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“I'm trying my best to quit smoking now that we're married...I don't wanna die on you. It's a bad habit. I want to have a future together.” -Seb after being married for a bit
@@gamingmasterstellaguess what sence I married him before the 10th heart event so a few days later I did the heart event and he smoked I should stop smoking
As someone who's autistic and very introverted, Sebastian is my favorite mostly because he feels like the kind of person I'd be comfortable with in real life. I also like Harvey for the same reason; he's quiet, he's shy, and I relate to him. With either of them I can just do my own thing and they can do theirs. It really depends on what kind of person you are, I think.
same here, i always was confused when people found seb's behavior weird, because i'm on the spectrum myself and also have anxiety, so that's just "normal behavior" for me lmao
Love that you don't start over with a new save for each marriage route and simply marry and divorce everyone on the same save profile, eventually the whole town will be nothing but your ex wives and husbands giving your the cold shoulder
On my first save play I married everyone, divorced everyone, had kids with everyone, wiped all their minds, and turned all our kids into doves. Gotta say I was a little crazy when I was younger
He does say I love you some times after you marry him, there's a line very simillar to the "I need some time to myself" but then it continues saying "I guess its my nature, I still love you though. See you in the evening" its something like that
Personally I think he has a lot of very sweet dialog, before and after marriage. You have to remember that he's a depressed person. A lot of the "rude" lines he has don't come off that way for me. The line were he tells the farmer to go make money I read as a sarcastic joke. Most of the time he apologizes for being lazy some days or you just know he has down days. I could go on forever, but I think he's a bit deeper emotionally than most of the other marriage candidates. He doesn't get all lovely right away, if you keep up his hearts during marriage he says I love you all the time. Even if he leaves or goes for a walk he will say something sweet. However there is a sharp turn if you neglect him. I definitely don't think you have him enough time lol
Yeah, right? I see really cute his dialogues when he says "I didn't do the dinner, sorry for being lazy" and the "My day wasn't so exciting, tell me about yours" (or something like that, I'm just paraphrasing). He's trying to do his best being a husband and still being him, he's trying to be lovely and comfortable at the same time. He says too "I'm trying to adjust to the farm schedule, before I used to sleep at 5 am and wake up at 2 pm or something like that" (paraphrasing again). He's a such lovely husband and doing his best and I just love him for that.
One time, his heart dropped by one, and he got really suspicious of me saying he saw me in town and wanted to know ehat i was doing. Oops! Gave him a frozen tear and he was fine after that. At that point i was giving him lots of loves and kisses since that day xD little Seb almost got jealous. But the one dialog that always makes me melt is when he ask you come closer to him when you look cold 😊
what i love abt him is how he doesn’t become lovey dovey overnight like the other marriage candidates. it’s just a bit unrealistic that someone’s whole personality changes overnight just bc you married them nd i just love how he has his own life nd doesn’t revolve his entire life on you just bc you two are together. just goes to show how love rlly doesn’t fix everything but at least makes things a bit better.
Some of the characters do feel a bit OOC after they settle down, don't they? Part of why I love Elliott is that his over the top declarations of love actually feel in character for him, rather than just feeling like "well he's married so he has to be love dovey". All his dislouge feels exactly like something a hopeless romantic aspiring author/Fabio lookalike with a flare for dramatics would say.
om yes elliot harvey penny n emily keep their personalities ofc elliot harvey emily are older n more mature so i can definitely see them enjoying the stay at home farm spouse life ofc penny WANTS kids n a big family n her own home that isnt toxic n awful for her. i could see her enjoyin it the most too their dialogue also just makes so much sense for me n i didnt feel unnatural at all w/ harvey hes n older man n ready to settle down n have kids finally!! but for abby, seb, sam, alex, haley...idk.. i feel kinda bad just basicallyy takin away all their dreams n makin them be stay at home spouses :/ @@FlatAssTruther
He doesn't hate his mom though... When you marry him sometimes he visits Robin and he says "she deserves to be happy" when you talk with him. I adore Sebby cuz I have some social anxiety myself. I relate in sharing similar comfort styles, needing alone time to recharge, hesitant to warm up to people, iffy step family, even having my bedroom in the basement 😂. His marriage dialogue makes me happy cuz he'll still be introverted but is working on coming out of his shell and it's heartwarming for me 🥺. I'm a loser for this man haha
It's honestly too bad that Sebastian doesn't open up a little more with us before the marriage. True we get to do some things with him just spending time, and there is some dialogue that shows us why he's like that but the real 'draw' of marrying him is that he's the emo boy, he doesn't bring a lot else to it. I adore him but maybe we should have seen more with the frogs before the marriage or just a cut scene with him being out in Cindersap and getting to explain polywogs to the kids? It would have been super cute and added more to him.
While I agree that his heart scenes don’t show a lot of romance progression by themselves, I think when combined with a lot of his casual dialogue, you get a story of a reserved introvert who actually has social anxiety; he’s not really comfortable around people, sometimes even his own friends. But as you show interest in him, his work, and the things he enjoys, he starts to open up to you. Originally he talks about escaping the valley, escaping a place where he feels stuck and unhappy. I think a lot of it is the family situation-though he shows interest in his basement room, there are several hints that he feels unloved and unappreciated in comparison to Maru. It’s causing strain on their relationship as well. I imagine as he and the farmer get closer, the farmer will share that being in the city didn’t make them happy; it wasn’t a place they would go back to. And maybe that starts to change Sebastian’s mind on going there-it’s no longer an idyllic dream, just an escape. He has dialogue explaining that he had a romantic ideal in mind for the city, and now sees it as something unsuited to him. He’s happier once he’s in his own home and pursuing interests that he hadn’t considered before. To be honest, I’m always so baffled when people typecast Sebastian as an “emo boy,” because I never once got that vibe from him. 😂 But yes, definitely agree that his pre-marriage heart scenes could offer a bit more affection and I wouldn’t complain~
I really like Sebastian as a spouse. He seems realistic and level headed. As someone, who does tabletop rpg regularly, I really liked his heart event where you get to game with him, Sam and Abigail in his room. My favourite line from him is the one where he tells the farmer that during the previous night the farmer had a horrible nightmare and seemed to be very scared and then he expresses that he found it really cute, while blushing. I'm convinced he has a sadistic streak burried deep in his heart based on this line alone.
21:20 he actually tells you too, if you're patient enough. he blushes then mentions that he's happy he married you even though he doesn't really show it because he simply doesn't know how to.
For me personally, he's my favorite spouse solely because he's the only one closest to my type I have many problems with Seb, especially with the fact that his nice lines are so rare to get and literally 90% of his dialogue I got from him was either that he wants to read comics all day, asking if we had pizza in the fridge, or asking for time alone. The last one appeared almost every day. I personally don't feel that loved by him because of that. I also feel really bad about ripping Seb away from Sam and Abby because Seb literally stated that he's not close friends with them anymore. I also get icky feelings when he says that you're the only person he needs now because I don't think that's really a healthy mindset. He's still always the spouse that I go for in all my runs, it's just that you really should think about what he says post-marriage. I feel like I could never really take him that seriously because of how edgy his lines are. Keep in mind that he has quite a few lines about money, whether it be that he's thankful for all the money the farmer has provided or asking about their financial situation and hoping not to resort to selling his laptop (at neutral hearts). It can come off as him only marrying the farmer for money sometimes. He also rarely gave me gifts (and out of all the spouses I think his gifts are the worst...). The only gifts he gave me were coffees but I always felt bad for him because that means that he had a nightmare that night. Now on the plus side; he jokes around with the farmer. I haven't married many other characters so far so I can't really say much about what others say but I appreciate that Seb has a side to him that jokes around. He's a prankster and teases the farmer. I saw many people saying how they didn't like Seb saying "Hey. Look at me. Never forget that I love you... you're everything to me. Now go make us some money" but I find it cute how he's joking with the farmer. It's not everyone's sense of humor but it certainly is mine. Not to mention the comment about the farmer's nose. His high hearts lines are very hit or miss to me but I love the ones where he compliments the farmer. Unfortunately, I could list off way more cons than pros which makes it hard for me to absolutely love my marriage with him. He's my favorite edgelord in Stardew and I'd give him an 8/10. I wish that he had more development post marriage. He feels more like a roommate than a husband to me because of how he behaves.
See, and I have the complete opposite feeling about Sebby post-marriage. Lots of people complain that the spouses become furniture in your house, but Sebastian always seems to have his own life going on. He’s still freelancing (at least, that’s my interpretation); he’s started up a hobby around rescuing frogs, something suited to his interests; he still works on his bike on Saturdays and goes on rides; he visits his family every Monday and hangs out with his friends on Fridays at the Saloon still. I find a lot of his loving lines, especially if he’s worrying about you or mentions that even when he needs some time alone, it isn’t because he doesn’t love you (which is really in tune with someone introverted). His life doesn’t revolve around his partner, but he still shows them love and affection in his own way. I’m fairly certain I’ve encountered lines where he mentions that he’ll handle dinner as well. When you play as a female farmer, there is obviously the case of being pregnant versus adopting for same-sex couples. I encountered several dialogue points where he’s asking how I’m doing given I’m “with child” while still working about the farm (and other more dangerous prospects, LOL!). So, I’ve always found him to be more attentive and caring than people might give him credit for because his loving lines might not be as frequent unless you’re interacting with him a lot. In terms of not being as close with Sam and Abigail anymore, I have to wonder if that’s because he isn’t reaching out or if they aren’t, since Seb still goes to the Saloon every Friday as he did before marriage. He’s always had more mature prospects than Sam and Abigail-freelance work, trying to decide what his life plan is. If he moved to Zuzu City for work, would Sam and Abigail still try to keep up the friendship in that scenario? These are obviously questions with no real answers, but they are fun to think about~
This is such a good write up!! Post this video i went back on the save file and got a line about him not seeing his friends anymore too and I also found it.... weird. Like dude you can have outside of me, I actually encourage it :|
@@Rikrobat same! another sweet line I encountered was in early fall. he says something like "winter's coming soon. we have to do this, this, this, and this to make sure our house is okay. Don't worry I'll take care of everything"
yeah, it makes me sad bc i feel like he doesn't love me as much as i love him, i think it's just that he's introverted which is fair bc i'm also introverted and socially anxious, if i'm being fair i would probably act similarly to him, but still i know he's just some pixels on a screen but still, i'm sad :(
seb was the first person i married and i fkn fell in love w him. it doesnt show a lot in the cutscenes, but in dialogue after marriage hes actually so sweet and open, its a shame you didnt get ot see it now im in my fourth run and got the yandere mod someone said in chat, plus another mod that makes him less,,,,,, insane? in a sense? bc the og yandere mod is kinda unhinged and with the second one it makes him more like, head over heels w the farmer which makes it more interesting
The reasons I choose Sebastian: - he was the first who's dialog lines changed after we reached enough hearts. - he's into IT and rides a bike which is not much of a thing but one of an aestetic I want in myself. - our traumas matched perfectly. ''I often felt unnappriciated back home, but here I feel like I truly belong. Thanks for making me feel welcome, anon'', he said and my heart shattered into pieces. I feel him. - ''I need to stay indepentedent... still love you though'' exactly the type I am. I love you, but I am I and you are you. - also ''I need some time to myself, see you at evening''. He will understand me, who's an introvert, and my desire of privacy. - he tries to quit smoking but not because he wants to please me, but because he realises that it's a bad habit and he wants to see our future together. He wants to change to be better. - also I wanna be the sugar mommy and he's more than a match for me. I can spoil him with stuff without making it dirty or taking his opportunity being something without me. - he's a sweet boy and what more do I need? Someone down said that he's not much of a good lover because he doesn't give gifts and rarely says something cute, but I dunno... I never knew spouses are supposed to give you gifts, he's my first and only one. I sell all the gifts anyway because I see no reason to store stuff I don't need. And he says how much he loves me CONSTANTLY, maybe because I speak to him three times a day and even come back home earlier just to give him a goodnight kiss.
He has a motorcycle, he has issues so he's easy to relate to, but not to the point of it being draining (Shane). He is caring and sweet, he's not overwhelmingly negative or positive. And he basically plays dnd and is in a band, why wouldn't he be the first choice?
I’m confused cause he tells my farmer he loves them all the time lol thanks them almost everyday and helps out on the farm. So weird how everyone’s rng is different. Also fun fact the bachelor who says I love you the most is not Harvey not even Elliot but is actually Seb. Second is Alex&Sam. You just have to put up with him being a moody drama queen here and there but that’s kind of expected.
This I also always romance him cause I’m also introverted and as long as you don’t ignore him he’s so sweet somewhat before but especially after marriage
Hilariously, I've been married to Seb in my game for years now. I have NEVER seen the comment about not wanting to clean or cook. I had no idea that was a line he had! He's so sweet to me, and makes me coffee all the time.
Tbh my first crush in Stardew was his mom Robin xD when I realized I couldn't marry her I was sad then I met Sebastian and one way or another she became part of my family which made me happy, that means I would go out of my way looking for interactions with the two of them so I know a lot about their story and family issues. Seb's dad is gone, his mom remarried and had another child and he feels left out and with good reasons, Demetrius sucks as a step dad and husband tbh and he's overly protective of Maru. I related and empathized with Sebastian introverted and lonely self so that is why he became my fav bachelor and the only one I've ever married, as someone else said in another coment he does have lovely dialogue and guess i have been lucky in that department cause he always makes me feel loved and I am missing the kids related ones cause I refuse to have kids yet we're still a happy married family with lots of animals and slimes as our children xD he does help around the farm even when most of it is automated now, still the thought is what counts right? I really enjoyed your video
I love Sebastian because I relate to his situation. Being anxious around people, and having your parents play favourites. I like to marry him because I wanna get him out of that dingy basement since his step dad just ignores him and his family thinks it’s more important to have a lab then a room for Sebastian with a window. And since him and maru are close to age this has been happening since he was a toddler. His family just doesn’t take any of his hobbies and job seriously
I always like Sam he's cute gives off that loud-comic-relief, bestfriend of main character feel, but Sebby is my second favorite being the shy, slightly mischievous, but not knowing how to express themselves type...
I've never persued sam cause he skateboards on other people's property in damaging ways and like I've had personal issues of skateboarders damaging my property and his flippant attituted puts me off so hard lmfaoo
Sam felt endearing to me at first because of how much he cared for his brother, but it feels weird being in a relationship with him because it feels like I'm dating a teenager. I'm not even old.
Right? Like I’m so confused watching this because I played all day today and I think he said I love you 3 or 4 times and thanked me even more and helps on the farm consistently and gives you coffee and rare gifts
He's my favorite little introvert and I absolutely fell in love with him. It's the little things that makes my dumb nerdy heart squeal. He's so damn sweet I love him.
I like Seb for my spouse BECAUSE he's so independent. I have a job thats literally taking care of, and basically parenting, other people all day long. I don't want to go home and then start parenting/having a very dependent spouse. I like my own space, doing my own thing, and etc BUT I do love the sweet quiet moments of being together. I also think the whole thing of, "Seb abandons his friends and dreams once you get married" is pretty exaggerated. In his two heart event Seb showed he's still standoffish even with Sam and Abigale. He said he didn't want to hang out with Sam and got annoyed that Abigale was just gonna barge in when he was working which implies she's done it several times before. He also has dialogue when married that he's still doing work but that he's developing a game now. Not to mention he DOES still hang out with Sam and Abigale each Friday. Its totally chill to not like Seb because he's "boring" or "edgy", cause he totally can be, but saying he gave up everything when you get married is just not accurate.
I think a part of Sebastian's appeal is because he's the kind of guarded, secretive character that a lot of players can just headcanon around him to their heart's content. I actually feel for Seb though, dealing with anhedonia is awful. At best, it's like a lingering boredom you can't seem to break out of, but at its worst, even your favourite meal will taste like ashes.
I find this SOOOOO FRUSTRATING because somehow you missed the whole reason I married him which is how sweet he is to you. I’ve never come across the cleaning line before, he’s a bit reserved at first and a bit edgy but as you wait outside his room all day for him to come out and talk to him every day you uncover the best aspects of him. He is a passionate programmer who doesn’t have the support of his family and is kind of neglected because his parents prefer their star child Maru. He might seem edgy and unfriendly but once you get to know him he is really kind hearted and sweet natured, pretty much every day when he’s on full hearts with you he’ll remind you that he loves you. You see, you missed where his arc really starts to show, post-marriage. After you marry him he’s still slightly distant, but slowly gets closer and closer until his true self really shines through and he’s the sweetest person in the village. He has emotions, you just overlooked them 😢
Reasons why I like seb: he’s a little silly, he likes frogs and shiny stones (Frozen Tear and Quartz), and he wears incredibly comfortable-looking clothes like 90% of the time (the other 10% is when he’s on Ginger Island or during the flower dance). In other words I like Seb so much because he reminds me of myself (sometimes).
The Seb in your file was so mean XD I've never had the cleaning/sandwich line. I usually get a lot of wholesome dialogue that shows his character growth, I think you just got unlucky with your Sebastian. Maybe you should've gone for the Abby appearance after all.
I get why people don't like him but he's my favorite, him still wanting his own life is exactly what I like/want in a partner and being reserved makes his sweet lines all the better when you get them imo of course
As someone struggling with severe depression i can actually relate to seb tho. Not feeling like going out, rather reading some comics than sozializing, etc etc. And yeah living in a windowles basement prolly doesent help much but his family really didn't had any space in the house for an extra room so maybe he didn't even choose to live down there. Ofc he sometimes act edgy just standing somewhere alnoe looking in the distance but i'd argue hes not just so me emo boy trying to be edgy just for the sake of it but has actual struggles bc the signs are there for sure. So in the end i think his depressed personality really isn't the main point of being a problematic choice for a husband but he can be very childish too. Don't get me wrong he'd be a very lovable boyfriend but i think when it comes down to marriage both parties need to be realiable. I know for myself with how hard it is to manage oneself when struggling with mental health that i wouldn't make a reliable partner for marriage. I would choose to marry seb again however if i had to just because i would really love sitting on the couch reading comics together with my husband but irl i would't choose to marry someone with similar issues than me because we would just make each other miserable like that. sorry, that prolly came of to serious given that we talk about a game character haha^^ just wanted to defend our boy here a bit.
I relate a lot to Sebastian and we even have the same interests, home lives, and styles. I really love Sebastian because it’s like looking at myself in a video game
I'm currently romancing Sebastian. I'm a 10 hearts with him and I've really enjoyed his story. He goes from just being negative to syaing how hes happy you're there and just cute little things to show that you mean a lot to him. Personally in real life I feel like I'd be more of his friend rather than him being my boyfriend
This is why I married Shane, he hates you at first but in the end he says so much cute stuff, it’s almost heartbreaking what he went through. He watered the plants sometimes, watered the cat, repaired fences(quite often actually) and he’s just so pretty
I don’t think he hates you at first. I mean if you think about it he’s not a very social person in general, he’s an alcoholic so he probably has a hangover 24/7 and the usual times you speak to him aren’t great timings (either going to work or coming home from work, drinking at the bar). It’s not a matter of him hating the farmer it’s a matter of him just not wanting to talk to a stranger when he’s not feeling social for any of these reasons, all of which are pretty understandable.
Honestly I’ve never seen the appeal of Sebastian. One time I married him because I had a poly heart events mod for Seb and Abigail but like… I never found him interesting. Every day I’d go and talk to him and he’d ask “do we have frozen pizza?” GIVE ME MY ROMANCE DUDE (anyways romance Alex he’s a sweetheart and the character arc is KILLING IT)
as a person who lived a whole year married to Sebastian, if you own a farm or any animals, you do get some caring from him. You'll get scenarios where he tells u he got up too early and had nothing to do so he did all the chores. Like you'll see all crops already watered or all animals are fed. and sometimes he mentions that he loves you and is happy being ur husband. i dont have any experience with other bachelors, but personally he's the most wholesome one.
We need a Sebatman mod right now. Where it turns out by day he's a mainly sleeping freelance software developer, but by night hes the Dark Knight himself, the Batman, the bat costume wearing vigilante that keeps the streets clean of crime. That level of edge would be so fun to watch.
Introvert extraordinaire here, Sebastian's dialouge in this had bad luck. He has a lot of loving dialouge, and you got, like, none. Also, I have NEVER seen the "Make you a sandwich? Clean up?" Dialouge. Never happened once. He also helps out of my farm 1/2 the time. "Yeah I'm used to the cold n stuff. Hope the animals are too." eDGY bOi I hope the extra fuzzy animals can deal with the heat like I can bro I'm so edgy But it's all up to your tastes and experiences who ya like.
There are a lot of mods that adds more to Sebastian, I feel like there are a lot of missing things about him, like his family issue. and that's one of the reasons I can't play Stardew Valley without mods anymore, it feels so empty. im looking for the 1.6 update, since Eric said he will include new dialogues
Post marriage imo is one of the parts of the game that needs more work. I'd love mods that expand on it, because most characters seem to lose all their personality once you're married :(
When I first played Stardew I immediately wanted to marry Seb. The only problem was that I ended up marrying Alex because I was able to talk to him more. Once I figured out that everyone has a schedule. My next game I made it a goal to befriend sam and hunt Seb down when he finally leaves his room lol. He's a very sweet husband and his interactions are adorable especially when he asks if your single 🥰
I just started playing stardew valley. Watching some tutorials and now you're telling me there's a whole character story to unlock xD. btw I love your video
Admittedly I think you got some rotten luck on the dialogue with him! Im married to him in my main run and he often says things abt how you make him feel appreciated and like you want him around, unlike at home; also things like "Even though were married, I have to be independent. I still love you though." he also takes an interest in the farm, wanting to get into raising slimes with you, which is cute and appropriately edgy. I think thats why I like him so much as a SDV spouse, he's really communicative about who he is and how he operates, while still being openly fond of you. But I totally get like, in contrast to more effusive spouses why he might not be for some people. (My own effusive spouse of choice is either Elliot or Leah tho)
i found him a little annoying after marriage at first but he does actually warm up to you, takes care of the farm, shows concern for your wellbeing in the mines. just like everyone else. and sure this development probably should've taken place BEFORE marriage but i still like how he doesn't immediately just switch a flip and become a completely different person. i personally am not good at expressing emotions so i kinda get that part of sebastian's personality tho
i feel like you didn't give him enough time. but then again, more sebby for me. once you're married to him for a bit he's just amazing. everything i ever wanted.
Me who married Sebastian first time in the game I kinda relate to him a little but not to much I just wanna help him He does say "I love you" even asking u to cuddle up to him when it's a rainy day his love is there just rarely comes out but when it does it makes me happy and fan gurling and I think the dialogues are different for guys & girl farmer
he actually says "i love you" quite a lot once you've been married for a little while. he also gives the farmer a lot of reassurance. he knows he's not good at showing emotion, because he's our depressed edgelord. he just doesn't know how. he values his time alone and frequently goes on walks. he's a sweetheart deep down, and i know because im just like him. he needs reassurance and he gives reassurance. he doesn't know what it's like to experience love, so he doesn't know how to show it. he has a really deep character if you know where to look, and he will always be my favorite. even though when i play sve i marry lance.
seriously obsessed with these videos now. Just started playing stardew and your videos are life changing 😂😂😂. So fun and way wittier than I can put into words. omg pls never stop.
i married sebastian before watching this, i have no idea why he was so mean to you i havent played in a bit but here's what i remember about him (i might be forgetting some things) non-cutscene special events (continuous events): in the mornings he has a chance to.. give you a cup of coffee water some of your crops (i dont know how much, when i married him i already had sprinklers) talking: he mentions how he's trying to quit smoking he expresses worries about you going into the mines because of the monsters (this is a shortened version of what he says but he says something along the lines of "i know you can handle yourself down there, but sometimes i worry about you" towards the end of the conversation) when he's going out for a walk or drinks, he says the usual "i'm going out" line but adds an "i love you" he compliments how "you always look great, even after slopping around on the farm all day" (that one's word-for-word, i had an old screenshot) sorry if this sounds passive-aggressive, i just wanted to share :)
When I introduced my friend to Stardew she started asking about what the characters where like after marriage, and the second I mentioned Sebastian gets a frog she started going after him saying she's only marring him for his frog🐸XD
I personally love Shane... he cooks for you, he feeds the animals for you, he takes care of his chickens, he waters the crops.. he's perfect hahahaha We've been married for like 3 years and I'm happy
Sebastian is my fav, my first ever game i picked him and ive always picked him. ive never picked anyone else in any game . even in multiplayer games i tell people im picking sebby and theyre like okay which is nice lol. hes like the perfect person. bonus was he has a motorbike wnd loves dnd like me ☺️
I couldn’t stop laughing when you voiced Sebastian, awesome video Edit: I completely understand your opinion on Sebastian. I legit only married him because I heard about the frogs lol
When i first played stardew valley, i never had a relationship and sebastian was my fave candidate. Now that I've had a relationship and an ex, I just realized how similar both of them are. He was also cold, very busy with work, only has a few trusted friends and just likes to stay in his room all day, but opened up to me and eventually when we became close, I confessed to him. He's also a depressed edgy catboy btw lol. A few months in, I broke up with him because he has vices I hate and I felt that he doesn't really enjoy his time with me, I felt neglected. We're still friends, but right after our breakup he went back to being alone and his guard is up with me. Damn guess i have a thing for depressed emo catboys even irl-
I honestly love that introverted frog boy. But as an autistic, introverted, emo person - teenage me feels like I could relate to Seb in some ways. I've also just downloaded dialog mods and things to help expand stuff and make him a little more lovey lol. Maybe I also just have a type. xD
When I was 13-16-18 years old, I would definitely have chosen Sebastian. He's so sad and special. He is very similar to me in those years. I chose Shane when I started playing, I was 20 years old. Over time, I realized that it was a mistake, it's not my type. Even when I helped him with his depression, it didn't get any better. At the age of 23, I realized that I needed sweet buns named Alex and Sam. Alex is vain, but when you marry him, he is so happy to have a family. Sam is from a full family, he is adequate and pleasant. He is also happy to have his family and children. I also like Harvey. He is mature, caring, loyal and happy to have a family. If only it wasn't for that mustache...
Sebestian is the type of person that would play Something In The Way by Nirvana on loop for hours on end, and would keep writing on his journal about his one or two interactions he encountered on his day to day basis to pick up his cigarettes at the JoJa Mart
i adore this mannn😭😭 hes such a sweetie post marriage, u js needa give him time, yk? personally hes my fav cuz hes super similar to me, introverted, preferring to be alone over w ppl, hes js so me so i adore him (the frogs r a plus cuz theyre sooo cute :3)
I think Seb’s my favourite because of how lowkey he is. I get overwhelmed and irritated by overly gushy lovey dovey stuff (which turns me away from most seb expansion mods honestly) - and he is sweet, he does say he loves you quite a lot, but it feels natural with his personality to me and not in an overly flowery or bombastic way. I like that he needs his space still, you don’t magically stop him from being introverted even if he does like your presence more than that of other people. My only gripe is that some of the standard generic spouse dialogue sounds really really out of place when he says it - and not liking pet names but that’s a me thing.
He codes, plays DND, likes frogs and reptiles, and he’s got a committed social group. And cares about his family even after marriage. Girl same. Career and all. I’m super extroverted and because of the ADHD brain tend to find reserved people because I love watching them slowly open up like Sebastian does because every little thing is so much more rewarding compared to characters who throw details at you. I swear he also does become helpful over time!! Sometimes he waters all the crops by hand before I get up, or feeds animals for me, which I love because I literally just want to fish all day so.
Hehehe, the voice acting was awesome~ Fun story about the pier dialogue: I didn’t know it was a loop, so I organized my story building in one file to propose to Sebby on the pier, but instead of doing the “hug option,” he just kept giving the same “the ocean is best enjoyed alone” line. I would have been disappointed if I wasn’t laughing so hard-what a sad place for a repeat dialogue. XD Awwww, I’m so sad that you weren’t able to get more of his loving dialogue. (I think some of the furniture blocked his pathing, which causes spouses to get frustrated. Not the best game mechanic.) Because Sebastian actually helps out a lot around the house, and he’s really good with kids if you choose to have them. He’ll make you coffee in the morning. Sometimes he’ll mention going out on his bike, but he will add that needing time alone isn’t because he doesn’t love you-which is so in tune with being introverted. He’ll talk about worrying about you if you’re having a nightmare that night. He really is a sweet person, but you need to check out more of the dialogue. One of the best things I love about Sebby is that he actually has a character arc if you follow his dialogue, including random lines you can find in passing. He’ll be distant and reticent towards you, but you slowly see that he’s introverted and anxious around other people. He talks about wanting to get out of the valley, hence his focus on Zuzu City. But as you grow closer to him, he starts to tell you that maybe he isn’t suited for the city and all of the people there-he had a romantic ideal in mind, but now that he feels happy and comfortable with you, he’s more content on the farm working as a freelancer. I think he was unhappy and feeling stuck in life, but once he connects with the farmer, he opens up and finds the quiet life more suited to his goals. However, I can understand not finding this story thread if you’re only checking the heart scenes. In isolation, they don’t offer an obvious affection progression. I’m sorry he didn’t meet your expectations, but I still loved the video~ Thank you for tackling Sebby~
Thats so interesting thank you!!! I also think I had too high expectations for character arcs after just coming off the Haley video, it can also be difficult to find the more rare pieces of dialogue when I go through a whole characters storyline in only like 3 hours :( I know Seb has a piece of dialogue talking about Abigail which I thought would be fun to hear!
@@NinoKito - Nah, it's completely understandable! I've married Sebastian more times than I can count, so I've had a lot of time to find all of his dialogue from so many interactions. His character arc isn't as clear-cut as Haley's, and unless you are interacting with him daily, it's much harder to find everything. I think your format of only having a stream to connect with the characters opens up an interesting angle to view them from, so I look forward to seeing how your rankings progress in this manner! Thanks again for this fun exploration of my fave character; the Batman voice had me in stitches~
while I haven't tried every spouse sebastian is a lot more helpful than a lot of them-- he does farm stuff in the morning half the time and also gives me coffee sometimes if he's in the kitchen in the morning. I feel like he's gentle and kind of teasing but in a nice way
When I first started playing stardew my friend told me I’d love him, and they were right lmao. He was my first marriage candidate and almost every file i have has him as my husband, he’s my boy 🖤
I married Sebastian for the first time in my second proper playthrough and I'm honestly debating divorcing him. the only other person I married was Sam and I feel very loved by Sam, and with Sebastian,, I was honestly disappointed with most of his marriage dialogue. just talking about comics or if there's frozen pizza in the fridge. my personal taste I realize I prefer characters who are more open, though I do relate to Sebastian because I am very introverted, our love languages are on separate pages
But if you play with him around more sometimes he gets jealous if you give a gift to someone else when he's there and if you let him onto your farm a little longer he does help fix the fences and water crops and he gives you coffee in the morning! (My favorite part is the coffee👀)
LOVE the voice acting you did for him xDD I questioned if I should go for Sebastian again (it's my 4th playthrough) or just go to the others but in the end I am going for him because he just fits my interest in a man perfectly. I love that he needs time for himself and not smother you with cute words and gives you space (don't get me wrong i like if my man actually shows some feelings xD) but I am not that overly romantic so he is perfect in that regard. And he shows you that he cares in little details. And you can improve his life a lot if you marry him and I wanne see him happy! It depends really on your taste and if you give him time, he is really showing some love after the marriage.
imo he's a perfect choice because you really DO improve his life and he tells you exactly why and thanks you for it. other marriage candidates I feel like you sort of sacrifice some of their dreams and hold them back. with Sebastian you can see the clear improvement in his life and that he's happier. as someone who also struggles with anxiety/depression/their family it's extremely endearing.
as someone who's very shy and introverted and often times a loner like him, i feel the closest to this character and not to mention the fact that he's super sweet after marriage and often vocalizing his love for the player
I kind of like Sebastien but you got a point at times. I'm not much of a people person too but it'd be nice if he opened up some more. The comment about not cleaning isn't the only line that can put people off of him. I was watching another video talking about rating marriage candidates & he has lines that imply he gave up coding as a job since he married you. He also makes comments that seem like he married you for money. I guess he'd be easier to deal with if I use a dialogue mod or something but yeah the dialogue kinda put me off. I dunno if it helps but in some of Sam & Sebastian's heart events it's possibly implied they weren't close with or fully friends with Abigail yet. Especially since in Sam's heart events they were trying to find a 3rd member for their band & eventually went with Abigail when if they were already close they would have already picked her.
I'm really thankful for this video because i'm totally unable to try this myself, because as soon as i started to know him, he reaminded me of my older brother and i just can't do it- So, thanks
Ok I'm ready for the hate... Let's begin I don't dislike Sebastian but I'm curious to why he's liked so much. I married him once and married life with him isn't as great as I was lead up to believing. All he does is stay home, the food he makes isn't the best and to top it off he barely helps fix gates or feed animals. Compared to Shane who not only unlocks blue chickens, hangs out with his little buddy Charlie, fixes gates and feeds my animals almost every day it's insane that he has more love then any of the other bachelors. If anything Shane is my favorite out of all the other bachelors he has a character arch that makes me smile.. From a man who dislikes you to a man who loves you and gives you that goofy middle age smile I know and love if anyone is looking for the best bachelor, to me it would be him.
I’m new to your channel but omg, the way you role play and voiced Sebastian’s dialogue was soooo funny and precious!!!! 😂😂😂😂I love your videos!!! ❤❤❤❤😊😊
He dose help out on the farm by watering crops and feeding animals post Margie and he dose say “even tho I don’t say it that much I’m happy your my husband” I asked him to stop smoking on our date and I think he liked that and that’s probably another point of Caricature growth he has
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Wait at 10:41 it sounds like music from another video game Fable. Is it?
I like food
“I'm trying my best to quit smoking now that we're married...I don't wanna die on you. It's a bad habit. I want to have a future together.” -Seb after being married for a bit
@@dapperostrich7005 THAT IS SO CUTEE!!🥺
@@gamingmasterstellaguess what sence I married him before the 10th heart event so a few days later I did the heart event and he smoked I should stop smoking
As someone who's autistic and very introverted, Sebastian is my favorite mostly because he feels like the kind of person I'd be comfortable with in real life. I also like Harvey for the same reason; he's quiet, he's shy, and I relate to him. With either of them I can just do my own thing and they can do theirs. It really depends on what kind of person you are, I think.
same here, i always was confused when people found seb's behavior weird, because i'm on the spectrum myself and also have anxiety, so that's just "normal behavior" for me lmao
Honestly, same. ❤
Yes i agree
autistic + introvert + xiao simper here
all the perfect formula to make me love seb
harvey and seb are the only two bachelors for me❤
Love that you don't start over with a new save for each marriage route and simply marry and divorce everyone on the same save profile, eventually the whole town will be nothing but your ex wives and husbands giving your the cold shoulder
Thats when you bust out the robin marriage mod
Lol i hadnt thought of that but yeah everyone but the non marriage candidates will hate you unless you reset everyone's memories...
lol imagine just walking into pelican town and there’s just a group of ex wives and husbands of the farmer
On my first save play I married everyone, divorced everyone, had kids with everyone, wiped all their minds, and turned all our kids into doves. Gotta say I was a little crazy when I was younger
He does say I love you some times after you marry him, there's a line very simillar to the "I need some time to myself" but then it continues saying "I guess its my nature, I still love you though. See you in the evening" its something like that
In my 1 year experiment I only ever heard him say that ( and similar ) 3 times total
had more " lazy " dialogue
The “though” dialogue just feels offensive to me xD
@@And1slash did you ever give him anything??
@@TrueMonkeyNinja right? That and him telling me that he is taking it easy with his job becuse i have i lot of money... WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT TO ME
"still love you though" damn so romantic
Personally I think he has a lot of very sweet dialog, before and after marriage. You have to remember that he's a depressed person. A lot of the "rude" lines he has don't come off that way for me. The line were he tells the farmer to go make money I read as a sarcastic joke. Most of the time he apologizes for being lazy some days or you just know he has down days. I could go on forever, but I think he's a bit deeper emotionally than most of the other marriage candidates. He doesn't get all lovely right away, if you keep up his hearts during marriage he says I love you all the time. Even if he leaves or goes for a walk he will say something sweet. However there is a sharp turn if you neglect him. I definitely don't think you have him enough time lol
Yeah, right? I see really cute his dialogues when he says "I didn't do the dinner, sorry for being lazy" and the "My day wasn't so exciting, tell me about yours" (or something like that, I'm just paraphrasing). He's trying to do his best being a husband and still being him, he's trying to be lovely and comfortable at the same time. He says too "I'm trying to adjust to the farm schedule, before I used to sleep at 5 am and wake up at 2 pm or something like that" (paraphrasing again). He's a such lovely husband and doing his best and I just love him for that.
One time, his heart dropped by one, and he got really suspicious of me saying he saw me in town and wanted to know ehat i was doing. Oops! Gave him a frozen tear and he was fine after that. At that point i was giving him lots of loves and kisses since that day xD little Seb almost got jealous. But the one dialog that always makes me melt is when he ask you come closer to him when you look cold 😊
@@NiskkaKainsonAHHH that dialogue destroys me 🫠
what i love abt him is how he doesn’t become lovey dovey overnight like the other marriage candidates. it’s just a bit unrealistic that someone’s whole personality changes overnight just bc you married them nd i just love how he has his own life nd doesn’t revolve his entire life on you just bc you two are together. just goes to show how love rlly doesn’t fix everything but at least makes things a bit better.
shane's story was still better also it technically isnt overnight i mean once they date you get close you feel more comfortable but he didn't
Some of the characters do feel a bit OOC after they settle down, don't they?
Part of why I love Elliott is that his over the top declarations of love actually feel in character for him, rather than just feeling like "well he's married so he has to be love dovey". All his dislouge feels exactly like something a hopeless romantic aspiring author/Fabio lookalike with a flare for dramatics would say.
om yes
elliot harvey penny n emily keep their personalities
ofc elliot harvey emily are older n more mature so i can definitely see them enjoying the stay at home farm spouse life
ofc penny WANTS kids n a big family n her own home that isnt toxic n awful for her. i could see her enjoyin it the most too
their dialogue also just makes so much sense for me n i didnt feel unnatural at all w/ harvey hes n older man n ready to settle down n have kids finally!!
but for abby, seb, sam, alex, haley...idk.. i feel kinda bad just basicallyy takin away all their dreams n makin them be stay at home spouses :/ @@FlatAssTruther
Shane doesnt become lovey easily either!
Well that depends on each relationship in real life marriages, everyone is different
He doesn't hate his mom though... When you marry him sometimes he visits Robin and he says "she deserves to be happy" when you talk with him. I adore Sebby cuz I have some social anxiety myself. I relate in sharing similar comfort styles, needing alone time to recharge, hesitant to warm up to people, iffy step family, even having my bedroom in the basement 😂. His marriage dialogue makes me happy cuz he'll still be introverted but is working on coming out of his shell and it's heartwarming for me 🥺. I'm a loser for this man haha
It definitely feels like he’s secretly a mama’s boy. Especially considering the fact that he genuinely enjoys his mother’s cooking
It's honestly too bad that Sebastian doesn't open up a little more with us before the marriage. True we get to do some things with him just spending time, and there is some dialogue that shows us why he's like that but the real 'draw' of marrying him is that he's the emo boy, he doesn't bring a lot else to it. I adore him but maybe we should have seen more with the frogs before the marriage or just a cut scene with him being out in Cindersap and getting to explain polywogs to the kids? It would have been super cute and added more to him.
While I agree that his heart scenes don’t show a lot of romance progression by themselves, I think when combined with a lot of his casual dialogue, you get a story of a reserved introvert who actually has social anxiety; he’s not really comfortable around people, sometimes even his own friends. But as you show interest in him, his work, and the things he enjoys, he starts to open up to you.
Originally he talks about escaping the valley, escaping a place where he feels stuck and unhappy. I think a lot of it is the family situation-though he shows interest in his basement room, there are several hints that he feels unloved and unappreciated in comparison to Maru. It’s causing strain on their relationship as well. I imagine as he and the farmer get closer, the farmer will share that being in the city didn’t make them happy; it wasn’t a place they would go back to. And maybe that starts to change Sebastian’s mind on going there-it’s no longer an idyllic dream, just an escape. He has dialogue explaining that he had a romantic ideal in mind for the city, and now sees it as something unsuited to him. He’s happier once he’s in his own home and pursuing interests that he hadn’t considered before.
To be honest, I’m always so baffled when people typecast Sebastian as an “emo boy,” because I never once got that vibe from him. 😂
But yes, definitely agree that his pre-marriage heart scenes could offer a bit more affection and I wouldn’t complain~
his 14 heart event is so adorable but i feel like it was missing something
@@RikrobatWelp, now I know what I’m adding for Sebastian in my town expansion mod 😅
I really like Sebastian as a spouse. He seems realistic and level headed. As someone, who does tabletop rpg regularly, I really liked his heart event where you get to game with him, Sam and Abigail in his room.
My favourite line from him is the one where he tells the farmer that during the previous night the farmer had a horrible nightmare and seemed to be very scared and then he expresses that he found it really cute, while blushing. I'm convinced he has a sadistic streak burried deep in his heart based on this line alone.
21:20 he actually tells you too, if you're patient enough. he blushes then mentions that he's happy he married you even though he doesn't really show it because he simply doesn't know how to.
For me personally, he's my favorite spouse solely because he's the only one closest to my type
I have many problems with Seb, especially with the fact that his nice lines are so rare to get and literally 90% of his dialogue I got from him was either that he wants to read comics all day, asking if we had pizza in the fridge, or asking for time alone. The last one appeared almost every day. I personally don't feel that loved by him because of that. I also feel really bad about ripping Seb away from Sam and Abby because Seb literally stated that he's not close friends with them anymore. I also get icky feelings when he says that you're the only person he needs now because I don't think that's really a healthy mindset. He's still always the spouse that I go for in all my runs, it's just that you really should think about what he says post-marriage. I feel like I could never really take him that seriously because of how edgy his lines are. Keep in mind that he has quite a few lines about money, whether it be that he's thankful for all the money the farmer has provided or asking about their financial situation and hoping not to resort to selling his laptop (at neutral hearts). It can come off as him only marrying the farmer for money sometimes. He also rarely gave me gifts (and out of all the spouses I think his gifts are the worst...). The only gifts he gave me were coffees but I always felt bad for him because that means that he had a nightmare that night.
Now on the plus side; he jokes around with the farmer. I haven't married many other characters so far so I can't really say much about what others say but I appreciate that Seb has a side to him that jokes around. He's a prankster and teases the farmer. I saw many people saying how they didn't like Seb saying "Hey. Look at me. Never forget that I love you... you're everything to me. Now go make us some money" but I find it cute how he's joking with the farmer. It's not everyone's sense of humor but it certainly is mine. Not to mention the comment about the farmer's nose. His high hearts lines are very hit or miss to me but I love the ones where he compliments the farmer.
Unfortunately, I could list off way more cons than pros which makes it hard for me to absolutely love my marriage with him. He's my favorite edgelord in Stardew and I'd give him an 8/10. I wish that he had more development post marriage. He feels more like a roommate than a husband to me because of how he behaves.
See, and I have the complete opposite feeling about Sebby post-marriage. Lots of people complain that the spouses become furniture in your house, but Sebastian always seems to have his own life going on. He’s still freelancing (at least, that’s my interpretation); he’s started up a hobby around rescuing frogs, something suited to his interests; he still works on his bike on Saturdays and goes on rides; he visits his family every Monday and hangs out with his friends on Fridays at the Saloon still. I find a lot of his loving lines, especially if he’s worrying about you or mentions that even when he needs some time alone, it isn’t because he doesn’t love you (which is really in tune with someone introverted). His life doesn’t revolve around his partner, but he still shows them love and affection in his own way. I’m fairly certain I’ve encountered lines where he mentions that he’ll handle dinner as well.
When you play as a female farmer, there is obviously the case of being pregnant versus adopting for same-sex couples. I encountered several dialogue points where he’s asking how I’m doing given I’m “with child” while still working about the farm (and other more dangerous prospects, LOL!). So, I’ve always found him to be more attentive and caring than people might give him credit for because his loving lines might not be as frequent unless you’re interacting with him a lot.
In terms of not being as close with Sam and Abigail anymore, I have to wonder if that’s because he isn’t reaching out or if they aren’t, since Seb still goes to the Saloon every Friday as he did before marriage. He’s always had more mature prospects than Sam and Abigail-freelance work, trying to decide what his life plan is. If he moved to Zuzu City for work, would Sam and Abigail still try to keep up the friendship in that scenario? These are obviously questions with no real answers, but they are fun to think about~
This is such a good write up!! Post this video i went back on the save file and got a line about him not seeing his friends anymore too and I also found it.... weird. Like dude you can have outside of me, I actually encourage it :|
@@Rikrobat same! another sweet line I encountered was in early fall. he says something like "winter's coming soon. we have to do this, this, this, and this to make sure our house is okay. Don't worry I'll take care of everything"
@@whyaretheykinda - Yes!! I love that line~
yeah, it makes me sad bc i feel like he doesn't love me as much as i love him, i think it's just that he's introverted which is fair bc i'm also introverted and socially anxious, if i'm being fair i would probably act similarly to him, but still
i know he's just some pixels on a screen but still, i'm sad :(
seb was the first person i married and i fkn fell in love w him. it doesnt show a lot in the cutscenes, but in dialogue after marriage hes actually so sweet and open, its a shame you didnt get ot see it
now im in my fourth run and got the yandere mod someone said in chat, plus another mod that makes him less,,,,,, insane? in a sense? bc the og yandere mod is kinda unhinged and with the second one it makes him more like, head over heels w the farmer which makes it more interesting
Can you please tell me the name of the 2 mods? Thank you!
@@VenerableGomi yandere sebastian dialogue expansion and possessive sebastian dialogue mod
@@0nebulae0 i'll be the happiest person on the planet now.
The reasons I choose Sebastian:
- he was the first who's dialog lines changed after we reached enough hearts.
- he's into IT and rides a bike which is not much of a thing but one of an aestetic I want in myself.
- our traumas matched perfectly. ''I often felt unnappriciated back home, but here I feel like I truly belong. Thanks for making me feel welcome, anon'', he said and my heart shattered into pieces. I feel him.
- ''I need to stay indepentedent... still love you though'' exactly the type I am. I love you, but I am I and you are you.
- also ''I need some time to myself, see you at evening''. He will understand me, who's an introvert, and my desire of privacy.
- he tries to quit smoking but not because he wants to please me, but because he realises that it's a bad habit and he wants to see our future together. He wants to change to be better.
- also I wanna be the sugar mommy and he's more than a match for me. I can spoil him with stuff without making it dirty or taking his opportunity being something without me.
- he's a sweet boy and what more do I need?
Someone down said that he's not much of a good lover because he doesn't give gifts and rarely says something cute, but I dunno... I never knew spouses are supposed to give you gifts, he's my first and only one. I sell all the gifts anyway because I see no reason to store stuff I don't need. And he says how much he loves me CONSTANTLY, maybe because I speak to him three times a day and even come back home earlier just to give him a goodnight kiss.
he gives me coffee like every second day!!!! i love coffee!!!
@@priyasarda00 that's so sweet 🥺
He has a motorcycle, he has issues so he's easy to relate to, but not to the point of it being draining (Shane). He is caring and sweet, he's not overwhelmingly negative or positive. And he basically plays dnd and is in a band, why wouldn't he be the first choice?
I’m confused cause he tells my farmer he loves them all the time lol thanks them almost everyday and helps out on the farm. So weird how everyone’s rng is different. Also fun fact the bachelor who says I love you the most is not Harvey not even Elliot but is actually Seb. Second is Alex&Sam. You just have to put up with him being a moody drama queen here and there but that’s kind of expected.
Yeah he's really nice to me as well!
Me too, he gives me coffe all the time, helps out on the farm, and tells me he loves me
This I also always romance him cause I’m also introverted and as long as you don’t ignore him he’s so sweet somewhat before but especially after marriage
Hilariously, I've been married to Seb in my game for years now. I have NEVER seen the comment about not wanting to clean or cook. I had no idea that was a line he had! He's so sweet to me, and makes me coffee all the time.
Tbh my first crush in Stardew was his mom Robin xD when I realized I couldn't marry her I was sad then I met Sebastian and one way or another she became part of my family which made me happy, that means I would go out of my way looking for interactions with the two of them so I know a lot about their story and family issues. Seb's dad is gone, his mom remarried and had another child and he feels left out and with good reasons, Demetrius sucks as a step dad and husband tbh and he's overly protective of Maru. I related and empathized with Sebastian introverted and lonely self so that is why he became my fav bachelor and the only one I've ever married, as someone else said in another coment he does have lovely dialogue and guess i have been lucky in that department cause he always makes me feel loved and I am missing the kids related ones cause I refuse to have kids yet we're still a happy married family with lots of animals and slimes as our children xD he does help around the farm even when most of it is automated now, still the thought is what counts right?
I really enjoyed your video
I love Sebastian because I relate to his situation. Being anxious around people, and having your parents play favourites. I like to marry him because I wanna get him out of that dingy basement since his step dad just ignores him and his family thinks it’s more important to have a lab then a room for Sebastian with a window. And since him and maru are close to age this has been happening since he was a toddler. His family just doesn’t take any of his hobbies and job seriously
I always like Sam he's cute gives off that loud-comic-relief, bestfriend of main character feel, but Sebby is my second favorite being the shy, slightly mischievous, but not knowing how to express themselves type...
I've never persued sam cause he skateboards on other people's property in damaging ways and like I've had personal issues of skateboarders damaging my property and his flippant attituted puts me off so hard lmfaoo
Sam felt endearing to me at first because of how much he cared for his brother, but it feels weird being in a relationship with him because it feels like I'm dating a teenager. I'm not even old.
I love seb cuz hes very kind and quiet, hes very respectful and he has a very calm personality
THIS IS SO FRUSTRATING BECAUSE SEBASTIAN DOES SAY SWEET THINGS AND DOES HELP YOU, AAAAAAA
Right? Like I’m so confused watching this because I played all day today and I think he said I love you 3 or 4 times and thanked me even more and helps on the farm consistently and gives you coffee and rare gifts
@@AikoSea my first gift from him was a prismatic shard on the winter star festival thing, he gives some really good gifts sometimes
its rare but he does. i think some of his dialogues are very repetitive, so its not common to see those.
He's my favorite little introvert and I absolutely fell in love with him. It's the little things that makes my dumb nerdy heart squeal. He's so damn sweet I love him.
Look, as somebody who’s felt mentally stuck before, Sebastian’s feelings are totatally justified lmao
"So what do you wanna talk abt?"
Sebastian: **Leaves**
He is and always will be my favorite for many reasons. Chiefly, I relate to him a lot and he's just adorable.
I like Seb for my spouse BECAUSE he's so independent. I have a job thats literally taking care of, and basically parenting, other people all day long. I don't want to go home and then start parenting/having a very dependent spouse. I like my own space, doing my own thing, and etc BUT I do love the sweet quiet moments of being together.
I also think the whole thing of, "Seb abandons his friends and dreams once you get married" is pretty exaggerated. In his two heart event Seb showed he's still standoffish even with Sam and Abigale. He said he didn't want to hang out with Sam and got annoyed that Abigale was just gonna barge in when he was working which implies she's done it several times before. He also has dialogue when married that he's still doing work but that he's developing a game now. Not to mention he DOES still hang out with Sam and Abigale each Friday. Its totally chill to not like Seb because he's "boring" or "edgy", cause he totally can be, but saying he gave up everything when you get married is just not accurate.
I think a part of Sebastian's appeal is because he's the kind of guarded, secretive character that a lot of players can just headcanon around him to their heart's content.
I actually feel for Seb though, dealing with anhedonia is awful. At best, it's like a lingering boredom you can't seem to break out of, but at its worst, even your favourite meal will taste like ashes.
I find this SOOOOO FRUSTRATING because somehow you missed the whole reason I married him which is how sweet he is to you. I’ve never come across the cleaning line before, he’s a bit reserved at first and a bit edgy but as you wait outside his room all day for him to come out and talk to him every day you uncover the best aspects of him. He is a passionate programmer who doesn’t have the support of his family and is kind of neglected because his parents prefer their star child Maru. He might seem edgy and unfriendly but once you get to know him he is really kind hearted and sweet natured, pretty much every day when he’s on full hearts with you he’ll remind you that he loves you. You see, you missed where his arc really starts to show, post-marriage. After you marry him he’s still slightly distant, but slowly gets closer and closer until his true self really shines through and he’s the sweetest person in the village.
He has emotions, you just overlooked them 😢
Reasons why I like seb: he’s a little silly, he likes frogs and shiny stones (Frozen Tear and Quartz), and he wears incredibly comfortable-looking clothes like 90% of the time (the other 10% is when he’s on Ginger Island or during the flower dance). In other words I like Seb so much because he reminds me of myself (sometimes).
The Seb in your file was so mean XD
I've never had the cleaning/sandwich line. I usually get a lot of wholesome dialogue that shows his character growth, I think you just got unlucky with your Sebastian. Maybe you should've gone for the Abby appearance after all.
This is why people created Dialog mods. I use it because I feel all the dialogs of the Love Interests are lacking, in personality and just in general.
I get why people don't like him but he's my favorite, him still wanting his own life is exactly what I like/want in a partner and being reserved makes his sweet lines all the better when you get them imo of course
"should you actually ma--" yes you should. end of conversation.
i love this comment lmao
As someone struggling with severe depression i can actually relate to seb tho. Not feeling like going out, rather reading some comics than sozializing, etc etc. And yeah living in a windowles basement prolly doesent help much but his family really didn't had any space in the house for an extra room so maybe he didn't even choose to live down there. Ofc he sometimes act edgy just standing somewhere alnoe looking in the distance but i'd argue hes not just so me emo boy trying to be edgy just for the sake of it but has actual struggles bc the signs are there for sure. So in the end i think his depressed personality really isn't the main point of being a problematic choice for a husband but he can be very childish too. Don't get me wrong he'd be a very lovable boyfriend but i think when it comes down to marriage both parties need to be realiable. I know for myself with how hard it is to manage oneself when struggling with mental health that i wouldn't make a reliable partner for marriage. I would choose to marry seb again however if i had to just because i would really love sitting on the couch reading comics together with my husband but irl i would't choose to marry someone with similar issues than me because we would just make each other miserable like that.
sorry, that prolly came of to serious given that we talk about a game character haha^^ just wanted to defend our boy here a bit.
This title makes no sense. Who would actually not want to marry Sebastian? :O
I know right
I did.
I didn't marry Sebastian
I went for Elliot 🤣
I married Abigail
I relate a lot to Sebastian and we even have the same interests, home lives, and styles. I really love Sebastian because it’s like looking at myself in a video game
I'm currently romancing Sebastian. I'm a 10 hearts with him and I've really enjoyed his story. He goes from just being negative to syaing how hes happy you're there and just cute little things to show that you mean a lot to him. Personally in real life I feel like I'd be more of his friend rather than him being my boyfriend
This is why I married Shane, he hates you at first but in the end he says so much cute stuff, it’s almost heartbreaking what he went through. He watered the plants sometimes, watered the cat, repaired fences(quite often actually) and he’s just so pretty
I don’t think he hates you at first. I mean if you think about it he’s not a very social person in general, he’s an alcoholic so he probably has a hangover 24/7 and the usual times you speak to him aren’t great timings (either going to work or coming home from work, drinking at the bar). It’s not a matter of him hating the farmer it’s a matter of him just not wanting to talk to a stranger when he’s not feeling social for any of these reasons, all of which are pretty understandable.
Yeah i agree, he’s a good boyfriend to 💙
You mean the alcoholic?
@@CyanideOwl are you insinuating that people who struggle with addictions are undeserving of love?
pretty sure watering crops, filling the pet bowl and repairing fences are things all spouses do
Honestly I’ve never seen the appeal of Sebastian. One time I married him because I had a poly heart events mod for Seb and Abigail but like… I never found him interesting. Every day I’d go and talk to him and he’d ask “do we have frozen pizza?” GIVE ME MY ROMANCE DUDE
(anyways romance Alex he’s a sweetheart and the character arc is KILLING IT)
YOU LIKE ALEX TOO?! That's such a slay
SO IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO LIKES ALEX? THANK GOD. I THOUGHT I WAS CRAZY.
I just found his events super boring. Didn't see any romance.
as a person who lived a whole year married to Sebastian, if you own a farm or any animals, you do get some caring from him. You'll get scenarios where he tells u he got up too early and had nothing to do so he did all the chores. Like you'll see all crops already watered or all animals are fed. and sometimes he mentions that he loves you and is happy being ur husband. i dont have any experience with other bachelors, but personally he's the most wholesome one.
We need a Sebatman mod right now. Where it turns out by day he's a mainly sleeping freelance software developer, but by night hes the Dark Knight himself, the Batman, the bat costume wearing vigilante that keeps the streets clean of crime. That level of edge would be so fun to watch.
He gets happier and he stops smoking, too.
He is legit the only bachelor I haven't married lmfao
I haven't married any of the bachelors so im very excited to go through all of them!!
@@NinoKito The only one i married so far is Alex.. a**hole
Introvert extraordinaire here, Sebastian's dialouge in this had bad luck. He has a lot of loving dialouge, and you got, like, none.
Also, I have NEVER seen the "Make you a sandwich? Clean up?" Dialouge. Never happened once. He also helps out of my farm 1/2 the time.
"Yeah I'm used to the cold n stuff. Hope the animals are too." eDGY bOi I hope the extra fuzzy animals can deal with the heat like I can bro I'm so edgy
But it's all up to your tastes and experiences who ya like.
There are a lot of mods that adds more to Sebastian, I feel like there are a lot of missing things about him, like his family issue. and that's one of the reasons I can't play Stardew Valley without mods anymore, it feels so empty. im looking for the 1.6 update, since Eric said he will include new dialogues
Post marriage imo is one of the parts of the game that needs more work. I'd love mods that expand on it, because most characters seem to lose all their personality once you're married :(
When I first played Stardew I immediately wanted to marry Seb. The only problem was that I ended up marrying Alex because I was able to talk to him more. Once I figured out that everyone has a schedule. My next game I made it a goal to befriend sam and hunt Seb down when he finally leaves his room lol. He's a very sweet husband and his interactions are adorable especially when he asks if your single 🥰
Sebastian is a living Evanescence song. I picked him purely for the memes and he just keeps on giving
I just started playing stardew valley. Watching some tutorials and now you're telling me there's a whole character story to unlock xD. btw I love your video
thank you! :D
If you want to feel loved, do Elliott's route. He showers you with affection.
EXACTLY I really just dont understand why people hate him so much
Admittedly I think you got some rotten luck on the dialogue with him! Im married to him in my main run and he often says things abt how you make him feel appreciated and like you want him around, unlike at home; also things like "Even though were married, I have to be independent. I still love you though." he also takes an interest in the farm, wanting to get into raising slimes with you, which is cute and appropriately edgy. I think thats why I like him so much as a SDV spouse, he's really communicative about who he is and how he operates, while still being openly fond of you. But I totally get like, in contrast to more effusive spouses why he might not be for some people. (My own effusive spouse of choice is either Elliot or Leah tho)
i found him a little annoying after marriage at first but he does actually warm up to you, takes care of the farm, shows concern for your wellbeing in the mines. just like everyone else. and sure this development probably should've taken place BEFORE marriage but i still like how he doesn't immediately just switch a flip and become a completely different person. i personally am not good at expressing emotions so i kinda get that part of sebastian's personality tho
i feel like you didn't give him enough time. but then again, more sebby for me. once you're married to him for a bit he's just amazing. everything i ever wanted.
Me who married Sebastian first time in the game I kinda relate to him a little but not to much I just wanna help him
He does say "I love you" even asking u to cuddle up to him when it's a rainy day his love is there just rarely comes out but when it does it makes me happy and fan gurling and I think the dialogues are different for guys & girl farmer
he actually says "i love you" quite a lot once you've been married for a little while. he also gives the farmer a lot of reassurance. he knows he's not good at showing emotion, because he's our depressed edgelord. he just doesn't know how. he values his time alone and frequently goes on walks. he's a sweetheart deep down, and i know because im just like him. he needs reassurance and he gives reassurance. he doesn't know what it's like to experience love, so he doesn't know how to show it. he has a really deep character if you know where to look, and he will always be my favorite.
even though when i play sve i marry lance.
seriously obsessed with these videos now. Just started playing stardew and your videos are life changing 😂😂😂. So fun and way wittier than I can put into words. omg pls never stop.
I have a suggestion for this series: you should totally do Sam or Alex
i married sebastian before watching this, i have no idea why he was so mean to you
i havent played in a bit but here's what i remember about him (i might be forgetting some things)
non-cutscene special events (continuous events):
in the mornings he has a chance to..
give you a cup of coffee
water some of your crops (i dont know how much, when i married him i already had sprinklers)
talking:
he mentions how he's trying to quit smoking
he expresses worries about you going into the mines because of the monsters (this is a shortened version of what he says but he says something along the lines of "i know you can handle yourself down there, but sometimes i worry about you" towards the end of the conversation)
when he's going out for a walk or drinks, he says the usual "i'm going out" line but adds an "i love you"
he compliments how "you always look great, even after slopping around on the farm all day" (that one's word-for-word, i had an old screenshot)
sorry if this sounds passive-aggressive, i just wanted to share :)
When I introduced my friend to Stardew she started asking about what the characters where like after marriage, and the second I mentioned Sebastian gets a frog she started going after him saying she's only marring him for his frog🐸XD
Not you giving sebastian the batman backstory 😂
i expected an in-depth, introspective, complex character analysis!
6:20 Oh cool the comedic timing mod is working
He does occasionally water the crops and says he feeds the cat / makes u coffee. Idk as an introvert myself i enjoyed his storyline a lot
Sebastian gets a LOT better after being married a little while. honestly he's just the sweetest imo
I personally love Shane... he cooks for you, he feeds the animals for you, he takes care of his chickens, he waters the crops.. he's perfect hahahaha We've been married for like 3 years and I'm happy
He helps around the farm sometimes. Watering the crops and feeding the animals.
Sebastian is my fav, my first ever game i picked him and ive always picked him. ive never picked anyone else in any game . even in multiplayer games i tell people im picking sebby and theyre like okay which is nice lol. hes like the perfect person. bonus was he has a motorbike wnd loves dnd like me ☺️
It takes him a couple of months in game to adjust. He says some really sweet things after a while that just melts my heart
I couldn’t stop laughing when you voiced Sebastian, awesome video
Edit: I completely understand your opinion on Sebastian. I legit only married him because I heard about the frogs lol
Thank you! Edgy batman boy loves his frogs :3
When i first played stardew valley, i never had a relationship and sebastian was my fave candidate. Now that I've had a relationship and an ex, I just realized how similar both of them are. He was also cold, very busy with work, only has a few trusted friends and just likes to stay in his room all day, but opened up to me and eventually when we became close, I confessed to him. He's also a depressed edgy catboy btw lol. A few months in, I broke up with him because he has vices I hate and I felt that he doesn't really enjoy his time with me, I felt neglected. We're still friends, but right after our breakup he went back to being alone and his guard is up with me. Damn guess i have a thing for depressed emo catboys even irl-
I honestly love that introverted frog boy. But as an autistic, introverted, emo person - teenage me feels like I could relate to Seb in some ways. I've also just downloaded dialog mods and things to help expand stuff and make him a little more lovey lol. Maybe I also just have a type. xD
When you marry him he do say "I love you" and "You are my everything"
sebiastian: i'm gonna quit smoking
also sebastian in the valley fair: *literally smoking next to sam*
When I was 13-16-18 years old, I would definitely have chosen Sebastian. He's so sad and special. He is very similar to me in those years.
I chose Shane when I started playing, I was 20 years old. Over time, I realized that it was a mistake, it's not my type. Even when I helped him with his depression, it didn't get any better.
At the age of 23, I realized that I needed sweet buns named Alex and Sam. Alex is vain, but when you marry him, he is so happy to have a family. Sam is from a full family, he is adequate and pleasant. He is also happy to have his family and children. I also like Harvey. He is mature, caring, loyal and happy to have a family. If only it wasn't for that mustache...
Sebestian is the type of person that would play Something In The Way by Nirvana on loop for hours on end, and would keep writing on his journal about his one or two interactions he encountered on his day to day basis to pick up his cigarettes at the JoJa Mart
i adore this mannn😭😭 hes such a sweetie post marriage, u js needa give him time, yk? personally hes my fav cuz hes super similar to me, introverted, preferring to be alone over w ppl, hes js so me so i adore him (the frogs r a plus cuz theyre sooo cute :3)
Whn you mentioned Nirvana, i had to suscribe xddd
I love Sebs, he actually helps a lot in the farm.
I think Seb’s my favourite because of how lowkey he is. I get overwhelmed and irritated by overly gushy lovey dovey stuff (which turns me away from most seb expansion mods honestly) - and he is sweet, he does say he loves you quite a lot, but it feels natural with his personality to me and not in an overly flowery or bombastic way. I like that he needs his space still, you don’t magically stop him from being introverted even if he does like your presence more than that of other people. My only gripe is that some of the standard generic spouse dialogue sounds really really out of place when he says it - and not liking pet names but that’s a me thing.
He codes, plays DND, likes frogs and reptiles, and he’s got a committed social group. And cares about his family even after marriage. Girl same. Career and all.
I’m super extroverted and because of the ADHD brain tend to find reserved people because I love watching them slowly open up like Sebastian does because every little thing is so much more rewarding compared to characters who throw details at you.
I swear he also does become helpful over time!! Sometimes he waters all the crops by hand before I get up, or feeds animals for me, which I love because I literally just want to fish all day so.
Hehehe, the voice acting was awesome~
Fun story about the pier dialogue: I didn’t know it was a loop, so I organized my story building in one file to propose to Sebby on the pier, but instead of doing the “hug option,” he just kept giving the same “the ocean is best enjoyed alone” line. I would have been disappointed if I wasn’t laughing so hard-what a sad place for a repeat dialogue. XD
Awwww, I’m so sad that you weren’t able to get more of his loving dialogue. (I think some of the furniture blocked his pathing, which causes spouses to get frustrated. Not the best game mechanic.) Because Sebastian actually helps out a lot around the house, and he’s really good with kids if you choose to have them. He’ll make you coffee in the morning. Sometimes he’ll mention going out on his bike, but he will add that needing time alone isn’t because he doesn’t love you-which is so in tune with being introverted. He’ll talk about worrying about you if you’re having a nightmare that night. He really is a sweet person, but you need to check out more of the dialogue.
One of the best things I love about Sebby is that he actually has a character arc if you follow his dialogue, including random lines you can find in passing. He’ll be distant and reticent towards you, but you slowly see that he’s introverted and anxious around other people. He talks about wanting to get out of the valley, hence his focus on Zuzu City. But as you grow closer to him, he starts to tell you that maybe he isn’t suited for the city and all of the people there-he had a romantic ideal in mind, but now that he feels happy and comfortable with you, he’s more content on the farm working as a freelancer. I think he was unhappy and feeling stuck in life, but once he connects with the farmer, he opens up and finds the quiet life more suited to his goals. However, I can understand not finding this story thread if you’re only checking the heart scenes. In isolation, they don’t offer an obvious affection progression.
I’m sorry he didn’t meet your expectations, but I still loved the video~ Thank you for tackling Sebby~
Thats so interesting thank you!!! I also think I had too high expectations for character arcs after just coming off the Haley video, it can also be difficult to find the more rare pieces of dialogue when I go through a whole characters storyline in only like 3 hours :( I know Seb has a piece of dialogue talking about Abigail which I thought would be fun to hear!
@@NinoKito - Nah, it's completely understandable! I've married Sebastian more times than I can count, so I've had a lot of time to find all of his dialogue from so many interactions. His character arc isn't as clear-cut as Haley's, and unless you are interacting with him daily, it's much harder to find everything.
I think your format of only having a stream to connect with the characters opens up an interesting angle to view them from, so I look forward to seeing how your rankings progress in this manner! Thanks again for this fun exploration of my fave character; the Batman voice had me in stitches~
Honestly I never got that cleaning comment from Sebastian in my playthrough and i've been married to him for quite a while.
i mean… now i want to marry him JUST to have a pet frog😂
while I haven't tried every spouse sebastian is a lot more helpful than a lot of them-- he does farm stuff in the morning half the time and also gives me coffee sometimes if he's in the kitchen in the morning. I feel like he's gentle and kind of teasing but in a nice way
When I first started playing stardew my friend told me I’d love him, and they were right lmao. He was my first marriage candidate and almost every file i have has him as my husband, he’s my boy 🖤
I married Sebastian for the first time in my second proper playthrough and I'm honestly debating divorcing him. the only other person I married was Sam and I feel very loved by Sam, and with Sebastian,, I was honestly disappointed with most of his marriage dialogue. just talking about comics or if there's frozen pizza in the fridge. my personal taste I realize I prefer characters who are more open, though I do relate to Sebastian because I am very introverted, our love languages are on separate pages
"Oh... it's snowing AND raining!"
That's ok this just turned into My Immortal and that's a good thing lol. Sebastian approves!
But if you play with him around more sometimes he gets jealous if you give a gift to someone else when he's there and if you let him onto your farm a little longer he does help fix the fences and water crops and he gives you coffee in the morning! (My favorite part is the coffee👀)
LOVE the voice acting you did for him xDD
I questioned if I should go for Sebastian again (it's my 4th playthrough) or just go to the others but in the end I am going for him because he just fits my interest in a man perfectly. I love that he needs time for himself and not smother you with cute words and gives you space (don't get me wrong i like if my man actually shows some feelings xD) but I am not that overly romantic so he is perfect in that regard. And he shows you that he cares in little details. And you can improve his life a lot if you marry him and I wanne see him happy! It depends really on your taste and if you give him time, he is really showing some love after the marriage.
imo he's a perfect choice because you really DO improve his life and he tells you exactly why and thanks you for it. other marriage candidates I feel like you sort of sacrifice some of their dreams and hold them back. with Sebastian you can see the clear improvement in his life and that he's happier. as someone who also struggles with anxiety/depression/their family it's extremely endearing.
@@BaltoDork Well said!
But which Character do you think gives up their dreams a bit? Never dated the others so idk
as someone who's very shy and introverted and often times a loner like him, i feel the closest to this character and not to mention the fact that he's super sweet after marriage and often vocalizing his love for the player
Honestly I’m going for Alex rn. Idk why he just caught my eye and he’s also pretty sweet once you get to know him.
I kind of like Sebastien but you got a point at times. I'm not much of a people person too but it'd be nice if he opened up some more. The comment about not cleaning isn't the only line that can put people off of him. I was watching another video talking about rating marriage candidates & he has lines that imply he gave up coding as a job since he married you. He also makes comments that seem like he married you for money.
I guess he'd be easier to deal with if I use a dialogue mod or something but yeah the dialogue kinda put me off.
I dunno if it helps but in some of Sam & Sebastian's heart events it's possibly implied they weren't close with or fully friends with Abigail yet. Especially since in Sam's heart events they were trying to find a 3rd member for their band & eventually went with Abigail when if they were already close they would have already picked her.
Villager: I want to leave the valley
Farmer: you will marry me and bear my children😆
I'm really thankful for this video because i'm totally unable to try this myself, because as soon as i started to know him, he reaminded me of my older brother and i just can't do it-
So, thanks
Ok I'm ready for the hate... Let's begin
I don't dislike Sebastian but I'm curious to why he's liked so much. I married him once and married life with him isn't as great as I was lead up to believing. All he does is stay home, the food he makes isn't the best and to top it off he barely helps fix gates or feed animals. Compared to Shane who not only unlocks blue chickens, hangs out with his little buddy Charlie, fixes gates and feeds my animals almost every day it's insane that he has more love then any of the other bachelors. If anything Shane is my favorite out of all the other bachelors he has a character arch that makes me smile.. From a man who dislikes you to a man who loves you and gives you that goofy middle age smile I know and love if anyone is looking for the best bachelor, to me it would be him.
I’m new to your channel but omg, the way you role play and voiced Sebastian’s dialogue was soooo funny and precious!!!! 😂😂😂😂I love your videos!!! ❤❤❤❤😊😊
He dose help out on the farm by watering crops and feeding animals post Margie and he dose say “even tho I don’t say it that much I’m happy your my husband” I asked him to stop smoking on our date and I think he liked that and that’s probably another point of Caricature growth he has
I love how you went from trash-talking him to "Awww, they kissed :3c" to trash talking him again hahaha
i’m always a sam or alex person bc they actually show affection.
He plays D&ad. Thats enough of a reason