I think every Cap knows they have never had control. If we did, we wouldn't go through so much. It's always so challenging. For once, I'd love to hear a reading where we're happy & whole.
spot on, as a crosswatcher im the energy who wants to help heal this, still, my cap is not moving a bit, and has done so for over 8 years. I have tried so hard, because it keeps coming back. Control is the problem indeed. After 8 years of forced silence, it would be very nice to have a surrender. I always knew the dad had a part in this. Its an old wound. Thanks for this reading!
Im also a crosswatcher: I finally ended with aquarius capricorn. He has high trust issues, and he is the one who didnt want a commitment. He wants to work on losing weight and work. I'm not waiting for anyone anymore. I tried to heal it, but I have no patient anymore.
Omg this reading hit me in the CHEST! I know I have control issues and as long as my hormones are in check I am working on it 😅 the dad pain is absolutely making sense to me. My husband is an Angel but I do feel blocked by unreasonable upset when he’s around and I’ve been struggling with identifying the issue and trying to control situations out of fear I guess. I will rewatch this over again, the message is so important.
so spot on for me in my relationship with a Leo man, who was my ex (of 1.5 years) 5 years ago & we reconnected this summer... I was rushing the connection, he pulled back. he still reaches out sometimes but he's got me in a limbo. I'm moving on as if it's over, but going to stay open. If I meet someone new I'm not going to let him hold me back.
It was a 30 year marriage. There were vows. They didn't include lying, cheating & stealing. If my wanting those vows kept & honored equals me wanting control so be it. He made promises before God & I believed him... 😔 I'm an old woman now, trying to make the best of what's left. I still have my dignity and I will do whatever it takes to protect it.
wow! holy f#*@! This reading combined with Pluto in retrograde in Capricorn conjunct on my Cap moon, sun and north node, Uranus retrograde in Taurus conjunct my Saturn, and now Mars entering Cancer....all at once now it's obvious why i'm a hot mess and emotionally frozen. Like you said, I have no idea what to do with all the things suddenly revealing themselves as hurt I didn't know I had and was carrying for so long. Huge lesson/reminder to surrender contol and move into active rest to allow whatever needs to surface to be there.
Hello Ali, Thank you it's true. I'm hurt because of my boyfriend and I'm trying to hold him so tight. But I'm trying my best to let him go. Because I can't make him stay or I can't do anything.
That's exactly what it is. I don't wanna control but it's more or less I near clear communication. But I guess that's still me trying to control bc not everyone needs what I need. I just don't know how else to put it. But yes spot on ali. Thank you ❤
Me too. I'm 70 and type 1 diabetic. My daughter is involved with her friends and boy friend and tells me she can not help with my problems, doesn't want the responsibility. This is the same one I bailed out of jail twice.
Ladies, we believe in you and need to see you successfully moving onwards and upwards x get out there, and make it happen. May the rest of your life be exactly as you dreamed. You are your own best friend.
I never got a chance to know who my Dad was. I know this has something to do with how I handle male energy in my private life. Lesson number one learned, now to number two. Will let you know. Thanks for the mirror.❤❤
My ex and my 22 year old son come in when I listen to this. They both have their issues and I get their energies and my healing muddled some times. Tricky times
10:38 "...that sense of being upset almost holds you in kind of a controlling aspect of things, like, holds you a prisoner, a prisoner of your own control over the situation..." ouch, that hurt lol
Your the only reader on TH-cam that doesn't always see me becoming a Millionaire each month and hence your the only one I listen to. Don't really believe in this stuff but I appreciate your seemingly honest perspective on this type of thing. The rest of the readers on TH-cam are always seeing immense wealth and abundance every month, I mean I wish i was that lucky each month but at some point we gonna know it's all a sham and click bait...thanks for your take on things....
I think the only thing I hold on to us to have talk with him so I can hear an apology and and he will ask forgiveness from me so can continue with my life to lessen the pain and the baggage in my heart
No. I've discovered that doing so is giving your power away. I spent years giving my power to him and then mistakenly hoped that honest communication would give me the resolution and bring healing. Problem is, how do you get this with a person who is a liar, or someone who self sabotages or believes in their own bullshit and distorted thoughts? How do you get an apology from a person who doesn't believe they hurt you in the first place?! What can you really do if they're disturbed, if they get some perverse pleasure out of hurting you? If they deliberately push your buttons just to get your attention? You see the problem?How do you even get someone like that to acknowledge your truth, let alone THE truth? Ive had people in my life tell me that I shouldn't feel the way I do nor have any right to feel the way I do!! I'm now understanding that my healing and closure comes from not allowing people who have little regard for my mental, emotional or physical well being access to my heart, mind and body. My victory comes from recognising that is their problem. How hard is it to be mature and have a reasonable conversation? If someone avoids the truth, makes excuses, doesn't want to hear your side, can't apologise then I Don't Care! They are wasting my precious time and energy, period. If you know you tried that you had good intentions and gave them time and respect, then you are a pretty awesome person! When you're a giver, when you're a lover and value more than the material world, you will attract many, including the deluded, entitled, selfish and empty vessels. Who doesn't want a good thing? I gave my power over to a madman, who will never give me chance for closure. Doesn't mean I will never love again, I'm aware now that I must be take precautions, I need to maintain boundaries and build trust and confidence and my self esteem. You are enough, believe it! ♥️🐠
Do you think the two energies in the recent past and my current situation could be me and my shadow. My own duality trying to bring it back to center. I’m feeling like that’s the way the reading was meant for my ears. Very good interpretation. Thank you 🙂↕️.
7:11 I'm the person who upset my Capricorn. I wasn't even with her we were just getting to know each other and wanted something more with each other but a 3rd party got in the way of us ever being together. It was my fault she told me she was single and I didn't take the chance to be with her. I haven't seen her since March / April. I wish I could talk to her still and fix this
I am a Leo being bullied by Cap. Came here to understand why he is bullying me, if I will get to know why he is only bullying maybe I will stop it 😔 It's really getting too much for me to handle now
My girlfriend broke up on 27th august and went on to block me everywheree I’m been crying for almost 10 days and she hasn’t responded to me at all this has affected me a lot mentally
I am being held down by Scorpio woman I don't know what kind of power she is using against me But she can do pretty much anything she want to me Anyone can help me get rid of her please?
I think every Cap knows they have never had control. If we did, we wouldn't go through so much. It's always so challenging. For once, I'd love to hear a reading where we're happy & whole.
ON GOD
You wouldn't be looking for tarot then would you ? 😉
@@SuckmyleftoneI thought only nykers only said that😉
Every cap thought😭🥹
Wouldn’t we all ? I’m trying not to rely much on these readings . I need something new . Looking for new beginnings
the readings are usually accurate but this one is reallyyyyyy accurate its almost scary.
Capies are tried of feeling crappy!
One of the reasons you've been put into so many battles is because God knows you're tough for this.
Keep going buddy.
❤very significant reading ..a hummingbird joined me during the read .. my beloved father for sure … thank you so much Ali❤
Spot on with dad. I got quite emotional from this one. You’re amazing and just know, and your guidance is very much appreciated 🩶
When things arent working out for me, as a Capricorn, i leave
Wise self protection
I came here looking for answers and I got them and now I’m freaking out more 😢but I love it at the same time
😂 yep... Ive been learning patience dealing with this man and although there is hurt, im loving the lessons!
spot on, as a crosswatcher im the energy who wants to help heal this, still, my cap is not moving a bit, and has done so for over 8 years. I have tried so hard, because it keeps coming back. Control is the problem indeed. After 8 years of forced silence, it would be very nice to have a surrender. I always knew the dad had a part in this. Its an old wound. Thanks for this reading!
Im also a crosswatcher: I finally ended with aquarius capricorn. He has high trust issues, and he is the one who didnt want a commitment. He wants to work on losing weight and work. I'm not waiting for anyone anymore. I tried to heal it, but I have no patient anymore.
He keeps telling me that his busy. Well, guess what I'm busy now too. If he wanna play that game, I'll play it too. Moving the hell on from it.
Omg this reading hit me in the CHEST! I know I have control issues and as long as my hormones are in check I am working on it 😅 the dad pain is absolutely making sense to me. My husband is an Angel but I do feel blocked by unreasonable upset when he’s around and I’ve been struggling with identifying the issue and trying to control situations out of fear I guess. I will rewatch this over again, the message is so important.
Ali you should be sharing your wardrobe link😭 thank you 😂
Right?! I love them all.
so spot on for me in my relationship with a Leo man, who was my ex (of 1.5 years) 5 years ago & we reconnected this summer... I was rushing the connection, he pulled back. he still reaches out sometimes but he's got me in a limbo. I'm moving on as if it's over, but going to stay open. If I meet someone new I'm not going to let him hold me back.
Eerily accurate
Describes my situation PERFECTLY
i know who these energies are and what the situations are!!!! Xxxx
It was a 30 year marriage. There were vows. They didn't include lying, cheating & stealing. If my wanting those vows kept & honored equals me wanting control so be it. He made promises before God & I believed him... 😔 I'm an old woman now, trying to make the best of what's left. I still have my dignity and I will do whatever it takes to protect it.
Love this - now you're living for you! Claim your life back x
Love that you're taking your energy back and standing in your power!!!!
I completely get this. Makes so much sense.... thank you
Amazing reader. Sag watching to see where a cap feels
wow! holy f#*@! This reading combined with Pluto in retrograde in Capricorn conjunct on my Cap moon, sun and north node, Uranus retrograde in Taurus conjunct my Saturn, and now Mars entering Cancer....all at once now it's obvious why i'm a hot mess and emotionally frozen. Like you said, I have no idea what to do with all the things suddenly revealing themselves as hurt I didn't know I had and was carrying for so long. Huge lesson/reminder to surrender contol and move into active rest to allow whatever needs to surface to be there.
Hello Ali, Thank you it's true. I'm hurt because of my boyfriend and I'm trying to hold him so tight. But I'm trying my best to let him go. Because I can't make him stay or I can't do anything.
@ALIsTarot9 thank you I badly need this. Lots of love. ❤️
Your right about being upset for no reason
That's exactly what it is. I don't wanna control but it's more or less I near clear communication. But I guess that's still me trying to control bc not everyone needs what I need. I just don't know how else to put it. But yes spot on ali. Thank you ❤
I feel my control issues come from needing clear communication also as well as being understood
God Almighty Aly, this reading was so incredibly spot on! Really unbelievable....😚
Thanks ali your reading definitely resinated with me keep up the great work 👍
It's only the 3rd but I'm already withdrawing out of fear/love but surrendering also.
Ali advice is always good ❤
You just described twinflame in short :)
it resonated to me so much. just thanks.
Thank you Ali for your reading, I have just lost my 15 1/2 year old Soul Cat ... She has been my constant companion and best friend...The pain
I am very upset. Found out I am totally on my own, no friends/family I can depend on. And I'm an older woman not well.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Same but realised strong on me own
Same, I'm just starting that journey at 62. I'm able, I think.
Me too. I'm 70 and type 1 diabetic. My daughter is involved with her friends and boy friend and tells me she can not help with my problems, doesn't want the responsibility. This is the same one I bailed out of jail twice.
Ladies, we believe in you and need to see you successfully moving onwards and upwards x get out there, and make it happen. May the rest of your life be exactly as you dreamed. You are your own best friend.
@@tyreerobertson8733I believe in you
I never got a chance to know who my Dad was. I know this has something to do with how I handle male energy in my private life. Lesson number one learned, now to number two. Will let you know. Thanks for the mirror.❤❤
Wow, spot on - currently feeling numb. Very scary.😅
Am dealing with situation ok.Just waiting to see what's coming up,and hoping it works out!Like your style of clothes💕
You are too good dude
My ex and my 22 year old son come in when I listen to this. They both have their issues and I get their energies and my healing muddled some times. Tricky times
10:38 "...that sense of being upset almost holds you in kind of a controlling aspect of things, like, holds you a prisoner, a prisoner of your own control over the situation..."
ouch, that hurt lol
Bro, if accurate was a ting, it would definitely be this reading, so on point for this cappy
Thank you so very much
Genius! On point.
Your the only reader on TH-cam that doesn't always see me becoming a Millionaire each month and hence your the only one I listen to. Don't really believe in this stuff but I appreciate your seemingly honest perspective on this type of thing. The rest of the readers on TH-cam are always seeing immense wealth and abundance every month, I mean I wish i was that lucky each month but at some point we gonna know it's all a sham and click bait...thanks for your take on things....
You are amazing.❤
No expectations, just let them
You are so good, it's amazing! Thank you xx
Thank you, Awesome reading, ❤
H I+ A L I! YOU L O O K G R E A T !! THANKS 4. the GR EAT RE AD again
Spot on girl x
I think the only thing I hold on to us to have talk with him so I can hear an apology and and he will ask forgiveness from me so can continue with my life to lessen the pain and the baggage in my heart
No. I've discovered that doing so is giving your power away.
I spent years giving my power to him and then mistakenly hoped that honest communication would give me the resolution and bring healing.
Problem is,
how do you get this with a person who is a liar, or someone who self sabotages or believes in their own bullshit and distorted thoughts?
How do you get an apology from a person who doesn't believe they hurt you in the first place?!
What can you really do if they're disturbed,
if they get some perverse pleasure out of hurting you?
If they deliberately push your buttons just to get your attention?
You see the problem?How do you even get someone like that to acknowledge your truth, let alone THE truth?
Ive had people in my life tell me that I shouldn't feel the way I do nor have any right to feel the way I do!!
I'm now understanding that my healing and closure comes from not allowing people who have little regard for my mental, emotional or physical well being access to my heart, mind and body.
My victory comes from recognising that is their problem. How hard is it to be mature and have a reasonable conversation?
If someone avoids the truth, makes excuses, doesn't want to hear your side, can't apologise then
I Don't Care!
They are wasting my precious time and energy, period.
If you know you tried that you had good intentions and gave them time and respect,
then you are a pretty awesome person!
When you're a giver, when you're a lover and value more than the material world,
you will attract many, including the deluded, entitled, selfish and empty vessels.
Who doesn't want a good thing?
I gave my power over to a madman,
who will never give me chance for closure.
Doesn't mean I will never love again,
I'm aware now that I must be take precautions,
I need to maintain boundaries and build trust and confidence and my self esteem.
You are enough, believe it!
♥️🐠
Thank you Ali! 🙏🍀💞❤️🤗
@ALIsTarot9 Thank you 😍🙏💞
Do you think the two energies in the recent past and my current situation could be me and my shadow. My own duality trying to bring it back to center. I’m feeling like that’s the way the reading was meant for my ears. Very good interpretation. Thank you 🙂↕️.
Very good reading
Thank you for the information
8:02 it's true
Thank you 🙏🏻
Force things…..it’s been almost a year in November 😢 I don’t know what to do.
❤❤thank you for ur energy ❤❤
Sagg was good, but my better half is Capricorn, and it's true for him as well too good
Thanks!
❤️❤️❤️ Thank You ❤️❤️❤️
7:11 I'm the person who upset my Capricorn. I wasn't even with her we were just getting to know each other and wanted something more with each other but a 3rd party got in the way of us ever being together. It was my fault she told me she was single and I didn't take the chance to be with her. I haven't seen her since March / April. I wish I could talk to her still and fix this
Loved you tee :)
Exactly right.
I have no idea what this could be for me. I'm so confused.
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍love u ALI
Sagittarius Pisces here: Its too late if his not done. I'm freaking done. Leave me a lone.
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I am a Leo being bullied by Cap. Came here to understand why he is bullying me, if I will get to know why he is only bullying maybe I will stop it 😔 It's really getting too much for me to handle now
LOL yes
My girlfriend broke up on 27th august and went on to block me everywheree I’m been crying for almost 10 days and she hasn’t responded to me at all this has affected me a lot mentally
Where is the dog that's why I watch
🦋🦋🦋
How many Cappys just got broken up with during retrograde?
Had a false start, so there's that.
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I am being held down by Scorpio woman I don't know what kind of power she is using against me
But she can do pretty much anything she want to me
Anyone can help me get rid of her please?
I'm stuck
We are Twin flames but he is married :(
Omg🥹 dad and partner