Spirit, that man is a walking red flag. The more you tell us about him the worse he sounds! It’s a really bad sign he only wants to see you at night. You deserve the world and someone who is prepared to give you that, please don’t settle for this bare minimum. Love you mama ❤️
My dearest Spirit, you deserve so much more from any man in your life. As a 50+ woman I do not allow anyone to rob me of my precious time. When I met my current husband he courted me and dated me day and night. He proposed after 6 months and we married in 7. We will be celebrating our 2nd anniversary in Feb 2024 and he still dates me several days a week. You are not asking for too much. You deserve happiness. Do not settle beautiful lady!
I would feel frustrated and upset too if I were you. I would feel like all he wanted was sex or maybe he was embarrassed to be outside with me, honestly. Your feelings are definitely valid! You're not asking for too much.
Girl it sounds like he has other priorities (maybe he’s in another relationship). I know that happened to me. The guy I was seeing a long time ago used work as an excuse for everything and he couldn’t commit his time. Come to find out he was married. Spirit you deserve someone who is going to give you the basics. Spending quality planned time with you.
Mama, that man is a walking red flag. The more I hear, the more I wanna beg you to RUN. He is only wasting your time. Any man that only wants to see you at night, is a man with a secret. My momma always told me “the only thing open at night is the ER and a married man’s bed”. Run ma’am. Don’t waste any more of your valuable time on someone who doesn’t deserve you. KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!!
I’ve been thinking since you first told us about this man that he is married or in another committed relationship. Please do not ignore your gut, he’s been shady from day 1!!!
There could be an explanation to his behavior because he is an introvert. But putting all the pieces together, it *sounds* like he's keeping something from you. Popping up to see you only after he's been out, only wanting to hang at night :(
Hey lady, Pray about it and ask God what to do. I was going through the same thing as you. Some men are undeveloped in the area of dating and marriage. Listen to the red flags and trust your spirit, Spirit.
Yea he not in it for the right reasons.. kind of selfish. I wouldn’t waste more time with him.. a day time date isn’t a lot to ask and he can’t give that!? SMH next!
Aww Spirit listen to your intuition. You deserve a loving and pure soul like yourself. You’re not asking for too much maybe you’re asking the wrong person. We Love ya!! May God bless you with your soulmate ❤
Spirit you deserve the kind of love you are looking for. You don’t need to settle for less than you deserve or less than you desire. If you want romance, that person exists. As important as it is to compromise in a relationship, there’s a difference between compromising & settling. Listen to your heart.
Thank you for this. My Brother and I used to eat this when we were children. Brings back many memories. I will be getting a box. Yum yum cannot wait. By the way, you look beautiful. You're glowing 🙂
Mama spirit you deserve the very best! You deserve romance, love, and companionship. You are so sweet. You deserve to be treated like the queen that you are!
Ughhh I hate to see you so disappointed. It’s like you want to make it work, you found someone you’re attracted to and vibe with but still he’s falling short of your needs. I know a lot are saying he’s a red flag, we don’t know him and he might be a good guy in general but it doesn’t seem like he’s making you happy. The sadness in your eyes from being let down by yet another person is enough for me to say walk away. I hate giving advice towards a relationship I’m not in. But If my sister/friend was telling me this with that look on her face I would not hold back in telling her that she deserves happiness, that she deserves the same effort that she’s putting in, that she deserves someone who understands her needs and wants and tries to meet those expectations. Just ask yourself why is he worth your time? What is he bringing to the table that makes him desirable and gives him access to you and your life and if the basics, like going on date, aren’t being met, especially so early in the relationship, then it’s time to let it go. You deserve love in its fullest form.
I really want so badly to like him, because of how happy you've been over the past year. However, the simple request your asking that he blatantly denies is a complete HELL NO!!!
You deserve the utmost ATTENTION, LOVE & APPRECIATION! Praying God brings you a true unconditional loving man that will go above and beyond to make you happy ! 🙏💝
Hey spirit, everything you've eaten this week you have me craving now 😂. You're the only ASMR channel I watch to calm my anxiety and put me to sleep. About the man you're dating- some people are just better left as friends or accioiate(s). I tell you one thing, you seem to have more patience than I thought because I would have been ended things 😂🤷♀️.
Speaking of going fishing, there are plenty of fish in the sea. The one you’ve currently got in your bucket is too small and needs to be thrown back. Only you can decide your worth. But from the outside he ain’t it. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@spirit it sounds like you and your man are not aligned on what a relationship means and he is not willing to compromise. Bring introverted is not an excuse. I'm a hardcore introvert but I love going out with my husband and when I need a break from being out he stays in. Introverted means you get exhausted from social interactions but it does not mean you don't like doing things. My husband and I love doing things together. It's about balance and each of us being able to meet our needs. It also sounds like he is trying to "hang out" at one of your places because maybe he wants to make a move. If so that's not fair because as you've stated you want him to date you and he is not willing to do it. It sounds like you both have to sit down and figure out whether you're compatible or not and you can come to an agreement.
Im an ambivert, too!! Good for you, Sistah Spirit, for not giving in and settling for what you don't want. He could at least take you to run errands with him for starts.
Hey Spirit girl your guy friend is not the one in my opinion my sister had a guy friend that didn't like to do anything and my sister likes to do things like getting out doing things like you but the guy only like to be home sitting on the couch well that didn't last long she got rid of him and is waiting on her man from God trust me pray about God will send you the right man for you in the meantime while you wait go out in the daytime and enjoy yourself dating yourself many blessings to you ❤
Aww spirit i think you have to compare pros with cons. And wait for situations to dissolve before posting it, cause it could discourage him if he sees it
Sometimes it’s a bit complicated when it comes to these type of situations!!!! My best advice is to pray about it to God. He’ll tell you the truth and speak to you with honesty. He truly knows what’s best for you!!! 🤍🤍🙌🏼🙌🏼
Spirit, that man is a walking red flag. The more you tell us about him the worse he sounds! It’s a really bad sign he only wants to see you at night. You deserve the world and someone who is prepared to give you that, please don’t settle for this bare minimum. Love you mama ❤️
My dearest Spirit, you deserve so much more from any man in your life. As a 50+ woman I do not allow anyone to rob me of my precious time. When I met my current husband he courted me and dated me day and night. He proposed after 6 months and we married in 7. We will be celebrating our 2nd anniversary in Feb 2024 and he still dates me several days a week. You are not asking for too much. You deserve happiness. Do not settle beautiful lady!
There is something really wrong about this man. You're feeling it to, don't ignore the red flags. You deserve so much more.
I would feel frustrated and upset too if I were you. I would feel like all he wanted was sex or maybe he was embarrassed to be outside with me, honestly. Your feelings are definitely valid! You're not asking for too much.
Girl it sounds like he has other priorities (maybe he’s in another relationship). I know that happened to me. The guy I was seeing a long time ago used work as an excuse for everything and he couldn’t commit his time. Come to find out he was married. Spirit you deserve someone who is going to give you the basics. Spending quality planned time with you.
Mama, that man is a walking red flag. The more I hear, the more I wanna beg you to RUN. He is only wasting your time. Any man that only wants to see you at night, is a man with a secret.
My momma always told me “the only thing open at night is the ER and a married man’s bed”. Run ma’am. Don’t waste any more of your valuable time on someone who doesn’t deserve you.
KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!!
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I’ve been thinking since you first told us about this man that he is married or in another committed relationship. Please do not ignore your gut, he’s been shady from day 1!!!
There could be an explanation to his behavior because he is an introvert. But putting all the pieces together, it *sounds* like he's keeping something from you. Popping up to see you only after he's been out, only wanting to hang at night :(
Hey lady,
Pray about it and ask God what to do. I was going through the same thing as you. Some men are undeveloped in the area of dating and marriage. Listen to the red flags and trust your spirit, Spirit.
Does he have another relationship? It sounds like he doesn’t wanna he seen in public together
I haven't had cream of wheat in so long. I'm going to get some and have mine with a few pieces of toast this weekend.
Yea he not in it for the right reasons.. kind of selfish. I wouldn’t waste more time with him.. a day time date isn’t a lot to ask and he can’t give that!? SMH next!
Aww Spirit listen to your intuition. You deserve a loving and pure soul like yourself. You’re not asking for too much maybe you’re asking the wrong person. We Love ya!! May God bless you with your soulmate ❤
Respectfully... you deserve so much better, Spirit. So, so much better.
Spirit you deserve the kind of love you are looking for. You don’t need to settle for less than you deserve or less than you desire. If you want romance, that person exists. As important as it is to compromise in a relationship, there’s a difference between compromising & settling. Listen to your heart.
Thank you for this. My Brother and I used to eat this when we were children. Brings back many memories. I will be getting a box. Yum yum cannot wait. By the way, you look beautiful. You're glowing 🙂
Mama spirit you deserve the very best! You deserve romance, love, and companionship. You are so sweet. You deserve to be treated like the queen that you are!
Girl I feel you on this man not wanting to do anything. Trust your heart and what you want out of a partner ❤️
Ughhh I hate to see you so disappointed. It’s like you want to make it work, you found someone you’re attracted to and vibe with but still he’s falling short of your needs. I know a lot are saying he’s a red flag, we don’t know him and he might be a good guy in general but it doesn’t seem like he’s making you happy. The sadness in your eyes from being let down by yet another person is enough for me to say walk away. I hate giving advice towards a relationship I’m not in. But If my sister/friend was telling me this with that look on her face I would not hold back in telling her that she deserves happiness, that she deserves the same effort that she’s putting in, that she deserves someone who understands her needs and wants and tries to meet those expectations. Just ask yourself why is he worth your time? What is he bringing to the table that makes him desirable and gives him access to you and your life and if the basics, like going on date, aren’t being met, especially so early in the relationship, then it’s time to let it go. You deserve love in its fullest form.
*One of the most satisfying asmr video!*
I really want so badly to like him, because of how happy you've been over the past year. However, the simple request your asking that he blatantly denies is a complete HELL NO!!!
I will TP this man’s house we love spirit
Needed to hear this Spirit❤❤I was shot in my back snd shoulder three weeks ago and healing not easy but I'm pushing through 💪💪💪❤
Love you!! Keep making content ❤️
I would of changed it if we ain’t dating we ain’t playing then 😂 👋 lol that’s why I waited till later on to date cus boys be doing too much.
he seems like he wants to just play. Dont let him hurt u spirit.
Thank you for the affirmations!!❤
You deserve the utmost ATTENTION, LOVE & APPRECIATION! Praying God brings you a true unconditional loving man that will go above and beyond to make you happy ! 🙏💝
I loveeee cream of wheat but I like mine more runny 😊
Hey spirit, everything you've eaten this week you have me craving now 😂. You're the only ASMR channel I watch to calm my anxiety and put me to sleep. About the man you're dating- some people are just better left as friends or accioiate(s). I tell you one thing, you seem to have more patience than I thought because I would have been ended things 😂🤷♀️.
Change your man mama!! He does not deserve your time
Fall season is definitely soup season! 🍲 😋
Speaking of going fishing, there are plenty of fish in the sea. The one you’ve currently got in your bucket is too small and needs to be thrown back. Only you can decide your worth. But from the outside he ain’t it. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@spirit it sounds like you and your man are not aligned on what a relationship means and he is not willing to compromise. Bring introverted is not an excuse. I'm a hardcore introvert but I love going out with my husband and when I need a break from being out he stays in. Introverted means you get exhausted from social interactions but it does not mean you don't like doing things. My husband and I love doing things together. It's about balance and each of us being able to meet our needs. It also sounds like he is trying to "hang out" at one of your places because maybe he wants to make a move. If so that's not fair because as you've stated you want him to date you and he is not willing to do it. It sounds like you both have to sit down and figure out whether you're compatible or not and you can come to an agreement.
Im an ambivert, too!!
Good for you, Sistah Spirit, for not giving in and settling for what you don't want. He could at least take you to run errands with him for starts.
Love you spirit. that cream of wheat looks good ❤. it sounds like he is a red flag because he is playing games!!
I’ve never had cream of wheat 😮 but I love oatmeal 🥣 😊.
this ain’t no man. you always talking about all these weird things he is doing and i just think you should plain break up lol
Girlll I sent you a message about this!! Have a good day! 💖
Move on spirit he is not the one
the more I'm into this video the more red flag this man's sounding. Your wants being dismissed and ignored and forgotten is NOT it
Hey Spirit girl your guy friend is not the one in my opinion my sister had a guy friend that didn't like to do anything and my sister likes to do things like getting out doing things like you but the guy only like to be home sitting on the couch well that didn't last long she got rid of him and is waiting on her man from God trust me pray about God will send you the right man for you in the meantime while you wait go out in the daytime and enjoy yourself dating yourself many blessings to you ❤
He tryna crack
Aww spirit i think you have to compare pros with cons. And wait for situations to dissolve before posting it, cause it could discourage him if he sees it
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Is this the same man you were dating a while back?
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So basically you’re eating porridge..
Sometimes it’s a bit complicated when it comes to these type of situations!!!! My best advice is to pray about it to God. He’ll tell you the truth and speak to you with honesty. He truly knows what’s best for you!!! 🤍🤍🙌🏼🙌🏼