I always come back to watch this movie whenever I want to remind myself that self-love is important.This movie saved me from depression and self-loathing.
Yes I agree. If a person don't love you anymore, let go. Don't try so hard to win him back and made a fool of yourself. Don't be a pathetic loser. Move on, accept it. Cry hard as much as you want but chin up.
Both at 17 or 28 she fell in love with a guy so hard that she's willing to give everything but the most important thing is she regain herself, the youth in her that made her live again this absolutely made me cry T^T
The metaphor of how when her mind is 17, the colors are sunnier and more saturated. And when she's 28 the shades are back to duller, more realistic portrayal of the world. I think the sunnier shade shows how bright and unlimited her world can be on her perspective
That is a unique and beautiful concept. We need to be happy on our own first before we can bring happiness to others, otherwise, we would just hang onto them like a life jacket and they would see us as a useless dead weight/baggage until we rediscover our purpose once again. So many women do this, once we find a man, we loose our luster and self in the process.
I love this movie! Never get tired of rewatching it. It helped me realize how I also let my dream of painting go over someone. I dedicated my time to him and acted as the world revolved around him. I’m still in the process of finding myself and making more time for important matters. Remember that you come first before anyone!!
I hope you keep fighting to find yourself and although times may get rough keep going and good luck. I am also on the journey of finding myself. (Ditto, I never get tired of rewatching this movie either)
Just here to say same as pine cone and magical wish.. I cry every time And i only rewatch when sthg reminds me of this film... Prob seen about 10 times now and i still haven't found my younger self or middle ground yet. I so miss the young me. I treck on n forget, until i have to rewatch this again...
Same here, I let go my dream of becoming a doctor for him, I lost my health too, and he left too. I am still in a process of finding myself. I hope u life fill with happiness and u find urself, ur meaning in this life Ameen
This movie has been with me since I was 17 years old. I’m 21 now and I still turn to it when I’m feeling lost. I believe this movie will remain my favorite even when I’m 28. I love you, my big self. Stay true to yourself no matter what. Don’t let anyone crush your dream.
I love how the movie being open ended. Everyone of us can choose who'll she'll choose, either yan or mao, but most importantly she can always choose NOT TO CHOOSE either of the two man. A woman needs to love herself first, no need for a man to complete her. Love this movie so much!
Lesson in my opinion: *No one can make someone whole again rather than themselves only. Life is a matter of choices. We make our own plot and stories. Even life has a limit, we should know how to cherish every single of it and live our life to the fullest!* ♥
everyone who is struggling with self-love would appreciate this movie. because more often than not, we’re also the same people who look everywhere for happiness except the one we can give ourselves.
That scene at the beginning when teenage Liang ask about her studies, prices and travels with just that bright eyed teenager stare just to be shown a picture of "her prize" by her friend is so well acted, gets you in the feelings tbh.
I am crying because this movie made me realized how i have lost myself along the way. I thought my pursuit of happiness will actually make me happy but i was so preoccupied of chasing after them that it made me forget to enjoy and see beauty of each moments. I made a bold decision 14 years ago which i think was the best decision i made in my life and until now i think it still is. But what happens after that are choices made out of fear. As years goes by the stake become higher and made me fear most of losing then suddenly i found myself clinching and holding unto what was little left. I wish i can get a reset but all i can do is to move forward but more confused as ever on how to make another step forward again. But all i can think of are the things i have not done and felt that i might not get that another chance again.
@@untilthen6429 almost always we do not know what the future can bring us. But what we know is the thing we do now will affect the things will happen next and the next after that. The sad part is sometimes its too late to go back and you just find yourself to just continue in pushing forward. But the tragic part of that are the regrets brought upon by our what if's from the supposed choices we should have taken but never did.
@@aphrodyboi that is why i feel you. I cant express my feeling through comment just dont know the other words going to use semi illiterate in constructing the grammar. Btw ty for your comment its really got me and my eyes really wanna cry 😢. I just realised that its not the end of the world and I keep praying 🙏. Ty to you..
I'm 17 when i first watch it. Now I'm 21 rewatching it. Maybe, when I'm 28 i will watch it again. It's such a masterpiece. I'll just leave a mark here.
Such a beautiful story of finding the inner you through the old you to become the real you... how I wish many of us can watch this... this generation badly needs this...
I loved how this movie promotes empowerment to women.. The actress was really good, i felt the emotions she was conveying in the character she was portraying. Kudos to all especially the scriptwriter and the director. Thumbs up to the actors and actress..
I'm crying my eyeballs right now, I mean,, i need to live my life. Living my life doesn't mean making myself a bad person but a better one so I'll never blame myself in the future. So if u're reading this and u're still able to live ur life, pls, live it and make yourself happy.
I understand you i have always lived my live how other people wanted :sit pretty don't eat to much : always get good grades :be obedient :don't talk back even if the person is wrong : don't get close to boy's : don't watch kdrama you don't understand :don't listen to BTS there music is shit .use skin whitening products your to black .. but no not anymore I wanna do what I want I want to be me not mis I'm perfect I wanna eat what I want life a little I'm only 17 never had a boyfriend never got in trouble always trying to get A+ trying to be the best but that's not me ....thank you for listening to what I had to say even if you didn't ask I just had to get it out ..for people that are going thru the same I'ma Tel you one thing Fuck them it's your life you only live once do what you want you wanna make bad choices do it wanna become a star do it.want to be a gamer do it , do what you think is best for you darling ,don't always listen to people ,if you don't agree to what they are saying don't think about what's best for them think about what's best for you M out
It’s so relatable because I’m 28 now and sometimes I miss the free spirited me from 17. I almost feel like the younger me would say “What are you doing?! “
I feel like I’m not watching movie because her acting skills of switching two different personality make me feel as standing there and see her life , as it’s not drama it’s real .Omg I really can’t find a word to describe my feelings for her acting skills it’s really amazes me 💖
I have never liked a movie that has an open ending. but I like this movie so much. no one deserves her better, either yan yan or mao liang. she doesn't need both of them.
@Ananda Syrafina Agree. Both men cares only about what they want, not what she wants. Glad she found herself in the end. She doesn't need a man to be whole.
This is such an inspiring story. Some people,who forgot their own identity when they have a family,the real dream that they have is like turn into a somewhat dream of no return. The end of this story was remarkably done with class.
Wow, this is an incredible drama. This needs to be a series with the same cast pls. Granted it isn’t about romance, but loving yourself and self discovery. C’mon, but most of us was hoping she went for Yan(Darren Wang).😅. She felt most alive with him...
This movie had some good moral points in it we as women sometimes put too much into a relationship that's destined to be doomed but we still hope for it too turn around sometimes letting go is the best solution ever. Freeing yourself and replenishing your soul energy can be so satisfying.
I don't think so, if she does that it's obvuis that the same story is going to repeat, she following a man because she deeply loves him, taking aside herself in the process, also her 17 self need to love herself first
@@MrWmJosephSmithIII you got a point, the word you're looking for is morals, not downgrade, look at the CEO running naked at the end of the film, what happened to his composure, the epiphany is next level, he's meant to be professional lol
this movie made me cry I really wanted her to end up with the other guy. however I can't forget about the fact that she truly found herself and finally started to enjoy painting again but sadly my heart truly aches for some romance as well HAHA
This is amazing! It made me realize a lot of things. We often go for the things that consumes us that we often forget the cheerful and innocent us. This movie reminds us the pure and fresh youth that always with us but we often doesn't notice. Kudos! Thank you Little and Big Liang. You will be always in my ❤️
This reminds me that no matter how old you are this is not a reason to stop dreaming. We must remember that never stop believing in yourself be confident and you must do your best to achieve your dreams or goals in life. Never let other people down you in whatever negative comments thrown to you instead take this as an constructive criticism to help you get back on track and to continue pursue your dreams or goals in life.😊😉
Aida Nadhirah Thank you, Maybe this movie had impact to us because there is a great lesson that we can relate to as a women of empowerment...This is an eye opener to all women in the world no matter what appearance, height,weight or color as long as you believe in yourself worth everything will be possible...Cheers to all the women in the world🍸😘
I still remember on a random day around 2016,17, or 18 I found this movie and fell in love with it and now it’s one of my all time favorite movies. I hope Big me would do a lot of things that I always wanted to do and have a fun and happy life cause as of right now I don’t do anything besides watch dramas, movies,anime, and listen to music. 🤣
For the second time watching it but still it reaches my heart and soul. I've watched it years ago, by the second time the message gives me more 10000× impact than before.
Thanks for sharing this movie!!! It reminds us all on what we've been missing in our life. The young and old souls must go along together caz they give you the courage and charm to overcome so-called "LIFE". I find this movie 1,000% relatable.
Appreciate the best version of someone, sometimes we tend to forgot what we were fighting for, at the first place. We thought we work hard for one love. But we over greed it for extra paycheck. Long short story ended up to prioritizing money compare to the main goal which to cheerish our love one. Take what you need only , enough portion, then go back.
Yes, same here!!! Actually, I like to see a movie or a drama or some sort that Wallace Huo and Darren Wang play father and son...I think they both share certain coolness that other actors do not have! More Darren Wang movies, please!
I am happy to know I have a company. We are doing the same thing, trying to find Wolfie Bo wherever we can. I watched 4 or 5 movies with Dalu by now. His smile and gaze makes me happy.
@@hannawalinska9812 Yes! After watching The Wolf, I don't know if there is any other Chinese drama is worthy of my time investment to watch!?! I watched The Wolf at least twice of the entirety and three times for some eps just to catch up the English subs. Darren Wang definitely raised the bar for acting!
This movie has saved me big time. I was chasing my career goal so bad that I started to lose myself just like the fl. I cried a lot when watching it as I finally realised that my biggest life mission it not about achieving great career success or anything’s but it’s about respecting and loving my own soul. Everything else will come to place at the right time but always protect and treasure who you are.
Just finished watching this amazing movie, I just like the plot and her character (both the characters actually ) , I love how in the end , no matter what , she chooses herself. This movie has a beautiful massage:loving ourselves, chasing our dreams , make ourselves happy and proud. This gave me a lot of energy and motivation in keep going in my path , and love myself. 💜 remember, no metter what , make your future self proud 💜
I LOVE THIS MOVIE. I cried because I always want to go back to my old self. This reminds me that my old self is still always there for me. I just need to take time to listen to the voice within me.. Such a great movie.. Inspires me a lot... :) :)
Kudos to this actress. Her acting is so good she really had me believing for a second that there are two different people living in her body. Exhibit A: 46:34
Ni Ni looks like Nana, Shu Qi and Chungha. She's so beautiful. And I loved it when Mao conducted that oblation run. 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway, this movie made me cry a river. Hit me right in the feels.
We are sometimes overshadowed by the love we have for someone that lead us to lose our interest in pursuing the things we are really fond to do. Worst, we chose to leave our dreams behind. This movie reminds me that we should love without losing our identity
I like that I did not know whether she accepted Mao in the end. Moral lesson of this movie, loving is okay. It makes us grow, but don't love to the point of loving someone more than yourself. You cannot share what you don't have afterall.
It's kinda sad that he was only able to appreciate her after she stepped out of his shadow. imo. You should be able to appreciate her for the devotion she's had for you. Self-actualization should be something you strive for. But it shouldn't be a pre-requisite for self-worth and whether or not someone can love you.
Love this movie, came bc Wallace Huo, everything he does is magic and good. I really liked the open ending, I prefer that she didn´t choose any of them (Yan or Mao), she deservers better then this two.
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I always come back to watch this movie whenever I want to remind myself that self-love is important.This movie saved me from depression and self-loathing.
🙂 u r alwys best urself.
I hope it does the same to me
Moral of the story, don't ruin your life for those who don't love you. Love yourself first 😘
Yes I agree. If a person don't love you anymore, let go. Don't try so hard to win him back and made a fool of yourself. Don't be a pathetic loser. Move on, accept it. Cry hard as much as you want but chin up.
@@hw2368 Exactly, self respect is very important. And most men prefer strong & independent women.
Oh brother- whine whine whine 👶🏻🍼Because we are too stupid to get the moral ourselves
Don’t ruin yourself for anyone at all. Period 🥰
So true! :)
Both at 17 or 28 she fell in love with a guy so hard that she's willing to give everything but the most important thing is she regain herself, the youth in her that made her live again this absolutely made me cry T^T
True dat true dat😉 hehehe😁I agree 👍1000%🤸♂️😜 little bite extra on da side😏👏👏👏
Agree 100%😀
电影和现实和现实生活不一样 希望不要太投入 最好就是要做好自己才能找到开心❤幸福的生活
SAME
The metaphor of how when her mind is 17, the colors are sunnier and more saturated. And when she's 28 the shades are back to duller, more realistic portrayal of the world. I think the sunnier shade shows how bright and unlimited her world can be on her perspective
i love how this movie isnt about finding romance but finding herself!
That is a unique and beautiful concept. We need to be happy on our own first before we can bring happiness to others, otherwise, we would just hang onto them like a life jacket and they would see us as a useless dead weight/baggage until we rediscover our purpose once again. So many women do this, once we find a man, we loose our luster and self in the process.
Moral lesson: don't ever lose yourself.
😭😭😭😭
Omg really? So we didnt need this giant fancy production? We can ask boring old you to puke out “Never lose yourself.” 👎🏽 Boring
Corret!
I love this movie! Never get tired of rewatching it. It helped me realize how I also let my dream of painting go over someone. I dedicated my time to him and acted as the world revolved around him. I’m still in the process of finding myself and making more time for important matters. Remember that you come first before anyone!!
That is so true , pine cone
I hope you keep fighting to find yourself and although times may get rough keep going and good luck.
I am also on the journey of finding myself. (Ditto, I never get tired of rewatching this movie either)
Aww :(( I hope you’ll find a new dream and someone that will support you with it !! 🫶🏾
Just here to say same as pine cone and magical wish..
I cry every time
And i only rewatch when sthg reminds me of this film... Prob seen about 10 times now and i still haven't found my younger self or middle ground yet. I so miss the young me. I treck on n forget, until i have to rewatch this again...
Same here, I let go my dream of becoming a doctor for him, I lost my health too, and he left too. I am still in a process of finding myself. I hope u life fill with happiness and u find urself, ur meaning in this life Ameen
This movie has been with me since I was 17 years old. I’m 21 now and I still turn to it when I’m feeling lost. I believe this movie will remain my favorite even when I’m 28. I love you, my big self. Stay true to yourself no matter what. Don’t let anyone crush your dream.
Do you know other movies of darren wang?
@@amieltristanbati4389 Super Me..The Wolf, Our Time...
@@amycruz5290 Thanks,I already watched Our Times it's my fav
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Same ....last time I watched i was 17 and i still remember the emotions i felt.
I love how the movie being open ended. Everyone of us can choose who'll she'll choose, either yan or mao, but most importantly she can always choose NOT TO CHOOSE either of the two man. A woman needs to love herself first, no need for a man to complete her. Love this movie so much!
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Yupp exaclty we woman don't need a man to complete us
Yes! Don't ever lose ourselves!
@@otaku_chan4208 same could be said about us guys too ya know
@@ruggsparch2787 yeah we know shut up
Lesson in my opinion: *No one can make someone whole again rather than themselves only. Life is a matter of choices. We make our own plot and stories. Even life has a limit, we should know how to cherish every single of it and live our life to the fullest!* ♥
Why do all you people feel you need to tell us the lesson? Are we fkn idiots that cant watch and see?
I love how in the end, she found herself again, being able to let go and put herself first!
NiNi is amazing as always ❤️
This is the best definition of "Love yourself first before loving someone else"
everyone who is struggling with self-love would appreciate this movie. because more often than not, we’re also the same people who look everywhere for happiness except the one we can give ourselves.
That scene at the beginning when teenage Liang ask about her studies, prices and travels with just that bright eyed teenager stare just to be shown a picture of "her prize" by her friend is so well acted, gets you in the feelings tbh.
I would not accept Mao back even if he swam across seven seas. If he couldn't love her in her worst why would he love her now?
Because he loved the young one. She became a completely different person.
True
It’s not love
Couldn't agree more..
Exactly
I am crying because this movie made me realized how i have lost myself along the way. I thought my pursuit of happiness will actually make me happy but i was so preoccupied of chasing after them that it made me forget to enjoy and see beauty of each moments. I made a bold decision 14 years ago which i think was the best decision i made in my life and until now i think it still is. But what happens after that are choices made out of fear. As years goes by the stake become higher and made me fear most of losing then suddenly i found myself clinching and holding unto what was little left. I wish i can get a reset but all i can do is to move forward but more confused as ever on how to make another step forward again. But all i can think of are the things i have not done and felt that i might not get that another chance again.
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Wtf this comment got me the most in the other way.
@@untilthen6429 almost always we do not know what the future can bring us. But what we know is the thing we do now will affect the things will happen next and the next after that. The sad part is sometimes its too late to go back and you just find yourself to just continue in pushing forward. But the tragic part of that are the regrets brought upon by our what if's from the supposed choices we should have taken but never did.
@@aphrodyboi that is why i feel you. I cant express my feeling through comment just dont know the other words going to use semi illiterate in constructing the grammar. Btw ty for your comment its really got me and my eyes really wanna cry 😢. I just realised that its not the end of the world and I keep praying 🙏. Ty to you..
How nice to see Darren Wang ( I love him) and Ni Ni , excellent the performance of both and the entire cast, beautiful , congratulations 🤗😍
Liang’s friend is what everybody needs.. mao is too ambitious to be with Liang at the end.. Great movie!!
女人不能不能太爱一个男人，把自己弄的好卑微！男人你根本不需要去爱他，知道怎么取悦他就好，🉐到自己想要的
反正直接说我要多久结婚，不接就离开，又不是世界没有男人了
在感情里，与其取悦对方委曲求全不如坚持做自己永远不要放弃自己
I'm 17 when i first watch it. Now I'm 21 rewatching it. Maybe, when I'm 28 i will watch it again. It's such a masterpiece. I'll just leave a mark here.
Same with me 😭
Thank you tiktok for recommending this to me
SAme omg
same!!!
sameee HAHAHAHAHA
Sameeee hahaha
Same
The actress is so good !! I love how she portrayed a 17 yr old and 27 at the same time
Such a beautiful story of finding the inner you through the old you to become the real you... how I wish many of us can watch this... this generation badly needs this...
I loved how this movie promotes empowerment to women.. The actress was really good, i felt the emotions she was conveying in the character she was portraying. Kudos to all especially the scriptwriter and the director. Thumbs up to the actors and actress..
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I'm crying my eyeballs right now, I mean,, i need to live my life. Living my life doesn't mean making myself a bad person but a better one so I'll never blame myself in the future. So if u're reading this and u're still able to live ur life, pls, live it and make yourself happy.
Is this a wholesome movie? No lovescene or sexy scene?
My gosh, new upcoming movie
I understand you i have always lived my live how other people wanted :sit pretty don't eat to much : always get good grades :be obedient :don't talk back even if the person is wrong : don't get close to boy's : don't watch kdrama you don't understand :don't listen to BTS there music is shit .use skin whitening products your to black .. but no not anymore I wanna do what I want I want to be me not mis I'm perfect I wanna eat what I want life a little I'm only 17 never had a boyfriend never got in trouble always trying to get A+ trying to be the best but that's not me ....thank you for listening to what I had to say even if you didn't ask I just had to get it out ..for people that are going thru the same I'ma Tel you one thing
Fuck them it's your life you only live once do what you want you wanna make bad choices do it wanna become a star do it.want to be a gamer do it , do what you think is best for you darling ,don't always listen to people ,if you don't agree to what they are saying don't think about what's best for them think about what's best for you
M out
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Seriusan?
80后的我看到凉夏与小凉夏告别那一瞬间，泪如雨下。那年的我，其实一直都在呀。
Can we aprciate the fact that the actress look like a godess
reem abbass She play a goddess one of her drama call “Love and Destiny “
First saw her in her drama Love and destiny.
Yeah . She is!
Why do i see KimChungha in her? Hehehe so pretty
You should watch The Rise of the Phoenixes, she is amazing on that drama.
She’s the perfect actress for that role. 😢 Didn’t expect the ending to be like that but it was beautiful.
I absolutely adore the piano bgm that always plays for Liang and Yan it perfectly encapsulates “first love” so well
It’s so relatable because I’m 28 now and sometimes I miss the free spirited me from 17. I almost feel like the younger me would say “What are you doing?! “
其实倪妮和马苏的演技都不错，倪妮太美了……身材一级棒
是不是也是看了流金岁月过来的？嘿嘿
jun wang 流金岁月是电影还是电视剧？好看吗？
I feel like I’m not watching movie because her acting skills of switching two different personality make me feel as standing there and see her life , as it’s not drama it’s real .Omg I really can’t find a word to describe my feelings for her acting skills it’s really amazes me 💖
I have never liked a movie that has an open ending. but I like this movie so much. no one deserves her better, either yan yan or mao liang. she doesn't need both of them.
Wait till Ananda Syafira becomes the protagonist, she the real deal
@Ananda Syrafina
Agree.
Both men cares only about what they want, not what she wants. Glad she found herself in the end. She doesn't need a man to be whole.
I love most of Nini's projects. She is a talented actress. I hope she will achieve more success on her career :)
This is such an inspiring story. Some people,who forgot their own identity when they have a family,the real dream that they have is like turn into a somewhat dream of no return. The end of this story was remarkably done with class.
I periodically come back to watch this and every single time I cry. I truly love this movie and NiNi 💛
I’m back!
2024
男人靠不住的，女人有一番属于自己的世界才是最有魅力的！收获的是成就感！真正的归属感！2021
Wow, this is an incredible drama. This needs to be a series with the same cast pls. Granted it isn’t about romance, but loving yourself and self discovery. C’mon, but most of us was hoping she went for Yan(Darren Wang).😅. She felt most alive with him...
This movie had some good moral points in it we as women sometimes put too much into a relationship that's destined to be doomed but we still hope for it too turn around sometimes letting go is the best solution ever. Freeing yourself and replenishing your soul energy can be so satisfying.
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I loved this movie. Hit home in different subjects . She’s such a good actress and so beautiful! The main male actor is so handsome as well .
I am not satisfied .. I want that girl and rider boy to be together😥😥
I wish for that too
Me 2
me 3 我也是
Yesss
I don't think so, if she does that it's obvuis that the same story is going to repeat, she following a man because she deeply loves him, taking aside herself in the process, also her 17 self need to love herself first
It's f*cking 3 o'clock in the morning, I have school at 8 o'clock and I'm crying.. damn it
Bc u want to sleep a bit longer? 😱🤣
Hhhh we are all like that bc we need to go the f*ck school what we can do we need to go are mom or fathe will kill
You got this
Omg same. 2.34am now and i need to work tmr😂
Worth watching???
倪妮，王大陆，我天，原来他们还演过电影，爱了爱了。
If it is me, I don't want both of them. The most important thing is love yourself and don't downgrade yourself for others.
Facts
What a witch thing to say! Downgrade. She wasn’t downgraded. Way to insult her.
@@MrWmJosephSmithIII you got a point, the word you're looking for is morals, not downgrade, look at the CEO running naked at the end of the film, what happened to his composure, the epiphany is next level, he's meant to be professional lol
This is actually one of the best movies I’ve ever watched! I loved the message too and the acting was amazing 🤩
This movie title shouldn't be "Suddenly Saventeen" But it should be "Dear Me"...
The movie was a good piece to motivate yourself ❤️
无论是哪一种形态的凉夏，始终都逃不过爱的牢笼。勇敢去爱，同时也不迷失自己，这个命题终究是难以解答啊。凉夏就像17岁的曾经和现在27岁的我，在一路磕磕绊绊中离自己的梦想越来越远，梦想的光越来越闪耀，可是现实的羁绊太多。这部电影看完会非常的刺痛，究竟有多少女生能在这个阶段幸运地找回自己曾经的梦想，能够像凉夏那样找回自己，也找回自己的爱情。严岩代表了青春萌动的过去，阳光、活力、冲动、爱恨分明，适合少女们轰轰烈烈爱情的梦想，却不一定能走向幸福的婚姻。茅亮则相反，具备了步入婚姻殿堂的一切要素，却忘掉了初心。凉夏则为爱妥协，放弃了成长的机会，男生一直在上升，而她却在原地踏步，成长的失衡让他们之间出现了危机。多么现实。
分开一阵子其实挺好，我现在就觉得又轻松愉快地像真正的自己了
女人的致命弱点就是一旦全心投入爱情，渐渐就忘了自己。
Flashback when the only thing you worry is passing your exam....miss those carefree days. Good movie how I yearn to be 17 again but life goes on.
I just can’t express how much this movie means to me especially now 💖😭😭💔💖
this movie made me cry I really wanted her to end up with the other guy. however I can't forget about the fact that she truly found herself and finally started to enjoy painting again but sadly my heart truly aches for some romance as well HAHA
yessssssssssssssss😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
我怎么觉得现在年纪大了活得更从容了。除了身体状态越来越老了心理状态越来越好了。年轻的时候还是迷茫的，现在越来越了解自己了，挺好的。
真的 结婚又不是人生的一切
@@iiiverson 嗯，同意。伴侣只是生活中的一部分。
正常情况下，人应该都是这样的吧，祝福每一个人都越来越坦然自在
长大了就比较懂事。这是跟经验有关吧？
同感，祝福你❤😊🎉
This is amazing! It made me realize a lot of things. We often go for the things that consumes us that we often forget the cheerful and innocent us. This movie reminds us the pure and fresh youth that always with us but we often doesn't notice. Kudos! Thank you Little and Big Liang. You will be always in my ❤️
挺有意思的一部电影！我们往往在成长的路上迷失了自己，忘记了当初的无所畏惧。
电影是唯美的，可是你的评论却让我落泪了
@@tingyuan4005 可是这也是事实啊。我都不记得以前的我有多无忧无虑
Love yourself,dont forget your dreams for someone else, live the life that makes you happy
This reminds me that no matter how old you are this is not a reason to stop dreaming. We must remember that never stop believing in yourself be confident and you must do your best to achieve your dreams or goals in life. Never let other people down you in whatever negative comments thrown to you instead take this as an constructive criticism to help you get back on track and to continue pursue your dreams or goals in life.😊😉
i almost cried reading your comment with the sad song at the last movie T.T
Aida Nadhirah Thank you, Maybe this movie had impact to us because there is a great lesson that we can relate to as a women of empowerment...This is an eye opener to all women in the world no matter what appearance, height,weight or color as long as you believe in yourself worth everything will be possible...Cheers to all the women in the world🍸😘
It make cry when she comfort her 17 year old self. Self love very important. Life is easier when you love yourself. Remember everybody love yourself😜.
倪妮真是好演员，朴素的面孔，化妆之后变一百八十度，成了性感女神。。
I still remember on a random day around 2016,17, or 18 I found this movie and fell in love with it and now it’s one of my all time favorite movies. I hope Big me would do a lot of things that I always wanted to do and have a fun and happy life cause as of right now I don’t do anything besides watch dramas, movies,anime, and listen to music. 🤣
i have been rewatching this ever since 2017 and it never gets old
This is the best version ever..with the best actor and actress
Darren Wang has so much boyish charm and looks like Lee Seungi, only more handsome!
For the second time watching it but still it reaches my heart and soul. I've watched it years ago, by the second time the message gives me more 10000× impact than before.
Ooooothis movie is just TOO GOOD!!!! Absolutely loved it
Thanks for sharing this movie!!! It reminds us all on what we've been missing in our life. The young and old souls must go along together caz they give you the courage and charm to overcome so-called "LIFE". I find this movie 1,000% relatable.
Appreciate the best version of someone, sometimes we tend to forgot what we were fighting for, at the first place. We thought we work hard for one love. But we over greed it for extra paycheck. Long short story ended up to prioritizing money compare to the main goal which to cheerish our love one.
Take what you need only , enough portion, then go back.
I can’t believe I’m re watching this becos of Darren wang aka “Wolfie”.
Yes, same here!!! Actually, I like to see a movie or a drama or some sort that Wallace Huo and Darren Wang play father and son...I think they both share certain coolness that other actors do not have! More Darren Wang movies, please!
Same , i'm watching all movies of Darren, he's a such great actor, versatil and beautiful man.
I am happy to know I have a company. We are doing the same thing, trying to find Wolfie Bo wherever we can. I watched 4 or 5 movies with Dalu by now. His smile and gaze makes me happy.
@@hannawalinska9812 Yes! After watching The Wolf, I don't know if there is any other Chinese drama is worthy of my time investment to watch!?! I watched The Wolf at least twice of the entirety and three times for some eps just to catch up the English subs. Darren Wang definitely raised the bar for acting!
Me too
As soon as I saw him
I clicked
Every years I rewatch this movie,unforgettable and full of emotions.
Me too! I love this movie and have watched it so many times!
This story reminds us that we should always love our self first 💜
Dear older me: If you happen to watch this again. Remember that the young you is always proud of us. Keep going!❤️
Moral of the story: always pick yourself and your own future over the fantasy you have in ur head about someone else
This movie has saved me big time. I was chasing my career goal so bad that I started to lose myself just like the fl. I cried a lot when watching it as I finally realised that my biggest life mission it not about achieving great career success or anything’s but it’s about respecting and loving my own soul. Everything else will come to place at the right time but always protect and treasure who you are.
Just finished watching this amazing movie, I just like the plot and her character (both the characters actually ) , I love how in the end , no matter what , she chooses herself. This movie has a beautiful massage:loving ourselves, chasing our dreams , make ourselves happy and proud. This gave me a lot of energy and motivation in keep going in my path , and love myself. 💜 remember, no metter what , make your future self proud 💜
What a beautiful film. Loved it! NiNi is such a gifted actress🥰🥰
I LOVE THIS MOVIE. I cried because I always want to go back to my old self. This reminds me that my old self is still always there for me. I just need to take time to listen to the voice within me.. Such a great movie.. Inspires me a lot... :) :)
Kudos to this actress. Her acting is so good she really had me believing for a second that there are two different people living in her body.
Exhibit A: 46:34
I really enjoyed this movie. It's like a constant reminder to look back on what makes you really happy. Thank you...
At least she got a real bestie. Not a fake friend like in other movies or dramas I've watched.
What a beautiful movie! Love it and the performance of NiNi is so wonderful.
Ni Ni looks like Nana, Shu Qi and Chungha. She's so beautiful. And I loved it when Mao conducted that oblation run. 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway, this movie made me cry a river. Hit me right in the feels.
For me shes the younger version of Shu Qi
We are sometimes overshadowed by the love we have for someone that lead us to lose our interest in pursuing the things we are really fond to do. Worst, we chose to leave our dreams behind. This movie reminds me that we should love without losing our identity
First ever, Chinese drama I love ❤ nothing too cringey, and very insightful 👏🏻
I like that I did not know whether she accepted Mao in the end.
Moral lesson of this movie, loving is okay. It makes us grow, but don't love to the point of loving someone more than yourself. You cannot share what you don't have afterall.
It's kinda sad that he was only able to appreciate her after she stepped out of his shadow.
imo. You should be able to appreciate her for the devotion she's had for you.
Self-actualization should be something you strive for.
But it shouldn't be a pre-requisite for self-worth and whether or not someone can love you.
I just want a friend like that!!! Everyone needs a friend like the leading actresses friend 😊💖💖💖
I m 22 now and wanna watch this movie again when i m 28 !! Like it for me to remember this again in my despair.
Sometimes I much prefer a movie with an open ending, I have my own choice to choose how I'd wanted to end it.🍃
I'm no longer 17, actually I'm in my 30's but I would also be head over heels im love with Darren Wang! ❤
You have to love yourself first and more before you love someone else. So that you won't lose yourself when they'll leave you. 💘
Second time watched this movie after The Wolf. The movie is so good and meaningful! Love Darren Wang's acting ❤❤❤
You can watch fall inlove at first kiss he is the actor there and it is a nice movie too
This movie has really deep meaning to me
It will always be my favorite one
My personal loved movie😭❤️
This movie always makes me cry uncontrollably at the ending, it’s still my favourite 🤍
很多时候，我们在长大的过程中忘记了自己的梦想和当初的追求，迷失在琐碎里，追求和执着于没有意义的事情。如果可以回到从前再来一次，一定不会虚度光阴
I have watched this 8 times now..2 each year since the first time i found it in my recommendation page...and still love it soo much
Is no one gonna talk about the intro....
it hits so different
我最爱的电影。每次心痛了哭了都想起这部电影。看了哭了。就舒服多了。都是要自己学会坚强。没办法当个小姑娘。过着这个人生是浑身伤痕。自己拥抱自己自己治好自己的伤口。今天是个难过的一天。再次看看。再次孤独地哄哄自己。泪流了累了就睡着了。明天再迷茫中到来。跌跌撞撞地走在这个人生。想睡眠长很长又再长。。。。
十年对于一个女人来说是多么重要，不管怎样不要弄丢了自己！
Im so proud of the actress😮 wow shes so good big applause!! 👏
God this movie always makes me cry no matter how many times i watch it it has such a good message
I came here for Darren Wang. Have you guys watched his latest drama, The Wolf?
omggg I just came from The Wolf!! Fell in love with Darren's acting in that drama so I re-watched all of his movies
@@JC_-wd6wc same. I'm in love with Darren because of the wolf too
He is so just perfect in the Wolf.
In love with his all characters Xxx
Yes here after the Wolf too, want to watch more of Darrens work 🙂
lol I guess I'm not the first to do this. I too fall in love and obsessed with wang dalu aka darren wang.
I love this show, hope they make more like this.
Love this movie, came bc Wallace Huo, everything he does is magic and good. I really liked the open ending, I prefer that she didn´t choose any of them (Yan or Mao), she deservers better then this two.