I’m a Korean-American male in my mid 50’s. Your story of reminds me so much of my parents’ story. Their relationship was initially rejected by their parents because they shared the same last name (but different lineage). They nearly eloped but both sides of the families eventually accepted. They started off their marriage nearly penniless, renting a small room. My father moonlighted while studying (for his Master’s Degree from Seoul University) and my mom saved enough money to open up a children’s art academy. God blessed them financially and eventually they immigrated to the U.S. They were lovebirds for 44 years until my father went to be with the Lord. I can tell that you two have a relationship that is rare in this world. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your families. I enjoy your vlogs; it brings a smile to my face...
I see lots of comments about how tae is so lucky and blessed to have such a beautiful unmaterialstic wife. I think Steph is as much as lucky and blessed to have a loving, fun, caring and thoughtful handsome husband too. Tae seems like a hard working, hand on caring father and always helping Steph with house work and such. Appearance will fade over the years. However, people.s traits and behavior will not fade and enrich marriage, family and life. Both great people ♥️ beautiful family ❤️
ITHEREONETHATHASNT There’s no such thing as "racist" genes. You aren’t born racist it is something that is taught. There’s a reason racism fades as the older generations die and younger more open generations are taking over.
@ITHEREONETHATHASNT dude Steph is half-Japanese and by indicating that Asian gene is racist genes, you just insulted Steph for being a half-Asian. Moreover China is not Japan nor Korea. This TH-cam channel is owned by a half-Japanese wife and a Korean husband couple. you are now being a total dickhead racist, while complaining about racism in China, commenting on a completely irrelevant channel, which means you failed to make a point in every aspect.
They are so funny together. Tae has a great sense of humor and Stephanie does too. Both are witty in three different languages. That’s rare for both members/couples to be like that with all the nuances that come with being multilingual. You can tell they love each other for more than just appearances. They love each other full heartedly, inside and out. 💕
Koreans DO have sort of a rule to introduce their to-be-sons or to-be-daughters as 'just friends' until they actually have had the ceremony. It is a way of protecting their sons' or daughters' reputation in case things come apart before the ceremony. And they do come apart right before the ceremony quite often. I myself have two friends who called off the wedding just few days before. The younger Korean generations have much different way of thinking now but for old folks, it kind of understandable. Please remember Korea is a gigantic melting pot of old and new. Raising two girls in the US, it is incredible to watch Stephanie speaking 3 languages. I'd be happy if my girls speak two, English and Korean. It's a struggle especially when their mommy and daddy speak fluent English. What a beautiful family. Wish you the best! 스테파니씨가 PK ( Pastor's Kid, 목사님딸) 이셨군요!
The story is beautiful. The pace might be too fast compared to most conventional love story. But, that makes it more unique and just beautiful; you knew right then that he was the man you would spend your life with. 3 days after Tae's military, you met. 1 week after meeting, started dating. After 5 months of dating, legally married. And you were just 19 then, but you were more financially independent than Tae. Coming from two different cultures and backgrounds, it is understandable why Tae's parents act the way they did before. Here in the Philippines, older people from the past generation (not in general but just some) are still way conservative and strict with the culture and the sanctity of marriage. It would even take a few more years of dating before you will be given the blessings for marriage. Every time, I watch your vlogs, I always hope I would someday find my companion in life and live happily, just like you two. Hope to see more of your vlogs and stay safe.
Agreed. However as someone who has spent time in both Korea and the philippines I must say that Filipino culture overall is much more accepting of mixed raced marriages than Korean culture.
Although I can understand two of the languages without sub-titles, I have yet to master Korean at the level to understand spoken Korean. 頑張りたいと思います。At a time when Japan/Korea relations are deteriorating, you guys are a breath of fresh air. You are showing that despite cultural differences if we take the time we can come to understand each other. 実を言うと今日、ある韓国人の日本批判のユーチューブビデオに強い口調で反論した書き込みをしました。その後、レコメンド欄でこのビデオにたどり着きました。目からうろこと同時に自分の行動が何の解決になってないことに気づき恥ずかしくなりました。勉強になりました。ありがとうございます。Just keep doing what you are doing because it it inspiring. 화이팅 !
오! 너무 재미 있네요 감사합니다.짬뽕은 안돼 ㅎㅎㅎ, 나는 그정도까지는 아니였어요 나도 비슷한 Daughter in law 를 봐서 그런데요, 정말 웃기고 재미 있어요 감사합니다 텍사스에 지금 Stay at Home 이라 너무 재미있게 보고 있어요. 영어 일본어 한국말 세개 국어 섞으니 더 재미있게 보여요, 혼토데스.ㅎㅎ, "아니예요 친구예요" Wow !!!! 정말 재밌고요 (진짜 문화차이) 성에 눈이 떠졌을 때 "1번 떠진게" 아니고요 "한번 떠진 후에"" 급속도로,,,아주 재미있어요 댕큐!
옛날 사람들은 짬뽕(혼혈)이란 말 흔하게 썼고 경원하는 사고가 박혀 있어 쉽게 고치기 힘든 점이..ㅎㅎ 재미나네요. 오래 갈수 있는 상처가 될수도 있는데 대범하게 넘기는 여자분 모습. 스고이~모든 결혼 과정 들어보면 다 사연 있고 눈물도 있네요. 그리고 흐뭇한 희망도 있고 ㅎ 제3자는 그런 거 보고 느끼는게 재미나요^ no pain no gain 고비를 넘고넘어 아름답고 이해심 깊은 분 얻었으니 오 성공적이네요^ success~~
Wow. You guys speak Korean Japanese and English. When I was growing up in Japan, there was still a serious prejudice in many Japanese against Korean. When I visited Korea when I was young, some Korean hated me bcs they thought I was totally Japanese. I’m a Korean descendent born in Japan. At that time, I seriously prayed to God asking to take the prejudice and emotional and mental wall between Japan and Korea. A several years later after I pleaded to God, I began to see the God’s hand taking those prejudice and wall away from Korea and Japan. When I saw your video, it recalled my prayer which God answered.
You2 good parents are so loved up and listening to you2 bilingual couple I'd rather listen to you speaking Japanese Korean English. Thank you for subtitles. Beautiful connection 😊😊😊😊😊
태열씨는 분명 전생에 나라 구했다 .. 스테피 씨가 현명 하시고, 침착 하시고 정숙 하시다 .. Tae must have saved a nation in previous life, Steph is Bright, calm, and lady like. テは明らかに前世で国を救ったと思う。シュテフィさんは賢明し、落ち着いし静粛しますようね。。
You two are absolutely mesmerizing! Steph - you're gorgeous, Tae - you're such a great guy, and the KIDS - just adorable!! I just love the switching between the three languages. I'm 1/2 Filipino (& white-Irish), so I grew up listening to my mom speak to grandma in Tagalog, but I never learned the language. I'm learning Spanish and Korean now. My 1st wife is Korean and there are our 2 daughters from that marriage, so I have a head start there... I live in California, so I'm also a bit advanced with Spanish too... Anyway, keep up the good work with the videos. It's interesting to watch Korea become less homogeneous over the years! (I first went there in 1979) I'd love to visit again someday to see what's basically a whole new place compared to back then. I'm kind of doing that vicariously through your videos! Thanks so much again!! Much love!! (Especially got a kick out of the baby at the end! lol)
한국이 근대화, 현대화 되는 과정이 워낙 빨랐었기에, 구세대 분들의 의식이 그에 따라가지 못한 부분이 많습니다. 한국엔 유교와 믹스된 어설픈 순혈주의 같은 게 있어서 부모님들이 그런 생각을 가지셨을 듯... 요즘의 젋은 한국 사람들은 이해하기 힘들 수도. 그래도 그 상황을 잘 헤쳐나가고 두분이 웃으며 얘기하시는 걸 보니, 많이 부럽습니다. 서로에 대한 믿음이 끈끈한 것 같아서요. 이 얘기를 듣고 많은 도움을 받을 수 있는 분들도 계시리라 믿어요.
Shes so pretty! And hes so adorable apologizing for his parents and the things that were said after all these years. I love how asians tend to be so family orietned and live their life through respectful traditions.
There is this Korean belief that one can determine a person's character just by looking at their face/countenance. Basically if they get good vibes off of you, they are likely to believe you have good character. Being attractive probably didn't hurt either though. It's also Korean custom for parents to totally support their kid's education. Tae's parents paying for everything while he attends college is not unusual. This is NOT free, however. The understanding is that just as his parents supported him during his education years, he has to support them in their old age. The parents are paying for their child's future and investing in their retirement plan. The success of their kid is not just their individual achievement; it's also to the benefit of the entire family.
KG Jung - Chinese culture is similar (due to belief in Confucian teachings) that parents are responsible for their children’s education and care till they become “adults” and independent. In return, the kids look after them in old age. Filial piety. There is also the shared belief in physiognomy, the study of the facial features the tell the person’s character and possible future success (wealth luck)
This is my first time watching their video, and i already feel my brain is lagging to identify when they switched between the languages xD. It was refreshing and fun though. ( And i already love this family - their daughter's part at the end reminds me so much of my nieces
대한민국에서 가장 행복한 사람이 남편이네. 저렇게 가장 예쁘고 성격 좋고 부드러운 여자를 아내로 맞이 하다니 ! 전생에 뭘 구했나, 나라 ? 아 ! 부러워 죽것다. 나도 저런 천사 같은 여자와 한번 살아 봤으면 내일 죽어도 소원이 없겠다. 남편이 회사에 가서도 아내 보고 시퍼 일도 못하겠네.
Steph is stunning on the outside and even more amazing in her mindset. Surprised to hear that she is so financially responsible and unspoiled cuz she looks like a gorgeous princess.
We loved the story! That's so cool that you can laugh on it now. We had a similar experience! I think older korean culture is naturally suspicious of foreigners because what has happened in its history. Great video thank you for sharing! Could you do a video on what you guys studied/career and whether or not you would ever go back to work? Are most korean moms stay at home or do some work?
This is so cute.. Taylor is so lucky to have such a beautiful, thoughtful and independent wife! And to Steph, Well done to you for staying by his side whilst hearing not such kind words towards you, It must be very hard! You are one of a kind ❤️ new subscribe here xx
It can be so hard and so much misunderstanding when people from different cultures get together, I'm so happy for you guys to be able to get through those tough times.
볼수록 태열씨는 전생에 나라를 구하신분이시네요 ㅎ 둘째도 너무 이쁘고 두분 너무 사랑스러워요! 일어와 한국어를 섞어 쓰는것도 이쁘시고 영어도 자연스럽게 사용하시니 남편 포함 애들도 자연스럽게 언어를 습득할것이고...다만 태열씨 한테 오빠 , 자기 또는 여보라 칭하면 보기 좋을듯 싶어요^^ 한국인 정서에서는 서로를 부를때 존칭을 사용하는게 자연스럽고 보기 좋아요^^ 암튼 파니씨 한국어 정말 대단히 잘 하세요! 행복하세요!
Oh my goodness I just came on this video and had to listen ... because I was also married to a Asien men ... my father was not so happy when he now this I am from Switzerland and my boyfriend then in 1977 was from Tibet he came to Switzerland as a 9 year old child after his family had to go away of Chinese invasion... still in this times was not usuall to marry a asian men ... but we both didn’t care of this me I anyway always made what I want because was my life ... we lived together for 2 years and when I was pregnant in 1979 we married, even my father was not so happy who cares was our life ... we had great time together ... so is nice to see how this two korean/Japanese, American couple got there own way ... life is to short so go your own way ... wish them all the best 🙏💐
I love you guys🥰. I love how Tae’s always defending Steph and the love they both have for one another. Most people can relate when dating/married someone out their race. It’s an obstacle but if your love is pure and true then it’ll conquer all. I admire you both. Years past and you are still together with 2 beautiful kids❤️.
Really enjoyed your story about your marriage and your Korean In-Laws. I think the thing that helped you get through all the drama was the fact that you were raised to be independent. That by itself and the requirements that you are working and paying for your own education put you way ahead of the game called life. At the time, comparatively, you and your boyfriend were on different maturity levels. Good job by both of you.
Your videos just popped on the TH-cam page and I started to view it. I find your stories interesting and intriguing. Just fascinated with your cultural background and Korean culture. I love watching Korean dramas as I find them very creatively developed so your stories are the true reality situations out there. You all seem happy and you have a beautiful family. Thanks for sharing your stories...
So happy this beautiful young couple handled their challenges in a very mature and positive way. Hoping the best luck in their future. Steph is quite beautiful.
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and life story. Your honesty in dealing with your life just commands attention better than an action packed movie. I tried and shied away from the challenges in International relationships but you two just blew it of the water. As cliche as it may be, both of you displayed that " Love conquers all" and as our world is digitally connected it's truly inspiring. God Bless.
I really enjoy these videos and i can relate since i married "out of my culture" and went through a long time of being rejected by his family...now 37 years ,3 children and a loving relationship with his family i think its important not to judge on both parts. 💗
My Korean parents did not approve of my Korean boyfriend just because he didn’t speak Korean. Once we married and they got to know him they adore him now. All worked out fine.
This story is absolutely fascinating!!! Thank you guys for sharing this lovely story. As growing I experienced discrimination against girl I cant do this and that because I was a girl. My grandpa had this in his mind but his eyes were full of love and care. I remember he adored me and my sister so I can sort of understand why Tae's father said all these things but gave Pani a big hug and said he loves her :)
I have to say you two are so sweet together and Tae was just to adorable when he said he was glad to get the jjampong story off of his chest. Wish you guys a lifetime of happiness!
I really enjoy these videos for Japanese listening comprehension practice! It’s been 11 years since I last took a Japanese class, so I know I’ve lost a lot, but I find that Steph especially speaks clearly. Also it’s just fun to watch you both switch between languages mid-sentence... My monolingual brain is fascinated and envious.
Thanks so much for making these videos! You guys are a wonderful couple, loved hearing this story! Steph, easy to see why you picked Tae as your mate and Tae, easy to see why you fell for Steph so quickly! The kids are really cute and you can see they are dearly cared for and loved!
indonesia also has the same culture regarding "wedding hierarchy" between siblings. i think it's just asian thingy. also, tae looks more handsome without glasses! ^_^
아내분 마인드가 정말 대단하세요. 짬뽕이란 말도 기분 나쁠수 있는데 웃고 넘어가시고 알바해서 본인 학비에 결혼은 날 길러줄 사람이 필요한게 아니라는 말씀도 그렇고....훌륭하십니다. 두분 앞으로도 행복하세요
정말 똑부러지는 아내를 얻으셨네요. 거기에 목사님 따님을... 정말 행운아세요. 늘 즐겁고 행복하세요. 좋은영상 감사합니다.
I’m a Korean-American male in my mid 50’s. Your story of reminds me so much of my parents’ story. Their relationship was initially rejected by their parents because they shared the same last name (but different lineage). They nearly eloped but both sides of the families eventually accepted. They started off their marriage nearly penniless, renting a small room. My father moonlighted while studying (for his Master’s Degree from Seoul University) and my mom saved enough money to open up a children’s art academy. God blessed them financially and eventually they immigrated to the U.S. They were lovebirds for 44 years until my father went to be with the Lord. I can tell that you two have a relationship that is rare in this world. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your families. I enjoy your vlogs; it brings a smile to my face...
전생에 나라를 구한 사람이 이리 많으니 대한민국이 선진국이 되는구나...
좋은 남편, 아버지가 되시기 바랍니다.
행복하세요~
I see lots of comments about how tae is so lucky and blessed to have such a beautiful unmaterialstic wife. I think Steph is as much as lucky and blessed to have a loving, fun, caring and thoughtful handsome husband too. Tae seems like a hard working, hand on caring father and always helping Steph with house work and such. Appearance will fade over the years. However, people.s traits and behavior will not fade and enrich marriage, family and life. Both great people ♥️ beautiful family ❤️
This❤👏👍 Thanks for the comment!
ITHEREONETHATHASNT There’s no such thing as "racist" genes. You aren’t born racist it is something that is taught. There’s a reason racism fades as the older generations die and younger more open generations are taking over.
@ITHEREONETHATHASNT dude Steph is half-Japanese and by indicating that Asian gene is racist genes, you just insulted Steph for being a half-Asian. Moreover China is not Japan nor Korea. This TH-cam channel is owned by a half-Japanese wife and a Korean husband couple. you are now being a total dickhead racist, while complaining about racism in China, commenting on a completely irrelevant channel, which means you failed to make a point in every aspect.
It’s the children who are the luckiest! Beautiful family!
They are so funny together. Tae has a great sense of humor and Stephanie does too. Both are witty in three different languages. That’s rare for both members/couples to be like that with all the nuances that come with being multilingual. You can tell they love each other for more than just appearances. They love each other full heartedly, inside and out. 💕
Tae: I was late in having an interest in girls. Steph: Once your eyes were open you sure got busy. LOL
Koreans DO have sort of a rule to introduce their to-be-sons or to-be-daughters as 'just friends' until they actually have had the ceremony. It is a way of protecting their sons' or daughters' reputation in case things come apart before the ceremony. And they do come apart right before the ceremony quite often. I myself have two friends who called off the wedding just few days before.
The younger Korean generations have much different way of thinking now but for old folks, it kind of understandable.
Please remember Korea is a gigantic melting pot of old and new.
Raising two girls in the US, it is incredible to watch Stephanie speaking 3 languages. I'd be happy if my girls speak two, English and Korean.
It's a struggle especially when their mommy and daddy speak fluent English.
What a beautiful family. Wish you the best!
스테파니씨가 PK ( Pastor's Kid, 목사님딸) 이셨군요!
정말 아름다운 가정이군요. 왜 이 채널이 이제야 제 추천 리스트에 떴는지 의문입니다.
항상 행복하시고 애들도 아프지 않고 건강하고 밝게 잘 크길 바랍니다.
I’m sure the fact that Steph’s parents had an interracial marriage made them less likely to be offended that Tae’s parents were against the match
お二人を見てると、違う文化で育った二人が幸せに過ごしていくには、理解、協力、時に妥協を上手くしていくことなんだと、改めて思います。３か国語をちゃんぽんして、お互いを理解して、本当に楽しそう！コロナが広がって暗い世の中の今、心ほっこりする動画に出会えて、勝手に幸せのお裾分けをいただきました。ありがとう！
これからもお子様たちと皆で元気にお幸せに！
ㅎㅎㅎㅎ두 분의 정말 꾸밈없는 솔직한 모습 너무 좋아요!! 서로 말씀하시는게 너무 재미있고 스테파니님의 리액션도 밝음 뿜뿜ㅋㅋㅋ마지막에 일러스트도 넘 재치있곸ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진정성이 넘치는 솔직한 영상이라서 더 팬 되었어요!!! ㅎㅎㅎ
I just love how you could switch between Korean, Japanese and English so naturally
This is great
My dream conversation...to switch between languages like that...
It’s so great it made me subscribe I want to be like that one day.
The story is beautiful. The pace might be too fast compared to most conventional love story. But, that makes it more unique and just beautiful; you knew right then that he was the man you would spend your life with. 3 days after Tae's military, you met. 1 week after meeting, started dating. After 5 months of dating, legally married. And you were just 19 then, but you were more financially independent than Tae. Coming from two different cultures and backgrounds, it is understandable why Tae's parents act the way they did before. Here in the Philippines, older people from the past generation (not in general but just some) are still way conservative and strict with the culture and the sanctity of marriage. It would even take a few more years of dating before you will be given the blessings for marriage. Every time, I watch your vlogs, I always hope I would someday find my companion in life and live happily, just like you two. Hope to see more of your vlogs and stay safe.
Agreed. However as someone who has spent time in both Korea and the philippines I must say that Filipino culture overall is much more accepting of mixed raced marriages than Korean culture.
Although I can understand two of the languages without sub-titles, I have yet to master Korean at the level to understand spoken Korean. 頑張りたいと思います。At a time when Japan/Korea relations are deteriorating, you guys are a breath of fresh air. You are showing that despite cultural differences if we take the time we can come to understand each other.
実を言うと今日、ある韓国人の日本批判のユーチューブビデオに強い口調で反論した書き込みをしました。その後、レコメンド欄でこのビデオにたどり着きました。目からうろこと同時に自分の行動が何の解決になってないことに気づき恥ずかしくなりました。勉強になりました。ありがとうございます。Just keep doing what you are doing because it it inspiring. 화이팅 !
Tae must saved a country in his previous life that so lucky to get such beautiful and independent wife in this life.
probably two, a country is not enough ...
Thanh Ky Quan lololloool
Yup and she gets nothing in return. I wouldn't have settled if I were her.
@@thanhquanky maybe even saved the galaxy😂
@@suesheification oh yea? what would you have done?
Tae is a real man in standing up for Steph. Loved how both of you supported yourselves through college without your respective parents' assistance.
얼굴도 마음도 모두..
참 이쁜 부인을 만났군요..
축하드립니다..
이번영상을 오래간만에 다시보게되네요
참 파란만장하게 결혼하신게 맞는듯 ㅎ
글고 파니님이 자꾸 나가사키짬뽕~하시면서
웃으시며 대처하는 여유에서
건강한마음이 느껴져서
저도 자꾸 나가사끼짬뽕부분에서
웃게되는데....ㅎㅎ
여튼...
행복한 생활하시고
파니님은 건강에 더욱신경쓰시면서
지내시길~
보면 볼수록 스테파니 멘탈이 좋으신 거 같아요!
맞아요.
국제결혼은 문화의 차이에서 오는 오해가 참 많죠.
근데, 스테파니의 긍정적사고가 아니였다면 여기까지 오지 못했을거 같네요.
사랑하는 사람을 지켜드리세요~ 태열씨~~~^^
저도 요코하마에서 공부했던 한사람으로서 많이 응원 합니다~~^^
보는 내내 입가에 웃음을 짓고 있었네요
두분 영상이 올라올때마다
참 반가움을 느껴요~
빠르게 지나가는 자막을 놓치지 않기위해 보다보면 두분의 모습을 보는게 적어지기도 하지만
좋은 에너지가 넘쳐흘러 너무 좋습니다~!
시청료는 좋아요로 대신할게요^
오! 너무 재미 있네요 감사합니다.짬뽕은 안돼 ㅎㅎㅎ, 나는 그정도까지는 아니였어요
나도 비슷한 Daughter in law 를 봐서 그런데요, 정말 웃기고 재미 있어요 감사합니다
텍사스에 지금 Stay at Home 이라 너무 재미있게 보고 있어요.
영어 일본어 한국말 세개 국어 섞으니 더 재미있게 보여요, 혼토데스.ㅎㅎ,
"아니예요 친구예요" Wow !!!! 정말 재밌고요 (진짜 문화차이)
성에 눈이 떠졌을 때 "1번 떠진게" 아니고요 "한번 떠진 후에"" 급속도로,,,아주 재미있어요 댕큐!
She is very pretty
Lol yeah. No wonder tae's dad hugged her right away and changed his mind. Lol you can tell right away shes not a gold digger.
Also scary, face so smooth with those 50 cake layers of powder.
옛날 사람들은 짬뽕(혼혈)이란 말 흔하게 썼고 경원하는 사고가 박혀 있어 쉽게 고치기 힘든 점이..ㅎㅎ 재미나네요. 오래 갈수 있는 상처가 될수도 있는데 대범하게 넘기는 여자분 모습. 스고이~모든 결혼 과정 들어보면 다 사연 있고 눈물도 있네요. 그리고 흐뭇한 희망도 있고 ㅎ 제3자는 그런 거 보고 느끼는게 재미나요^ no pain no gain 고비를 넘고넘어 아름답고 이해심 깊은 분 얻었으니 오 성공적이네요^ success~~
두분 정말 보기좋네요 항상 행복하세요
이 부부는 부부싸움하는거 옆에서 지켜만 봐도 재미있을거 같아요^^
'건강한 사고'를 가진 건강한 가족.. 거기다 아이가 세명이라니.. 복많이 받으세요^^
Wow. You guys speak Korean Japanese and English. When I was growing up in Japan, there was still a serious prejudice in many Japanese against Korean. When I visited Korea when I was young, some Korean hated me bcs they thought I was totally Japanese. I’m a Korean descendent born in Japan. At that time, I seriously prayed to God asking to take the prejudice and emotional and mental wall between Japan and Korea. A several years later after I pleaded to God, I began to see the God’s hand taking those prejudice and wall away from Korea and Japan. When I saw your video, it recalled my prayer which God answered.
선남 선녀 두분이 만나 결혼하고 행복한 삶을 영위하고 계신걸 보니 내 기분이 너무좋아 함께 행복을 느끼는 기분이군요. 엎으로도 행복한 가정 영원토록 행복했으면! 기도하고 바랄께요.
연애때 사귀는 이야기는 언제나 재밌습니다^^
두분도 우여곡절이 있었네요.천생연분 입니다
지나고나면 다 아름다운 추억입니다 두분의 아름다운 사랑의 결실에 찬사를 보냅니다 지금은 어느 누구보다 행복해 보입니다
오래오래 행복한 가정 되시길 바랍니다^^♡
You2 good parents are so loved up and listening to you2 bilingual couple I'd rather listen to you speaking Japanese Korean English. Thank you for subtitles.
Beautiful connection 😊😊😊😊😊
이런 반대는 적어도 이십년전 이야기라고 생각했는데 놀랐어요 이런사례가 아직 꽤많더라구요..아직 시간이 더 필요한가..이런현실이 슬퍼요ㅜㅜ 두분 재밌게 사시는 모습이 너무 보기좋아요 아이들은 다양한 문화를 자동적으로 접하면서 너무나도 크고 멋진 사람이 되겠네요
태열씨는 분명 전생에 나라 구했다 .. 스테피 씨가 현명 하시고, 침착 하시고 정숙 하시다 ..
Tae must have saved a nation in previous life, Steph is Bright, calm, and lady like.
テは明らかに前世で国を救ったと思う。シュテフィさんは賢明し、落ち着いし静粛しますようね。。
the way she swaps from Japanese to Korean is amazing
You two are absolutely mesmerizing! Steph - you're gorgeous, Tae - you're such a great guy, and the KIDS - just adorable!! I just love the switching between the three languages. I'm 1/2 Filipino (& white-Irish), so I grew up listening to my mom speak to grandma in Tagalog, but I never learned the language. I'm learning Spanish and Korean now. My 1st wife is Korean and there are our 2 daughters from that marriage, so I have a head start there... I live in California, so I'm also a bit advanced with Spanish too... Anyway, keep up the good work with the videos. It's interesting to watch Korea become less homogeneous over the years! (I first went there in 1979) I'd love to visit again someday to see what's basically a whole new place compared to back then. I'm kind of doing that vicariously through your videos! Thanks so much again!! Much love!! (Especially got a kick out of the baby at the end! lol)
오늘의 가정을 꾸리기까지 눈물겨운 사연이 많았네요. 특히 끝까지 사랑을 지켜낸 아내의 헌신에 감동했습니다. 앞으로의 삶은 행복 가득하리라 학신합니다.
아내가 연기자가 되어도 성공하시겠어요.. 모든 표현이 자연스럽고 예뻐요.. 두 분 항상 행복하세요
한국이 근대화, 현대화 되는 과정이 워낙 빨랐었기에, 구세대 분들의 의식이 그에 따라가지 못한 부분이 많습니다.
한국엔 유교와 믹스된 어설픈 순혈주의 같은 게 있어서 부모님들이 그런 생각을 가지셨을 듯... 요즘의 젋은 한국 사람들은 이해하기 힘들 수도.
그래도 그 상황을 잘 헤쳐나가고 두분이 웃으며 얘기하시는 걸 보니, 많이 부럽습니다. 서로에 대한 믿음이 끈끈한 것 같아서요.
이 얘기를 듣고 많은 도움을 받을 수 있는 분들도 계시리라 믿어요.
순혈주의는 일본이 더 심함. 지금도
아내분 정말 마음이 넓고 이해심이 크시네요 정말 대단하신것 같습니다.
축복합니다. 행복하세요
22:35 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
속상하고 서운하셨을텐데 그래도 지금은 너무 행복한 가족을 이루셨기에 예전 일은 다 훌훌 털어버리고 항상 행복하시길
그리고 스스로 학비를 충당하신 것에 저는 제 자신이 부끄럽고 부모님께 너무나 죄송한 마음뿐이에요ㅠㅠㅠ본 받고 싶네요
Shes so pretty! And hes so adorable apologizing for his parents and the things that were said after all these years.
I love how asians tend to be so family orietned and live their life through respectful traditions.
항상 즐겁게 보고 있습니다. 영상 보고나면 늘 행복하고 즐거워지네요~ 아이들 너무 귀여워요 ㅎㅎ 마지막 리디야 점핑은 압권이네요!^^
영상 정말 재미있게 보았습니다.
마음씨 좋고 예쁜 부인 정말 잘 얻으셨네요.
알콩달콩 그렇게 재미있게 행복하게 사세요~~~
횽님은 진짜 복받은거야
게다가 아들하나 딸하나..
행복해야돼 횽!
진짜 감사하고 사세요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
아내분 너무 예쁘시다 진짜.. 미인이시네 성격도 너무좋아보이고
Love watching ur video😘
お二人が英、日、韓”ちゃんぽん”でお喋りしてるのとっても興味深くていつも楽しく見てます😁お二人にとっては当たり前かもですが、国際結婚でも共通言語１つではなく3ヶ国語お互い理解してるのがすごいな〜と👏❤️
ほんとそう思う！
두 분 너무너무 사이좋고 행복해보여요ㅋㅋㅋ 좀 속상한 스토리였지만 이제는 웃으며 얘기할수 있어서 다행이에요😁
大学の話とか聞いてめっちゃ二人ともちゃんとしてるなあ、、、すごい尊敬🙏🏼
あと最後のリディアちゃんの歩行器？で全てを持っていかれた、、、跳ねて足がグネグネしてるの可愛すぎ、、、👼🏻
이야기 들어보니까 파니님이 한국에서 굉장히 보수적인 편인 시부모님을 만나셨네요 ㅎㅎㅎ
그래도 아버님의 "사랑한다!!"는 완전 반전이었어요 ㅋㅋㅋ
렌스랑 리디아의 귀여운 촬영 방해까지 넘 재밌게 봤어요! 다음 영상까지 코로나 조심하세요!! 😍😍
짬뽕^^ 웃기며~ 마음아푸고~ 그런단어 였네요~ 가족모두 건강하세요~ 행복하세요~
두분정말 너무나도 보기좋습니다.행복한가정이뤄 나가시길 바래요.와이프가 현명하시고 긍정이넘치는 모습이 너무나 보기좋습니다.태열씨는 전생에나라를 구하신듯~~
우와... 남편분도 뭔가 매력이 있어서 두분이 만나셨겠지만,,,, 아내분이 마인드가 괜찮네~ 미인이시고~ 부럽~~
살면서 얼굴에 웃음이 가득하다는거 자체가
축복입니다.
천사같은 아가들과
선녀같은 새댁하고....
밥 안먹어도 배부를듯.....
기분좋은 영상 감사합니다.🤗🤗
너무 이쁘네요 두분. 행복하세요! 양국 화해무드 조성에 일조하시는 것 같아 좋습니다. 계속 올려주세요~~
The younger looks exactly like the father and the son looks exactly like the mother, so cute
There is this Korean belief that one can determine a person's character just by looking at their face/countenance. Basically if they get good vibes off of you, they are likely to believe you have good character. Being attractive probably didn't hurt either though.
It's also Korean custom for parents to totally support their kid's education. Tae's parents paying for everything while he attends college is not unusual. This is NOT free, however. The understanding is that just as his parents supported him during his education years, he has to support them in their old age. The parents are paying for their child's future and investing in their retirement plan. The success of their kid is not just their individual achievement; it's also to the benefit of the entire family.
KG Jung - Chinese culture is similar (due to belief in Confucian teachings) that parents are responsible for their children’s education and care till they become “adults” and independent. In return, the kids look after them in old age. Filial piety. There is also the shared belief in physiognomy, the study of the facial features the tell the person’s character and possible future success (wealth luck)
I agree.
Not a good belief because Confucian was a Satanic Freemason. People have become vain in which is wicked indeed.
That's very similar to Indian culture too!
@@buzdog2692 not good
I'm getting used to them switching between languages that they're all starting to sound the same 😂😂
delliebby i still so confusing
If you're getting used to the languages, wouldn't you be able to tell the difference more easily? Phonetically they are quite different.
They make me feel so dumb. I’m 75% Korean and married a Japanese girl and I can’t speak either language.
This is my first time watching their video, and i already feel my brain is lagging to identify when they switched between the languages xD. It was refreshing and fun though. ( And i already love this family - their daughter's part at the end reminds me so much of my nieces
대한민국에서 가장 행복한 사람이
남편이네.
저렇게 가장 예쁘고 성격 좋고 부드러운 여자를 아내로 맞이 하다니 !
전생에 뭘 구했나, 나라 ?
아 ! 부러워 죽것다.
나도 저런 천사 같은 여자와 한번 살아 봤으면 내일 죽어도 소원이 없겠다.
남편이 회사에 가서도 아내 보고 시퍼
일도 못하겠네.
Steph is stunning on the outside and even more amazing in her mindset. Surprised to hear that she is so financially responsible and unspoiled cuz she looks like a gorgeous princess.
We loved the story! That's so cool that you can laugh on it now. We had a similar experience! I think older korean culture is naturally suspicious of foreigners because what has happened in its history. Great video thank you for sharing!
Could you do a video on what you guys studied/career and whether or not you would ever go back to work? Are most korean moms stay at home or do some work?
데이트하고 결혼은 엄연히 다르다고 생각합니다. 데이트하지 않고서는 상대를 알수 없지요. 두분의 긍정적인 모습이 보기 좋습니다. 행복하세요.
This is so cute.. Taylor is so lucky to have such a beautiful, thoughtful and independent wife! And to Steph, Well done to you for staying by his side whilst hearing not such kind words towards you, It must be very hard! You are one of a kind ❤️ new subscribe here xx
It can be so hard and so much misunderstanding when people from different cultures get together, I'm so happy for you guys to be able to get through those tough times.
이 부부는 너무 귀여워 ㅋㅋㅋ
세상에.. 아내분 프랑스 사람같이 생겼어요.진짜 우아하다..♥
마음이 진짜 우아한 와이프 분이네요
저는 개인적으로 두분이 앉아서 썰 풀어주는 영상이 재밌어요.
짬뽕이라....태열님 부모님 연세가 많으시던데 예전엔 인종차별이란 개념도 없이 그런 말들을 거리낌 없이 하셨죠들. 그걸 또 나가사키 짬뽕으로 승화시키는 스테파니님의 무한긍정.
태열님이 늘 업고 다니셔야 할듯 합니다. 그나저나 남의 애들은 쑥쑥 크네요~~ 귀여워요 ㅎㅎ
그런데 영상 보다보면 파니님이 왜 태열님과 결혼했는지 알 것 같기도 해요. 나름 사랑(?) 스럽고 귀여운 매력이 있잖아요 ㅋㅋ
볼수록 태열씨는 전생에 나라를 구하신분이시네요 ㅎ
둘째도 너무 이쁘고 두분 너무 사랑스러워요!
일어와 한국어를 섞어 쓰는것도 이쁘시고 영어도 자연스럽게 사용하시니 남편 포함 애들도 자연스럽게 언어를 습득할것이고...다만 태열씨 한테 오빠 , 자기 또는 여보라 칭하면 보기 좋을듯 싶어요^^
한국인 정서에서는 서로를 부를때 존칭을 사용하는게 자연스럽고 보기 좋아요^^
암튼 파니씨 한국어 정말 대단히 잘 하세요! 행복하세요!
어릴때부터 다져진 내공이 삶에 여유로 나타나네요..^^
이렇게 살아가면 되는겁니다..
귀한가정입니다, ,^^
Oh my goodness I just came on this video and had to listen ... because I was also married to a Asien men ... my father was not so happy when he now this I am from Switzerland and my boyfriend then in 1977 was from Tibet he came to Switzerland as a 9 year old child after his family had to go away of Chinese invasion... still in this times was not usuall to marry a asian men ... but we both didn’t care of this me I anyway always made what I want because was my life ... we lived together for 2 years and when I was pregnant in 1979 we married, even my father was not so happy who cares was our life ... we had great time together ... so is nice to see how this two korean/Japanese, American couple got there own way ... life is to short so go your own way ... wish them all the best 🙏💐
I love you guys🥰. I love how Tae’s always defending Steph and the love they both have for one another. Most people can relate when dating/married someone out their race. It’s an obstacle but if your love is pure and true then it’ll conquer all. I admire you both. Years past and you are still together with 2 beautiful kids❤️.
젊은 분들이 참 열심히도 사셨네요, 좋아보입니다. 그리고 앞으로도 행복하게 또 다른 젊은 부부들에게 모범이 되어 보이는 삶 계속 이어주시기를 부탁드립니다. 영상 고맙고 동감되는 부분도 많고 재미있게 보았습니다. 감사합니다.
“Son, I’m not happy about you having a foreign girlfriend.”
“Dad, here is a photo of her.”
“”Son, you MARRY that girl!”
I agree. She got a pass because she's pretty and looks mostly Korean.
Funny!!!😂😂👋👋
Gillian Orley lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
이렇게 행복해 보이는 가족이 있을까...? 부인도 예쁘고,, 남편도 선해 보이네요....
두분 밝고 행복해 보입니다.
아이들도 참 예쁩니다.
Really enjoyed your story about your marriage and your Korean In-Laws. I think the thing that helped you get through all the drama was the fact that you were raised to be independent. That by itself and the requirements that you are working and paying for your own education put you way ahead of the game called life. At the time, comparatively, you and your boyfriend were on different maturity levels. Good job by both of you.
It’s so interesting to hear other people’s story and what they feel.....thanks for sharing❤️
Your videos just popped on the TH-cam page and I started to view it. I find your stories interesting and intriguing. Just fascinated with your cultural background and Korean culture. I love watching Korean dramas as I find them very creatively developed so your stories are the true reality situations out there. You all seem happy and you have a beautiful family. Thanks for sharing your stories...
So happy this beautiful young couple handled their challenges in a very mature and positive way. Hoping the best luck in their future. Steph is quite beautiful.
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and life story. Your honesty in dealing with your life just commands attention better than an action packed movie. I tried and shied away from the challenges in International relationships but you two just blew it of the water. As cliche as it may be, both of you displayed that " Love conquers all" and as our world is digitally connected it's truly inspiring. God Bless.
I really enjoy these videos and i can relate since i married "out of my culture" and went through a long time of being rejected by his family...now 37 years ,3 children and a loving relationship with his family i think its important not to judge on both parts. 💗
If people are being racist, you are absolutely allowed to judge that.
재미있게 잘보고 있습니다!
두분 오늘 모습이 제일 자연스럽고 예쁘게 나왔네요!😄😄😄
내가 볼때 파니씨 말이
전부 맞는거 같아요?
태열씨는 아내분에게 더욱 잘해주어야 해요!
My Korean parents did not approve of my Korean boyfriend just because he didn’t speak Korean. Once we married and they got to know him they adore him now. All worked out fine.
This story is absolutely fascinating!!! Thank you guys for sharing this lovely story. As growing I experienced discrimination against girl I cant do this and that because I was a girl. My grandpa had this in his mind but his eyes were full of love and care. I remember he adored me and my sister so I can sort of understand why Tae's father said all these things but gave Pani a big hug and said he loves her :)
I think Tae’s father when he saw you was like “shes so beautiful, how did Tae meet her?” 😂
멋진 부부이십니다.
하나님의 은혜가 항상함께 하시기를 기도합니다.
Who wouldn't love a gorgeous "jjampong" Like Steph? 😂😍❤❤
You are a wonderful couple! Nice,intelligent,sympatic,two young adorable parents.So glad to descover you! God bless you and your parents!
I have to say you two are so sweet together and Tae was just to adorable when he said he was glad to get the jjampong story off of his chest. Wish you guys a lifetime of happiness!
リディアちゃん、大きくなりましたね☺️とっても可愛い❤️
お二人とも、学生結婚で若かったけど、自分たちの意思を貫くために、様々な人と関わり合いながら、色々な思いをしてきたのですね。
ステファニーさんは、当時十代だったのに、とてもしっかりした考え方をしていたことにとてもびっくりしました。
同じ年の純日本人でも、この時代に、大学の学費を自分で働きながら稼いで勉強もして、経済観念を身に付けられる子はなかなかいません。
長崎のご両親の愛情と素晴らしい教育の結果ですね。
ご主人も、ステファニーさんに感化されたとは。
お互いを高め合うって、こういうことを言うんだなと思いました。
一人の人間を、自助努力する道に導けるステファニーさんは素晴らしいですね。
これからも動画楽しみにしています。
(長崎のご実家、ご両親、ステファニーさんのお兄様、とっても素敵です。)
二人のお子さんの成長を楽しみに、
応援しています。
I really enjoy these videos for Japanese listening comprehension practice! It’s been 11 years since I last took a Japanese class, so I know I’ve lost a lot, but I find that Steph especially speaks clearly. Also it’s just fun to watch you both switch between languages mid-sentence... My monolingual brain is fascinated and envious.
Thanks so much for making these videos! You guys are a wonderful couple, loved hearing this story! Steph, easy to see why you picked Tae as your mate and Tae, easy to see why you fell for Steph so quickly! The kids are really cute and you can see they are dearly cared for and loved!
파니 ㅠ 얼마나 맘 고생했을지ㅠ 태열씨 잠깐 미웠어요ㅠㅠ 공유해줘서 너무 고마워요! 궁금했는데:) 그나저나 너무 보고싶어요 코로나야 얼른 물러가라🤣
영어랑 한국어는 다 알아듣느데 방심하고 있다가 일본어 나오면 자막 보느라 정신없이 바쁩니다~ㅋㅋ
아무튼 재미있어요 ㅋㅋ
indonesia also has the same culture regarding "wedding hierarchy" between siblings. i think it's just asian thingy. also, tae looks more handsome without glasses! ^_^
In Eastern Europe too.. though more applicable to the previous generations
The same was all over Europe, it's just in the past
very very exciting & imotional^^ 두 분다 웃으시며 말하지만 정말 대단하게 보입니다 화이팅! 귀한 영상 잘 보았습니당! 영어 일어 한국어 정신없네요^^
My brain is having a difficult time shifting from japanese, korean and english.
하나님의 은혜로,
태열 씨, 정말 예쁘고 착한고 신앙심이 좋고, 생활력도 강한 현모양처를 얻었네요.
행복하세요
스테파니와 태열씨의 결혼초 이야기 아주 흥미롭게 잘 보았습니다. 그동안 랜스가 많이 컸네요! 다음 영상 또 기대합니다! 땡큐!
3개국어를 대화도중에 정신 업시 구사하는 능력...
둘 다 언어에 대단한 능력이 있습니다. 이건, 나도 통역일도 합니다만, 쉬운 일이 아닙니다.
어쨋든, 두분 천생연분 이십니다. ㅎㅎ
Writing all these subtitles must be SO MUCH WORK! My hat off to you!
와.. 진짜 스테파니 초긍정적이다. 감사할줄 알고. 맞아요 대학생활 하는거 자체만으로도 감사해야할 일이죠.