for them to stay the entire weekend, then why did they find another place to stay for the second night?
@@mariannastahl4174 This was exactly what I was thinking, it sounds to me like they tried to extend this stay more and more and then she finally had enough and he didn't have a choice but to go anywhere else. He was using her kindness against her by trying to get free accommodations out of it and when he was called out he tried to make it seem as though there was nothing wrong and everything was fine, but he gave no evidence of that.
Whether the whole gun thing was a sob story or not, it does seem like he was guilt tripping her and manipulating her and who else was staying there.
“Under the impression” is never confirmation. Always get confirmation to be sure before you act
Yes, and for reasons like these, get it in writing. And then double check & ask about boundaries: "Just wanted to be sure that you're still OK with me staying at yours for the weekend, do you have any rules I need to follow, like of we separate at some point is there a time you want me back before?" And they would have been covered on all angles.
The fact they say "under the impression" and "what I heard" implies they have no receipts because they don't exist. I suspect the roommates boyfriend has some hand in it all, tbh. Like he said something like "Oh yeah, my gratitude has a place, I'm going out for the weekend, you can totally crash too." If you didn't hear it from the person who's paying the rent, then it doesn't count.
@@hawkeyescoffee6399 It could be that way to be completely honest, but even then, why would she want to be staying with a bunch of strangers that she hardly knew? If that was the case he should have asked her if she was okay with it instead of just going along with it before he invited them. I feel like they would have had a key or they would have stuck together if they WERE allowed to stay there so they could make sure everyone got in okay, So personally I don't think they had anyone's permission, they just kind of knew of it and tried to invite themselves over.
I hate how squatting isn’t even considered illegal. That’s the scariest thing in my opinion.
Right?! It’s terrifying!
I remember when my teachers taught us about squatting. They framed it as this great thing where homeless people would take abandoned buildings that were owned by big greedy corporations who were just letting the buildings rot, and that if the homeless people stayed for long enough they would legally own the building. Since then, I’ve only heard about Squatters squatting in one building that isn’t a house, and the rest of the time they’re squatting in middle class homes and hurting the little guy, not the big mean corporations and their abandoned buildings.
@xxstroyerthe weirdo in my mind is the Ezequiel Zayas story. Like that story in itself makes me terrified of people squatting in homes.
Then when you go to court to try and evict them they claim squatters rights
Seen too many episodes of nightmare tenants, slum landlords to see what kind of damage squatters can do to a property
Sometimes even doing more damage on the day of their eviction so the owner has to fork out more money in repairs and replacing stuff
In the scariest part is they throw the home owner in jail.... even if you have the deed right in your hands
Personally I think the BF should take accountability for his mates!! Technically this would never have happened if it wasn't for him. If they were my mates that were gatecrashing, I would tell them where to go and stand up for the house he invited them into x
@@jangminoonasounds like typical informer fkboy boyfriend things.
But Markie, they did have a plan for living arrangements before coming to Coachella. THIS was the plan. They were just hoping to latch onto another person or group that already had a place to stay and then either charm or bully their way into staying with them and it worked 🤡.
And I feel like alot of people actually do that for things like Cochella too, which is probably why they started this behavior since it's normal
The entitlement is insane. You seriously think you can go to a stranger's rental, stay for free, come and go at all hours, eat their food, use their utilities, etc. etc. and not pay a dime? Wow. These tiktok boys are living on another planet.
I trust the girl more bc if the place was locked TWICE when they said they were "allowed to be there" then that is a solid way of saying you don't want someone else being there
(Edit: Eyo guys unless you're gonna argue with me pls stop doing that below my comment)
I don't trust her story because it doesn't make any type of sense. Why even take this to social media in the first place??
Even if they WERE - if you're told you can stay the night somewhere, that does not mean you show up at 5am banging on the window to be let in. Did they expect the door to stay unlocked all night? Insane behavior.
@@Naturegurl124 sometimes people like to bitch about bad things that happened to them, elizabeth
@@Naturegurl124 I get that but both sides could agree that the doors were locked and they jumped the fence, so I'm going off of that
@@StoryBird2 Ok but there are many reasons for that. They got home too late, they don't feel safe with an unlocked door, 1 person has a habit of locking doors at night ECT... That doesn't prove that her version is correct at all
I once experienced a band helping themselves to my food, shower & sleep on my furniture without even asking me. So I 100% believe her side of the story more than his.
I went to a bar and chatted up a small band that was on tour. They asked if I knew of an afterparty & my sister just so happened to be having one at our house with her friends.
Next thing I knew one of was taking a shower & 2 others were passed out in my bed. My sister and I were cowards so we did nothing. Neither of us slept that night. In the morning they ate more of our food, didn’t say thank you and left a huge mess in the bathroom.
We were 21 & 23 at the time, & this happened in Utah.
Holy crap! Ya I believe her too.
The audacity! Oh my gosh! I would have RAGED if someone was in my bed
Honestly, this shit happens even if you weren’t raised Mormon. You guys aren’t cowards at all. You probably did the smartest thing possible by not sleeping and watching each others backs. Some men and people in general just have no clue of how invasive, rude, and entitled they are and it’s so gross. I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you and your sister made it through and no one tried to hurt you guys or do anything bad. ❤
Didn’t even say thank you AND left a mess? Who tf raises these animals to treat strangers who (unwittingly) welcome them to their home
@@GetElevatedWithMe I wish I had raged as well. Although if it happened to me now, with the developed, “you will not disrespect me attitude”, I have now, I would have called the police and let everyone know what self-centered, entitled, disgusting people the are.
Coachella has just become some celeb and influencer music fest most of us regular people no longer care about it for the most part so most people don't talk about it much tbh
That’s what I’m thinking too
Nah they had some absolute bangers this year, Aquabats, Blur, Jungle, Sublime it's just that the people who go are all influences
@@Mattchupichue Precisely what I said...
@@mr.froglegs yeah again that's exactly what I said I never said good band don't play it I said regular people as in not rich don't give a f about it so no one really talks about it....
@morganaannabelllee9506 I just don't support their moral obligations. Why do we continue to support these things when it's been proven that the land owner donates money to Anti-Gay foundations.
It really sounds like these guys are not used to being told no….how could you possibly feel welcome in a home that locked you out? Make it make sense
First thing he said was "we were told we could come get our stuff" that to me doesnt say we're allowed to stay here...
These guys aren't squatters. They're freeloaders, and this is an old story. If anyone finds themselves having prime digs somewhere, you're gonna get the "oooh, can I crash," or "my friends just need a place for the night" bs. Most of them are cool and crash, are respectful of the place and your things and get out when they say they're leaving. But then you get those who have no respect for your things at all and just make themselves at home and don't do what was promised. If you set up boundaries or tell them to leave, they act like "wow, I've been so nice and you said I could stay," acting flabbergasted as to why you're suddenly being such a meanie. I had this happen to me several times in my life and I had to put my foot down and kick them out. Then they want to act like I was the bad guy. I had a crash course in "Why IDGAF." You learn how to say no with no remorse after a while or set strict boundaries when you do allow it, and your life gets so much more peaceful without these gits in it.
Yeah coming back at 5am seems like something that needs to be established beforehand and clearly nobody is gonna wanna be woken up nor will they just leave the keys with strangers. Dumb frat boys.
If someone told me "you have to let us stay here bc we're scared and a gun was pulled on us at a party" im just calling the police - aka the people that should be dealing with that sort of situation. Wah. So far from being my problem it's not even funny. Screw off, dude.
They look like the type of guys who hook up on tinder JUST so they have a rood over their heads for the night
About the nurse "renting" the house, it sounds like she's a traveling nurse. (My mother does something similar) Usually, when you are traveling for work like a traveling nurse, the company that you work for will provide you somewhere to stay while you work for them, you can even say that you will find where you want to stay and the company will give you money to cover the rent. The fact that the guys had the neighbors calling is SUPER bad and can effect her job even
She said she's a traveling nurse in the beginning so you are correct
The audacity for this guy to tell the girl to get along when he's the one who crashed the original plan in the first place LOL whether he got the okay to stay for the first night or not, him and his group weren't apart of the plans in the first place. He can't be telling her to get along when she didn't invite them
Then she should have said it wasn't cool for them to stay from the get go
@@Naturegurl124neither girl said it was fine for them to stay EVER. You shouldn’t have to tell people “hey you know you’re not staying here right?” when no one asked them to stay in the first place.
Right away... "What we heard..."
From who? They need to be specific, not just give vague, airy answers. You don't get to stay somewhere because a random unrelated guy on the street said you could stay. You need the appropriate person to give you permission.
Yes. And it also implies that it doesn't really matter what you _said_ but this is what we _heard_ eg. she locks the front door, meaning people are not welcome to come over at night...he hears "no one made me feel unwelcome, but there was a clear invite to please hop the fence to wake me up so that I can let you in at 4am" .
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Did they try knocking on the front door? Based on how he tells the story, their first reaction to finding the door locked was to jump the wall and knock on her window. If he had knocked on the front door first, you'd think he would've mentioned that he tried that, and no one answered. Jumping the wall and knocking on her bedroom window would be wild no matter what, but it would be incomprehensible if they hadn't even tried knocking on the front door.
Right he's just a drunk entitled club boy
It seems like the front door is like not the same part of the house as the bedrooms. So noone would hear a knock.
@@jayedith9398Then why not use their cell phone to call people first?
@@jayedith9398 but did they even try? My childhood home has the bedrooms on a different floor than the front door, and my bedroom is the farthest away and on the opposite side of the house, and I could always hear when someone was at the door. It would be one thing if they had knocked multiple times and given time in between each knock for someone to answer the door, but their story makes it sound like they jumped the wall and knocked on her window without even trying to knock. That is not normal behavior. Especially the second time, which they did AFTER she explicitly told them not to do that. And they didn't even TRY knocking, on the off chance that someone would hear it and get the door? That just displays a truly astounding lack of awareness of really basic boundaries. Even if his story was 100% true, he was a major tool in that situation and the fact that it's the story he recorded and posted to tiktok means that he thinks it potrays him in a favorable light, which is even worse.
@@bad_bau I dont know if they tried. Im just saying the front door is not in the same area. I actually meant it could be in a different wing/ building than the bedrooms. To be real here, I dont care if they tried to knock on the front door. That's the least important thing in the accumulation of bs they did.
Who tf waits until 4am to try and get their stuff from someone else's home? That's plain disrespectful. If you know you need to get your stuff, you either go at a decent hour, or get it the following morning.
AirBnB squatters is not that shocking since it happened before! “A Brentwood woman, who lived in paradise rent free for 570 days, finally left a rental property after a long legal battle with the landlord. The tenant, Elizabeth Hirschhorn, rented the guest house from Dr. Sascha Jovanovic more than two years ago, finally moved out on Friday, according to the LA Times.” That was a year ago! But it took 2 years for them to leave!
I get what you mean but "happened once before" doesn't really mean something is common
@@lilithium3940yeah you right that’s my bad on wording. edited it to make more sense statistically.
@@lilithium3940the fact that it keeps happening makes it common😂
But this isn't even what happened here. These women allowed the men to stay in their house even though they were uncomfortable. This isn't squatting. This woman could and should have called the police rather than opening up the glass door to entitled jerks who think it's fine to act like this. Throw their suitcases out on the curb. There's no reason to let people disrespect you and make you uncomfortable in your own home. Say no and throw them out. If they refuse to leave, call the police. None of that happened here.
@@racheeerach true but that doesn't change the facts about what the OP posted.
first he says in his reply, i was told i could stay, then contradicts himself and says at 4am we went to get our stuff. why go get stuff if you were told you could stay?
Bingo
My family dealt with squatters by leading the building to me.
We couldn't evict them via the cops because it was "civil" not criminal as they claimed they had a lease.
Our courts were over a year backlogged.
So, now that it's civil and I have the more legitimate lease Im in my rights.
I moved in and held a house warming party with my entire highschool grade 12 graduation class over 60 kids.
Everything was stolen. And trashed.
Cops showed up squatter is throwing threats and his fake lease around like it's the words of god.
I explained to the cop this guy has no buissnes in MY house.
Here's the lease.
"Sorry mister squatter this is a civil matter, take em to court"
Done and done they felt unsafe with a football team sleeping on tbe couch lol.
Squattong is trespassing...its a crime and should be treated as such
This is AMAZING and I am calling it now, this is going to keep happening and eventually squatters won’t want to squat anymore lest they come home to some sweaty, naked man on their couch asking if they’re suuuure they don’t want to stay a bit longer 😂
That’s amazing that you were able to do that!!!! I feel so freaking bad for all the older folks who this happens to who have no one like you and all your friends to help them (old people are being left homeless because squatters are stealing their homes) :c But I’m really glad you were able to resolve the situation in this case!!
I was once legitimately homeless. Squatters cause the utmost disgust in me because even when I was forced to sleep in a cemetery in winter I’d NEVER break into someone’s home and steal their safety from them. So I just feel actual visceral repulsion when I see all these squatters who could actually afford rent in their own home but are too disgustingly lazy and entitled so steal other peoples homes instead :c
Praise be to OP
Sadly, she is telling the absolute truth. We had a woman in St. Louis. That squatters moved in on while she was on vacation for a weekend. They stripped her entire house of all of the copper stole Everything valuable she had. In cops would do nothing because like she said. It's a civil matter. They don't know who's telling the truth. If you don't personally move in and make them uncomfortable, you will have to deal with the court system that takes months and lose thousands. It's absolutely fucked.
I have a feeling there are a whole bunch of women & short term rental owners that have a whole bunch of similar stories about these two guys. This is their schtick because they get away with it. Unfortunately because this girl is the first to come out with it, she’s going to get the heat. The roommates boyfriend needs to no longer be allowed in the house. Period.
I can easily see "can he crash here tonight" being interpreted by her as "he'll stay for the night and then leave" and by him as "I can stay for the weekend and that saves me needing to find another airbnb." I think her interpretation is the objectively correct one
nahhh bro, just the fact that they opened her fridge and ate her food, did it for me.
I have friends that ive known for 10+ years, and i STILL won't open their fridge, even though ive been told i can.
taking a shower without asking is even worse.
wouldnt be surprised if they "borrowed" a tooth brush too. gross.
Ikr and using products is a such a weird thing to do wo asking, i always ask before using me products from anyone ik so doing that to a friend of a friend is crazy
None of this makes any sense. Go into the room…bag up all their stuff…throw it outside on the front porch. Then call the cops, explain what is happening and tell them all of their belongings are on the porch. There is no reason for them to step foot inside and if they do, you’ve already alerted police and will call them immediately.
If they have squatters rights, it’s illegal to throw their stuff out
@@naturalnaela They don’t. It was a 48hr rental. There isn’t a squatters rights for that. What are they gonna do? Call the cops? The cops will simply tell them it’s a civil issue. By the time they file a squatters rights lawsuit…the weekend would have been over and the girls returned to their own city/state.
This is not squatting. This is breaking and entering
Maybe they were upset that they didn't hang with them at Coachella
@@naturalnaela Squatters don't have rights. They are criminals.
i feel like absolutely no one is holding them accountable. i promise you thats why they feel that they can get away with this, bc their whole lives, they have. they disgust and repulse me to such a degree. they deserve to never be shown kindness again.
Ugh I agree. As soon as I saw that first guy start talking I knew what we were dealing with 🙄
I think the other woman's boyfriend is the most at-fault in this situation.
I 100% believe the boyfriend told them, or at least implied, they could stay there without asking his girlfriend or her roommate (Ashley). The fact that he forced his gf make the decision on whether to let them stay overnight, with them standing right there, after they'd been threatening her roommate, tells me everything I need to know about that dude
One thing that is not being talked about enough is the fact that once 3 men are in your home it’s obviously going to be second nature to make them feel welcomed because women are trained not to antagonize men like this. Who knows what they are capable of?
Honestly, many men would avoid a beef with drunk, non-hostile frat boys who will leave of their own accord in the morning. It doesn't matter if these men would have just left if she'd just stood up to them, it's rational behaviour to avoid escalating the situation. It's even more dangerous for women because of what some guys like feel entitled to.
When someone tells you what a nice person they are: guess what. Nope.
Threatening her with ‘I’ll tell the world you left me out in the street?’
Boy, you would be talking to the cops. Several times through this.
I hope this young lady has learned not to tolerate with any of this crap. And good gods stop doing the lip injections if you are under 40.
“Same thing happens we get locked out” LOL no you were purposely not invited in.
She said she’s a traveling nurse so it could be an Airbnb as opposed to a regular rental, but a regular landlord could also have security cameras, etc.
She’s a travel nurse, its an airbnb or furnished finder
There are so many travel nurses now that there are actually furnished units built by major hospitals to accommodate them. Then there are some individuals who will rent out their house in the winter if they are “snowbirds”, but that wouldn’t apply for this location.
I’m really horrified at how rude this guys are and how they put these woman’s jobs at risk. They need a good nights sleep before their nursing shift.
I don't think this is even squatting; that involves staying in a currently unoccupied property. This is just straight up invasion into someone's home. They should have called the property owner and the police over this, though I can understand why in the moment they wouldn't necessarily think of the logical course of action.
Considering TH-cam is advertising watching Coachella live on TH-cam, it's safe to say it's probably not as popular as it used to be LMAO people just don't want to go for some reason 😭
Tickets are going for $1000+; it's too expensive for regular people/non-celebrities to go
it’s always been live streamed
It’s been live-streamed for years. People don’t want to go because the lineup is not as poppin as it used to be and then also bc it’s become an influencer hell-hole. It’s lost its magic for sure.
@@certified_mandy I didn't know that! I've never seen TH-cam advertise it before lol
They had Beychella, there are not many artists that can top that.
“Is it because we didn’t give you enough attention?” 🤢🤢🤢
nah you’re not crazy, i’m in america and i genuinely was surprised when i started seeing coachella posts too bc i didn’t hear anything about it this year until it started lmao
13:29 “he said the door’s unlocked so we can come in and get our stuff”, but he just said they said they could stay, now he’s saying “so we could get our stuff”. Which is it, could you stay or get your stuff?
Exactly f*ck boi str8 up
"Right so here's some breaking news that I just wasn't aware of" -Me coming to every Markie video hyped for the tea
These men are soo creepy! Bad vibes! The fact that they are so desperate to stay there two nights in a row wtf they wanted something from them girls that was not just somewhere to stay I think 😣😓 I’m so glad she didn’t let them back in!!!
I dunno about anyone else, but if someone kept locking me out of the house then I’d take that as a sign of not being welcomed to stay over
They keep using being drunk as an excuse...man if you like this when youre drunk, maybe you should stop drinkin. Good person my left booty cheek.
No way I'd just assume i could stay there. I would triple check to make sure. The fact they didn't ask or check is wild to me. And even if they were allowed they were all disrespectful. Also no one in their right mind would leave a door unlocked for you at 4am.
Yup! There’s no circumstance where this is ok.
I will never understand how someone could feel so comfortable saying that they will unalive themselves just to get their way, so sickening!
Straight up manipulative. The moment someone pulls this card, this should be the very moment no mercy or remorse should be shown to them. Shut them down immediately and take action. Call the cops on them if you have to.
Dude is lying. He’s used to getting his way always. And the neck tattoo is hilarious!
Absolute fu**boy energy
The roman numerals tattoo with the “16” is to symbolize when he peaked in life.
@@DoritoBot9000damn you just killed him with one sentence 😂
This is not squatting. It is only considered “squatting” if the property is uninhabited. If someone is living there it’s not squatting, it’s breaking and entering.
The girls didn't have the balls to throw the moochers shit out and refuse entry, they let them in and didn't protest when they just flopped all over the place. Squatting doesn't necessarily have to be in an uninhabited property, there have been plenty of situations where a room was rented and the person just stopped paying or someone has a friend over for a couple days and they just never leave, refuse to more like. The law says they establish residency after 30 days but people now just fill out a fake lease or say there was a verbal agreement, hence the changing of the laws. These dudes didn't break in, they were let in by push overs but if they had entered the home with people there without someone opening a door to their whining it would be a home invasion. One thing to take from this for everyone watching is to stand up for yourself and get a CCP, especially 2 young women who travel and live by themselves most of the time.
Coachella is....... a great spot for infleuncers to get photos for Instagram. Even the bands didnt seem entirely sure why they were there...........
Something that men should be aware of is that a lot of women will avoid direct confrontation in person. That doesn't mean they are okay with what is happening, but it is simply safer for us to not openly antagonize a man.
Please understand that on average, men are a lot stronger than women and openly antagonizing a man, especially someone who is intoxicated and therefor has a lot less inhibitions than he usually might, is risky. Tolerating bad behavior doesn't mean we are fine with it, and you shouldn't take that as permission to just do whatever you want.
Further, jumping the fence and climbing up to someone's window suggests that you don't have a problem with breaking the law, making antagonizing you even riskier.
I think they're very much aware
They came with no place to stay… that’s enough for me to believe her
if they were respectful and kind why is there video evidence of them climbing the fence n balcony n banging on windows thats not respectful at all and scaring women at 5am
Exactly
Also drunk as, they stumbled in drunk at 4 am wanting to get in a place without warning.
This feels like it was a miscommunication on the BF’s end. I think HE felt like a big shot and have these guys the OK to stay there. And that’s why they thought it was cool. He should have handled them.
23:53 "He said we could come by and GET OUR STUFF" that doesnt sound like come crash here, sounds like they were suppose to be picking up their luggage
Bro, if they're locking you out, they don't want you there. Also, in the guy's video, he said that the bf said "you can come get your stuff." How does that NOT mean that you're getting your stuff and leaving??? This guy is definitely not fully telling the truth.
Hi, old Eighties rocker chick here. I lived in L.A. during the Glam Rock Era. This is what “cute” bois did back then. They saved all of their money for their clothes, food and drink, and glommed onto girls who had a stable situation, plopped themselves down in their homes using any story they could spin, and even slept with the girls if they had to. Come the morning, they’d be gone, looking for another situation, only coming back to get their stuff or stay another night. In the Eighties they went for strippers, now it’s influencer girls.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
They never said you owe them money because they were never under the impression you were staying there. Hanging out during the day “pre gaming” before the festival is one thing, but going back late af without any regard for the people who you’re looking to mooch off is just blatant disrespect.
The moment you said they're friend's boyfriend's friends, my brain immediately jumped to the possibility of the boyfriend inviting them/offering them a place to stay
That's exactly what happened and she's avoiding that part of it because she's loyal to her bestie and if she called out the friend's BF, there'd be drama.
Theres a text message from his phone at the very end confirming that he only said that they could come to pregame. Also to "come get their stuff" later on. So Im not sure that was the case. The other guys even said they had another place to stay for the second night. They wouldn't have needed that if they genuinely thought they were invited to stay the entirety of the weekend
I don't buy these guys story. Coachella isn't something you just show up for "and find an air b&b".
They just didn't want to pay to stay anywhere.
I feel like the woman were pressured to let them stay. If they were originally invited to stay at the Airbnb, then they would have paid to be there in the beginning.
Not the Olaplex on the balls 😂
How would she even know he put it on his balls though. I mean she’s definitely lying about that part
@@MashaRistovaI think it's bold of her to assume this kinda guy washes his balls
But it's hilarious 😂
@@MashaRistovaIt's a joke 😂
I feel like not enough people are talking about Olaplex (on the balls or anywhere else). I'd be pissed, that shit ain't cheap. Hopefully he gets the reported side effects...
The worst one here i feel is the girl's boyfriend. He invited those guys then tried to get his girlfriend to do the dirty work to tell them to leave when he was the one who basically invited them to stay there in the first place.
I’m American and I don’t hear abt Coachella often anymore. To be fair tho, there’s A LOT that is happening not only in our country, but in the world. I think (I hope) most people attention has been turned to the atrocities happening in our world rn.
Plus I think most “regular” ppl can’t afford things like Coachella bc it’s out of the way and you have to spend quite a bit of money just to get there and find decent lodging. It’s also become an influencer fest to show off outfits and most ppl just can’t afford to keep up with all that.
How does she not notice a gang of people walking into her home with a gaggle of suitcases and going to the back of the house??
Okay I can understand the first night feeling trapped and just for ease and to stop any arguments, allowing them to stay on the floor where their "mate" is sleeping . But howay, the second night is taking the biscuit!!! The girls were forced basically to allow them back in to stop any more disruption to their neighbours. Strange situation to be in xx
One word - Entitlement. Even if someone said they could sleep there over the weekend, that doesn't give you the right to use their stuff and eat their food, all for free. It also doesn't give you the right to be a nuisance to the neighbors. So much disrespect! Like, after you leave, your friends are still going to be living there, and if your stupid behavior is getting them in trouble with the neighbors and landlord, that's completely unacceptable. I would have called the cops. You want a free place to spend the night? There you go, I called your ride. You're welcome.
If you don't have a key it seems you are not actually allowed to be there. IMO
As a woman, I could NEVER get a wink of sleep with men in my home who are strangers. Like what. The “tiktok boys” had zero regard for the safety/security/comfort of this girl in HER home.
Coachella is basically a joke at this point, most people will tune in for one or two artists, but even livestream activity has been down in recent years. It's been a shit show for a while, but the lack of attention was laughable this year 😭
"the door was locked again" do they have to spell it out for you word for word.....???? and genuinely saying that they kept inviting them back in, do boys not realize that women will be overly nice to random men they don't know in order to avoid being attacked...?
My friends and I would call them Sustainable Larrys. The type of dude to talk about protecting the environment, peace, love, and all that stuff. Meanwhile, you're watching them throw cigarette butts on the grass, harassing people, and pretending to be "enlightened gurus". The worst part is they have an IG following that believes them.
Someone commiting a crime and breaking shit shouldnt be on the renter to pay for and fix. Clearly they werent allowed back. Idk how the renter needs to pay instead of the landlord calling the cops and using his home insurance LOL. Different laws???
I get the impression that the boyfriend probably told the guys they could stay but didn't actually clear it with his gf first.
You can tell when he’s telling his side of the story he’s trying to make up the story as he goes. He’s looking around for answers that aren’t there. This is such entitled “attractive man” behavior